Getting a Boyfriend or girlfriend won't solve your problems
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ธ.ค. 2024
- Shwetabh Gangwar addresses a problem by a girl who is sad that all the guys she has been meeting don't want a serious relationship with her. The girl has a lot of problems in her life and is looking for a guide in her boyfriend. This girl is looking for a guy to fix her life.
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Wah
Kya be gadhe kuch content nahi kya tere paas har baar ladki pe hi le aata hain 😡😡
Bhai gangsta philosophy p next book kab aa rahi?
Sir please check my message I send on Instagram
Please sir I need help and suggestion too.
Bahi DM dekh lo
Girl you just lost your mom, give yourself time and space to grieve. Be patient while you heal. It's YOUR responsibility to heal yourself not any boy's. All the best
Aj kl k teenage 😂
@@MBparkour what do you mean?
@@PHONIEX704 they need a support instead of believing in them selves..... Or movie dekh k bf gf to khelte hi hai super fast commitment..bina time diye Bina kisi understanding k kyu ki fb insta itna hai option dude 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️...
@@MBparkour ladki gadhi hai..that doesn't mean "teenagers" pagal hai.
Thier are many who detest relationships.
@@charvaka5705 gadha bhi hardworking hota hai disrespect k way m bolke kya hoga ??? 80% teenager hai issi phase me ... That's the reality of now 🙂
Youth nowadays look at social media and wonder why everyone seems to have such a great life 💁
They see that everyone is always happy and doing something interesting, and can't help but think, "Why is my life so stupid and boring?"🙁
Here's a piece of news: It's not because your life is stupid and boring, and it's not even because you're more unhappy than most people🙅
It's that people use social media to live a fake life 👫
I will create a Instagram account in future. Where people can only see crying boring pain things.
Hope people like you follow that account for minimum 3 months.
Damn I found the use of emoji 😲
@@sidhkon8543 One girl messaged me on dating app first she talked with me but after some days she stopped talking to me, it was effecting my work, I was thinking a lot that I might not be that good when I am still having a good job, it also ruined my mood when I go to work by blaming myself and then today after watching your video I decided to unmatch her for my peace ☮️. I hope someone good will find me in the future 😊
Social media is a poisonous place too beside just social places to talk and chill , I myself don't understand they way meta works especially nowadays
@@IamXenorexapni sob jayega te e achen 😂
That narc point is sooo correct.... If u think u are broken, something wrong with u or u need some kind of fixation u attract more toxic ppl or ppl u also need fixation/disturbed/unhealthy personality trait ppl... Thats why no one fix other ppl....EveryOne need inner work 🕉️
Main apni puri life ek ajeeb se feeling aur emotional problems se paresan tha . Mujhe smjh tha ki kuch to jadbad hai mere emotional health m. Fir achanak mujhe ek book ka summary mila jiska naam "no more mr nice guy" tha. Us book ko padhke mujhe smjh aaya mere sath dikkat kya hai mujhe low self-esteem ka problem tha . Fir maine low self esteem par book dundi aur mujhe "healing your emotional self" book k bare m pta chala mujhe bachpan m abuse, neglect kiya gya jiske chalte aj low self-esteem ka problem hai jiske karan dating life ki lagi padi thi is problem k bare m research kia to "attached" naam ki book k bare m pta chala mujhe anxious attachment style hai. Low self esteem k chalte mujhe mild depression jaisa kuch feeling ata tha kyu ki mind m kuch na kuch chalta rhta tha . Fir mujhe "feeling good" naam k book k bare m pta chala jise padhte kuch week huye h ab cognitive behavioral therapy sikh rha hun. Khudko ko mentally emotionally improve karne ka ye process puri life chalta rahega i hope ham sabhi ki life acchi ho.
Hum bhi ye book lenge. Abhi hain to bhej do. Real price se thodi Kam paise dunga
@@domonkor7667 you can find the pdf on vlib
No more mr nice guy sirf 200 250rs m
Healing your emotional self india m available nahi isliye maine online dunda aur mil bhi gya
Attached _350rs m
Feeling good _350rs m mil jayega
@@domonkor7667 No more mr nice guy sirf 200 250rs m
Healing your emotional self india m available nahi isliye maine online dunda aur mil bhi gya
Attached _350rs m
Feeling good _350rs m mil jayega
I hope you check about (Borderline PD) cause person with childhood abuse ,anxious attachment type can develop this personality disorder
Self Dependency is the best thing💯
"Life is not full of Sunshine and Rainbows, it's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and will keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me or Nobody is gonna hit as hard as life But It ain't about how hard you can hit, it's about how hard you can Get HIT and keep moving FORWARD. That's how Winning is Done 💯 " said by Rocky Balboa.
Rightly said...!! I have fully experienced
I think if she came to you for help and asked help from you sir, then she already taken first step for self dependency and self improvement, coz she must be searching solution for the problem and then found you... She must not be lazy in solving her problem...
Don't remember when I started seeing your videos..all I know in last 5 years your videos really gave the insight to change all my efforts from thinking to doing and 'I am a Nation ' really is the key. I am improving day by day and this improvement is the constant...
You are a blessed soul Shwetabh Sir!!
This guy, himself, is nothing short of a therapist.
Namaste bhaiya Today i worked for 6 hours on Programming as im a Solo Game developer Besides that i am reading your book and various books I admire you so much thnk u Sir .
What's your age btw?
Noice
Awesome
Also take good care of your spine, wrists, knees and eyes if you work too much on computer. As you approach 30, you might not feel comfortable sitting too long.
Get enough sleep and workout
Just my two cents...
Hello fellow gamedev, I'm also a game developer using Unity engine.
"Oneself indeed is one’s protector, for what other protector could there be? With oneself well-controlled, one obtains a refuge difficult to gain." -The Buddha.
I'm listening to you for the first time...
And this is all I need right now 👍
I totally agree with you, getting gf or bf is not going to solve problems, I am 25 right now and yet not having any single relationship , but I am happy of not having because I am exploring myself, either way sometimes I think I want someone not just as gf but actually to spent time with someone as because I sometime feel lonely. I have parents to talk but every type of conversation we can't do with them bcz they think they know everything it can be true in some cases but not in everything, also they are not that physically active now so I can't travel with them and I don't like to travel alone. It can be a different kind of energy to travel alone but I don't feel like travelling alone.
This was the topic I had a talk with 4 people since last week
4:43 Bhai happiness ke alag alag perspective and alternatives share kro please 🙏
Following your passions, learning or doing anything that helps you grow, maybe getting a job or becoming financially stable and etc. Can help in giving you satisfaction, however, in the end, it really depends on what your wants and needs are, and what you are doing to pursue them
Bro start with differentiating pleasure and happiness
The OG of critical thinking 🔥
Great ap life me aye or life change hogai.💞💞💞
Thanks for writing Ruddest book ever🙏🏻🙏🏾🙏🏽
15:48 Yesssss...so true
Thanks for being here for us sir. Can't express enough how much you're supporting us in our hard times. :) Thanks for everything. 💛🌻 How's your mom doing now?
Sending your mom & you my prayers! ❤️🩹
Needed to hear this! Thank you sir for always guiding in the right direction, Everything comes down to You helping yourself, acknowledging and starting your self healing journey as soon as possible :)
One girl messaged me on dating app first she talked with me but after some days she stopped talking to me, it was effecting my work, I was thinking a lot that I might not be that good when I am still having a good job, it also ruined my mood when I go to work by blaming myself and then today after watching your video I decided to unmatch her for my peace ☮️. I hope someone good will find me in the future 😊
@@IamXenorex I am really sorry to hear that! its brutal out there on dating apps, people are unkind, hope you find what you are looking for :)
@@IamXenorex bro first delete that dating apps
People like swetabh, acharya prasant are selling mirror to this blind world.
That means they are scammers???
Suno sabke karo apni
Bhai acharya vegan bne ko bolata hae jooke ekdum chutiya cheez hae.
@@GIGADEV690 you actually proved my point. May god give you some sense.
That is true upto some extent and it's not always a bad thing
Bhaiyaa apko dekhta hu na jab mai kisi dukh me rahta hu to mere dil ko bhut sukoon milta hai kyuki bhiya apka bolne ka lehja batata hai apne apni life me bhut sacrifices ki hai tab jake ap yha phuche ho apko bhiya dil se salute hai❤️❤️❤️
The Real G - Guru G
Shwetabh G
Gangwar G supremacy
8:30 best line of the video ⚡
Shwetabh sir i got detained in college due to attendance shortage . I am doing engineering but now I have to do one extra year I don't know what to do. I didn't told my parents yet.
Sirrr i was going through the same issue finding a GUIDE thanks for the upload you saved a lot of my time. All i needed was agyide who could help me get through law school but now as I see it i think learning online skills which are needed in my profession is the best guide to seek rn. Although yaa i will still look out for someone but ya not become overly reliant on them. TSYM al always.
Dumdaar video dear Shwetabh bhai🙏💕😊
I'm grateful that you exist!
You are the Gem 💕
Biggest fan of ur intellect❤️
He genuinely makes true content. I totally admire his work and appreciate for directing people in a right direction so they can do better in life ahead 👣
12:59 Exact point I was looking for.. 😍
I lost my dad and while this i am struggle from break up i can't handel this reaaly
I needed this knowledge at this point ..
Problem koi hai nahi..
Saathi ki jaroorat hai nahi..
Phir bhi sirf apni ego satify karne ko koi toh chahiye na??
So knowledgeable video sir 💕✌
Watching some of shewatbs videos i literally take my pen out and start taking notes because they are full of value ❤
So relatable, my ex exactly did the same.👍
8:33 🤣🤣 Socrates bolege ki koi problem ho to meri book padh lena wife.
10/10 video 🔥
Namaste bhaiya ji 🗿🗿🦬❤️
Bhai content ke hisab se visually video pe colours Sahi the, you really gaming up sir!
5:20 so what should everybody do to get a good partner?
at right time in right place ?
@@amitsingh-yk3ps yes
Just concentrate being the right person
Parents are more important
Your videos from Gangsta Perspective are missing
Something big would be coming
Aapko dekh kr shwetabh sir I'm improving myself. In my life day by day and thank you sir. Thank you so much......... And Respect sir❤ Dil Se.
Thank you universe ❤️
Shwetabh bhaiya, thank you so much !!
Like who want achraya prasant and swetabh podcast
Bro, what happend to your channel gangsta perspective?
Bhai GANGSTA PERSPECTIVES channel ke saare videos delete ho gaye hai kya, ya sirf mujhe nhi dikh rahe..???
This is strange, you have addressed a problem of a girl being hit on by all guys around her for the second time if I'm not mistaken. Personally I don't feel the need to hit on girls that I come across, but I've always felt a bit annoyed when some girls try to avoid conversations or try to keep conversations short forcibly, as if I was trying to hit on then just because I talked to them. It seems as if lots of people hit on girls commonly and many girls cannot find dudes to confide to or be normal with. I suppose nothing can be done for this from my perspective.
trueee....... girls khud bhav deti hainnnnnnnn
Bro like : Insta be problem dalo,
Mai kabhi nhi dekhunga is hidden.
Not only bollywood or tv even society n family members wants ki koi sathi hoga tabi age life badh sakti ho.Mere surroundings mein bas ek ladka hoga in form of husband tab hi meri life safal hogi.
Exactly ashan ni hai acha sathi milna
Harsh truth bol de to log bura man jate hain.
just not in good phasd but am handling im confident way ✨✨ hope it takes tym and .....
Full motiv station🚏
07:20 👌👍
Ladki ka sahara banne ki bajaye aaj kal k ladke ladkiyon ko use krna jante hai, Sharam aati h mujhe in jaise ladko pr. Shame on u boys
@@ssdftddrt1540 tune uska comment thik se suna nhi lagta h, usne kaha ki usko jo boys mil rhe hai woh sab ghumne wale ( hotel le Jane wale) boys ki baat kr rhi h.
Woman ☕
🤣🤣
aapke 2nd channel ke videos kaha gaye??
Kuch plan hai kya sir ji gangsta perspective pe. Vahake video ab kaha dekhe, twitch pe daal Sako to daal do.
Bro again changed the tumbnail 🤣🤣
Anyone noticed 😆😆
"You're the president of your life"
- Shwetabh Gangwar
Shwetabh bhai aap bhot jada technical language me samjhate ho. Kabhi kabhi upr se jata hai.
Thanks Shwetabh for this video.
Thanks Big Brother ❤
Please make video on chankya niti , arthshaastra and hindu philosophy like upnishad vedanta and i want learn stoicism it's Greek philosophy please sir
Sir, why can't I see any video on Gangsta Perspective
Namastey Bhaiyya !
As a former narcissist, i can confirm what he's saying!
lmao
us
There is nothing as former narcissist
Either you are still narcissist
Or you never really was
Sahi insaan mile to hi har problem solve ho jayegi, phir tumko lagega ki yehi to pyar hain
Thank you bhaiya...💛
Please make more videos on anxious attachments . I also have same problem
Namah aste!
Bro what happened to the gangsta perspective channel
Kya pata, kuch naya Ane wala hoga
I have a problem which is that I couldn't fell any tension or stress.
Because of which I have failed many times but I still couldn't study and don't feel any remorse.
My situation is really bad even now I can't feel anything 😭
I am a procrastinator too which makes my situation worse
What to do?
Kaam karo
Same situation par idhar...tension bhi hota hai guilt bhi hota hai .still padhai nahi hoti..
Actually your situation is great if you don't feel any stress or tension.There is no bigger purpose than mental stability as long you maintain it for the rest of your life.
Teenagers are being 'sold' a perceived reality in today's world where everything is perfect, eutopic nd hush hush. Being emotionally immature, vulnerable they need a strong emotional guidance to see- through this manufactured reality. The fact is, the sky of life appears more beautiful and genuine through the combined prism of joy and sorrow. We need both - sunshine and rain in the sky of life to make a beautiful rainbow. Only either may make it boring, dull, banal.
We crave for joys but without sorrows we can't realise their true worth. Can we eat just sugar all the time? No, it's the variety of taste that makes food fulfilling. Joy and sorrow are two wheels of the life's chariot, both r needed for smooth movement.
This reality modern teenagers must understand. Unfortunately, today's nuclear families don't hold the luxury of seeking the wisdom of old grandparents who could simplify this reality in a friendly tone to teenagers. Without such guidance, teenagers fall prey to trap of 'buying' this manufactured reality and falling in a vicious cycle of comparison- low self esteem - anxiety and it may lead to depression as well.
sir therapist kaise choose karein.ive read about many predator kind therapist,mostly its in girl patients case,im guy but yea,i dont want to open up to a fake therapist etc. or waste time on wrong therapist,🥺
predator therapist matlab?
@@ShwetabhGangwar1 rogue people masqueraded as therapists manipulating vulnerable people, like wolves in little red riding hood
@@ShwetabhGangwar1 harami therapist which may blackmale its client
@@ShwetabhGangwar1 probably a therapist who misuse their title and rather than helping their patient giving them wrong advice or wasting their time and getting their personal information and therapists are costly.
@@ShwetabhGangwar1 bhaiya aik problem thi nai pata kaha bhejo bahaut bar mail kiya tha par shayad aaptak nai pahucha mail , 2019 me mere bhaiya ka nidhan ho gaya tha cancer se abb sirf Mai hi bacha hi apne mummy papa ke liye .... Papa aur mummy ki age ho rahi hai aur family support bhi nai mil Raha Mai bhi kuch chizo ko lekar pareshan hu nai chorna chahta mummy papa ko akele aur career bhi hai important Mai to stable hu but mummy papa ko sambhalne me bahaut dikkat ho rahi hai... Sir me bar yahi sab ghumte reheta hai hal me hi gf se break up ho gaya to vo bhi mind me aik corner me bother kar raha hai... Lakin kisi tarah apne ko sambhala hua hu
Bhaii Rudest book ever...book ko pdf banake chrome main dalll diya hannm kisina
I really appreciate to your guidance 💖 swetab bhai
Namaste bhaiya🙏
One must listen Swami Akhandanand saraswati ji
Love from Bangladesh.. ❤️
🙏🏼
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I could empathise her situation because I am in similar situation
Bhai, aapke channel Gangsta Perspective ka ek bhi video nahi mil raha hai. Kya hua??? SAARE VIDEO DELETE KARDIYE KYA
Exactly same thing happened to me
Subha subha ye dekh ke acha kaam kar lia 👌😫
Gangsta perspective ko kya hua videos nhi dikh rhe?
Bhai gangsta perspective channel ke saare videos kahan udd gaye ?? Kya hogaya bhai?
Shwetabh bhai ❤️
You are the gem ❤
bhai baal zeher lg rhe h. Zabrdast
Bhai is there any issue with gangsta perspectives channel ? , had marked some videos and wanted to re-watch, but can't find any 'videos' tab....
Yaar shwetabh bhai.....
Mereko aaisa lagra me Dhire Dhire Fight club wale Edward nortan ki phase me jaa raha hu....
Mereme bohot ghussa bhara hai ess baat ka ki
Maa baap hamare liye kuch piche chodhke nahi gaye....
Mereko career banane me jawani sacrifice Karni padi....
Hum amir ho sakte the lekin baap ne jindagi me kuch ghatiya decisions liye jisse ki hum gareeb reh gaye....
Mereko MNC me coder ki job lagi hai....
4th year BE ka banda hu me.....
Bahar se koi dekhega toh Kitna sahi chalra eski life me lekin under the surface demons are crawling under my skin shwetabh bhai....
Mereko Pata hai me acche acche exam fodd sakta hu esiliye me MBA entrances ki tayari bhi ji jaan se kaar raha hu....
Lekin aab muze ye realise ho raha hai ki mere paas Maa baap Family hi nahi bachegi success celebrate karne toh me kyahi kaar lunga uss success ka....
24×7 ghusse me rehta hu shwetabh bhai aur dimag me baas BADA AADMI BANNA HAI yehi laga rehta hai......
Lekin gharke environment ke wajah se muze ye daar hai ki me kahi joker jaise killer na Baan jau....
Please shwetabh bhai help me
Apne ghusse ko anjam do 🔪
Bhaiiiiii khud ko shaant rakh aur kaam krteee rah khud se zyadaa expectation mt rkho ki jawanai barbaad krni padegi ye vo celebrate krne k liye koi hoga ya niiii........baada aadmi banna hai tikkk h lekinn vo tikk tak hi simit aur zayada focus choti choti goal p rakho tm easily achieve kr loge...
Agr tmhra aise behaviour raha toh tm kabhi khush hi rah paaoge guaraanteee de raha depression k shikaar ho jaaoge qki m is same phase se guzaar chuka hu m school time p pure bakchod ladka hua krtaa tha padhai se a tk ka naata ni tha jaise hi 12th pass karaa m bola ab m kyaa kruu m below middle class se aata m bola ki m bchaon me jo sapne dekha tha ki bada hoke itna rich hona hai lekin abhi kyaa m bada to raha hu lekin richh to ni ho raha....
Phr m socha ki padhai hi ek tarika hai jisse me rich ho sktaaa.....
Phr jo bhi distraction thii un sbkoo m laat maara jo hhi cheezin mujhe hadd se zyaada psnd thii sbhi chizon ko haata diya gaming,my gf,best frnd,fb,insta khud ko isolate kr liya lambe lambe baal kr liye bhai 1 saal tk continue har roz 10/10hrs library jaata tha apni padhai A se start kaara kuch smjh ni aata tha ki kaise padhte hai kaise chizon ko smjhte hai phrrr dheere dheere vos b toh improve ho gaya lekin m bhut egoist ho gaya tha naa m mummy se baat krta na papa sb darne lage the ki mujhe kyaa hogya.....phr ek din acchanak se kyaa hogya ni pata m library me baitha tha gaana sunn rah kuch aisa lyrics sunn liya ki mera mind hi pura change ho gya m ghr p gaya m sochne lagaa m kyaa kr rha hu kyoo kr rha tikk h m mehnat kr rha hu lekin mere pass mera koi ek dost bhi ni vo success celebrate krne k liye yahii sb chizein dimaag me ghoom rahi thi m khud ko akela smjhne lagaa m ghr p aake bhut hi foot foot k roya family me sb log bole ki tm padhai chod do hm ni chahte ki padhai k chhkar me tmhra aisa haal ho jayee m aur bhi zyaad bhut roya qki ab mujhe sb meaningless lagta tha m sochta tha ab m khus kaise rahu qki jo chiz mujhe khushi detii thi un sb chizon ko m suppres kr diya tha m game khelta lekim smile tak ni aati thi gf se baat krta kuch feel hi ni hota porn dekhta no feek yaah tak ki khada bhi ni hota m apne area me psychiatrist dhoondne lagaa phr m apne old bchaon waale dosto ko contact kaara kuch week tk padhai completely chod k khoob bakchodiiii kaara idhr udhr ki jo bhi baatein thiii tb jaake merii condition tikk huii h abhi 5 ya 6 month guzaar gaaye hai us depression k phase se m phle ki trh hard mehnat to ni krta lekin har roz 6 ya 7 hrs study krta mocks me maarks acche aate dost bhi saath h....bs simple life chll rhiii bina koi high expectations k lekin mera dimaag ab condition ho chucka hai kaam krne ko.....
Bhai m bs yahii khna chahta hu ki tmse itna khud ko irritating mt banao..khud ko calm rakh k strategy banao kaise achive krna hai aise hawaa me ni ki badaa aadmi banaan hai tikk h lekin kaise agr hmesa baada aadmi aaadmi k baare me sochte rahoge toh dost k saath tapri p chaii k mazaa bhi tmko ni aata hoga qki tm apnw dimaag ko waisa condition krwa diye hoge ki yaha grob chai pitee harrr chiz ka mazaa lo yrrrr tm patang ko pkdne k bajaay uske dor p zyaad focus krooo m........m bs apna experience baataya bhai lekinn aap mere se badee h aur maine bhi abhi tk kuch ukhada ni hai lekin dream h life me kuch baada banane ka lekin ye toh pataa hai m abhi ni ban skta esliye khud ko jitna skillfull banaa skta uspe main focus krtaa bhai bhai tm xam ki taayari esliye hard kro qki tmko sustenance chahiye agr rich hone k liye kroge toh vishwas kroo xam nikaalne k baad bhi sad hi rhoge 🙃🙃🙃
@@advikpatel825 Thank you for sharing your experience.....
you gave me another perspective to look at my situation
🔥🔥
Aristotle ke thoughts pe ek video chahiye bhya❤️☺️
Kaun Faridabad ka Aristotle
Point kya hai?Woh bi ultimately wahi kehta hai jo sab philosophers kehte hai.Apne andar jaanko.
Gangsta perspective channel ke saare videos kyu delete kar diye bhai?
Kuch bada Ane wala hoga shayad
I think he wants to focus on english channel and this channel
Bhaiya I'm having a similar problem of dependency. Can u tell me some exercises to create an autonomy.
i badly need that lip serum shwetabh applied. Mere lips african jaise hogye h.