Another big reason why he feels likable is, he always manages to turn the spotlight to the other person - when Joey talked about how many mirrors there were in the living room, Roland started asking about the mirrors in Joey's living room, and threw a deeper introspective question "Don't you think mirrors reflect self-confidence". Almost every single topic they talk about, he asks about Joey's side or refer to what Joey mentioned earlier. I would say this skill probably got him get to this place as a "host" .
Never thought I’d hear someone go “yeah I’ve slept with more women I can remember” and “I’m a huge narcissist actually” and NOT hate them. Roland’s charisma is insane
I think it's also the huge amount of self-awareness that he shows. Usually narcissists hate being called one, but he instead accepts it, leans into it and is unapologetic about it. Meaning, he is honest about who he is, and that's a big plus in terms of liking someone. So many people are not able to be honest with and about themselves, so having someone like this, who clearly is a narcissist, typical douchebag pretty boy type, but also is self-aware and honest about it, is kinda like a breath of fresh air. You don't expect this from someone like Roland usually.
Gods, he is terrifying. I take a fair amount of time to warm up to new people, but just 5 minutes in and I feel like I'd trust him with my secrets. Damn...
"5 minutes in and i'd feel like trust him with my secrets" that's kinda weird, for me it's like the reverse, won't let him strike my weaknesses but yeah he probably doesn't care that much
As a woman I can tell why he's a top host. He's not just a pretty face. He knows how to CONNECT with people and is very charismatic . I don't feel like watching an interview but two people conversing and connecting. Never expected an interviewee to ask the interviewer so many questions back. 🤣
as a man I don't understand women's attraction to feminine men. hair, makeup, lack of facial hair, likely has soft delicate hands. he keeps crossing his arms and hugging himself, which is a sign of insecurity. even his sense of style is bad, everything is black, gray, dark, and cold looking. maybe he is going for the Dracula aesthetic.
@@hellenmoreira9991 there are millions of guys that have masculine voices that women don't fawn over. but you're saying that his voice is so singularly great that it warrants this type of attention?
I mean just as a friend, he's very interesting and conversational. But as a potential suitor, he's very unattractive imo😅 I'm confused why everyone seems to think he's so good looking/attractive.
@@evefoodie8798 true. I never said he's a catch for serious relationships. None of us know. But he does look like someone I'd love to hang out with either as a host or a friend. He looks posh and all, but when you see his other more recent videos he's actually a deep thinker and quite easy going. All in all, a charismatic person
Listening to Roland talk with Joey, it is actually kind of easy to see how he's so successful as a host. His ability to engage and express interest in the conversation partner, keeping the conversation flowing is some next level skill.
Roland's quotes are amazing. For instance... “There are only 2 types of men: Me, and the rest” “I often stare into girl’s eyes and say “your face is so beautiful” but I’m really looking at my own reflection in the girl’s eye.” “Because I sweet-talk so much, I might get cavities, so I changed all my teeth to ceramic.”
This guy is true professional. He went deep into Joey's videos and researched and brought it up to him to make a engaging conversation also, to relate to the audience he is speaking to. Hosts are masters of adaptation to the audience whether it be to a otaku crowd or a client at a club. Rizz 100%
Unsung Heroes I looked for someone who might rebuild the wall of righteousness that guards the land. I searched for someone to stand in the gap in the wall so I wouldn’t have to destroy the land, but I found no one (Ezekiel 22:30) Father’s Day is a special occasion designed by greeting card companies, no doubt, to honor our fathers. And though I think there is a certain commercial angle to the whole occasion that diminishes its effectiveness, I must say that I like the idea of having both a Father’s Day and a Mother’s Day. After all, the Bible does say, “Honor your father and mother” (Exodus 20:12) I don’t think we give enough credit to fathers these days. They deserve a lot of it, especially those who stick by their commitments, those who faithfully stand beside their wives and children. they are the unsung heroes. And their tribe is decreasing. There are fewer and fewer dads today who are there for their children. Yet a father’s influence is profound, far greater than that of any thing. I’m reminded of a statement that Mark Twain made: “When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.” You may not fully appreciate what it is that your father has done for you until you become a parent yourself. Then a lot of those things will come back to you. You will start understanding why he did many of the things he did and why he didn’t do many of the things you thought he should have done. How important good and godly dads are. I believe world needs them more than ever because of what we’re facing today. I think we could say that we’re looking for a few godly men-men who will stand in the gap, men who will be all that God has called them to be.
@@icodestuff6241 I wouldn't go as far as to say he has "experience," with women in any other setting aside from being a host for them. Working a host job and getting paid to make women laugh and then sleep with them once they fall for your fake persona that they paid you to put on for them is not the foundation for any normal relationship between a man and woman. These interactions are simply short moments of time, filled with drink, laughter, noise and money, and there isn't a genuine thing about that. He likely prefers 2D women because the stories he sees between the characters in anime are ironically more emotionally sincere and heatfelt than anything he experiences with his female "clients," in real life. This man has no idea what it means to truly love a woman and have her love him back because none of them really ever get to see the nerdy otaku that he really is... It's actually quite sad.
ROLAND just has effortless charisma. This interview was awesome. You can absolutely see why he was the #1 Host in Japan, he makes conversation so easy and fluid.
@@22ninja1I'd say he still has a way to go in the interior decorating branch of the skill tree. That house is low-key hideous, but I agree on everything else. He seems a delight to hang out with.
I love how ridiculous he is and that he's self aware of the fact. He's out there but still grounded. Such a fascinating person, probably why he's so good at what he does.
In the first 10 seconds of the video this dude says he could wipe out all of France's vineyards.. France has around 900k hectares of vineyard that are worth around 70 billion euros without counting some of them have historical value and overall prestige and fame that usually adds in the numbers but we'll ignore that for now, we don't count that in the 70 billions average.. a dude in 2021 bought 17k hectares of vineyard in France for 1,1 billion euros.. so.. u know.. unrealistic
@@rias.gremoryyybut he’s saying it as a hyperbole. He knows it’s ridiculous and knows we think it’s ridiculous too. His jokes are all self aware and tongue in cheek which is what gives him the perception of being “grounded”
Some things I've noticed about his charisma: - He is relaxed and speaks slowly - He has a great memory for things he experienced and helps him share his experiences with other people - He uses a lot of analogies which makes it more interesting to listen to him (metaphors will also work, the more visual your language the better) - He is comfortable with himself and doesn't take himself too seriously, down to earth (practical, real world-day to day life oriented) - He has general knowledge of most things making him interesting to talk to (He tries to find a lesson in anything including anime) - He is an extremely good listener and let's the other person finish speaking. Even when he is midsentence and the other person tries to say something he just keeps silent to prioritize what the other person wants to say. - He is intelligent, knowledgeable and intellectual but doesn't flaunt or try to impress people he only shows this side of him when it is applicable, hence why people refer to him as down to earth as well - He exudes zero negativity or animosity in his tonality - He sprinkles in genuine small compliments making the other person feel comfortable and with each questions asks Joey's point of view on things - He is extremely well groomed and has pretty boy aesthetics (not sure if this contributes to charisma towards men, but it probably works very wel with women) - He has insane confidence - He clearly understands who he is talking to and his current audience, he probably would fit in any group and can hang out with any type of person. Roland is seducing the entire audience of Joey without most knowing it
@@tucosalamanca5818 I am. I knew him before this interview. His morning routine popped up in my feed for some reason and I was fascinated by this dude. His house is very big and he is successful, I love learning from successful people.
27:37 wow the fact he even asked the cameraman a question goes to show how seriously charismatic this guy is. He’s the poster child of an extrovert and the popular/well loved kid at school 😂
If you read The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, theres a chapter in it where the person is seductive because he or she makes YOU feel like the most interesting person in the world by asking YOU questions and LISTENING and not talking about themselves a the time. Even though hes meant to be the interviewee, Roland listens super attentively, clearly did his research on things that the other person is into and incorporates it very smoothly into his dialogue. Hes clearly a master at work
This guy is basically someone who has maxed out the skills from that book. I watched this and was left wondering, was this even his real personality or he just "seduced" the host. We will never know but its interesting to think about. There are so many little moments that make me wonder if he means it or just says things like that to make people feel nice. Like " i didn't expect you to be so easy to get along with". when they were talking about alcohol he compliments his drinking ability. when he says anime is more well accepted because of "cool people like you" to the host.
Asking the right questions at that. Many people take this advice at face value from other sources and they end up being merely questionnaires. Roland has this way of making the conversation fun for all the participants and it just shows. Even us, the audience is already invested with this guy's stories.
This man has perfected being someone you want to talk to to the point where it' s simply scary !! The way he presents himself feels so real and unreal at the same time, well balanced between genuine and calculated.
@@dingus_doofus ah yes, knowing how to present yourself to the media, all while being a narcissist and being aware that you're one and accepting that fact = psychopath. if you're gonna insult someone at least grab a dictionary, jesus
@@dingus_doofus not exactly psychopathy mayber more like sociopathy(?) since I recall psychopaths=born; sociopaths=created correct me if wrong I wanna know the exact differences too
@@yeet9703 you're pretty spot on, general personality theories state something along that psychopathy is born so there is a mutation on the brain, that usually hinders the ability to be able to empathize with other people, and also do have some form of emotional impairment (they don't experience life as most of us), while sociopaths are made, this is usually a consequence of their environment (abusive parents/family,) where they had to adapt to put away empathy in order to survive, this couple with the fact they experience emotions similarly to lost does lead them to be more prone to emotional "bursts" meaning they can't control their emotions and are more impulsive. This can lead to a murder in a fit of rage, meaning sociopaths are more dangerous than psychopaths... Now this is all by what I remember and I felt too lazy to grab the DSM and other sources to search them up
Even in this interview you can really tell how pro this guy as a host or basically how good he is in connecting with people, he knows joey is into anime and adds anime related fun facts about his life so joey can also enjoy, saying that being a host and youtuber is kind of the same by the way they think of content to entertain people So they can have a connection and joey can relate to it aswell .. daang
Since he knows that's part of Joey's brand/image and that's the demographic of Joey's fans then it's actually really clever to relate to not just Joey, but to Joey's demographic as well.@@Chris-px2gf
I went on a trip to Japan, and the Japanese men were handsome and genius, and their physiques were slim and cool. Women all over the world should go meet Japanese men! In particular, there seems to be a muscle cafe and bar.
I think a lot of people might not fully understand how big of a deal it is that Joey managed to land Roland for an interview, and also have it run for almost an hour to boot! In terms of effort put into a video and general quality i think this is his best video by a mile.
@@matthewflores4183 bro if you phrase it like that then every supermodel, influencer, politician, or famous person will sound mediocre lmfaooo, yea elon musk is one of the most richest individual on earth, but at the end of the day he's still just some dude
honestly he called himself a narcissist but from that and just watching the video he really isnt, he just has insane confidence. if he was a narcissist he wouldnt have even let joey speak at all.
Narcissists are people too, it seems some who become aware of it don't embrace it and suffer under it. Some narcissists want to get better. Well, actually I'm thinking of psychopats and sociopaths here, I mixed it up, but if this applies to them and to other personality disorders why not narcissism too? Having a specific personality disorder doesn't mean there is only one specific way to feel about it and handle it. Though of course the disorder itself influences how you feel about it. Not sure but I think there are different types of narcissism too.
I don't know if this was supposed to be more like an interview, but Roland made Joey so comfortable to talk about his plans and feelings and fears about his career. That's incredible
Roland is impressive and does his research. The beginning is about him being a host and his home. Later on, roland switches gear and holds his own AND more when discussing anime and manga. Looks like he "hosted" the Anime Man with his conversational skills
My exact thought, he took over and Joey told his darkest secret “Im at my limit with anime too”. Roland should be sent to Gaza to host a Palestine/Israeli peace party.
Looks like I'm the only one that lost interest. I'm going to come back and try to finish it but the monochrome appearance, blank canvas apartment and sunglasses were throwing me off. He's an empty disc drive waiting to be uploaded with all of your information so he can " mirror" your own personality back at you. Because at the end of the day we're all narcissists who would just love to find someone who is essentially a hot version of ourselves. The mirrors everywhere are a reflection of what he is in essence. A mirror. You can come at me if you want. I don't care😂
As an introvert I have mad respect for anyone who is able to talk to/charm people *edit* for hours on end, keep their "tension" high and not get their social battery depleted (edited for the few people who also confuse introversion with social anxiety or the other way around) and get paid for it. Even if the pay is ridiculous high. Im so intrigued. I just commented before watching so im curious to see what new things I'll find out about.
being introverted doesn't mean not having charisma or charming people (or being able to). maybe you're mistaking introvertion with some other aspect like being socially awkawrd or anxious
Huh? Bro I'm a introvert but ik how to talk to people, being introverted has NOTHING to do with ur ability to talk to people being introverted is when u just prefer to be by urself 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@redlighting844 i get tired talking to people, imagine having to completely deplete your battery every single night/day. I work in customer service and do a great job at it if I have to say so myself, but at the end of the day, I'm irritable and tired AF.
@@Cheesecube86Im sure his body count for females is 0, bro looks like the Japanese version of jefree star. Ain’t no way he’s been with women with all that make up, wigs and plastic surgery.
It is very interesting how he adapts the conversation so artfully and with grace & sincerity to the person he's talking to to make them feel valued. He radiates coolness but never comes off snooty or above the people he's talking with. Good conversationalism lives in the moment with the people you're talking with. And someone who is a conversationalist professionally would be skilled at it like a fine art - and the best fine art is always sincere. This guy is really good at bringing out the best in others they talk to.
Noticed how he said he set his expectations too high rather than saying the movie is not as good as the series. He voiced his opinion without painting the movie in the bad light.
He is an amazing communicator. I love how he always explained himself using common references that most people would understand. He knew how to match joeys energy too. That's some skill right there!
I went on a trip to Japan, and the Japanese men were handsome and genius, and their physiques were slim and cool. Women all over the world should go meet Japanese men! In particular, there seems to be a muscle cafe and bar.
As a psychology graduate his nonverbal language is sophisticated. How he lead the conversation and make it inspirational is so flawless. He seems to practice a lot and has been working and picking what to say and which topic to go all the time but quietly and smoothly! Some skills that even psychotherapist might need to look at. Wow!!!
What do you think about what he said on Lolicon culture? I honestly found it concerning that he seemed to basically say that pedophilia is okay. Unless I misunderstood. 34:40 - 35:38 I was scrolling through the comments to see if anyone picked up on the comment he made about that, but since you're a Psychology graduate, I wanted to know what you think.
@@wisefoolwillow he said people should not be ashamed and get blamed for having feelings toward anyone regardless of age or appearance. However they should keep things reasonable and lawful. It's not like he supports pedophilia or illegal behaviors.
First I would like to clarify that while I think his nonverbal communication is so well and thoughtfully placed. In contrast to psychotherapists, he uses his client's trust to maximize his revenue and reputation. While psychotherapist working with broken trust and repair it in order to help client building healthy boundaries for themselves. and not to create dependency like what host can do as a customer retention. @@wisefoolwillow While I was concerning at first. According to him, he likes anime in a lolicon style that is not sexual. he just like how it was cute and tiny. It's just that I think people have the right to choose what is pleasing to their eyes. but if he seems to doesn't care about potential harm on sexualizing underage children. That is unacceptable. Hosts, on the other hand, are not aiming to promote the right thing, but to make money by pleasing people in front of him. We should not expect him to speak his truth. Sometimes I feel like he just acted as a mirror to his client. he seems to study Joey and intentionally talking about anime and youtuber in order to connect with Joey effortlessly. In spite of his sincerity, it might just be a glimpse of who he really is.
Yeah, kinda those are communication skills on practice. Actually it is quite hard to help someone with communication problems, there is too much details
Roland's communication skill shows a lot as a host, it feels like Joey just hanging out with a friend talking about anime and job. Also can't deny Joey got that skill too.
This interview can be a high level study on Human Behaviors It perfectly summarizes what a host does in relation to Japanese culture in its self Credit to Roland Thank yOu Joey - the Anime man
I can see why he so successful. You can keep talking with him for an hour without getting bored. Usually, when we see someone like him, you probably think you will never get close or be friend. He also the perfect example of someone who actually take the word from anime and use it in his daily live to succeed.
but can you actually become a close true friend to someone like him? because for me, watching the video it seemed like they both were enjoying their time together and "liked" each other but it felt somehow.... artificial? Like you have this thought in the back of your head that "he has talked to people like me and has had conversations like this one a thousand times with someone else". Idk its pretty deep and kinda sad and lonely if you look at it like that...
You just enjoy company of each other and be open to each other. I never thought relationships should be with self interest if there's interest then trying to connect someone. It is hard actually to connect to someone so even there's interest that kind of relationships builds fast and collapse fast. I am still with my friends for more than 12 years and counting honesty and authenticity are also needed
@@morty7145 I think you meant superficial not artificial. Honestly, you won't feel sad anymore once you realize how human interactions work, and it's not possible to establish a deep connection with somebody you just meet or barely meet. You should be grateful for any deep connections with your surroundings and friends because no one is born to understand you. Plus, it's a video, so a good chance that it's scripted a little bit
Holy shit this is so crazy, I've heard so much about ROLAND, even once on Trash Taste, and to finally see our boy actually do an interview with him is so amazing. Keep it up, Joey!
This was just such an interesting watch. Roland is definitely a host through and through. I was literally glued to the screen when ever he would talk. He was just so charismatic and charming. Great video.
When Roland thanked Joey at the end for going to talk to him by saying "you're coming to see me even if you're going through all these things", I was flabbergasted. In that moment you could see how all these years working as a host has made him a true artist of the conversation. This man has brought talking into an art, up to a level that can only be matched by few.
My old company collaborated with him one time, and I saw Roland from afar in our office, and he was taller than I expected. It was quite surprising. He was also kind to our staff, and from what I heard from the video department, he was hardworking and accommodating.
Honestly I’m going to say it… This is hands down one of the best video’s I’ve watched on joey’s channel…Roland had the energy to match and keep the flow of the conversation, I’ve always been a fan of him when i accidentally stumbled upon his story on a random website and it feels surreal seeing him on joey’s channel! Honestly speaking Joey could turn this into a series and bring more Japanese culture towards foreigners it’s educative and fun to watch! Big ups joey!👏
Agreed. You can tell he's an expert at his job with the interview. Just look how he's making Joey feel comfortable and how he's listening. Really a master of his craft
i'm not sure if he does this with every person he meets, but to me this entire interview felt very "natural". I do think Ronald actually personally liked Joey, or atleast I hope so. If getting that level of comfort is a skill, then it's pretty scary lmao. watched joey's video all the way through after years.
The fact that this one video changed my whole perspective of this man. Hes really such a rizzler. Hes narcissistic but not in a rude way, it literally draws you in.
First time hearing about Roland. I can definitely see why he is so successful. I was expecting a lot of obnoxious flexing like some rich people, but he is very down to earth, he truly listens and has insane skills in holding conversations, making him so approachable and interesting to talk to. Let's not forget, this man is quite wise and kind, having so much insight and foresight towards life and also wanting to make other people happy. What an awesome dude
Sorry, but this man is a prostitute, are you aware of it? He “makes people happy” by sleeping with them in exchange for a lot of money. It is 100% legal and he pays his taxes, I want to make it clear, but it doesn’t change the fact that people use him and that he useless people. So, maybe not such a great guy, after all.
“Sleeping with women is like drinking coffee to me” “I’m a huge narcissist” “Raoh quotes inspire me” and “Watching Ro-Kyu-Bo! helps with my multi-million dollar business” was all said by the same person in this video. Brilliant lmfao.
I can totally see why he made so much money. His communication skills are off the charts. He is very knowledgable about different things, and makes others feel very comfortable and important without minimizing his own engagement in the conversation. It's probably very easy for him to integrate into any group of people and make everyone have a better time without making himself the sole center of attention.
This guy is a class act. Ive seen many other host interviews and some are so “confident” to the point that they can’t have a real heart to heart, or bring others down to push themselves up. This dude is just confident and has a knack for learning about the people and things around him. He doesn’t have to alienate people to feel cool, and it seems like the dude genuinely appreciates connections with people of different backgrounds. If what he’s saying is all true, then I’m glad he’s taken the spot of richest host.
Roland exerts so much confidence that it draws out confidence in other people. And the that fact he mentions Aria tells me he truly means everything he says.
It makes complete sense why he is so successful. He is very easy to engage with in conversation and genuinely seems like a nice guy. It might all be a front due to being a host for so long, but it's very convincing either way. Dude's charming.
Joey, that was legitimately fascinating. It felt like such a natural conversation, which I didn't expect from the richest Host in Japan. He seems like a very down to earth guy. Great job facilitating the conversation, too. I hope you *do* decide to do a lot more of these kinds of casual interview-like pieces.
This man is broad-minded and well spoken. He even largely contributed to building a school in a developing country. I never though I would look up to a host as a possible male role model.
just from his vibe alone, you can tell why he's japan's #1 host goddamn,,, it's also quite amusing and cute that the dude's a huge anime fan as well lol also HE HAD A SCHOOL BUILT IN A DEVELOPING COUNTRY ?? and the way he was talking about how nice it was receiving letters from the kids there GOD, it made him even more cool and attractive
I often see him on Japanese TV (he is always like this) and all the other celebrities in Japan are intrigued by him too. Really interesting interview to share to audience other than Japanese people 😆 From what I remember, apparently his co-worker accidentally found in his bag with a book called “How to interact with younger people” and he takes time to send a message with emoji and ends up deleting it because he is scared to be called boomer 🤣
Same I remember watching him back I think 2018 or 2019 when he was showing up every Japanese TV station I also remember he used to live in a small apartment with also a few clothes
I went on a trip to Japan, and the Japanese men were handsome and genius, and their physiques were slim and cool. Women all over the world should go meet Japanese men! In particular, there seems to be a muscle cafe and bar.
This is way more interesting than I thought it would be. He comes off as someone fun to be in the same room with, which I'm sure helped him rise to like #1 host.
you can tell he understands about the other party (joey) before engaging the conversations so he can make conversation flows very smoothly. a true professional at talking with others. no wonders he is the richest host, he can talk with Joey like he's a longtime friend already.
Unsung Heroes I looked for someone who might rebuild the wall of righteousness that guards the land. I searched for someone to stand in the gap in the wall so I wouldn’t have to destroy the land, but I found no one (Ezekiel 22:30) Father’s Day is a special occasion designed by greeting card companies, no doubt, to honor our fathers. And though I think there is a certain commercial angle to the whole occasion that diminishes its effectiveness, I must say that I like the idea of having both a Father’s Day and a Mother’s Day. After all, the Bible does say, “Honor your father and mother” (Exodus 20:12) I don’t think we give enough credit to fathers these days. They deserve a lot of it, especially those who stick by their commitments, those who faithfully stand beside their wives and children. they are the unsung heroes. And their tribe is decreasing. There are fewer and fewer dads today who are there for their children. Yet a father’s influence is profound, far greater than that of any thing. I’m reminded of a statement that Mark Twain made: “When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.” You may not fully appreciate what it is that your father has done for you until you become a parent yourself. Then a lot of those things will come back to you. You will start understanding why he did many of the things he did and why he didn’t do many of the things you thought he should have done. How important good and godly dads are. I believe world needs them more than ever because of what we’re facing today. I think we could say that we’re looking for a few godly men-men who will stand in the gap, men who will be all that God has called them to be.
His charisma was overflowing throughout that entire video. He speaks so elegantly as well. I just could look away. This was such an interesting interview. I've been curious about him ever since I heard his name on Trash Taste. I finally understand why he is held in such a high regard.
He's so self-obsessed, arrogant and still managed to be likable because he doesn't take himself seriously😂😂 He knows damn well how people expect him to behave as the legendary Roland.
When you've turned yourself into a brand, you do have to put on a "show" (as in, the way you carry and express yourself) so that people with expectations aren't disappointed.
Usually self obsessed people are unbearable, they literally love themselves the way they are, they don't learn, they don't change. Roland seems to be the rare kind of person where their self obsession has driven them to be obsessed with others. He would have spoken to a truly uncountable number of people in his career, and he seems as if he has learnt something from every single one of them. He seems to learn something from everything, even something seemingly mundane like a children's anime. Everything is a lesson for him.
@@3XZDgg i think hes less of the personality disorder narcissist and more of the just really really REALLY loves himself type. cause it obviously doesn't affect his personal or professional life to the point where it breaks down relationships but it builds them. so i guess more self obsessed? wither way he's an interesting person who doesn't easily fall into categories that people build, which is probably a big reason for why he's uber popular. (sorry for the rambling, kinda used your comment as a way to think about it uwu)
its more like he loves what humanity in him and everyone has to offer and he tries bringing more of his own side and others unknown sides to show itself and that seems to be his talent. he is beyond charismatic and is a genuinely good guy for the sake of being genuine and good
He is actually looking like someone you can talk with for hours and easy to talk with, no wonder he is making millions in this profession, he is natural
@@roxyglow9670yeah we narcissists are splendid friends and one off partners but not really spouse material. I think most empathetic narcissists recognize this and avoid such commitments tho
Roland can really command a conversation and he's so charismatic. No wonder he's the #1 host. And this is just a glimpse of his work, imagine how it must be like to see him in his natural elements at a host club.
Damn i met few narcissist people and yes they LOOOOVEEE mirrors.. HUUge Mirrors... some of them put huge mirror in front of their working table like wtf. but i will definitely try to run away from narcissist coz they lack empathy and react fake sympathy, blamestorming too much.. well not generally all of them.
@@runccarie most likely is. Narcissism is both genetic and environmental, if he has a family full of it, it's probably high in their genes. Narcissism is not inherently bad, though. You just have to be aware of it and own up to it, which he does. That's why he's a really charming narcissist haha
U can respect a narcissist, but u can't trust a narcissist , they do have some type of charisma cuz of their arrogance, but u don't wanna get hooked with them , in the end the whole concept of narcissism is someone who believe the world revolve around them
Narcissist doesn’t mean a bad person. Everyone should have that love of themselves, and use that to understand how to perfect your self. Then your up bringing should add the other half of awareness of others.
Roland did a really good job of interviewing you Joey, and getting you to tell us a lot about yourself. This is the first time I have never heard you swear on a video. I am glad to see Roland's class and charisma worked on you. I thoroughly enjoyed this interview with a really honest and intelligent man. Great work and Cheers, Muffy from Oz
I didn't really know what to expect coming into this video but this was super entertaining. The guy clearly doesn't take himself too seriously and some of the one liners genuinely had me laughing out loud! I didn't think someone could ever talk like an anime character irl and it not come off as cringy, but this guy pulls it off somehow. Also, "Do you remember how many cups of coffee you've had in your life?" is crazy 💀
he is an amazing communicator. I guess that comes from experience. This was a fun video to watch. I can see why it is so fun to talk to him. Good work!
I am Japanese and glad you made a video with him! He is so famous in Japan, even someone who has never been to host clubs knows him. I am a man(straight) but I even know him.
Seeing ROLAND's expression and body language when Joey described the first time reading FOTNS was incredibly wholesome. ROLAND shared a personal feeling with him and Joey absolutely connected to that.
The way he just said "If you want to change your life, if you spend your time like shit, be hired by me" I was like SAY NO LESS lmao but in all seriousness this is probably one of my favorite interviews Joey has done with professionals bc both himself and Roland are great conversationalists and bounced off each other very well, and it helped that they had a lot of common topics to talk about
It's really interesting to watch how strongly Roland panders to the guest in the conversation. How he constantly mentions Australia specifically every 5 seconds after hearing that Joey is from there (14:52 - "It's probably something that doesn't exist in Australia, or anywhere else in the world") Or mentioning anime to the Anime Man, when it's not even exactly the topic (18:38 - "Actually, it was anime" *proceeds to talk about reading manga which never even got an anime*) Or switching topics to Joey's work right after questions about his own work to express solidarity (20:45 - "And our work, TH-cam too, is rough, right?") Or trying to find common grounds with a guest to seem relatable on topics even where is none (36:39 - "I think TH-camrs and hosts are kind of similar"). Like, come on, half of YTs are shut-in introverts who sit at home and talk to their camera, while hosts are actual IRL people entertainers. And you can't keep doing _any_ job forever and not decline in skills and income with age (although in most jobs that decline is much slower than for hosts and YTs, I agree), so that's a pretty far-fetched "similarity" that can be applied to almost any job that a guest has (and also you "chase targets" in most jobs as well). Or even constantly talking to the camera and mentioning "them" (us), essentially trying to keep even the camera men and the viewers kinda included in the conversation (16:04 - "So everyone watching this is probably thinking") And his body language - always sitting half-turned, sometimes leaning towards, sometimes full turning towards guest in the interview part. And he definitely practiced and prepared in advance a bunch of witty answers to the expected questions from any guest in his house ("why mirrors", "why Roland House", "body count", etc), loI. The most interesting part he does this pandering so effortlessly and unobtrusively that it's barely noticeable even if you're expecting it, like I am right now. I'm sure that if you're in his actual presence and especially if you're a little drunk as well that it would sound like magic in a sense that "he shares all my thoughts, he understands me so much!". Not surprising to hear "I really feel like we have a lot of similarities" from Joey at the end 45:18 there, he totally got charmed by all of it. The guy is really a master of his craft, impressive. Well, off to watching a vid on his channel then.
Tbh I think his whole house is designed this way to encourage conversation. As he said this does not look like a typical house. This is a place that was made business in mind. Conversational business
@@HelloOnepiece I would just say that his house is basically a night/host club for two. There's not much to talk about besides a couple of sentences about overall style, no personal trinkets to discuss at length whatsoever. Roland has to bring up anime and football himself, since there's not a single souvenir in sight that could suggest something about his hobbies/interests and encourage a conversation naturally. I think that contrary to your suggestion, Roland chooses minimalistic style in furniture/clothing (without many details that someone can discuss) specifically to *not* encourage a conversation _about him_ . Because, as a host, he probably prefers to encourage a conversation about a guest instead. Since most people like talking about themselves and feeling like they're being carefully and attentively listened to, like Roland does, and they would tip well for that. Even in this video, where Joey is supposed to interview Roland, he still flips the topics back to Joey's life and gets Joey to talk about himself for like a third of a video, lol.
Beautiful throughout analysis! I also was impressed by ROLAND testing out how Joey takes compliments. And his language is sooo fine! Always talking in entertaining metaphors. His social skill really is over 9.000. I'm so impressed!
It's amazing to see how the body language changed when they started to talk about anime and their passions, you can see Roland, laid back and facing the camera at the start, then he was inclined facing Joey having fun talking about cute girls doing their best. Was more vocal and using more hand gestures, he was really enjoying the conversation and not just faking it. Everything was really entertaining and insightful. What a good video!
I learned a lot while watching this. I noticed he kept asking Joey what he thinks to keep the conversation going. Also knowing someone's interests prior to their meeting and later use it to break the ice (he jokes about his alcohol display as figurines) makes him even more cooler. Even as I guy, given enough time, I might fall in love with him.
I can't believe I enjoyed this interview a lot!! It's really amazing that he can carry out a conversation so well. He listens patiently, genuinely interested in Joey too and answers everything in the most precise way possible! I get why girls are so crazy for him😩. Huge respect to you both🙏
He's a smooth talker. It doesnt seem like we have anything in common, but he still made me feel comfortable and laugh. He seems easy to talk to, so I can see how he can earn so much in that crazy and foreign culture of hosting. He might just be one of the world's most dangerous men...
Obsessed with the quality of this tipsy interview. This is the kind of content for you, Joey, you're so skilled at it. Vibing with total characters as you go in and out of Japanese and English, Anime and serious conversation, and a great informative look into an industry and individual in that industry. You're skilled at this, and I can't wait for more of this type of content.
Unsung Heroes I looked for someone who might rebuild the wall of righteousness that guards the land. I searched for someone to stand in the gap in the wall so I wouldn’t have to destroy the land, but I found no one (Ezekiel 22:30) Father’s Day is a special occasion designed by greeting card companies, no doubt, to honor our fathers. And though I think there is a certain commercial angle to the whole occasion that diminishes its effectiveness, I must say that I like the idea of having both a Father’s Day and a Mother’s Day. After all, the Bible does say, “Honor your father and mother” (Exodus 20:12) I don’t think we give enough credit to fathers these days. They deserve a lot of it, especially those who stick by their commitments, those who faithfully stand beside their wives and children. they are the unsung heroes. And their tribe is decreasing. There are fewer and fewer dads today who are there for their children. Yet a father’s influence is profound, far greater than that of any thing. I’m reminded of a statement that Mark Twain made: “When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.” You may not fully appreciate what it is that your father has done for you until you become a parent yourself. Then a lot of those things will come back to you. You will start understanding why he did many of the things he did and why he didn’t do many of the things you thought he should have done. How important good and godly dads are. I believe world needs them more than ever because of what we’re facing today. I think we could say that we’re looking for a few godly men-men who will stand in the gap, men who will be all that God has called them to be.
This man's self awareness of his own narcissim is what makes me respect him. Not too many get to that point. Plus, he made it work in his favor; he became very successful doing what he does.
As someone who used to be a model, host, candy girl at events, etc, getting paid at least €800 an hour just to be cute, and who has gladly traded that life in for an IT office job: don't underestimate this line of work. Just because your clients and audience come to you for relaxation and entertainment, doesn't mean it's a relaxing and easy job for you. I have mountains of respect for those that are in this kind of profession. And to anyone who feels like it's easy: you don't need a degree or permit to do it. So give it a go.
@@d00fin No, it's actually the opposite. Those that are successful in the industry are true to themselves. Roland is constantly reminding you he's being himself throughout the entirety of the video. If you have to fake it for hours on end, you're just not fit for the job.
I liked this discussion, it's cool seeing Joey genuinley seeking advice near the end, this discussion was very sincere, that is one of Joey's best qualities, he is sincere. It would be cool to see Joey just having conversations with people in Japan, it's amazing seeing the culture from different perspectives.
Roland's questions and pattern of speaking gave me flashbacks to my university lectures in practical counselling... 😂 He demonstrated active listening through various cues and made witty and insightful feedback dialogue; it seemed like he was returning questions back to the interviewer, but that's actually a great tool to keep conversation flowing.. I honestly respect him, and I hope he continues to do well and live the fulfilling life he likes. And you as well Joey. I've been liking these "Introductions to members of the Japanese population/ culture" series you have been doing. Hope you both continue to do well. 😊
No wonder he's a big success. He's actually smart, hard worker and now how to use his brain, beauty and talents to create a world class charm. I feel like watching Ghibli's movie whilst hearing his talking and enjoying his charm. Thx Roland for your generosity hosting us through this content.
With Roland being such a personable guy and Joey being an amazing interviewer like normal, it was a match made in heaven LOL. Such a relaxed and fun interview, loved the whole thing!
Damn, loved ROLAND, out of all the guests you had in this channel he seems the most down to earth and not just flat out eccentric, really charismatic too, I can see why he is the number one host in Japan
This is the first time I've seen him, but when he opened the door he immediately gave a strong impression with his manerism. And the whole video he just made me smile. It makes me want to strife to be like him.
You can really see how much Roland has honed his skill of talking with how precise and well timed his responses are. He conveys what he wants to say in an efficient manner and then turns the conversation back to give the other person a chance to speak as well to keep things going smoothly. I didn't expect that i would like him that much but he seems like a very genuine person, plus he has those bars that he suddenly drops along with the perfectly timed jokes so i think his friends definitely love him.
It's so sweet how humble he is. Not once putting himself above Joey, but spoke about their jobs equally. Also that the video turned into "so what anime would motivate you to shower?" 😂
Things I learned today: 1. Psychologists struggle in Japan because people use hosts instead? 2. Roland's lipstick is on 👏 point👏( he should have told us the brand/shade, honestly)
He said he owns a hair salon so I would bet that is also a makeup salon as well. I'm sure he had someone professional put his face on before the interview.
And would we be able to afford it even if he did tell us what lipstick he uses? I still find it strange, like, the dude has 4 houses, this one seems like the one to show off and have people over at. I find it insane that he says he has almost no clothes. And only that one suit? Can someone explain that to me?
Joey is very easy to talk to, but Ro talks to people every day for a living, so I think he's just comfortable because this is second-nature to him now. His charisma and other social skills are why he was able to make it so far as a host.
Roland communication skill is so good. Notice he used Australia and anime as reference in order to quickly connect with the host and his target audience.
Its so unique to see into a person like Roland. He is charismatically self aware and does not deny anything about himself. I can see why he is the top host. I'm introverted and not into the concept of hosts. But having conversation with him sounds fun.
As many people in commend mention, this guy is top level of having conversation with people. Like holy shit, 30min into video and suddenly i realize this guy is showing his “host” skill, it so smooth the way he control and leading and make orther people to talk
His house having that simplistic vibe by going all black is really nice depending on the type of person who will appeal it to, but to ROLAND that's his theme. Usually that type of interior design is what you see in movies and mangas but he really did it for himself.
Something about him being unapologetically himself is literally so cool. I can't believe I'm saying this as a grown woman but once I'm older, I aspire to be more confident and secure with myself like how Roland is 😭 Man is literally too cool
Another big reason why he feels likable is, he always manages to turn the spotlight to the other person - when Joey talked about how many mirrors there were in the living room, Roland started asking about the mirrors in Joey's living room, and threw a deeper introspective question "Don't you think mirrors reflect self-confidence". Almost every single topic they talk about, he asks about Joey's side or refer to what Joey mentioned earlier. I would say this skill probably got him get to this place as a "host" .
I think that skill really stems from his job as a host as well. He's in the service industry so his communication skills must he amazinf
suddenly I wanna pay him to be my host so that I could have someone great like this to talk to 🥲
@@ashd1788 good luck gathering all the money to get him on your table
@@pasty9276 guess i could only wish, dreaming is free 🫠
Smart observation
Never thought I’d hear someone go “yeah I’ve slept with more women I can remember” and “I’m a huge narcissist actually” and NOT hate them. Roland’s charisma is insane
True charisma is unbelievable overpowered. You can be the most unskilled person but if you're charismatic, you can go places
@@Verchiel_ like ambatukam
That man pulled the "how many breads have you eaten in your life"
He is that one anime character that is psycho narcissistic villain. But we all love.
I think it's also the huge amount of self-awareness that he shows. Usually narcissists hate being called one, but he instead accepts it, leans into it and is unapologetic about it. Meaning, he is honest about who he is, and that's a big plus in terms of liking someone. So many people are not able to be honest with and about themselves, so having someone like this, who clearly is a narcissist, typical douchebag pretty boy type, but also is self-aware and honest about it, is kinda like a breath of fresh air. You don't expect this from someone like Roland usually.
Gods, he is terrifying. I take a fair amount of time to warm up to new people, but just 5 minutes in and I feel like I'd trust him with my secrets. Damn...
Yeah and I am the type who just lies to be cautious where I don't need to be.
I don't understand why do you like him so much...
"5 minutes in and i'd feel like trust him with my secrets" that's kinda weird, for me it's like the reverse, won't let him strike my weaknesses but yeah he probably doesn't care that much
I'm introvert but when I talk to randoms they'll talk to me every secret they had 😅
wow really? how can you be so easy.?
As a woman I can tell why he's a top host. He's not just a pretty face. He knows how to CONNECT with people and is very charismatic . I don't feel like watching an interview but two people conversing and connecting. Never expected an interviewee to ask the interviewer so many questions back. 🤣
as a man I don't understand women's attraction to feminine men. hair, makeup, lack of facial hair, likely has soft delicate hands. he keeps crossing his arms and hugging himself, which is a sign of insecurity. even his sense of style is bad, everything is black, gray, dark, and cold looking. maybe he is going for the Dracula aesthetic.
@@stephpears4012 his voice...very far from feminino
@@hellenmoreira9991 there are millions of guys that have masculine voices that women don't fawn over. but you're saying that his voice is so singularly great that it warrants this type of attention?
I mean just as a friend, he's very interesting and conversational. But as a potential suitor, he's very unattractive imo😅 I'm confused why everyone seems to think he's so good looking/attractive.
@@evefoodie8798 true. I never said he's a catch for serious relationships. None of us know. But he does look like someone I'd love to hang out with either as a host or a friend. He looks posh and all, but when you see his other more recent videos he's actually a deep thinker and quite easy going. All in all, a charismatic person
Him actually being a Huge Anime Fan was a Really Big Surprise!
dude, you got me into anime like, 11 years ago, it's good to see you around
O legendă se uită la altă legendă
Cine are fi crezut
Neatza :)
In what way whatsoever?
Listening to Roland talk with Joey, it is actually kind of easy to see how he's so successful as a host. His ability to engage and express interest in the conversation partner, keeping the conversation flowing is some next level skill.
I agree and at some point you can start noticing joey to start sharing more about his self lul
@@lymphz_0012 some would say he's fallen
As an introvert this is a god like skill to me. Lol
@@Rkanegaming-e literally
Imagine this is how people talked all the time before the internet ruined our brains.
Roland's quotes are amazing. For instance...
“There are only 2 types of men: Me, and the rest”
“I often stare into girl’s eyes and say “your face is so beautiful” but I’m really looking at my own reflection in the girl’s eye.”
“Because I sweet-talk so much, I might get cavities, so I changed all my teeth to ceramic.”
LMAOOO
Iconic 😂
LOL😂
This goes hard.
The 2nd quote...wow
I'm terrified of how charismatic Roland is, if I saw him in real life I would've been too intimidated to talk to him 😭
But hes so personable also! id be terrified but also fighting the urge to converse haha.
Lol girls say they like one thing but actually like Another. Women don’t actually say what they like. This man is living proof of this!
:/
Intimidated by this piece of shit?
Bruh he can’t intimidate my dog
When u meet a real charismatic MAN you’ll know that he ain’t shit
He really got our boy Joey to open up. Table how turned have in this interview.
This guy is true professional. He went deep into Joey's videos and researched and brought it up to him to make a engaging conversation also, to relate to the audience he is speaking to. Hosts are masters of adaptation to the audience whether it be to a otaku crowd or a client at a club. Rizz 100%
He had met with countless people. His communication lvl is 99999
@@kaito7132 Our man could escape killing the chicken in Elder Scrolls
I'm pretty sure that if he wasn't a host, he would be a great podcast or talk show host similar to Joe Rogan is for the US.
He's a "professional," alright.
1000% rizz
Roland went from “I’ve slept with more women than I can remember” to "2D will never betray you" what an icon
He knows how to switch from regular usual self with his working persona. Pretty neat.
Unsung Heroes
I looked for someone who might rebuild the wall of righteousness that guards the land. I searched for someone to stand in the gap in the wall so I wouldn’t have to destroy the land, but I found no one
(Ezekiel 22:30)
Father’s Day is a special occasion designed by greeting card companies, no doubt, to honor our fathers. And though I think there is a certain commercial angle to the whole occasion that diminishes its effectiveness, I must say that I like the idea of having both a Father’s Day and a Mother’s Day.
After all, the Bible does say,
“Honor your father and mother”
(Exodus 20:12)
I don’t think we give enough credit to fathers these days. They deserve a lot of it, especially those who stick by their commitments, those who faithfully stand beside their wives and children.
they are the unsung heroes. And their tribe is decreasing.
There are fewer and fewer dads today who are there for their children. Yet a father’s influence is profound, far greater than that of any thing.
I’m reminded of a statement that Mark Twain made: “When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.”
You may not fully appreciate what it is that your father has done for you until you become a parent yourself. Then a lot of those things will come back to you. You will start understanding why he did many of the things he did and why he didn’t do many of the things you thought he should have done.
How important good and godly dads are. I believe world needs them more than ever because of what we’re facing today.
I think we could say that we’re looking for a few godly men-men who will stand in the gap, men who will be all that God has called them to be.
@@icodestuff6241 I wouldn't go as far as to say he has "experience," with women in any other setting aside from being a host for them. Working a host job and getting paid to make women laugh and then sleep with them once they fall for your fake persona that they paid you to put on for them is not the foundation for any normal relationship between a man and woman. These interactions are simply short moments of time, filled with drink, laughter, noise and money, and there isn't a genuine thing about that. He likely prefers 2D women because the stories he sees between the characters in anime are ironically more emotionally sincere and heatfelt than anything he experiences with his female "clients," in real life. This man has no idea what it means to truly love a woman and have her love him back because none of them really ever get to see the nerdy otaku that he really is... It's actually quite sad.
absolute chad
@@tisbutascratch2045 Yeah it does make sense. The fact his favorite girl from quintuple is Yotsuba tell a lot about his preferences lol
ROLAND just has effortless charisma. This interview was awesome. You can absolutely see why he was the #1 Host in Japan, he makes conversation so easy and fluid.
I think he worked hard for it. It's a miraculous coincidence that his talents meets a huge efforts, it makes him godly attractive.
🌟
I feel like he’s putting in a lot of effort, he definitely maxed out his skill😅
Effortless? KEKW He's trying sooo hard it's cringe AF
@@PhoenIXPhantasies omega comment there
@@PhoenIXPhantasies your name is cringe mr phoenix
No wonder he's the #1 host in Japan. He's got grace and brains. And he doesn't just talk, he communicates.
Yeah, this guy just maxed out his skill tree.
@@22ninja1I'd say he still has a way to go in the interior decorating branch of the skill tree. That house is low-key hideous, but I agree on everything else. He seems a delight to hang out with.
@@PinchiExivion Roland can always upgrade his skills on interior design and find nice sets on the Bethesda Creation Club.🤭
lol he is nothing. just another weakling.
I love how ridiculous he is and that he's self aware of the fact. He's out there but still grounded. Such a fascinating person, probably why he's so good at what he does.
In the first 10 seconds of the video this dude says he could wipe out all of France's vineyards.. France has around 900k hectares of vineyard that are worth around 70 billion euros without counting some of them have historical value and overall prestige and fame that usually adds in the numbers but we'll ignore that for now, we don't count that in the 70 billions average.. a dude in 2021 bought 17k hectares of vineyard in France for 1,1 billion euros.. so.. u know.. unrealistic
@@rias.gremoryyybut he’s saying it as a hyperbole. He knows it’s ridiculous and knows we think it’s ridiculous too. His jokes are all self aware and tongue in cheek which is what gives him the perception of being “grounded”
@@rias.gremoryyy Roland was talking about being able to drink so much he could clear all of France's vineyards
@@rias.gremoryyy are you joking or are you just so slow, he said it as a figure of speech bruh
@@rias.gremoryyy you're taking what he said too literally and seriously
Some things I've noticed about his charisma:
- He is relaxed and speaks slowly
- He has a great memory for things he experienced and helps him share his experiences with other people
- He uses a lot of analogies which makes it more interesting to listen to him (metaphors will also work, the more visual your language the better)
- He is comfortable with himself and doesn't take himself too seriously, down to earth (practical, real world-day to day life oriented)
- He has general knowledge of most things making him interesting to talk to (He tries to find a lesson in anything including anime)
- He is an extremely good listener and let's the other person finish speaking. Even when he is midsentence and the other person tries to say something he just keeps silent to prioritize what the other person wants to say.
- He is intelligent, knowledgeable and intellectual but doesn't flaunt or try to impress people he only shows this side of him when it is applicable, hence why people refer to him as down to earth as well
- He exudes zero negativity or animosity in his tonality
- He sprinkles in genuine small compliments making the other person feel comfortable and with each questions asks Joey's point of view on things
- He is extremely well groomed and has pretty boy aesthetics (not sure if this contributes to charisma towards men, but it probably works very wel with women)
- He has insane confidence
- He clearly understands who he is talking to and his current audience, he probably would fit in any group and can hang out with any type of person. Roland is seducing the entire audience of Joey without most knowing it
bro is psychoanalysing roland like one of those sigma male tip videos
He has no enemy.
@@tucosalamanca5818 I am. I knew him before this interview. His morning routine popped up in my feed for some reason and I was fascinated by this dude. His house is very big and he is successful, I love learning from successful people.
20 seconds into this video I was already hooked, I am so going to learn
@@bluegiant13
1am: wake up
2am: take a shit
3am: eat
4am: get out of bed
27:37 wow the fact he even asked the cameraman a question goes to show how seriously charismatic this guy is. He’s the poster child of an extrovert and the popular/well loved kid at school 😂
If you read The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, theres a chapter in it where the person is seductive because he or she makes YOU feel like the most interesting person in the world by asking YOU questions and LISTENING and not talking about themselves a the time. Even though hes meant to be the interviewee, Roland listens super attentively, clearly did his research on things that the other person is into and incorporates it very smoothly into his dialogue. Hes clearly a master at work
This guy is basically someone who has maxed out the skills from that book. I watched this and was left wondering, was this even his real personality or he just "seduced" the host.
We will never know but its interesting to think about.
There are so many little moments that make me wonder if he means it or just says things like that to make people feel nice.
Like " i didn't expect you to be so easy to get along with".
when they were talking about alcohol he compliments his drinking ability.
when he says anime is more well accepted because of "cool people like you" to the host.
@@lewiswood1693 wow, you are so, right, this guy needs to be studied
You can see why he's so successful as a host and with business in general. This guy could probably sell you anything by making you feel important.
Asking the right questions at that. Many people take this advice at face value from other sources and they end up being merely questionnaires. Roland has this way of making the conversation fun for all the participants and it just shows. Even us, the audience is already invested with this guy's stories.
Ok
This man has perfected being someone you want to talk to to the point where it' s simply scary !! The way he presents himself feels so real and unreal at the same time, well balanced between genuine and calculated.
It's called psychopathy.
@@dingus_doofus Spoken like a true doofus
@@dingus_doofus ah yes,
knowing how to present yourself to the media, all while being a narcissist and being aware that you're one and accepting that fact = psychopath.
if you're gonna insult someone at least grab a dictionary, jesus
@@dingus_doofus not exactly psychopathy mayber more like sociopathy(?) since I recall psychopaths=born; sociopaths=created
correct me if wrong I wanna know the exact differences too
@@yeet9703 you're pretty spot on, general personality theories state something along that psychopathy is born so there is a mutation on the brain, that usually hinders the ability to be able to empathize with other people, and also do have some form of emotional impairment (they don't experience life as most of us), while sociopaths are made, this is usually a consequence of their environment (abusive parents/family,) where they had to adapt to put away empathy in order to survive, this couple with the fact they experience emotions similarly to lost does lead them to be more prone to emotional "bursts" meaning they can't control their emotions and are more impulsive. This can lead to a murder in a fit of rage, meaning sociopaths are more dangerous than psychopaths... Now this is all by what I remember and I felt too lazy to grab the DSM and other sources to search them up
Even in this interview you can really tell how pro this guy as a host or basically how good he is in connecting with people, he knows joey is into anime and adds anime related fun facts about his life so joey can also enjoy, saying that being a host and youtuber is kind of the same by the way they think of content to entertain people So they can have a connection and joey can relate to it aswell .. daang
that's true but it's also added to the fact that Roland is an anime maniac lmao
he had a really good answer for every question asked. it’s insane
Yeah, he's really skilled. I actually feel that I have learned more about Joey than Roland, especially in the part when they talked about the future.
Since he knows that's part of Joey's brand/image and that's the demographic of Joey's fans then it's actually really clever to relate to not just Joey, but to Joey's demographic as well.@@Chris-px2gf
I went on a trip to Japan, and the Japanese men were handsome and genius, and their physiques were slim and cool. Women all over the world should go meet Japanese men! In particular, there seems to be a muscle cafe and bar.
I think a lot of people might not fully understand how big of a deal it is that Joey managed to land Roland for an interview, and also have it run for almost an hour to boot! In terms of effort put into a video and general quality i think this is his best video by a mile.
I agree, I was very surprised when I got the notif for this video. The fact that he got to interview Roland is awesome, and it was a great video too
I mean it's not that big of a deal cause at the end of the day he's still just some dude
@@matthewflores4183 nope . You gotta accept reality. He's not just SOME DUDE
@@bindutiwari4263 true he is more of a dudet lol
@@matthewflores4183 bro if you phrase it like that then every supermodel, influencer, politician, or famous person will sound mediocre lmfaooo, yea elon musk is one of the most richest individual on earth, but at the end of the day he's still just some dude
Came from Stephanie Soo to watch the actual interview lol
Glad I'm not the only one falling 😂😂
Same here!
LMAO me too 😂
AH omg me too I didn’t expect to see others here actually 😅
Same here 😂😂
That man is 100% a vampire doing his best to prove that he's not.
deadass the "even if I loved someone 100 years older" WHY THAT NUMBER ROLAND
Dio Brando!!!
Fr
Lmaooo
Nah he has crazy amount of plastic surgery 😂
honestly he called himself a narcissist but from that and just watching the video he really isnt, he just has insane confidence. if he was a narcissist he wouldnt have even let joey speak at all.
He's getting close though
@@youcanthandlethetruth8873 definitely close ahahaha
yeah
He is, but it isnt a bad thing if you know it and only use certain parts of that part of you, narcissists can train themselves
Narcissists are people too, it seems some who become aware of it don't embrace it and suffer under it. Some narcissists want to get better. Well, actually I'm thinking of psychopats and sociopaths here, I mixed it up, but if this applies to them and to other personality disorders why not narcissism too? Having a specific personality disorder doesn't mean there is only one specific way to feel about it and handle it. Though of course the disorder itself influences how you feel about it. Not sure but I think there are different types of narcissism too.
I don't know if this was supposed to be more like an interview, but Roland made Joey so comfortable to talk about his plans and feelings and fears about his career. That's incredible
Host can read you like a book
And and and and
Well he’s a host
This mans knows how to treat people, that's why he has the job that he has
This mans knows how to treat people, that's why he has the job that he has
Roland is impressive and does his research. The beginning is about him being a host and his home.
Later on, roland switches gear and holds his own AND more when discussing anime and manga.
Looks like he "hosted" the Anime Man with his conversational skills
My exact thought, he took over and Joey told his darkest secret “Im at my limit with anime too”. Roland should be sent to Gaza to host a Palestine/Israeli peace party.
@@cucxuong1 That would be great honestly
It's not just Joey that falled into Roland's skills but also us the viewer and we became intrigued with his conversations.
Looks like I'm the only one that lost interest. I'm going to come back and try to finish it but the monochrome appearance, blank canvas apartment and sunglasses were throwing me off. He's an empty disc drive waiting to be uploaded with all of your information so he can " mirror" your own personality back at you. Because at the end of the day we're all narcissists who would just love to find someone who is essentially a hot version of ourselves. The mirrors everywhere are a reflection of what he is in essence. A mirror. You can come at me if you want. I don't care😂
As an introvert I have mad respect for anyone who is able to talk to/charm people *edit* for hours on end, keep their "tension" high and not get their social battery depleted (edited for the few people who also confuse introversion with social anxiety or the other way around) and get paid for it. Even if the pay is ridiculous high. Im so intrigued. I just commented before watching so im curious to see what new things I'll find out about.
As an introvert, i pay to be able to talk like that
being introverted doesn't mean not having charisma or charming people (or being able to). maybe you're mistaking introvertion with some other aspect like being socially awkawrd or anxious
Huh? Bro I'm a introvert but ik how to talk to people, being introverted has NOTHING to do with ur ability to talk to people being introverted is when u just prefer to be by urself 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You're not an introvert, you've got social anxiety
@@redlighting844 i get tired talking to people, imagine having to completely deplete your battery every single night/day.
I work in customer service and do a great job at it if I have to say so myself, but at the end of the day, I'm irritable and tired AF.
When asked for his body count, this man really hit us with the "how many breads have you eaten in your life"
Surprise attack with a Jojo reference
@@monarch4431He literally fell for it like a fool and got hit with the thunder cross split attack
He date with them just not sleep with them because that a big no for a host
@@hisyamasharDude stop acting like a Pro on this shit the guy legit said how many people did you SLEEP WITH
@@Cheesecube86Im sure his body count for females is 0, bro looks like the Japanese version of jefree star. Ain’t no way he’s been with women with all that make up, wigs and plastic surgery.
Roland should write a book on how to interact with people. He’s definitely a master at his craft, he’s very impressive and cool as hell
It is very interesting how he adapts the conversation so artfully and with grace & sincerity to the person he's talking to to make them feel valued. He radiates coolness but never comes off snooty or above the people he's talking with. Good conversationalism lives in the moment with the people you're talking with. And someone who is a conversationalist professionally would be skilled at it like a fine art - and the best fine art is always sincere. This guy is really good at bringing out the best in others they talk to.
Noticed how he said he set his expectations too high rather than saying the movie is not as good as the series. He voiced his opinion without painting the movie in the bad light.
He is an amazing communicator. I love how he always explained himself using common references that most people would understand. He knew how to match joeys energy too. That's some skill right there!
I went on a trip to Japan, and the Japanese men were handsome and genius, and their physiques were slim and cool. Women all over the world should go meet Japanese men! In particular, there seems to be a muscle cafe and bar.
As a psychology graduate his nonverbal language is sophisticated.
How he lead the conversation and make it inspirational is so flawless. He seems to practice a lot and has been working and picking what to say and which topic to go all the time but quietly and smoothly! Some skills that even psychotherapist might need to look at. Wow!!!
What do you think about what he said on Lolicon culture? I honestly found it concerning that he seemed to basically say that pedophilia is okay. Unless I misunderstood. 34:40 - 35:38
I was scrolling through the comments to see if anyone picked up on the comment he made about that, but since you're a Psychology graduate, I wanted to know what you think.
@@wisefoolwillow he said people should not be ashamed and get blamed for having feelings toward anyone regardless of age or appearance. However they should keep things reasonable and lawful.
It's not like he supports pedophilia or illegal behaviors.
First I would like to clarify that while I think his nonverbal communication is so well and thoughtfully placed.
In contrast to psychotherapists, he uses his client's trust to maximize his revenue and reputation. While psychotherapist working with broken trust and repair it in order to help client building healthy boundaries for themselves. and not to create dependency like what host can do as a customer retention.
@@wisefoolwillow While I was concerning at first. According to him, he likes anime in a lolicon style that is not sexual. he just like how it was cute and tiny. It's just that I think people have the right to choose what is pleasing to their eyes.
but if he seems to doesn't care about potential harm on sexualizing underage children. That is unacceptable.
Hosts, on the other hand, are not aiming to promote the right thing, but to make money by pleasing people in front of him.
We should not expect him to speak his truth.
Sometimes I feel like he just acted as a mirror to his client. he seems to study Joey and intentionally talking about anime and youtuber in order to connect with Joey effortlessly. In spite of his sincerity, it might just be a glimpse of who he really is.
@@kessibabanee7776yea I kinda thought the same things too
Yeah, kinda those are communication skills on practice. Actually it is quite hard to help someone with communication problems, there is too much details
Roland's communication skill shows a lot as a host, it feels like Joey just hanging out with a friend talking about anime and job. Also can't deny Joey got that skill too.
So Joey could also become a host lmao
@@koralita3656 aki gonna kill joey if he became host 😂💀
This interview can be a high level study on Human Behaviors
It perfectly summarizes what a host does in relation to Japanese culture in its self
Credit to Roland
Thank yOu Joey - the Anime man
I can see why he so successful. You can keep talking with him for an hour without getting bored. Usually, when we see someone like him, you probably think you will never get close or be friend. He also the perfect example of someone who actually take the word from anime and use it in his daily live to succeed.
but can you actually become a close true friend to someone like him? because for me, watching the video it seemed like they both were enjoying their time together and "liked" each other but it felt somehow.... artificial? Like you have this thought in the back of your head that "he has talked to people like me and has had conversations like this one a thousand times with someone else". Idk its pretty deep and kinda sad and lonely if you look at it like that...
@@morty7145You don't become just friends with anybody just for the sake of it. There's always context and self interest involved
@@GottEddy yeah, it's hard for me to explain how you become "true friends" with someone :/
You just enjoy company of each other and be open to each other. I never thought relationships should be with self interest if there's interest then trying to connect someone. It is hard actually to connect to someone so even there's interest that kind of relationships builds fast and collapse fast. I am still with my friends for more than 12 years and counting honesty and authenticity are also needed
@@morty7145 I think you meant superficial not artificial. Honestly, you won't feel sad anymore once you realize how human interactions work, and it's not possible to establish a deep connection with somebody you just meet or barely meet. You should be grateful for any deep connections with your surroundings and friends because no one is born to understand you. Plus, it's a video, so a good chance that it's scripted a little bit
Holy shit this is so crazy, I've heard so much about ROLAND, even once on Trash Taste, and to finally see our boy actually do an interview with him is so amazing. Keep it up, Joey!
He's the peak every weebs strive to be. Being an otaku while keeping that much rizz. 😎
This was just such an interesting watch. Roland is definitely a host through and through. I was literally glued to the screen when ever he would talk. He was just so charismatic and charming. Great video.
Seriously. I didn't think I'd be able to finish the 40 minute video
It’s insane how short this felt
When Roland thanked Joey at the end for going to talk to him by saying "you're coming to see me even if you're going through all these things", I was flabbergasted. In that moment you could see how all these years working as a host has made him a true artist of the conversation. This man has brought talking into an art, up to a level that can only be matched by few.
saaame!!!! i love his energy!
Agree! Low key looking for a Part 2. I understand now why he is earning with his skills
He always keeps his eyes on the person he is talking to, never on the camera. He has a deep understanding of what the other person is saying.
My old company collaborated with him one time, and I saw Roland from afar in our office, and he was taller than I expected. It was quite surprising. He was also kind to our staff, and from what I heard from the video department, he was hardworking and accommodating.
I’m just curious, where do u work? Like what kind of collaboration is it?
@@elf_someone I work as a game designer, and I used to work at Krafton PUBG. He had a collaboration where we had his voice in-game.
@@Ypsilion ohhhhh nice
Yeah, he's like 6ft, and he wears heels sometimes lol
Honestly I’m going to say it…
This is hands down one of the best video’s I’ve watched on joey’s channel…Roland had the energy to match and keep the flow of the conversation, I’ve always been a fan of him when i accidentally stumbled upon his story on a random website and it feels surreal seeing him on joey’s channel!
Honestly speaking Joey could turn this into a series and bring more Japanese culture towards foreigners it’s educative and fun to watch!
Big ups joey!👏
Agreed. You can tell he's an expert at his job with the interview. Just look how he's making Joey feel comfortable and how he's listening. Really a master of his craft
i'm not sure if he does this with every person he meets, but to me this entire interview felt very "natural". I do think Ronald actually personally liked Joey, or atleast I hope so. If getting that level of comfort is a skill, then it's pretty scary lmao. watched joey's video all the way through after years.
@@hritabanroy6911 I think it's because Roland ist just a natural at getting people comfortable with him. He's a host after all.
You can tell he's a good host by the fact this is a video about him and like half of the time he's got joey talking about himself.
The fact that this one video changed my whole perspective of this man. Hes really such a rizzler. Hes narcissistic but not in a rude way, it literally draws you in.
First time hearing about Roland. I can definitely see why he is so successful. I was expecting a lot of obnoxious flexing like some rich people, but he is very down to earth, he truly listens and has insane skills in holding conversations, making him so approachable and interesting to talk to. Let's not forget, this man is quite wise and kind, having so much insight and foresight towards life and also wanting to make other people happy. What an awesome dude
Sorry, but this man is a prostitute, are you aware of it? He “makes people happy” by sleeping with them in exchange for a lot of money. It is 100% legal and he pays his taxes, I want to make it clear, but it doesn’t change the fact that people use him and that he useless people. So, maybe not such a great guy, after all.
Dude can also drink. Even watching him on a screen, I was so into the conversation that his glass was almost empty by the time I noticed.
“Sleeping with women is like drinking coffee to me” “I’m a huge narcissist” “Raoh quotes inspire me” and “Watching Ro-Kyu-Bo! helps with my multi-million dollar business” was all said by the same person in this video. Brilliant lmfao.
LOLLLL
Dude is an anime character😂
@@orbboom6119fr😂 dude is so many characters in one
Pretty disrespectful to.all.women
@@elizabethdavid9964 Then they should stop sleeping with him.
I can totally see why he made so much money. His communication skills are off the charts. He is very knowledgable about different things,
and makes others feel very comfortable and important without minimizing his own engagement in the conversation. It's probably very easy for him
to integrate into any group of people and make everyone have a better time without making himself the sole center of attention.
This guy is a class act. Ive seen many other host interviews and some are so “confident” to the point that they can’t have a real heart to heart, or bring others down to push themselves up. This dude is just confident and has a knack for learning about the people and things around him. He doesn’t have to alienate people to feel cool, and it seems like the dude genuinely appreciates connections with people of different backgrounds. If what he’s saying is all true, then I’m glad he’s taken the spot of richest host.
Roland exerts so much confidence that it draws out confidence in other people. And the that fact he mentions Aria tells me he truly means everything he says.
It makes complete sense why he is so successful. He is very easy to engage with in conversation and genuinely seems like a nice guy.
It might all be a front due to being a host for so long, but it's very convincing either way. Dude's charming.
Joey, that was legitimately fascinating. It felt like such a natural conversation, which I didn't expect from the richest Host in Japan. He seems like a very down to earth guy.
Great job facilitating the conversation, too. I hope you *do* decide to do a lot more of these kinds of casual interview-like pieces.
i mean, when youre the no. 1 best wooer, you better be pretty damn charismatic
@@SenatorDodo09no lie, you really feel it. He's on a whole different level.
This man is broad-minded and well spoken. He even largely contributed to building a school in a developing country. I never though I would look up to a host as a possible male role model.
This guy is mad chill. If I had the money, I’d pay him just to make me laugh and have great conversations
Thats actually how he makes money HAHAHA
@@bayangintokii4774that's why the person wrote that... HAHAAHAHA
'You're already dead' 😂😂
Me too😭.. I'd pay millions to have this man in my life for even a year
Honestly i would too
just from his vibe alone, you can tell why he's japan's #1 host goddamn,,,
it's also quite amusing and cute that the dude's a huge anime fan as well lol
also HE HAD A SCHOOL BUILT IN A DEVELOPING COUNTRY ?? and the way he was talking about how nice it was receiving letters from the kids there GOD, it made him even more cool and attractive
rightttt
He is literally the pinnacle of Rizz
Rizz incarnate even, he literally can't remember if he slept with every woman on Earth
I wonder if his school says ROLAND SCHOOL on all the windows
@@traphimawari7760 majority prostitution. But yes
I often see him on Japanese TV (he is always like this) and all the other celebrities in Japan are intrigued by him too. Really interesting interview to share to audience other than Japanese people 😆
From what I remember, apparently his co-worker accidentally found in his bag with a book called “How to interact with younger people” and he takes time to send a message with emoji and ends up deleting it because he is scared to be called boomer 🤣
lmao thats so funny and cute at the same time. he really does study and make an effort to be good at what he does!
Same I remember watching him back I think 2018 or 2019 when he was showing up every Japanese TV station I also remember he used to live in a small apartment with also a few clothes
I went on a trip to Japan, and the Japanese men were handsome and genius, and their physiques were slim and cool. Women all over the world should go meet Japanese men! In particular, there seems to be a muscle cafe and bar.
How old is he
He is a host and it is ultimately his job to entertain and converse. He is obviously good at what he does and because of that he will be likeable
This is way more interesting than I thought it would be. He comes off as someone fun to be in the same room with, which I'm sure helped him rise to like #1 host.
yeah, feels like you can talk to him about most stuffs
ROLAND is seriously such a charismatic man! Got me giggling and kicking my feet in the air n shit
n shit!
Bad news, you are in love 😔
Massive diarhea
she's ready
lmfao wtf
you can tell he understands about the other party (joey) before engaging the conversations so he can make conversation flows very smoothly. a true professional at talking with others. no wonders he is the richest host, he can talk with Joey like he's a longtime friend already.
Unsung Heroes
I looked for someone who might rebuild the wall of righteousness that guards the land. I searched for someone to stand in the gap in the wall so I wouldn’t have to destroy the land, but I found no one
(Ezekiel 22:30)
Father’s Day is a special occasion designed by greeting card companies, no doubt, to honor our fathers. And though I think there is a certain commercial angle to the whole occasion that diminishes its effectiveness, I must say that I like the idea of having both a Father’s Day and a Mother’s Day.
After all, the Bible does say,
“Honor your father and mother”
(Exodus 20:12)
I don’t think we give enough credit to fathers these days. They deserve a lot of it, especially those who stick by their commitments, those who faithfully stand beside their wives and children.
they are the unsung heroes. And their tribe is decreasing.
There are fewer and fewer dads today who are there for their children. Yet a father’s influence is profound, far greater than that of any thing.
I’m reminded of a statement that Mark Twain made: “When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.”
You may not fully appreciate what it is that your father has done for you until you become a parent yourself. Then a lot of those things will come back to you. You will start understanding why he did many of the things he did and why he didn’t do many of the things you thought he should have done.
How important good and godly dads are. I believe world needs them more than ever because of what we’re facing today.
I think we could say that we’re looking for a few godly men-men who will stand in the gap, men who will be all that God has called them to be.
Bro is doing tricks on it 🤦♂
@@Wow-dw6gl LMAOAOOAOA
His charisma was overflowing throughout that entire video. He speaks so elegantly as well. I just could look away. This was such an interesting interview. I've been curious about him ever since I heard his name on Trash Taste. I finally understand why he is held in such a high regard.
He's so self-obsessed, arrogant and still managed to be likable because he doesn't take himself seriously😂😂 He knows damn well how people expect him to behave as the legendary Roland.
He doesn't look like arrogant AT ALL to me... What makes you think that?
Yeah he's self-aware. That's what some people lack that make them insufferable.
When you've turned yourself into a brand, you do have to put on a "show" (as in, the way you carry and express yourself) so that people with expectations aren't disappointed.
@halohunter63 You think that because he puts on the perfect counter act to that impression.
@@halohunter63 I think he meant narcissistic
Usually self obsessed people are unbearable, they literally love themselves the way they are, they don't learn, they don't change. Roland seems to be the rare kind of person where their self obsession has driven them to be obsessed with others. He would have spoken to a truly uncountable number of people in his career, and he seems as if he has learnt something from every single one of them. He seems to learn something from everything, even something seemingly mundane like a children's anime. Everything is a lesson for him.
agree. what seems to separate him from other "narcissists" is that he's acutely self aware and uses that awareness to ground himself.
@@3XZDgg i think hes less of the personality disorder narcissist and more of the just really really REALLY loves himself type. cause it obviously doesn't affect his personal or professional life to the point where it breaks down relationships but it builds them. so i guess more self obsessed? wither way he's an interesting person who doesn't easily fall into categories that people build, which is probably a big reason for why he's uber popular. (sorry for the rambling, kinda used your comment as a way to think about it uwu)
It calls the power of adaptation from anime which calls BlueLock
I kinda wanna watch a movie about him now 😂
its more like he loves what humanity in him and everyone has to offer and he tries bringing more of his own side and others unknown sides to show itself and that seems to be his talent. he is beyond charismatic and is a genuinely good guy for the sake of being genuine and good
He is actually looking like someone you can talk with for hours and easy to talk with, no wonder he is making millions in this profession, he is natural
Natural with those fake teeth, fake face, fake house.. lol
Does he ever want to get married❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
He answers that question relatively early on@@kathymoore5790
@@kathymoore5790he is a narcissist. Can' t make women happy at the end 😂
@@roxyglow9670yeah we narcissists are splendid friends and one off partners but not really spouse material. I think most empathetic narcissists recognize this and avoid such commitments tho
Roland can really command a conversation and he's so charismatic. No wonder he's the #1 host. And this is just a glimpse of his work, imagine how it must be like to see him in his natural elements at a host club.
Roland is the only narcissist I can whole heartedly respect. He is so down to earth and I can see why he is the number 1 host
I dont think hes ACTUALLY a narcissist though
Damn i met few narcissist people and yes they LOOOOVEEE mirrors.. HUUge Mirrors... some of them put huge mirror in front of their working table like wtf. but i will definitely try to run away from narcissist coz they lack empathy and react fake sympathy, blamestorming too much.. well not generally all of them.
@@runccarie most likely is. Narcissism is both genetic and environmental, if he has a family full of it, it's probably high in their genes.
Narcissism is not inherently bad, though. You just have to be aware of it and own up to it, which he does. That's why he's a really charming narcissist haha
U can respect a narcissist, but u can't trust a narcissist , they do have some type of charisma cuz of their arrogance, but u don't wanna get hooked with them , in the end the whole concept of narcissism is someone who believe the world revolve around them
Narcissist doesn’t mean a bad person. Everyone should have that love of themselves, and use that to understand how to perfect your self. Then your up bringing should add the other half of awareness of others.
Roland did a really good job of interviewing you Joey, and getting you to tell us a lot about yourself. This is the first time I have never heard you swear on a video. I am glad to see Roland's class and charisma worked on you. I thoroughly enjoyed this interview with a really honest and intelligent man. Great work and Cheers, Muffy from Oz
I didn't really know what to expect coming into this video but this was super entertaining. The guy clearly doesn't take himself too seriously and some of the one liners genuinely had me laughing out loud! I didn't think someone could ever talk like an anime character irl and it not come off as cringy, but this guy pulls it off somehow. Also, "Do you remember how many cups of coffee you've had in your life?" is crazy 💀
he is an amazing communicator. I guess that comes from experience. This was a fun video to watch. I can see why it is so fun to talk to him. Good work!
I am Japanese and glad you made a video with him! He is so famous in Japan, even someone who has never been to host clubs knows him. I am a man(straight) but I even know him.
Seeing ROLAND's expression and body language when Joey described the first time reading FOTNS was incredibly wholesome. ROLAND shared a personal feeling with him and Joey absolutely connected to that.
The way he just said "If you want to change your life, if you spend your time like shit, be hired by me" I was like SAY NO LESS lmao but in all seriousness this is probably one of my favorite interviews Joey has done with professionals bc both himself and Roland are great conversationalists and bounced off each other very well, and it helped that they had a lot of common topics to talk about
It's really interesting to watch how strongly Roland panders to the guest in the conversation.
How he constantly mentions Australia specifically every 5 seconds after hearing that Joey is from there (14:52 - "It's probably something that doesn't exist in Australia, or anywhere else in the world")
Or mentioning anime to the Anime Man, when it's not even exactly the topic (18:38 - "Actually, it was anime" *proceeds to talk about reading manga which never even got an anime*)
Or switching topics to Joey's work right after questions about his own work to express solidarity (20:45 - "And our work, TH-cam too, is rough, right?")
Or trying to find common grounds with a guest to seem relatable on topics even where is none (36:39 - "I think TH-camrs and hosts are kind of similar"). Like, come on, half of YTs are shut-in introverts who sit at home and talk to their camera, while hosts are actual IRL people entertainers. And you can't keep doing _any_ job forever and not decline in skills and income with age (although in most jobs that decline is much slower than for hosts and YTs, I agree), so that's a pretty far-fetched "similarity" that can be applied to almost any job that a guest has (and also you "chase targets" in most jobs as well).
Or even constantly talking to the camera and mentioning "them" (us), essentially trying to keep even the camera men and the viewers kinda included in the conversation (16:04 - "So everyone watching this is probably thinking")
And his body language - always sitting half-turned, sometimes leaning towards, sometimes full turning towards guest in the interview part.
And he definitely practiced and prepared in advance a bunch of witty answers to the expected questions from any guest in his house ("why mirrors", "why Roland House", "body count", etc), loI.
The most interesting part he does this pandering so effortlessly and unobtrusively that it's barely noticeable even if you're expecting it, like I am right now. I'm sure that if you're in his actual presence and especially if you're a little drunk as well that it would sound like magic in a sense that "he shares all my thoughts, he understands me so much!". Not surprising to hear "I really feel like we have a lot of similarities" from Joey at the end 45:18 there, he totally got charmed by all of it.
The guy is really a master of his craft, impressive. Well, off to watching a vid on his channel then.
I know right!!
I am currently studying behaviour psychology and dammn I was just noticing how GOOD he is at this..like wow
Tbh I think his whole house is designed this way to encourage conversation. As he said this does not look like a typical house. This is a place that was made business in mind. Conversational business
@@HelloOnepiece I would just say that his house is basically a night/host club for two. There's not much to talk about besides a couple of sentences about overall style, no personal trinkets to discuss at length whatsoever. Roland has to bring up anime and football himself, since there's not a single souvenir in sight that could suggest something about his hobbies/interests and encourage a conversation naturally.
I think that contrary to your suggestion, Roland chooses minimalistic style in furniture/clothing (without many details that someone can discuss) specifically to *not* encourage a conversation _about him_ . Because, as a host, he probably prefers to encourage a conversation about a guest instead. Since most people like talking about themselves and feeling like they're being carefully and attentively listened to, like Roland does, and they would tip well for that.
Even in this video, where Joey is supposed to interview Roland, he still flips the topics back to Joey's life and gets Joey to talk about himself for like a third of a video, lol.
Beautiful throughout analysis! I also was impressed by ROLAND testing out how Joey takes compliments. And his language is sooo fine! Always talking in entertaining metaphors. His social skill really is over 9.000. I'm so impressed!
@@name_adi guess you should go to Japan and study that there then. Lol. Get it REAL good
It's amazing to see how the body language changed when they started to talk about anime and their passions, you can see Roland, laid back and facing the camera at the start, then he was inclined facing Joey having fun talking about cute girls doing their best. Was more vocal and using more hand gestures, he was really enjoying the conversation and not just faking it. Everything was really entertaining and insightful. What a good video!
I learned a lot while watching this. I noticed he kept asking Joey what he thinks to keep the conversation going. Also knowing someone's interests prior to their meeting and later use it to break the ice (he jokes about his alcohol display as figurines) makes him even more cooler.
Even as I guy, given enough time, I might fall in love with him.
I can't believe I enjoyed this interview a lot!! It's really amazing that he can carry out a conversation so well. He listens patiently, genuinely interested in Joey too and answers everything in the most precise way possible! I get why girls are so crazy for him😩. Huge respect to you both🙏
He's a smooth talker. It doesnt seem like we have anything in common, but he still made me feel comfortable and laugh. He seems easy to talk to, so I can see how he can earn so much in that crazy and foreign culture of hosting. He might just be one of the world's most dangerous men...
Obsessed with the quality of this tipsy interview. This is the kind of content for you, Joey, you're so skilled at it. Vibing with total characters as you go in and out of Japanese and English, Anime and serious conversation, and a great informative look into an industry and individual in that industry. You're skilled at this, and I can't wait for more of this type of content.
Unsung Heroes
I looked for someone who might rebuild the wall of righteousness that guards the land. I searched for someone to stand in the gap in the wall so I wouldn’t have to destroy the land, but I found no one
(Ezekiel 22:30)
Father’s Day is a special occasion designed by greeting card companies, no doubt, to honor our fathers. And though I think there is a certain commercial angle to the whole occasion that diminishes its effectiveness, I must say that I like the idea of having both a Father’s Day and a Mother’s Day.
After all, the Bible does say,
“Honor your father and mother”
(Exodus 20:12)
I don’t think we give enough credit to fathers these days. They deserve a lot of it, especially those who stick by their commitments, those who faithfully stand beside their wives and children.
they are the unsung heroes. And their tribe is decreasing.
There are fewer and fewer dads today who are there for their children. Yet a father’s influence is profound, far greater than that of any thing.
I’m reminded of a statement that Mark Twain made: “When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.”
You may not fully appreciate what it is that your father has done for you until you become a parent yourself. Then a lot of those things will come back to you. You will start understanding why he did many of the things he did and why he didn’t do many of the things you thought he should have done.
How important good and godly dads are. I believe world needs them more than ever because of what we’re facing today.
I think we could say that we’re looking for a few godly men-men who will stand in the gap, men who will be all that God has called them to be.
This man's self awareness of his own narcissim is what makes me respect him. Not too many get to that point. Plus, he made it work in his favor; he became very successful doing what he does.
Narcissism isn’t to be admired, in fact it’s toxic to be around. Trump is a narcissist which is incredibly telling.
Roland is so iconic. Anything he says can be a memorable quote.
imagine having a future so bright that you have to wear sunglasses all the time
As someone who used to be a model, host, candy girl at events, etc, getting paid at least €800 an hour just to be cute, and who has gladly traded that life in for an IT office job: don't underestimate this line of work.
Just because your clients and audience come to you for relaxation and entertainment, doesn't mean it's a relaxing and easy job for you.
I have mountains of respect for those that are in this kind of profession.
And to anyone who feels like it's easy: you don't need a degree or permit to do it. So give it a go.
I don't think I'd be able to fake my personality for hours on end.
@@d00fin Try retail.
@えい that's exactly it yes
@@d00fin No, it's actually the opposite. Those that are successful in the industry are true to themselves. Roland is constantly reminding you he's being himself throughout the entirety of the video. If you have to fake it for hours on end, you're just not fit for the job.
I recommend ch3cking trash taste podcast episode where they had host as guest
this interview isn't like any common interview, Joey also feels comfortable, It's like a talk with a friend.
I liked this discussion, it's cool seeing Joey genuinley seeking advice near the end, this discussion was very sincere, that is one of Joey's best qualities, he is sincere. It would be cool to see Joey just having conversations with people in Japan, it's amazing seeing the culture from different perspectives.
Mad respect to these two gentlemen who just taught me more about life and goals and cultures than all people I've met.
Then u really need to get out more😂
@@imsoooboredjaehyun Yeah right. I hope someday I can toast a drink or two to someone like these two social geniuses too.
Cringe. Your social circle sucks.
Roland's questions and pattern of speaking gave me flashbacks to my university lectures in practical counselling... 😂
He demonstrated active listening through various cues and made witty and insightful feedback dialogue; it seemed like he was returning questions back to the interviewer, but that's actually a great tool to keep conversation flowing..
I honestly respect him, and I hope he continues to do well and live the fulfilling life he likes.
And you as well Joey. I've been liking these "Introductions to members of the Japanese population/ culture" series you have been doing. Hope you both continue to do well. 😊
Same bruh, it felt somewhat like a professional ouch. My heart.
Finally ROLAND, always curious about the guys since Jan brought it up
Wished Jan come back in TT since he has many interesting stories
THATS where I heard his name!
No wonder he's a big success. He's actually smart, hard worker and now how to use his brain, beauty and talents to create a world class charm. I feel like watching Ghibli's movie whilst hearing his talking and enjoying his charm. Thx Roland for your generosity hosting us through this content.
How can ROLAND be so smooth and cool and also seem so genuine?! These interviews are so masterfully done. We learn so much
With Roland being such a personable guy and Joey being an amazing interviewer like normal, it was a match made in heaven LOL. Such a relaxed and fun interview, loved the whole thing!
MADE IN HEAVEN MENTIONED GLORY TO FATHER PUCCI
Damn, loved ROLAND, out of all the guests you had in this channel he seems the most down to earth and not just flat out eccentric, really charismatic too, I can see why he is the number one host in Japan
This is the first time I've seen him, but when he opened the door he immediately gave a strong impression with his manerism. And the whole video he just made me smile. It makes me want to strife to be like him.
You can really see how much Roland has honed his skill of talking with how precise and well timed his responses are. He conveys what he wants to say in an efficient manner and then turns the conversation back to give the other person a chance to speak as well to keep things going smoothly. I didn't expect that i would like him that much but he seems like a very genuine person, plus he has those bars that he suddenly drops along with the perfectly timed jokes so i think his friends definitely love him.
It's so sweet how humble he is. Not once putting himself above Joey, but spoke about their jobs equally.
Also that the video turned into "so what anime would motivate you to shower?" 😂
its like watching two best friends talking, the conversation never dies. It's so fun. I can see why people pay to speak to him
I can see why he's successful. He's obviously not just good at conversation, but he's bright and he thought ahead about spending his money wisely.
Things I learned today:
1. Psychologists struggle in Japan because people use hosts instead?
2. Roland's lipstick is on 👏 point👏( he should have told us the brand/shade, honestly)
He said he owns a hair salon so I would bet that is also a makeup salon as well. I'm sure he had someone professional put his face on before the interview.
And would we be able to afford it even if he did tell us what lipstick he uses? I still find it strange, like, the dude has 4 houses, this one seems like the one to show off and have people over at. I find it insane that he says he has almost no clothes. And only that one suit? Can someone explain that to me?
I believe it was Mac but I don't know what color it is
@@LilianaKalipossible he rents clothes or sarcasm
This explanation works for me. Thanks!@@MeowMatee
I think the reason Roland is so comfortable is because Joey is down to earth and non judge mental. Joey has a skill for connecting with people too!
Joey is very easy to talk to, but Ro talks to people every day for a living, so I think he's just comfortable because this is second-nature to him now.
His charisma and other social skills are why he was able to make it so far as a host.
Of all the people Joey has interviewed, this guy is just off-the-charts!
Roland communication skill is so good. Notice he used Australia and anime as reference in order to quickly connect with the host and his target audience.
Its so unique to see into a person like Roland. He is charismatically self aware and does not deny anything about himself. I can see why he is the top host. I'm introverted and not into the concept of hosts. But having conversation with him sounds fun.
For the first time ever, I think I understand why people pay so much money to talk to a host. I am very impressed. This guy is a professional.
The more he talks, the more obvious it is that he's genuinely an otaku, and it's hilarious.
As many people in commend mention, this guy is top level of having conversation with people. Like holy shit, 30min into video and suddenly i realize this guy is showing his “host” skill, it so smooth the way he control and leading and make orther people to talk
His house having that simplistic vibe by going all black is really nice depending on the type of person who will appeal it to, but to ROLAND that's his theme. Usually that type of interior design is what you see in movies and mangas but he really did it for himself.
Something about him being unapologetically himself is literally so cool. I can't believe I'm saying this as a grown woman but once I'm older, I aspire to be more confident and secure with myself like how Roland is 😭 Man is literally too cool