Can Love be Selfless? A 4-Step Message to improve ALL your relationships

In today's Ask a Human, Not an AI video, I answer a very personal question asked to me anonymously by one of the channel's subscribers. The questioner wants to improve her relationship with her parents, specifically her mother, and wants advice on how to love selflessly. Now that is one deep question, isn't it?
I share a four-part response to her question, and I feel that it covers dynamics of all relationships, not just a parent-child relationship or a romantic relationship or a professional relationship, etc. The relationship advice that I end up giving in this video is specific enough to apply to the questioner's meditations on how to make her parents happy but also generic enough to apply to countless manifestations of relationships in our lives that require us to act out true love.
Honestly, to be able to love someone selflessly seems to me to be a misnomer of sorts, and I talk about this too in the video. Well, enough chit chat, let's leave some for the video.
In sincere hopes that this lands and stays you with as an effective resource to improve all your relationships.
Until next time.
Peace out.
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00:00 - A common issue in relationships today
00:30 - Today's question - Relationships & Selfless Love
01:36 - My Four Part Response
01:41 - Part 1 - Putting This in Perspective
02:53 - Part 2 - Selfless Love & Different Kinds of Love
07:56 - Part 3 - Next Steps
09:28 - Part 4 - What All This Really Means
12:36 - An Invitation, in closing
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[@shubhamkumar-gh3ys]

I'm 24 and i know this is spritual channel but please can you make a video on "How to control your own sexual urges" i think in today's world this is most difficult things to control,i am so much overstimulted that anything freaking triggered me so hard,This thing is becoming the biggest obstacle in my spiritual journey.

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

I think I will do a complete video on this topic someday. For now, I have a few pointers I can give you about it. Here you go:
1. Limit your triggers, limit the time you spend on social media. Porn sites should be a strict no. Don't do anything that lowers your own self worth in your eyes.
2. Whenever you feel an urge rising, control your breath. Take a few deep breaths, and you will quite literally start to see the urge passing away.
3. Direct your urge towards a higher purpose. For eg - focus on having a stable, constant partner rather than giving in to momentary pleasures.
4. Unlearn the shame that surrounds sexual urges in your pscyhe. This is natural, you need not be ashamed of it. Focus on the above three points and try to be more conscious in directing your energy towards a higher/better purpose.
Hope this helps.

[@shubhamkumar-gh3ys]

It is very helpful for me.Thankyou for your love and Support ❤

[@taladasavithri]

Gd explanation Sir

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thanks. Glad this landed well with you!
Keep sharing the love! ✌️

[@taladasavithri]

Even i felt same feelings abt relationship. Then i read Gita and liberated my mind