Did Oscar Wilde's Sisters ☠️ From their Skirts Catching on Fire? (Victorian Fashion Myth Busting)

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    Ok, so this started out as just a rabbit hole for me, and then, in typical fashion, it's spiraled out of control and became a video. So please enjoy this ridiculous deep dive into the history myth of crinoline fires, and the really sad story of how Oscar Wilde's half-sisters (Mary & Emily) died from a tragic fire accident at a Halloween Party in 1871...
    Sources:
    McMahon, Theo. “The Tragic Deaths in 1871 in County Monaghan of Emily and Mary Wilde-Half-Sisters of Oscar Wilde.” Clogher Record 18, no. 1 (2003): 129-45. doi.org/10.2307/27699497.
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    Historic newspapers and periodicals from various databases via ProQuest, Gale, and Accessible Archives.
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  • @katmallowcreates
    @katmallowcreates 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +161

    I remember reading an article years ago about how many people are injured because they fall over while putting on trousers, strangely no one is suggesting trousers are far too treacherous to wear.

    • @dancingdingo
      @dancingdingo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No more trousers 👖 for me😜

    • @scalylayde8751
      @scalylayde8751 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      true story: I was effectively bedridden for almost a full week after throwing my back out trying to put my underwear on.
      It was early in the morning and my father who I lived with at the time was at work, so I had to call a friend who luckily happened to be awake, and she had to break into the apartment to help me because I couldn't come to the door.
      No one ever told me underwear is too dangerous.

  • @RiaRaynedrops13
    @RiaRaynedrops13 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +418

    I love that Bernadette is just bundled up in the dark near the end. lol She's your Historical Costuming shadow lady, haha

    • @lajoyous1568
      @lajoyous1568 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      I thought perhaps my eyes were deceiving me 😂

    • @sleepingroses761
      @sleepingroses761 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I was wondering who that was!

    • @martisterin4149
      @martisterin4149 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I wasn't sure at first and then I saw the Cheez-it box

  • @sianthesheep
    @sianthesheep 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +600

    I love the idea that all these supposedly prim and proper Victorian young ladies were getting absolutely smashed on punch at parties in a way that would put first year college students to shame! Also love the fact that the crinoline got the blame for their deaths not the HIGHLY FLAMMABLE silk that their dresses and would have been made from - kinda missed the obvious there guys!

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +271

      yeah, and especially with this particular case, I don't think White is a dress historian - at all - and just made a quick leap without really taking in all the facts and possibilities. Like, did Mary's clothes catch on fire? obviously. But was it the *fault* of the clothing? No. I find it so weird that everyone, including the "witnesses" (who weren't there when it happened...so...yeah....) just act like Mary was solely responsible for everything that happened, because she had a "crinoline" on, when it takes 2 people to dance, and the man is the *lead* who is *responsible for guiding the dance partner around the room*....and yeah the likelihood of both of them being totally sober is ... not great lol.

    • @kikidevine694
      @kikidevine694 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Punch was the least of it

    • @alexwhitelaw2003
      @alexwhitelaw2003 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      well said abby

    • @eolill
      @eolill 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Drunk people die in dumb accidents all the time lol

    • @DawnShipley1977
      @DawnShipley1977 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Also, silk, being flammable like all fabrics, is not highly flammable.

  • @emmarichardson965
    @emmarichardson965 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +408

    "Your great-great Aunt Mildred's punch would make you see colors beyond what biology says is possible." 😂😂 I'm dead. That line just killed me. 😂😂

    • @laura121684
      @laura121684 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      So you'd basically turn into a mantis shrimp?

    • @ColorwaveCraftsCo
      @ColorwaveCraftsCo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      And Lil Jon playing the part of Mildred had me rolling 😂

    • @sarah-phillips
      @sarah-phillips 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It’s Abby’s lines that absolutely get me every time.

    • @YetAnotherJenn
      @YetAnotherJenn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My Grandmother is named Mildred and will be 103 in May. This reads correctly. 😂

  • @AJansenNL
    @AJansenNL 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +317

    I have no doubt that men's coat tails sometimes caught fire too. Accidents happen, to any gender.

    • @nancyreid8729
      @nancyreid8729 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Most of the men’s wear of the time would have been wool, and so quite flame-resistant. The ladies dresses of the time were mostly silk, cotton, or linen; NOT flame resistant.

    • @AJansenNL
      @AJansenNL 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@nancyreid8729True. But the lining would probably not be wool.

    • @foxesofautumn
      @foxesofautumn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AJansenNL True though the lining would also not likely be flapping around freely either. Certainly not in the volume of a complete ballgown. He had better odds of making it through the night anyway.

    • @wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396
      @wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And playing Snapdragon…

  • @Cheezbuckets
    @Cheezbuckets 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Evidence number 1 for me that it wasn’t “the crinoline’s fault”: there were no fires *during* the party when an unknown number (definitely larger than 2) of women who would have been wearing the same style of dress were in the same room with the same amount of open flame, but only occurred after when the room was certainly far more empty with only two women in such dress. It’s not like their crinolines waited for the party to die down so they could run into the fire when no one was looking.

  • @jirup
    @jirup 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    The "Villain" (if there is one) is more likely to be the practice of weighting silks with tin salts, increasing the combustion risk of women's gowns, rather than any underpinning garments. The celebration, alcohol consumption, time of the night and extra fire hazards created a perfect storm scenario. Rest easy Mary and Emily, you have not been forgotten.

  • @emily94762
    @emily94762 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +431

    "She had to be helped down the steps because she couldn't see where her feet."
    Yeah, uh, tell me you don't have a large bust without telling me you don't have a large bust.

    • @jaded_gerManic
      @jaded_gerManic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      🤣 Thank you! I had the same thought!

    • @onbearfeet
      @onbearfeet 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      I lol'd at that too. I'm not THAT well-endowed, but last summer I went to a costume party at a dark nightclub with multiple poorly lit staircases, and I had no trouble whatsoever navigating those stairs in a full black ballgown with a large petticoat that rendered my feet invisible. The place was full of flashing lights, blaring music, and drunken randos, and the only time I had a problem was when the strap on my shoe broke. Assuming there weren't any footwear malfunctions, I suspect nineteenth-century women navigated stairs just fine.

    • @jaciem
      @jaciem 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Right? I ain't seen the steps my feet are landing on since my mid teens.

    • @haveaballcrafting8686
      @haveaballcrafting8686 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      there were no standards on stairs yet, though. many accidental falls caused by irregular heights and depths of stairs, especially in the less-fancy stairways built for servants and poorer people. @@onbearfeet

    • @brandyjean7015
      @brandyjean7015 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@jaciem 🤣🤣🤣

  • @nancyreid8729
    @nancyreid8729 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

    I recall grocery shopping with a roommate once, and upon seeing no crumpets where they used to be, cried, “oh, no crumpets! Whatever shall we do?” Another woman who was passing by just lost it, and turned to me to ask, “did you just say ‘whatever shall we do?’ You have just made my day.” I love that phrase, so beautifully dated.

  • @patmanchester8045
    @patmanchester8045 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +392

    the cranoline kept men from encroaching upon the personal space of women ( who were only there to please men) I think that was a huge reason why men hated the fashion.

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +167

      That was the script I was working on when I fell down this rabbit hole

    • @pearlygirl88
      @pearlygirl88 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      I was thinking about the character Nadja from What We Do in the Shadows. In portraits of her from earlier times, she wore a lot of slim fitting things. In the show, however, she takes up space. While she wears a lot of modern victorian clothing and doesn’t show a lot of skin per se, she is loud and knows her value and legitimately takes up space. I don’t know if the costume designers did this on purpose, but the fact that she wears such things in a day and age where women are more and more taught to take up less space, I think it is very telling. Like today, there is such a huge push by the toxic masculinity movement for women to simply exist for men’s pleasure. More and more it is being pushed once again for us to truly take up less space. In a situation where a man and woman are sitting together, the men will sit spread eagle while the women are supposed to keep their legs tightly put together. It’s just a really interesting thing to think about. And we definitely know for a fact that large skirts were hated by men because of how much space they took up.

    • @courtneybermack
      @courtneybermack 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      @@pearlygirl88Maybe we should start wearing crinolines again. I wear dresses every day and in the winter I wear skirts under 'em and call them petticoats and *yes* bright orange matches everything what are you talking about. I'm learning to make dresses now, obvs I need me a short cage or a lot of tulle!

    • @pearlygirl88
      @pearlygirl88 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@courtneybermack I actually wear them a lot! And petticoats! I just like how they look since I wear a lot of really swooshy skirts. I like that I take up space in them too. Like when I sit down, my skirts take up room around me. Go ahead and try to spread your stupid legs when you sit down. You’re going to realize you’re attempting to encroach on my space when you hit my crinoline.

    • @hugoblack4133
      @hugoblack4133 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cringe. Who do you think invented Crinoline....?

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  • @stitchinghistory5109
    @stitchinghistory5109 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    Maybe it's my overactive crime-writing brain, but I am suspicious. Two young women, probably drunk, stay back after a party, apparently without chaperones and only males present, and skirts catching fire and rolling them down stairs is the best story the guys can come up with? Hhmmmm.

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      Supposedly he was there? Idk what he was doing though?

    • @EmilieBlueBerry
      @EmilieBlueBerry 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      OMG. That was also my first thoughts! This all skirts on fire sounds more like a made up story honestly! I am also thinking more of a cover up for something that happened in between the guests… is there direct recollection from the victims?

    • @Adrienne557
      @Adrienne557 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      The story doesn't add up at all. Why roll one sister down the stairs? If it was a good idea, why not roll the other sister? Why cover one sister in a measly wool coat? Why not something bigger? Why not cover the other sister at all? Then on top of all that, a family member puts a stop to the autopsy. Don't forget, these two women were illegitimate children. One thing is certain; it was not the crinoline.

    • @mialemon6186
      @mialemon6186 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I’m glad other people also have my same mind. 😂

  • @eliscanfield3913
    @eliscanfield3913 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    pff, lots of people go down stairs every day without seeing their feet. Stepping on your hems is way more of a problem then learning how to see with your feet

  • @LadyBirdieBop
    @LadyBirdieBop 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I love how this video went from Myth Busting to full-on Detective Abby sorting it all out Atticus Finch-style.

  • @sinswept
    @sinswept 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Me: 37, can't draft a pattern to save my life
    6 yo: Come, I will show you my studio where I design the latest fashion from naught but metal refuse and burlap

  • @lonelygovernment4544
    @lonelygovernment4544 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    I read the title, then you started with 1871 and i just immediately knew it was gonna be a "corsets kill people" kind of story

    • @Horsefaire
      @Horsefaire 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hahaha

  • @flyingpigfarm1
    @flyingpigfarm1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I used to do historical reenacting when my son was small - he’s 30 now - and while we traipsing around in the mud and dirt sleeping in tents and cooking over open fires, I ALWAYS wore something I made from wool. I even wore light wool petticoats due to fire paranoia. My Apron was voluminous and also made from wool. I grew up cooking on a wood stove and I was well-versed in fire safety. My son was similarly decked out in fine wool fashion (cuz when they’re little you can dress them up like your own personal Ken doll!) and I watched him like a hawk. At night I would make little bags from wool scrap and throw fire bricks into the fire, pull them out when they were good and hot and put them in the wool bags and trundle them around selling them to other reenactors to keep their feet warm in bed. I made a killing - thank you, BaaBaa Blacksheep!

  • @helenfreeman4188
    @helenfreeman4188 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +170

    How did I recognize Bernadette’s couch before I recognized Bernadette herself?

  • @waterdragon3367
    @waterdragon3367 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +369

    The video call it a "dumb way to die" is so disgusting. Two young women burned to death. Gross, great video

    • @JenInOz
      @JenInOz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      The original song was an ad for safety on trains in Melbourne Australia

    • @waterdragon3367
      @waterdragon3367 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      @@JenInOz yes i know, i used to play the game even. Still the insinuation is there that its the womens fault

    • @krystallos81
      @krystallos81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      People seem to forget that people on the past were in fact real. They just are so far removed to feel much empathy.

    • @basementdwellercosplay
      @basementdwellercosplay 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I've seen it for fictional characters which is fine as it's usually making fun of over the top ways characters die or medical ignorance from the authors, meaning someone won't die from something in the story.

    • @roxannlegg750
      @roxannlegg750 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      That ad, was a public safety initiative commissioned by the Australian Victorian Government for a rail way safety campaign. Many people had died unnecessarily on railway crossings, and a public saftey campaign was necessary. To say it went beyond viral is an understatement. It has been one of the most successful safety ads of all time. We studied it not long after it came out in Public Health at University and went viral for a reason - IT WORKED. Its not disgusting - its using humor and reality to warn children the dangers of taking random medicine and other silly things - together with very funny unlikely things like taking your helmet off in outer space - it speaks to children and Im not sure anyone could have come up with a more successful campaign.

  • @originofclothing
    @originofclothing 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +169

    I need a history show where everything is presented with this style of story telling imagery

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      @alexwhitelaw2003 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I vote for Abby and all her friend to do docuseries I'd by it for sure

    • @loonylovegood2.073
      @loonylovegood2.073 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Omg yes!

    • @DanielleVlog365
      @DanielleVlog365 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Puppet History

    • @peglamphier4745
      @peglamphier4745 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Right?

  • @danielasarmiento30
    @danielasarmiento30 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    A high school classmate lit her hair on fire by holding a candle in a wedding. I can assure women who have long hair do not constantly light their hair on fire. She was fine, just lost a couple of strands and needed to fix her haircut

  • @wanderingspark
    @wanderingspark 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I think weighted silk must also have been a factor in some of these alleged crinoline fire deaths. Pure silk, like wool, is naturally fire resistant, but the type of weighted silk that was used in the second half of the 19th c was apparently pretty flammable. Nicole Rudolph did a video on this.
    Also, A 6 year old girl supplied with tin cans, a hatchet, and some muslin succeeded in making a garment that adults with all of the correct supplies and years of sewing experience struggle with. Sure Jan.

  • @kateruch7196
    @kateruch7196 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    My great great grandmother died from :shock following burns of body due to clothing catching fire at gas stove" in 1917, age 54. I'm sure no crinolines were involved, but the earliest newspaper I found for stop, drop, and roll was 1967. It seems to have caught on in the 70s.

    • @M.M.83-U
      @M.M.83-U 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      For a middle aged woman in 1917 it's not completely out of question. And yes, first response/aid has improved enormously between 1960 and 1990.

    • @kadybourn7143
      @kadybourn7143 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I'm told the same thing about my great-great-grandmother, who reportedly was heating linseed oil on the stove and it combusted. She was badly burned and died a day later. I just hope she had the benefit of really good drugs because burns are agonizing.

  • @kathmorgan3429
    @kathmorgan3429 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    Waiting until midnight for food? I wouldn't put up with that.

    • @SusanYeske701
      @SusanYeske701 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I have always been under the impression it was little snacky finger foods throughout the party and then at midnight: A Feast! To help soak up some of that punch!

    • @M.M.83-U
      @M.M.83-U 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      A bite of something before going was part of the deal.

  • @thomasdamours7325
    @thomasdamours7325 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    my grandmother once told me the story of a neighbour girl of hers during childhood who had died from catching fire in her nightgown. I think she was maybe 10, and she dropped a candle on herself at night. She did get out of the house, ran around on the lawn, and her brother tried to put her out, but she died of her injuries. It very much affected my grandmother at the time. This would have been in rural Canada in the 1950s. So, it's not like crinolines are in any way required for this kind of incident to occur. Any generally flammable clothing is enough, really. Add drunkenness, and this kind of incident does sound very plausible.

    • @m.maclellan7147
      @m.maclellan7147 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My mother - also Rural Canada (Cape Breton, N.S.) lost her sister to fire, but since I was born in 62, would have been earlier !
      Her sister was playing with matches, is how the story goes. But, it was in a nightgown ....

    • @LilacGeese
      @LilacGeese 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Even today in Australia some kids pajamas like nightgowns have a flammable clothing warning on it because it is made out of polyester satin.

    • @lunarose9
      @lunarose9 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dresses catching fire was pretty common in the 60’s according to some of my older family members. Polyester dresses were kind of new, and many people in Britain still had open fires. Polyester is just oil/ fossil fuels. Plastic melts and sticks to you too.

    • @thomasdamours7325
      @thomasdamours7325 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lunarose9 Indeed! and then, there were attempts to treat it to make it fireproof in the 70s, but those proved complicated as it turned out the chemicals used were highly carcinogenic. They developed some more chemicals through the years, but those are also pretty carcinogenic, so it's a hot topic as to whether they should be standardized or not...I think these days, the main reason why it's a lot more rare for people to catch fire is mainly that people smoke less (at least inside), and that nightgowns themselves aren't necessarily as common anymore. Regulation has helped, but it's not like the occasional deadly fire is no longer an issue, obviously...

  • @soteraperez1761
    @soteraperez1761 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    My mother actually did experience her crinoline catching fire when she was a child, but it was a perfect storm of unlucky coincidences. She had not yet finished dressing, so was ONLY wearing a highly starched crinoline made of cotton net and a nylon slip; the woodstove was open because her brother was stoking the fire; he had just added a log of pine that was full of pitch. An spark flew and the garment went up like paper. Luckily her brother had the foresight to throw her to the ground and toss a nearby rug over her. She ended up with scorched hair and a few blisters on her back, but otherwise was okay!

  • @hjordisoskarsdottir6873
    @hjordisoskarsdottir6873 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Wow that is crafty 6 year old. I could barely walk in a straight line when I was 6.

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      What you were using a hatchet for some easy diy sewing projects?

  • @leila_h_photography
    @leila_h_photography 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    You know it's a good video when it not only smashes misogynistic stereotypes around clothing, but also features a bonus Bernadette in full goblin mode, *AND* a reference to "A View from the Top"! 👌🤩🤩👏

  • @sigridellis2173
    @sigridellis2173 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    I feel that you need the "Flames, flames on the side of my face" clip of Mrs. White from the movie Clue.

    • @m.maclellan7147
      @m.maclellan7147 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bernadette Peter's. Absolute LEGEND !

    • @ItsJustLisa
      @ItsJustLisa 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@m.maclellan7147not Bernadette Peters. It was Madeline Kahn.

    • @m.maclellan7147
      @m.maclellan7147 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ItsJustLisa Oh, my goodness ! What a faux pas ! 😳
      Thank you for the correction! I believe that was after several nights with minimal sleep !

    • @ItsJustLisa
      @ItsJustLisa 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@m.maclellan7147, it definitely was a brilliant bit of improv on her part. That bit was definitely not scripted. She did it off the cuff.

    • @stevie6040
      @stevie6040 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yaaaass!!

  • @shannoncallister6869
    @shannoncallister6869 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    I would love to see your historian point of view on the #tradwife trend. (Not to disparage any religion or individual influencer). I think the emphasis on how women dress and act seems to be an idealized version of a past we never had in the US. It’s also feels a bit like Stepford Wives. I just keep hoping you’d put your academic eye on that trend. Regardless, I will happily continue to learn from your great channel.

    • @transcendcapitalism
      @transcendcapitalism 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      this is a good idea for a video!

    • @Izik8890
      @Izik8890 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes!!!

    • @LadyVenus125
      @LadyVenus125 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      OMG!!! PLEASE ABBY MAKE A VIDEO ABOUT THIS.

    • @Lady_dromeda
      @Lady_dromeda 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What is a “tradwife” ive seen a couple YT shorts but it didnt really explain (and i also think the ones i saw were satire about it, or at least i hope they were)

    • @christinareynolds8179
      @christinareynolds8179 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think this would be a bad idea. Abby is very liberal and would not be able to explain the tradwife trend without adding her own bias against it just as she did against conservative news in this video. Here’s a summary thoroughly history, modesty changes. As a culture becomes more Christian, the fashions become more modest. As the culture lose that Christianity, so it to looses modesty. This can be particularly evident in the 1840s and 1950s. A rise in traditional Christian’s brought very modest fashion. In the 1920s, there was an idea of fighting off traditional ideas and skirts got shorter.

  • @TheMovingEye
    @TheMovingEye 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Regarding fire hazards and education: There is this wonderful collection of german children's stories called Der Struwwelpeter. The stories are supposed to teach kids in an age appropriate manner, mostly by having the kids featured in them killed in horrible ways. One of these stories is about a girl playing with matches despite her parent's warnings. Naturally, here dress catches fires and she gets turned into a pair of empty shoes and a pile of ashes.

    • @emmarichardson965
      @emmarichardson965 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Oh, German children's tales 😂

    • @LadyBirdieBop
      @LadyBirdieBop 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      I love how “child appropriate” and “killed in horrible ways” are in the same sentence. 🤣

    • @katze69
      @katze69 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@LadyBirdieBop Yeah, the Struwwelpeter story book is "adorable" like that... It's a book of cautionary tales written by a 19th century schoolteacher. It also has a boy who starves to death, because he refuses to eat his soup, a boy who gets bitten by a dog bad enough to be bedridden, while the dog eats his dinner, because he was cruel to the dog, a boy who gets both thumbs cut off for sucking his thumb, a boy who almost drowns, because he doesn't look where he's going, and so on... I grew up with the stories, and also read them with my boys when they were little - not as little as kids should be when they read the stories according to the author, though. We talked about how different people approached child care in the past, and how they still believed in scaring kids into compliance. We had very interesting discussions about the morality in the stories, how it is actually mostly quite good - the author gets the mean characters punished quite drastically, for example - but in some things just horribly outdated, as we now know better than to assume that threatening a horrible fate would cure things like thumb sucking or having food aversions. When I was little, I always wanted to be Flying Robert - the guy who walks out in a storm against his parents' advice and gets blown away with his umbrella. I thought it would be a fine adventure to ride a storm to who knows where...

    • @ellejay4497
      @ellejay4497 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My German mother-in-law gave me that book while I was learning German (I still am learning, it is challenging!). I was initially taken aback, but then I remembered liking reading Grimm's fairy tales when I was younger. @@katze69

    • @elizabethpemberton8445
      @elizabethpemberton8445 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We had a little paperback English translation of Struwwelpeterthat I encountered on my own at about age 6. It TERRIFIED me. I much prefer Edward Gorey’s parodies.

  • @Skullkiddawn
    @Skullkiddawn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    The true crime junkie in me: Strange that the only gentlemen made it out unscathed…

  • @IneffabLeigh
    @IneffabLeigh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    I'm sorry, is it just me or is one of the 'rotary ballroom dance' dancers in the video clip dressed as Aziraphale from Good Omens?!?!? that's AMAZING

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      Yeah that’s Nicole in her cosplay!

    • @IneffabLeigh
      @IneffabLeigh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@AbbyCoxYoooo amazing! :D

    • @Ashley-xu1lk
      @Ashley-xu1lk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@IneffabLeigh If believe Nicole has a series of videos of her making that cosplay along with a headcannon on her own channel.

  • @anthonygeorge3689
    @anthonygeorge3689 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Imperial Petticoat Government is a *banger* sounding bandname

  • @thu4061
    @thu4061 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Boyfriend walked in on part of this and pretty much stated that the only guys getting mad at things like crinolines and hatpins are the ones intent on bothering women who are just mad they can't. 😂

    • @meeeka
      @meeeka 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Old lady here: my grandma, 55-60 years ago told me that the very best weapon any (and all!) lady can ever have is a very long hat pin as the correct use of a hat pin can kill a man, easily. And I had such a hat pin with me when I went around the Middle East and war zones in the late 1970s and 1980s. About 6-7 inches long, one was supposed to aim it forcefully into the cardiac region and the small clot resulting could prove fatal. So reported my great-grandma from advice from her mother around the Civil War era.

  • @peach1110
    @peach1110 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +138

    You had me riiiiiiight up until the Betterhelp sponsor. At this point, it is SO well documented how badly they’ve hurt so many who go there for help. Expected better from you.

    • @lurdesoliveira
      @lurdesoliveira 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Same.... Expected her to do some research..

    • @FOJO27
      @FOJO27 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Yup, same. I hit pause, dropped into the comments to write about this and was glad to see others have spoken up.
      Not going to unsubscribe (unless this sponsorship continues) but I did have to thumbs down this video and I stopped watching. Big, huge sigh...

  • @katherineoliver3856
    @katherineoliver3856 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I can see how size of Mary Wilde’s skirt, including the crinoline, could have been a slight contributing factor If she was waltzing when it happened. I can see how even a sober lead could misjudge the space needed. We can assume the man would have been leading, i.e. steering, and Mary wouldn’t have been in control of her centre of gravity or have had a clear view of where she was being steered as she would have spent a lot of the dance going backwards while rotating.
    Thanks again for another excellent video!
    Edited for grammatical mistake

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I’ve been wearing long full skirts around open flame for over forty years. My kids grew up around them. It really does make a difference when one has experience how one acts around fire. I noticed my kids tended to keep at least a foot or more away from the fires unless they were seated.

  • @jillianmathews8632
    @jillianmathews8632 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Weren’t the chemicals used to dye and/or weight silk also super duper flammable? I feel like I remember learning that warehouses storing bolts of silk would sometimes burn if the fabric caught a spark from any source.

  • @LishB
    @LishB 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I like the idea of bringing back the crinoline to enforce personal space and prevent groping on public transit.

    • @kellysouter4381
      @kellysouter4381 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Hatpins were also good for that😊

  • @bellablue5285
    @bellablue5285 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I remember my parents talking about how strong the punch, rum balls, and various other imbibeables that my born in 1926 grandmother would make. I can only imagine that as a starting baseline for the parties and balls further back, and having my grandmother's recipe book? Holy moly that stuff must have been * strong * 😵‍💫

    • @g5rearea
      @g5rearea 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If it's anything like my Irish grandmother-in-law's hot toddy, those girls were ssssshit faced.

    • @ceralith942
      @ceralith942 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I have a recipe for Dandelion "juice" from my g-g-grandma that instructs to let the mixture sit until "real strong" 😉
      No idea how long that actually was, but I DO know there was a decade-old bottle of it in my grandma's root cellar that the boys would occasionally take a sip from. It was... very effective.

    • @alejandramoreno6625
      @alejandramoreno6625 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I`ve seen my mother in law (boomer) down an entire bottle of wine in an evening, and her mother is a danger to everyone because she will never stop topping up your glass (and drink alongside you).

    • @fabrisseterbrugghe8567
      @fabrisseterbrugghe8567 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The Frances Parkinson Keyes' cookbook has a recipe that begins with soaking oranges and sugar in two bottles of brandy for two days. Then more alcohol was added. It only served 20-ish people.

  • @SibylleLeon
    @SibylleLeon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    Irish pronunciation lesson: It's county Mona-han (the "g" is silent) 😀 Hey, we never said the language made sense!
    Also: "Yates" (Yeats).

    • @laura121684
      @laura121684 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Makes more sense than Welsh at any rate.

    • @swilson3354
      @swilson3354 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And wouldn't Mrs Hime be pronounced Heem? Just and N. Irish girl's instinct. 😅

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Like Dominic Monaghan! In the US, a lot of people dropped the "g" because they were tired of having their names butchered.

    • @SibylleLeon
      @SibylleLeon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@swilson3354 Haha! I doubt it xD

    • @skepticalmaiden
      @skepticalmaiden 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I live in Bexar County, TX. They pronounce it, Bear. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Druklet
    @Druklet 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    How to Blame Women and Their Silly Interests for Massive Tragedies: A Guide
    Love your work so much and hope you are doing ok! Also, the Carl Jung bit made me laugh so loud, I startled my cat!

  • @DOCDOCFLAMINGOS
    @DOCDOCFLAMINGOS 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Abby your great !!! For Realz!!.... And I'm all for you getting your coin!!....... BUT.... Please Please Drop Better Health as a sponsor..... They are horrible... And you are better than that and them!!??!!

    • @jadeschultz1449
      @jadeschultz1449 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I just dropped the same comment

    • @DOCDOCFLAMINGOS
      @DOCDOCFLAMINGOS 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jadeschultz1449 Well always good to know I'm not alone in thinking that !!

    • @FOJO27
      @FOJO27 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@jadeschultz1449Glad to see a decent amount of people have commented about this.

  • @PiskeyFaeri
    @PiskeyFaeri 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Men: How DARE she follow fashion??
    Also men: Ew that girl is so out of fashion, she's so plain, not pleasing to the eye at all!

  • @BriWolf112
    @BriWolf112 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    its also very likely that during the party alcohol was getting spilled, perhaps on dresses or on the floor where hems could pick it up and then fly near flames while dancing. Doesn't take much to catch alcohol on fire.

  • @ViolentOrchid
    @ViolentOrchid 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    At the beginning, it made me think these "gentlemen" did something, and then tried to cover it up by destroying the evidence of their crime. You're a much kinder person.

  • @dissodatore
    @dissodatore 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    regarding the whole putting college student's nightlife to shame, I've seen shared the record of what was imbibed and George Washington's retirement party, and I think that the amount of alcohol would kill most frat houses.

  • @piccalillipit9211
    @piccalillipit9211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    *I BUY A LOT OF VINTAGE FABRIC* as I tailor historical clothing - In one batch I got some 1970's viscose-type stuff, I did a "burn test" *OH MY GOD* I have never known anything as flammable in my life...!!!
    I have no idea how people made it through the 1970s smoking and wearing firelighters for clothing.

  • @saraa3418
    @saraa3418 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Someone tried to argue with me on tiktok that corsetry was only worn by the idle rich and I was like... "way to out yourself as unread and uncultured"

    • @mialemon6186
      @mialemon6186 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don’t you know darling, poor people don’t have tits.

  • @MazHem
    @MazHem 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I have a book on victorian ettiquette which does mark one thing about bustles - apparently people kept knocking over side tables, the lady who wrote the book really was annoyed by this

  • @zilchica
    @zilchica 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    If the snap-apple game shocked your fire safety sensibilities, can't imagine what you would say about the (still ongoing!) tradition of Tar Barrels in Ottery St. Mary (the most shocking part for me was learning how parents encourage their KIDS to carry the flaming barrels of tar on their backs as a rite of passage)

  • @sayakota3054
    @sayakota3054 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Not sure about the timeline, but weren't fancy dresses laundered with gasoline? I remember that being a big part of why the fire of the Charity Bazaar in Paris was such a disaster

    • @MsAngelique
      @MsAngelique 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What? They had all kinds of soap back then. Why use gasoline? (Edit, now I know. lol)

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      It’s a solvent

    • @MsAngelique
      @MsAngelique 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AbbyCox I didn't know that. Neat?

    • @kateburcroff5209
      @kateburcroff5209 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bernadette Banner made a video where she does laundry using a 19th century guide, and gasoline was involved.

  • @missilotze2985
    @missilotze2985 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I singed my veil tulle on the unity candle at my wedding in 1992. No harm done (it's gone to two subsequent weddings) but it scared my grandmother silly. In 1938, aged ten, she'd been cooking on a wood stove in a flannel nightgown and caught herself on fire. She had scars on her back from shoulders to knees, the skin looked like melted wax. I wasn't allowed to cook til I was nearly grown (and still managed to grease splatter my own face once) because Mamau was so traumatized. And if anyone walked through the kitchen with unbound hair or loose clothing she'd ring a peal over your head.

  • @SconeMonster
    @SconeMonster 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love the pieced-together animation, and the clips you edited in. I really appreciate the levity and whimsy to help lighten up such a double punch of grim topics - people dying in fires and people sensationalizing news to make marginalized groups look like they are too stupid to take care of themselves. I really enjoy getting to see you critically break down the news stories, from pointing out the things that should seem obvious like the 6 yo DIYing with a hatchet and tin cans without permanent injury, to the things that take more research and knowledge, like what Victorian parties and balls were like. When you upload a video, it is a small happy note in my day. Thank you.
    I'm sorry you've been having an upsetting time.

  • @Ivory81
    @Ivory81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    As an Irish girl, I’m 20 seconds in and the pronunciation of Monoghan already has me cringing, but one of my favourite channels making a video relating to my favourite author is too good to miss 😭🙏
    (Edit) It’s pronounced Mon-a-hen, or similarly depending on your accent, but the g is silent
    (Edit) 4 minutes in and ‘Yeats’ is pronounced Y-ates :)

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Sorry 🥲

    • @shannoncallister6869
      @shannoncallister6869 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Love the animation, and more importantly, see a historian showing why history is important.

    • @Ivory81
      @Ivory81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@AbbyCox No worries!! Irish names are notoriously hard to pronounce 😅 you did an amazing job all things considered, it’s just ingrained in me at this point to correct people

  • @annbrookens945
    @annbrookens945 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Those poor girls! And the subsequent maligning of fashion as being the cause of their deaths! As you suggested, perhaps the servants had removed the fire guard during the process of banking the fire for the night and the tipsy gentleman steered his partner and her flying train much too close to the open flame.
    OBVIOUSLY, the tragic accident was caused by the lady's undergarments!

  • @moda78z
    @moda78z 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Abby, everything about this video is brilliant! Bravo! 👏👏👏
    (And I’m very sorry about the bad news. ❤️)

  • @Starsongzz
    @Starsongzz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I remember going on a tour of an English cemetery and being amazed at how old some of the tombs were. I saw one headstone that I couldn’t look away from. It was of a 19 year old girl who burned to death in the same fashion. I was 19 when I stared at that tombstone, now I’m 24, I still think about her sometimes.

    • @leanneshawler
      @leanneshawler 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Woah! I think I just shared that headstone in a comment. Do you remember where?

  • @tenaoconnor7510
    @tenaoconnor7510 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I always thought they had a fire screen of some sort in front of fireplaces. I remember seeing a documentary type thing showing a laundress tending a cauldron of clothes over a fire using a skirt screen to keep her skirts out of the flame. They were well aware of fire back then.

    • @m.maclellan7147
      @m.maclellan7147 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      One thing that struck me, and Abby mentioned it, the staff would have been banking the fires. The fires would be down to coals at this point ! You would NOT be adding fuel, you'ld be pushing the hot coals toward the back.
      Perhaps the grates would have been removed, so that's a danger, but, again, the fire would be just embers as they would NOT heat this room overnight !
      If you fell INTO the fireplace, due to a removed grate, we'll, sure you might catch fire, but.....

  • @ur_fav_downtowngirl
    @ur_fav_downtowngirl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    i recently listened to a podcast about the cold spring murders in 1868. Mrs and Mr Young were both shot but the shotgun blast lit Mrs Young's crinoline on fire 😬

  • @dimanadimitrova2764
    @dimanadimitrova2764 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Omg I used to watch you religiously during the pandemic 🥹 the flashbacks are real LOL. And somehow your videos just stopped showing up on my feed. And now this pops-up ❤ I have to binge watch to catch up 😂

  • @AeriSoondingie
    @AeriSoondingie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lil Jon being an accurate 1800s party goer is so fucking wild and hilarious 😂

  • @crazyamericanredhead
    @crazyamericanredhead 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Blunt force trauma will kill a person in any situation

  • @kellynelson3186
    @kellynelson3186 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You thought about 6 years cutting up tin cans for boning, I'm over here wondering how lightening got the kid when she was under the porch.... 😂

    • @hugoblack4133
      @hugoblack4133 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lightning often rises from the ground...

  • @sjbloop
    @sjbloop 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I believe that a 6 year old would have a tin can hidden under her shirt and look her mother dead in the eyes and say, "it's my corsette." An actual tin can, not something she hatcheted in to shape. God knows what this secreted home made toy was for. Also, I absolutely believe an unsupervised 6 year old would take a hatchet to a tin can, which is safe to assume in this story. Nothing wearable or actually resembling a corset, just some mangled metal hidden in her clothes.

  • @ThisIsRealScience
    @ThisIsRealScience 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Could their dresses have been made from artificial silk? Spun from Nitrocellulose, also known as guncotton. We learnd at Uni that there were quite a few deaths due to someone having the bright idea to make fabric out of an explosive. It is ridiculously flammable and was invented around the correct time.

    • @garnettekken
      @garnettekken 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is an interesting theory

  • @morgandevelt3908
    @morgandevelt3908 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Here we have a fun and well researched investigation into a tragic and misrepresented event ~150 years ago and a mild overview of women's fashion history in the latter half of the 19th century. This video is actually about modern electoral politics and media-literacy.

  • @heatherboulanger881
    @heatherboulanger881 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hi, on the BBC show Hidden Killers, they mentioned cellulose or an early polyester type fabric as a cause of clothing fires. Did you come across any mentions of this in your research?

  • @sarapierce7211
    @sarapierce7211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The stories about crinolines catching fire reminds me of stories I was told as a child about how women in the westward expansion were often trampled by wagons because their sun bonnets limited their vision and they couldn't get out of the way in time. I was never able to corroborate that story, but I know my family insisted that was fact, often as if I had great great great grand cousins that this happened to. I'm curious if anyone else had heard stories like that.

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's a new one to me!

    • @rosemarielee7775
      @rosemarielee7775 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There was a tv recreation of a wagon train some years ago, and a woman nearly was run over exactly like this. Her husband was outraged that her costume included such a dangerous bonnet.

  • @amandahart4891
    @amandahart4891 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I love your deep dive - i never knew about this
    & love your reference to current news 😂

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    WELCOME BACK! I MISSED YOUR VIDEOS! Also, disasters in Period outfits? I’m sat.

  • @Prizzlesticks
    @Prizzlesticks 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    ...I love when precise knowledge of historical fashion trends debunks tall tales shaming people of the past, and women in particular.
    Basically, I'm asking you to consider becoming a fashion detective/Mythbuster. That is a show I'd watch.

  • @raeperonneau4941
    @raeperonneau4941 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You know that you’re deep in research mode when you break out the Chez-It’s with Bernadette. 😂

  • @rickshaw1971
    @rickshaw1971 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I feel like the really dangerous item in this equation is the open fires. Hey - that whole thing in the 1960s and 70s about kids in flammable nightgowns brushing against bar heaters and burning to death was real, right? Or did we regulate fire resistance in kids' nightwear for no reason at all??

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Vintage heating mechanisms...like kerosene heaters...oof...

    • @adaddinsane
      @adaddinsane 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Well done on completely missing the point.

    • @stannieholt8766
      @stannieholt8766 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My mother’s older sister was severely burned as a young girl around 1943, precisely because she was standing near a bar heater and her nightgown caught fire. Our whole extended family has been extra-cautious around space heaters and the like ever since.

  • @SpanishEclectic
    @SpanishEclectic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your channel receives the best comments! Like-minded folk. Indeed. As soon as I heard the year, I thought it was surely the trains of their 1870s gowns, having worn one as a bridesmaid's dress in my friend's wedding. I had to keep reminding the groom's brother (who went down the aisle with me) to be careful not to step on my dress. Many reported fires nowadays can be tied to the candle craze amongst people who have no clue about fire safety. I had to grab a friend with long flowing hair and yank her away from my gas stove where the front burner was heating the kettle. She was convinced that her hair would 'be fine'. My reply, "Regardless, stand over there!!" She has an electric stove. Your comment that stood out to me was that the servants might have removed the firescreen. And that while drunk in an empty room, the twirling (and subsequent uncontrolled swirling of the train of Mary's dress) was a recipe for disaster. Great research; entertaining presentation.

  • @CheapEngineerCrafts
    @CheapEngineerCrafts 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Speaking of the media, the Peshtigo Fire burned 1,875 square miles and destroyed twelve communities, killing between 1,200 and 2,500 people the same night as the Chicago Fire with 3.5 square miles and 300 deaths, 200 miles to the south.

  • @pauladavitt7554
    @pauladavitt7554 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I absolutely love these videos from you. I love the fact I learn something new and the depth of detail you go into. Keep up the good work

  • @patmanchester8045
    @patmanchester8045 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I am glad that people like you feel OK with talking about mental health. when. I tell people I am bipolar and have been successfully treated for 30 years ( but must stay on my meds for those who think I am "cured") They ( as Arlo gather would say) all moved away from me on the group W bench. so good for you!

    • @m.maclellan7147
      @m.maclellan7147 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But, if you remember the song, he had a LOT of fun on the Group W bench ! 😂

  • @tiffanytomasino335
    @tiffanytomasino335 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I don't understand how we can have such a sceptical generation and yet they'll believe what they read in an old newspaper of all things 😅 just because someone wrote it down doesn't make it fact. Thank you for sharing

  • @KateandBree
    @KateandBree 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    A wild Bernadette Banner has appeared.

  • @AnActualChangeling
    @AnActualChangeling 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Victorian punch making people see shrimp colors

  • @TheCraftDragon
    @TheCraftDragon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've been curious about this, cause I saw a movie called "I Heard The Bells", which looked like it took place during the stereotypical crinoline times, and the MC's wife had a lit candle fall on her skirt, which seemed to catch on fire like it was made of paper, and it didn't make sense to me.

  • @SupergirlUK
    @SupergirlUK 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My GreatGran (B.1905-D.2004) had told me one of her sisters died from a fire, her dress caught alight. Not sure how old she was, but definately a child. She was heating curling tongs, and knocked something causing embers on her skirts. She said about trying to put her out. That all the details i know, i was like 12 when she told me about it and didnt want to push her on it. She was nearly a 100 when she passed

  • @auroraasleep
    @auroraasleep 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm seriously impressed by little Mary's crafting & sewing skills. Mad props to her.
    When I was sewing historic clothing I did an experiment with crinolines, and yes, the skirts go up pretty fast on a dummy. But long skirts in general will go up pretty fast on a dummy, so take that for what it is. Don't mix fire with fabric. Basic safety.
    Let's add alcohol, tiredness, and potentially a careless dance partner (not blaming, just saying), and that's a recipe for accidents. Yup. TY. That.

  • @korriegoodrich
    @korriegoodrich 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love gremlin Bernadette at the end lol

  • @ColorwaveCraftsCo
    @ColorwaveCraftsCo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this video 😊 more historical debunking/mythbusting please!

  • @alexandramoore8200
    @alexandramoore8200 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I also question that lightning struck the porch of a farmhouse, and not anything higher at the farm? Like a tree or that barn or the house itself? No. The unusually talented 6 year old under the porch

    • @kramermariav
      @kramermariav 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You see, she had earned the wrath of Thor

  • @hummingbirdchen
    @hummingbirdchen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    *Sir William, or Sir William Wilde, but not Sir Wilde. "Sir" is always used with first name.
    Great video, thank you!

  • @stefanwild326
    @stefanwild326 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I am most likely going to hell for this, but I could not stop myself from humming Alicia Keys the whole time 😵‍💫

    • @AbbyCox
      @AbbyCox  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      BAHAHAHHAHHAHAAHHAHAHA

    • @becauseimafan
      @becauseimafan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂

  • @DanLizotte
    @DanLizotte 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Looking forward to the first installment of your new YA historic fantasy series, "The Crinoline Fires"

    • @denisha8596
      @denisha8596 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ... in which young ladies set fires...

    • @alicyamatheson7877
      @alicyamatheson7877 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oo I'd read that!

  • @CrystalFier
    @CrystalFier 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Bernadette at the end lmaooooo🖤

  • @farangarris2598
    @farangarris2598 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this.😊

  • @teresaellis7062
    @teresaellis7062 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your videos and I appreciate that you are careful with topics like this. I have recommended your videos to multiple friends as a great resource for historical clothing and just a great time! 😍
    I love your skits. I can tell you have a lot of fun putting them together, it shows😁

  • @danceforlove12
    @danceforlove12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the care you take with presenting historical fact and making likely interpretations of events. It's very respectful.

  • @ladyredl3210
    @ladyredl3210 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love informing people that clickbait is not a new thing, newspapers and news have always been like this.

  • @axelotls_
    @axelotls_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I was with you until I hit the BetterHelp sponsor 😬😬 Sooooo many people have gotten traumatized by their "therapists", a lot of whom aren't actual therapists. It's well documented.

  • @FruSalling
    @FruSalling 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have set my own hair on fire at parties twice. Fire and alcohol is a dangerous combination.

    • @bonnie8204
      @bonnie8204 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've set my hair on fire several times, usually when 100% sober... 😬

  • @functionoflightone
    @functionoflightone 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was most informative. Thank you. Also: love your hair... very becoming.

    • @susanprice3377
      @susanprice3377 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree on both points. Fun presentation of a logical look at this tragedy, AND your current hair style is an excellent choice for you. Love the sweater, too. A good casual-but-knowledgeable appearance wardrobe choice.