Something is seriously wrong with her mentally. She is SICK to have stayed married so long to someone like that even with so many people trying to help her get out of the relationship and it is ONLY because he did something THIS OUTRAGEOUS that she finally came to her senses? I do not at all like or respect a person that would be a codependent enabler and refuse to leave that kind of person. Its pathetic.
So… if he successfully deceived everyone, as he planned, it would just make it look like he cheated on his wife?? So he’d lose her for sure. But the fiancé he’s creeping on would know they’ve never slept together, even if everyone else was fooled and the wedding was ruined, so he wouldn’t end up with her either? So even if everything went perfectly to plan, he’d still end up miserable and alone and hated by the family. What was he thinking? 🙄🙄🙄
He's already cheated on her in the past and she was still with him. He was probably thinking it would be like one of the multiple other times she knew about his cheating and did nothing.
@@tonyblake7569 It is why (one of the reasons, there are others) I do not at all respect her and consider her to be a worthless piece of human filth not much better morally than her husband. Only a piece of filth will be a codependent enabler who makes excuses for a piece of filth. I think the proverb "it takes 2 to tango" applies pretty well to their relationship.
@@untitled-gv3qp IF I was the groom then I think I know what his end goal would be. I think he is sick and tired of the inconvenience of having to brush and floss his teeth every day and his strategy is trying to get rid of most of them to lift that burden from his life because if I had been the groom he would have very quickly been rid of most or all of his teeth.
Maybe that is what he WANTED? He kept cheating on her so he obviously wanted to sleep with other woman and being married (due to issues like infidelity) kind of ruins that.
I love story 2. Her niece is so sweet. To ask to have the amount split between her and her friend for both of their birthdays is so unselfish. She could te as could teach her mom a thing or two.
I totally support your decision to do as your wife wants... however, Richard needs to be taken to court to make a point to him & hopefully prevent him from doing this to someone else. Maybe the court will force him to get rehab
Its good that the Sister left Richard part of me would not trust her in my house though. There is always a small chance that Richard convinces her to forgive him.
I would not trust or respect a person like her either. I keep posting on other threads that she is seriously messed up mentally to NOT leave him for so long and keep making bullcrap excuses for him. She is a downright pathetic person not much more worthy of respect than Richard.
Last story: you can buy yourself flowers; write your name in the sand. Talk to yourself for hours-say things he won't understand. You can take yourself dancing! You can hold your own hand... And you can love you better than he can.
Lol,the audacity, did he really think his wife would continue to put up with his bs. That there wouldn't be any consequences to his actions, was it worth mortifying his in-laws that already didn't like him on his brother in laws wedding day, what did he think he was gonna get from this. Guess this was the straw that broke the camels back. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. choices Richard. What did he think was gonna happen when he went through with it? Theres a word for this but it goes against youtube guidelines 😂😂😂😂.
I don’t know what the BIL’s endgame was. The SIL was going to leave her husband for him after this stunt? Or just to ruin their wedding? Or is he just crazy?
BIL is obsessed with OPs wife. OP and his wife are being naïve. BIL isn't done. They should definitely report everything to the police. The "cheating pictures" didn't work. He will come up with something else. That "something else" could be dangerous for OP,wife or both.
He wanted her and she turned him down. This would humiliate her as "revenge", op would probably leave her so he'd win because if he couldn't have her op shouldn't either, and ops sister would forgive him like the other times op said he cheated on her before. So yeah, crazy.
@@tonyblake7569 OP Sister should have left years ago and instead she was an doormat and spineless and now OP and his wife will not trust her because of richard
@@hugoumero9723 She does not deserve to be trusted or respected. I hate her too and only a little bit less than I hate Richard. She was a codependent enabler who refused to leave him and kept making up bullcrap excuses for him. Not LEGALLY I admit, and I know that they cannot call the cops on her or sue her (like they SHOULD HAVE done to him) but they SHOULD disown her and write her out of their lives. I consider her to be morally partially responsible for ruining their wedding. The least that stupid woman could have done for them would have been to go there WITHOUT her husband. Maybe explain that the couple getting married do not like him and she cannot trust his behavior. If she wants to live with a totally abusive piece of crap who treats her like crap and does not at all respect her that is her business and I don't care but she dragged everyone else into her drama and her stupid actions helped to ruin the wedding. She should be shunned for the rest of her life.
About story 1. I know you don't want to file a lawsuit against him, but should make a police report. That way there is a record of the crap. Your sister and your wife should get a restraining order against him. He uses alcohol and blames his BS on it. He could do something worse. Just watch out for him he is a dirtbag.
I don't think he thought that. I think it was REVENGE on her for refusing to cheat on her own fiancee and NOT help him cheat on his own wife with her. How dare she!!!
I don’t think the OP should necessarily sue that idiot Richard. I think he should have hired a couple of Guidos and Bubbas to go beat the you-know-what out of him.
I am a former competitive kickboxer (amateur). I would have relentlessly let loose on him and worry about the legal consequences later. My intent would be to leave him permanently disfigured and needing months of hospitalization. But I love your idea. A fantasy story in my mind is someone like this at a wedding where the bride has a father with major mafia connections. But just a garden variety beating is not enough. I would pay "Guido" and "Bubba" to leave him permanently crippled. Maybe break every finger on both hands to make his hands useless AND shatter both kneecaps so that he can never walk again (might be able to walk with a walker like an elderly person after some surgeries and physical therapy).
BIL must have been terribly insulted when OP's wife turned him down. To pull a stunt like that is vicious, petty, spiteful, and cruel. What did he hope to accomplish -- an immediate divorce that would leave her "available" and unprotected?
Last story. I live in a University town and some of the students are willing to rent space in yards to grow organic veg and flowers. Put an ad on your local Facebook. Then husband gets to do less yard maintenance and you get free veggies
I wonder what Richard (the BIL) thought would have happened by sharing those photoshopped photos to the family? What is the rationale or end goal behind that?
“Can leave” is choosing not to. That’s the reason. Great if sister finally chooses to do so but let’s stop pretending she isn’t an active party in all of this.
I posted above that she was a codependent enabler and tolerating his behavior and not leaving him EVEN WHEN OTHERS OFFERED TO HELP HER GET AWAY FROM HIM makes her an outright pathetic person and partially culpable. She was not fully responsible for his actions but metaphorically speaking she had a pet tiger and it attacked people. If you have a pet tiger and it attacks someone its kind of your fault too.
@@robertwinters4269 I would not beat her up (If I was the groom in this story that guy would have been effectively on a baby food diet until his oral surgeon gave him his artificial teeth, and he might have needed some reconstructive surgery on the rest of his face.) or sue her like I would have him but I would hate her too and feel that she was indirectly responsible for what happened by bringing him there. She should have known by now with that many years with him that his behavior could not be trusted. She should have refused to let him come with her to the wedding. I have a different kind of disgust for people like her.
Tell her you would have only been able to purchase tennies for your own child... BUT your daughter wanted to treat Carmen to the gifts you purchased. Depending on where you live you can get budget/off brand tennis shoes for around $25
Story1: the BIL still won because he was able to get out free of any consequence of his actions in the wedding. now that he becomes single is another bunos on his part
Op s sister needs help. She should have left him years ago. You can always prove if something is photoshoped or not, so even if everyone had believed him , he would have gained nothing in the long run. And yes, OP and his wife should have taken him to court. His sister divorcing him is irrelevant. He ruined OP s marriage and he could have damaged their relationship, hadn't been for Emma.
Story one. In some countries what the bil did is a crime and if reported can lead to being arrested and the "state" prosecutes. I agree that he should be reported to the police in case this escalates.
What did Richard think that was gonna do.? Somehow convince OP's wife she should be with him instead cause he went through such great lengths to break up her relationship and humiliate her.? Like really thought.? He really thought he had a chance.? Just wow. I wonder if he thought that if everyone believed it she would just sleep with him cause everyone already thought they did so why not.? Lol
I must say this.. OP.. no matter what your wife says, letting your ex-BIL get away with his acts scott free after what he's done criminally just because your wife is embarassed? I'm going to tell you this: One day your wife will come around OP and says "SUE RICHARD! He needs to pay us for damages on our wedding day". that's when you'll tell her "too little too late" story. Unless a lawyer can help you win the case. Good luck.
Not to victim blame here, but if they had the texts beforehand, that freak should have been disinvited from the wedding immediately. Even if they didn't know that he'd try to use the pictures to trick everyone, the fact that he even tried to have them made was already enough.
In the middle of the story, but my guess is it's probably better they didn't say anything before the wedding. Yes he's going to cause a scene there, op didn't know but we do. But if they said something before he'd deny it was him and accuse op of framing him. And ops twin would believe him. This way op has the proof and there's no way bil could say he didn't hire someone to do it.
BIL has photos made to accuse my future wife. So of course I dont say shit to anyone and then am surprised when he actually goes through with it. Because who could have seen this coming? Certainly not a troll making up a story for rage and click bait.
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What this fool thought would happen
Op's niece is an incredible sweet and generous girl
I'm glad that OP's sister decided to leave that toxic cheater cuz what he pulled on the wedding day crosses so many boundaries
Something is seriously wrong with her mentally. She is SICK to have stayed married so long to someone like that even with so many people trying to help her get out of the relationship and it is ONLY because he did something THIS OUTRAGEOUS that she finally came to her senses? I do not at all like or respect a person that would be a codependent enabler and refuse to leave that kind of person. Its pathetic.
So… if he successfully deceived everyone, as he planned, it would just make it look like he cheated on his wife?? So he’d lose her for sure. But the fiancé he’s creeping on would know they’ve never slept together, even if everyone else was fooled and the wedding was ruined, so he wouldn’t end up with her either? So even if everything went perfectly to plan, he’d still end up miserable and alone and hated by the family. What was he thinking? 🙄🙄🙄
He's already cheated on her in the past and she was still with him. He was probably thinking it would be like one of the multiple other times she knew about his cheating and did nothing.
@@tonyblake7569 It is why (one of the reasons, there are others) I do not at all respect her and consider her to be a worthless piece of human filth not much better morally than her husband. Only a piece of filth will be a codependent enabler who makes excuses for a piece of filth. I think the proverb "it takes 2 to tango" applies pretty well to their relationship.
Insanity. 😮😊😅😂
Was he thinking?
The booze has fried too many brain cells.
So he can’t think clearly.
Play stupid games. Win stupid prize.
He found himself at the corners of Fuck Around st and Found Out ave
I just wanna know what the end goal was 🤔
@@untitled-gv3qp IF I was the groom then I think I know what his end goal would be. I think he is sick and tired of the inconvenience of having to brush and floss his teeth every day and his strategy is trying to get rid of most of them to lift that burden from his life because if I had been the groom he would have very quickly been rid of most or all of his teeth.
How dumb is op brother-in-law think this stunt wouldn’t destroy his marriage story 1
Maybe that is what he WANTED? He kept cheating on her so he obviously wanted to sleep with other woman and being married (due to issues like infidelity) kind of ruins that.
Tag legal action no matter what. If he’s done this to your wife he’s probably done it to someone else or he will.
I love story 2. Her niece is so sweet. To ask to have the amount split between her and her friend for both of their birthdays is so unselfish. She could te as could teach her mom a thing or two.
I totally support your decision to do as your wife wants...
however, Richard needs to be taken to court to make a point to him & hopefully prevent him from doing this to someone else. Maybe the court will force him to get rehab
Its good that the Sister left Richard part of me would not trust her in my house though. There is always a small chance that Richard convinces her to forgive him.
I would not trust or respect a person like her either. I keep posting on other threads that she is seriously messed up mentally to NOT leave him for so long and keep making bullcrap excuses for him. She is a downright pathetic person not much more worthy of respect than Richard.
Last story: you can buy yourself flowers; write your name in the sand. Talk to yourself for hours-say things he won't understand. You can take yourself dancing! You can hold your own hand... And you can love you better than he can.
I can get a guy getting jealous when ANOTHER MAN gets flowers for his wife but being JEALOUS of your own wife in the same way is just WEIRD.
@@Zurround It isnt weird its AWFUL. He's an AWFUL MAN.
Sue Richard to pay for your wedding !
You have the proof and make sure .
It's taken care of.
This is what happens when old people don't get enough attention.
The humor in the lies are priceless!
Too many times, people leave things in the past or leave it behind when they should take care of it can always come back and bite you if it wants
What would imao stand for? In my average opinion? Laughing my a** off!
Lol,the audacity, did he really think his wife would continue to put up with his bs. That there wouldn't be any consequences to his actions, was it worth mortifying his in-laws that already didn't like him on his brother in laws wedding day, what did he think he was gonna get from this. Guess this was the straw that broke the camels back. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. choices Richard.
What did he think was gonna happen when he went through with it? Theres a word for this but it goes against youtube guidelines 😂😂😂😂.
"Juicy Kaisen", Pffftttt. Some characters from that show are Juicy for sure
Sukuna is juicy af even his fingers are juicy
S1, it makes me very suspicious that opies wife don't want to take bil to court
I don’t know what the BIL’s endgame was. The SIL was going to leave her husband for him after this stunt? Or just to ruin their wedding? Or is he just crazy?
BIL is obsessed with OPs wife. OP and his wife are being naïve. BIL isn't done. They should definitely report everything to the police. The "cheating pictures" didn't work. He will come up with something else. That "something else" could be dangerous for OP,wife or both.
He wanted her and she turned him down. This would humiliate her as "revenge", op would probably leave her so he'd win because if he couldn't have her op shouldn't either, and ops sister would forgive him like the other times op said he cheated on her before. So yeah, crazy.
@@tonyblake7569 OP Sister should have left years ago and instead she was an doormat and spineless and now OP and his wife will not trust her because of richard
@@hugoumero9723 hopefully they will trust hee, but agreed she should have left him long ago.
@@hugoumero9723 She does not deserve to be trusted or respected. I hate her too and only a little bit less than I hate Richard. She was a codependent enabler who refused to leave him and kept making up bullcrap excuses for him. Not LEGALLY I admit, and I know that they cannot call the cops on her or sue her (like they SHOULD HAVE done to him) but they SHOULD disown her and write her out of their lives. I consider her to be morally partially responsible for ruining their wedding. The least that stupid woman could have done for them would have been to go there WITHOUT her husband. Maybe explain that the couple getting married do not like him and she cannot trust his behavior. If she wants to live with a totally abusive piece of crap who treats her like crap and does not at all respect her that is her business and I don't care but she dragged everyone else into her drama and her stupid actions helped to ruin the wedding. She should be shunned for the rest of her life.
About story 1. I know you don't want to file a lawsuit against him, but should make a police report. That way there is a record of the crap. Your sister and your wife should get a restraining order against him. He uses alcohol and blames his BS on it. He could do something worse. Just watch out for him he is a dirtbag.
Story 2: Sister seems to like living beyond her means which is likely why she’s bad financially.
Did he think she was gonna be with him after making her look like a cheater at her own wedding?
I don't think he thought that. I think it was REVENGE on her for refusing to cheat on her own fiancee and NOT help him cheat on his own wife with her. How dare she!!!
I don’t think the OP should necessarily sue that idiot Richard. I think he should have hired a couple of Guidos and Bubbas to go beat the you-know-what out of him.
I am a former competitive kickboxer (amateur). I would have relentlessly let loose on him and worry about the legal consequences later. My intent would be to leave him permanently disfigured and needing months of hospitalization.
But I love your idea. A fantasy story in my mind is someone like this at a wedding where the bride has a father with major mafia connections. But just a garden variety beating is not enough. I would pay "Guido" and "Bubba" to leave him permanently crippled. Maybe break every finger on both hands to make his hands useless AND shatter both kneecaps so that he can never walk again (might be able to walk with a walker like an elderly person after some surgeries and physical therapy).
BIL must have been terribly insulted when OP's wife turned him down. To pull a stunt like that is vicious, petty, spiteful, and cruel. What did he hope to accomplish -- an immediate divorce that would leave her "available" and unprotected?
Last story. I live in a University town and some of the students are willing to rent space in yards to grow organic veg and flowers. Put an ad on your local Facebook. Then husband gets to do less yard maintenance and you get free veggies
Why did they invite Richard for the wedding?
Tell him to get a job.
So he can buy them for you
I wonder what Richard (the BIL) thought would have happened by sharing those photoshopped photos to the family? What is the rationale or end goal behind that?
The sister has no options - he has cheated either way and just disgusting human being
Last story- what a jerk, I'd be done with him
“Can leave” is choosing not to. That’s the reason. Great if sister finally chooses to do so but let’s stop pretending she isn’t an active party in all of this.
I posted above that she was a codependent enabler and tolerating his behavior and not leaving him EVEN WHEN OTHERS OFFERED TO HELP HER GET AWAY FROM HIM makes her an outright pathetic person and partially culpable. She was not fully responsible for his actions but metaphorically speaking she had a pet tiger and it attacked people. If you have a pet tiger and it attacks someone its kind of your fault too.
@@Zurround oh for sure. Better today than never at all, in a case like this one.
@@robertwinters4269 I would not beat her up (If I was the groom in this story that guy would have been effectively on a baby food diet until his oral surgeon gave him his artificial teeth, and he might have needed some reconstructive surgery on the rest of his face.) or sue her like I would have him but I would hate her too and feel that she was indirectly responsible for what happened by bringing him there. She should have known by now with that many years with him that his behavior could not be trusted. She should have refused to let him come with her to the wedding. I have a different kind of disgust for people like her.
Yeah Richard is a scumbag mistreating op’s sister like that and trying to sabotage her brother’s relationship that’s crossing a line
Tell her you would have only been able to purchase tennies for your own child... BUT your daughter wanted to treat Carmen to the gifts you purchased.
Depending on where you live you can get budget/off brand tennis shoes for around $25
😂 seriously 😂 BIL 😂
Story1: the BIL still won because he was able to get out free of any consequence of his actions in the wedding. now that he becomes single is another bunos on his part
You REALLY should not have invited him and you SHOULD have confronted him EARLIER OP!
Op s sister needs help. She should have left him years ago.
You can always prove if something is photoshoped or not, so even if everyone had believed him , he would have gained nothing in the long run. And yes, OP and his wife should have taken him to court. His sister divorcing him is irrelevant. He ruined OP s marriage and he could have damaged their relationship, hadn't been for Emma.
Story one. In some countries what the bil did is a crime and if reported can lead to being arrested and the "state" prosecutes. I agree that he should be reported to the police in case this escalates.
What did Richard think that was gonna do.? Somehow convince OP's wife she should be with him instead cause he went through such great lengths to break up her relationship and humiliate her.? Like really thought.? He really thought he had a chance.? Just wow.
I wonder if he thought that if everyone believed it she would just sleep with him cause everyone already thought they did so why not.? Lol
Its LMAO! Not IMAO.
I must say this.. OP.. no matter what your wife says, letting your ex-BIL get away with his acts scott free after what he's done criminally just because your wife is embarassed? I'm going to tell you this: One day your wife will come around OP and says "SUE RICHARD! He needs to pay us for damages on our wedding day". that's when you'll tell her "too little too late" story. Unless a lawyer can help you win the case. Good luck.
Carmen is a good girl 😊.
story 3, hubby feels guilty because he's NOT buying OP any flowers, just b1tching about her getting her own.
still doesn't buy her any though...
You went no contact and then you invited them to your wedding just who manipulated you into that the mother in law
Not to victim blame here, but if they had the texts beforehand, that freak should have been disinvited from the wedding immediately. Even if they didn't know that he'd try to use the pictures to trick everyone, the fact that he even tried to have them made was already enough.
You still need to squash those photos be put on the net.
Your wife will be worse off ,when and if he put them on the net
In the middle of the story, but my guess is it's probably better they didn't say anything before the wedding. Yes he's going to cause a scene there, op didn't know but we do. But if they said something before he'd deny it was him and accuse op of framing him. And ops twin would believe him. This way op has the proof and there's no way bil could say he didn't hire someone to do it.
Second story is old
S1..Why in God's name did you let Richard anywhere near your wedding knowing he was actively trying to defame your wife??
BIL has photos made to accuse my future wife. So of course I dont say shit to anyone and then am surprised when he actually goes through with it. Because who could have seen this coming? Certainly not a troll making up a story for rage and click bait.