3½ years with a Fearful avoidant. She got triggered, deactivated and broke up. And then she rebounded 26 days later with a complete random polar opposite guy. Meet him the first night she went out. 11 months since the breakup, 10 months they are still together. Yes to the public display and yes to lightning fast intro to her family. We'd both been single for almost two years when we meet. We were together for more than a year before we even told our kids about our relationship, 1½ before the intro and going public on facebook. From the first meeting with the rebound to "in a relationship on FB", 2 months. Crazy. Have lost hope, but sadly not my feelings for her. Still sooo painful, every day.
What about a rebound to someone they already knew. A friend of the family but not someone they hung out with or anything. Just someone they knew as kids but never romantically involved
It means the person monkey branched. It depends on the depth of emotional attachment the two have developed. Still, it's a form of betrayal and often nothing good comes out of it since monkey branching (especially if the monkey brancher was aware of how much s/he was loved) is built upon an unstable, conniving, foundation. Also, the monkey brancher has not properly processed the previous relationship ending. The monkey brancher is an opportunist.
Sure it shouldn't concern you ..when your woman .is getting ran thru day and night in her innocent rebound relationship ..lol...sure ..wait for her to come back after he's done shot his DNA in all her openings ..yes welcome her back..my god...pathetic...once she is soiled out in the streets ..a real man would never accept filth back...time for some self respect ..
I had just ended my rebound, when I saw ex and she made like she wanted to give us another try, a month later she had a new boyfriend that she's moving way fast with. What's funny is she says she wants to go experince (was very much a shut in for most of it up till me) and she's gotten with a couch potato! She even went off with me as friends for New Years and didn't see him for 2 weeks (he lives 2 hours away and I live very close by) this weekend she had him come and stay the whole weekend with her, like she's over compensating
My ex rebounded to the type of guy who i remember when we were still in the talking stages that she said wasn’t her type. She already moved in with him 30 days after i broke up with her and they’ve only been official for a month. The pictures, meeting her family, blah blah she’s already done it within a 30-60 day timeframe. Me and my ex were talking for 2 months before we even met up in person
What if you dated your ex, then stopped because communication style didn’t align. Then reconnected 2 yrs later, start dating and 7 months in he confesses that he was dating someone when we started dating again but he left her for me? He still is unable to fully be present as he’s a fearful avoidant I’m learning now, that an ex hurt him badly by cheating and he now says he’s never been able to stay with anyone. He still wants to be friends but I’ve stopped reaching out, it’s just making me miserable as he will not meet up with me to really talk. In my opinion he found someone else to be with, he can’t handle difficulties in a relationship since he avoids vulnerability 😢. Am I the rebound if I met him a few years ago and he left his last girlfriend who he says he was about to breakup with anyway?
My Husband was having an affair and has left me to live with his mistress, it has been nearly two years so I assume he is not coming back. He has put in for a divorce now so I believe he will come back. It would have been 37 years we would have been married. He goes on holidays and introduced her to his family. I just want to know if he will ever regret what he’s done and come back to me. I have hoped for so long.
@@remyd1984what is the difference? explain how the results are different? seems to be 2 different starts with the same endings due to not taking time between, but i’m not sure.
@@h7pubg the person who rebounded is just lost and hurt so jumps straight in to hide the pain (still morally a good person) the person who monkey branches has no moral’s because at the very least was emotionally cheating! The rebound to be fixed and worked on. The monkey branch should be let go forever imo
@@remyd1984the only real difference is with monkey branching you got to know the person a little more than a rebound. But you can monkey branch into a rebound. Like for example for bf you with might be a little soft hearted and you find a guy that’s maybe tuff and you talked to him for a bit and monkey branched towards him and left your bf because he had something you were more attached to. But your boyfriend was really good to you and you both had a good relationship.
We've been in 8 year relationship. I was 19 and she was 17 when we met for the first time and our relationship was full of moments and good times. We went on trips, vacations, dinners and we have same hobbies. We also adopted a dog that I still take care of. The last year was kinda rough, there was a lot of arguments for stupid things.. and eventually I wanted from her to take a break for a week to settle things down. Then a week later I realized she is already meeting a guy that was her friend in a college and told me how everything is perfect with him and there is no arguments etc.. Is that the typical "grass is greener" and "rebound relationship? I tried to fix the things up for 1 week but she ignored me. She still keep everything from me and our pictures are still in her social media. I am so confused at this point because she is just behaving so immature. I am in no contact for 2 months now.
She monkey beached. But do nothing bruh my ex left me for somone else we were in a ldr and ig she left because she wanted someone closer she monkey branched as well and lied to me saying she wanted to be single. Just do you and work on yourself. If you were good to her and had good memories she’ll be Back she probably left you for a little reason that the other guy did better than you and she hold on to that. She may tell you she moved on but you can’t forget all those good memories and a good guy. Iv been going ok no contact for 5 months since she broke up with me and three weeks of being blocked when I asked her about the guy and how she got in a relationship so fast and she told me she moved on. She moving pretty fast with him since she already moved in with him just within 2-3 months.just be wrong bro and keep me updated
@@keithbrown2425 It's been over 5 months now and I am in no contact. She never reached out, but I am perfectly fine. I've met another girl and she is gorgeous. She behaves like a grown person, she have a well-paid job, she is intellectual and we are both contributing to this relationship. I can assure you that in time you no longer will regret the breakup. Even if she reach you after months/years, don't be delusional to enter that trap again. She will play with you and use you as a supply because that's what narcissist do. Time heals everything and you gotta know your value! Go to gym, read books, work hard and do your favourite things in your life, the right person will come at you.
Last wk Ex tried to sleep with me while with rebound (he didn’t know I knew about her) I had a go at him and told her. Did I push them closer together by doing this? He started seeing her 3wks after me and have been together nearly 3 mths now. 😢
hes hitting basically everything you mentioned except for the rebound being a new person and idk if hes making any comparison. in his case its a former friend i introduced him to. that guy ended up blowing up and losing all his friends for being transphobic and making nazi jokes. recently overheard a mutual friend say that hes complaining to him about how that guy is an asshole to everyone making him uncomfortable hanging out with the guy and how that guy still refuses to use his preferred gender(hes trans) and that theres probably more issues but he decided to change subject with the mutual to something less negative. other friends who knew and worked with that guy all tell me hes toxic so its either not gonna last or hes gonna be unhappy in the rebound. either way its his loss really
My ex gf got married like in 2months. We broke up in June 2023 then she got married in August 2023. I was with her for 1 year and 6 months. How can she move on so fast? I am working on myself and rushing things. Please can you emphasise on this. I broke up with her because she called me horrible names like perv, paedophile and it was just crazy and i felt I couldn’t continue with her at all. I was about to get married to her on 13th June but called it off. Did i make the rught choice? What if i give her time would she have changed and respected but she disrespected me by swearing to me for no reason and she was very insecure. Please help like is she in rebound marriage?
I can emphasize my man, I was with my ex for almost 2 years. My brother told me she got a new guy after less than a month the new guy even tried to make me jealous. Long story short mow she's pregnant but I feel like it's his problem now...your not alone brother man stay strong out here
Ex doesn't have social media but sent pic to friends soon after and told me she was happy over and over. Same thing lok.....3.5 montjs into her relationship told me she was happy 3-4 times in the conversation on thr phone when she reached out even though i never brought up her relationship
Same thing happened when l saw her at her workplace, she kept saying that she’s in a better place a lot of times when she was talking about her rebound lol, l know deep down she’s not in a better place. When they say stuff like that they’re tryna convince themselves they’re happy when really they’re not. It’s all a facade she’s putting on to make u feel like it’s going good. She’s not happy with what’s going on, so don’t fall for it.
@@SiriusLeeMusic apparently she was actually happy. Just found out she is engaged after 4 months of dating and will be married by July. This all is surreal right now. I can't even grasp the idea right now.
@@Sevoflurane2014 damn that’s too fast she’s definitely tryna move on quickly lol yeah just focus on you bruh that’s all you can do atm, im actually feeling for u
My ex has been in a rebound for 2 months, and weve been in no contact 6 weeks now. recently she unblocked me on instagram after telling her to block me 6 weeks ago. My accound is public and hers is private so its not asif shes trying to make me jealous.. what are your thoughts on this mate ?
stay no contact! DO NOT WATCH HER STORIES!!! she's starting to feel the loss and wanting you to watch her will make her feel connected to you again! it will only relieve her anxiety you've built up in 6 weeks. keep working on yourself mate
@@Kopite19877 she’s thinking about tho mate. It’s a little connection, she’s done that and you know she has. Now she’s got you thinking! Just concentrate on yourself and detach from the outcome. Take your power back, it’ll made you look strong
Hes f*cking another girl 2 weeks later. It doesn’t matter if it doesn’t last. He destroyed everything the moment he touched her
3½ years with a Fearful avoidant. She got triggered, deactivated and broke up. And then she rebounded 26 days later with a complete random polar opposite guy. Meet him the first night she went out. 11 months since the breakup, 10 months they are still together. Yes to the public display and yes to lightning fast intro to her family. We'd both been single for almost two years when we meet. We were together for more than a year before we even told our kids about our relationship, 1½ before the intro and going public on facebook. From the first meeting with the rebound to "in a relationship on FB", 2 months. Crazy. Have lost hope, but sadly not my feelings for her. Still sooo painful, every day.
Update?
women are evil.
Women have no sense. They are total mess. There are no rules for them. Do not expect anything.
To all my friends here in the comments: MOVE ON!!!
You deserve better!!!!!!
According to fact all women get mentally worse in time, it is really hard to find someone better. Almost impossible.
What about a rebound to someone they already knew. A friend of the family but not someone they hung out with or anything. Just someone they knew as kids but never romantically involved
It means the person monkey branched. It depends on the depth of emotional attachment the two have developed. Still, it's a form of betrayal and often nothing good comes out of it since monkey branching (especially if the monkey brancher was aware of how much s/he was loved) is built upon an unstable, conniving, foundation. Also, the monkey brancher has not properly processed the previous relationship ending. The monkey brancher is an opportunist.
Sure it shouldn't concern you ..when your woman .is getting ran thru day and night in her innocent rebound relationship ..lol...sure ..wait for her to come back after he's done shot his DNA in all her openings ..yes welcome her back..my god...pathetic...once she is soiled out in the streets ..a real man would never accept filth back...time for some self respect ..
Your mrs a virgin yeah!?
When a lady goes for other guys, it’s done. Move on and find better. Everyone deserves someone who only wants you.
Guys like to bang ho’s but they wont commit to them long term
What if I been clapping other women cheeks though?
I had just ended my rebound, when I saw ex and she made like she wanted to give us another try, a month later she had a new boyfriend that she's moving way fast with. What's funny is she says she wants to go experince (was very much a shut in for most of it up till me) and she's gotten with a couch potato! She even went off with me as friends for New Years and didn't see him for 2 weeks (he lives 2 hours away and I live very close by) this weekend she had him come and stay the whole weekend with her, like she's over compensating
Ex been with her rebound for 15 months, straight after we split. Doing loads of things together including living together
My ex rebounded to the type of guy who i remember when we were still in the talking stages that she said wasn’t her type. She already moved in with him 30 days after i broke up with her and they’ve only been official for a month. The pictures, meeting her family, blah blah she’s already done it within a 30-60 day timeframe. Me and my ex were talking for 2 months before we even met up in person
What if you dated your ex, then stopped because communication style didn’t align. Then reconnected 2 yrs later, start dating and 7 months in he confesses that he was dating someone when we started dating again but he left her for me? He still is unable to fully be present as he’s a fearful avoidant I’m learning now, that an ex hurt him badly by cheating and he now says he’s never been able to stay with anyone. He still wants to be friends but I’ve stopped reaching out, it’s just making me miserable as he will not meet up with me to really talk. In my opinion he found someone else to be with, he can’t handle difficulties in a relationship since he avoids vulnerability 😢. Am I the rebound if I met him a few years ago and he left his last girlfriend who he says he was about to breakup with anyway?
My Husband was having an affair and has left me to live with his mistress, it has been nearly two years so I assume he is not coming back. He has put in for a divorce now so I believe he will come back. It would have been 37 years we would have been married. He goes on holidays and introduced her to his family. I just want to know if he will ever regret what he’s done and come back to me. I have hoped for so long.
Regret...yes he will
Come back?...no
If he did...don't take him back
You can be 'friends'
it's time to work on yourself, and find someone better
@@sna1976 he didn't rebound, he monkey branched big difference!
@@remyd1984what is the difference? explain how the results are different? seems to be 2 different starts with the same endings due to not taking time between, but i’m not sure.
@@h7pubg the person who rebounded is just lost and hurt so jumps straight in to hide the pain (still morally a good person) the person who monkey branches has no moral’s because at the very least was emotionally cheating! The rebound to be fixed and worked on. The monkey branch should be let go forever imo
@@remyd1984the only real difference is with monkey branching you got to know the person a little more than a rebound. But you can monkey branch into a rebound. Like for example for bf you with might be a little soft hearted and you find a guy that’s maybe tuff and you talked to him for a bit and monkey branched towards him and left your bf because he had something you were more attached to. But your boyfriend was really good to you and you both had a good relationship.
We've been in 8 year relationship. I was 19 and she was 17 when we met for the first time and our relationship was full of moments and good times. We went on trips, vacations, dinners and we have same hobbies. We also adopted a dog that I still take care of. The last year was kinda rough, there was a lot of arguments for stupid things.. and eventually I wanted from her to take a break for a week to settle things down. Then a week later I realized she is already meeting a guy that was her friend in a college and told me how everything is perfect with him and there is no arguments etc.. Is that the typical "grass is greener" and "rebound relationship? I tried to fix the things up for 1 week but she ignored me. She still keep everything from me and our pictures are still in her social media. I am so confused at this point because she is just behaving so immature. I am in no contact for 2 months now.
She monkey beached. But do nothing bruh my ex left me for somone else we were in a ldr and ig she left because she wanted someone closer she monkey branched as well and lied to me saying she wanted to be single. Just do you and work on yourself. If you were good to her and had good memories she’ll be Back she probably left you for a little reason that the other guy did better than you and she hold on to that. She may tell you she moved on but you can’t forget all those good memories and a good guy. Iv been going ok no contact for 5 months since she broke up with me and three weeks of being blocked when I asked her about the guy and how she got in a relationship so fast and she told me she moved on. She moving pretty fast with him since she already moved in with him just within 2-3 months.just be wrong bro and keep me updated
@@keithbrown2425 It's been over 5 months now and I am in no contact. She never reached out, but I am perfectly fine. I've met another girl and she is gorgeous. She behaves like a grown person, she have a well-paid job, she is intellectual and we are both contributing to this relationship. I can assure you that in time you no longer will regret the breakup. Even if she reach you after months/years, don't be delusional to enter that trap again. She will play with you and use you as a supply because that's what narcissist do. Time heals everything and you gotta know your value! Go to gym, read books, work hard and do your favourite things in your life, the right person will come at you.
Last wk Ex tried to sleep with me while with rebound (he didn’t know I knew about her) I had a go at him and told her. Did I push them closer together by doing this? He started seeing her 3wks after me and have been together nearly 3 mths now. 😢
My ex being going for 5 months
hes hitting basically everything you mentioned except for the rebound being a new person and idk if hes making any comparison. in his case its a former friend i introduced him to. that guy ended up blowing up and losing all his friends for being transphobic and making nazi jokes. recently overheard a mutual friend say that hes complaining to him about how that guy is an asshole to everyone making him uncomfortable hanging out with the guy and how that guy still refuses to use his preferred gender(hes trans) and that theres probably more issues but he decided to change subject with the mutual to something less negative. other friends who knew and worked with that guy all tell me hes toxic so its either not gonna last or hes gonna be unhappy in the rebound. either way its his loss really
My ex gf got married like in 2months. We broke up in June 2023 then she got married in August 2023. I was with her for 1 year and 6 months. How can she move on so fast? I am working on myself and rushing things. Please can you emphasise on this. I broke up with her because she called me horrible names like perv, paedophile and it was just crazy and i felt I couldn’t continue with her at all. I was about to get married to her on 13th June but called it off. Did i make the rught choice? What if i give her time would she have changed and respected but she disrespected me by swearing to me for no reason and she was very insecure. Please help like is she in rebound marriage?
you dodged a bullet mate
As she reached out to you
@@keithbrown2425no she got married mate
I can emphasize my man, I was with my ex for almost 2 years. My brother told me she got a new guy after less than a month the new guy even tried to make me jealous. Long story short mow she's pregnant but I feel like it's his problem now...your not alone brother man stay strong out here
@@keithbrown2425she got married that psycho
Ex doesn't have social media but sent pic to friends soon after and told me she was happy over and over. Same thing lok.....3.5 montjs into her relationship told me she was happy 3-4 times in the conversation on thr phone when she reached out even though i never brought up her relationship
Same thing happened when l saw her at her workplace, she kept saying that she’s in a better place a lot of times when she was talking about her rebound lol, l know deep down she’s not in a better place.
When they say stuff like that they’re tryna convince themselves they’re happy when really they’re not. It’s all a facade she’s putting on to make u feel like it’s going good. She’s not happy with what’s going on, so don’t fall for it.
@@SiriusLeeMusic apparently she was actually happy. Just found out she is engaged after 4 months of dating and will be married by July. This all is surreal right now. I can't even grasp the idea right now.
@@Sevoflurane2014 damn that’s too fast she’s definitely tryna move on quickly lol yeah just focus on you bruh that’s all you can do atm, im actually feeling for u
@@SiriusLeeMusic I'm devastated. I've actually lost hair over the stress of last few months. It's a lot to digest right now. Doesn't seem real.
@@Sevoflurane2014 how tf can u be engaged to someone in 4mths lol
My ex has been in a rebound for 2 months, and weve been in no contact 6 weeks now. recently she unblocked me on instagram after telling her to block me 6 weeks ago. My accound is public and hers is private so its not asif shes trying to make me jealous.. what are your thoughts on this mate ?
stay no contact! DO NOT WATCH HER STORIES!!! she's starting to feel the loss and wanting you to watch her will make her feel connected to you again! it will only relieve her anxiety you've built up in 6 weeks. keep working on yourself mate
@remyd1984 cheers mate, her account is private though, mine is public
@@Kopite19877 she’s thinking about tho mate. It’s a little connection, she’s done that and you know she has. Now she’s got you thinking! Just concentrate on yourself and detach from the outcome. Take your power back, it’ll made you look strong
@remyd1984 thanks pal 💪🏼
@remyd1984 blocked again now 🤣 didnt even do anything , think shes looking at my stories tbh, why would you do this if your in a new relationship
She says she’s in love and it hurts and sucks we have a kid together and tht new guy has a daughter of his own
very accurate
Women`s rebounds last long.