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  • @nakshgoyal6589
    @nakshgoyal6589 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    He is right . My childhood was traumatic .I was suppressed, dominated, beated up, controlled and dominated by my parents, even when I was good in studies .Due to this , I am an introvert and socially awkward person now . Thanks to God , Now I will be moving out of my house finally when I am 23

    • @utsabbhanja0193
      @utsabbhanja0193 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      🥺🥺virtual hug bhai🤗
      Hum aapke saath hain.

    • @exoticindiaa
      @exoticindiaa ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You were a victim of narc abuse

    • @notevencalm
      @notevencalm ปีที่แล้ว +23

      How were your school days? For me they were the worst

    • @kbiswas3791
      @kbiswas3791 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same herr

    • @kbiswas3791
      @kbiswas3791 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Move out right now. Trust me it's better to Live poor than depend on such parents

  • @RamSingh-hd6bg
    @RamSingh-hd6bg ปีที่แล้ว +326

    There will be time in future when many the great writers of India, would write Shwetabh bhai's words in their book writing as quoted by Shwetabh bhai. Just like Nietzsche, until his lifetime he hardly got any recognision. This channel deserves subscribes in crores. The contents are always very powerful.

    • @vedzwrl9054
      @vedzwrl9054 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Only quality people finds this content useful
      And quality is always less than quantity

    • @sourajyotidas7676
      @sourajyotidas7676 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@vedzwrl9054only real intelligent people comes here . There are crores of views in other time wasting stuffs but the people who invest their time in valuable contents are future successful .

    • @MohitPJoshi
      @MohitPJoshi ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Until his lifetime he hardly got any recognition" bhai shwetabh ko jeete ji maar diya tumne

    • @pogboy537
      @pogboy537 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I mean what he has said is already written and known. In scientific literature and spiritual literature as well.

    • @thermodynamics8013
      @thermodynamics8013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro I recommend you to listen to j Krishnamurthy. After that you will find these youtubers are like kiddos

  • @hrishikeshjadhav5143
    @hrishikeshjadhav5143 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Maturity is realising that sharing your sad story is not gonna reduce the pain but instead it gets worse because we become so cynic in our adulthood as time progresses we that see everyone has a evil side and no-one want's our life to get better...

    • @Pelladini
      @Pelladini ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kafir sochte honge aisa Musalman nahi

    • @dogeboi7279
      @dogeboi7279 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      People bring that up to make fun of you, it's better to not trust anyone

  • @arnavsrivastava4018
    @arnavsrivastava4018 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    It seems to be true that all the children who had happy and functional families grew up to be care free and low in neuroticism aka the extroverts. Whereas people like myself who experienced abusive parenting/ unstable childhood became fearful and high in neuroticism, like I personally believe I am not a introvert by nature but experiences made me to be cautious of people and not open up too much to them.

    • @Kaden-m14
      @Kaden-m14 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same mere sath bhi Aisa hi hota hai..take care buddy

    • @ali3lia
      @ali3lia ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

    • @rvd5082
      @rvd5082 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here bro

    • @mrentertainment4923
      @mrentertainment4923 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly. We developed social anxiety or lack of confidence due to it . We are deep down not introverts.

  • @small_dropin_the_big_ocean995
    @small_dropin_the_big_ocean995 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    True. 100%. If you're hurt, you need a genuine, loyal, loving person who can be with you and make you feel lovable and safe.
    And if you're feeling you don't need anyone or you're undeserving of love, that's a lie. That's a coping mechanism you adapted from childhood because that is how you survived those harsh days.
    It's really okay to cry and to unlearn those years of hardships and negative behaviour pattern, you requires a professional guidance aka psychotherapy.

  • @princevegeta3724
    @princevegeta3724 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Can relate never felt loved in my childhood, mom and dad was always abusive. Now i have pretty bad social anxiety and i always stay conscious about my myself like if someone is making fun of my looks or if judging me

    • @dad-ms8mz
      @dad-ms8mz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mee too bro. But I thought that it is what I suppose to feel. But may be It's because of childhood things

    • @realprincevegeta
      @realprincevegeta ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro loved your name the all mighty Prince of of the ultimate warrior race vegetaaaaa 🛐🛐🛐🛐

    • @yashtapase3821
      @yashtapase3821 ปีที่แล้ว

      Us 🙋‍♂️

    • @revil9406
      @revil9406 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 😢

    • @yashkesharwani1116
      @yashkesharwani1116 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✋😓

  • @sandeepsahu8743
    @sandeepsahu8743 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I was humiliated by my classmates since I was in 6th class because of my colour. I am dark brown skinned. I remember, when I came home I cried a lot almost everyday. I didn't get confidence just to walk with my head up. Now I know why we have to give respect to everyone whoever they are. If not, maybe your children may face these horrors someday. Please don't do any shit whenever you are high on anything and respect everyone no matter how they looks and have some empathy.

    • @roary363
      @roary363 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Even I'm dark skinned bro. I have faced this as well, even I was humiliated due to my skin color when I was a kid.
      But I moved on eventually because I don't want to end up like a victim forever, plus those incidents made me more empathetic.

    • @Pelladini
      @Pelladini ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is purely racism

    • @ybnrunnerxxx3115
      @ybnrunnerxxx3115 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I cried because I'm white 😅 accept yourself g

  • @rudeusgreyrat32
    @rudeusgreyrat32 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I cant believe how much i relate to every sentence you just said. In Hindsight it is seems so unusual for me to think back to my 11-15 year old self (now 19) crying with my head in the pillow screaming in the darkness of the night. Then i started developing this idea that no one will help me. I turned rebellious. i dont need anyone. Now i realise i actually need someone. I dont have a single friend, i DO look at certain people and think wow we have similar interests. But the way i am prevents me from ever initiating any conversation with anyone.

    • @dhruv3109
      @dhruv3109 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've gone through the same situations and i can tell it doesnt feel so good So give me your insta id bro you can talk and open up to me anytime I can listen❤️

    • @anonymousguy5774
      @anonymousguy5774 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@dhruv3109more power to u guys

    • @IamXenorex
      @IamXenorex ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I have also suffered bullying in my life I was a shy and simple guy but those bastard guys yes I am revealing their name *Vishal Verma* and *Nikhil* used to beat me, tortured me and made fun of me. Later I found out they are getting their own Karma and becoming obsolete. Even my elder cousin sister insulted me that my father is a beggar. Due to all these things I suffered from *Schizophrenia* for 6 years and extreme anger is the results of these things but still passed my CBSE Boards with *8.4 CGPA* Now, I am taking medicines. Even when I complained my class teacher about them they told me to become bold. But how can you become bold because if you fight with hand you can't defeat them as they wore some metallic object to punch others which was made of iron I don't know what it's called but it's something like *fibre* Even they were so disgusting that they even touched girl's upper and lower private parts in class. Even the both guys did dirty actions like banging on head to head straight on school uniform like a gay. It totally ruined my life! But now I am recovering I am practicing No-Fap and my current streak is 776+ yes sometimes anger comes I throw up things like bottles in my home firstly it was more dangerous as I broke a lot of things in my home but now I controlled a lot!

  • @harshit_ai
    @harshit_ai ปีที่แล้ว +26

    that "Koi nhi chaiye muje" I relate to that very strongly, I want to overcome this. I would appreciate if someone who overcame this can share their percepective to me, It'll help me alot

    • @dhruvameta4518
      @dhruvameta4518 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Start practicing self love, Buy things for yourself... If you don't have money find a way to earn money. Follow your interests in terms of making money. When you will start loving yourself you will attract good people.
      Pro tips:
      1. Set strong boundaries.
      2. Start journal writing.
      3. Master communication skills.
      ( You don't have to be perfect in everything. Just start )

    • @harshit_ai
      @harshit_ai ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dhruvameta4518 thank you for this, Can you please elaborate more on that journal writing point, I do attract people but I kinda feel at the back of my mind that they are just talking to me for their own selfish intent and that sucks

    • @himanchodeori7853
      @himanchodeori7853 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@harshit_ai I feel that way too, have you found a way to fix that?

  • @swatisaini6447
    @swatisaini6447 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Most people have fear of being alone and I have fear of getting stuck with someone who I don't want

    • @IamXenorex
      @IamXenorex ปีที่แล้ว

      I have also suffered bullying in my life I was a shy and simple guy but those bastard guys yes I am revealing their name *Vishal Verma* and *Nikhil* used to beat me, tortured me and made fun of me. Later I found out they are getting their own Karma and becoming obsolete. Even my elder cousin sister insulted me that my father is a beggar. Due to all these things I suffered from *Schizophrenia* for 6 years and extreme anger is the results of these things but still passed my CBSE Boards with *8.4 CGPA* Now, I am taking medicines. Even when I complained my class teacher about them they told me to become bold. But how can you become bold because if you fight with hand you can't defeat them as they wore some metallic object to punch others which was made of iron I don't know what it's called but it's something like *fibre* Even they were so disgusting that they even touched girl's upper and lower private parts in class. Even the both guys did dirty actions like banging on head to head straight on school uniform like a gay. It totally ruined my life! But now I am recovering I am practicing No-Fap and my current streak is 776+ yes sometimes anger comes I throw up things like bottles in my home firstly it was more dangerous as I broke a lot of things in my home but now I controlled a lot!

    • @saranshpandey5890
      @saranshpandey5890 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kill them bss 2-3 savadhan India ke episode dekh Lena pehle

    • @swatisaini6447
      @swatisaini6447 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@saranshpandey5890 savdaan india is boring, couldn't watch more than one episode 😂

    • @saranshpandey5890
      @saranshpandey5890 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@swatisaini6447 don't take them seriously

    • @yk-mp7bk
      @yk-mp7bk ปีที่แล้ว

      Duniya mein sale ase bhi log hote hain🤣🤣🤣🤣. Bahi, Bagwaan ne zubaan di hai na, toh "NO" bol dena agar nahi accha lga koi. Keh dena, Gand maroo bhosdi ke. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rupal2907
    @rupal2907 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Yes we have to do our shadow work to heal ourself it took me 2-3 years to heal myself and being very honest here we will go through that childhood pain again when we are in this process and its a constant work having holistic approach like spirituality, meditation, nature, psychology will help.
    But at the end you'll heal and come out more powerful then ever.
    Note: not everyone is in the capacity to heal themseleves they should go for a therapy.

    • @fariha9083
      @fariha9083 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did you heal yourself?

    • @livelylipun4603
      @livelylipun4603 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      From Where did you start?

    • @abictor3312
      @abictor3312 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      guys the first step is stop caring, atleast thats what i think and gone through

    • @rupal2907
      @rupal2907 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      By questioning your emotions which creates pain in your body
      Well its a messy way of healing i can't guide u step by step but u can always start with noticing your bad behavior towards others and questioning it why i do like this what could be the possible reasons
      Questioning is the main key
      And learn about childhood trauma
      And eventually you'll start healing your every toxic trait
      Hope this helps

    • @IamXenorex
      @IamXenorex ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rupal2907 I have also suffered bullying in my life I was a shy and simple guy but those bastard guys yes I am revealing their name *Vishal Verma* and *Nikhil* used to beat me, tortured me and made fun of me. Later I found out they are getting their own Karma and becoming obsolete. Even my elder cousin sister insulted me that my father is a beggar. Due to all these things I suffered from *Schizophrenia* for 6 years and extreme anger is the results of these things but still passed my CBSE Boards with *8.4 CGPA* Now, I am taking medicines. Even when I complained my class teacher about them they told me to become bold. But how can you become bold because if you fight with hand you can't defeat them as they wore some metallic object to punch others which was made of iron I don't know what it's called but it's something like *fibre* Even they were so disgusting that they even touched girl's upper and lower private parts in class. Even the both guys did dirty actions like banging on head to head straight on school uniform like a gay. It totally ruined my life! But now I am recovering I am practicing No-Fap and my current streak is 776+ yes sometimes anger comes I throw up things like bottles in my home firstly it was more dangerous as I broke a lot of things in my home but now I controlled a lot!

  • @gaminguceyt
    @gaminguceyt ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Greatly Said Childhood Creates Personality Of A Person ❣️

    • @IamXenorex
      @IamXenorex ปีที่แล้ว

      I have also suffered bullying in my life I was a shy and simple guy but those bastard guys yes I am revealing their name *Vishal Verma* and *Nikhil* used to beat me, tortured me and made fun of me. Later I found out they are getting their own Karma and becoming obsolete. Even my elder cousin sister insulted me that my father is a beggar. Due to all these things I suffered from *Schizophrenia* for 6 years and extreme anger is the results of these things but still passed my CBSE Boards with *8.4 CGPA* Now, I am taking medicines. Even when I complained my class teacher about them they told me to become bold. But how can you become bold because if you fight with hand you can't defeat them as they wore some metallic object to punch others which was made of iron I don't know what it's called but it's something like *fibre* Even they were so disgusting that they even touched girl's upper and lower private parts in class. Even the both guys did dirty actions like banging on head to head straight on school uniform like a gay. It totally ruined my life! But now I am recovering I am practicing No-Fap and my current streak is 776+ yes sometimes anger comes I throw up things like bottles in my home firstly it was more dangerous as I broke a lot of things in my home but now I controlled a lot!

  • @aayushi73_
    @aayushi73_ ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I am psychology student and trust me everything u said was on point and so informative . Like usually people pay to know about all these points.

    • @smritisrivastava
      @smritisrivastava ปีที่แล้ว +10

      All this is available on the internet for free. Just need to have enough awareness to look at the right places.

    • @gulmoharsontakke3621
      @gulmoharsontakke3621 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@smritisrivastava can you recommend some channels

    • @smritisrivastava
      @smritisrivastava ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gulmoharsontakke3621 These are a few of the top of my head:
      youtube.com/@DrTraceyMarks
      youtube.com/@theschooloflifetv
      th-cam.com/play/PL6A08EB4EEFF3E91F.html
      th-cam.com/play/PL848F2368C90DDC3D.html

    • @gulmoharsontakke3621
      @gulmoharsontakke3621 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@smritisrivastava thanks

    • @sourajyotidas7676
      @sourajyotidas7676 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@smritisrivastava everything needs hard work

  • @carbonic9115
    @carbonic9115 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Shwetabh, i am really grateful for everything you have said on this platform , it has helped me so much i can't express it in words , thank you from the bottom of my heart

  • @Mroutraged
    @Mroutraged ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Exactly, He( Shwetabhbhai ) has faced all those problems that we people are facing right now.. But because he was the only one in his family, who was supposed to run his family.. He had no options to give up..
    I guess that is the biggest reason... He decided to take him out of his situation by himself... He worked really hard.. Might have taken years to come out of those traumatic experience that he had in his childhood... But yeah now he is out and he has a beautiful family 🖤

    • @Mroutraged
      @Mroutraged ปีที่แล้ว

      @myth monomyth shame on you..

    • @iniesta2529
      @iniesta2529 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Mroutraged i guess he is genuinely asking otherwise he is chutya

    • @yogeshparbat2293
      @yogeshparbat2293 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@myth monomyth she is doing better I think. Saw his reply couple of weeks ago

  • @abcdeeeeff
    @abcdeeeeff ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Disfunctional family means kismut khurab + zindagi jhund. 100% true . You don't have to research hard on this. Who ever is going through loneliness has a family of fuddu people or else father is a bastard. And what is even more worse is that you also slowly become a fuddu in the walk of life because of lack of mental and physical growth

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai me bhi dysfunctional family se gujar rha hu but your comment made me chuckle😅.

    • @Pelladini
      @Pelladini ปีที่แล้ว

      This is beyond terrible and sooner or later, would result in depression

  • @bepositive6811
    @bepositive6811 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He is the only one person who is genuine and intellectual in TH-cam i think he know everything about our psychology and what's going on human mind .

  • @trueword4971
    @trueword4971 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really enjoy myself being alone. Because it gives me very good logical choices.

  • @AashayAgrawal
    @AashayAgrawal ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Damn, excited for your course now.
    I hope it will be mindblowing and one of its kind on youtube.

  • @hrithikyaduvanshi7078
    @hrithikyaduvanshi7078 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Shwetabh gangwar is a kattar rationalist !

    • @ngrooo
      @ngrooo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂🔥👌👌🔥

    • @Trueneutron
      @Trueneutron 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      indeed he is

  • @awesome_edits
    @awesome_edits ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bro if any one feeling alone and feeling like start living alone
    1st thing to do is share your pomblem with your mother or any one in your home which will make your thoughts to be clear
    2nd thing is to be friends with many people you can it will be sometime heart breaking coz you can get rejected but you have to a one friend or couple of friends who got filtered from your vibe
    3rd thing is try to ask them about there day if they are human they will shear it with you
    4th thing is try to observe how they show case there problem by that you have to tell them your day in tone they tell there day
    5th keep calling and texting those friend to be connected
    Example how to conversation with your friend ( add your word also to get best version )
    You-'Are bro kesa hya kasa raha aaj ka din'
    Your friend (will say like)- mast tha bro par aj bhot Kam hya ( he will shear you a problem then that's great but he say bhot mastha bro then he will ask you about your then it's your turn to shear your day then after some practice shear about your problem )that's it 👍

  • @gr8sahil19
    @gr8sahil19 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Last 3 minutes were gold, I can relate so much with it "Koi nhi chahiye"

  • @monurajput5608
    @monurajput5608 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    7:36😢😢 goosebumps ❤ about the neglection issues in childhood.

  • @budhrajarahul3
    @budhrajarahul3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What I have understood is that you need two things to be happy.. Money & connection with world.. Sure you might be alone but first thing is to accept that we all need someone and dont try to become sigmal male by saying I am happy alone.. So keep looking out for people/relationship. But simultaneously have your own hobbies like traveling, going to places , going out in nature so that you feel connected.. Don't fall in wrong relationship either

    • @yk-mp7bk
      @yk-mp7bk ปีที่แล้ว

      Ganta! 😂😂

  • @harshsharma8400
    @harshsharma8400 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    9:36 ye khushali vaale log mostly financially stable hote hai toh woh most of daily life problem se free hote hai toh fir woh apni family ke saath time spend karte hai also aaj ki date main rishte bhi paise ke dum par bante hai
    Pls comment is this right?

    • @FireandIce-eh7mx
      @FireandIce-eh7mx 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yeh but har financially stable family bhi achi nhi hoti lekin jo hoti he v financially stable hoti hi he. vrna hamare yaha toh kiska kitna hissa he ye hi chalta rehta he

    • @gamerhead08
      @gamerhead08 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@FireandIce-eh7mxi think vo problem tub atta hai jub koi apne finances ko theek tarike se manage na kare.

  • @piyushkaushik4154
    @piyushkaushik4154 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bro continue the psychology series u started and cover more information and insight about therapy and other such tools in your videos. This could prepare us more about the know-how of these things. We'll be more equipped with knowledge and understanding of what therapy is about , frankly what does one actually talk about in a therapy , how to talk etc.

  • @sirthomson8110
    @sirthomson8110 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    was i the only one who started crying half way through

  • @aryan5072
    @aryan5072 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    soucha tha 2022 me acche se padhunga or khud ki galat adat change kardunga orr kuch naayi cheez sikhunga par kuch nhi kar paya hamesha alas me rhata tha bich me thoda depressed bhi rhata tha jiski vajah se 1-2 baar kuch galat karne ka bhi soucha par sambhal leeya kuch videos dekh krr ab thoda sahi huu orr me kuch nhi padh pata me apni crush me hi dubaa rhata tha orr porn addict toh me hu hi or kuch krne ka maan nhi krta, mujhe toh koi motivation video dekh krr bhi kuch frk nhi padhta

    • @Deepakbanerjee
      @Deepakbanerjee ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dosto se milo bhai. Bahr jao. Activity kro. Old age home aur orphanages me ghum aao. Dance wagera kuch seekhlo

    • @macbook7697
      @macbook7697 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same , u exactly described my life word to word , even the crush part

    • @arnavpandey5386
      @arnavpandey5386 ปีที่แล้ว

      us

    • @aryan5072
      @aryan5072 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@macbook7697 My crush used to ask me who I like but i used to think that first I will correct my habits then I will propose her but now she made someone else her boyfriend and now I regret😔

    • @aryans7134
      @aryans7134 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Our name is also same and our problem is also same.😭😔

  • @mrluciferff1720
    @mrluciferff1720 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love You Sir ...!! Waiting For Your Course on System Understanding....!! We all Trust You and I know that Ur daily Viewers will Buy Ur Course even me Also , Only Bcz We know that You Teach us Some Genuine Strategies , Perspectives and Facts Not Feel good Mortivation and Promotional Word's..!! ❤️🥂

  • @dkvsni
    @dkvsni ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank Shwetabh bhaii,you are more than a brother.We are really grateful to have you in our lives.Lots of love to you and your family

  • @Priya-zp1qg
    @Priya-zp1qg ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You just remembering my school days I'm a single child and a single girl child in whole family. They love me taking care of me like a princess as my mom use to told. For my better education my parents move other place but bad memories come when I took admission in a schl where my classmate abuse me and two teachers are also there as I came from village they treat me as a labour child or as of dirty ewww type. As my mom always gave her best to make me feel good. I remember I used be to a captain in my nursery school i used be to a topper so my parents gave me direct addmission in school when I was just 4 year old. At my addmission time principal was not sure to gave admission in such small age but i clear my all 4 subject that took by my school before getting addmission to me. But i remember I don't know how to make index in front pages one EVS teacher she thought my copy in that way just go and touch last wall of the class. I cry alot . No one wanted to be my friend all are elder in my age but here age was not problem, problem was we all teach from our parents or teacher right. Slowly i lost interest in my study i just use to pass with average Marks. So many things happen music teacher doesn't even took me in any programs that happened in school annual days I use to thought I'm so ugly and fat so they don't like me. When I was in class 9 i asked my mom that mom am i ugly or what ? She was crying . My parents are ready to go for file a complaint but i stop them. Only for the fear although they doesn't like me if my complaint is happened they will hate me. Now I realised I'm in my better options thn those PPL as i used to make friends with senior due this things again they are so loveable as senior they guide me right my parents and even relatives Yes !! relatives are aslo help me ,support me . As of from last 1.5 years I'm trying to focus on my studies, goals and health. Still sometimes in my clg i used to get fear while asking questions to the teacher. But now I'm get good teacher in CGL even in school too I got 3-5 teacher who came as an angel 😇. Being a loveable child from both dad n mom side but getting such things from school. And sharing things too late to them was something I did wrong. As i always come back from my school my mom used to wait for me having her lunch with me even dad never he get time . And their love making forgot about all those things. But in 9 class annual function that was to much. Even if my dad some how get this comments he feel bad for himself as he and my mom took discussion to gave me good education and there is nothing wrong but some of city not even city town PPL use to think they are all "like high class PPL" even my parents are educated just bcz their original house are in villages doesn't mean they are uneducated just bcz like their dad my dad was not an employee of a company doesn't mean mean he don't know anything . He is a retired army now . But we all know some time army are strictly have to hide their identity so my mom do that and i have too. But being a child getting to much love and abuse things same time but from different places literally i was out off my mind whether I have say or not. Sometimes parents and even relatives too good but teacher failed in their careers. Once my mom told me jish cheez klye tujhe neccha dkha rhe hai tu appne appko improve karne ki try kar aur kal ko aisa karle ki proud srif tujhe kiya logko bhi ho ki tune gaon se hoke bhi yeh kiya.

    • @shrirajkun5266
      @shrirajkun5266 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can really relate with this alot .

  • @gurpreet._02
    @gurpreet._02 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is quality content...!!!
    Respect to you!! thank you Shwetabh for this video🙌🙌🙌

  • @lovey900
    @lovey900 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I never have shown any interests in any online courses but i would definitely buy one from you, really waiting for the course.

    • @rahai6311
      @rahai6311 ปีที่แล้ว

      Which type of course he is talking about it?

    • @Prem-if2gy
      @Prem-if2gy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Book padho blacked version

  • @humanmanan
    @humanmanan ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kaise sir kaise? Roz roz ek hi chiz zhel raha hun. 1st std se abhi 3rd year mein agaya hun. Loop mein hoh raha hai sab.

  • @Mroutraged
    @Mroutraged ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shwetabh bhai is video ki bahut logon ko zarurat hai..

  • @hirajawad1078
    @hirajawad1078 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you shwetabh!! And I say that from utmost respect POV.
    You have changed my mindset to a great deal ever since I started listening to your videos a few years back!
    Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰

  • @ankursingh6272
    @ankursingh6272 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You mean to say it’s a vicious cycle … which never ends

  • @livelylipun4603
    @livelylipun4603 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We need that course as early as possible..plss shwetabh bhai

  • @AnoopRanaVlogs
    @AnoopRanaVlogs ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Swetabh never disappoint us 😇

  • @bobbybhatt6730
    @bobbybhatt6730 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shewtab Bhai very good video❤️
    Patani insan Apne bare me kab aware hoga.Khud ko Jaan ke hi Apna behaviour, pattern,aadat, biases etc Jaan Sakta hai. Fir unpe willingly kaam karo decision leke Dil dimag se kaam Karna suru Kare toh hojata hai ,bhaut simple concept hai but reality me isko implement Nahi Kar Raha insan.
    Therapy me jao agar Nahi ho para khud se last and accurate solution.
    Perspectives clear aur positive hone Chahiye.
    Jeevan ki gehrai me khusi hi hai chahe kitni problems ho life me.
    Thankyou bade bhai sikhane ke liye aur videos upload Karne ke liye❤️
    Ye genuinely logo ko ek Sahi direction aur perspectives deti rahengi.

  • @hriksinha410
    @hriksinha410 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir please make a video over...Corporal punishment or abusive behavior by parents towards their young children in their early years . I'v seen lots of parents beat their kids horribly or very very badly

  • @biographyhindi2600
    @biographyhindi2600 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are responsible for my happy mood bro

  • @nishijain6233
    @nishijain6233 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best vedeo i ever watched ❤️Divine blessings brother with lots of love and best wishes👏🏻👏🏻U'r 💎like my younger bro Nirvan Jain💎who sent me this vedeo.. I added in my playlist and I'll make viral in all my groups 👏🏻👏🏻I'm banker, yogi, meditation practicener and NLPier mind - life coach.. I watched ur vedeo first and got fan of urs 👏🏻👏🏻❤️great job

  • @FireandIce-eh7mx
    @FireandIce-eh7mx 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    At this point i just want to move out from my house. my parents are good but constant verbal fights, extended family issues are making me sick since i was born. i can live alone peacefully instead of constant negative environment

  • @prodbyrishi1383
    @prodbyrishi1383 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    7:53 101 percent agree

  • @puneetmaheshwari
    @puneetmaheshwari ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thankyou bhaiya mene bhut baar notice kiya hai mere baapu ko bhi anxiety hai jaise he koi ho toh "aare ruko abhi kar raha... bas ek min... thodha rukna" or SHAYAD unn ko bhi attachment issue hai or confidence bhi bhut kam hai
    abhi mere ko pata nahi hai mien ye cheez ke liye unn ko abhi batau ya jabh thodha or bada ho jau toh batau
    bhai ke liey toh karwa liya par unn ke liye bhi karwana hai

  • @bgmivivekanand
    @bgmivivekanand ปีที่แล้ว +1

    TH-cam par dhamakedar
    Direct bomb vdo
    Only one swetabh gangwar

  • @khaabrandhawa
    @khaabrandhawa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Truly waiting for your course on System. Love from Australia

  • @visualstoryteller1014
    @visualstoryteller1014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks bhai, keep the psychology and philosophy coming in, too good

  • @shwetadeshpande8374
    @shwetadeshpande8374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video made me tear up.

  • @mithileshkumari8397
    @mithileshkumari8397 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir mujhe ek topic ke bare me janna hai, meri age abhi usi level me hai ki mai confuse rahti hu. Mere classmates and others sb ko dekh ke mai confuse ho jati hu to mera question ye ki teenage me love thik hai ya harmful hai. Please sir ek video bnaiye is pr please

  • @utsabbhanja0193
    @utsabbhanja0193 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    To jiske childhood mein issues rahe hai wo insaan kya karein? Kya therapy se childhood ki sab effect mit jayegi? Ya aur kuch katna padega? or is it impossible to 'entirely' change the effects of our childhood in the rest of our life?

    • @AmitS678
      @AmitS678 ปีที่แล้ว

      it is possible ..

    • @pogboy537
      @pogboy537 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      go to therapy first. If for some time (1-2 years) you don't see any improvement, change your therapist. And if you are not satisfied by your therapist alone and are looking for extra things for help then look for them. Take care Utsab

    • @freedom4813
      @freedom4813 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tu bhanja bhanja kab tak firega. Hunn?

  • @AnkitPatel-dy4ur
    @AnkitPatel-dy4ur 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mai abhi 12th pass out hua hu , mere marks isi behaviour ki vjah se kam aaye hai. Mera childhood bahut jyada traumatic tha lekin ab nhi rahega. Lot of thanks to you 🎉& ❤❤

  • @gamerhead08
    @gamerhead08 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But there's a very zoomed out perspective is aslo there for this scenario is that the couple need to understand if they can't afford a child both financially stable and a mentally stable environment than they shouldn't have chosen to give birth to he or she, now the parents they need to understand they have nothing more than your kid because you have chosen for the new life in between two individuals and that kid is your first priority, you should have to keep your narcissist mindset aside and think on ground level. Things are serious I can feel that cuz that's totally true that a kid's childhood acts as fule for his future decisions. Your fears your lies your confidence your honesty everything depends on your foundation which is your childhood. If you read this comment then thank you.

  • @piyushnisy9980
    @piyushnisy9980 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Meri bhi condition aisi hi hai but mujhse Kam nahi ho pa raha bilkul lost feeling aa rahi hai.

  • @adarshshende5041
    @adarshshende5041 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So what's the solution, I mean what can I do to overcome the loneliness, insecurity and fear to become happy and talkative because I think due to those family clashes I've lost a happier part of me.

    • @akshitaguru
      @akshitaguru ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sameee

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bhai ek hi tarika hai iska sab kuch khudse krna pdega step by step. Phle stable job par aaja phir apni hobbies par kaam kar, issi se networking kar skta hai to aur bhi badhiya, naye log aate jayege jinse compatibility match ho rhi hai unke sath tour par nikl jaa. Jitne ache logo se interactions ho paye utna acha hai. Achi ladkiyo ko apni life me laa jo tujse empathise kar paye jinke sath long term ki relationship me tu jaa paye. Jo family culture aur values tumhare parents nai de paye vo tum khud bnao apni family. Pyaar karo apni biwi ko apne bacho ko vo do jo tumhe nai mila aur apne aap ko bhi pyaar karo.

  • @KGB007A
    @KGB007A ปีที่แล้ว +2

    kindly make the course as soon as possible

  • @anliquemackenz1982
    @anliquemackenz1982 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    8:09 what did he say with the p word...can someone pls tell me

  • @dad-ms8mz
    @dad-ms8mz ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Me after watching this video be like..hae Bagwan mera sath itna kuch ho gya Mae itna trauma Saha hu and I don't even know it were traumas,😬
    Abb mujae samaj hae aaarah hae kia this Kind of things are real..now I am able to justify my certain behaviour like tears in nyt without reason, being lost somewhere without any reason. Feeling disconnected from everyone. Feeling like m burden for everybody..
    May be this all things have some connections in past lik some horror movies 😬
    I thought that what I am feeling is what life supposed to be. I thought it was completely genetics..
    Very nice information.

  • @alka1798
    @alka1798 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Problem....
    I see myself as the one who don't give so much importance to money.... and I actually don't waste money but when I see my uncle, wasting my father's money on her girlfriend that really make me feel uneasy.... please tell me the reason why, I feel the way I feel.....

  • @seemachoudhari5117
    @seemachoudhari5117 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Because of my childhood things muzhe maladaptive daydreaming ho gaya I don't know how to handle this now I need therapy but everybody in my family said that I am all ok and ye sab Mera vehem hain can somebody here tell me what to do in this situation

    • @saranshpandey5890
      @saranshpandey5890 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Purpose dhundo koi aur uske piche lag jaao koi bhi ek sab sahi hojayega

  • @cuteanimals8606
    @cuteanimals8606 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love your videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @dmzzvlence9752
    @dmzzvlence9752 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi shwetabh ( anyone reading this )
    I have been on self improvement every year
    Because of low finance I am unable to do it.
    This year I got a disease where I cannot life heavy and doctor advised not to do pushup also.
    I don't know what to do now and what should I do?
    I am fed up of life and way things are going.
    Every 2 months something happens and I fall flat on my face.
    People go on dates have girlfriends and my money is wasted on unnecessary medicines. I don't even eat much junk and outside food and don't take alcohol also.
    Please help or else this might be my last year, after this I don't find a reason to live.

  • @unknownartist45
    @unknownartist45 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Love from हिमाचल प्रदेश ( भारत)

    • @anshukeshari286
      @anshukeshari286 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love from उत्तर प्रदेश

    • @raja-jl9os
      @raja-jl9os ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love from g@ndu pradesh

    • @snehalbhaskar6774
      @snehalbhaskar6774 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love from jhaant pradesh

    • @utsabbhanja0193
      @utsabbhanja0193 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love from bhosdi pradesh

    • @happynaruto7946
      @happynaruto7946 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We all know Himachal Pradesh doesn't exist

  • @Vikram-lj5ff
    @Vikram-lj5ff ปีที่แล้ว

    Master piece video 💖

  • @prempawar6782
    @prempawar6782 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing sir 🔥🔥🔥

  • @VivekSingh-ks6pz
    @VivekSingh-ks6pz ปีที่แล้ว

    This contant help me a lot shwetabh bhai

  • @CypherX-Sec
    @CypherX-Sec ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bhaiya mere sath bhi bachhpan me bahut badi ghatnaye hui hai issiliye aajtak apne maa baap se connect nahi ho paya aur unlogo ne kabhi try bhi nahi kiya 😭😭😭

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar ปีที่แล้ว

      Kya age hai bhai teri?? Aur bahar job kr rhe ho?

    • @CypherX-Sec
      @CypherX-Sec ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@manishjawadekar nahi bhai meri age 20 years hai mai India me hi rehta hu college me hu

  • @varun5050
    @varun5050 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Courses kab aa rahe hai shwetabh ?.....approx month toh batao please

  • @rashmii_kashyap02
    @rashmii_kashyap02 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    sir jinko mental ya pyschological problem hai...woh phle khud se janna ni ni chahte psychiatrist ya psychologist ke paas

    • @AmitS678
      @AmitS678 ปีที่แล้ว

      tab sweatbh ke pass jao.. wo solve kr skte h

    • @kdjoshi726
      @kdjoshi726 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meri mom:

  • @hardikahlawat3724
    @hardikahlawat3724 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ❤️

  • @prashantbhati7120
    @prashantbhati7120 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kb bna rahe ho course??

  • @sahilpadhiyar3125
    @sahilpadhiyar3125 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for this

  • @iitaspirant1471
    @iitaspirant1471 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bhai kitni baar title thumbnail badloge...😂

  • @RahulBaraik69
    @RahulBaraik69 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Course bna dijiye Shwetabh Bhaiya

  • @kuchbbbb8216
    @kuchbbbb8216 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shwetabh bhai, religion philosophy par aur video bnao....accha topic tha...I am having problem:
    My mind (don't know why ) cannot accept the presence of God I am basically going between atheist and agnostic..

    • @nirvanj1580
      @nirvanj1580 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/gORFCi2RGV0/w-d-xo.html

  • @kumaranshuman8666
    @kumaranshuman8666 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tnx bhai

  • @gulmoharsontakke3621
    @gulmoharsontakke3621 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bahi bahut educational video hai

  • @zzubairkhan7272
    @zzubairkhan7272 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Therapy is far more important than medicines.

  • @mangeshpatil9812
    @mangeshpatil9812 ปีที่แล้ว

    Relatable AF ...

  • @addycool444
    @addycool444 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wo to hypnotherapy se hoga na bhai firr agr kuch itna deep belief hogya is hypnotherapy part of psychology or not

  • @happiswain7008
    @happiswain7008 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Course iss saal ke end Tak aa jayega kya?

    • @astindods_
      @astindods_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mass level pe Request karo.. fir shayad Bana de bhaiya !

    • @temporary4boards
      @temporary4boards ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

  • @VivekSingh-ks6pz
    @VivekSingh-ks6pz ปีที่แล้ว

    I very very love it...

  • @samruddhaha
    @samruddhaha ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sahi bolrahe ho mai bhi therapy he jaraha hu bro

  • @gainknowledgebyp
    @gainknowledgebyp ปีที่แล้ว

    Waiting for your course

  • @freedom4813
    @freedom4813 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jiska childhood itna ruined hai vo explore karega tabhi toh data hoga na?

  • @choudharyshab8810
    @choudharyshab8810 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your mentality is related with Acharya Prasanth......
    👍👍💥💥💥💥

    • @ThinkAboutThiss
      @ThinkAboutThiss ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He also appreciated Acharya Prashant in one of his videos

  • @ambrishshukla9228
    @ambrishshukla9228 ปีที่แล้ว

    WAITING FOR THE COURSE

  • @ganeshanvekar5009
    @ganeshanvekar5009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bhai aapka vo course kab tak expect kar saket hey?

  • @HARSHVARDHAN-sv6tp
    @HARSHVARDHAN-sv6tp ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am feeling sad that I can give only one like.

  • @viralbee2453
    @viralbee2453 ปีที่แล้ว

    Course nahi bhai that's what separates you from rest.

  • @devbhardwaj9284
    @devbhardwaj9284 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    bhai tum tagde ho yaar sahi me is duniya ke nahi lagte

  • @sourajyotidas7676
    @sourajyotidas7676 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Only future successful people comes here👊🏻

  • @PuneetKumar-gh9go
    @PuneetKumar-gh9go ปีที่แล้ว

    Best h yr

  • @crazystories221
    @crazystories221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thike, samajhgaya

  • @Newbie4565
    @Newbie4565 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Course banao jaldi plz bhaiya

  • @abhishekraj9930
    @abhishekraj9930 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im a 17 yo kid sir … sir I want to ask questions related to my career
    Sir my parents tell me to become like doctor or engineer or IAS.
    But whenever I say them I wanna be a gamer ,they say I would never support you and throw you out of the house
    Sir I belive in Myself I can do much better in this field with immense practise ,creativity and hard work 😓
    But all people keep saying that gaming is waste , nothing will happen etc
    So I have kept a plan B with it also like I would first get a Job and then continue gaming
    So that I will be financially stable also
    So sir please provide me your opinion on this or any advice like what to do or not ???
    Please sir answer me don’t ignore 😭😭😭😭

    • @dragoncat5767
      @dragoncat5767 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, there are lots of gamers who are good in gaming,but you need to put your normal career at first,and gaming secondary,and then when you see you being or earning good in gaming, then you can switch to gaming
      You have to study most of the times and then you do gaming in other times
      You need to also have a great knowledge about gaming field and stuff, before starting it as a hobby too,if you plan to succeed as a gamer.

    • @abhishekraj9930
      @abhishekraj9930 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dragoncat5767 thank you

  • @evolver5379
    @evolver5379 ปีที่แล้ว

    Strong base

  • @2thinkagain
    @2thinkagain ปีที่แล้ว

    Bhaiya ek din mai aapse zarrur milne aaunga aur jo aapne ham ko gyaan diya hai wo amar hai
    Thank you bhaiya 🫡

  • @ayushbaranwal1094
    @ayushbaranwal1094 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Solution kya hai?