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- We’re all on a journey, and wish that we could make the best decisions when it comes to our finances, relationships and work, but that just isn’t the case.
What’s the biggest decision you’ve had to make lately and how did public opinion affect it?
Let us know in the comments.
Come to the Golden Tulip this weekend and reflect on those decisions.
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We’re all on a journey, and wish that we could make the best decisions when it comes to our finances, relationships and work, but that just isn’t the case.
What’s the biggest decision you’ve had to make lately and how did public opinion affect it?
Let us know in the comments.
Come to the Golden Tulip this weekend and reflect on those decisions.
If you’re a content creator like me, I’ve got a plug for you!
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Is there a contact you can share for me to make a call.
A mini pumla in me
Hey bump love I request u bring us Cindy on this show please
This was very enlightening. We need to learn and be okey with our truths/decisions
_yvg GGIT, ITS
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Pumla should consider life coaching. She speaks with such conviction ❤
Pumla really does the research, she’s always informed about the topic being discussed. Such a gem!
Thank you Deborah. We owe it to you guys to bring you relevant and well informed content
💐 🌹 🌸 🏵 🌼 💐
She really inspires me alot😊😊
She's a Nammagunga girl for the love of christ
@@pumlanabachwa8668 I love u pumla u speak my mind I love ur content en I pray to God I meet u one day
I just love Rosette , she seems a simple happy soul and rising 4 kids makes you a super woman
Thank you dear
@@roseviela.30❤❤❤❤❤❤I adore how real simple content with yourself
Yas yas , she is a Queenie
@Rosette you are so precious. I just feel that you have a good heart
I used to see roset at compass I used to love her from afar
I'm here in 2024 and at the verge of making very important decisions.Glad to rewatch this.
THOSE WHO MATTER DON’T MIND, THOSE WHO MIND DON’T MATTER.
Period. ❤
Banange lets be grateful to these girls. They share their privacy something that many of us cannot do. Through their stories, people have learnt alot and we should always be there to defend them and support them. Nze nja kuffa nomuntu avuma bano abakyaala
Rachael is quite a wise mind, she extensively looks into issues. Great conversation ladies, you are all really smart.
I will always applaud Pumla for the detailed research she makes for this show, and all the ladies, lots of appreciation ❤❤❤ and for the lumpens, shame on you, they could never bring us bump lovers downs, we came to stay😂😂😂
Thank you Cecilia. We did love our Bump Lovers ❤
Rosette is right when in marriage love should be put aside
l have liked the tropic it’s teaches a lot
After watching bump love for more than one year without subscription, today i have decided to subscribe.clap for me ba dear
The wind took me to my destiny... as a grown up, I have decided to start ADULTS an organisation to help young people find their purpose early in life. Raising Purpose-Elevating Impact. Today is my day...I will learn a lot from you girls. Thank you for coming up with this topic
@adults-groomingyouth how does one get in touch with you
Thank you bumplove ladies youre doing a great work please if u get time discus on financial issues between married couples
This has really been impactful on me. I have rewatched this episode thrice. I love the composure of Rachael, the happy Rosette and the bitter truth that Pumla and Manuela always point out. I have been struggling with a decision but now I feel I am more empowered to make a choice.
Pumla is my crone!!! Am 60 and i hear me in her view!! Love ya!! But must admit she is the new improved version❤
Kudos Racheal you are so composed even in your submissions. Love you
Pumla..true definition of Beauty with Brains ❤
Thank you Gloria ❤
Yall are preaching but Pumla has preached today 😂😂❤, I had to pause, process the information i'am receiving then continue watching i'am forever greatfull for this channel as a day 1 subscriber.Thank ladies. 😘😘
Hahaha! We must all preach on Bump Love 😅
I love how different u ladies are here..the show is meaningful & well balanced. Pumla u just said everything right. U're so articulate.
Hi Pumla ...please consider life coaching? Always good to learn from you! Happy Friday errybare
Oh! Thank you for your vote of confidence. Blessings received 🙏🏾
@@pumlanabachwa8668 I real love how you look at life. I too make decisions for me not for anyone.
I can relate with Manuela on the marriage decision... My husband was not my type but am glaaaaad I chose him🥰🥰.. he's one of the best decisions I've made in life.. Am so sure God created him for me❤
Same here.
And how do u gals then deal with them for it to work out? Coz it isn't easy
I'm at this moment now so confused God
@@DamalieKI dint like him at first, but later fell for him coz of how he treated and loved me... then I fell for person that he is.. I had judged the book by its cover and I was going to miss out on a wonderful person
@@peruthmwenkanya2508 and then there is a situation wea yo heart loves him but he is literally not the type u wanted. I don't know if u get, or it makes no sense🤩
Rachel is sooooooo my twin because eh 🤦🏿♀️ nga I've suffered with "being soft". Goodness 🤦🏿♀️ even my family has always told me that I'm not aggressive enough, my supervisor at work recently told me that I need to develop thick skin because I'm always looking for more peaceful ways to resolve conflict and avoid confrontation at all costs. So many times I have had to find myself trying to morph into a version of who they say I'm capable of becoming, which would then in retrospect propel me to where they think I should be in life and it always backfires, sadly, on me alone and going through the repair and rebuilding always takes alot out of me and I honestly feel lost at this point. I feel like I've allowed so much noise into my life that I've forgotten who I am. I hope to find myself one day. Thank you ladies for always holding space for us, in every way, shape or form in a world where it's so easy to forget oneself.
Wow..this is so relatable! You took the words right out of my mouth..life shapes us and builds that thick skin consciously or unconsciously. It takes a deliberate decision to start looking more inward than outward for validation. It is very liberating. People slowly begin to adjust to the new version of you. Start slowly by setting some boundaries and stick to them.
I like Rosette’s firm stand on God oh Yes not forgetting Manuela and Racheal…
After watching this, im yet to make my hardest decision.
Love you all!!!!❤ mama bonus from Hungary formerly in holland
I wish each of us would mind their own business coz this would would have been a better place but some of us fail to try our chances bcoz of opinions
Rossete is becoming a pastor one of these days, good of her
Right 😂
Haha, I've been a quiet listener, but I couldn't resist commenting today because of Manuella addressing those naysayers who just want to bring you down. Big shoutout to you ladies! I absolutely love every episode you broadcast, and it's refreshing how each of you brings your own unique flavor to the table.
I relate to Rachel, I seek validation from others about my decisions. I'm working on stopping this and being confident in the decisions i make on my own
Me too...🙋thanks for the show ladies
I like how self aware Rachel is❤
Seeking Social approval comes from insecurities....our decisions affect us.
People can advise but deciding is mine and am like Rosette... once God validates ebirala background noise.
Thanks guys, from each one of u I learn something 🎉❤
Pumla, what a lady my goodness. How do you know almost everything. I love you much ❤
Hahaha! I hardly know anything. Just learning.
Pumla the biggest decision I pray you make one day is to accept Jesus Christ as your lord and saviour....!!! Amen...
I have made the toughest decisions in life, I don't care as long as I am happy I move.
Racheal, theres strength, resolve and wisdom in that place you sit. A quiet yet sound kind of strength. I really appreciate your vulnerable and honest takes.
You guys are awesome… the whole lot of you. So smart, so God-fearing…balanced, vulnerable…beautiful, well-groomed! Your fellow African sister (Zimbabwean-Australian) loves you so much. One month into my Bump Love journey… I am watching at least 3 shows a day… hey, there is so much goodness here…I need it ALL. 😀 Sending you love from Australia… ❤❤❤
The fact that i am currently reading "THE MIDNIGHT LIBRARY" . Its a book about choices and regrets..... Everyone relates to this discussion for real❤
Yello, who is the author
@@miriakasemiire4529 Matt Haig is the author
Pumla just reflects what my life's Story is. Can't share much but atleast now I've the confidence to know that I've not been weird😮😊
I like the fact that Manuella has always been almost a perfect all rounder . From academics, career , religion to family. Oh gurl shine on and keep being our inspo.
Amen and amen. We were all called to BE... so let's be
Ladies you rock .Have been glued to your episodes since the beginning of the year.Continue the good work
Listening to this has reminded me that, intimacy with God is a cure for all insecurities 😊thank you for the show❤
You have been speaking to me throughout this year.l am becoming the better version of myself
Yesterday my husband told me that iv changed positively wc has given him alot of peace, loved me more and also he feels lyk he owes me alot of his tym, care and a better husband coz of my change.
I also acknowledge that iv changed but i was doing it for my self but little did i knw that it wl positively cbange my marriage.
Iv been able to do all this coz of Allah's guidance and the weekly lessons i learn from u ladies.
Uv honestly been a greatest pillar in our marriages to us who find it hard to speak up and even seek for guidance and help.
Please continue changing other people's lives and May the God Lord reward u fo this.
I'm totally awake for this comment. Thank you Zahara for not just being here but also doing the work to make your life even more beautiful ❤
Pumla is such a blessing to us❤
Rachael was right about personality types, there are people who are not rational, logical in their approach to life and while they will arrive they are wired to sit in their emotions and must marinade in them to go forward! They actually don’t like to be rushed through their emoting process. There is nothing rational about emotions
I struggle a lot with decision making,let me camp here and thanks a lot for the show.
Thanks Pumla. Self pity can actually kill! Lets avoid looking like our problems.
The way you inspire me Pumla❤!
Teacher Pumla, please consider life coaching outside the bank work😊.
Thank you for this vote of confidence. ❤
❤❤❤
Pumla, you are just the real deal for me.
yes first to comment .that moment am just scrolling and boom!
pumla💃💃💃💃💃💃💃 preach it lady
Last week I was teaching my teenager and preteen about decisions (choices). I told them that sometimes you don’t need to even go to the prayer meeting, if only you made the right decision. And most people are going about from prayer meeting to another because they started off with a bad decision. And coming from me (a prayerer) is such a big one. We must make informed researched well thought out prayed through decisions.
Well said Eunice, i have made decisions and then when they back fire I start praying and beat myself so hard.
Oh yes Eunice. And we must teach these children of ours about the power and process of decision making. We must host you on Bump love one of these days ❤
Pumla with the brilliant explanations, you ladies are so filled with wisdom, love it for you all, kisses and hugs to Racheal my fave 😘
You ladies have got me addicted to this this program, your always spot on, I personally love the fact that you have taken over Ssenga's job description in Uganda, companies like UN should consider working with you guys to reach out to people in various communities
Amen❤
Addiction is the word
Blessing received 🙏🏾
Like when i start listening to Pumla mba sagala amale kwogera. Kudos Governor Pumla
Hahahaha! Kudos received ❤
I have been a BumpLove fan for a while but I must admit this is probably the one episode that struck me the most. Such a timely episode ❤I relate most to Rachel and the need for external approval. Challenged to go away and develop that decision-making muscle.
“Life is for me” - my greatest take away (Pumla)
Ladies you are doing an incredible job, keep up the good work.
Life is FOR you Njeri ❤
Me too 😢
Purpose filter
The assessment check list
Life is for me
When God validates.
What do I want
Asanteni ladies ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you ladies,I learned the hard way after my parents passed on that I don't have to please everyone,for as long as my spouse,my children are happy,I don't care about public opinion.
Sorry & hugs to you about your parents. Glad you sought the lesson 🙏🏾
Hugs dear losing a parent is the most painful thing I've ever faced. I can't compare it even to an after surgery pain awww..bless you
Its called self healing.. Extremely important
Hi ladies, Great topic. I made a decision of taking care of my kids cause my hubby has a busy schedule. But now I am doing an online degree in year 3. Looking at more of my career now because the last ones are 6 years. Thax for the show, I appreciate.
I’m a non decisive person I struggle so much but trying to drive it in a spiritual direction always asking God on big decisions these days
Recho,I too struggle with the desire for validation. And I feel like its affecting mostly my marriage. I really always lookout for my husbands approval yet many times, he just thinks I should just do what I want
Am very new here. . You all are amazing people.
Everything Pumla has said, I have been living sub consciously.
from how I make decisions to learning to forgive myself and understanding that my decisions have consequences I cannot run away from. A lot to take from this episode. Thanks Ladies!
This feels like it's speaking to me..
Being uncomfortable/unsettled in a space that is "desired" and a space I had prayed for,for years.
This platform has been such a blessing 🙌
Thank you ladies...
Pumla, Manuela, Rossette, Rachel, Angie, you all are loved all the way from Nigeria ❤
NIGERIAAAAAAAAA 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
WOOOOOOOOT! Karibuni Morayo
@pumlanabachwa8668 Whoop Whoop!!! There are many of us here learning from and rooting for you all 🎉🎉🎉
Love you specially Pumla, thank you for all you do ❤
@@pumlanabachwa8668hello Pumla,I would love to talk to you personally..
Thanks..I need some kinda of advice from you dear
I love Rossetti to and Racheals composure.
Today am just appreciating Racheal's glow😍😍😍 Racheal you are looking very very beautiful, with positive energy 💪💪💪💪
Manuella was my role model like seriously the chic was perfect in everything 👍
Yeah.Decision Making so tough but necessary. Eveyone ought to make a decission in life and own it.
You guys don't know what you have done for a 20 year old today.... thank you ❤️❤️
I have gone for check up,but us am waiting for my doctor, am tuning in my bump love session.
This upload was for me bambi,nayee public leave us alone 😂
Hi Lillian
Hello Mirembe
Indeed
I hope the check up turned out fine. May it be well.
@pumlanabachwa8668 it was Antenatal check up . But it was successful
Pumla, I love your energy. You are so knowledgeable
Thank you so much ladies for always opening up mind, I’m proud that my home country has these intelligent women, I look forward to the program!
Please let arrange a meet a great for all the bump lovers xxxx
Meet & Greet is coming 😊
Thank you Florence
I think i am a sociopath... I don't regret neither reverse a decision made😂..i just do a continuous cycle of improvement
“Don't entrust your future on others' hands. Rather make decisions by yourself with the help of God's guidance. Hold your beliefs so tight and never let go of them!”
― Hark Herald Sarmiento
This is so informative dear girls. Thank you 😊
Proverbs 22:6 is for Sister Pumla today. Much as she's not practicing Christianity today(from what i've heard her say), she can quote the bible sooooooooo well and i am so happy for that. All in all your panel is full of brains and every friday is a lecturer for me. Thanks for educating the world and being real❤❤
"Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it"
I love that verse. Such truth. Thank you.
I love your depth Pumla. Thank you ladies you are such an inspiration.
Ladies you are actually sent from heaven to make us have a good life here as we sail through our chances of this life and navigate our decision making struggles.All i can say is that thank you so much.God bless you for sure Ladies 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉I totally appreciate you for helping me in person to learn how over come public Opinion because i used to really struggle because of that but today i am walking away with enormous confidence after watching this show that i can totally achieve my dreams no matter what the world says.
Thank you once again 🎉.
Note i wrote chances not challenges because i believe each day God gives us a chance to life so what we face are not challenges but chances ❤
I love listening to smart ladies thanks for show
I can really relate with Rossette's decision.
Am also a working mother with 4 children and that's how i felt exactly every time I had to give birth
For sure, with the knowledge here, bump love should get 100k subscribers by the end of this year …
With love from bump love 😁
i had to come and watch previous episodes. i miss you guys. love Nivy❤⚫🔴🟢
Yeyyy...I'm the first one here today 🎉
Bump love is a real force to be reckoned with. Bakyala tusiima❤
I truly appreciate your consistency. Please keep up the excellent work, and I also want to express my gratitude for the valuable content you share.
Thank you Heygirl ❤
I never understood why people praised Oprah Winfrey for changing their lives through a talk show. Since watching this show about 3 years ago I have been so empowered. You once featured a very confident and smart house wife or home executive as she calls herself (if my memory serves me well) and what she said stuck with me. I decided to raise my children myself and start a business that allows me to parent the way I want. God had us in mind when He called you Mama Mulondo. Great shows ladies. Love from SA
Awwwwwwwwww this is such a sweet message
I am so multifaceted .I excelled in sciences and went on to become an Engineer but I can also belt a tune to the heavens and run and swim and cook and do everything .One day I want to be a journalist, the next time I want to become a lawyer ,next minute I want to be a doctor .It is so hard to make decisions on where or what to settle for.
Yours are good problems to have😊. All you have to do is pick what you want.
Your not alone😂😂😂😂😂
Ooohh wow......
In some conversations, this crew reminds me of my school time girlfriends. 🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍😍😍
I love the way you people connect during the discussions.
Go dear ladies,, Love.❤
Pumla is well informed, I like her analytics on issues
Thank you Shamim. I try to do right by our Bump Lovers
@@pumlanabachwa8668 and you are doing a fantastic job!
Let me piggy back on Racheal’s point. I had a staggering legal career in Uganda and after my decor business failed I knew Uganda wasn’t for me! I struggled with purpose until I door opened and I left the country.
I’m still a corporate lawyer but I’m a diverse area not the box every lawyer is fitted in Uganda. I wanted more!!!!
I made 30 this month and I’m finally where I’ve always wanted to be and very happy. I had to learn to run after my heart. The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho was the book that guided me minus ofcourse the Bible. God opened my spirit. I’m free and happy. Wonderful episode
Goodness gracious me! Congrats dear ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤#God opened my spirit 🙏. That's deep.
These are the comments I like to read. So powerfully freeing. Well done Judy! So happy for you.
Hi Judy ,I would like to get in touch with you .
Hi beautiful ladies thanks for the show
Much love pumla honestly I just find my sof so in lav with u en the way u define things .me the toughest decision I have ever made is moving on from the marriage everyone sought was gud for me yet it wasn't was so young en had a son of 1month but God was really dea for me I managed going thru it en here we are may son made 10 in June isn't that amaizing honest I didn't know wat was coming up next but all I wanted was seeing my sof en son out of that marriage lav u all pumla I lav u for always making me feel I was never wrong for wat was going to make me hapi lav u all
Hugs to you Denise. Trust in yourself and always make the right decision. Kisses to your son
Dear Bumplove, i am from Burundi and this segment just help me on a decision that i am struggling with. thank you for sharing your journey
I think I needed this especially as a young girl who has just finished university. Am now at a point where I am the major decision maker in my life. It's tough though but learning slowly especially that part of dealing with the consequences. But with help of bump love ,I will be there soon.
Life is for you. Your adulting journey just started Georgette. All the best.
It's great you have come across this ...Bravo to our BL ladies....lets do it for the young ones in our life.
Rosette spoke so well. love /marriage is a commitment/covenant
Ladies,am about to make a difficult decison which involves my kids and partner,am so glad this topic has come up coz it has helped me on how to go about my decision making on my issue.
All the best Joanitah
In the same situation, because of my mother.
PUMLA YOU ARE VERY INTELLIGENT
People think I don't forgive simply because if I let go am never letting you in again in my space but they forget that before I decide to let go I have given the friendship or relationship all the chances and finally am completely done👌 work related decisions still I compare and contrast then add and subtract 🙆🤦then make a decision which am always ready for the out come
Forgiveness doesn't equal access! Forgive and deny access