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  • @Evelynlouise089
    @Evelynlouise089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +764

    That little girl tho. ‘If my dad needs some money I’ve got a lot so I give him some’ opens piggy bank. Bless her pure little heart. ❤️

    • @cirias
      @cirias 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      My little boy has offered in the past and would do the same for me as well. Of course we'd never expect it of our kids, but it's such a lovely thing for them to think of it off their own back and be so thoughtful about other people.

    • @jasminejones9937
      @jasminejones9937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What are you talking about ,the little bugger only offered her dad 10p if he needs it for his car payment and MAYBE 50p if he needs more ! For a kid who's declared herself to have plenty of money that's very stingy She's a little Scrooge ! 😳

    • @ghjkkfx7579
      @ghjkkfx7579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      We pray to God that your employer pay for you

    • @emmaleasardeson9491
      @emmaleasardeson9491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I literally started sobbing at that point oh my

    • @emmaleasardeson9491
      @emmaleasardeson9491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@jasminejones9937 you’re actually disgusting lol! She clearly doesn’t understand!!!!!! She’s about 7!!!!

  • @haddingtoniangcp2464
    @haddingtoniangcp2464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    "It doesn't strike home till it happens to you" he is spot on.

    • @lucyzellars6230
      @lucyzellars6230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It can sometimes be hard to empathize with someone who is actually going through a stressful circumstance or experience till they themselves experience it.

    • @finn3102
      @finn3102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lucyzellars6230 The Legendary singer Bob Marley mad a song with a verse" Who feels it knows it". Pretty much sums up your point. I was recently laid off from a company I have been at for 30+ years in many different job titles. Suddenly, I am in solidarity with people down on their luck. My fear is that I will end up not finding a job in my field and having to take anything available. Or even worse finding not job at all and ending up homeless. I hear there are all these opportunities for work online, but I have no experience thereof.

    • @dhenderson1810
      @dhenderson1810 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You realise how lonely you are when unemployed.
      Sure, my family have supported me, but it seems like no-one else cares, not employers, nor the job centre, nor the government or society.
      There is a stigma and you feel like a loser, you are labelled a "dole bludger", and looked at differently.

    • @MWorsa
      @MWorsa ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@finn3102How goes it?

    • @finn3102
      @finn3102 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MWorsa Still hanging in here.

  • @theresa7380
    @theresa7380 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1608

    It would be scary be an older parent with young children and losing your job. Age discrimination is very real.

    • @jonathanvince8173
      @jonathanvince8173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I agree I am older person working for an agency as the only way to get work

    • @lvega5606
      @lvega5606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      So true, Theresa. I've literally heard young hiring managers (colleagues at my old firm) make comments as they viewed applications about how this or that person is probably old. Now I do have to say that I've noticed the older employees at my firm (who are not in senior executive positions) are quite a bit slower and have a much more negative attitude than the rest. Out of about 25 colleagues, we have 6 who are over age 50, and all 6 are the weakest of the group. So there may be some rhyme to the reason. At what point do you say the firm and its shareholders must come before keeping people on just to ensure they get a paycheck each week?

    • @8ofwands300
      @8ofwands300 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      @@lvega5606 - Far from being sympathetic, your response seems to vindicate age discrimination as a legitimate assessment of worker value - a view that is more than a little insulting, actually, to older workers (and also illegal in the USA - so you'd better tell the youngster-hiring managers to keep their ageism to themselves or they might be staring at the cross hairs of a law suit some time soon.) I don't know how old you are or what you have done or do for a living, but people in their 50's are hardly old and washed-up and very often are at the height of their skills and powers. [ In the U.S., most politicians are over 50; the president is usually over 50; all the members of the Supreme Court are over 50! ] Your personal experience suggests only that the older workers in this environment were subject to the underestimation of their younger co-workers - who were apparently the majority, which might have accounted for the older workers' "negative" attitudes. There's nothing quite as demoralizing as a little whipper-snapper new to a profession thinking they know better than someone who has been doing the job for 25 years. We often confuse youth with competency - a grave mistake. The idea that this subset of workers are the "weakest" is someone's perception, likely a biased one. So your suggestion is that for the good of corporations' bottom lines people over 50 ought to be let go and certainly never hired? How are more unemployed older people - who are too young by at least a decade to retire in most circumstances - better for the larger society? Really, I hope you've reconsidered this careless remark since you made it. And, I also hope you are never on the far side of 50 with a lot more to offer, but discounted as weak and a drain on your company's profit margin. Nothing like walking in the shoes of your own biases to see their foolishness.

    • @Phantom_Kraken
      @Phantom_Kraken 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Your either too young or old for them 😒

    • @luster5497
      @luster5497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Won't you agree that being" old and strong" is different from being "old and weak"?
      Isn't there a different between being "old with experences" from being "young with no experences"?

  • @ZenTradeGame
    @ZenTradeGame 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    One of the worst feelings, is being without a job, while having kids, wife, and you’ve applied for work everyday. But things eventually worked out for me! Stay strong out there.

    • @thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010
      @thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Divorce the loser husband is the rage in America.

    • @BenKellyMusic92
      @BenKellyMusic92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well done 👍

    • @rustykatt3870
      @rustykatt3870 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree with BenKelly. Well done!

    • @serendipidus8482
      @serendipidus8482 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think the main thing is to get any job and take any job.. if your normal work is computers or plumbing but you cant get a job in that work in any job even mc donalds even cleaner or anything and keep looking for that computer job. When you do get an interview and you have to say your last job was 6 months ago 7 months ago 8 months ago it gets worse and worse in your mind.and when it affects your confidence that doesn't go over well in interviews either. So having a ahitty job is better than no job. Even if you just get on your bike and go around cleaning windows or start a tidy towns project or do volunteer work. Plenty of places looking for volunteers and plenty of places. Looking for cleaners pot scrubbers maintenence work ... if you're a journalist and you're not doing any journalism have no online profile have just been resting on your laurels too long it gets very hard. The thirst is what motivates young people. Older people who've been in a position for 20 30 years have nothing else going on and their whole confidence rests on that and when your confidence goes you're so screwed. You have to be proactive .. you have to find something to contribute other than what you used to do. Bake cakes. Do charity work. Volunteer. And be a chameleon. Don't say you're a computer wizard in c plus plus when you're going for that job at mc donalds.

  • @stacey7954
    @stacey7954 6 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    The little girl Leah is precious She has a good attitude she talks about the good things she does have and wants to give her change to her parents to help What a sweet little girl very intelligent

    • @MabShineshineworld
      @MabShineshineworld 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly well mannered

    • @abbeyroberts817
      @abbeyroberts817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They learn alot more when your broke bless there too grown up but least we'll mannered

  • @robingift1635
    @robingift1635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    Why would a company call someone in for an interview only to tell them they are over qualified? It makes no sense at all.

    • @thesouluniversal
      @thesouluniversal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Alot of companies are so badly run, youd be amazed.

    • @pansprayers
      @pansprayers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Interview quotas. Plain and simple. We had a target we had to hit before we could hire someone - for every position available, I had to interview 25 people at that one major online auction site. Not doing so gets you written up.

    • @silviahoffmann158
      @silviahoffmann158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      To make it look like theyre doing something

    • @Sweetwildflower
      @Sweetwildflower 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      They fear you'll take their job. Its insecure employers.

    • @vikidobe
      @vikidobe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I don't know why they do that, but the secret is...never tell them how much education you have. It makes them feel insecure.

  • @foxylady9110
    @foxylady9110 7 ปีที่แล้ว +787

    It doesn't necessarily take you losing a job to land up in these peoples situation, I was working and suffered a stroke at 49yrs which has left me disabled and forever on benefits, my world came crashing down overnight and being a single parent and left to struggle on a much smaller amount of money was very stressful, you just never know what's around the next corner, losing your income can happen to anyone anytime.

    • @DemiLoveNailArt
      @DemiLoveNailArt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Sue F my mom had a accident that left here with brain damage, I understand what you mean with live can change any second. My dad still works and me and my brother take care of my mom after school and we help to pay bills

    • @foxylady9110
      @foxylady9110 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      DemiLoveNailArt You both sound like such good kids looking after your mom, your parents must truly appreciate all you do, God bless you honey ❤️

    • @emmae9924
      @emmae9924 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You lost your job because you couldn't do it?

    • @foxylady9110
      @foxylady9110 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      E E My stroke left me disabled I have to use a walking stick from weakness and numbness down my left side, I also suffer from long and short term memory loss, I have difficulty using my left hand as I have fine motor skill issues, recently I've been having seizures so I didn't lose my job as such I resigned.

    • @emmae9924
      @emmae9924 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sue F that's terrible.

  • @islandgurl8132
    @islandgurl8132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Losing a job is scary..hard..stressful and disappointing. Praying for everyone to make it through this hardship. Life is just hard.

  • @josephgreen2008
    @josephgreen2008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    The kids of these people were brilliant. Congratulations to all the parents for bringing up such good caring kids and well done for staying together through tough times and not giving up
    Shows how important the family unit is to everyone in the family.

    • @lisadempsey9259
      @lisadempsey9259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And what good parents just tragic😥

    • @thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010
      @thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For the cameras most people would 🤦🏻

    • @createone100
      @createone100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree, these are very good people, who deserve a good life.

    • @mandyschmidt206
      @mandyschmidt206 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010are you mad because you did a poor job at parenting and these parents actually raised good kids

    • @nickycotton6137
      @nickycotton6137 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, the UK system can be so unhelpful when it comes to housing! Plenty get great help, but plenty don't either! Families should get priority surely.

  • @eunicestone838
    @eunicestone838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I'm an American. Married and raised 3 children. Tough times came. Jobs came and went. If my husband wasn't working I certainly was. I worked many a menial job. He was a skilled laborer. Welder. When work was there it was plentiful. Feast or famine. But we survived. Now divorced. Happy. Free. Living on disability and food stamps. Doing the best I can. All by myself. My children have gone their own way. Husband remarried raising granddaughter. But I'm still here. Thriving and surviving. I will never give up. Even in a pandemic and death of roommate. I've sold all I can. And rented the spare room. She can't pay right now but she does all the cleaning. I can live with that. At least I'm not alone. That's good as i am I'll. All will work out.

    • @judithfarlow3326
      @judithfarlow3326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You have to do what you have to do to get things done

    • @happilysmpl
      @happilysmpl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think you have managed fantastic! Resourceful!!

  • @catieq5270
    @catieq5270 7 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    That little girl, Leah is so sweet to offer her dad her money. Tugged at my heart strings😭❤️

    • @0Ciju0
      @0Ciju0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      What an intelligent, understanding child... So sweet...

    • @burly636
      @burly636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      For one thing, kids need to know little as possible about these things, they are children. Not all can be kept from them, but she knows too much. She should lay awake at night worrying?

    • @Austria002
      @Austria002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@burly636 you cant hide it anyway. Kids are very underestimated. They know it. Its better to explain than pretending everything is ok, as a parent you are a role model after all. And lying and pretending wouldnt make you a better one.

    • @UltimatelyEverything
      @UltimatelyEverything 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@burly636 Kids pick up on things if you tell them or not they aren't as stupid as you think they are at least they grow and appreciate what they have in life and they aren't greedy they know how tough it is living on benefits.

    • @SURFERGRL72RAKM
      @SURFERGRL72RAKM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@burly636 , I agree with you! Though I think parents should be transparent about their struggles with their children but not to that extent. Children should be allowed to be children and know /understand the minimum as possible. No child should hear their parent on the phone with a bill collector or talking about certain things. Let them play and when they lay their head down at night they sleep instead of worrying. When I was a child money was never spoken about in front of my brother or I. My parent's wanted us to sleep, focus on school, sport's and to never bring up their finances. We worked at an early age and contributed to buying our school supplies, clothing and so forth. To this day my parent's would still never discuss their financial situation with us. Some children know more than they should as seen here.

  • @8ofwands300
    @8ofwands300 7 ปีที่แล้ว +567

    Some of the people posting comments on this program are unbelievable. Everything is a competition: "I've been poorer than they are." "I work harder than they do." "I'm prettier and younger- looking than the English!" "America is a worse country than the UK."
    I don't know why anyone would watch a film on this particular subject with no empathy and so much judgement. All I can say is - "there but for the grace of God go you or I...." Let's hope you night-crawlers don't encounter misfortune in your lives. Then you get to hear all the judgmental jerks telling you what to do, how easy it is, and what you did wrong.

    • @xladyfayre
      @xladyfayre 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Exactly. The problem is that when your company goes under and you are in your 50s, you need to financially consider retirement because that's pretty much your only option. I'm from the US and my father in law was faced with that choice. No one wanted to hire him because he came from a time where an associates degree was worth something and when you're in your 50s, people think you aren't going to stick around. So, they don't hire you. A lot of young people around my age think that people can actually just get another job at the drop of a hat.

    • @vanessawoodall3515
      @vanessawoodall3515 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thank you. I was doing exactly that in my head and it is so ridiculous to put our situations against others, our stuggles against others because they are still really hard to go thru no matter what end you may be at so thank you for writing this comment.

    • @kinglissa2953
      @kinglissa2953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m sorry but these people are just moaning so much and seem entitled. These are the same people who will laugh at families from third world countries but if they were put in those situations for a day they would probably do what they’re good at, slitting their wrists or drugs. Smh.

    • @mollyahern6982
      @mollyahern6982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@kinglissa2953 Of course they're entitled. They helped create the system and its expectations. Hardship is relative. I see people from "3rd world countries" living in the U.S., complaining despite having assistance and more "stuff" than many Americans grew up with, believe it or not.. They developed expectations. It's relative.

    • @atulnayak5715
      @atulnayak5715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@kinglissa2953 Can you do anything better than generalise about those with big personal challenges? What type of mindset do you have?

  • @ayesha-jaee
    @ayesha-jaee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I pray for Gary’s little girl. She’s gonna grow to be such a good hearted person. Her positivity and perspective is so warming to see in a child 😩🧡

  • @asifmahmood3634
    @asifmahmood3634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    Remember nothing is permanent in this world even your health, age and life.

    • @eliseuhackbarth7003
      @eliseuhackbarth7003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yeap.

    • @jaidevnarayan2049
      @jaidevnarayan2049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      We need to learn very very basic life with only simple needs

    • @gary36104
      @gary36104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Was Told years ago by someone a lot older his wise words nothing good last forever so true

    • @richardnixon4345
      @richardnixon4345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Covid is

    • @gary36104
      @gary36104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And Hair

  • @larhondah.2793
    @larhondah.2793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    One thing I absolutely respect about these parents is they don't hide their finances, disappointment, and hard work from their children. They are rooting for their parents and have their backs. Bless their hearts 💕💞♥

    • @2ndhandSue
      @2ndhandSue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Children need to be taught about finances and how to handle money. I don't necessarily believe that dragging the children through the entire emotional roller coaster of what job loss means, is healthy for them. Those little girls were terrified at times - first, that their father would go to jail for taking part in the sit-in at the bankrupt work place; and again when they saw their father falling apart as time went on - he turned from a loving, hugging Dad to a screaming shrew with them; and the one girl at the end sitting on her bed talking about how good it was he had a job now because a job is good for more than money, it's good for self-esteem too. As if she has the slightest clue what self-esteem is. Kids don't need to get down and scrape rock bottom; they should know what is happening because Dad is suddenly at home all the time, and they need to know that finances have changed so they won't necessarily be able to do all the things they used to do - but they don't need to see Dad cry, or overhear conversations between Mom and Dad at a time when they're both losing their optimism and starting to talk about "what if.......". Don't shut the kids into a closet and never tell them what's happening, but DO know how much is enough for a child.

    • @mt_gox
      @mt_gox 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@2ndhandSue The parents should have beat those little snots to teach them what REAL pain & terror are!

  • @lamjay5189
    @lamjay5189 5 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    Don’t complain so much in front of the children. Making them worried wouldn’t help.

    • @paulsnonec3639
      @paulsnonec3639 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i think its for the camera

    • @rosemarydudley9954
      @rosemarydudley9954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I find that it helps to develope a child as he/she are growing up to go through ALL sorts of emotions.It will make them a lot stronger, as adults, than others that are wrapped in cotton wool all their lives.

    • @Hayz.G
      @Hayz.G 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was finking the same fing i would never talk to my kids about things like this there kids dont let them worry

    • @patriciacooney8591
      @patriciacooney8591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well kids ask a lot of questions. I dont think its bad parenting to answer them truthfully

    • @MerlinOpeth
      @MerlinOpeth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honesty

  • @suzeelewis718
    @suzeelewis718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’ve been watching poverty documentaries all day. I’m absolutely heartbroken at the severity of it!! I really had no idea how utterly desperate millions are in our own country!! I’m going to start doing more. Please ppl keep at least donating food and what you can afford. I know some of these docs are a few years old but we are still in major crisis 🙏🏼🙏🏼💔💔

  • @nicolafigini784
    @nicolafigini784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    What an intelligent and insightful child Leah is. A daughter to be proud of.

  • @triple_gem_shining
    @triple_gem_shining 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    these poverty documentaries make me thankful for what I have and inspire me to continue to work harder than most.

  • @kimberlybridges8591
    @kimberlybridges8591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What a heart-wrenching story. I have been without pay for three months due to broken leg and struggling to keep my house so I sympathize. This little girl is so precious though. She is very wise and sees everything.

  • @ohmeowzer1
    @ohmeowzer1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I felt sorry for hannah’s dad crying when he was reading that letter. Heartbreaking this whole documentary was heartbreaking

  • @kade2748
    @kade2748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    That little girl taking money out of her piggy bank to help her dad....melted my heart.

  • @ciaradoyle5431
    @ciaradoyle5431 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Wow, poor andy, his wife was living in her own world. What bad timing for starting your own business, then complaining he hadn't been very supportive.

  • @JavierHernandez-cx7pw
    @JavierHernandez-cx7pw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Damn, I've been without a job as a single guy and it feels awful. I can't imagine what it's like to be in that situation AND having children and a partner that depend on you.

    • @samrydodds3522
      @samrydodds3522 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's sad really depression is learking in me......

    • @emzywillrich7243
      @emzywillrich7243 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can imagine and chose between marriage and a family vs. getting a law degree and paying for it. I got the law degree and I'm debt-free, and family-free too! 😁

  • @mssstringi
    @mssstringi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This breaks my heart. Genuine people wanting to work but they not even able to get any benefits while they are looking for a job, while there are so many families with 10+ children claiming benefits and have zero intention to ever work because 'it's not worth it'. boils my blood

  • @treasurz1
    @treasurz1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    I was made redundant after 15 years in a company. I started temping right away, finding myself doing jobs I never would have dreamed I would be doing, but I never thought any of them were ‘below’ me, I was just grateful to have a job at that stage. Spent 9 months temping doing a variety of things, increasing my skill base along the way. I was applying for jobs I was more suited for the whole time and finally landed my favourite job so far, better pay as well. So if you work hard, accept anything and don’t be too big for your boots, things work out.

    • @nickstevens3949
      @nickstevens3949 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Elite words of wisdom.

    • @villanellepollastri8894
      @villanellepollastri8894 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      treasurz1 mate, sometimes there just aren't enough jobs.

    • @tomlinid
      @tomlinid 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I was made redundant and couldn't find work in the UK I ended up looking for work abroad and after a year of unemployment I got a 1 year contract in the states. That was 18 years ago and I am still on a 1 year contract. I have saved enough to buy a business in the UK and I am thinking of returning home to employ myself.

    • @emmae9924
      @emmae9924 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      There are literally not enough temping jobs.

    • @oranjelibertine
      @oranjelibertine 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree. I left a job in a redundancy scheme which I regretted quickly afterwards thinking of relocating for family reasons. However I was lucky to get a temp job two weeks later which I’m making the most of. I agree that attitude is everything in these situations you can’t afford to be too idealistic if you want to move forwards.

  • @anthony75509
    @anthony75509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    It makes me sad that children understand what's happening in society and are prepared to give their savings to help out the family 🥺

    • @michaelvanhorn3271
      @michaelvanhorn3271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In frustration my mother dumped the family bills on me I was 10 or 12, I woke to screaming.

  • @sallyfeschuk5771
    @sallyfeschuk5771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    This really hit home for me. Being made redundant at the age of 49 after 15 years and that was five years ago. Haven't had a decent job since. I'm so glad Andy found something and Gary's little girl is just adorable. What a wise little lady.

    • @stevechristie2569
      @stevechristie2569 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you single Sally?

    • @jhan3894
      @jhan3894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just came by this Video. One; Ageism is very Real. I have a Master's degree in HR. Am 48 years old; Survived the Recession, then Covid hit last 2years. To Survive; I became a grocery Delivery driver. Went from making $240K to $24K per year to $1500 per week delivering groceries to $50p-700 per week working 7-days a Week. Point? Hang in there and Take Any jobs to survive! In America; 332 million people; 2Million are Homeless and another 2-million working and sleeping out of their Cars! Stay strong; don't give Up!

    • @wanderlust1229
      @wanderlust1229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i made a job for myself in ecommerce, have you thought about ecommerce or affiliate marketing, or looked into passive income? The local economy doesn't affect my income. its not for everyone but i love being my own boss. Good luck

    • @marialiyubman
      @marialiyubman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s not ok, I’m so sorry. 💔

    • @sallyfeschuk5771
      @sallyfeschuk5771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@marialiyubman thank you. Since then I've been blessed with a new job at a great company and all is better now.

  • @elizabethcotton4659
    @elizabethcotton4659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Such a moving documentary and so humbling. Every family had more work ethic than any employer would be lucky to find x

  • @sct4040
    @sct4040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The 2nd older couple: I would sell that house and furniture and get a 1-bedroom or studio and save all my money.
    Dont wait 1-2 years later to do all the same. It gets more difficult as you get older.
    Above all, don't be embarssed to tell everyone you are looking for work. You never know who can be able to help you.

  • @TheAnthoula14
    @TheAnthoula14 7 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    The kids in these unemployment docs hurt my heart. As a product of a home where I had to listen to complaints from adults about money problems, I know the end result can be becoming an adult with a dysfunctional attitude towards finances. Obviously kids can't always be shielded from all the realities of money problems, but I think a parents job is to keep things as normal as possible and not constantly expose them to their worries about bills.

    • @BlackHearthguard
      @BlackHearthguard 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly. I was made redundant about 5 years ago, and it was almost 6 months before my girls heard 2 words about how we couldn't afford stuff. Even then it was a case of them just having to make do a few weeks longer with clothes or shoes than might otherwise have been the case, tho holidays and frivolous stuff just quietly went away with no discussion to mark their disappearance... they rarely even noticed.

    • @davidcarter6938
      @davidcarter6938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too. They're the real victims

    • @rempanda
      @rempanda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think it depends on how it's handled. My mam did work, for a while it was zero hours contract but thankfully was able to pick up some work even if it was part time, my father went to extreme lengths to avoid paying the child allowance he owed so often nothing from him. Finances were tight at times and my mam was open about it but also open about ways in which she saved money, areas she made cuts so we had money for other things, etc. It taught me a lot and made me a lot more aware of money and at a point when I was struggling to get by as an adult I knew how to handle it.

    • @MKiurinuRigold
      @MKiurinuRigold 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Um 😐 not exactly sometimes it will be good for children to learn about expenses and how much parents earn
      At least they will know money don’t come easy and learn how to manage finances

    • @patriciaramirez3139
      @patriciaramirez3139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MKiurinuRigold One thing is to learn about expenses and another is hearing your parents constantly talking about not having a job a no money, is to much for a kid, because kids worry every time they hear the parents stressed about not having a job.

  • @abcd-wg2iq
    @abcd-wg2iq 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Living in society where your survival depends on someone giving you a job.

  • @slugabunny5138
    @slugabunny5138 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I'm noticing that ppl over 45
    are disproportionately underemployed... employers want younger expendable employees and cheaper labor.. erosion of the standard of living is ↗1000%

    • @timmi2198
      @timmi2198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's considerably tough for younger applicants to land jobs that are decently payed, as we lack experience, 30-50 is the ideal age demography.

    • @davidcarter6938
      @davidcarter6938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Old people voting for Tories who end up thrown on the scrap heap

    • @fionagregory8078
      @fionagregory8078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@timmi2198 paid not payed.

    • @anon5191
      @anon5191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is a double edged sword. A lot of boomers should be retired opening up job opportunities for the millennials and sooners.

  • @lisafarrell6334
    @lisafarrell6334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    Honestly, if you work for a computer company and can't write out your own CV, something is wrong.

    • @fanso76
      @fanso76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I think its because Andy and Jackie first got into the workforce in a time when companies didn't really worry about taking CV's. So they're aren't familiar with doing them because they're from a time when cv's werent common. These days everytime you ask about work people look at you and say (sometimes coldly) 'Just drop your resume and we'll see what happens'.

    • @lancomeist
      @lancomeist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I did think this odd? Cvs have been around for years and years you wouldnt need to spend £500 for someone with his intellect it frustrated me watching that as i felt he was being ripped off

    • @georgeh-w5041
      @georgeh-w5041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Its probably his confidence in writing one when he hasn't written one ever/in a long time. Also don't forget the resources available wouldn't be as abundant when this was filmed. And CV templates for executive roles can be hard to write

    • @fanso76
      @fanso76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@lancomeist Getting a job or anything involving getting a job these days is usually frustrating and annoying. We are now in a time when being unemployed is the last thing you ever want to be.

    • @reallyryan_
      @reallyryan_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Some people have learning difficulties you ignorant pig.

  • @dannyismanoe6023
    @dannyismanoe6023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Whenever I take my job for granted, I'll watch this 🙏

  • @moon-gi3iv
    @moon-gi3iv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Having gone thru this twice myself I have to say that being over 50 it is nearly impossible to find a job. Had one more person told me I was overqualified for their position I might have socked em in the head. So, for those who say just take any old job, you can't get them, they won't even consider you. I feel sorry for those people with children. Learning that you're disposable and nothing is to be counted on at that young age is sad.

  • @babakemarcusj.8301
    @babakemarcusj.8301 6 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    very articulate kids and have a clear grasp of the parents predicaments.God bless.

  • @my-lientang5988
    @my-lientang5988 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Oh my gosh, that sweet little girl counting her piggy bank for her dad. Made my heart melt.

  • @ophelias4172
    @ophelias4172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I don't live in the UK, but our household has been going through this as well. Last time my husband lost his job it took us a year and a bit before he found something. It frustrates me that these huge companies like Ford have the audacity to let go of people after years and years of service and leave them with no severance package. Just out on the street with you.

    • @HaggisMuncher-69-420
      @HaggisMuncher-69-420 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe your husband should try and be more useful and get some skills behind him.
      If he's that easily fired and struggles to find new work that tells you a lot about him

  • @Mario_N64
    @Mario_N64 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That guy at the start is crying out of terror, because he's not that young anymore, and he doesn't know if he'll get a new job.

  • @marygarrapa3537
    @marygarrapa3537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Having a resouceful partner (in this case wife) helps a lot when you are unemployed. I loved the voice of the lady who has started the "occasions" group of singers. What a splendid idea and what beautiful voices. I hope they have had a lot of demand and success since this video was made. Good luck to her and her friends

    • @dhenderson1810
      @dhenderson1810 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Some people (not you) have bagged her on here, and said that she is silly, should give up her "dream" and "get a real job"..
      Well, she is starting her own business. It is a business where there isn't a lot of people are doing, meaning that she is cornering the market, and might get a lot of gigs, and thus, a lot of money.
      Also, she is helping other people who are unemployed, by giving them jobs (like the people who formed her choir).

  • @CNQRv3
    @CNQRv3 7 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    This isn't a "poverty " documentary. I don't think the 1st couple know the meaning of poverty.
    They are, after 3 months of unemployment, now eating into their SAVINGS......
    They aren't desperate enough to take any job
    Come on!!!!

    • @pusely
      @pusely 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Yes, the first couple have no idea what real poverty is. And they seemed to want to bend the rules to make two separate claims instead of a joint claim. If a couple in my area did that they would be called benefit cheats. It's strange how one's socio-economic status affects the way actions are viewed. Look through the fog everyone. Crying like he has lost a family member. I think maybe he needs to get a grasp on who he is rather than what he is.

    • @gabbygirl3951
      @gabbygirl3951 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I agree, this family has no clue. He seems mentally unstable. They both need to accept their new station in life, accept any job and not worry what others will think of them

    • @al-bi7by
      @al-bi7by 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      That family will suffer the most in the end. They don't seem to be capable of understanding they can't do as they please anymore.

    • @botramduuze7188
      @botramduuze7188 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I don't have any savings.

    • @atheistleftcomment1807
      @atheistleftcomment1807 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SootyIsMyCat123 agree

  • @laughingallthetime50
    @laughingallthetime50 6 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I don't think they should be discussing job hunting in front of the children, it's putting way too much pressure on them. Why is she at the husband all the time? Why doesn't she get off her behind and look herself?! Not an easy woman to live with I'd imagine. He seems lovely.

    • @yourfuneraldirector6432
      @yourfuneraldirector6432 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      laughingallthetime50 Like I've told my sister, don't talk finances around your children. They are more aware of noticing these problems with money going on than you might think. They have enough to worry about. Hopefully your financial difficulties will pass, but the kids will be nervous about it happening in the future .

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@yourfuneraldirector6432 I agree...even around adult children, parents should not talk about their finances. When I am around my parents, my dad tells all their business, reads their bills aloud as he opens the mail, etc. I have stayed with them as an adult jobless a few times, and it's hard looking for a job, and hearing all that stuff with your parents.

    • @KPlyf
      @KPlyf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Introduce your children to Dave Ramsey. Best that you could do to help your own .

    • @basicgaming1619
      @basicgaming1619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Spooky Moo I was in a conversation about this with my sister only a week ago. I believe all children should be taught by their parents or as a school subject in secondary school like how to get a mortgage and finance and basic life lessons. We have none of that. I basically had to learn as I went along like everyone one else but found it hard even with a steady job, sorting out bills etc.

    • @rosemarydudley9954
      @rosemarydudley9954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get real, get a life...

  • @stephenreie9847
    @stephenreie9847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    All the families on here seemed really determined to get back into work and you've got to respect them for that, losing a job and your home can happen to anyone at any time so you should never look down on other people cause that could be you

    • @youngyhasard3219
      @youngyhasard3219 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oui OUI

    • @rizkhan3368
      @rizkhan3368 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am 52 , never had job security, worked all my life , still am , I own no house no pension total squat, i patiently wait end of days now.
      Its not like I sat down on it, i tried but dependents and care cost so much i have to live month to month.

    • @rustykatt3870
      @rustykatt3870 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rizkhan3368 🤗All the best to you 😊.

  • @sleepy5017
    @sleepy5017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The littel girl Leah, she's such a wonderful kid. "We've got friends to play with, we got friends who live on our street who go to our school. And I've got my room and all my books and stuff like that to read so we don't really mind." What an inspirational and understanding child. Most kids these days would be complaining about phones or tablets or whatever else and this little girl is content with her books and friends. Honestly reminds me of my childhood.

    • @vanderbam2741
      @vanderbam2741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Most kids are like this....people are so weird about kids in these documentaries and think they are extraordinary angels. This is just how kids are. They are good-natured and generous.

    • @fetchstixRHD
      @fetchstixRHD 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vanderbam2741: Agreed, while kids do like to fit in and have nice stuff, they're also pretty understanding (and don't want their parents to suffer in order to get things they want), at least for the most part. Especially if you're open with them, they usually are understanding!

    • @terp8373
      @terp8373 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was stunned by how perceptive and articulate little Leah was.

  • @bxortiz7615
    @bxortiz7615 7 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I have lived in poverty how about being evicted and having to go to shelters if they will take you or begging people you know for a place to stay for the night I have been there and if it wasn't for the help of my family member and love I would still be on the streets people need to count their blessings and NO job is beneath you when you have children to feed

    • @TH-tc3ib
      @TH-tc3ib 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Damn straight, you do your best and make sacrifices. I ve been in same boat, still am.

    • @macky1660
      @macky1660 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok so if I dont have kids then its not beneath me

  • @yutub6928
    @yutub6928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What a lovely documentary. Please do not take me wrong. I say this because despite the theme, one can see the courage of the people made redundant but most importantly because it shows the love for them from their family. The parents must be proud of having such a loving, intelligent and caring dughters. Much love to all of you. Regards from México.

  • @marilynvallance
    @marilynvallance 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My heart goes out to them. There are going to be a lot more ‘middle class’ families in this situation soon.

    • @veroniquefelicia2642
      @veroniquefelicia2642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And it's getting closer and closer now with all the price and interest spikes, sadly

    • @markbenjamin1703
      @markbenjamin1703 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@veroniquefelicia2642 about 60% of the British middle-class are living in a fantasy world. Middle-class loaners only, living on credit and monthly payments.

  • @Kinkle_Z
    @Kinkle_Z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was so desperate after being laid off in 1995 at age 46 that I almost chose to fly to the Mariana Islands for a job offer there. I was actually going down to the street below me each night to hang out and bring gifts to the homeless since I was convinced that I would very soon be among them. Thank God within two days of me having to accept or decline the Mariana offer, an opportunity opened up that allowed me to stay in California. That was so close! My heart goes out to the many desperate working people suffering from our leaders' horrible decisions. I love the people - not our corrupt greedy leaders! and Not the corporations!

  • @heavenforney2092
    @heavenforney2092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The first Dad is trying but is clearly depressed. I mean he worked 20+ years for the same company... and then just got tossed away. He started to cry as he was reading his fair well letter to his company. I understand the wife being upset but... she was sort of too harsh on him at times. My husband and I are currently going through this however I'm 30 he's 31 and we have no children. It's not a fun feeling of feeling like the future looks bleak. My advice to anyone struggling do not give up.

    • @KazeHorse
      @KazeHorse 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The wife frustrated me. Pushing him and guilting him to get a job, all the while her only effort to find employment was to sing at one funeral.

    • @leadscollector
      @leadscollector 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How you doing now

  • @kittikoko
    @kittikoko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I was made redundant in my 20s and that was heartbreaking, but oh my God, imagine being in your 40s and 50s with 20+ years paid into the pension and being told that you'll get nothing. 😞

    • @kittikoko
      @kittikoko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Joseph It means that you lose your job because your company is going out of business or just doesn't have the money to keep you anymore. 🙁

    • @britishempireno1fan851
      @britishempireno1fan851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kittikoko I got made redundant when I was 21 it was really sad 😞

    • @dw4525
      @dw4525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It means your job is not needed anymore. I looked up his former company and it was bought by another in 2009 when the video was filmed. That explains why he was made redundant.

    • @themod7181
      @themod7181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why would you get no pension?

    • @GameWithViiP3R
      @GameWithViiP3R 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im 25 lost my job divorced and lost my house and everything been working since i was 16 at the same factory

  • @beatrixkiddo4693
    @beatrixkiddo4693 7 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    The first family... no harm but that's not poverty, they have no idea what grinding is. I mean complaining about sitting in a nice warm home in front of a pc creating a CV? they have no idea.

    • @sherinemarks2802
      @sherinemarks2802 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beatrix Kiddo gs

    • @RD-vz6cc
      @RD-vz6cc 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Beatrix Kiddo the original name of the documentary was “jobless” read the description box. they probably didn’t use the real name on TH-cam because of copyright. TH-cam will remove the video.

    • @beatrixkiddo4693
      @beatrixkiddo4693 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Rachel D it's still a documentary about unemployment. I was simply commenting on the mothers complaints. A lot of people struggle with unemployment and most wouldn't have the privilege of owning a nice home or a pc for that matter.

    • @senoritaaurora5123
      @senoritaaurora5123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Beatrix Kiddo they worked hard for their home and savings. That isn't privileged. They EARNT what they have. How judgemental of you.

    • @beatrixkiddo4693
      @beatrixkiddo4693 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Kayleigh Parker so that automatically allows them to moan and complain about applying for jobs? People go through a lot worse to earn and provide for themselves and their family, and they don't make some of the assumptions or complaints that women from the first family did. Everyone has to work / find work and it's not easy. It's not being judgemental at all it's called living in the real world, were privileges don't exist for everyone.

  • @gj2532
    @gj2532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    500 for a CV - - just go online and find a template

    • @PrimeSingers
      @PrimeSingers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@wickedblue1974 He doesn't have any brains left to write a CV but he wants a manager's job. What about driving a school bus?

    • @atomicpunk4034
      @atomicpunk4034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      This was filmed in 2009, maybe free CV templates weren't available then.

    • @Hayz.G
      @Hayz.G 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Job centre will do it for free

    • @angelikazavadska6117
      @angelikazavadska6117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You have a computer. All you do is Google - tips for a good CV in a .......... career (insert field you worked in e.g. optical)

    • @nataliem9667
      @nataliem9667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@atomicpunk4034 The first thing I did when I left school was write a C. V. That was 20 years ago!

  • @KazeHorse
    @KazeHorse 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Poor lads were clearly very proud of their jobs and saw unemployment as a shame on them. Us youngers have a totally different worldview. In 10 years of employment, I've been made redundant 3 times and keep my CV updated constantly with one eye on the door at all times. No loyalty to us so no loyalty shown - that's today's world.

  • @fozzybear8878
    @fozzybear8878 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Parents, you will rue the day you have shared these adult things with children. These children have been forced on to the roller coaster with you. Let children be children- keep them happy, let them play. Keep worries away from them. Share adult things- fears and realities like unemployment and financial worries- with other adults, but not with children. The kids will feel depression and anxiety like you do- do NOT do this to the little ones.

    • @Psalmbodytolove
      @Psalmbodytolove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Completely agree! I would never discuss adult matters like this in front of my children! They have enough to worry about in this world, they don’t need our issues ontop of them! These kids in this documentary should have no idea what’s going on :(

    • @ellenorbjornsdottir1166
      @ellenorbjornsdottir1166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      they can hear the fights. children are sponges. they'll soak any leak up. better be honest & traumatise them than lie and traumatise them.

    • @P4melaMasters
      @P4melaMasters 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So very true. My parents shielded me from this..but as a child of the 80s I saw friends houses being repossessed.
      As a child it seemed like they had done something very wrong and the parents were bad people.
      It scarred me a lot and I've become a workaholic. Never travelled and was far too scared to ever have kids.
      You are right... It really does effect the kids

    • @dhenderson1810
      @dhenderson1810 ปีที่แล้ว

      A bit hard.
      I mean, the children are going to figure out that daddy is home all the time, isn't going to work, and has no money.
      You see, you have just shown that you have never been unemployed a day in your life, so you wouldn't have a clue and therefore your ignorant opinion means nothing.

  • @mariapfister313
    @mariapfister313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m grateful I am working. No matter how much I complain, I realize that things can change in an instant. God helps me through.,I continue to work as long as I’m able. God be with those who lose their jobs through tough times. 🙏🏼

  • @traceydavenport3318
    @traceydavenport3318 7 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    500 quid for a cv are you people insane. Are these people so out of touch.

    • @BlackHearthguard
      @BlackHearthguard 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      This is what happens when you live in a world where you'd not pay less than 5 pounds for a bottle of water.

    • @leehollebon3393
      @leehollebon3393 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Insane you obviously don't live in the real world £500 is the cost of a professional CV you idiot

    • @cazw179
      @cazw179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Save your money and do the CV yourself. Plenty of free CV templates online.

    • @yukiefromoz2573
      @yukiefromoz2573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ironic as most of these ppl don't have a job/money, hence needing a CV done.

    • @danadunn3913
      @danadunn3913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      how much could he put on a cv if he worked the same job for 20 years. he could google how to write up a cv, or the job center should show people how to. if he pays the person 500 to do his cv, he still has to provide all the information to them, so in a way all they would be doing is typing it up for him and padding his info a little.

  • @jKDC1987
    @jKDC1987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It’s sad to see people who desperately want to work struggle to find something especially if you’ve spent years building yourself up. I know it’s an older documentary but I wish them all the best.

  • @d.d.mac.3773
    @d.d.mac.3773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I feel so bad for all these people. Some people are just content to sit around and do nothing, but all these people desperately want to work. I wish the very best for all their futures.

  • @ThursdayASMR
    @ThursdayASMR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    People need to stop judging these people for what they appear to be and realize the point of this is to document the EMOTIONAL burden and constant worry they are facing and realize the grass is not greener on the other side.

    • @marialiyubman
      @marialiyubman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can’t stop judging people who sit at home and do nothing but cry to the cameras when my mom clawed her way out of the same situation by cleaning houses when she was told there was no work.

  • @robingift1635
    @robingift1635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I know this document is three years old, but this lady sings beautifully. It would be nice to see where they are now in life.

    • @taylorburtis
      @taylorburtis ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This documentary was filmed in 2009 lol. It’s far older than 5 years old.

  • @SuperMarbelle
    @SuperMarbelle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    This is to warn us all to save, save, save instead of having luxuries. Put back all you can against the bad times. I am finding myself after retirement due to health issues trying to save every penny.

    • @gregshearer423
      @gregshearer423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SuperMarbelle that’s just stupid your saying don’t buy anything decent in case you loose your job that’s just dumb aye you need save some but no point saving all your money no like you can spend it when your dead

    • @sct4040
      @sct4040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      SuperMarbelle
      Save majority of your money, spend a little for enjoyment, travel a little, have joy in your life that doesn't involve money.

    • @johnmscott4556
      @johnmscott4556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You put it plain and simple, completely agree

    • @ajneskalde7155
      @ajneskalde7155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@johnmscott4556 if everyone would do that, everyone would be even poorer.
      Your country's prosperity doesn't get produced by the farmers or clothes makers (those live in bangladesh and somalia)....but by the people working in luxury fields like holiday travel, decoration, party services, hair dressers, jewelry makers, wellness spas, media, entertainment ....

    • @P4melaMasters
      @P4melaMasters 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Funny, the bad times are here now

  • @gwensmith4542
    @gwensmith4542 6 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I grew up in poverty. Seeing the first couple made me sick. I feel for their children but they’re living in another planet 🙄

    • @reiner.2238
      @reiner.2238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gwen Smith wdym seeing the first couple made me sick 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @mingmangmung3051
      @mingmangmung3051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Can’t they just sell the house and toughen it up for a bit. I hate people who cannot live poor

    • @infernogamers168
      @infernogamers168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@mingmangmung3051 complete bollocks, being poor doesn't toughen you up. Working 20 years in a career, doing right by your family toughen you up. Poor people don't break the cycle. Their children will have a completely different view of their future, knowing they need a good job. Not cleaning toilets.

    • @infernogamers168
      @infernogamers168 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Will Fryer 2 100% agree. Then don't complain about not having enough money when that job can't support all your children.

    • @infernogamers168
      @infernogamers168 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Will Fryer 2 agreed

  • @Doctorandergraun
    @Doctorandergraun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    This breaks my heart, I moved to the uk because of the crisis in Spain and I feel thankful because I had everything I needed. Uk gave me job, hope and love. I miss all my colleagues :( Love you guys, wherever you are :( Best time of my life.

    • @JJTownley_Classical-Composer
      @JJTownley_Classical-Composer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Has anybody followed up on these people to see how they're doing? Seems to be just as bad there as it is here in the colonies.

    • @compendioussuccient6784
      @compendioussuccient6784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Glad you came

    • @rosildalima610
      @rosildalima610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly and the English ppl don't know how to m manage the good money they get there.

    • @dorapalma767
      @dorapalma767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Came to the UK with 400 euros in my pocket. I had to move around were jobs were... common sense right? I worked, studied...did the best I could to be a good citizen and have a reasonable life. Always "ran" away from "bad crews". Today I have a lovely family and I have my own place. A lucky person.

    • @27273100
      @27273100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're not alone. I'm very thankful to have my job, even though as an essential worker.

  • @adamweston4152
    @adamweston4152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Although this is an old documentary it's very relevant to the current situation in the UK with covid and my heart goes out to all of the people who are faced with unemployment and money troubles and who are raising kids.please if you're in a position to help a family in need then do what you can for them because at times like this we all need to stick together and remember these words.... kindness doesn't cost a penny but it makes you a richer person.❤️😉👍

    • @Mhvjhvnbvhvggvgv
      @Mhvjhvnbvhvggvgv ปีที่แล้ว

      What covid ? Your government deliberately destroyed your economy with “lockdowns”

    • @mandybradley3079
      @mandybradley3079 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How old. No dates.

  • @ankaro4258
    @ankaro4258 7 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    When you lost your job and you have a family, you can't be picky and keep complaining. Like these people. That's the point of this documentary.

    • @flowlikeaether
      @flowlikeaether 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah its another biased one sided low IQ documentary demonising the poor, but what you SHOULD of taken away, is that society is failing human beings, and there's nothing left for people, instead of feeling sorry for yourself and justifying hating them because thats easier then acknowledging your idle passive uncaring generation need to get up and stop getting robbed of opportunities by coroprations pretending to be human, there's nothing left for the kids man

    • @dhenderson1810
      @dhenderson1810 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So you would work in a crappy job for much less pay?
      I bet you have never had to, and I bet you never would.

  • @BlanceDevereaux
    @BlanceDevereaux 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    That little girl Leah is a star! What an intelligent, kind and intuitive little person! Her parents are lucky to have her and should be proud.

  • @kathyharrington1152
    @kathyharrington1152 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I know what they are going through. I've been there. I lost my job after 16 years of making good money. I lost all self esteem and felt worthless. Luckily I had some savings and then I got sick. I was able to get social security disability. Then my husband hurt his back but was able to get disability too.

  • @davidlittlewood8850
    @davidlittlewood8850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I once found myself out of work aged 62, scary, thought this is the scrap heap, I got work though and retired aged 66.

    • @fionagregory8078
      @fionagregory8078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have to wait another 7 years until 67 before I claim pension credit.

    • @laverdajota8089
      @laverdajota8089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m 60 and struggling to find a job , I’ve been in technical sales for years and pretty switched on with any thing mechanical, but no one wants to employ me , I’m at the end of my tether and don’t know what to do , I have let my family down ,

    • @rickschucker9697
      @rickschucker9697 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laverdajota8089 keep trying!!! You have not let your family down as long as you keep trying, and they all know it !! Chin up!!!

    • @tibbydudeza
      @tibbydudeza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@laverdajota8089 It is not your fault - I am in the same boat - loads of experience but nobody wants to employ an old person these days.

  • @seanprice2990
    @seanprice2990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I've been unemployed for 8 months mainly because of problems with my mental health. I spend a few hours a day applying for jobs but nobody seems to want to "take a chance" on somebody with my history. I feel so ashamed that I'm not working so barely leave my house during the day, which makes my mental health even worse. It's just a vicious cycle

    • @Cackle77
      @Cackle77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I hope it has improved for you. best wishes x

    • @kitwarjri7086
      @kitwarjri7086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's the same with me n my self esteem is beyond low.

    • @seanprice2990
      @seanprice2990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kitwarjri7086 Stay strong my friend ❤️

    • @kitwarjri7086
      @kitwarjri7086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@seanprice2990 Thank you vry much my fren.i hope evrything had work out for you.❤

    • @Megan-lr2hx
      @Megan-lr2hx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I barely have hours at work so I considered myself unemployed as well. During those days that I’m not scheduled for work, it’s difficult for me to come outside my house so I know what you mean. Do you have a yard in your house? Maybe you can go to your yard in the morning and do some exercises. I’ve been doing that which helps relieve my anxiety a bit. It would be more helpful if I can walk my neighborhood but I really can’t.

  • @indigoivy8807
    @indigoivy8807 7 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    Interesting look at another side of unemployment but calling this a 'poverty documentary' is an absolute joke and a complete insult to people who are actually living in poverty.

    • @zhaoqitang4631
      @zhaoqitang4631 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      truly agree with you

    • @ricardodelapena8067
      @ricardodelapena8067 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      right? It's definitely and unemployment documentary, but poverty is a far stretch...especially when you have a savings that you're living on.
      they might be headed to poverty, but they aren't in poverty just yet.

    • @PBMS123
      @PBMS123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      The show is called Jobless: Life Unemployed
      Whoever has uploaded this to TH-cam has added the (poverty) part. The people.

    • @antoinettestclair-winston5298
      @antoinettestclair-winston5298 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe you have a point of comparison....maybe this country?........if that is correct ....then I suggest you hop over to an underdeveloped country and live there .......in exactly the same way as the indigenous people........then you would know what poverty is.
      Somehow I do not think you have done that.......you are therefore welcome to correct me if I am wrong.
      The point here is these good families are perceiving loss.....going without ......high stress levels .......and yes suffering .......and if they consider themselves "poor ".......then they should at least allowed that feeling ......even though their poverty is "western".
      Make allowances for a persons psychological perception of a situation.......and it would allow you to be more kind.....and less judgmental.

    • @hh-ck3yw
      @hh-ck3yw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But unemployment can lead to poverty.

  • @lenac3587
    @lenac3587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I never had to pay anyone money to do my CV in my entire life. £500 is jaw dropping.

  • @louiserobson4947
    @louiserobson4947 7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    The more you have the more you can lose. Be humble. Work to live don’t live to work. Doesn’t matter how much you earn as long as you have a roof over your head and good to eat that’s all that matters. You can’t take anything with you when you die.

    • @christinemunn6123
      @christinemunn6123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And, save some money...and then you don't have to worry so much...poor family had to have a vacation on the brother in laws boat...oh, so sad!

    • @AnnetteMurphyger
      @AnnetteMurphyger 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sophie Louise amen well said!

    • @scottsmith5376
      @scottsmith5376 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Louise Robson Yeah, Live for today. However if they had not planned for the future Andy and his family would be on the street already. We need to plan for the unexpected.

    • @leehollebon3393
      @leehollebon3393 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Don't talk like a fuking idiot we live in a fuking expensive world so obviously it does matter what you earn you fuking idiot

    • @charleneoneill4729
      @charleneoneill4729 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup u r right

  • @popcorn6931
    @popcorn6931 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I was unemployed for 6 months and I can really relate to what they went thru. The uncertainty in their eyes says it all.

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    • @balbhatti6987
      @balbhatti6987 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unemployed for 6 months and you think you can relate?? Please 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @jjb2458
    @jjb2458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    god bless my father he never dragged me through his troubles no matter what i can't say the same to these parents

  • @botramduuze7188
    @botramduuze7188 7 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Big houses, big car, several dogs, ... This is not poverty at all!

    • @MaruskaStarshaya
      @MaruskaStarshaya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      hey those europeans think they deserve more, lol

    • @solasunny8965
      @solasunny8965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Absurd comment. They worked very hard to get some luxery. But without a job they can't afford any longer that living standard.. After all the payments, there's hardly money left for food, clothes, animals etc. Inside the beautifull homes with animals is poverty, even it looks from the outside otherwise... don't judge so quickly.

    • @elizabethkessler7029
      @elizabethkessler7029 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s easier to go from nothing to nothing than something to nothing. Without people in that income class whose going to buy the stuff that employs service workers? If you on benefits long term those service jobs about all that’s out there to move you up. It’s not right or fair but it is reality.

    • @curlyyasmin181
      @curlyyasmin181 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The documentary is called Jobless. Not poverty 😒

    • @fionagregory8078
      @fionagregory8078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@solasunny8965 luxury*

  • @cirias
    @cirias 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The Jackie and Andy situation was literally my parents for about a year back in the early 2000's. They were that generation that stayed with companies and didn't really keep a CV up to date. Luckily my Mum got a teaching job so only my Dad was out of work, and he went to a ton of interviews as (funny enough) a computer salesman. If I translate that situation to myself now, I've moved companies about 4 times in the past 10 years and get a substantial bump in pay each time. Companies don't care about your loyalty, they will get rid of you if the balance sheet tells them to. Always keep mobile, keep marketing yourself even when you're happy in your job, and be ready to jump ship at any moment. And yes I'm in the UK not the US where they have even less job stability!

  • @olly1397
    @olly1397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The little girl is going to grow up as a good hearted person! Very humble

  • @arnaVck
    @arnaVck 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Andy is such a good guy! Felt so sorry for him.

  • @DaysLikeThese65
    @DaysLikeThese65 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    The 'i'm leaving' letter to clients colleagues is emotional but sadly not worth your emotions. Others really don't care for more than 20 seconds. Just reality. Focus on the future not the past.

    • @anon5191
      @anon5191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Harsh but true. However being in sales he felt it was a guesture that he thought would earn him some goodwill and maybe help him poach them later on.

    • @justacrocodile9486
      @justacrocodile9486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If he had been dealing with those people for some years then he would have built up a good rapport with them and I think it was a good gesture to let them know he wouldn't see them again, and thanking them for all they had done. It's simply good manners after all. I hope he did find a good job eventually, he was a good man, with a lovely family.

    • @skeptigal2785
      @skeptigal2785 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Truth! I'm sure he was feeling worse for himself than for the clients. Maybe it was grief therapy?

    • @WeSombreGhosts
      @WeSombreGhosts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah its dog eat dog and thats the reality in life , they'll read the letter think awww thats nice and it'll be deleted !!!

    • @skeptigal2785
      @skeptigal2785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@WeSombreGhosts, or - more likely - not even read it first and delete it. Bigger fish to fry!

  • @caileighlong5561
    @caileighlong5561 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That poor dad who lost his job and was reading that letter. I felt so bad for him! I always watch these and wish I could help them!

  • @HL-xz8zf
    @HL-xz8zf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The little blonde girl is very switched on and articulate. She has so much potential to amount to something incredible. I hope that she has people in her life to inspire her.

  • @sunshine9016
    @sunshine9016 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was a sad but an enlightening story. Thank you for sharing it. I wish everyone better days.

  • @garryharriman7349
    @garryharriman7349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Life can change in an instant, for anyone and at any time! Be thankful for what you have no matter how your percerpions may be.

  • @raylenewynyard655
    @raylenewynyard655 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I work in recruitment and I have seen many people like this who have spiraled into depression. Just because they are not poverty and cleaning toilets doesn’t make them less off than others. It’s not easy to work hard for 20 plus years and suddenly have your world taken away. People need to understand this. It’s easy to say I’d do anything fast food whatever, but unless you experience just this. You will never understand it. There pensions they worked hard for gone. Unable to obtain benefits. Poverty is not just homeless,single mums and people on benefits. These people can face more hardship than most. Outdated qualifications, age, are barriers. People need to stop the judging

    • @becgould3772
      @becgould3772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Couldn't agree more with you. The company I work for just put off a group of people some of them had been with us for 30 odd years.

  • @archanapande3197
    @archanapande3197 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    How miserably heartbreaking is this...
    Specially those kids😭

  • @socuriousjenee5105
    @socuriousjenee5105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That little girls is just the smartest, kindest, lovely human. More of her please.

  • @adelaney537
    @adelaney537 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The children on this programme were absolutely beautiful and so supportive particularly Rhea she was so well adjusted. - I fell in love with her a pure delight. It was very sad to see people who have never experienced the dole come to terms with what unemployment means. I am glad they all found work. It seems life is very bleak at times.

    • @Aaaaaa-pf4kj
      @Aaaaaa-pf4kj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Best comment I've read on this video.

  • @Jomac87
    @Jomac87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Duffie the barman seems like such a caring soul, we need more people like him 😊❤

  • @BH-lp1vk
    @BH-lp1vk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I wish the parents wouldn’t talk finances in front of the children. Brings back some bad memories. Kids can only handle so much. ☹️

    • @wilmeralbert2908
      @wilmeralbert2908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No they must cuz children must know how money come from

    • @christy7kkim
      @christy7kkim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Also just hiding does not help the children either. My mom did not tell me anything and explain things and that made me more confused when I was young.

    • @TheWaggishAmerican
      @TheWaggishAmerican 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christy7kkim Kinda this. I think it's best to let children know broad concepts but keep specific numbers vague. That's how I was taught about money, bills, saving, and investing.

    • @jackjackthompson5771
      @jackjackthompson5771 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Venting to your children is toxic, agreed

    • @shayneb3540
      @shayneb3540 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Children are not helpless. There's no need to smother them to protect them from the reality of the world. No wonder why young people suffer from so much anxiety and depression.
      I think it's ADULTS who can only handle so much. Take you for example. You can't even let go of your bad memories let alone see the value in them.
      Children are more resilient than today's society gives them credit for. That age is the critical time for children to learn what life is really like, or else they grow up in the fantasy world society pushes on them.
      I can't help but wonder why so many grown adults can't wrap their heads around why life is so hard and unfair.

  • @08prema
    @08prema 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    These people are not in poverty.

    • @rinkydinkydragon1
      @rinkydinkydragon1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s not a documentary about poverty, it’s a documentary about struggling with unemployment.

  • @milly5678899
    @milly5678899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I've just happen to see this documentary. I found it absolutely interesting and I felt for these people.
    Being unemployed with young children is a real tragedy.
    And I also feel that those children sometimes speak as adults, because of the situation their parents are going through.
    I was happy to learn that at the end they all found some jobs.

  • @MrCostas32
    @MrCostas32 6 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    So, Jackie sings with her mates in the kitchen, talks bollocks about starting a business.. then has a goand makes her husband feel bad about not getting an interview.. she's delusional

    • @MabShineshineworld
      @MabShineshineworld 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Exactly delusional is not good to make your partner to feel less of human, no matter the circumstances they find themselves in

    • @solasunny8965
      @solasunny8965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Nonsens. She tried the best she could to make some money and stood by her man all the time!!!

    • @gazza106
      @gazza106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’ve just farted

    • @katieseear3308
      @katieseear3308 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sola Sunny exactly

    • @soupflood
      @soupflood 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gazza 10 exactly

  • @charlottebreton6796
    @charlottebreton6796 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Imagine working for a company and getting redundant. They're coming out of that company with skills that no longer apply to the current world.

  • @magdaty1815
    @magdaty1815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i cry reading loads of those: 'Thank you for your interest in the above position. We have had a high level of interest in this position and unfortunately you have not been shortlisted for interview on this occasion.
    We wish you every success in your job search.' and I continue to listen Peter Gabriel's don't give up

  • @alevan1
    @alevan1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    The women Jackie, it really gets my goat how she is on her husband to find work, and yet she isn't doing anything but dreaming of having her own business, why isn't she looking for work so it can help the family, she should be doing something even if she doesn't like it, why is it only her husband that has to be the one to find work?

    • @stevenclaessen2608
      @stevenclaessen2608 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      +Candy Craver 550 Omg you sexist PIG!!!

    • @alevan1
      @alevan1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      That is why there are divorces today with people like your mentality I can only guess you are single!!!!

    • @serzhan222
      @serzhan222 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      who u talking to u dipshit?

    • @alevan1
      @alevan1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh my I'm so hurt by your insults.....

    • @mlkirkl09
      @mlkirkl09 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Candy Craver 500 I am not going to go on an all out spree and put you down. There are a lot of people who still think the same way because that is the way it has been for thousands of years. The women stayed home and the men brought home the money and food. I grew up in a family where my mom stayed home and my dad worked. I don't think the same way, though. I believe it takes two incomes in order to remotely make it these days. The prices of everything is so high that even if the woman wanted to stay home, it is near impossible for her to.

  • @bethangla3426
    @bethangla3426 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The blonde little girl was so smart and I just hope life is easier for her and her family from now on

  • @clouds882
    @clouds882 7 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    The kids are the ones I feel most sorry for. I think an unemployed parent should not let any job opportunity slip by in these desperate times, no matter how low the pay may seem. It's better than having no income coming in. No job is beneath you when you are unemployed, kids to feed, mortage n bills to pay. I hope the kids, when they grow up and are ready for the job market, their prospects would be better.

    • @Lookatmeshine
      @Lookatmeshine 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      RoryAddict and that's how slavery will happen...

    • @Gigantemanatee
      @Gigantemanatee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      angelstouch92 has happened, people can’t even survive on what they’re earning now. The government has decimated this country when it comes to jobs.

    • @brandonsoorjbully1553
      @brandonsoorjbully1553 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      RoryAddict You should not have kids if you cannot afford to.

    • @ninisworld667
      @ninisworld667 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Brandon Soorjbully they could afford it untill they were layed off. Could happen to any working, stable family

    • @maurab5262
      @maurab5262 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Interesting, but I think this film is more about child abuse than unemployment and poverty. Very sad, as most of the children shown are victims of neglect. A house full of kids - without an adult in sight - never in school and left to their own devices all day and night and getting into all kinds of trouble. Even the smallest exposed to drug selling and usage. Yes, poverty and unemployment can be part of this cycle, but not all poor people give up and let their children run wild to fend for themselves. I hope some of them will find a way not to repeat the cycle.

  • @cjstubejackofalltrade1551
    @cjstubejackofalltrade1551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Heart breaking. Hope all of them are doing ok now. All the kids are so sweet.

  • @stillliving5899
    @stillliving5899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I feel bad for these people, hope they are okay now. Anything can happen, I got injured, and then got MS, which disabled me, and I have much less income, happened around the time this was made. I am thankful to God that my home is payed off, and that I have food. God bless anyone who is in this spot. God bless.