I end up doing a dare my freinds did, and up asking two girls out one the other day. got rejected twice. the weird thing is, is tht am still kind of nervous to go for the third
@@ShaddyRaddyWorldMusici dont think ambiverts exist. of course you can be balanced, but cognitively speaking you can only be introverted or extroverted.
I'm only an Introvert because I struggle with communication sometimes, my mind might go blank or I forget what I want to say then I just look stupid and I don't bother
Really good video Austin being an introvert and everything you said I completely relate to. For me though to be honest, I have kinda just accepted that my dating life won’t be the same as a similar guy to me who is more extroverted and I think that is totally ok. I find it is really important to put your energy in the right places and trying to be something you are not is exhausting to say the least. You can still have a good dating life as an introvert absolutely and being attractive helps, but for me at least it takes a lot out of me to try and be something I’m not and it makes me feel worse.
Im 23 and I've always been an introvert throughout my life and I'm still one. From grade school to high school, I've always been a quiet black guy but I always noticed that some women took interest in me. They would always try to bump into me or try to physically interject themselves into my view. I didn't get much attention from girls at the time until my early 20s is when i started learning how to groom myself with a skincare routine and grooming products. I noticed more glances and atrraction towards me from so much women. It makes me uneasy sometimes 😂😂
@@kxfromga5359 My eyes are big and has feminine features. When I curl my eyelashes, it makes my eyes look pretty. Having nice eyes and clear skin is a good combo for looksmaxxing.
@@kxfromga5359 It's basically a eye curler that makes your eyes stand out. There's loads of videos that discuss about eye curling and how your eyes are one of the most important features for facial attraction.
Good tip: before making ur presence online make sure ur at ur highest potential before u present urself because the average man ain’t cutting it! Ur fashion, ur body, ur grooming, and ur pictures have to all be on point!
Also a positive, when an introvert tends to open up and form a relationship, it is most likely a very deep and strong one. Ladies give us a chance😂🎉 great tips and vid
I generally get the comment ‘you have a quiet confidence’ but yeh I don’t like the attention and would rather people just leave me alone to do my own thing🤣
I’m introverted as fuck but fit…so I’ll get the choosing signals but I don’t follow up on them. It’s only when I’m drunk that I start hooking up with multiple chicks in the club in one night
Felt this in my soul. Ill be looking away from the choosing signals bc I’m not as comfortable with in person pick up I usually stick to dating apps. But once that liquid courage is in you……😂
Nice Man,Really really nice Austin,in a way, you're making me more comfortable being an introvert not because of the lazy part but because now I understand I can make moves to get what I want even being introverted
This is the right video for me cause I don't seem to care if I'm lonely or not. It would be nice to interact with people/ women every once and a while even though I don't really care lol.
There are women for whom it is also important to have time for solitude. You will probably be in harmony with this one. You've just met the wrong ones so far.
Yes dude that’s exactly how I feel when I ever hang out with a gym bro and after we hung out I’ll go home and I won’t see them until a few months have past by is not a whole year for me to get my mind ready for the next meet up. Pisces are like this I don’t believe is z signs but some things of what read about my sign which is Pisces I LOVE being alone.
In was an introvert as a kid, as an adult I'm definitely an extrovert or ambivert. I like going on but sometimes I'm out and enjoying the vibe and don't want to socialize
Great video Dunham. I like these types of videos over the reaction ones- these informative vidoes help out your game 1000× more. Thanks peace and prosperity guys.
Hanging around extroverted people help you become an outgoing introvert and that Yin Yang analogy is so true. I find extroverted women more attractive than introverted women even if she might be a 9 or 10.
It comes down to being a hybrid nowadays, you’ll waste countless opportunities with potential dates because you can’t convey how you feel to women which in turn keeps you locked to yourself for the foreseeable future unless you learn to unlock the mental burden keeping you at bay.
I put myself out there, and I got SA'D by two guys. I also have CPTSD which makes me think everyone wants to attack or hurt me except for like two people or they really have evil intentions. I might go to my bootcamp for fitness and work and that's about it. It sucks, but I've learned to cope and live my life to the fullest the best I can.
8:15 straight facts. You are literally casting a wide net with a filter weeding out the women who dont genuinely desire you. The ones that do come to you or show signs. Its on us to act!
So here's the thing. I'm introverted, but I hate drinking (I need 6 to 8 drinks within an hour just to get a buzz) and I don't like most clubs (the music is shit) Raves and concerts are more my vibe. What would be an optimal online strategy for someone like myself?
Its interesting. I like your content really much. In the past i dont connect to such content. I m introverted too. Maybe kind of the same view on the world. Keep up your good work.👍
Keep it up bro you talking to a lot of souls there are 2 sides to every coin not all humans are extroverts and it's not a bad thing that's what makes the world
Much of the time we are not as introverted as we actually are, but our brain needs a dopamine detox. We favor much faster pleasure sources compared to more long term and more rewarding ones. When we are getting fast dopamine, chances are we are not going to be interested in socializing. Cut out fast dopamine hits.
My problem is that whenever I attract a female I like, they send me choosing signals but I overthink and never make a move. The girl eventually gets bored or gets approached by another dude. How can I overcome self doubt?
Wow this was actually very helpful and insightful advice. Thank you for this 💯I was legit expecting the video to be: "How To Attract More Women As An Introvert: Step 1: Stop being introverted Step 2: Be extroverted Done." 🤣 Like just about every other youtuber who speaks on this topic.
27 years 2 body count only, i look good and have a insanely goos body, but idk where to start, my problem is since i was a kid i was kept away from people and never really did socialize as a kid and when i grew upp i had the mindset i need nobody, sometimes i feel like a huge loser maybe I am :(
Social media and dating apps have never worked for me, especially tinder, bumble, and hinge. Went to Nashville and Hawaii alone with no success. At best I'll get a girls number from a cold approach and blow it within a couple text. Getting girls is impossible
Didn’t realize how quite you were until the last time you were on fresh and fit 😂 nothing wrong with that just an observation I would of loved to see you spit some game to the women becuase you seem smart
Looksmaxxing is an introverts way of life. I know unattractive guys who are extroverted who would never go into monk mode to looksmaxx, would never use online dating and would rather keep constantly socializing and relying on cold and warm approach. They end up in a hundred friend zones.
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I end up doing a dare my freinds did, and up asking two girls out one the other day. got rejected twice. the weird thing is, is tht am still kind of nervous to go for the third
I’m a half introvert myself, it can make you be more mysterious and woman will value your time more when y’all finally talk
half introvert?
@@Sheed96 ➡️Ambivert. I’m the same way too
@@ShaddyRaddyWorldMusici dont think ambiverts exist.
of course you can be balanced, but cognitively speaking you can only be introverted or extroverted.
@@ShaddyRaddyWorldMusic no in aware of the term but that's some bs
It only makes you more mysterious to women if they find you attractive
I can be an introvert OR an extrovert. Depends on the day and the situation.
I'm only an Introvert because I struggle with communication sometimes, my mind might go blank or I forget what I want to say then I just look stupid and I don't bother
Really good video Austin being an introvert and everything you said I completely relate to. For me though to be honest, I have kinda just accepted that my dating life won’t be the same as a similar guy to me who is more extroverted and I think that is totally ok. I find it is really important to put your energy in the right places and trying to be something you are not is exhausting to say the least. You can still have a good dating life as an introvert absolutely and being attractive helps, but for me at least it takes a lot out of me to try and be something I’m not and it makes me feel worse.
Facts bro! Your Extroverted friends are your gateways to meeting new people.
Im 23 and I've always been an introvert throughout my life and I'm still one. From grade school to high school, I've always been a quiet black guy but I always noticed that some women took interest in me. They would always try to bump into me or try to physically interject themselves into my view. I didn't get much attention from girls at the time until my early 20s is when i started learning how to groom myself with a skincare routine and grooming products. I noticed more glances and atrraction towards me from so much women. It makes me uneasy sometimes 😂😂
Keep walking bro and u must have those dreamy eyes like I do because people tell me I look tired or bored
@@kxfromga5359 My eyes are big and has feminine features. When I curl my eyelashes, it makes my eyes look pretty. Having nice eyes and clear skin is a good combo for looksmaxxing.
@@icarus387 I never heard of lash curling
@@kxfromga5359 It's basically a eye curler that makes your eyes stand out. There's loads of videos that discuss about eye curling and how your eyes are one of the most important features for facial attraction.
@@icarus387 the closest I can do is eyeliner or see thru shirts but I will check some videos
Good tip: before making ur presence online make sure ur at ur highest potential before u present urself because the average man ain’t cutting it! Ur fashion, ur body, ur grooming, and ur pictures have to all be on point!
Also a positive, when an introvert tends to open up and form a relationship, it is most likely a very deep and strong one. Ladies give us a chance😂🎉 great tips and vid
Yeah, I'm not a serial killer cause I'm organized and quiet. 😅
You guys sound so pathetic lol. Most of y’all aren’t introverted. You’re antisocial.
“Ladies give us a chance” stop looking for validation. That’s low value behavior.
@@johannsebastianbach3501 trust me I meant that in a poking fun/joking tone, I agree with you
@@johannsebastianbach3501 chill out. You’re overcompensating
I generally get the comment ‘you have a quiet confidence’ but yeh I don’t like the attention and would rather people just leave me alone to do my own thing🤣
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When I needed this the most ! Being a full introvert . I can say Austin is stating facts!! Hopefully this info will help me now henceforth
I’m introverted as fuck but fit…so I’ll get the choosing signals but I don’t follow up on them. It’s only when I’m drunk that I start hooking up with multiple chicks in the club in one night
Foreal! That’s alcohol have you feeling like Jesus 😂
Felt this in my soul. Ill be looking away from the choosing signals bc I’m not as comfortable with in person pick up I usually stick to dating apps. But once that liquid courage is in you……😂
Seems interesting
@Nocapper why the haircut explain?
Nice Man,Really really nice Austin,in a way, you're making me more comfortable being an introvert not because of the lazy part but because now I understand I can make moves to get what I want even being introverted
This is the right video for me cause I don't seem to care if I'm lonely or not. It would be nice to interact with people/ women every once and a while even though I don't really care lol.
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Introvert here, I've been struggling to reconcile my love for solitude with my desire to socialize with women and just people in general, it's rough
Just go out and see things you’ll eventually run into women u don’t even gotta go out ..
There are women for whom it is also important to have time for solitude. You will probably be in harmony with this one. You've just met the wrong ones so far.
I wish I had guidance like this when I was younger, since I'm a natural introvert myself. Struggled to actually have a dating life back then.
Don’t know your age but it’s never to late brother
Im an introvert but have no issues socialising when i feel like it lol
This makes alot of sense 💯
Yes dude that’s exactly how I feel when I ever hang out with a gym bro and after we hung out I’ll go home and I won’t see them until a few months have past by is not a whole year for me to get my mind ready for the next meet up. Pisces are like this I don’t believe is z signs but some things of what read about my sign which is Pisces I LOVE being alone.
In was an introvert as a kid, as an adult I'm definitely an extrovert or ambivert. I like going on but sometimes I'm out and enjoying the vibe and don't want to socialize
Keep vibing bro
3:57 10000% relatable, I don't even use social media, great advise, I'm gonna step up my social media game
Being an introvert sucks asf .... In the past few months I've been forcing myself to be social
never force yourself to do anything if they don't want you they can stay where they at
Being an introvert is a blessing. Women are attracted to mystery
@@ShaddyRaddyWorldMusic only if you have the looks to go with it.
@@Sheed96 what’s wrong with forcing yourself to be social? It’s important to get out of your comfort zone
@@lookunderyourtable8503 only if you're doing it for others not because you want to be social and talk but... do you fr
Austin , you’re really a G. And you’re still young bro.💯💯👊🏾
Being a introvert makes you more mysterious to women like AMS said the less you say the better
***if you are attractive.
Its so funny you said this because literally yesterday I was thinking about everything you said lol
The last explanation is definetly me I used to be a introvert but I learned how to talk to people and they think I am a extrovert
I would have never guessed you’re an introvert 😮
Great Video. This will be my bible to networking and people shopping
Notification gang
Well explained Austin...
U are a big inspiration bro keep doing what you doing
Another tip is overtimre create your own world full of the type of ppl you want around .
Great video Dunham. I like these types of videos over the reaction ones- these informative vidoes help out your game 1000× more. Thanks peace and prosperity guys.
Hanging around extroverted people help you become an outgoing introvert and that Yin Yang analogy is so true. I find extroverted women more attractive than introverted women even if she might be a 9 or 10.
But probably more trouble
@@dennisrobinson8008 yeah for me an extroverted women is just annoying and a red flag.
@@loverofhumanity lol. I heard you.
@@loverofhumanity You like an attractive but quiet woman who doesn't need or want extra attention. She's probably very thoughtful and kind.
@@dennisrobinson8008 exactly 💯💯.
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It comes down to being a hybrid nowadays, you’ll waste countless opportunities with potential dates because you can’t convey how you feel to women which in turn keeps you locked to yourself for the foreseeable future unless you learn to unlock the mental burden keeping you at bay.
Video I never thought I needed.
I put myself out there, and I got SA'D by two guys. I also have CPTSD which makes me think everyone wants to attack or hurt me except for like two people or they really have evil intentions. I might go to my bootcamp for fitness and work and that's about it. It sucks, but I've learned to cope and live my life to the fullest the best I can.
Man!!! you speaking to me.
always here
They don't just get drained in social gathering. It is draining to be online as well.
Nah online is super easy, I can just do whatever I want and just say a few words and not worry about anyone looking at me.
Please do a vid about going out to clubs etc solo. I always feel weird, including like an actual weirdo, doing it
That’s a fact too if you have a good presentation wit how you dress/smell/act people will approach you, women be looking even when you think they not
If you're actually good looking, yea lol
They will definitely look yeah
8:15 straight facts. You are literally casting a wide net with a filter weeding out the women who dont genuinely desire you. The ones that do come to you or show signs. Its on us to act!
So here's the thing. I'm introverted, but I hate drinking (I need 6 to 8 drinks within an hour just to get a buzz) and I don't like most clubs (the music is shit) Raves and concerts are more my vibe. What would be an optimal online strategy for someone like myself?
Austin Whaddup!
0:24 "there are two coins to the side" lmao
Its interesting. I like your content really much. In the past i dont connect to such content. I m introverted too. Maybe kind of the same view on the world. Keep up your good work.👍
“There are two coins to the side” 😂😂😂
Was that by accident?
😂😂😂
Awesome content.
Keep it up bro you talking to a lot of souls there are 2 sides to every coin not all humans are extroverts and it's not a bad thing that's what makes the world
Really good video, Im Ready
This beat go hard!
In your experience Austin do you have a better experience with introverted women or extroverted women?
theres two coins to the side. Gotta remember that
Lool i caught that too.
😂😂😂😂😂
Step 1: be attractive
Yup even with being introverted that still applies I’m afraid
Much of the time we are not as introverted as we actually are, but our brain needs a dopamine detox. We favor much faster pleasure sources compared to more long term and more rewarding ones. When we are getting fast dopamine, chances are we are not going to be interested in socializing. Cut out fast dopamine hits.
Legend 🐐
My problem is that whenever I attract a female I like, they send me choosing signals but I overthink and never make a move. The girl eventually gets bored or gets approached by another dude. How can I overcome self doubt?
Stop being afraid of rejection it’s gone happen get comfortable with it
Thats me i dont mind being alone.
2 coins to the side is now the new way of saying it let’s go
Wow this was actually very helpful and insightful advice. Thank you for this 💯I was legit expecting the video to be:
"How To Attract More Women As An Introvert:
Step 1: Stop being introverted
Step 2: Be extroverted
Done."
🤣 Like just about every other youtuber who speaks on this topic.
Step 0: be good looking
Me having a limited social battery sucks and im an introvert who wants to meet more women. I just need to find them in the right places
'2 coins to a side' huh 😂
Thank you, good video
Keeping tabs
Snapple facts again
27 years 2 body count only, i look good and have a insanely goos body, but idk where to start, my problem is since i was a kid i was kept away from people and never really did socialize as a kid and when i grew upp i had the mindset i need nobody, sometimes i feel like a huge loser maybe I am :(
how did you got a gf ?
27 years and never ever had a girl... So dont be sad.
It’s interesting to hear the pov of a man who’s an introvert. As a woman, I’ve definitely experienced some of the same things. Anyways great video!
Step 1: look like a supermodel
Here early
0:24
"There are two coins to the side." 🤫
Step 1: Be Attractive
Step 2: Don't say anything
Step 3: ?
Step 4: profit
Money grab Romeo
@@Jacob-nu4nd ITS OVER
Austin, I live in Tampa, how do we meet up and chill in Orlando?
"in order to acquire woman" nice
Shit made me laugh lmao
Do a live Q and A
Have you ever done a video talking about darkskin man?
My extroverted friends damn near used to scoop girls for me 😂 my boy would really throw alley oops all I had to do was finish
Two sides of the coin****. You said two coins to the side lol. But I gotcha.
Shout out to the Introverted Extroverts!
Facts 🔥🔥
whats your MBTI personality type Austin?
I don't know why im watching this,but i still do
10:06 Words of wisdom
handsome introvert here
my only friend doesn't invite me anywhere anymore cuz all the girls like me so no number 2 for me😅
You have to hang with ppl in your tribe other comparable men or women
😅Enjoy
He right I’m introvert I need extrovert friends
Social media and dating apps have never worked for me, especially tinder, bumble, and hinge. Went to Nashville and Hawaii alone with no success. At best I'll get a girls number from a cold approach and blow it within a couple text. Getting girls is impossible
I feel you bro at least you make cold approaches tho
Join passport bro
Just be confident Bro
So all of a sudden, everyone is an introvert 😂😂😂
Swag check ✅
Be attractive.
Thanks
Didn’t realize how quite you were until the last time you were on fresh and fit 😂 nothing wrong with that just an observation I would of loved to see you spit some game to the women becuase you seem smart
Looksmaxxing is an introverts way of life. I know unattractive guys who are extroverted who would never go into monk mode to looksmaxx, would never use online dating and would rather keep constantly socializing and relying on cold and warm approach. They end up in a hundred friend zones.
Mf said “there are two coins to the side” 😂
I tell you my million dollar strategy for free:
You only live a few more years before you die, forever.
💯
Where did youget your polo shirt from ?
Oh shoot? He knows FitXfearless
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I love the way you talk bro, “acquire women and I’ve master it” lmao