SHOULD PARENTS CHOOSE A MARRIAGE PARTNER FOR THEIR CHILDREN?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ต.ค. 2024
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And the way you pull out relevant scripture where you deem it appropriate…oh wow, so beautiful. Toward the the, I found myself tearing up… my 1st born (a daughter) is completing her medical school journey next week , a month before her 23 birthday… the next chapter is becoming and family person and she is very keen to settle ‘earlier rather than later’ … we have very rich, open convos (slang for conversation over here)😄… we are both open to hard but loving talk … I encourage her to share her mind and when you read from Joshua 3 … it spoke to my heart beautifully… where you are going (me, the parent of an adult child who is looking to commit to matrimony in the next couple of years … you haven’t been before’… wow. Of course I already know this but what a beautiful and timely reminder. Thank you so much.
Very insightful thank u Dr. EVAS and Rach.blessings
Ever so wise Dr Evas. Appreciate this so much. Well presented Rachel (and Dr Evas). Keep up the great work. Learning so much from you every work over here in Perth. Australia. Hope to come see you in person one day over there in Uganda (I’m from Zimbabwe). Love love your work.
Insightful and educative. Audio is very good as well.
Insightful
What if your child is not the good partner for the girl/boy they are going to marry? Its easy to be terrified by what your well raised-behaved child is walking into, but when we flip the coin, we dont feel the same urge to protect the other parent's child from our child. See what I mean? How do we go about that?
Wow… this is a very good comment. Love it. Sometimes unfortunately that is the case and handling this with wisdom in needed. Trust our ever gracious, knowledgeable, beautiful Dr Evas to deliver. Love her and her work so much. Always watch the videos faithfully from Australia and get so much from them even from topics that may not be ‘close to home’ for my situation like this comment… I am still hungry for knowledge about of how this can be dealt with so I can help another should they need help navigating this kind of situation. Thank you so much for this comment.
This is deep. My brother is the bad person in his marriage and I always feel the pain of his wife. I think you can still lean on prayer and even talk to the other partner before they get married and allow them make an informed decision.
I agree with Dr. Evas but I also want to point out that not every parent means well. There are some manipulative parents out there who are insanely selfish and everything has to benefit them directly. Then you have those who mean well but lack the maturity and wisdom to see far into the future. Some are very materialistic too
Streets have become rough for both male and female. Parents should go back to choosing for us partners. It was kinda easy and marriages lasted longer
Waoo, thanks for always teaching us ❤❤
Thank you very much for the show madam Rachel
Dr.Evas is never callous in her voice .she always shows that there is hope independent of the ugliness of the situation.
My question is...when do u always upload(day of the week)?
I keep waitingggggggggggg😮😮
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I think Thursday
I dated someone and when i told my mum about him, she warned me about the guy's mother coz she knew her very well . But at first i didn't take her serious and i was like am getting married to a boy not the mother naye i thank God i listened to her later coz that marriage was not going to last even for a year.
Now I know why some Western tribe chooses partners for their children, to keep their traditions, wealth, and norms alive
I wish I could share this with my boss but I still need the job😂😂She has turned down about 4 girls that her son brought.She didn’t like how they looked like and she thought they were after her son’s money.i tell you now her son has lost interest in marriage.He’s like what’s the point of getting another one when his mother wouldn’t approve of.I’m sure he resents his mother .
oh sad situation. I pray that God would give you the wisdom to share it with her … perhaps an indirect way… starting from something removed from this topic (perhaps if she is otherwise a good boss, come from a place of praise and acknowledging her positives and perhaps tell her how a certain quality reminds you of this wonderful teacher/pyschologist…. uhm what’s her name again… I’ll check one of her videos and send it to you… then send something that speaks to what she is doing right. affirm her… get her guy in… interest (genuinely seeking a positive quality to ride off of ….as I am sure that away from her parenting challenge she has some positive traits)…. then say something oh you have the adult child (children) … there’s recent content on addressing some potential challenges walking alongside adult children and how to best support them on major life decisions… you might find some helpful tips eco knows…(that last bit said without negative judgement but just as an open cheque). Who knows… you may be able to heal an ailing parent-child r/ship and the far reaching consequences of that will impact generations in this fam and inspire others close enough to be blessed by them. Thank you for thinking of her… your heart for her sounds pure and loving. I hope you find a way. Sending you love and well wishes.
Oh lord
Okay where is the Good wife podcast Rache🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹