6 YEARS OF MARRIAGE AND THESE ARE THE LESSONS WE HAVE LEARNT! TOLULOPE AND GBEMIGA ADEJUMO

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  • @edemanyerhovwo9752
    @edemanyerhovwo9752 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    I watched one year. Am still here watching 6 years... God is faithful

  • @assumptachio5966
    @assumptachio5966 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have been married 22years and the wisdom/ direction/ instructions of the Holy Spirit is our secret, the Holy Spirit will open you to you and show you how best to love your partner, vice versa and what we need to change or shift grounds about.
    Love your channel 🙌

  • @eunicedaniels277
    @eunicedaniels277 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Watched the first anniversary and I’m glad to be here for the 6th, 10th and 40th in Jesus name

  • @sarahorede
    @sarahorede ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Did you sign up for this drama?"
    "I did, and I love it." Very cute. 😍

  • @NessaEyeson
    @NessaEyeson ปีที่แล้ว +10

    1:18 Did you sign up for all this drama? I did and I love it. Ayeeeeee😍😍😍😍😍

  • @RoszyPeterz
    @RoszyPeterz ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mr. Solutions is so full of wisdom. Thank you for being a good example of a husband, father, teacher and internet brother.

  • @SISTERSCREED
    @SISTERSCREED ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Solutions Mama❤, what you share with your Husband is priceless. It screams intentionality, Commitment and Trust. Thank you for always showing us that a Godly marriage full of peace and bliss is possible. I love you loads ❤

  • @oluwa.darasimii
    @oluwa.darasimii ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm not married but i'm always interested in all these marriage related videos. Also, please can you film a video on how you navigated your single life and the waiting period before meeting your husband.

  • @everythingantaria
    @everythingantaria ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can't believe I have known this couple for the past 6years now😍
    And to be honest, I like the way they are always taking us along without sugar coating it.
    God bless your home continually.
    Na proposal video brought me here o.
    And the journey has been sweet so.
    I love your parenting style and I am learning keenly.
    Forever to go guys

  • @amarajulzzuzon7688
    @amarajulzzuzon7688 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your husband brings out a side in you that we don't always see when it's just you, that speaks real friendship...and I like the way he says sorry to cut/interrupt you weldone for the good example my people... I started watching since 2020 ✌️🥰

  • @chronicles624
    @chronicles624 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ego is non-toxic, swallow it - that's a gem.

  • @zarimomoh5030
    @zarimomoh5030 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Congratulations 🎊 guys, 6years already? you're so mature and understanding 👏, am happy for you guys, am 12years in marriage and I learn alot from you guys. Thank you

  • @alontanuchenna3471
    @alontanuchenna3471 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As a married one my advice is those things HolySpirit keeps telling you to do at the place of prayer & word study as regards your marriage, DO AM FIRST & KEEP DOING AM o

  • @chidinmaobj
    @chidinmaobj ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We also never saw our parents fight and I remember years ago when my mum passed and we were all in school. My dad’s friends who came to pick us from school had planned to tell us that our parents had issues and they needed our input. My dad blatantly told them to find another story because that one will never sell and it did not.
    A lot of lessons in this video with a sprinkle of good humor. Thank you to you both!

  • @edusuliat8817
    @edusuliat8817 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mr Gbemiga and Tolulope solution, you guys are pretty amazing👏you speak wisdom mehn!

  • @matildasase
    @matildasase ปีที่แล้ว +3

    'REMEMBER WHO YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH '. Lately, this is what has really helped me personally. Thank you guys

  • @nkechiamandaanyabolu2009
    @nkechiamandaanyabolu2009 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    11 years old in marriage, communicating at the right time is the key for me

  • @AdjoaJosephine7724
    @AdjoaJosephine7724 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    see me smiling sheepishly and laughing out loud......I LOVE YOU TWO SO MUCH....the depth of wisdom, it can only be the Holy Spirit.

  • @tee-ofano1614
    @tee-ofano1614 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ""This Life is too good to be enjoyed than looking at what this person didn't do.. And holding him to high expectations that I can't even meet."" This got to me and I am learning... I am 11years in marriage and I am still learning because I want my marriage to be a model of the God-kind of marriage to the world. Thank you Tolu, I 💕💕 you all the way from Delta state Nigeria..

  • @tinukeadesiyakan6715
    @tinukeadesiyakan6715 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your husband should ooen his youtube channel 🥳😁 he has lots of knowledge to give

  • @damilolatobiloba2680
    @damilolatobiloba2680 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations guys I'm happy for u
    you're my mentor from day one I learn a lot from u and now with God wisdom I will count a year of marriage this month sep24th by God's grace tank u so much ma I love u guys so much

  • @Tifegbadas
    @Tifegbadas ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love when Gbemiga makes an appearance. Thank you both for those words of wisdom ❤

  • @patricia5277
    @patricia5277 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Remember who you fell in love with " oh 🙌🙌 God bless you for this statement

  • @kayewusi5634
    @kayewusi5634 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember watching year 1 and here we are at year 6 by God's grace!Wow! Congratulations Solutions & PG!
    You both inspire me a lot! God bless you❤

  • @toyinakinfolajimi
    @toyinakinfolajimi 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m saving this so my hubby and I can watch when I’m married. This is powerful ❤

  • @aderonkeomoba8325
    @aderonkeomoba8325 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I remember being at your wedding then in Akure as a Futa student😊. Woowww, its six years alweeaadyy?. I celebrate you both mehhnnn...Your home will continue to be sweeter and sweeter in Jesus name. 👏👏❤

  • @bintaojone8801
    @bintaojone8801 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    PG with soo much wisdom. More grace on this amazing couple❤

  • @jemimahmukombo6638
    @jemimahmukombo6638 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One the things I allow my kids to know is that we dad and mom are human beings and it's okay to disagree and sort it and its normal i don't what them to ever think being married means we perfect no married for 15 years and we happy and we thank God because I understood along time you can't do marriage without God

  • @joymelody516
    @joymelody516 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for being an exemplary Christian couple. I have learnt so much from you and your family and I look forward to learning more. God bless you both immensely and keep you.

  • @fehinabidemi3384
    @fehinabidemi3384 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Intentionally and genuinely kind Word forever .PG you are d real man

  • @olamodupe9965
    @olamodupe9965 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for this.
    My sixth anniversary was yesterday. Watching this makes me feel we are in line... then one thing I need to work on..
    On that vacation,... we are away at the moment, kids are with granny. It refreshes the marriage... Memories are about intentionality..
    About that lady, she should bring the date night home. Set the scene and watch him appreciate it. Sometimes, men don't realise how much they need or miss it, till they are actively reminded.

    • @TolulopeSolutions
      @TolulopeSolutions  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Happy wedding anniversary! Sweet wine forever and ever! Thank u for the recommendation

  • @blessingudocor6268
    @blessingudocor6268 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love you guys so much. I love your friendship in marriage. You teach me so much Tolulope Solutions. My mindset is no longer the same since I came across your TH-cam channel. God bless you for all you do.

  • @obaniyiobanike6236
    @obaniyiobanike6236 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Solution you are a blessing to many marriages. Thanks for allowing God use you
    My marriage will just be a year by next month and the communication as being issue every time, my husband just find it difficult to share is thought, plans and challenges with me but he will rather bottle up everything. He doesn’t just want to share

  • @oluwabunmiadegbehingbe5646
    @oluwabunmiadegbehingbe5646 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a medical student,I understand the part where PG talked about Oxygen reacting with other chemicals and the point he was trying to make really sank well.This is so good to watch,will be 6 years in marriage by July.All glory to God🙏

  • @FaithAdegboye
    @FaithAdegboye ปีที่แล้ว +5

    PG is so filled with wisdom. Thank you sir and ma.

  • @annohtenguh9324
    @annohtenguh9324 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I relate so much. My husband and I are married 6 years now.12/13 of May 2017 we got married too. what a coincidence and this content is just like it's about him and I. I am Tolu 100% while my husband is PG 100% . I want everything talked about as in everything.....while hubby doesn't have it that way.

  • @ilerilabs
    @ilerilabs ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awwww...He said he signed up for it and he loves it!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @TheDoreenTube
    @TheDoreenTube ปีที่แล้ว +4

    6 years? Omg😭❤️ I’m getting olddd! I’ve been here since year 1. Congratulationssss my faves ❤️

  • @maryah0422
    @maryah0422 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    16 years married and you said a whole lot I can relate with. The major thing that has worked for us is learning to choose our battles and letting go…..some things are not worth the effort we put in it getting upset/annoyed just let it go and you will have peace ✌️

  • @osasumwenyvonneohonba
    @osasumwenyvonneohonba ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Marriage is first about your spouse, not the kids 💯

  • @tantisolamide2067
    @tantisolamide2067 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This easily became my favorite video of you.
    As a new parent, the #youtwofirst philosophy is very, very useful! Thank you!

  • @folorunsotemidayo3930
    @folorunsotemidayo3930 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What I am grateful and I learnt from my husband is, He doesn’t keep malice 😅 that guy can flare up now now and start talking to you, when me I am ready to not talk to him for the whole year again 😂
    I have learnt that too, it has rubbed off on me ❤
    Hallelujah

  • @lovethanthonia7122
    @lovethanthonia7122 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Laughed alot, the first seconds had me bouncing it backward severally. More grace and strength to your family Solutions Mama.

  • @sarahorede
    @sarahorede ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Being a teenager, I have to say that I'm learning a lot.

  • @candidtalkswithlauvena1835
    @candidtalkswithlauvena1835 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've started watching you in the one year, and now 6 years after I see the two of you look amazing together, may the good Lord continues to bless your matrimonial home in the name of Jesus Christ ❤❤❤

  • @kikikiven
    @kikikiven ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the genuine friendship...if only people knew that is the base or foundation...2nd to the Holy Spirit...for everything else to blossom on

  • @Pleasant_P-z6t
    @Pleasant_P-z6t ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Six years of hearing, “I feel like”👌 now “I feel like” you should do a merch with that phrase, would make sense.... celebrate you both 🥂 to many more years

  • @Yakirawots
    @Yakirawots ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not mama looking at her husband as he was speaking because he was spitting wisdom 😍😍

  • @ewuolaoluwatoyin6392
    @ewuolaoluwatoyin6392 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My very own couple ❤
    So the malice keeping is what my husband shouted to me about when I was watching dis while he was listening 😂 so thanks to you guys for the lessons 🤗

  • @veratunes
    @veratunes ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was sent this by a good friend, and you guys sound like us so much. Thanks for your impartation of wisdom. God bless your home ❤🎉 Happy Anniversary, may God keep watering your home. Joined the team by hitting that Button and bell 🔔

  • @true_worshippers
    @true_worshippers ปีที่แล้ว +2

    6years, Forever to go!!
    Once again, thank you for sharing mama🤭❤️

  • @faithamarachiatarahonb6163
    @faithamarachiatarahonb6163 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this couple I've been following you for 5 years, from the way you look at each other to the way you respect each other and share your thoughts, I admire you and pray that God always revives your marriage ✨❤️🙏

  • @oluwadaradaramola349
    @oluwadaradaramola349 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    PG is so wissseeee!!!!🎉
    Love the whole family

  • @Lucccee
    @Lucccee ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s so funny, that I just thought about you uploading a video and come here to see it. I haven’t watched the video yet but I know I’d love it. If you see this comment, just say a prayer for me.

  • @zipporahotaru1704
    @zipporahotaru1704 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lord I'm saying it out loud, I RECEIVE A HOME LIKE THIS, THIS YEAR IN THE NAME OF THE LORD JESUS!

  • @lolobatubo5750
    @lolobatubo5750 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woow!!! The last point by PG as a single lady live life to my best, no regrets. Thank you so much guys. Cheers to forever 🎉🎉

  • @florenceonah7440
    @florenceonah7440 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for inspiring us with your marriage, PG is so real.
    What has worked for me is yielding to the holy spirit, it's not so easy at times but trust the Holy spirit because it always ends well.

  • @michaelayodele9868
    @michaelayodele9868 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just must be on this channel. Phone has been bad for a month but that's not a barrier to be on this channel 😂😂 we can always do what we enjoy and learn from as humans.
    Congratulations mama. Many happy returns in Jesus name

  • @tomisinspace
    @tomisinspace ปีที่แล้ว +4

    PG is so dramatic and hilarious😂
    More grace🙏

  • @ONYIBERYL
    @ONYIBERYL ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God is so faithful
    P.G and his onions 😂. Aunty Tols 😊. I’m so grateful to God for you guys🙌🏽✨

  • @idowudeborah2970
    @idowudeborah2970 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who else love that ℹ inspirational song at Tolu’s every vlog 😂😂

  • @princessdamiii6585
    @princessdamiii6585 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My favourite couple ❤️❤️.
    Been watching from the first year; may God continually uphold your home

  • @foodiechanneltv1540
    @foodiechanneltv1540 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's good to see you both happy.. After watching guys please watch me eat.. I love food.. So much

  • @aderonkeadewunmi-oyegunle5536
    @aderonkeadewunmi-oyegunle5536 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How can I crop the part where PG talked to men, it’s so deep.
    Continue to increase in wisdom omo dad e to jo mum e😂

  • @naomijohn5274
    @naomijohn5274 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wao!!! This is loaded. Thanks so much for this💙💙 mama Solution and PG

  • @annariji3891
    @annariji3891 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favourite couple.... Period!!!!!!

  • @mrsemily.o2912
    @mrsemily.o2912 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Deep talk Gbemiga n Tolu am always encouraged by you both. Its your simplicity for me , but some deep matters in marriage that cannot be said , we just let God have his way.

  • @samuelfavour5878
    @samuelfavour5878 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Solutions for sharing with us ❤❤❤ God continues blessings on your home.... We love seeing PG around😊

  • @Ifudiya
    @Ifudiya ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You see KINDNESS… very important. Thank you for this premium content

  • @idowudeborah2970
    @idowudeborah2970 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was just smiling all through ❤😅😅😅😊😊😊😊😊 I bless God that I have a good marriage too 🙏

  • @shalewasspace6757
    @shalewasspace6757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aunty Sols thanks for the beautiful pictures of what marriage is and should be and also by God's standard 😊😊😊...

  • @viclanedomnang1132
    @viclanedomnang1132 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful!!! We wish you 100 more years of growing and learning together.
    Please stop hitting the man even after he mentioned it you still mistakenly did it.

  • @oluwadamilolaashade7620
    @oluwadamilolaashade7620 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ehi God, Solutions, this is just what I needed at this very moment, thank you so much for yielding to God's call, you won't know what you have done for me with his video, thank you so much, I celebrate you ma.

  • @foluthebridge5269
    @foluthebridge5269 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awwwww! Such a cute video 🙈🙈😍😍
    About seeing the ‘broader picture’ when you and your partner have differences
    This is something I was still speaking with my guy about yesterday.
    When you’re upset with them, the devil tries to make you see them in another light. And the danger is in when you allow things linger for too long. The best thing is to either communicate with love and patience or just let it slide (if it’s not worth it)
    Thank you mama for sharing❤. We love and appreciate you ❤

    • @sylviakelechi7698
      @sylviakelechi7698 ปีที่แล้ว

      Guy, boyfriend, fiancé or husband
      Abegooo no dey think marriage decisions inside relationship, they are two different things 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

  • @preciousnweke3448
    @preciousnweke3448 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    PGGGGG!!!! Soo much wisdom!!!
    Thank you Solutions Mama ❤️

  • @abena_sheshe
    @abena_sheshe ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s the do this, do that, go up, come down, shift it part for me😂👌. Absolutely love this🥰. Really learning a lot on this channel. Bless you Mama Solu❤️

    • @Themercy_o
      @Themercy_o ปีที่แล้ว

      IRE oooo 😊😊😊❤

  • @chuchumaable
    @chuchumaable ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I watched year one and still watching.

  • @Rachel_Baiden
    @Rachel_Baiden ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations guys. Love you.
    And oh! You got married on my birthday, the 12th🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @comfortkura
    @comfortkura ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The part where PG said he is the sweep things under the carpet guy while mama solutions is the let's talk about it, to the last🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂 got me almost rolling on the floor..... that's literally my life RN🤣🤣🤣🤣 we the perfectionist geng.
    Thanks for this, it's always refreshing to learn from you.

    • @maryah0422
      @maryah0422 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most men are in that category it’s women that mostly like to talk

  • @soniaagborson1766
    @soniaagborson1766 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you Tolu. I'm feeling you guys these days. Happy anniversary to you. I pray for more grace for you both.

  • @tobidurojaiye9014
    @tobidurojaiye9014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations to my favorite couple. Happy 6th year anniversary 🎊 Cheers to lasting marriage with joy and happiness.

  • @mildredayuba9011
    @mildredayuba9011 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank God, i watched the first year anniversary and the sixth year anniversary and hoping to see 100 year anniversary very soon 💃💃💃💃

  • @lamisiachel3907
    @lamisiachel3907 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this, especially how PG spoke to the men. Thanks for sharing

  • @assumptachio5966
    @assumptachio5966 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your father and mother were once strangers!!

  • @Lucccee
    @Lucccee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I pray for a blissful love life.
    And purposeful marriage when the time comes

  • @esterblessing5929
    @esterblessing5929 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lots of wisdom here I learned something, I can't wait to meet mama Solutions one day since we are in the same city😊

  • @ConversationswithSuwilanji
    @ConversationswithSuwilanji ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This has been s timely for me. Thank you so much 🙏🏿 I'm getting married in October and the holy spirit has really been convicting me of not prioritizing my partner over my female best friend and I have really been working on it. Also on choosing our battles wisely, just yesterday we had an argument and I could literally feel the holy spirit cautioning me to just let it go. As a couple we have been advised to stay united in prayer and remain positive as we are believe God for a breakthrough and I honestly felt the enemy was just trying to bring confusion between us. Otherwise I have learnt alot thank you 🙏🏿

    • @TolulopeSolutions
      @TolulopeSolutions  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯 All the best and congratulations

    • @ConversationswithSuwilanji
      @ConversationswithSuwilanji ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TolulopeSolutions thank you so much 🙏🏿 do remember us in your prayers 🕯️

  • @omoladesunday7424
    @omoladesunday7424 ปีที่แล้ว

    Communication is actually a major 🔑 to always get it right! Marriage will forever be seen as a beautiful thing nd everybody needs to enjoy/manage it well ❤

  • @yemiogundana8796
    @yemiogundana8796 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Anniversary guys, thank you for always reminding me that i can have a beautiful marriage

  • @mercyehiede4057
    @mercyehiede4057 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for sharing this, its full of insight and alot to learn from, prioritising each other not letting malice and little things create a vacuum that is hard to fill, letting go of those little things , remembering the good above all , Being truly patient and understanding while waiting for improvements you' ve been praying for . 🙏

  • @toluwanidada
    @toluwanidada ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations ma and sir ,i have learnt so much for my future home. I pray for grace and wisdom for a happy home too,amen.

  • @miriamansong6702
    @miriamansong6702 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm laughing 😂 and learning..thank you Pas Gbemiga and solutions mama

  • @TheTomilobaAremu
    @TheTomilobaAremu ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not Mama Solutions proudly saying the wrong thing🤣

  • @Beloved_Boahemaah
    @Beloved_Boahemaah ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on 6 years Mr. & Mrs. Adejumo!!! God bless and keep you both! We need more Christ-Centered Homes to speak up and I’m glad both of you have been doing this for a LONGG Time!!!
    Patiently waiting for PG’s TH-cam Channel👀🔥🙌🏿

  • @AdeolaO
    @AdeolaO ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I admire your natural hair girl😊

  • @parbeyphyllis5590
    @parbeyphyllis5590 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PG came for us today😂😂, thank you for sharing 💚

  • @lilybach2151
    @lilybach2151 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was really educative , thanks for sharing .. you both really inspire me ❤

  • @temitopechristiana86
    @temitopechristiana86 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you For this, it came at the right time ❤.

  • @temiladeadeniyi3589
    @temiladeadeniyi3589 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember watching one year 👏🏻👏🏻wow 6 you guys are a blessing . I pray God continue to bless your union .

  • @bestchristopher
    @bestchristopher ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember the first video i watched was when you had just confirmed you were pregnant with soteria & went home from work to tell PG. I've been subscribed since then, you (we🥰)'ve come a long way.