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Thanks for the cool video, I'm glad to see a video talking about men's issues that isn't full of hate all women rhetoric in the comments. This is the first time I've ever seen this happen. I do want to correct one point just in case because it's used to hurt women all the time and I also want to give people a little hope. The facilities to help men with abuse, there are actually more than you think so please Google the ones in your area and support them. They need it! The issue with women initiating divorce. It's just false to say this is sexism against men, the REASON women initiate divorce is because of feminist movements helping them to realize they don't have to be doormats. This is an issue pushed by awful men that hurts everyone so using that stat to say it's harmful to men just pushes women back into the box of they have to do everything. The stats I've found are women do the majority of (in households where they both work) childcare, house chores, house maintenance, yard work, relationship work (described as planning dates, starting communication etc) handling finances and handling schedules. If I'm doing the majority of everything in a marriage of course I'm going to leave. If ANYONE is doing the majority of everything in a marriage and they don't have a partner willing to listen they should leave. Life is too short to live it being unhappy. I also really hate that they bring up "society is the one oppressing men!" Men lead society right now in the us they also lead the government. Example being: all the major influencers are men, there is an exception with all the major celebrities being women except for Mr weirdo (if you know you know, he's not bad just... why does he act this way weird) but time and time again it's proven celebrities do not have influence over general people quite like TH-camrs. Example being: Taylor swift (the most influential celebrity right now) posted to buy her makeup line last year and they shut down and didn't but from it, she also said to support this foundation (I don't remember the name) and they saw a 1% raise in funds but in reality they got a .7% raise in funds every year so while that's a lot the .3% was not a lot for her following. On the flip side markiplier raises unbelievable numbers for charities and he deserves every ounce of praise. When he says "Stop doing this" people stop, you can tell in Nintendo (Nintendo is known for being power hungry and a vicious bully as a company) backing off from trying to harass a black creator for using a modded game he also played. Minilad is still seen as positive figure even after admitting to grooming teens. Andrew tate is still making money off content after being in jail for trafficking kids. The fact he got a platform after spreading nothing but false info in the first place disturbs me. Taylor swift still hasn't recovered at all from her dating a racist guy but Jeffery star is sitting pretty associating with over 11 different *convicted* child assaulters. Most notable is he told an 11 year old they were lying and to go harass them in 2017 and scene did, that child hasn't gotten justice for what dahvie vanity has done to date. These are just examples to prove my point be cause I know most people don't keep up with the social politics as much. Clearly I don't have to bring up the gov politics, we are all aware. Yes, men are victims of things in the us but to literally site that it's not an issue pushed by other men is insane to me. Living in the us after living in Europe so long, there is an unbelievable culture difference and the danger in the us is so much more prevalent. I also wanted to add my own double standards they didn't mention in this video, lesbians are treated WAY better in the media than gays and lesbians are far more likely to be able to adopt children. My only gripe is gay men are way more accepted to sexually assault women by other women (not by other men though I'm learning. Pete Davidson made a skit about it) but everything else about lgbtq acceptance is far more lenient to women which is disappointing to me. I'd love to have a talk on this but it's pretty un needed. Men's medical research is by far not as cared about as women's research. Breast cancer is one of the most researched disease that exists but colon cancer is still in the dark ages and this says a lot because the medical field itself is still in the dark ages. The us law on "grape" (if you don't understand you're not old enough to read this) also requires, updated as of 2018, for penetration. Seems fine right? Well think about how women sexually assault men... yeah. This makes all cases after this law to be skewed. The Tarzan actor at Disney was removed because women refused to keep their hands to themselves. Underaged Boys (under 16) are more likely to be sexually pressured into things they don't wanna do by underage girls (under 16) I can expand on anything but remember I can't give links on TH-cam sadly so if you want the sites you'll have to dig a little after I give the title
7:35 In the early 2000s a man named Earl Silverman started up a domestic violence shelter for men called Mens Alternative Safe House. He received a lot of backlash and harassment for it, but ultimately managed to keep the shelter running until 2013 where lack of funding forced him to shut down and he was found dead by hanging in his home. He was an abuse survivor himself, just trying to help other men in his situation and it's disgusting that anyone would meet genuine attempts to help others with scorn and abuse because they believe the target of that help either doesn't need it or doesn't deserve it.
Exactly this, I wish they didn't add in their list the divorce rates (because that's a sexism against women issue and doesn't fit this at all) I met someone who was the brother of this man online a few months ago. They started another foundation, I didn't really keep up with it but I know you can donate to it because I did. I'll try to find it again and link it here so others can know about it because it exists. His legacy lives on
"How could you not be interested in me? Are you gay?" Lady, if a man was harassing you the way you've been harassing me, half the people here would've called the cops by now and the other half would be filming for evidence. Go. Away.
The part about being disposable is so incredibly true. People say that they care about if a man dies but they really don't. It's only women children and animals that are loved unconditionally.
My dad is my best friend, and always has been. Hell, he's not even biologically my dad and he's the most important person in my life right now. I can't wrap my head around that mindset of men being useless or disposable. So many people, even the woman who gave birth to me, treated him like nothing more than a free wallet she could abuse, and it really just pisses me off seeing how people could act that way towards their fellow humans simply because they have a dick and a deeper voice. It's so fucked up.
My dad was in an abusive relationship with the woman who gave birth to me for over a decade. When we called the cops on her violent and likely drug induced outbursts, he was often questioned by police first and when CPS got involved, he was painted as a monster. My brothers now live with my dad, my mom has ZERO custody of either of them, and I live with my grandparents and still talk to my dad because he was and still is the best influence in my life. It really pissed me off that not only my school, but later the cops, and CPS all took my mom's side because my dad couldn't possibly have been the victim because he's a big, strong body builder type. They essentially said it was his fault that this all happened. Thankfully the judge was really nice, and even though there are still things my dad has to deal with, he doesn't have to deal with my mom on a legal level until his divorce from her is finalized.
I'm a full time single dad who works in childcare. Registering my kid with my local GP, I was asked if I had a written letter from the mum saying that I could register them there. Thankfully another receptionist asked if there was an issue and took over (they was a gem). Likewise some of the things that were said to me and about me, when I first got into childcare were questionable (I got asked if I was "alright" to be around children). People are surprised when they find out I'm the full time parent. It's normal for me as most of my full time single parent friends are men.
I've worked at a daycare for about 8 years. I was the first male teacher (sub for teacher aids technically). I've never been mistreated, judged, talked down apon, nothing for being a guy in a women dominated environment. No assumptions about harassment, no assumptions about me being dangerous to the kids (around the kids), nothing.
You need to hold onto your job there because as a woman who teaches in a rough area the 3 male teachers and myself (because I'm a lesbian) all have to leave the door open or ask someone to stay with us in the room if we ever talk to a student one on one. I thought it was for our safety because I've had a lot of threats of violence and sexual harassment against me from students but nope. None of my other wonderful colleagues HAVE to do this. So I'm really really happy that this has never happened to you, seriously it gives me hope that not every place is like this❤
My sister's boyfriend was the stay at home parent to their daughter and got all kinds of crap for it. My sister preferred to work outside the house and he had the better temperament for raising kids anyway.
I think the worst one is where people believe men can’t be SA’d. It’s honestly disgusting, men are laughed at and told “you must have enjoyed it”. Then the same people call for more support for SA victims but they only mean female SA victims.
True story, guy was being mentally abused by his girlfriend and threatened if he breaks up with her she'll ensure he goes to jail for "raping" her. Saying that the cops will believe her over him. Well one day he had enough and called the cops. He told the operator that he was being abused by his girlfriend. Yet the operator on the other line gave a small pause, and then said "Stop being a pussy" before hanging up on him. Not sure what happened to him as he didn't list what he did after. Another story was that this guy was depressed because he had failed in college and it caused him to have really bad mental health. His brother succeeded in the field he wanted and flaunted his success. The guy told his brother to not brag about it when they are together but he did it at a family gathering. His mental health took a turn as he started to cry and left. When he explained to his mother what happened, everyone told him to grow up and stop being jealous. Even people in the comments told him that he's crying as an adult and needs to grow up, and stop playing the victim. So, guys can't have bad mental health triggers nor cry at all? Guy and his girlfriend were having a verbal argument outside. A passing cop car stopped and got out to assess the situation. They end up handcuffing the boyfriend and telling him to be quiet as they talk to the girlfriend first. Meanwhile people are passing by and seeing him cuffed and instantly think he's a criminal. They spend like 20 mins talking to the girlfriend before talking to the guy. They didn't even take five minutes with questioning him before uncuffing him and telling him that he's getting a warning and if it happens again they'll take ONLY him in for disturbing the peace. The girlfriend got off scot free and didn't even get a warning. Finally I have no idea where it is but it's somewhere overseas. In the country it's illegal for minors to engage in sexual activity. But get this, if minors are caught, the female is let go and the male is the only one to get charged. Only because the female has a risk of getting pregnant, and apparently that is punishment enough.
I remember when I called the cops on my mom for threatening my dad with a knife, the cops were ready to arrest my dad even though he didn't do anything wrong. That was so traumatic for my dad he even forgot that day happened and had to ask me at a later date if it actually did happen in the first place. He's gotten no apologies for it. It's fucking disgusting.
@@bombdotcom2168 Also I remember something else that falls into this category. A mother had her son in gymnastics, which he was really good at and loved. He turned 12 and she decided to pull him from it. Stating that since he's at that age she feared he would get immoral thoughts and become a sexual predator towards the younger females in the class. That is ridiculous. She automatically thinks that her child is going to be a predator if he's around younger females?
Similarly along the lines of the last story, if a man and woman are drunk, consensually hook up, and the woman says she was drunk, the man can be charged with ra*e because you can't consent when under the influence. This only applies to women in most cases however. More than likely if it were just the man who was drunk, it would be a similar outcome, at the very least socially. Very stupid.
10:25 It absolutely was because he was handsome, and you weren't. Pretty-Privilege is definitely a thing. The main difference between a woman responding positively or negatively to your approach or compliment, all comes down to whether or not she finds you sexually attractive.
Discovering that you are ugly has an opposite situation. My elder brother systematically destroyed my little Sister's and my self-esteem, bodily autonomy or ever let us feel safe for our entire childhood. He beat us, broke doors with our heads, pinched or slapped us just for being near him, brutalized us while laughing gleefully and sexually molested us. Our parents worked outside of home, our Father was an alcoholic and our Mother was volatile and mercurial. Neither of us were in any way normal in our self-awareness. Then, in High School, I was informed that I lost "Best Looking" in the senior class by two votes. I was stunned, gob-smacked, in utter disbelief, but happy for my close friend who won. AS it turned out my Sister and I weren't stupid, ugly and worthless. Our sadistic brother is a fucking Psychologist! But we got revenge on our curly-haired, freckled, short, bow legged, crooked-toothed brother and torturer...we have had long happy marriages of many decades. He's been married and divorced multiple times. We know of 4 marriages and countless bad relationships. He's an alcoholic and a wife-beater. We haven't spoken to him in decades. We have no good memories of him. He's 77, I'm 74, and my incredible Sister is 72. She married my best friend, we are still very close even thousands of miles apart. Background check your Psychologist!
Not entirely true, yes breast cancer gets more publicity, but the death toll is also higher. (Not saying that it is proportional, just wanted to correct an error) Source : CDC
@@MiniEnder I think he said 60 a week which is 240 a month. Still low, but makes more sense if she's paying for insurance, has half custody, helping with school fees and hobbies, and has a relatively low paying job.
7:00 There was a movie, i forget it’s name, where there was a scene where either a shootout or a drive-by occurred the movie received backlash for it’s “violence towards women” 5 women were shot, 7 men were shot, not to mention the rest of the movie had 0 other female victims of sudden bullet-itis
Men are never loved unconditionally. We always have to give something. Women leave their husbands if they arent measuring up the way they think they should. Men however mostly are more forgiving toward women's imperfections.
I have lived in the pacific nw. What part were they in portland? A man can be a nanny or a teacher without being gay or have something wrong with them. The best teacher i wver had was a man who helped me when i was being bullied. He was kind and funny. Guilty until proven innocent is the penchant of tyrants ans rhe worst of the worst.
At this point I'm convinced that the only three reasons I'm able to get community services to help me find a job despite being a blue-eyed white male is because I'm autistic, my adoptive dad, who was single most of his life and the same minority demographic (yes I'm smart enough to know what a minority ACTUALLY is thanks to the Caucasian community's massive and ever worsening population deficit), is deceased, and my adoptive aunt, who's widowed because her husband died of cancer before I met her and who inherited me as a result of her brother dying of COVID-19 four years ago is the only way I'm able to go to the meetings on time in the first place and an excellent advocate for me. If I could legally have a driver's license (me being autistic is what makes it a crime), they'd probably turn me down and I'd go broke because Social Security will have refused to grant me SSI on the spot.
1:18 I don't blame op for not knowing this but the guy that got his member cute off was abusing his wife for I think years physically, mentally, and emotionally coupled with cheating and he wouldn't let her leave the relationship so she cut it off and tried her very best to vanish
So apparently men cant watch over young kids or kids at all because "they could be kidnappers" but that lady over there in the cloak with a gun shaped item in her pocket definitely Cant kidnap a child because "she's a girl" I'm a girl but I wouldn't Even touch a child without parent permission and than child permission, then again I don't like touching people anyways!!! That's why I don't like going outside 😭😭
Anyone, and I mean anyone can be dangerous. Sure, maybe statistics will show men are more prone to violence, but regardless that doesn't mean we should be cautious of everyone.
I remember watching footage of this woman catching her boyfriend cheating so then she proceeded to run him over. And then the women in the comments were like "Yeah! You go get em, girl!" But I guarantee you that if the roles were reversed those women would have been singing the complete opposite tune.
I'm sorry, what? A human being very well may be dying, and the people are cheering. Im not sure thats all women, that just sounds like a group of complete psychos
I work with kids, and the funny thing is, that people generally have a different reaction to me. It might be a French Canadian thing, but I have one hell of a baby face. (I am in my mid 30s, and people ask me if I'm in the 16-25 range.) Might also be because of my harmless nature, and me being visibly high functioning Asperger's and ADHD. All the teachers have no problem with me, and if there's a kid that really needs someone to talk to, or even need a long term one-on-one tutor, or an EA that learns how to deal with the kids with disabilities, I would get called over, even over the staff with seniority. The parents actually feel more comfortable with me handling kids, than the female staff. In fact, there was this one kid, whenever he'd leave, he'd come and hug me before heading off, and all the parents would just look, smile and wait for their kids. as if it was "Oh, it's just Keiji555. He's fine." (I actually use it to teach the kids consent. I know that if I raise my hands up when a kid goes to hug me, they will think it's about them, not about the system set up against us.) The only person that really treated me like I knew nothing about the kids was a TA that I worked with for several years. The longer I worked with her, the more she treated me like an idiot. When dealing with a kid that she worked with for a year, that I was assigned to, I asked how to handle him, and she pretty much brushed me off. Then when I'd faceplant, she would come in, talk to me like I was an idiot, as if I should have already know how to deal with the kid, which would cause him not to listen to me. She would always try to talk over me when I took a short break between speaking, then the one time I snapped telling her to let me finish what I was saying, she huffed and walked out. The Vice-Principal was part of a three-way dialogue between the three of us, and when I apologized to him (This was in the lunch room) and he just brushed it off, saying that he understood, and that she was rude and should have let me finish what I had to say. (I take people cutting me off as something extremely rude and disrespectful. Funny since I'm in DnD.) Oftentimes, when she says a kid is impossible to deal with, I walk in, and within 24 hours, I figure out how the kid works, how to communicate with the kid, and how to convince them to do their homework. In a class which 4 kids (different class from the other kid mentioned above) that needed special attention, I managed to get the 3 of them that she said were impossible, but the one obedient kid in her opinion, may have liked me, but he would never sit still, even when I applied the usual stuff that he agreed with. (Just a note. A boy on the spectrum that needs space and extra time to recharge needs a non-verbal form of communication. Just a quick tap on the leg, eye contact, and respect for his personal space could get such a boy to put down what he is doing and go back to work. Not just getting in his face and telling him to get back to work, or even just grabbing what he is doing. He will just get defensive, and you've lost him until recess, or after five minutes. In fact, the teacher was so impressed, that she applied this to him when I was not in the class, and she said it worked like a charm, and even the principal agreed this was the best way. Guess when are the only situations this kid did not cooperate when he needed to get back to work?) Hell, the principal always trusted my judgement. Yugioh and pokemon cards getting disruptive? When I asked the principal, she simply replied, cutting me off saying "Absolutely." In a way that sounded like she was waiting for me to approach her. And the employee that always gave me problems? She was a boomer that used nothing but old ways, made comments like "Pokemon cards only causes fights and arguments between kids" And she was the oldest member of the staff, and she hated Christmas and Halloween. And her son was a substitute teacher, at her recommendation, and he was okay... But he was so boring, like he had no real outstanding trait, that no one remembered him. The kids didn't remember him, I didn't remember him, the faculty didn't remember him... And he hated Christmas and Halloween according to her as well.
I was a massage therapist .. the men therapist's did not get booked as much as the females did. Men don't necessarily like men working on them and some women don't either. It is extremely unfair. Plus they are more likely to get a female saying he groped me. As a female I had a couple of guys think they could have a different ending.. they were 86d.
One time when I worked as a security guard in a utilities building: I was called in by the site manager because the female custodians thought I was creeping on them because I was wandering the Halls.... As a security guard.... Which was my job... They didn't even apologize when I called them out for me doing my job as a security guard patrolling the entrances and exits...
We live in the #METOO era. I dont want to talk, be left alone with, be near any women that isn't my wife, family or friends. I don't trust one and had misconceptions happen because a woman assumed something i said or did. We're the villain no matter what!
Got the point now where if I see a woman being victims of a crime right in front of me. Or see a lost child crying. The negatives and potential ramifications outweigh my need to help them. That’s what police are for
It’s like a ship going down! Women and children first! Ah, hello! Maybe the men would like to live as well…. I’m lookin at you Titanic! That was just bullshit!
The biggest example to me is in how women hit on/try to pick up men. for so many women, if they are interested in a guy, instead of telling him, or asking him out, ask for his number, etc, they will simply talk to him, be nice to him, in the hope that he will proposition her. they EXPECT the guy to push himself on them if, in their mind, "he is really interested". what makes it the top for me is that this view is so insidious that its become the standard operating procedure for picking up men (and you see similar everywhere, esp on dating sites/apps). and worse, it becomes a requirement for dating, that a man must be rapey. and the assumption that most men ARE that way. there is no consideration given to the fact that guys that are good men, who are respectful, simply aren't going to just hit on every woman they see. its "The jerk syndrome" (the idea of a woman being so attractive that no man with half a brain will consider asking her out because he knows he doesn't have a shot, meaning the only ones that WOULD ask her out are the jerks), but expanded and twisted to encompass the whole of dating. so its not just sexist in that it assumes men will just force themselves on women they are interested it, but also it rewards men who do do that. it makes it frustrating when you aren't toxic like that, but esp if you are seeing women friends who keep ending up with lowlifes but you can't point out its because they don't recognize that men initiating things, esp in that way, is actually a red flag.
F the lady who steered the conversation to interpersonal information then had the gall ti call her bf and uno reverse the OP. Also screw false Esex Harr. Complaints/reports.
the "i am ugly" story just shows that women can't accept compiments from someone unattractive wo attacking them. sorry, its true. no, the guy was clearly not hitting on her and being a closer friend and a friend of her partner only enforces that fact. but he is an unattractive guy and he did say something that indicates there might be slight attraction on his part(if you stretch it for long enough) therefore, straight to jail.
In regards to Story #6, partially the reason men are seen as more disposable is because of reproduction rates. The ideal woman to man ratio for rapid reproduction is 7 women to every 1 man. Given that there is nearly always an equal number of men and women in a given society, this means that a lot of men can die before there is a reproductive disbalance. This is assuming no infertility issues or similar things. And throwing in children is just to tug at heart strings.
Things like sewing, tailoring and dressmaking... I joined a class once, but they were double standard to me, to a point that one of the women in that class pestered me until I leave! Maybe she's jealous that I made so much progress that she devised that plan to expel me? Anyway, beware of women who wants to be your friends, especially the married ones! A women should only be your mom, sister, cousins, wife or daughters! There's no such thing as a 'safe' girlfriend; they always spell trouble! Other types of relationships are dangerous and detrimental to men, and can lead to being fired. Women always regards men as trash, but they forgot that they made it in the first place.
i wonder if most of the women that where minecrafted by their husbands were actually the bad people and the men that minecrafted them where good men just trying to protect other good men from having their lives destroyed by those evil women but society has brainwashed us into believing all the women who where minecrafted by their husbands where all innocent angels that could do no wrong
I wear Kilt rather often. 🙂 and damnnnnnn the $hit I get sometimes. From men and women. I DO get much more nice words then shit. 🙂 But It is interesting and f*cking sickining sometimes. the "best" is when women that I know hate sexism do it, to Me. and thinks it is funny.
Misanthrope on the spectrum here. It really bugs me that women expect men to be strong and thuggish and yet the moment anyone with a Y chromosome acts that way, they pull out the phone and report the guy as a rapist. I really hate the sexism in today's society and am happy to be the uninterested introvert I currently am. I guess second-wave feminism worked a little too well if -third-wave feminism- the #MeToo movement gave rise to matriarchy standards and #MGTOW.
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perfect sense
Thanks for the cool video, I'm glad to see a video talking about men's issues that isn't full of hate all women rhetoric in the comments. This is the first time I've ever seen this happen.
I do want to correct one point just in case because it's used to hurt women all the time and I also want to give people a little hope.
The facilities to help men with abuse, there are actually more than you think so please Google the ones in your area and support them. They need it!
The issue with women initiating divorce. It's just false to say this is sexism against men, the REASON women initiate divorce is because of feminist movements helping them to realize they don't have to be doormats. This is an issue pushed by awful men that hurts everyone so using that stat to say it's harmful to men just pushes women back into the box of they have to do everything.
The stats I've found are women do the majority of (in households where they both work) childcare, house chores, house maintenance, yard work, relationship work (described as planning dates, starting communication etc) handling finances and handling schedules. If I'm doing the majority of everything in a marriage of course I'm going to leave. If ANYONE is doing the majority of everything in a marriage and they don't have a partner willing to listen they should leave. Life is too short to live it being unhappy.
I also really hate that they bring up "society is the one oppressing men!" Men lead society right now in the us they also lead the government. Example being: all the major influencers are men, there is an exception with all the major celebrities being women except for Mr weirdo (if you know you know, he's not bad just... why does he act this way weird) but time and time again it's proven celebrities do not have influence over general people quite like TH-camrs. Example being: Taylor swift (the most influential celebrity right now) posted to buy her makeup line last year and they shut down and didn't but from it, she also said to support this foundation (I don't remember the name) and they saw a 1% raise in funds but in reality they got a .7% raise in funds every year so while that's a lot the .3% was not a lot for her following.
On the flip side markiplier raises unbelievable numbers for charities and he deserves every ounce of praise. When he says "Stop doing this" people stop, you can tell in Nintendo (Nintendo is known for being power hungry and a vicious bully as a company) backing off from trying to harass a black creator for using a modded game he also played.
Minilad is still seen as positive figure even after admitting to grooming teens. Andrew tate is still making money off content after being in jail for trafficking kids. The fact he got a platform after spreading nothing but false info in the first place disturbs me. Taylor swift still hasn't recovered at all from her dating a racist guy but Jeffery star is sitting pretty associating with over 11 different *convicted* child assaulters. Most notable is he told an 11 year old they were lying and to go harass them in 2017 and scene did, that child hasn't gotten justice for what dahvie vanity has done to date. These are just examples to prove my point be cause I know most people don't keep up with the social politics as much. Clearly I don't have to bring up the gov politics, we are all aware.
Yes, men are victims of things in the us but to literally site that it's not an issue pushed by other men is insane to me. Living in the us after living in Europe so long, there is an unbelievable culture difference and the danger in the us is so much more prevalent.
I also wanted to add my own double standards they didn't mention in this video, lesbians are treated WAY better in the media than gays and lesbians are far more likely to be able to adopt children. My only gripe is gay men are way more accepted to sexually assault women by other women (not by other men though I'm learning. Pete Davidson made a skit about it) but everything else about lgbtq acceptance is far more lenient to women which is disappointing to me. I'd love to have a talk on this but it's pretty un needed.
Men's medical research is by far not as cared about as women's research. Breast cancer is one of the most researched disease that exists but colon cancer is still in the dark ages and this says a lot because the medical field itself is still in the dark ages.
The us law on "grape" (if you don't understand you're not old enough to read this) also requires, updated as of 2018, for penetration. Seems fine right? Well think about how women sexually assault men... yeah. This makes all cases after this law to be skewed.
The Tarzan actor at Disney was removed because women refused to keep their hands to themselves.
Underaged Boys (under 16) are more likely to be sexually pressured into things they don't wanna do by underage girls (under 16)
I can expand on anything but remember I can't give links on TH-cam sadly so if you want the sites you'll have to dig a little after I give the title
7:35 In the early 2000s a man named Earl Silverman started up a domestic violence shelter for men called Mens Alternative Safe House. He received a lot of backlash and harassment for it, but ultimately managed to keep the shelter running until 2013 where lack of funding forced him to shut down and he was found dead by hanging in his home. He was an abuse survivor himself, just trying to help other men in his situation and it's disgusting that anyone would meet genuine attempts to help others with scorn and abuse because they believe the target of that help either doesn't need it or doesn't deserve it.
Exactly this, I wish they didn't add in their list the divorce rates (because that's a sexism against women issue and doesn't fit this at all)
I met someone who was the brother of this man online a few months ago. They started another foundation, I didn't really keep up with it but I know you can donate to it because I did. I'll try to find it again and link it here so others can know about it because it exists. His legacy lives on
Ad this is why feminism (3d wave+) is dead to me. Equality is a lie.
"How could you not be interested in me? Are you gay?"
Lady, if a man was harassing you the way you've been harassing me, half the people here would've called the cops by now and the other half would be filming for evidence. Go. Away.
That thinking is the height of narcissism to me: 'if you aren't interested in ME, that can only mean you don't swing that way at all'.
The part about being disposable is so incredibly true. People say that they care about if a man dies but they really don't. It's only women children and animals that are loved unconditionally.
My dad is my best friend, and always has been. Hell, he's not even biologically my dad and he's the most important person in my life right now. I can't wrap my head around that mindset of men being useless or disposable. So many people, even the woman who gave birth to me, treated him like nothing more than a free wallet she could abuse, and it really just pisses me off seeing how people could act that way towards their fellow humans simply because they have a dick and a deeper voice. It's so fucked up.
And my husband. I love him under no condition ❤
Why are men so despised in today's society?
@@CynDiaz we need more woman like you
honestly not really, women just get used as sex objects most of the time. Men are found credible and more worthy of women as they can do more things.
My dad was in an abusive relationship with the woman who gave birth to me for over a decade. When we called the cops on her violent and likely drug induced outbursts, he was often questioned by police first and when CPS got involved, he was painted as a monster.
My brothers now live with my dad, my mom has ZERO custody of either of them, and I live with my grandparents and still talk to my dad because he was and still is the best influence in my life. It really pissed me off that not only my school, but later the cops, and CPS all took my mom's side because my dad couldn't possibly have been the victim because he's a big, strong body builder type. They essentially said it was his fault that this all happened. Thankfully the judge was really nice, and even though there are still things my dad has to deal with, he doesn't have to deal with my mom on a legal level until his divorce from her is finalized.
Damn sorry to hear that mate. Hope things got better in your life.
I'm a full time single dad who works in childcare.
Registering my kid with my local GP, I was asked if I had a written letter from the mum saying that I could register them there. Thankfully another receptionist asked if there was an issue and took over (they was a gem).
Likewise some of the things that were said to me and about me, when I first got into childcare were questionable (I got asked if I was "alright" to be around children).
People are surprised when they find out I'm the full time parent. It's normal for me as most of my full time single parent friends are men.
I've worked at a daycare for about 8 years. I was the first male teacher (sub for teacher aids technically). I've never been mistreated, judged, talked down apon, nothing for being a guy in a women dominated environment.
No assumptions about harassment, no assumptions about me being dangerous to the kids (around the kids), nothing.
You need to hold onto your job there because as a woman who teaches in a rough area the 3 male teachers and myself (because I'm a lesbian) all have to leave the door open or ask someone to stay with us in the room if we ever talk to a student one on one.
I thought it was for our safety because I've had a lot of threats of violence and sexual harassment against me from students but nope. None of my other wonderful colleagues HAVE to do this. So I'm really really happy that this has never happened to you, seriously it gives me hope that not every place is like this❤
My sister's boyfriend was the stay at home parent to their daughter and got all kinds of crap for it. My sister preferred to work outside the house and he had the better temperament for raising kids anyway.
I think the worst one is where people believe men can’t be SA’d. It’s honestly disgusting, men are laughed at and told “you must have enjoyed it”. Then the same people call for more support for SA victims but they only mean female SA victims.
True story, guy was being mentally abused by his girlfriend and threatened if he breaks up with her she'll ensure he goes to jail for "raping" her. Saying that the cops will believe her over him. Well one day he had enough and called the cops. He told the operator that he was being abused by his girlfriend. Yet the operator on the other line gave a small pause, and then said "Stop being a pussy" before hanging up on him. Not sure what happened to him as he didn't list what he did after.
Another story was that this guy was depressed because he had failed in college and it caused him to have really bad mental health. His brother succeeded in the field he wanted and flaunted his success. The guy told his brother to not brag about it when they are together but he did it at a family gathering. His mental health took a turn as he started to cry and left. When he explained to his mother what happened, everyone told him to grow up and stop being jealous. Even people in the comments told him that he's crying as an adult and needs to grow up, and stop playing the victim. So, guys can't have bad mental health triggers nor cry at all?
Guy and his girlfriend were having a verbal argument outside. A passing cop car stopped and got out to assess the situation. They end up handcuffing the boyfriend and telling him to be quiet as they talk to the girlfriend first. Meanwhile people are passing by and seeing him cuffed and instantly think he's a criminal. They spend like 20 mins talking to the girlfriend before talking to the guy. They didn't even take five minutes with questioning him before uncuffing him and telling him that he's getting a warning and if it happens again they'll take ONLY him in for disturbing the peace. The girlfriend got off scot free and didn't even get a warning.
Finally I have no idea where it is but it's somewhere overseas. In the country it's illegal for minors to engage in sexual activity. But get this, if minors are caught, the female is let go and the male is the only one to get charged. Only because the female has a risk of getting pregnant, and apparently that is punishment enough.
I remember when I called the cops on my mom for threatening my dad with a knife, the cops were ready to arrest my dad even though he didn't do anything wrong. That was so traumatic for my dad he even forgot that day happened and had to ask me at a later date if it actually did happen in the first place.
He's gotten no apologies for it. It's fucking disgusting.
@@bombdotcom2168 Also I remember something else that falls into this category. A mother had her son in gymnastics, which he was really good at and loved. He turned 12 and she decided to pull him from it. Stating that since he's at that age she feared he would get immoral thoughts and become a sexual predator towards the younger females in the class. That is ridiculous. She automatically thinks that her child is going to be a predator if he's around younger females?
@Neck41 Yeah- instead of just teaching him about stuff like that she pulled him from a great hobby
Similarly along the lines of the last story, if a man and woman are drunk, consensually hook up, and the woman says she was drunk, the man can be charged with ra*e because you can't consent when under the influence. This only applies to women in most cases however. More than likely if it were just the man who was drunk, it would be a similar outcome, at the very least socially. Very stupid.
@@rocketcraft2543 on top of that, in some US states, rape is legally defined as having a male perpetrator
2:44 Like when you burn a body at a crematorium you’re “being a respectful friend”, but when you do it at home you’re “destroying evidence”
10:25 It absolutely was because he was handsome, and you weren't. Pretty-Privilege is definitely a thing. The main difference between a woman responding positively or negatively to your approach or compliment, all comes down to whether or not she finds you sexually attractive.
And that is normal. I don't find that women should please a man as a charity act.
@@gabrieldee345don5 Of course not. But at the same time, they then shouldn't be griping so much about my so many men never approach them anymore.
Discovering that you are ugly has an opposite situation. My elder brother systematically destroyed my little Sister's and my self-esteem, bodily autonomy or ever let us feel safe for our entire childhood. He beat us, broke doors with our heads, pinched or slapped us just for being near him, brutalized us while laughing gleefully and sexually molested us. Our parents worked outside of home, our Father was an alcoholic and our Mother was volatile and mercurial. Neither of us were in any way normal in our self-awareness.
Then, in High School, I was informed that I lost "Best Looking" in the senior class by two votes. I was stunned, gob-smacked, in utter disbelief, but happy for my close friend who won.
AS it turned out my Sister and I weren't stupid, ugly and worthless. Our sadistic brother is a fucking Psychologist! But we got revenge on our curly-haired, freckled, short, bow legged, crooked-toothed brother and torturer...we have had long happy marriages of many decades. He's been married and divorced multiple times. We know of 4 marriages and countless bad relationships. He's an alcoholic and a wife-beater. We haven't spoken to him in decades. We have no good memories of him. He's 77, I'm 74, and my incredible Sister is 72. She married my best friend, we are still very close even thousands of miles apart. Background check your Psychologist!
That even though Prostate Cancer kills more men, Breast Cancer gets more attention and it's not even close.
Not entirely true, yes breast cancer gets more publicity, but the death toll is also higher. (Not saying that it is proportional, just wanted to correct an error)
Source : CDC
Though, if prostate cancer did receive more attention, would it really change THAT much?
I think we should just separate gender from cancer, men can get breast cancer too
$60 for child’s support, while men would be forced to pay so much that they could become homeless or just commit suicide. Man, that’s just evil.
I'm curious if he misspoke and said 60 instead of 600 because that is the lowest I have ever seen for child support amounts.
@@MiniEnder right.
My dad has to pay my mom 1700$ a month in child support. Like why
@@ChocolateTurtleCookies damn, I take it he has a pretty good job.
@@MiniEnder I think he said 60 a week which is 240 a month. Still low, but makes more sense if she's paying for insurance, has half custody, helping with school fees and hobbies, and has a relatively low paying job.
14:50 Why does this guy sound like British Markiplier?
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There was a movie, i forget it’s name, where there was a scene where either a shootout or a drive-by occurred
the movie received backlash for it’s “violence towards women”
5 women were shot, 7 men were shot, not to mention the rest of the movie had 0 other female victims of sudden bullet-itis
Men are never loved unconditionally. We always have to give something. Women leave their husbands if they arent measuring up the way they think they should. Men however mostly are more forgiving toward women's imperfections.
I have lived in the pacific nw. What part were they in portland? A man can be a nanny or a teacher without being gay or have something wrong with them. The best teacher i wver had was a man who helped me when i was being bullied. He was kind and funny. Guilty until proven innocent is the penchant of tyrants ans rhe worst of the worst.
Welcome to modern day america definitely laden with tyrants these days so much so it’s considered normal
It's definitely more common now, but 10 years ago, it definitely was looked on more scrupulously.
“All men only want sex” and “man up and push through it” :(
At this point I'm convinced that the only three reasons I'm able to get community services to help me find a job despite being a blue-eyed white male is because I'm autistic, my adoptive dad, who was single most of his life and the same minority demographic (yes I'm smart enough to know what a minority ACTUALLY is thanks to the Caucasian community's massive and ever worsening population deficit), is deceased, and my adoptive aunt, who's widowed because her husband died of cancer before I met her and who inherited me as a result of her brother dying of COVID-19 four years ago is the only way I'm able to go to the meetings on time in the first place and an excellent advocate for me. If I could legally have a driver's license (me being autistic is what makes it a crime), they'd probably turn me down and I'd go broke because Social Security will have refused to grant me SSI on the spot.
1:18 I don't blame op for not knowing this but the guy that got his member cute off was abusing his wife for I think years physically, mentally, and emotionally coupled with cheating and he wouldn't let her leave the relationship so she cut it off and tried her very best to vanish
So apparently men cant watch over young kids or kids at all because "they could be kidnappers" but that lady over there in the cloak with a gun shaped item in her pocket definitely Cant kidnap a child because "she's a girl" I'm a girl but I wouldn't Even touch a child without parent permission and than child permission, then again I don't like touching people anyways!!! That's why I don't like going outside 😭😭
Anyone, and I mean anyone can be dangerous. Sure, maybe statistics will show men are more prone to violence, but regardless that doesn't mean we should be cautious of everyone.
@bombdotcom2168 yeah
I remember watching footage of this woman catching her boyfriend cheating so then she proceeded to run him over. And then the women in the comments were like "Yeah! You go get em, girl!" But I guarantee you that if the roles were reversed those women would have been singing the complete opposite tune.
I'm sorry, what? A human being very well may be dying, and the people are cheering. Im not sure thats all women, that just sounds like a group of complete psychos
I work with kids, and the funny thing is, that people generally have a different reaction to me. It might be a French Canadian thing, but I have one hell of a baby face. (I am in my mid 30s, and people ask me if I'm in the 16-25 range.) Might also be because of my harmless nature, and me being visibly high functioning Asperger's and ADHD.
All the teachers have no problem with me, and if there's a kid that really needs someone to talk to, or even need a long term one-on-one tutor, or an EA that learns how to deal with the kids with disabilities, I would get called over, even over the staff with seniority. The parents actually feel more comfortable with me handling kids, than the female staff. In fact, there was this one kid, whenever he'd leave, he'd come and hug me before heading off, and all the parents would just look, smile and wait for their kids. as if it was "Oh, it's just Keiji555. He's fine." (I actually use it to teach the kids consent. I know that if I raise my hands up when a kid goes to hug me, they will think it's about them, not about the system set up against us.)
The only person that really treated me like I knew nothing about the kids was a TA that I worked with for several years. The longer I worked with her, the more she treated me like an idiot. When dealing with a kid that she worked with for a year, that I was assigned to, I asked how to handle him, and she pretty much brushed me off. Then when I'd faceplant, she would come in, talk to me like I was an idiot, as if I should have already know how to deal with the kid, which would cause him not to listen to me. She would always try to talk over me when I took a short break between speaking, then the one time I snapped telling her to let me finish what I was saying, she huffed and walked out. The Vice-Principal was part of a three-way dialogue between the three of us, and when I apologized to him (This was in the lunch room) and he just brushed it off, saying that he understood, and that she was rude and should have let me finish what I had to say. (I take people cutting me off as something extremely rude and disrespectful. Funny since I'm in DnD.)
Oftentimes, when she says a kid is impossible to deal with, I walk in, and within 24 hours, I figure out how the kid works, how to communicate with the kid, and how to convince them to do their homework. In a class which 4 kids (different class from the other kid mentioned above) that needed special attention, I managed to get the 3 of them that she said were impossible, but the one obedient kid in her opinion, may have liked me, but he would never sit still, even when I applied the usual stuff that he agreed with. (Just a note. A boy on the spectrum that needs space and extra time to recharge needs a non-verbal form of communication. Just a quick tap on the leg, eye contact, and respect for his personal space could get such a boy to put down what he is doing and go back to work. Not just getting in his face and telling him to get back to work, or even just grabbing what he is doing. He will just get defensive, and you've lost him until recess, or after five minutes. In fact, the teacher was so impressed, that she applied this to him when I was not in the class, and she said it worked like a charm, and even the principal agreed this was the best way. Guess when are the only situations this kid did not cooperate when he needed to get back to work?)
Hell, the principal always trusted my judgement. Yugioh and pokemon cards getting disruptive? When I asked the principal, she simply replied, cutting me off saying "Absolutely." In a way that sounded like she was waiting for me to approach her.
And the employee that always gave me problems? She was a boomer that used nothing but old ways, made comments like "Pokemon cards only causes fights and arguments between kids" And she was the oldest member of the staff, and she hated Christmas and Halloween. And her son was a substitute teacher, at her recommendation, and he was okay... But he was so boring, like he had no real outstanding trait, that no one remembered him. The kids didn't remember him, I didn't remember him, the faculty didn't remember him... And he hated Christmas and Halloween according to her as well.
I was a massage therapist .. the men therapist's did not get booked as much as the females did. Men don't necessarily like men working on them and some women don't either. It is extremely unfair. Plus they are more likely to get a female saying he groped me. As a female I had a couple of guys think they could have a different ending.. they were 86d.
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"your parents must be embarrased"
"your parent must be dead"
Yeah, it’s the sad truth that people deny
One time when I worked as a security guard in a utilities building: I was called in by the site manager because the female custodians thought I was creeping on them because I was wandering the Halls.... As a security guard.... Which was my job...
They didn't even apologize when I called them out for me doing my job as a security guard patrolling the entrances and exits...
We live in the #METOO era. I dont want to talk, be left alone with, be near any women that isn't my wife, family or friends. I don't trust one and had misconceptions happen because a woman assumed something i said or did. We're the villain no matter what!
Got the point now where if I see a woman being victims of a crime right in front of me.
Or see a lost child crying.
The negatives and potential ramifications outweigh my need to help them.
That’s what police are for
I'd trust a male nurse more than a female nurse. They get a lot of shit for any mistake so most surviving nurses probably take great care not to.
My teacher once had a university classmate who was expelled for complimenting a female classmate on her skirt
this new guy was absolutely amazing cant wait for more
New guy?
This is the same man who does the voices how can you not to tell
It’s like a ship going down! Women and children first! Ah, hello! Maybe the men would like to live as well…. I’m lookin at you Titanic! That was just bullshit!
why am I just now seeing this video damn this video speaks on too many sexism-based facts.
It's stupid to say that it's weird for men to want to look after children that aren't their own. Nobody has a problem when women do it
The biggest example to me is in how women hit on/try to pick up men. for so many women, if they are interested in a guy, instead of telling him, or asking him out, ask for his number, etc, they will simply talk to him, be nice to him, in the hope that he will proposition her.
they EXPECT the guy to push himself on them if, in their mind, "he is really interested".
what makes it the top for me is that this view is so insidious that its become the standard operating procedure for picking up men (and you see similar everywhere, esp on dating sites/apps). and worse, it becomes a requirement for dating, that a man must be rapey. and the assumption that most men ARE that way.
there is no consideration given to the fact that guys that are good men, who are respectful, simply aren't going to just hit on every woman they see. its "The jerk syndrome" (the idea of a woman being so attractive that no man with half a brain will consider asking her out because he knows he doesn't have a shot, meaning the only ones that WOULD ask her out are the jerks), but expanded and twisted to encompass the whole of dating.
so its not just sexist in that it assumes men will just force themselves on women they are interested it, but also it rewards men who do do that. it makes it frustrating when you aren't toxic like that, but esp if you are seeing women friends who keep ending up with lowlifes but you can't point out its because they don't recognize that men initiating things, esp in that way, is actually a red flag.
F the lady who steered the conversation to interpersonal information then had the gall ti call her bf and uno reverse the OP. Also screw false Esex Harr. Complaints/reports.
Mr mom was this Michael Keaton movie from early 90s or late 80s where he's a dad having to parent like an actual dad should
I am slowly becoming a misanthrope every day
Honestly same
Likewise
the "i am ugly" story just shows that women can't accept compiments from someone unattractive wo attacking them. sorry, its true. no, the guy was clearly not hitting on her and being a closer friend and a friend of her partner only enforces that fact. but he is an unattractive guy and he did say something that indicates there might be slight attraction on his part(if you stretch it for long enough) therefore, straight to jail.
In regards to Story #6, partially the reason men are seen as more disposable is because of reproduction rates. The ideal woman to man ratio for rapid reproduction is 7 women to every 1 man. Given that there is nearly always an equal number of men and women in a given society, this means that a lot of men can die before there is a reproductive disbalance. This is assuming no infertility issues or similar things.
And throwing in children is just to tug at heart strings.
Things like sewing, tailoring and dressmaking... I joined a class once, but they were double standard to me, to a point that one of the women in that class pestered me until I leave!
Maybe she's jealous that I made so much progress that she devised that plan to expel me?
Anyway, beware of women who wants to be your friends, especially the married ones! A women should only be your mom, sister, cousins, wife or daughters! There's no such thing as a 'safe' girlfriend; they always spell trouble!
Other types of relationships are dangerous and detrimental to men, and can lead to being fired. Women always regards men as trash, but they forgot that they made it in the first place.
Interesting
Just because I like talking to children doesn't mean I'm a pedophile.
Since wen did Legos have a Jender side?
i wonder if most of the women that where minecrafted by their husbands were actually the bad people and the men that minecrafted them where good men just trying to protect other good men from having their lives destroyed by those evil women but society has brainwashed us into believing all the women who where minecrafted by their husbands where all innocent angels that could do no wrong
Story 9, jesus
bro the second one is crazy people think men should be hurt like that are stupid
Story 8: man is a Simp
I wear Kilt rather often. 🙂 and damnnnnnn the $hit I get sometimes. From men and women.
I DO get much more nice words then shit. 🙂
But It is interesting and f*cking sickining sometimes.
the "best" is when women that I know hate sexism do it, to Me. and thinks it is funny.
Misanthrope on the spectrum here. It really bugs me that women expect men to be strong and thuggish and yet the moment anyone with a Y chromosome acts that way, they pull out the phone and report the guy as a rapist. I really hate the sexism in today's society and am happy to be the uninterested introvert I currently am. I guess second-wave feminism worked a little too well if -third-wave feminism- the #MeToo movement gave rise to matriarchy standards and #MGTOW.
School
I dont get any child support. 2 kids. I deal with it. 😅
F Spez!!!!
Good story lines, but the gutter language is not needed. Definitely will NOT subscribe or listen to future stories.
Damn, thats a fucking shame.
Damn fucking shame indeed
Your commentary is so annoying
Then don't watch it