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  • @Daniel-xq7ny
    @Daniel-xq7ny 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Jen.. I got my results! So after 10 years of being exposed the a HIV positive women and still with her to this day. We sometimes had sex when she was in her periods, we had sex in all the positions, anal sometimes also, etc.. So its really hard to get it from a women, period! My results came back negative! So get off the women's back, they don't give HIV to men! Thanks

    • @shayhu101
      @shayhu101 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So glad to hear this Daniel. What country are you from? Jenny would be really glad. She told you mate! Happy for you.

    • @Daniel-xq7ny
      @Daniel-xq7ny 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@shayhu101 Im from Quebec, Canada

    • @shayhu101
      @shayhu101 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Daniel-xq7ny That is great. If I get you clearly, you had unprotected sex, even bloody, all through the ten years? Are you circumsized? Is her viral load high? Is she on drugs?

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So glad to hear and not surprised. So, just so it’s clear, she wasn’t on treatment that whole time? Because if she was on treatment, then her not transmitting is a moot point bc we already know that when someone living with HIV, who is on treatment, they won’t transmit anyway . Just want to make sure you meant the former.

    • @Daniel-xq7ny
      @Daniel-xq7ny 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Pozleigh Hi. No all these years, (10 years) she was not on treatment. She only started her treatment in April of this year 2024 and this after getting extremely sick of PCP pneumonia. Even weeks prior, we she had continually low grade fevers and cough and we had sex a few times. So I'm either really lucky, or its not given from women to men period.

  • @Jamesbond-m7t
    @Jamesbond-m7t 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I'm 100 days HIV negative test result but between those 100 days with sadness, regret, anxiety, depression and suicidal thoughts God i can't believe im still alive 🙏

    • @Superdog-e4n
      @Superdog-e4n 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bro i am having thoughts of death , feeling sad , stress , depression, i dont talk to anyone anymore i got 3 red bumps on thighs i did oral sex i will give me death if got positive

  • @AudibleQuran
    @AudibleQuran 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    You demolished my confusion; you don't know how much you helped me and saved my life from dying from anxiety. I love you! May god bless you

  • @PacinArcs
    @PacinArcs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    The most difficult part of the conversation around HIV is being honest - the strongest tool to fight stigma

    • @xyz-mc5of
      @xyz-mc5of ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And these men stop wh… around

  • @grassrootjames6092
    @grassrootjames6092 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Heterosexual male here, I had periods if night sweats, canker in my mouth and two er visit where i thought i was going to pass out. I have protected sex on the regular and unprotected sex with one female partner whom i trust for years. Thought i had HIV, test came back negative today. Turns out im prediabetic and dehydrated along with some anxiety. If you are a straight man only having sex with women, get tested but don’t stress over HIV. its low risk

    • @curious_thinker
      @curious_thinker 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are prediabetic? That in itself is a serious issue.

  • @ekezierichard2600
    @ekezierichard2600 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This is the kind of lady that should be giving the contract of awareness, i just found your channel and i subscribed immediately.

  • @meganjaeger3798
    @meganjaeger3798 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This very topic has been on my mind for YEARS!

  • @danapierce3139
    @danapierce3139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I am so glad your talking about this! I'm Hiv Negative but I still agree this needs to be put out there, people need to face the facts and honesty is key thanks so much!

    • @anthonymcken6050
      @anthonymcken6050 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with her. You stand a greater chance of catching gonorrhoea or chlamydia than HIV from a vagina.

  • @moshesamuels4820
    @moshesamuels4820 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    She's 100% correct. I'm living proof. Thank you God, and thank you Jennifer

    • @muhammeddondada683
      @muhammeddondada683 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please can you educate me from your story, cause I slept with Prostitute woman in last year may I'm feeling very sick but all my results were negative

    • @danieldominiak647
      @danieldominiak647 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can you explain?

  • @hossin9372
    @hossin9372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    OMG I’m relieved 😌and very grateful for the informations!👌🏾

  • @atrophyresurgence8007
    @atrophyresurgence8007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I admire your confidence and the fact that your so brave putting your face on camera to promote education on this sensitive topic god bless you

  • @towerofaluria1327
    @towerofaluria1327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    It's amazing how you put it that you have your support group of 160 women and that most doctors don't have that same exposure to patients, that you see the trends and how the virus is transmitted. It's mind blowing what you're doing ♥️

  • @jonathanoriki7463
    @jonathanoriki7463 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    For two years,I never wanted to check my status.I got the guts after watching this video and did the test yesterday.It's a NEGATIVE too🤗

  • @karakookabear
    @karakookabear 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Jennifer, the truth you are spreading is so enlightening. Working in healthcare, it is so important to have ACTUAL facts, so (I know I have said it a million times and will continue to say it) THANK YOU! And yes, WAKE UP! It needs to stop being such a taboo subject. I hope that day will come sooner rather than later so the truth is out there to the public.

  • @TheQueenB327
    @TheQueenB327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    These facts are so helpful and I adore how proud you are of who you are. I'm not HIV+ but I subscribed because of your pure authenticity. It is always women who are the devil in every situation, we are always to blame for EVERYTHING! You are positive and you know what you're talking about. I don't follow anyone else but you. Thank you for being beautiful, strong, and standing up for the truth......
    Love,
    Keli 💜⚘

    • @qjtvaddict
      @qjtvaddict 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s mutual tho

    • @SuperRobertoClemente
      @SuperRobertoClemente ปีที่แล้ว

      I do believe this is true, and I think it came out of a chapter in AIDS activism when no one was helping the gay community. By making it clear that anyone could get the virus-- which is technically true-- AIDS became the world's problem and not that of only the marginalized. But let's face it folks-- most people out there TRY to be safe, some of the time, and most people are NOT safe all of the time. It is no secret that condoms are awful, and huge numbers of people avoid them-- it's just the truth. If HIV transmission was easy for straight people, absolutely massive numbers of people would have died of AIDS well before the medication became available in 1996. I would have died-- several times over. And I was fucking terrified of AIDS. It didn't stop me from having unsafe sex with women. And it didn't stop most of you hets out there, either.

  • @Human927
    @Human927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    They'll probably come after you for saying this. You're such a sorted person and I wish people think as clearly as you do. More power to you; you're amazing!!

    • @neox9369
      @neox9369 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The matrix programmers will indeed to keep the sleep masses sleep.

    • @thecure3982
      @thecure3982 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There was an adult film star suicided for not wanting to sleep with men who dealt with other men...it is known it isn't coming from women.

  • @modalsoul6511
    @modalsoul6511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Hey I’m getting ready in take my HIV/ STI comprehensive test at the clinic in 15 minutes, I’m a 47 year old heterosexual man so I’m really hoping she’s right , and if all goes well I’m turning my life around immediately beginning today .. not just sex related… but in general… it’s time for a much needed change.
    Wish me luck guys.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You’ll be negative ♥️

    • @modalsoul6511
      @modalsoul6511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@Pozleigh hey sweetheart, I’m Negative 🙌🏼, so begins my new outlook on life

    • @modalsoul6511
      @modalsoul6511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@abdelgadiribrahim3158 I was negative my friend , I had no symptoms.

    • @rapperslifestyle2239
      @rapperslifestyle2239 ปีที่แล้ว

      what was the source of ur worry friend

    • @modalsoul6511
      @modalsoul6511 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rapperslifestyle2239 open book man ….….. messing around with meth prostitutes .

  • @ian2008931
    @ian2008931 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    For two years I was anxious about my HIV status, getting tested is most anxiety inducing feeling I had ever had, I wouldn't want to go through it again.

  • @0xnpctim
    @0xnpctim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I literally love you. You are so smart, funny and relatable.
    I can't put into words how much your videos have helped me.
    Thank you for publicly being yourself.

    • @tcdcoptions
      @tcdcoptions ปีที่แล้ว

      Ask for her numbers, I also want them

  • @jannmichaeluy4759
    @jannmichaeluy4759 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    good morning maam☺️☺️ thank you for the encouragement. i tested my self with an hiv test and it came in "C" meaning im negative. its a life changing. im heterosexual and its true that its very very low that a male could get it from a female. thank you soo much maam because of your youtube i had the encouragement to test myself and my doubts for how many years is over. thank you sooo much. its been heavy lately because so many symptoms appear and i thought that i had it for how many years. thank you and Godbless you. you had been an angel to me. you have given me the courage to test myself. thank you so much.❤

  • @trudyrichard8834
    @trudyrichard8834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I'm a nurse...love getting real facts!

    • @TheTechnocrat78
      @TheTechnocrat78 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@TheQueenB327 you are correct, women aren't the ones spreading HIV, it's bisexual men pretending to be straight...

    • @sherpaderpdingo3405
      @sherpaderpdingo3405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      As a nurse, you should know the difference between facts and anecdotes. Half of the things she said were blatantly false, from a medical perspective.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      As a nurse, you clearly don’t know much about HIV transmission. I took all my prerequisites for nursing and changed direction after my diagnosis. Your title does not in any way make you an HIV expert. My diagnosis and connection with the HIV community does.

    • @buzzinbee9463
      @buzzinbee9463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sherpaderpdingo3405 I work in a medical office and women have gotten it from women and men from women so i know it's very possible. It certainly may be less of a chance but 1% chance is still a chance. Definitely.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Women do not give it to women. I attend HIV conferences and this is a well known fact in the community.

  • @RickyRicardo422
    @RickyRicardo422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Your a beautiful person Jennifer and it’s hard for me as a 27 year old to cope with everything since recently being diagnosed with the virus. I must be one of the few guys to have actually contracted to virus from a female considering I’m heterosexual and have never been with another male or injected drugs before. I don’t blame no one but myself I just wish I wasn’t so unlucky in life. I just hope I can find the motivation to continue moving forward and see that their is a bright future that lies ahead. Please continue to post more videos.

    • @sunilshetty3722
      @sunilshetty3722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry if I hurt you, but have you used condom when you had sex. Like u contracted from unprotected sex or even from a protected one. Please say something. Stay strong and be happy as you have come through this channel. Follow everything suggested by her. I wish you gain all the strength needed to live the rest of your life happily despite the stigma. I recently lost a family member for this disease ( due to the stigma than the disease) because she started her medication in her last stage of the disease and don't know whether she adhered to the drug. Her husband also got infected. We believe he got infected from her, because at the time of their first diagnosis her cd4 was 215 and his was 900+ so we believe she was infected first. Anyway we lost her because she was scared to inform anyone though she may have known a little bit earlier and may be failed to adhere to the medicine after diagnosis.

    • @Rebecca.xoxoxo
      @Rebecca.xoxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Was she a trans woman? 👀

    • @abdelgadiribrahim3158
      @abdelgadiribrahim3158 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sunilshetty3722 hi what were their symptoms?

    • @charlieuchendu9541
      @charlieuchendu9541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sunilshetty3722 sorry for your loss, even he had gotten from the wife,it is still very possible that it wasn't through sex it could be blood exchange through cuts,or an opening during an injured case or so.Anthing could be responsible for it but can be easily blamed through sex.

    • @Human927
      @Human927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hmmmm interesting

  • @dilldowschwagginz2674
    @dilldowschwagginz2674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    You're right. I dated a woman who was HIV+ for over a year. She insisted on condoms at first but that didn't last. She knew she had it but didn't tell me. While although that was wrong of her to do, I can understand why she didn't disclose her status (fear, shame, guilt, etc). I found out a few years after we split up and was absolutely convinced I had contracted it. I went as far as telling my mother, my wife and my closest friends. After a blood test I was literally shocked to learn that I was HIV-. Female to male transmission is obviously not very likely.

    • @carlosquinto5126
      @carlosquinto5126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      thank you for sharing

    • @rdcb1057
      @rdcb1057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Thanks for sharing. How many "acts" you had with her? Was she on medication?

    • @dilldowschwagginz2674
      @dilldowschwagginz2674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@laurenstringer7109 you're absolutely correct. Before I got my test results I was in a completely different mindset about it (to say they least). I came of age in the 90's and back then we were taught that ANY unprotected sexual (or IV) contact with an infected person would surely result in transmission. I don't know how or why I didn't contract it but I did fall to my knees and ask God to spare my wife and children. Who knows why I was spared?

    • @dilldowschwagginz2674
      @dilldowschwagginz2674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rdcb1057 I honestly don't know if she was on meds. This occurred between 2006 and 2008 and i don't know what meds were available then. As far as "acts", I would guess somewhere around 70 (bare minimum) - 100 and that includes a few anals. I do know that she's still alive and seemingly well, so she has apparently got on medication at some point. And in case you were wondering - yes, she was extremely attractive and the picture of perfect health.

    • @rdcb1057
      @rdcb1057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dilldowschwagginz2674 thanks for sharing!

  • @StephenHartHartTalks
    @StephenHartHartTalks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Glad to hear you talking about it Jen! Keep up the good work. xoxo

  • @NEONOIRERA
    @NEONOIRERA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Wow this is crazy you’re so accurate

  • @78XT500
    @78XT500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    I am from South Africa, and I can tell you with absolute certainty that in Africa male/male sex is very frequent between “heterosexual” men. The men feel nothing about have sex with other men as a “fill in” while away from their women. They do not consider themselves “gay” at all, but will engage in m/m sex when away.
    I have frequently observed the same behavior with wealthy Arab men from Saudi Arabia, who travel with young men as travel companions, so that they are not seen to be “cheating” on their wives at home.
    It really is an odd observation to make from a western cultural perspective, but it is an unspoken and undocumented cultural characteristic behavior. Talking to local African men about this brings offense and they will vehemently deny that they are “gay”. Many will even threaten effeminate openly gay men, yet they have the same sexual behavior while away from home.
    You have touched on a very very important and unspoken aspect of HIV transmission in Africa.

    • @neox9369
      @neox9369 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Eligos Completely different cultures and linguistics. The people in the north particularly Morocco, Algeria, Tunisia and modern Egypt are very diluted and mixed. Most are of a Turkish, French and Roman ancestry but are Arabized or Muslims.

    • @jxsilicon9
      @jxsilicon9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      So they're Republicans?

    • @getusedtojuan5661
      @getusedtojuan5661 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      My thing is, can a man contract hiv by ONE Quick sexual encounter with a hiv possitive female?

    • @Mxl100
      @Mxl100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@getusedtojuan5661 its near impossible man. Look at simple example. When you got get tested why is it that hiv is addressed directly to the questions: have you had any homosexual acts?
      Have you used illegal drugs that included syringes?
      And even docs say its rare for hetrosexuals based on very low cases and even then whos to say they didnt take it up the bum or shared needles?

    • @getusedtojuan5661
      @getusedtojuan5661 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Mxl100 I think is strange how I went to get tested the other day and the question goes "have you had any sexual contact with another man?" I replied "not since my last two tests I haven't", and she wasn't very smart cause she said it doesn't matter when it only matters if I did... Dominican MD's got the mind of 5th graders.

  • @dilldowschwagginz2674
    @dilldowschwagginz2674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    You're an incredible woman. I hate that you are HIV+ but at least now there are drugs to help suppress the virus. It's refreshing to hear a lady speak her mind and not worry about who she may offend or which group of idiots on social media she may piss off. Incredibly sexy! I hope you live a long, happy life.

  • @solstratus8444
    @solstratus8444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It's really hard to find but the research is out there. You have to realize how charged the topic is and to find any truth in the topic requires so much searching

  • @Yohane350
    @Yohane350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Thank you so much.
    I was really worried that I caught it to the point of being depressed and crying these past few days. (Don’t have access to a car and can’t tell parents or they’d kick me out)
    I am really relieved and calmed after watching your video.

    • @shanninesirdine4051
      @shanninesirdine4051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I went through something like this a couple years ago thinking I had hiv and for 1 year straight I took hiv test every week.

    • @tengoodquestions
      @tengoodquestions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless you

    • @jazminecunningham5891
      @jazminecunningham5891 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Angel krishi first you need to go to hospital and get an immediate pills for exposure and stuff. Usually it’s for rape or medical doctors who get exposed it’s really expensive so I hope your prepared to take pay out of pocket ( mine was through rape so I got it for free) and they make you take it 30 days and then you get tested every few weeks. Not sure where you are but try an hiv clinic since it’s not a rape situation. And you should be fine. This happened about a year ago and I’m still negative actually pregnant now so. And please take prEP these men are nasty and trifling and he doesn’t care about you if he can neglect his own health. And FYI sex workers usually don’t do raw sex so he could be lying or a tinder hook up. But don’t trust him and leave his ass! He is dangerous !

    • @favourgabriel8335
      @favourgabriel8335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @HR Soniya I had the same encounter, but mine was different, the condom slipped off,I have been scared, checking if I can see any symptoms.

    • @generizze6243
      @generizze6243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@romannavarro1178 bro any update?

  • @sammitocomedy9890
    @sammitocomedy9890 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    I have had all hiv symptoms same with my girlfriend, she said she cheated not on me, it's about 170 days now but still test negative.
    I still have back pain, neck pain and noisy stomach.
    i pray life smiles to me at me again i have had the worst day of my life in the past 5 months.
    I literally can't run my bussineses anymore

    • @shayhu101
      @shayhu101 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You do not have it. 90 days is enough. Go to the hospital and get yourself checked. There is nothing wrong with you two. Probably anxiety and HIV phobia eating you up.

  • @mauricioprimus2610
    @mauricioprimus2610 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a wonderful, well-spoken, smart lady... I wish you and your loved ones all the best!

  • @euxellahlim2818
    @euxellahlim2818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think this is the answer to my question I have commented to one of your videos! Thank you

  • @krissiedavis9770
    @krissiedavis9770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    You’re so right. Ive been a nurse for 15 years...all the women I’ve taken care of with HIV have either contracted it from a needle or a man. Of the women that shared their story with me, with regard to getting it from their boyfriend/fiancé/husband, all found out that there men were with other men behind there back. One patient got her ex husband convicted in FL for knowingly giving it to her (she found out once pregnant with twins, she got him to admit to knowing and confessing how he go it). Working with OB/GYN we have to keep up on studies and research for patient teaching...and you are correct...the likelihood of a man contracting from a women via vaginal sex is very low.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Many have tried to silence me on this and I refuse to. Some men get mad and feel like I’m picking on bisexual men, but you know what happens when no one talks about it, women are blamed (we’re a scapegoat for their secrets). That’s why I won’t be silent. Thank you for your comment. 🙏🏼♥️

    • @raituphan5771
      @raituphan5771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Pozleigh go jennifer!! I'm a man and I support u on this!!

    • @cesaalmonte3778
      @cesaalmonte3778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@Pozleigh hey you have no idea how much weight was lifted off my shoulders with this one video. I owe it all to you!❤️

    • @hareeshmv1521
      @hareeshmv1521 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What about thru anal sex?

    • @freefighter465
      @freefighter465 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pozleigh thanks Jennifer . Can you please please please explain to me why hiv dosnt go up the male uritha . I'm close to suicide thinking about it

  • @shaun.p
    @shaun.p 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Very inspiring and educational. I love your positive energy ❤

  • @rynoitch6982
    @rynoitch6982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Very eye-opening and believable. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Danrockz777
    @Danrockz777 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you ! You explain everything better than my doctor. God Bless you ! Keep on the good work 💪

  • @lollypopdrop1802
    @lollypopdrop1802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Also in Africa there were instances of immunizations needles being reused. There are also recent cases of an HIV + MALE PHYSICIAN reusing contaminated needles on the Pakistan pediatric patients resulting in them getting the disease! I was a healthcare worker for several years and noticed the same things as you have noticed in this video! STAY STRONG and KEEP EDUCATING! :)

  • @Gundice_the_cryomancer
    @Gundice_the_cryomancer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    A brave and audacious woman...keep going strong.

  • @mickymac6571
    @mickymac6571 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You're beautiful inside and out, what an inspirational women.

  • @lw1524
    @lw1524 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When I first started being an Hiv instructor in the 1990's we were taught that it is hard for women to transmit. I am glad you touched on this secret sham to put it on women being the major transmitter

  • @MissSascha1986
    @MissSascha1986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Just started watching your videos and I have learned so much. I really do love you and admire your bravery 💜

  • @lepanhman
    @lepanhman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    25 years drunk & high as a dirty skunk I slept with a hooker unprotected while on holiday in Thailand .For years I was crapping myself that I was a gonner so much so I was scared for 6 months to get tested .The sexual encounter was brief & the hooker might not of been + but more then likely she would’ve been & I didn’t contract it .At the time psychologically I was sure I was + & was going to get sick & die ,.so much so that I made myself sick with worry .This video probably explains why I didn’t catch it back then

    • @sssppp263
      @sssppp263 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro did you test and if test than what's result?

    • @lepanhman
      @lepanhman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sssppp263 negative

    • @Insomani1277
      @Insomani1277 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sssppp263i think he is no more

    • @muhammeddondada683
      @muhammeddondada683 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Insomani1277how did you know that 😢

  • @louiseogrady9911
    @louiseogrady9911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You had a huge viral load too and you still didn't give it to him.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Yep. I know plenty of women who had viral loads in the millions and didn't transmit and we're talking years and years of exposure. It blows my mind that this isn't talked about more, it makes me koo koo.

    • @tieiatalks
      @tieiatalks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jennifer Vaughan I just had to politely put someone in their place on an ignorant comment. 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @ryanhailes9648
      @ryanhailes9648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      great video I think they dont bring this up because they still want people to be safe. if people knew this there wouldn't care as much

    • @GIZMOmcabr
      @GIZMOmcabr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@ryanhailes9648
      I think it's because they don't want to confront the uncomfortable fact that men are putting their female partners at risk by cheating with men.

    • @cheche3494
      @cheche3494 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i worry less now, jennifer im so worry thinking i have it becuz of some symptoms. scared to be test since im i arab country😢😢

  • @reyjeff4297
    @reyjeff4297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just love all the work that you put into your You Tube videos. Thank you

  • @trudyrichard8834
    @trudyrichard8834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    You look so pretty honey!

  • @tracey6577
    @tracey6577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Yessss!!! Thank you Jennifer!!! 💯💯

  • @lionhearttt3540
    @lionhearttt3540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I believe everything you have said. Statistics don't lie and you are living it you can speak with alot of knowledge on this

  • @michaelwalker8250
    @michaelwalker8250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    thank you. i've been thinking about this for a while.

  • @neverquit5822
    @neverquit5822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is groundbreaking. You’re right there’s no doctor who has such close access to 160 HIV positive women.

  • @LaserRifle
    @LaserRifle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I needed this today. I have health anxiety in regards to HIV. ❤

  • @ponting31
    @ponting31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Why didn't I watch this two weeks ago would have saved me 10 panic attacks. Getting tested tomorrow just to be sure, anyway I just donated to you based on the value of what you have shared here, voices of true reason are a rare find on the net.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🏼🙏🏼♥️♥️

    • @dominicaten9798
      @dominicaten9798 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pozleigh can I get hiv after a blowjob with a sex worker and I also noticed I had a pimple on my groin covered in vagina excretion which was intact not popped do you think it can enter.

    • @dominicaten9798
      @dominicaten9798 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@romannavarro1178 negative.

    • @statusqueen7300
      @statusqueen7300 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello so did u test positive or negative

    • @ponting31
      @ponting31 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@maw885 Yes it was negative

  • @MrSlash500
    @MrSlash500 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much, your video really helped with my anxiety. All my tests for hiv came negative, so relieved lol

    • @RomanG-wf7yh
      @RomanG-wf7yh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My ex girlfriend had hiv which is super rare. She got it from her gay best friend. She wasn't on medication and we slept together for 4 months before she knew her status. Your good dude im still negative

    • @MrSlash500
      @MrSlash500 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@RomanG-wf7yh Yeah thanks bro. My condom broke again with a sex worker after this but after 3 months my 4th generation test is negative. I always went to this video whenever I felt stressed

    • @demitriuswhite3191
      @demitriuswhite3191 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MrSlash500man I’m currently waiting on my results. I’ve been stressing for days and it’s taking a toll on me 😞

    • @MrSlash500
      @MrSlash500 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@demitriuswhite3191 I understand how you're feeling bro, it can be very stressful. The chances of getting hiv are extremely low so you most probably don't have it. Just take preventive measures for hiv in the future and practice safe sex 👍🏻

  • @Anaskhanartist
    @Anaskhanartist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hey, I pray for you.. Your TH-cam channel gave more power to you.

  • @drd6893
    @drd6893 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I work for the CDC, she's absolutely correct. It's very rare, but men, do not take that as you're okay to not use protection

    • @reyden5555
      @reyden5555 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks Dr kk. question what are the chances of a person contracting Hiv and not have any symptom?? is it common or rare??

    • @christrash5785
      @christrash5785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you actually work for the cdc?

    • @gglee3309
      @gglee3309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I’m sure you do lol

    • @joaquin2473
      @joaquin2473 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any credentials?

  • @Singleuntilmarried
    @Singleuntilmarried 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    People wanna blame women for everything, thanks for sharing your life and being open

  • @factorseries
    @factorseries 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We need to find an opportunity to learn about HIV and viral infection to know how risk is managed

  • @tieiatalks
    @tieiatalks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    About your glasses: Crizal lenses cut the glare from your lenses. ♥️

  • @jasonm1567
    @jasonm1567 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Everything you said makes absolutely perfect sense
    Unfortunately we are not being told the truth once again by our governments and media
    Thankyou!!!!

  • @louiseogrady9911
    @louiseogrady9911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I have been home for the past 12 years because I have such a phobia of germs, ECT. I've only left the house for doctors appts. You've given me the ability to live again. God Bless!

    • @bytonsertak3183
      @bytonsertak3183 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sperminator is coming!!!!

    • @bluekitty1183
      @bluekitty1183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you still have agoraphobia?

  • @mitya6568
    @mitya6568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Thank you Jennifer. I tested today negative with home test kit, i was in such depresion and headaches for days, i had anxiety to get tested. I am heterosexual but i slept with a lot of women, 99% used a condom, never had anal sex. Your videos helped me to buy a test on Amazon. Tonight it was clear red C line and no T line, i am so happy, going to enyoy this new year a lot. Thank you again for your honesty and suport.

    • @Maximus-g1c
      @Maximus-g1c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How lucky bastard you are!

    • @StaceySweetJones
      @StaceySweetJones 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As I read your comment I'm really considering BBFS with an Asian female SP

    • @gautambh375
      @gautambh375 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same bruvvv
      My friend had sex with many gals, even paid gals
      Bt i only had sex with 1 of them and i m worried af for 2 months than i tested and i m negative for now

    • @justforfun765
      @justforfun765 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@gautambh375for now?💀

    • @sssppp263
      @sssppp263 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gautambh375 bro is she a sex worker? You did with sex ?

  • @Kuzakistheone
    @Kuzakistheone 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hmm interesting video! You’re so very knowledgeable:) thanks for sharing!

  • @emmaphilo4049
    @emmaphilo4049 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for sharing your point of view. It's very interesting, take care!

  • @hyo58322
    @hyo58322 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I m a hetero and recently had condomless sex with an hiv+ woman , when i found out she was positive i went through depression couldn t eat or sleep for days and kept listening to ur video on a loop until i decided to get tested today , results are coming out soon i m not doubting u but i really hope i m fine

    • @hyo58322
      @hyo58322 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      YES ! I TESTED négatif, i should have listened to u earlier it would have saved me from all the anxiety, thank u sweetheart and thank god for this blessing

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @hyo58322 of course you did. I’m speak the truth.

    • @boogboog7067
      @boogboog7067 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@hyo58322bless up 💯

    • @t.h.3411
      @t.h.3411 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@Pozleigh hey leigh can i ask u question by phone?

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @t.h.3411 I answer questions through my IG DM @pozleigh after a payment is made for my service. linktr.ee/PozJenn

  • @ThatgirlLondon.
    @ThatgirlLondon. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I don’t care about homosexuality I feel like you love who you love you know... it’s okay but when you a down-low... that’s not right ! because it’s cases like me out there were the victims smh... thank you Jennifer for educating ppl (: Love you lots

  • @maxwellhunter8255
    @maxwellhunter8255 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video. Thanks for your bravery, sis. ❤️

  • @patiencekuehl7303
    @patiencekuehl7303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am HIV positive and you have helped me alot

    • @NeroMC
      @NeroMC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How did you get infected?

  • @joeyturbo4581
    @joeyturbo4581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you for making this video Jennifer. My girlfriend of 3 and half years was diagnosed with HIV in 2001 and her viral load has been undetectable well before she even met me( I think around 10 years). We have unprotected sex all the time and she assured me that she can't transmit it. I feel healthy as a horse and have never had any symptoms.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      She’s 100% right because she’s undetectable, but truly the point of my video is how rare it is for a woman to transmit with a detectable viral load. 🌷♥️

    • @Mylife-yd9xq
      @Mylife-yd9xq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Pozleigh so sorry to ask but I'm really afraid and I just recently sleeped with a woman which is a street lady in los angeles she is very young 26yrs old I didn't know she was lactating but I got some milk in my mouth didn't injest it I spit it out do you think there's s possible chance of getting HIV?

    • @abdelgadiribrahim3158
      @abdelgadiribrahim3158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mylife-yd9xq hi bro did you get tested?

    • @Mylife-yd9xq
      @Mylife-yd9xq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abdelgadiribrahim3158 yes I did I will be getting my results tomorrow and will update if I am negative I still am going to test myself once more just to make sure it's been 68 days from possible exposure and today I had the worst headache I felt in a while it started a few days ago I also had swollen tonsils for about a month but they seemed to go down a bit.

    • @abdelgadiribrahim3158
      @abdelgadiribrahim3158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mylife-yd9xq I wish goin to be negative.. did you have neck lymph nodes? Skin issue ?

  • @LA-rz2lc
    @LA-rz2lc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    That is what I am saying since 2005 ! A doctor in France told me that the odds of getting it from a woman are astronamically uncommon in industralized countries. He also told me that the 1 in 2500 odds (odds in 2005 were 1 in 2000 before they were updated) are biaised by guys who deny other risks factors, and that most (he later stated maybe all) of heterosexual men cases are not classified that way if you investigate. When I said that in class in 2005, people told me that it was criminal to say that. I hope that they are now watching your video. Big kisses !

    • @TonyFontaine1988
      @TonyFontaine1988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Chicago Typerider the anal cavity iz not the same as the vaginal. And receptive sex is not the same as insertive. That is explained in the video.... How do you not understand that?

  • @Sonia-cs2vw
    @Sonia-cs2vw 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are telling the 100% Truth!!! Please CONTINUE to speak on this topic!!!!!! I ❤ it! It is time the truth is told.

  • @Luxurycars974
    @Luxurycars974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please mention ur organization in every video so that we can donate some money because ur educating lots of people
    Thanks to u 🙏 for ur efforts

  • @Factsunite
    @Factsunite 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hii Leigh 4th generation test after 60 days of exposure non reactive but I have some symptoms wet cough sore throat runny nose mild white tounge 😢

    • @Gamer123-s7n
      @Gamer123-s7n 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Dont over think!

  • @lppl3308
    @lppl3308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much very educational.. now I can have a goodnight rest.. God bless you

  • @dsy1180
    @dsy1180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    💯 keep doing your job Jennifer there will always be people who just disagree and not know the reality of it

  • @cmb0256
    @cmb0256 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Question.. male performing oral on female.. no known sores or bleeding.. what is the likelhood of transmission? Performed only for less than 2 mins possibly less

  • @kennonpatton7347
    @kennonpatton7347 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    My Girl is positive . On no meds for almost 3 years. I thought I would test positive. Nope!!! 2 negative test! 1 71 days after the last time We had sex. Then another 91 days after last sex act. I bought and took oraquick mouth saliva test. Both negative. Honestly everything You say about women to straight Men is true in My case.I still have huge anxiety tho. Plz reply as You did. I’m trying to get My Girl and I a support group. God sparred Me to help Her. I believe You can help Us. God Bless You Jen!!!#YOURHELPN!!! Thanks

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yep Kennon, you two will be fine. Please don't stress, she's a woman AND undetectable! Full proof 100%. Support groups are mainly online, tons through Facebook. Thank you for the sweet comment. So glad you saw this video, I hope more do so they truly get how transmission works.

    • @kennonpatton7347
      @kennonpatton7347 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Jennifer Vaughan Bless You Jen. You must’ve known I was having anxiety already today. Already You’ve helped.

    • @cjcooper8836
      @cjcooper8836 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      kennon patton still negative ?

    • @MrFernandorrn
      @MrFernandorrn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hi can you explain me better about this? I had sex with a girl without a condom and I'm suspicious that this girl has hiv, do you think there is a possibility of me contracting the same that has not had anal sex? vaginal and oral sex only

    • @accord9535
      @accord9535 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrFernandorrn so did u find out?

  • @theswillz3456
    @theswillz3456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm reading through these comments for HIV + heterosexual male who was infected boy a woman to show himself; I'm not seeing him. And it's interesting how those HIV drug commercials always target Gay/BI men... hmmm - This must be a fact

  • @xoxo20000
    @xoxo20000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I remember a doctor told me that men are the ones who carry all these STDs but show no signs a lot of times. Makes me think about hpv and how there doesn't seem to be a way to test men like they can test women. HIV/Aids definitely got it's big start with man on man sex.

    • @jazminecunningham5891
      @jazminecunningham5891 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hpv was only men at first when it came out! And yep it’s facts it’s really hard to pass it to a man.

    • @xoxo20000
      @xoxo20000 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@jazminecunningham5891 that's very scary

    • @valentinewai4638
      @valentinewai4638 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yea because your that doctor is a female

  • @kamogelochego2950
    @kamogelochego2950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a relief after watching this video

  • @monicaheal
    @monicaheal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow, I would never know this had I not stopped by your channel...amazing what we don't know.

  • @foxmulder4494
    @foxmulder4494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    HIV is very strange disease. Very complicated and mysterious. Almost 30 years after the damn thing was discovered, we still don’t quite understand what makes it tick. You look great and I am glad and happy to see you are doing well. Best wishes to you.

    • @NeroMC
      @NeroMC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      40 years

  • @quruxcafimad5117
    @quruxcafimad5117 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    that's true, HIV is very high in gay community and I believe most women got it from downlow men. HIV actually started in gay community and later went to heterosexual community through bisexual men. I live in Africa and there are alot of gays undercover who have sex with married men and bisexual men. If you are gay and bottom the chances of getting are super high.

    • @georgejuravlel1352
      @georgejuravlel1352 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wtf is downlow?

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  ปีที่แล้ว

      Google it

    • @georgejuravlel1352
      @georgejuravlel1352 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pozleigh ok

    • @georgejuravlel1352
      @georgejuravlel1352 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Leigh you make me feel relieved about my future girlfriend

    • @madirishgirl76
      @madirishgirl76 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @qurnxcafi.ad5117 aids didn't start off as a gay disease what a v v ignorant comment to say educate yourself anybody can get it. Stupid thing to say aids was spread through bisexual men. There is more than 1 way to get it but you know that yes? Course you did ignorant dumbass

  • @kingkem_113
    @kingkem_113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As a man I appreciate this honestly I had no idea I will continue to educate other hetero males fr fr.

  • @riase
    @riase 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So informative! I had no idea. Thank you for educating us.

  • @fernandoalcantar4
    @fernandoalcantar4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was addicted to cocaine and when I had the effect of cocaine on my body I did a lot of crazy things and one of those crazy things was having sex with crack users and all of them were without a condom, there were several of them over a period of 10 years and my HIV tests They were always negative, I didn't have anal sex and the women were never menstruating and I don't have phimosis. I think the information in this video is true. I gave my statement because I believe that reports in videos like this are very important for gathering statistics.

    • @Pravinphadnis0
      @Pravinphadnis0 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      are you circumcised or uncircumcised?

  • @tommycoe2333
    @tommycoe2333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Good info. And I agree with everyine else, you're gorgeous inside and out.

  • @avasinha9187
    @avasinha9187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U r so positive and give hope to everyone Ty .. ❤️❤️❤️ u r God sent❣️

  • @johnkelly1646
    @johnkelly1646 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This lady has done more for people than the billions of dollars of funding Sex Ed from the American school system ever has !! Props

  • @ItsNishaLaurenWest
    @ItsNishaLaurenWest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I just want to say idk how I found your channel but learning your story and learning about u has opened my eyes. I’m 24 so I’m part of this “generation” that’s very reckless. I’ve never been in this situation but I was sexually assaulted that made me shy away from sex & just overall be more protected with my body. what I’ve noticed over the years a lot of men are on the downlow even in my generation.

    • @originalman3843
      @originalman3843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol over the “years”age 24

    • @Rebecca.xoxoxo
      @Rebecca.xoxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@originalman3843 are you down playing her experience because if her age? 24 is old enough to have experienced some things

    • @beatricedevarenne2621
      @beatricedevarenne2621 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Im in my 30’s and the amount of down low men is disgusting! They literally are killer in disguise

  • @leogirl77
    @leogirl77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for speaking up for us and educating people.. 💙

  • @melissahardy9228
    @melissahardy9228 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree 100% jennifer.
    Dont blame the women. Thank you jennifer❤️🤝

  • @enriquet4083
    @enriquet4083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you ,you gave mental peace😪

  • @prasantadey4257
    @prasantadey4257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    U r a brave heart... Salute to u sister... Love and good wishes from India...

  • @Relentless_Games
    @Relentless_Games 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She's absolutely right, (I speak from my own experiences)

  • @davidprice4777
    @davidprice4777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you and stay healthy and keep people inform!You are co,Female to Male HIV Transmission is so rare!I thank God that I am HIV Negative (Celibate Heterosexual male for 7 years.)The Down Low is real in Atlanta, Ga.Women get blamed!❤

  • @sarvar8795
    @sarvar8795 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are like “Angel” for me, love u♥️

  • @alexsanchez4553
    @alexsanchez4553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Please don't forget men who are circumcised penis it helps prevent HIV transmission too

  • @marthleon1715
    @marthleon1715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    hope this is true. in the process of getting tested as google has been scaring the shit out of me stating my symptoms are linked to hiv. I have had unprotected sex im jus hoping its something else. prayers 🙏 🙏 🙏

    • @miguelmumba7391
      @miguelmumba7391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same for me ! Did u get tested yet ?

    • @omgitsabean15
      @omgitsabean15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how did it go

    • @thevillagehiddeninthehood1573
      @thevillagehiddeninthehood1573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How’d it go?

    • @Andrink
      @Andrink 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How did it go for you, mate?. I hope things are going well there, and hoping it was negative!.
      I had intercourse six days ago and can't even sleep due to the stress. She was very promiscuous as I've found out, and when I asked her if she was "clean" she said "I don't know, I don't care right now". Which makes it tougher...
      I hope you can give us an update, as I'm going through the very same thing right now...

    • @RaySMants
      @RaySMants 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Andrink hope everyone’s okay

  • @ashleydillashaw3545
    @ashleydillashaw3545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very well said!! 💜

  • @wadiejoundi
    @wadiejoundi ปีที่แล้ว

    I literally love you. You are so smart, funny and relatable.
    I can't put into words how much your videos have helped me.
    Thank you for publicly being yourself.

  • @kivumbijoseph6397
    @kivumbijoseph6397 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Unbelievable yet true.