I see aspects of this in my partner. He is a hard worker but was babied tremendously so always looks to others to save him from some of his bad decisions. I am the more solid of the 2 of us and I love him yet I do resent his lack of ability to lead. I am a strong woman but would appreciate the guidance of a strong man as well.
In my experience I have noticed that how ever one manipulated their parents, is how they expect to manipulate others, and it's comes as a Complete Shock when people won't put up with it.
I just found your videos and find this absolutely fascinating. More concrete examples would be helpful. Examples of "not engaging". Examples of how to communicate what you need to a partner without being controlling and at the same time respecting them.
Can you give a practical example of not accepting or putting boundaries up against the man’s tantrum or passive aggression, without being aggressive or too strict with them?
Wow Ive been in a relationship with a copper man for 15 years, ive been very patient and now I said I want peace and im not taking these tantrums so we will see if he evolves or not. Im so happy I saw this video, now it all makes sense. Thank you to both of you❤
God blessed me with you when I started asking questions about my relationship. Thank you for sharing your wisdom about man and woman. It is exactly what I have been looking for.
B4 11:10 BRAVO! So Wonderfully Refreshing to have a Man call this 💩 Out! Instead of women sitting around complaining Trying to Figure this out! And Yes, the wounded child, male or female Tantrums are 🙄 I'm So embarrassed when I catch myself 😲😣. Thank you So much for sharing, if only we had Men in our lives to guide us. My Uncle said that "Only a Man can make a man out of a boy, not a woman ".
These video lessons are very helpul, have seen a few now so firstly want to say thanks for making them. Am having trouble hearing Matthew speak somewhat more than Berdhanya. Can see you've both got the michrehpones on so not sure why Berdhanya's is picking up better than Matthews - please can you look into this and fix it as its important to me be able to hear you both equally clearly. X
I'm not sure if you are into astrology but I would LOVE to know your natal charts and the plantery dynamics between you guys ! I love all your topics and information ! Thank you so much for the work that you do !
B4 12:48; so in other words He's a Mirror 🪞 and You are scared of your own powers and are wishy-washy Or you'd Never put up with him. And even if you Appear to be a strong woman, you're uncomfortable with Your Strength or have not Stepped into Your own Sovereignty??? Am I following you correctly?
@@berdhanya Why? Why does power feel so scary or uncomfortable? Is it because it's unfamiliar? Aside from social programming & familiarity... Why do we forfeit our power? Yet there's so many Power Struggles in relationships. Does it take maturity to sustain the vibration, which otherwise feels uncomfortable? Why would we prefer a lower untrue state? Please 🙏🏻
@@createa.googleaccount713unhealed trauma. Also its multigenerational. Society is always asking for our power and people feel they must give their power away.
@@berdhanyaaside from recording location, perhaps some sound editing would help as well. I’d be happy to provide more info if you’d like. Thank you for the amazing insights with your talks ❤
I don't understand what people mean by "wokism" or woke culture. Are people referring to efforts to decrease racism and decrease prejudice towards LGBTQNB2S people? If so why are people calling that wokism and saying that it's not a good thing?
They are referring to the aspects of certain political agendas that are manipulative but disguise themselves as being empathetic or accepting. And they are using that as an example of the way a copper man may be unknowingly manipulated or compliant.
Well, it would be a good thing if they were genuinely doing that. But more often i see them doing shadowy things that dont really yield positive results. Often they worsen tensions between groups and project a lot of their own baggage onto others.
Wokism is the trend of people going through the motions of spirituality for klout or to appear progressive without actually growing spirituality. Example: Big corporations showing up at pride parades to sell more things to LGBTQ+ but never actually showing up as an actionable ally in any capacity
B4 2:24 Yes, it's true. As a woman I know I've been apologizing since the day I was born, Sorry I'm not the Boy you wanted... and have been walking on eggshells ever since
He cuts her talk so many times here is uncomfortable; the negationism about Covid and his small phrases about feminism… I guess it shows what type of men he is 😳
I see aspects of this in my partner. He is a hard worker but was babied tremendously so always looks to others to save him from some of his bad decisions. I am the more solid of the 2 of us and I love him yet I do resent his lack of ability to lead. I am a strong woman but would appreciate the guidance of a strong man as well.
In my experience I have noticed that how ever one manipulated their parents, is how they expect to manipulate others, and it's comes as a Complete Shock when people won't put up with it.
I just found your videos and find this absolutely fascinating. More concrete examples would be helpful. Examples of "not engaging". Examples of how to communicate what you need to a partner without being controlling and at the same time respecting them.
Noted
Can you give a practical example of not accepting or putting boundaries up against the man’s tantrum or passive aggression, without being aggressive or too strict with them?
Wow Ive been in a relationship with a copper man for 15 years, ive been very patient and now I said I want peace and im not taking these tantrums so we will see if he evolves or not. Im so happy I saw this video, now it all makes sense. Thank you to both of you❤
God blessed me with you when I started asking questions about my relationship. Thank you for sharing your wisdom about man and woman. It is exactly what I have been looking for.
Wonderful!
Great conversation, thank you! Can't wait to hear the rest of the series.
B4 11:10 BRAVO! So Wonderfully Refreshing to have a Man call this 💩 Out! Instead of women sitting around complaining Trying to Figure this out! And Yes, the wounded child, male or female Tantrums are 🙄 I'm So embarrassed when I catch myself 😲😣. Thank you So much for sharing, if only we had Men in our lives to guide us. My Uncle said that "Only a Man can make a man out of a boy, not a woman ".
avoid shaming yourself dear...
These video lessons are very helpul, have seen a few now so firstly want to say thanks for making them. Am having trouble hearing Matthew speak somewhat more than Berdhanya. Can see you've both got the michrehpones on so not sure why Berdhanya's is picking up better than Matthews - please can you look into this and fix it as its important to me be able to hear you both equally clearly. X
You're very welcome!
Thank you for this. Right on.
Love this info ❤
Glad you enjoyed!
I'm not sure if you are into astrology but I would LOVE to know your natal charts and the plantery dynamics between you guys ! I love all your topics and information ! Thank you so much for the work that you do !
Very interesting, thank you 👌
Glad you enjoyed it!
please upload other 2 parts..
B4 12:48; so in other words He's a Mirror 🪞 and You are scared of your own powers and are wishy-washy Or you'd Never put up with him. And even if you Appear to be a strong woman, you're uncomfortable with Your Strength or have not Stepped into Your own Sovereignty??? Am I following you correctly?
that is correct.! we fear our power, we prefer to hide under insecurities and mind stories.
@@berdhanya most helpful, thank you
@@berdhanya Why? Why does power feel so scary or uncomfortable? Is it because it's unfamiliar? Aside from social programming & familiarity... Why do we forfeit our power? Yet there's so many Power Struggles in relationships. Does it take maturity to sustain the vibration, which otherwise feels uncomfortable? Why would we prefer a lower untrue state? Please 🙏🏻
@@createa.googleaccount713unhealed trauma. Also its multigenerational. Society is always asking for our power and people feel they must give their power away.
Great knowledge but the background is very noisy
Noted
@@berdhanyaaside from recording location, perhaps some sound editing would help as well. I’d be happy to provide more info if you’d like. Thank you for the amazing insights with your talks ❤
How can I book a personal session with you?
yes dear, you can contact me by sending me a note to info@bioenergetics.ca
Where is the next part, please? The iron man?
Look in the playlist of relationships
yes. yes. yes.
I don't understand what people mean by "wokism" or woke culture. Are people referring to efforts to decrease racism and decrease prejudice towards LGBTQNB2S people? If so why are people calling that wokism and saying that it's not a good thing?
They are referring to the aspects of certain political agendas that are manipulative but disguise themselves as being empathetic or accepting.
And they are using that as an example of the way a copper man may be unknowingly manipulated or compliant.
Well, it would be a good thing if they were genuinely doing that. But more often i see them doing shadowy things that dont really yield positive results. Often they worsen tensions between groups and project a lot of their own baggage onto others.
Wokism is the trend of people going through the motions of spirituality for klout or to appear progressive without actually growing spirituality. Example: Big corporations showing up at pride parades to sell more things to LGBTQ+ but never actually showing up as an actionable ally in any capacity
Woke is/was was a word meaning ' conscious of the other ' as far as I know. That's a good thing.
B4 2:24 Yes, it's true. As a woman I know I've been apologizing since the day I was born, Sorry I'm not the Boy you wanted... and have been walking on eggshells ever since
Time to get out of the guilt zone.
He cuts her talk so many times here is uncomfortable; the negationism about Covid and his small phrases about feminism… I guess it shows what type of men he is 😳
Never judge the men for things like this.- Sorry you have this perception.