A man’s Point of view on Boundaries

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  • @oluwadamilolaabe4351
    @oluwadamilolaabe4351 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "value we place on our spouses can be enough reasons."

  • @richardtolu2169
    @richardtolu2169 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Tolu is feeling like “preach husband! preach!”😂😂😂. I see a lot of growth in both of you and that’s what marriage is about. I can completely relate with this video. Bliss all the way😊😊😊

  • @Olamideofthenations
    @Olamideofthenations ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I can see how mama Tolu is looking at her husband and knowing “God gave her the best”.God I tap into this.I believe you to give me your best son too🥹🥹❤️❤️

  • @enyiomaam1803
    @enyiomaam1803 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Good conversation. The bottom line is men and women tend to have different roles in intiating relationships. Men tend to pursue women in relationships. If a man does not feel the women is a 'threat' to his relationship, there's no need for him putting energy in to confronting the other party. For a woman, since she is the one being pursued, she will always shut it down aggressively if she is happy in her relationship.

  • @deborahchristian3056
    @deborahchristian3056 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is really what I have been trying explain to most men including my hubby. I really receive grace for my husband to grow into this level of understanding and even more. I am really blessed by this.

  • @oluwatosinchristiana9040
    @oluwatosinchristiana9040 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Honestly, you're couple goals. Your union is eternally blessed.

  • @deemf5977
    @deemf5977 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Maturity comes into a play a lot. Many men who are intentional with growing and learning become more conscious about this with time. There is a sense of responsibility towards your partner you feel that will make you prioritize their security and not leave them feeling insecure. Well done to you both PG (still not over one time he said G for ‘Jesus’ 🤣🤣) and you Tolulope. You both are light ❤️

  • @TimilehinAriyo
    @TimilehinAriyo ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Oil is on PG’s head. Make peace with the fact that there are some things that will change because of your spouse

  • @neyoa6367
    @neyoa6367 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love PGs point of view, same mindset as I have. Like the saying goes “happy wife, happy life” .Thanks guys for this

  • @Thisisbisola
    @Thisisbisola ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yaaayyy!! PG! Good to glean from your wisdom here after a long while! Now, let me go and watch🥳 btw, you look gorgeous Tolu, your hairstyle is givingggg 😍

  • @perfectwonders2834
    @perfectwonders2834 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm learning a lot from you two always. You're awesome, and thank you for always being amazing. You make kingdom marriage exciting 😊❤❤❤

  • @NobleCity
    @NobleCity ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Men gives too much benefits of doubts to so many women and if not careful or set boundaries, they might fall into temptations. PG is right with the fact that most men wants the other party to feel comfortable.

  • @Longdi-Lois
    @Longdi-Lois ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Who else notices how her locs are flourishing?😍

  • @funmilayobadmus2278
    @funmilayobadmus2278 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I prayed while watching this video, and I believe God has heard me. thank you PG and Solutions. God bless you.

  • @unfilteredwithfamoy6512
    @unfilteredwithfamoy6512 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Interestingly, I love that this applies to marriage-intended relationships as well. Thank you PG and mama Solutions

  • @obiwaleabigaelchannel
    @obiwaleabigaelchannel ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you PG for always supporting our mama.

  • @MikkaErem
    @MikkaErem ปีที่แล้ว +4

    PG, with the G for Jesus!! Thank you for your wisdom! 🙏🏼👏🏽

  • @echendugloria8706
    @echendugloria8706 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your top is really beautiful Tolu.
    PG's top too is great. I just love how bold the inscriptions are

  • @Deetee_19
    @Deetee_19 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This right here!!!! The absolute truth about marriage and boundaries. Thanks for sharing, love it!!!

  • @funmilayobadmus2278
    @funmilayobadmus2278 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ah God! Solutions you are godsent to our generation. You're hitting all the points! Thank you to you and PG!

  • @geegee5141
    @geegee5141 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Love how your earrings match the shape of the holes in your dress

  • @happylee2297
    @happylee2297 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Anytime I see PG comes on board I watch with rapt attention because I know I must learn new things.
    Thank God for your life mama solutions you are doing great God bless you

  • @christabelanele8795
    @christabelanele8795 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    PG is full of wisdom abeg. Thanks for this video

  • @oyindamolaalao
    @oyindamolaalao ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I had to watch for my husband to come back before I watched this so that he can hear from PG, thank you for this ooo

  • @SotySpecial
    @SotySpecial ปีที่แล้ว +34

    😂😂😂 not “I don’t mess with Twitter” 😂😂 that took me out! But fr, Twitter is an alternate universe!

  • @babynaa3658
    @babynaa3658 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why I'm I seeing Tov and Soteria rather,the resemblance is so 💯

  • @thetosinlola
    @thetosinlola ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "If you have not said oh-ha, I am not going to say ha-oh".... that part got me 🤣🤣🤣
    Thank you sooooo much PG and mama solutions. This was so much wisdom and light! 😍

  • @TheAdedolapo.
    @TheAdedolapo. ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Solutions mama and PG, the duo God knew I needed because, always speaking wisdom. God continually bless your home and use you to bless our lives

  • @Mehggiee
    @Mehggiee ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks PG and Tolu❤
    Not me smiling ear to ear when I saw "blooper". I always look forward to it 😂😂

  • @favourogbah1729
    @favourogbah1729 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was such a beautiful watch. Thank you PG for the wisdom you shared.

  • @saveasoultoday
    @saveasoultoday ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tolu your hair is beautiful!!! You are really pretty. God bless you always ❤

  • @adenijiayomide5328
    @adenijiayomide5328 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was too good😨😨
    The salvation analogy📌, whooosshhhhh🔥🔥… God bless you PG🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @alicespace958
    @alicespace958 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Men need to learn to state it out really, most of them break the boundaries and makes it easier for these issues to slide in.. they kind of enjoy the attention and the feeling of being single and that is why most of them will rather not stroke out anything that is going beyond limit.

  • @zobasworld4689
    @zobasworld4689 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Solution you're one in a million... May God continue to bless and protect your union 🙏

  • @ZobsK
    @ZobsK ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love your top 🥰🥰thanks for bring PG to share and I agree with his opinions 👏

  • @Sleekylizzy7393
    @Sleekylizzy7393 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am married and i believe in not doing too much . As well as lets us live our individuality. Marriage is a very dynamic institution and not one shoe fits all. But it also depends on the personality of the man or woman! If your husband typically doesnt like confrontation or being choked! He will pretend or manage you perfectly to have peace and youd live in years not knowing . I have learnt with time to let my man be comfortable with me , including telling me his thoughts and how he thinks and i expressing my concerns if need be! Not over doing😂 . Like we women hello hi next thing vex! We jump to conclusions. Many women living fake lives or couples living a lie! Let my man bare all of him to me and i to him. Im open to his thoughts and how we can help it evolve. I have told my man i had feelings for someone at work and we navigated through it. And vice versa rather than boundaries this that . When its not military rule. At the end people will still do what they want and not necessarily cause of the fear of spouse, but fear of greater power God/ fear of losing family(avoid loneliness/ fear of what will people say etc

  • @oluremiajayi6096
    @oluremiajayi6096 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Barely two mins into the video PG couldn't resist giving us some ajasa. I love to always see it!😂😂😂

  • @fxentsojoshua5070
    @fxentsojoshua5070 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just realizing what POV means 🫢
    Thank you PG🔥
    Always blessed to have you here!

  • @adunniade7283
    @adunniade7283 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you PG for the salvation analogy, kudos solutions mama..👍🏿🙌🏿

  • @eunicedaniels277
    @eunicedaniels277 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you PG you’re so full of wisdom

  • @Agnes.shines
    @Agnes.shines ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Roast your gender,that is the agenda “😂😂😂💀😂😂😂😂

  • @winifred2155
    @winifred2155 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    SOLUTIONS and PG, The power couple. Ride on! Love you loads

  • @greatfaith2304
    @greatfaith2304 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I personally enjoy your vlog... At first, when I see 25mins for example I'm always like this is too long, but trust me when I start, by the time I check how many minutes I've watched, it'd almost be at the end already.... Thank you Soutions.

  • @mrsemily.o2912
    @mrsemily.o2912 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your husband hit the nail on the head. Devil na send anyone especially believers. Tolu you are doing good.

  • @ewuolaoluwatoyin6392
    @ewuolaoluwatoyin6392 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love it when u bring PG here 😊 His words of wisdom are always to look forward to

  • @yetundebamidele1472
    @yetundebamidele1472 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always waiting for bloopers😃
    Thanks PG & solutions

  • @oyenikeodunayo
    @oyenikeodunayo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s the way PG subtly switches to Yoruba and the accompanying expressions on mama solutions face all the time for me😁😁😁😁.... e dey sweet my belle( o n dun mo mi😁😁😁)

  • @favourjohn123
    @favourjohn123 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
    I'm grateful for knowing you both
    This message 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Elsie_b12
    @Elsie_b12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's the "hi guys" at the beginning of the video for me🥰🥰

  • @unfilteredwithfamoy6512
    @unfilteredwithfamoy6512 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    14:23 this place is fire, thank you PG🔥

  • @Chuchu_thespice
    @Chuchu_thespice ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is amazingggggg🥹🎉🎉 thank you,Tolulope and PG💯🥳🙏🏾🤗

  • @gbenmisolamiracle4970
    @gbenmisolamiracle4970 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks so much, for this, Mamma Solutions.

  • @solaoso7061
    @solaoso7061 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m always excited to watch your videos! You’re such an inspiration to me♥️

  • @oluwadamilolaabe4351
    @oluwadamilolaabe4351 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Profound! Who is your priority and what do they desire?

  • @lucyakomiah9306
    @lucyakomiah9306 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome 👏🏾 thank you solutions and PG for this amazing chit chat.❤

  • @azeezatibrahim3493
    @azeezatibrahim3493 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so true, I struggle explaining it to my husband.

  • @divinekabanghi
    @divinekabanghi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much wisdom on this video !!! Thanks you!

  • @adeniyioluwatimilehin_Timi
    @adeniyioluwatimilehin_Timi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wisdom offload! Amazing ❤❤

  • @AdjoaJosephine7724
    @AdjoaJosephine7724 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awwwww PG this is me You are describing. We always want peace oh, very diplomatic.....#Mayborns# are here😂😂❤

  • @ifeoluwafola7726
    @ifeoluwafola7726 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The number of ‘for the most part’ that was said in this video is plentyyy!!!😂

  • @OlajumokeRebecca-sd3of
    @OlajumokeRebecca-sd3of ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is timely mama, I haven't watched it but I know it's gonna be great. Love you both.

  • @ijeicynthia229
    @ijeicynthia229 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    PG's Hands for me, when mama says let us jump right into the video😂

  • @ShoshosTastyTales
    @ShoshosTastyTales ปีที่แล้ว

    Aunty Tolu, so much similarities between you and I.
    Wow
    God bless you ma. You have said it all

  • @olayinkaoluwaseun3082
    @olayinkaoluwaseun3082 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They have turn PG to influencer😁😁😁 nice one!

  • @oyindamolasamakin
    @oyindamolasamakin ปีที่แล้ว +3

    PG with the deep words👌🏼

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What you know you can’t finish,please don’t start oooo,run for your life ooo😂😂😂😂😂😂. Twitter is not for the faint hearted ooo,no join body because na depression😂😂😂😂

  • @Eucharistgospelmedia
    @Eucharistgospelmedia ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My spouse is enough reason 🔥.... Great talk PG 🙌

  • @augustinaalumo5371
    @augustinaalumo5371 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    P G Good bless you.... more grace mama solution's
    Let me say this will only work in a Christian home..
    Not in a home where the woman in a born again and the man is a born against.

  • @rhenike
    @rhenike ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very insightful but too short!!!!😭😭😭😭 I wanted it to just continue 😂😂

  • @abatiolamilekan7573
    @abatiolamilekan7573 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really impactful. Thanks.

  • @muhammadzulfat
    @muhammadzulfat ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Solutions Màmà, It’s your red painted nails catching my attention 🥰🥰
    I’m soo enjoying this video…. Let’s continue 😊

  • @nanaaddae8623
    @nanaaddae8623 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    From the mens perspective is helpful ❤

  • @priscillaomene7158
    @priscillaomene7158 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you...to both of you...this is well explained, you just cleared some concerns. Thank you.

  • @jumokebabatope
    @jumokebabatope ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's the intro for me🔥🔥

  • @lovethanthonia7122
    @lovethanthonia7122 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Family Influencing😂😂😂 Love it❤

  • @folukebabalola20
    @folukebabalola20 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always a blessing🙌🙏It's your top for me,love it❤.

  • @realtalkwithseun5292
    @realtalkwithseun5292 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My boyfriend ended the relationship because I told him to excuse himself from his friend always interrupting our conversation while we are on call😂😂😂😂

    • @Hallobren
      @Hallobren ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😮Thank God it happened at this stage, he doesn't deserve you.

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful topic
    Love you guys❤

  • @edithokoidegun2170
    @edithokoidegun2170 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for this topic ... Please can you address secret in marriage..when a spouse goes to a seperate room to pick calls from family members. Thank you

  • @temitope_ilori
    @temitope_ilori ปีที่แล้ว

    PG is wise! 👏🙌. God bless you both and bless your home!

  • @Ifedayo0210
    @Ifedayo0210 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I learned a lot watching this and it's really interesting. Thanks to you both ❤

  • @temitope_ilori
    @temitope_ilori ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for doing this Tolu❤

  • @estheruzoamaka3256
    @estheruzoamaka3256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you PG and Mama Solu

  • @bnikkycouture7882
    @bnikkycouture7882 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waooooow this is soooooo goood ….thanks guys for clearing the air 😢…..thanks you

  • @Esther_nwachukwuu
    @Esther_nwachukwuu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so good and well explained 📌

  • @Deliberate_growth
    @Deliberate_growth ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Baba say “everything is not fight” 😂. Exactly ko necestary.

  • @estherolawoye5794
    @estherolawoye5794 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is really good. Thank you for sharing. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @Ladyromford
    @Ladyromford ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tolus hairrrrr its doing well jibike take ur flowers

  • @abosedeolatunbosun8118
    @abosedeolatunbosun8118 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    10:31 this PG response was what my husband said when we had this conversation….. according to him, I asked him why he is not like me to say No immediately, he has to be political about it….. my take is what you will not eat, you don’t perceive it ( in Yoruba sha)

    • @inspiringgirl1821
      @inspiringgirl1821 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree. Its very dangerous to entertain such.

  • @tryde_d
    @tryde_d ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank youuuu!

  • @blessingnkwazema1566
    @blessingnkwazema1566 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That reason why is enough!!!!

  • @eunicedaniels277
    @eunicedaniels277 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tolu steadily saying my mind what!?? Like my husband and I had this same conversation yesterday…

  • @olatundeolatubosun4129
    @olatundeolatubosun4129 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it. Learnt alot and Tolu the red nail polish is popping❤

  • @nanaaddae8623
    @nanaaddae8623 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Compromise is key. I love the openness in this conversation

  • @bukolaomowumi
    @bukolaomowumi ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much ma,i love you ❤️

  • @rachelowhonda2913
    @rachelowhonda2913 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, beautiful couple

  • @efosablessing8878
    @efosablessing8878 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got some wisdom here.Thanks for this

  • @ataniimavisakundolmi6883
    @ataniimavisakundolmi6883 ปีที่แล้ว

    You both are amazing more videos on how to keep growing as couple

  • @joanugwu1875
    @joanugwu1875 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can we married women also allowed to say let's see where this goes

  • @christable2010
    @christable2010 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. God bless you continually