Your videos does wonders to the community! Your explanation is accurate. Dr. Small correction. It’s narcissism… not narcissim. Narcissistic personality disorder! Not narcisstic. Please don’t misunderstand for correcting 🌸
Madam, Narcissists have a fragile self-esteem and its not particularly low. They have a very high fragile self esteem. How it works is when we apply for a job we check if we meet the required relevant criteria. In cases when the N is male if he wants to apply for a car driver job with latest controls which requires a NVQ knowledge then he would still apply claiming that he has driven a lorry for 10 years then driving a car maybe nothing for him. They may feel insecure about not knowing the actual operating methods too. When it comes to Female narcissist she would apply for a job believing she can use a charm or create sympathy to get the job even when she is not competent or doesn't meet the requirement. Their self-esteem is indeed very high similar to the friend you were describing who was relating her appearance with the 20 year old model during 40s but its is a fragile high self-esteem. Its true both female and male NPD characteristics are interchangeable but mostly they are different. When both these are combined they become very dangerous. The combined state is rate is high among women than men. In our country it is very common to appoint these people on government sectors and make a politician. That is why we are at this point today. Narcissism indeed a self-defense mechanism developed by the child but why would a healthy parent led down their child like that? Some self-claimed private counselors were talking about how a child accidentally develop narcissism based on a traumatic incident. These were based on Bruce Lipton's gene theory in which he claimed that Darwin's evolution theory is wrong that gene carries one's fate. He was marked as a pseudoscience and his theories were wrong. You can confidently say that most of the time parents being narcissist are the reason why the child become narcissist. What are the exceptions? ASPD. The brain damage can be caused by nature and sometimes if parents were smoking during pregnancy then these things can have also have an affect. A good parents are most likely to raise good children and that can be said to true 95% of the time. Who are these bad children raised by good parents? Imagine praising the child way too much and giving everything they want. When they grow up they become lazy to go to work, they become less resilient and develop disorders like SUD. I don't know about the presence of mother in these cases (Emotionally disconnected mother). These cases are very rare and I am nor sure a person who is lazy, drinking, gambling, treating their parents with disrespect can be called a narcissist but he is extremely a bad person who can get very violent sometimes to get their needs done. They become a wild creature just like a narcissist but a narcissist is more like a poisonous snake. Outsiders don't notice anything because the narcissist is the first to lie about their family members, do smear campaigns and twist the reality of the victim so no one would believe him or her. So doctor, Narcissistic do score a high with self-esteem through psychological evolution. The phenomena you are describing is masking. People who mask narcissism are not narcissist but they are abuse victims. It is possible to recover from it. If you need more practical information about narcissism then please contact me. Doctor I don't doubt your qualifications or experience but in Sri Lanka it is always about destroying a good person right?
@@gajaweeradhammika1414 the best advice for an individual could be got if that person is seen by a qualified mental health professional such as a psychologist or psychiatrist.
Your videos does wonders to the community! Your explanation is accurate.
Dr. Small correction. It’s narcissism… not narcissim.
Narcissistic personality disorder!
Not narcisstic.
Please don’t misunderstand for correcting 🌸
Madam, Narcissists have a fragile self-esteem and its not particularly low. They have a very high fragile self esteem. How it works is when we apply for a job we check if we meet the required relevant criteria. In cases when the N is male if he wants to apply for a car driver job with latest controls which requires a NVQ knowledge then he would still apply claiming that he has driven a lorry for 10 years then driving a car maybe nothing for him. They may feel insecure about not knowing the actual operating methods too.
When it comes to Female narcissist she would apply for a job believing she can use a charm or create sympathy to get the job even when she is not competent or doesn't meet the requirement. Their self-esteem is indeed very high similar to the friend you were describing who was relating her appearance with the 20 year old model during 40s but its is a fragile high self-esteem.
Its true both female and male NPD characteristics are interchangeable but mostly they are different. When both these are combined they become very dangerous. The combined state is rate is high among women than men. In our country it is very common to appoint these people on government sectors and make a politician. That is why we are at this point today.
Narcissism indeed a self-defense mechanism developed by the child but why would a healthy parent led down their child like that? Some self-claimed private counselors were talking about how a child accidentally develop narcissism based on a traumatic incident. These were based on Bruce Lipton's gene theory in which he claimed that Darwin's evolution theory is wrong that gene carries one's fate. He was marked as a pseudoscience and his theories were wrong. You can confidently say that most of the time parents being narcissist are the reason why the child become narcissist.
What are the exceptions? ASPD. The brain damage can be caused by nature and sometimes if parents were smoking during pregnancy then these things can have also have an affect. A good parents are most likely to raise good children and that can be said to true 95% of the time.
Who are these bad children raised by good parents? Imagine praising the child way too much and giving everything they want. When they grow up they become lazy to go to work, they become less resilient and develop disorders like SUD. I don't know about the presence of mother in these cases (Emotionally disconnected mother). These cases are very rare and I am nor sure a person who is lazy, drinking, gambling, treating their parents with disrespect can be called a narcissist but he is extremely a bad person who can get very violent sometimes to get their needs done. They become a wild creature just like a narcissist but a narcissist is more like a poisonous snake. Outsiders don't notice anything because the narcissist is the first to lie about their family members, do smear campaigns and twist the reality of the victim so no one would believe him or her.
So doctor, Narcissistic do score a high with self-esteem through psychological evolution. The phenomena you are describing is masking. People who mask narcissism are not narcissist but they are abuse victims. It is possible to recover from it.
If you need more practical information about narcissism then please contact me. Doctor I don't doubt your qualifications or experience but in Sri Lanka it is always about destroying a good person right?
Ithamath vatinava digatama mevage video danna💯💫
preciously ❤
Good one ❤
bohoma stuti
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Thank you for being informative
Thank you doctor . Really important to know these things to understand people ..
If a 9 year kid shows such personality what can we do.. his father is narcissistic too..
@@gajaweeradhammika1414 the best advice for an individual could be got if that person is seen by a qualified mental health professional such as a psychologist or psychiatrist.
Thank you doctor if there any possibility to meet you with that kid..
@@gajaweeradhammika1414 there are psychiatry services in the government sector. And psychology and psychiatry services in the private sector
Thank you doctor when I was in the university came to you for counseling .. I know how greatly you did that.. thats why I try to send that kid also
Wooow good explanation... 👍
Comunist nowena samajyaka Oya Aya ibema bihiwenawa Neda .Adika tharagakari bawa Nisa ?
Thanks 🙏
ගොඩක් ස්තූතියි . හේතුවක් නැතිව එක දිගට මාස 3,4 ක් silent treatment දිමත් මේ වගේ අයගෙ ලක්ෂණ යක්ද? සම්බන්ධ තාවයක් තිබුණත් බැදීමක් නැති බව partner ට දැනීම.
Silent treatment දීමත් ලක්ෂණයක් වන්න පුළුවන්
Introvert kiyanneth mekamada?
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How do you deal with such a person?
Well its not easy. If possible, to either end the relationship or distance oneself, is one way to manage such a relationship
@@piyanjalidezoysa ❤️❤️❤️ your the one who change my mind to become a counselor I always remember you thankfully
Cât in the rain kiyana keti kathawa Gana tikak kiyanna ko
Madam oya narcissism kiyana word eka nasty kiyana word eken galapala aapu wachanayakda.. mata hithenawa mage spiuse ta me kiyana lakshana tiyanawa kiyala.. mama hugak hith wedanawen inna kenek.. wiwaha jeewithe thithhai.. widow kenek wage jeewithe gewanna wela tiyenne ... Harima dumin dawas yawanne
Neh narcissism nasty kiyana wachanayen apu ekak nowei
Feminists කියන්නේ ?❤
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ස්ත්රී පුරුෂ සමානාත්මතාවයේ පදනම මත කාන්තා අයිතිවාසිකම් වෙනුවෙන් පෙනී සිටින්නියක්
@@piyanjalidezoysa feminism ගැන වීඩියෝ එකක් කරන්න. හොද නරක දෙපැත්තම ගැන. 🙂
@@GBBro feminism කියන්නෙ psychological තත්වයක්වත් ,negative දෙයක් නෙමේ..කෙනෙක් කෙනෙක්ව පහත් කරද්දි ඒකෙනා ඒ කෙනාගෙ අයිතිවාසිකම් ගැන කතා කරන එක ලෙඩක් නෙමේ..ඒක ලෙඩක් වගේ පේනව පාගගෙන ඉන්න හදන පාර්ශවයට
"Naasi-sistik', "naasi-sism"
'Narcissism' is how it's spelled.