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Great message, as usual, Gio. Guys must take their time, whether on a vacation or, in this instance, moving to a new country. I could make all the other comments, i.e., haste makes waste, but I think everyone gets the message.
Well I’ve been in Southeast Asia now over 2 years. Not an expert by any means. However, during this time I figured out one thing about me. I’m really happiest in monk mode. I don’t want anyone else’s problems. I have enough of my own. Don’t really care to date anymore. Freedom is awesome. To each their own. Have fun for the rest of the time you’re above the dirt. You do you. I’m doing me.
As an 80s kid, we did experience kid in the candy store phase here in the US in high school and early college. I would say i am lucky to have that happen here in the US at a young age so it is out of my system. The older we get, the higher chances for STD and AIDS although the Philippines has one of the lowest rates in the world, doesn’t mean it is not there. i would not discount the fact that most people won’t go for a check up due to the expense so exercise caution when in that phase.
I spent seven months in Thailand. I experienced all these phases. At first I thought I really wanted the "kid in the candy shop phase" to last forever. It was fun. However, I was burned out after just a few months of it. After just four months of fun. I was ready for a good relationship. Spending time in the Philippines or Thailand you will learn a lot about yourself...
I was in that stage for over 3 years. I never thought I would meet a woman who I could truly trust. As the saying goes..,when you least expect it…. I met a woman who I slowly got closer to her and after a year, agreed to see only her. I can’t say I would ever marry a woman, but I would be able to be with one long term. Each man goes about things differently but eventually a high percentage does want a woman to finish out life in a couple.
Yeah having the same conversation over and over is painful for me. Especially because most of the women give short answers. I’ll just stop replying and then they’ll say hey again lol. Internet sites could definitely burn you out and leave you jaded before even getting there
Lol…I call it the “30 day millionaire stage”. I think that it’s nearly the same attitude whether you’re on vacation or you’re planning to live there. As I’ve been to Asia many times, I learned long ago to not base things on what they cost back in the states. Fortunately I don’t have to do the dating thing as my girlfriend and I will both be retiring in the Philippines from the U.S. in a few years. I did online dating many years ago after I got divorced. What a mess. I did meet a few good people, but the majority of them were really out there. I ended up meeting my girlfriend of now 15 years in the states through a friend. Some people have had success dating online, but I think that most people don’t in the U.S. anyway. There seems to be a lot of single 30-40+ year old woman that are single in the Philippines. That might be older than most expats would consider, but many of them have college degrees, good jobs, their own house, car, etc… and many of them don’t have kids. Many of them are attractive too. They would have no problem finding a mate if they were in the U.S.
I almost jumped into a relationship here in the Philippines Gio I guess it's because I've been rejected before I wanted to erase that memory from my mind but it didn't work out so I'm single not looking to mingle it has it's benefits
I have read the State Dept. recommends about 9 immunizations for South East Asia. Do you recommend getting these before or after you arrive? Thanks keep up with the excellent videos!
My plan is to be a committed bachelor for a few years and then remsin open to something long term. Those guys that rush into marriage right away are playing with fire 😂
Wow your not kidding about the attention on dating apps, im a fit pretty good looking tall guy in my 30s and i have never gotten so much attention on tinder before lol, also planning on going down there next year. Maybe i need bodyguards haha.
You guy need to understand that there is a BIG difference between a woman sending you messages online and getting a womans phone number ( most women online only want an online relationship ) and meeting in person and having an in person relationship .
I understand your point about experiencing the dating scene over there and not jump directly into an LTR, but I would imagine that most guys are tired of dating at this point. I know I don't want to jump quickly into an LTR but not interested in dating a lot of girls.
There is good and bad in every country. IT is more about where you feel that you fit best. I know that New Zealand is the wrong country for me, and am looking to get a job over there
Great video bro I’m actually headed over in January from the states And I’ve been talking with this girl for a while And finally asked her out She said yes But anyways it’s so comforting knowing you’ve got someone on the other end of the plane trip half way around the world Keep the super informative videos coming bro Thanks ✌🏼🇺🇸
Do you use an AI program on your photos that appear between when you are talking on the video. They have that same soft kind of cyber feel that Rekays videos have who use entirely these images. Just curious.
Think the issue for me when I get to PH? Being a Christian, personally just for me, I can't keep dating, sleeping with different women and bouncing around. Just can't. So might take me longer but I'm gonna carefully pick 1 woman at a time. Give it a shot, if anything is missing move on. If I happen to find a woman that checks all the boxes very early on? So be it. I just know if I keep hanging out with too many attractive women I'm going to end up sleeping with them and that's a problem for me. My wife left 8yrs ago and I'm finally ready to try living again. I'll either end up finding my wife or being alone. Can't do casual sexscapades
Yeah. I get the candy store faze part. After that, no way grandpa with some girl who looks like she's in her teens, that's just no, no. Sorry to the old guys, but that's pretty sick, imo. Get someone in her 40s or older, that's still quite a bit younger. What are you going to have in common with someone 40 plus years younger than you, common.
What you haven't said EVEN ONCE is that the first stage is what a colleague of yours (i.e. Enrique - LifeBeyond...) calls *_"Kid in the Candy Store"_* ... not once! 🙂
I think after having your meeting with Reekay he inspired you to give a lesson on relationships? I'm only half joking. At least you keep yours conversational and simple. Reekay has been on a crusade to tell the whole world about his snake bitten past relationships that I think he gives the impression that most Filipinas are bad or scammers, unintentionally or otherwise. Everyone man should use their common sense. But he didn't enjoy his journey, let alone his destination, and you can sense it in his bitterness.
I dunno. Most guys will tell you that the girls here are all amazing. But then a guy shares bad experiences and he’s bitter. Maybe. I don’t watch that guy’s videos. It’s best to get your own experience. All I can say is that it didn’t take me long to figure out that it wasn’t for me. I don’t need the hassle. Your mileage may vary…
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I have been living in the Philippines 5 years now ....I am still in the "the kid in the candy store " phase....
Thanks!
Thank you very much!
Great message, as usual, Gio. Guys must take their time, whether on a vacation or, in this instance, moving to a new country. I could make all the other comments, i.e., haste makes waste, but I think everyone gets the message.
Well I’ve been in Southeast Asia now over 2 years. Not an expert by any means. However, during this time I figured out one thing about me. I’m really happiest in monk mode. I don’t want anyone else’s problems. I have enough of my own. Don’t really care to date anymore. Freedom is awesome. To each their own. Have fun for the rest of the time you’re above the dirt. You do you. I’m doing me.
As an 80s kid, we did experience kid in the candy store phase here in the US in high school and early college. I would say i am lucky to have that happen here in the US at a young age so it is out of my system. The older we get, the higher chances for STD and AIDS although the Philippines has one of the lowest rates in the world, doesn’t mean it is not there. i would not discount the fact that most people won’t go for a check up due to the expense so exercise caution when in that phase.
I spent seven months in Thailand. I experienced all these phases. At first I thought I really wanted the "kid in the candy shop phase" to last forever. It was fun. However, I was burned out after just a few months of it. After just four months of fun. I was ready for a good relationship. Spending time in the Philippines or Thailand you will learn a lot about yourself...
I was in that stage for over 3 years. I never thought I would meet a woman who I could truly trust. As the saying goes..,when you least expect it…. I met a woman who I slowly got closer to her and after a year, agreed to see only her. I can’t say I would ever marry a woman, but I would be able to be with one long term. Each man goes about things differently but eventually a high percentage does want a woman to finish out life in a couple.
Love the content! This is even helpful to me to understand men also 🤔
great perspective, i think people need to be honest with themselves and know what you really want at first. that is the hard part lol
Yeah having the same conversation over and over is painful for me. Especially because most of the women give short answers. I’ll just stop replying and then they’ll say hey again lol.
Internet sites could definitely burn you out and leave you jaded before even getting there
Lol…I call it the “30 day millionaire stage”. I think that it’s nearly the same attitude whether you’re on vacation or you’re planning to live there. As I’ve been to Asia many times, I learned long ago to not base things on what they cost back in the states. Fortunately I don’t have to do the dating thing as my girlfriend and I will both be retiring in the Philippines from the U.S. in a few years. I did online dating many years ago after I got divorced. What a mess. I did meet a few good people, but the majority of them were really out there. I ended up meeting my girlfriend of now 15 years in the states through a friend. Some people have had success dating online, but I think that most people don’t in the U.S. anyway. There seems to be a lot of single 30-40+ year old woman that are single in the Philippines. That might be older than most expats would consider, but many of them have college degrees, good jobs, their own house, car, etc… and many of them don’t have kids. Many of them are attractive too. They would have no problem finding a mate if they were in the U.S.
Thanks for your advice Gio… it totally make sense, I’ll be aware of that with my actual virtual LDR 😉
I almost jumped into a relationship here in the Philippines Gio I guess it's because I've been rejected before I wanted to erase that memory from my mind but it didn't work out so I'm single not looking to mingle it has it's benefits
Here's how it is..3 stages..1/ minimum spend..2/ greater spend..3/ all out spend and broke
I tend to fall in love really quickly so I'm not sure if the kid in the candy store stage is going to work for me.
I have read the State Dept. recommends about 9 immunizations for South East Asia. Do you recommend getting these before or after you arrive? Thanks keep up with the excellent videos!
I agree
Thanks for remind me Gio !!!😊
Great advice!
I'm sure the temptation tough to resist
I was a kid in a candy store when I was in Eastern Europe. These ladies know how to use foreign men to the maximum.
My plan is to be a committed bachelor for a few years and then remsin open to something long term. Those guys that rush into marriage right away are playing with fire 😂
I'm here for the thumbnails😂
😂
Wow your not kidding about the attention on dating apps, im a fit pretty good looking tall guy in my 30s and i have never gotten so much attention on tinder before lol, also planning on going down there next year. Maybe i need bodyguards haha.
You guy need to understand that there is a BIG difference between a woman sending you messages online and getting a womans phone number ( most women online only want an online relationship ) and meeting in person and having an in person relationship .
I understand your point about experiencing the dating scene over there and not jump directly into an LTR, but I would imagine that most guys are tired of dating at this point. I know I don't want to jump quickly into an LTR but not interested in dating a lot of girls.
I Pray!!! Gio, and your new wife Safe from the earthquake. As everyone else there.
I am still in the kid in a candy store phase, hope to stay here forever.
Gio is a good story teller and perfectly logical.
Thank you
Kid and the candy store,to start off with atleast😊
Packing my luggage right now 😁
Just back in Cebu City !!!
Looking for a woman of substance not just another pretty face after you been there awhile . Good for you
Use your big brain and discernment
There is good and bad in every country. IT is more about where you feel that you fit best. I know that New Zealand is the wrong country for me, and am looking to get a job over there
Great video bro I’m actually headed over in January from the states And I’ve been talking with this girl for a while And finally asked her out
She said yes But anyways it’s so comforting knowing you’ve got someone on the other end of the plane trip half way around the world Keep the super informative videos coming bro Thanks
✌🏼🇺🇸
Best of luck!
how old were you when you first drank coffee ? how were you introduced to coffee ?
Kid in a candy store phase, that is what young western girls go thru. AKA, Hot Girl Summer.
Always be careful if they ask for money run 😅
Do you use an AI program on your photos that appear between when you are talking on the video. They have that same soft kind of cyber feel that Rekays videos have who use entirely these images. Just curious.
I do yes. I thought I would start throwing in some photos on talking videos since I am sure it is better than looking at my face the entire time lol
I sure seen some Candy in your candy store video.. there beautiful.. hehe.. lol.. 😁😁
Think the issue for me when I get to PH? Being a Christian, personally just for me, I can't keep dating, sleeping with different women and bouncing around. Just can't. So might take me longer but I'm gonna carefully pick 1 woman at a time. Give it a shot, if anything is missing move on. If I happen to find a woman that checks all the boxes very early on? So be it. I just know if I keep hanging out with too many attractive women I'm going to end up sleeping with them and that's a problem for me. My wife left 8yrs ago and I'm finally ready to try living again. I'll either end up finding my wife or being alone. Can't do casual sexscapades
A day without coffee is like......? Never saw the answer on the shirt. 😂
A day without coffee is like……..just kidding, I have no idea. 😊
You got it 😄
🤔👍😎
Yeah. I get the candy store faze part. After that, no way grandpa with some girl who looks like she's in her teens, that's just no, no. Sorry to the old guys, but that's pretty sick, imo. Get someone in her 40s or older, that's still quite a bit younger. What are you going to have in common with someone 40 plus years younger than you, common.
Did lose weight or cutting?
ame in any third world country you go to!
What you haven't said EVEN ONCE is that the first stage is what a colleague of yours (i.e. Enrique - LifeBeyond...) calls *_"Kid in the Candy Store"_* ... not once! 🙂
Most Filipinas don't date. That's what I love about them.
The computer generated "big boobs edition"
That's what is generated automatically 😂
I like candy.
I think after having your meeting with Reekay he inspired you to give a lesson on relationships? I'm only half joking. At least you keep yours conversational and simple. Reekay has been on a crusade to tell the whole world about his snake bitten past relationships that I think he gives the impression that most Filipinas are bad or scammers, unintentionally or otherwise. Everyone man should use their common sense. But he didn't enjoy his journey, let alone his destination, and you can sense it in his bitterness.
I dunno. Most guys will tell you that the girls here are all amazing. But then a guy shares bad experiences and he’s bitter. Maybe. I don’t watch that guy’s videos. It’s best to get your own experience. All I can say is that it didn’t take me long to figure out that it wasn’t for me. I don’t need the hassle. Your mileage may vary…