A formula for making friends?🤔| On the topic of finding your tribe | The Unpopular Opinion UG
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I always admire the friends my mother made, when she passed they took us on and put our needs, education and everything about us first before their own children! To this day i aspire to be that kind of friend to my friends ❤
Please do kind. To everyone you cross paths with
Wow! ♥️
❤️🙏🏼
In my opinion, I think
Prim is not friends with everyone but highly socially intelligent. She is one person that will respond to a DM message even when you have never met.
All in all, team UPO , y’all doing great.
Pardon me miss olivia nabiryo but you share a name with a long lost cousin ,did you by any chance go to Namagunga primary ,and your village in Ssunga Masaka
Prim’s story of mummy Bennah and her name on a birthday cake has made me shade a tear 😢
Still one of the most beautiful memories in my life.
SAME HERE
Prim never apologize for explaining your tribal or cultural norms or way of living. It is what it is. Infact i wish all tribes in Uganda were very connceted like that. Its a healthy way of living.
Prim.. you have a beautiful heart🥹❤️….love love this show from Ghana 🇬🇭 🤍
Thank you for being here !!
I like what a Prim just said I have seen my fathers friends care for us after he passed even more than his siblings and for me I have learned that effort and grace is the best to offer
My same story we should meet 🙏🙏🙏
When my mum passed away in 98,her friend worked so hard to find us sponsors who took care of our education & all necessities. U guys, we've never lacked.
This is so beautiful . Human beings are beautiful.
I like how Fiona,Prim and Claire bring different sides of a story,love your conversations and different personalities ❤️
I know, right
Feels so good being in bed on a cold Saturday and watching this😅👯♀️👯♀️❤️.
Saaame 😂😂
Wish I could join you
Being forced to take your siblings to the latrine😂😂😂😂😂same Prim, same!
I'm with Prim about the trail of friendships.
Most people you find without friends will make you realize why they don’t have people around them
I’ve had my hands burned so many times. I’ll literally drop everything for them but I’ve never received that from the so called ‘friends’ then. I’m so fine as a loner now I have my husband, children and my siblings as my friends.
Oooh Prim am inviting u for the next backyard BBQ its been long
Please doooo. I love you my people
This is a great discussion and the topic is amazing, while at campus,l discovered that my three close aunties are Mom's besties. They bonded in primary and have grown up together and their children are cousins and my mom's god mother is grandmother's best friend who raised my mom when grandmom passed on. It's a big tribe that's closer than those that are blood related.
I agree with prim about how our culture influences how we make friends, am from the west and something l still struggle with is physical contact with friends, l love warm embraces ( hugs and holding hands) which is mostly misunderstood and makes my baganda friends uncomfortable.
Western people related differently.
This was deep,made me 😢 at some point because I realise I need to be intentional about dating my friends/family and also allow myself to Receive Love.Thank you Ladies🥰🥰🥰
Prim...that was DEEP! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Beautiful episode 👌
Thank you for watching
I relate more with Claire. My closest friends are my husband and sister. i don't rely on other people being there forever.
Claire, I hear you. Yes, boundaries are great and some friends think it’s being selfish.
33:00 I love this! I should start being intentional with my friendships!
Prims experience on friendship is really powerful!!
I'm terrified of friends. I interact with people at arms length bse everyone who I've let in has really hurt me.
Prim. your first birthday story gave me goosebumps and tears....ohhh wow..
I remembered it just now, and it’s why I came here to check on this episode !! Beautiful people.
I've become intentional about the friends I actually still have, and letting go of those ones that make it a herculean task to maintain a friendship
Me am wiser ,I like my opinions of different topics now and I party credit it to watching the unpopular opinion
But woooo!!! You guys are funny, I love it here!!🥰
I relate with Claire on the point of having very close family….there’s isn’t much yearning for friends. I am introverted and I have a very close family so I have no band width left to make many friends😊
@ Maria we are the same...I find it hard making friends coz am introverted..I don't like going out so much..I like my space and less noise..
How I wish we could meet.. we are birds of the same byooya
Good points Claire👌🏼
We need to be intentional and gracious with our F/ships
Thank you .
Pheww such a profound conversation, heavy on the being intentional on fully experiencing friendships. Silencing external noise and simply being in the moment with your friend!
I have like 3 Friends with whom I oba stopped communicating🤔..infact am resuming from today to get involved in their lives banange 😢. Thanks guys..
Very true being gracious is important in relationships....
I don't usually comment but since watching this episode 2 weeks ago, Claire has been on my mind/heart.
Claire, having listened to your stories through each episode that's aired, I finally understood you. The coin dropped that you could've been raised jw. Only those who have experienced how strict the religion can be will ever be able to understand you. And I'm glad that I do. I totally understand you when you talk of the challenges of making & keeping friends cause the religion is so rigid with who you become friends with, which can be incapacitating as a child or young adult.
I don't know how best to express to you that i understand you. I even understand the struggle it must've been to fight and get married to your husband. You're really strong for having handled the judgement that must've ensued.
I'm happy for you for the progress you've made to find happiness. They may appear like small steps but they're a real big deal for those that know.
Lots of love!❤
Prim you’re so right. I come from a big close family that my cousins are literally my closest friends and I almost felt like I don’t need other friends because I had my cousins.
Claire the bossbabe 🎉🎉🎉 THANK YOU!
28:39 great point Claire… showing grace is maturity
Prim, i feel you from where you are coming. I dont come from a very close family even with many silbings but my husband,Ohh God they are all close, silbings,aunts,uncles and grandparents. Its feels like a new experience for me, i tell him how blesssed he is .
It’s a really beautiful thing to have
Recently my delivery made me appreciate friends. I am an introvert n the support i received was really overwhelming.
I'm glad you guys are back to having real candid conversations
Thank you for watching
Woooww this was really a good episode.Truth sometimes needs to be told!❤
Prim😂😂😂i can relate. Escorting siblings to the pit latrine with bu torches in the night
Wow love u guys y’all
Awesome...this was such a beautiful, indepth sharing . I love you ladies❤
prim you are so right.Great conversation ladies ❤
This was so profound! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Enjoy the seasons of your life.this season is for you to thrive
Ohhh Claire...you have such a greattttt mummy. She's raised you all to be tight together, to support one another no matter what, to be One unit. Family is meant to be the glue but for some of us sadly it isn't. You have a great mum.
wow,this episode has been so timely n deep. Thank You ladies
Friends are indeed the family that you choose
Claire i feel. I roo come from a big close family where you have friend options. So I struggled with maintaining very many close relationships outside family. Because the ones in the family are many also
Friendships are just luck. Be a good friend and do your part. Some people lacked love all their lives so they don’t even realize the good side of others. Someone once told me she never met someone good like I was to her.
The older i get, the harder it gets for me to make friends because i have high expectations of relationships and friendships.
I thought it was just me. I feel like the love , attention and heart i give should be reciprocated
Same here
Am even loosing the few I had😢. Adulthood
We need another episode of this topic
fiona with her whole fish! i can attest! it is true🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she also eats more than me yet im the fat sister. mbwenuuu
Thanks so much ladies❤
I relate with Claire tht’s so me.
She just explained my entire friendship life in a few minutes better than I could
Amazing episode
The way I'm here yet i should pay attention to class
Claire, what do u use for your skin. You're glowing. do you have a skin care routine?
It’s difficult to make wonderful, pure intentional friends. Some “friends”are entitled l, if you don’t do something for them then they give you this attitude and give you negative vibes. These are not friends, block them and move on. At some point someone I took to be a friend and she wanted me to lie and do crazy staff, when I asked for clarity she was pissed. She was a manipulator and entitled claiming to be saved and born again. Be careful with so called friends. It’s also okay to be in a safe environment without fake and ill intentional “friends”.
😢 6:50 ey but these churches traumatised us mani!
Can't believe am early today 💃💃💃💃💃💃
Why am I crying watching this 😭
Friendship is funny and tricky. But one thing I'm learning is my friend friends are not mine. We can be cordial, that's it. Not mixing them creates a lasting friendship.
Then. Friendship is a give and take base. If one is a giver, it is bound to fail.
Intentionally dating our friends is key
Nice one ladies but to be honest am in for transparent friends
Interesting
I agree with prim I have bakiga friends and they are so real and loving.
The very best
Oh my God! Claire was so authentic on how sometimes friendships are really hard to maintain and can break you so bad.
Tbh hooo friendships are full of drama, ups and downs which we often forget.
''Not all that gilters is gold"
I have bits and pieces of Prim and Claire
Wow 🤩 I thought you guys were Kenyan 😂.
😂😂 Ugandan all the way
Mmuno muwelekele, amasanyalazi gagenze😂😂😂😂
My grace comes to an end if I see no change in a person. God will extend that type of grace that never ends. There are ‘friends’ who are selfish, it’s always has to be about them, their needs should met, everything should favour them than you. They can’t be inconvenienced by you, yet they as for favours that inconvenience you. I reached a point years ago to let go of selfish ‘friends’ and relatives. If you can be inconvenienced by a friend the you not a friend at all. You always have excuses. If I have cut you off as a friend, you probably are the one who handed me the pair of scissors.
It was today that I realised I am living Claire's life, just in a small sized body 😂, no wonder my 3rd name is Claire😊
My challenge is i dont know what to say to people that is interesting or can keep them around. Thats the biggest flex
I listen to them but when it comes to my turn they do not i think because my stuff is boring.
How do you guys handle small talk
No you’re not boring. Every human being has something interesting about them. Why ? There’s a unique to each of us.
I think I’m 100% Clare
Feels like all of us who are like Clare need to form our own tribe😂😂😂
Me too girl
I honestly thought she would say to Masaka not the UK😄
Claire is me...I don't like or do drama😅😅it always catches me off guard 😒
Prim looked good with her ki weight.
She looks hot now😊
My challenge is I went to school with people who were always a social class above me and wasnt allowed friends from outside school,so currently as an adult I feel like I never fit in for the activities etc
So currently I have a good number of acquaintances but friends quite few
I totally understand you. I attended church where almost everyone was a planned kid. I couldn't fit in their programs or conversations. I would always see pictures of what they were up to. Pizza, icecream dates, etc. I couldn't afford that lifestyle and I didn't have a cool factor. 😂🤭
This is exactly me,come we be friends😊
💝💝
worse for aman without friends, Red flag!!!!!
No prim btw we be here innocent very good hearts but not lucky with friends but it’s oky
Prim looked good with her ki weight.
Exactly, same way am extremely lucky in relationships without even trying at all and I know people who give it all their all but fail to find true love, that's how I have failed secure genuine friendships and I have made peace with it
This episode has touched my heart🥹🥹 I don’t even know what to say
Thank you so so so much!
Therapy session indeed!
Fiona 😂😂😂😂 @Mnet
I’m Prim Prim is me
Thank you Claire, that thing about Grace???? I didn’t know , really changed my perspective on friendship 🥹
Before we go to the next episode , can prim clearly stress what she used to reduce her past weight 🥹🥹please please
Umm she doesn't owe you that information. But she talked about why she needed to lose weight in some episode / show
My challenge is i dont know what to say to people that is interesting or can keep them around. Thats the biggest flex
I listen to them but when it comes to my turn they do not i think because my stuff is boring.
How do you guys handle small talk