Winning a Japanese Girlfriend: Top 7 Tips You Need to Know
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.พ. 2025
- Interested in dating Japanese women? In this video, I share seven essential tips to help you make a great impression and avoid common mistakes when you approach a Japanese woman you like. By understanding our culture, customs, and habits passed down from older generations, you'll get useful hints to win a Japanese girlfriend! These insights will guide you in building a strong connection with Japanese women. Don't miss out on these valuable tips to enhance your dating experience. Watch now!
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Thank you for the dating tips 😊
Japan has always been my dream country to visit. To have a Japanese girlfriend would of course be a dream, but I am old. I find Japanese people to be very friendly and thinking about how other people feel.
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Thank you for your kind comment.☺️
Just came back from my second Japan trip i had a wonderful time. I must start putting more effort into learning Japanese since I'd love to visit Japan more frequently. A dream of mine is to find a Japanese girlfriend.
Time to brush up on those Japanese skills and make that dream a reality! Who knows, maybe your future girlfriend is already practicing English for you.
Yellow fever moment
@@itaminsharasa I know where yellow fever comes from: Smiley Miley, Misa, Emi, Yuka, etc. Pretty and sweet. Admirable ladies.
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@@ByteMeCompletely Anyways back to your mom's basement
I live in New York City. Please tell me how I can meet a Japanese women from here?
Good advice. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for watching my video!
Almost everything I learned here also applies to German women, except for "kukuhaku": Here, people don't ask directly, but everyone knows instinctively when the time is right.
Well, for me all those seems quite obvious ! I'm genuinely interested in Japanese culture and commit myself to learn the language.
At 32 years I developed wisdom and an open mind after being with women from different cultural backgrounds.
I thought it would be enough to date a japanese woman. But here I am facing a Japanese girl who became avoidant a few days after a pleasing date, dodging questions, preventing me to have her feedback and maintaining a weird ambiguity about whenever she wants to see me again or not 😔
Am I missing something ?!
Good tips and helpful for men who is ongoing at loneliness ❤😊
Thank you so much for watching my video! I'm really happy to be able to help you with it!
I've had some Japanese girlfriends over the years and still have female friends. I find that patience and kindness works well, and of course, being a gentleman. Japanese women really appreciate that. I'm not an exciting guy... Japanese women are generally very polite. "Umm... may I ask a question?" still makes me laugh. It's so cute da yo!😍
Haha, “Umm... may I ask a question?” - sounds like the most polite way to start a conversation! I love it!
@johnarmstrong472 Gawd!. You are.such a Soy boy! Your drooling simping makes me want to puke!!
@@johnarmstrong472 WoW! What a Soy Boy!
😂 I live in Okinawa for almost a year still looking what’s your secret 😂
As you mentioned, shaving off the beard in Japanese society signifies a clean and healthy appearance, and is currently trendy. I'm wondering though, isn't beard growth a natural sign of masculinity, something that women inherently find attractive? I understand the trend, but do you think it alters a woman's natural instinct based on what's considered trendy in Japan regarding beard growth? I personally wouldn't mind if a culture dictates that beard growth is in fashion because I still find it feminine and more attractive when a woman doesn't have a beard. What about the Japanese women in your circle? Are there many who find beard growth attractive and masculine, saying they don't care about trends, or do most really follow the trend and prefer a man without a beard?
I think so too. I really like men's beards; I find them attractive. However, long beards can make men look older, so I’d recommend shaving or trimming because a beard can hide a man’s strong features. I believe a man’s strong jawline and cheekbones make him look attractive. Recently, Japanese pop culture has been influenced by Korean trends, like BTS and other popular actors, so Japanese pop stars have started shaving their beards, and their skin looks more like women's. As a result, younger women tend to prefer men without beards. Preferences vary by generation, though. Women in their thirties and older tend to prefer more masculine men.
"That makes sense. Perhaps the next generation in J-pop will sport a three-day stubble. This way, men would look older while still showcasing their attractive jawline and cheekbones. 😎😏
If you're interested in Japanese women, lose the beard. Just do it. It's like a really quiet foreigner trying to date an American woman. Good luck with that.
I liked this very much.
Love it!!!!!!!!!!
I know where yellow fever comes from: Smiley Miley, Misa, Emi, Yuka, etc. Pretty and sweet. Admirable ladies.
Win a Japanese girlfriend. Just remember the vast majority of Japanese marriages are sexless, and the divorce rate for international marriages is high. All the western men around me, and the majority I’ve known for 20 years complain about their sexless marriages.
So GF? Yes. Marriage ? It would likely work better outside of Japan.
Because the fwck every single days since their 12 y.o with a bunch of guys. Which mean a lot of body count. And when they start a family ( married ) they already know how it feels and bored to do the same thing over and over again. This is insane.
Agree with the beard
As a man I dislike facial hair
In terms of restaurants we ended in so many Italian ones I thought I was in Italy 🇮🇹
I'm going to have to chalk this up to Common Sense. A lot of Americans feel the same way, too.
Thank you for your comment and for sharing your thoughts!
Thanks 🙏 from india Matajee
Did you hear what the lady said Japanese women are very shy until you get to know them. (House yakuza)
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Hi! Great tips and video. How can I message you to ask some private questions and advice? Thanks
I have struggled to meet a nice Japanese woman over the last couple of years while living in America. I even visited Tokyo last year for a few weeks hoping that by being in the country, it would improve my chance but I ended up being lonely for 3 weeks, almost 0 social interaction. I did get a couple of laughs by saying "私の日本語レベル赤ちゃん”😁 Dating apps didnt work for me as well. It was still a very beautiful place to visit and Im learning Japanese again because I really like learning the language and practicing with native Japanese speakers in ゲーム配信.
I will take your advice into consideration and change my approach- I also feel that learning the language plays a very big part, communication is key and if youre confident in communication, it helps make everything more comfortable. For me personally, it is a must, to learn the language and culture of the person you want to date/marry if they are from another country.
Thank you for sharing your experience and advice! Looks like Tokyo didn't bring you luck in love, but at least you got some laughs with your language skills! Keep practicing, maybe next time you'll charm your way into a conversation.
@@manachan02387 がんばろうと思う 👍
That's a clownish approach. Japanese people laughing at you was the appropriate response.
@mremerge God Almigjty Dude! Dude! Never ... and I mean NEVER take dating advice from a woman. They are Notoriously WRONG! Google Marius Panzarella,.Jesse Charger, or Slade Shaw. You can thank me later. Japan 1977-1983, Korea 1990-1995.... For me, it was slaughter city....if you get my drift 😉
@@100ksanders lol
Tip 3: Japanese people don't usually express their feelings directly.
Tip 7: But you have to explicitly say you want to become boyfriend/girlfriend.
I hate that this is true.
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It is easier than you think. At the end of your 3rd date, confess to her if you are interested in having a relationship. If you don’t confess by the end of the 3rd date, she might give up. I’ve heard that confessing at the end of a 4th or 5th date can also happen, but the 3rd is the most common for confessing your love. It doesn’t require a big speech. Just saying “I like you. Would you like to be my girlfriend?” is enough.
I am in tokyo and wow the women here are really breathtaking, today i saw a woman on the train about my age mid late 30s with an amazing energy and very beautiful, i was very very close to introducing myself but i decided not to bother her. In this situatuation do you think on average women in this age group would be welcoming of a foreigner approaching them like that? In the west if a woman doesnt like you because you are too short, etc and you approach it could mean big trouble.
This is a tricky situation... I think it doesn't matter whether you are a foreigner or Japanese. But many Japanese people, especially women, tend to be cautious around strangers. If it's your first time meeting someone and you suddenly say hello and introduce yourself, many Japanese women might feel uncomfortable and take a step back. In such cases, exchanging contact details is unlikely to happen. But, it could be a great opportunity to connect with her, and since you never know if you'll have the chance to meet such a beautiful woman again, it's worth trying to say hi. I would recommend having your business card ready so she can quickly learn a bit about you. That’s probably the best approach.
@@manachan02387 thank you very much yeah im an introvert as well and dont like random people approaching me so i can understand and thats why i decided to not to. Thank you for the business card tip that I never thought of.
Right come over here nice
hi Miwa, thank you for the useful video. I'm a Chinese American guy who has dated only Chinese girls so far. I met some Japanese girls in the past and they are very friendly and polite. I'm a shy guy so it's hard to approach them and strike up a conversation. There's also a cultural difference I noticed as we Chinese tend to speak our mind which could offend Japanese people.
Tip # 1 have a Rich Family.
Done.
That works in every culture!
in modern western culture you date 3 to 4 women but after few months like 4 you decide on which one you want to date.
Thanks for your comment! I had no idea about that. 😳
@@manachan02387 thanks your video taught me a lot 😀
❤ Lovely 😍 👌 👍 🥰
Thank you for your kind comment!
You should have Japanese subtitles for Japanese guys who can't speak English because maybe they want advice on how to get or treat Japanese women better. Japanese girls always tend to give advice to foreigners but never to Japanese guys. Maybe that's why Japanese guys don't know how to treat their own women
Thanks for your suggestion! Maybe I should start a new series: "Love Advice for Awkward Japanese Guys" with Japanese subtitles included!
@@manachan02387i bet you won’t call foreigners awkward. I’m a foreigner by the way 😂
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Thank you ....for helping and supporting to spread love 🤝...sushi...i understood it😢🤮🤢
Thanks for watching my video! I hope you find a wonderful girlfriend soon!
Arigato miwasensei
Japanese sushi and Japanese pu..¥ are the best in the world .
So guys be kind to everyone and try to find good lady in Japan .
My advice for guys is do not take it seriously .
I have been dating for Japanese girls for one and a half years .
Sex is normal but love is so complicated .
World has completely changed nowadays .
Love and respect for Japanese people ❤
Sex is normal, but love is complicated.... ? 😅 But thank you for your love for Japanese people! 🤣
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It’s 100 true sex is cheap and love is expensive now a days .
And we people changed so far .
Don’t confuse , this doesn’t not apply for true lover .
Don’t you feel that things have changed so far ?
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I had enough japanese women broke my heart , there definitely sweet when messing you up and leaving you mental broken 😢 👍
I'm really sorry to hear that you've had a tough experience. Relationships can be challenging, and it's important to take time for yourself to heal...
YOU SAID in western culture people date many people at the same time. (you should avoid ignorant incorrect generalizations, we arent ALL NTH Americans, are ALL Asians the same ?) you also said japanese ONLY focus on 1 person at a time, so please explain to me why the terms, ashi kun, kombini kun, meishi kun and honmei kun exist in your culture ?. i love many japanese things and aspects of the culture. ive also had a keen interest on how japanese deal ( or rather fail to ) with critiquing their culture. ii ichi nichi o.
Why are you so rude
I'm sorry-I didn’t mean to make any assumptions. I said, "I've heard that in Western culture, it's common to date multiple people and try to be more than just friends before choosing a girlfriend" in this video. I don't know the full reality of what happens in other countries. I’ve asked about this in my previous videos to find out if it’s true or not, and some kind viewers shared their own opinions and experiences, which taught me a lot.
As for words like "ASHI-kun," "KONBINI-kun," "MEISHI-kun," and "HONMEI-kun," I’ve almost never heard them used in my circles. I think these terms are outdated now. "MEISHI-" and "ASHI-" ” MITUGU kun" were more popular back in the 80s, when Japan’s economy was booming... they’re really old-fashioned terms....
How are you beautiful heart MIWA Medium
Hello baby ❤❤?
Lovely video... Any advice how I can meet a Japanese woman in the UK 🇬🇧 London... I love Japanese culture and would love to learn Japanese language and cuisine 😍
Thanks for your lovely comment!