You Have To Give Women THIS To Massively Increase Attraction - Why Is Space So Important?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ค. 2024
- Learn one of the most important keys to attracting women - giving them the space we all value and need for a healthy relationship. In today's video we're going to be discussing how to increase attraction with a woman by actually learning about the type of space people need.
You may have stumbled onto today's video because you've been looking for advice on any of the following topics: How to get a girl to like you, how to increase attraction, what women want, how to get a girlfriend, and many similar questions along the same theme! Don't worry because in today's video we're back at it tackling this subject head on. It may seem counter-intuitive that in order to boost attraction with a girl you actually need to make sure you're leaving enough space, but space is required for attraction to grow.
The essence of attraction is space, now the attraction will only ever grow if there is enough space between you and the other person. So let's start right at the beginning, in fact the day you were born, that's how far we're going. So in the beginning we are just like our parents, we rely on our mother for everything and because we have grown inside her we feel as if we are an actual extension of her. And as we start walking and talking though, we start displaying our own unique personalities. Our personalities only grow over time and we develop a sense of independence.
The truth is, we all value our independence and we are not supposed to be around another person all of the time. It's healthy for us to have space and to have our own lives. And today's video is all about uncovering why space is so important but also the many benefits of giving the person that you like plenty of space.
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0:00 Intro
1:02 How space increase attraction
1:10 Why space is important in dating and relationships
2:19 The benefits of space in relationships
2:27 Space increases attraction in relationships
3:10 Space increases tension
3:58 Time to focus on you
4:33 The other person misses you
5:20 Think about what you really want
6:08 When does she need space?
7:19 How much space should you give a woman?
8:25 It doesn't mean it's over
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I always give space and never act needy. I would say over the past 18 years girls contact me 99% of the time. Space is the only way for them to miss you and keep there mind wondering
Asking 4 space can mean checking out your other options.
Maybe and maybe not. Either way, it is what it is.
This is the truest thing I've ever realized about women/females that I wouldn't of known a few years back, space. That word means so much in relationships. Now that I've witnessed it first hand with a couple different ladies, the least I felt I could do for my fellow brothers is tell them space means almost everything in a relationship. Honestly though space creates more genuine attraction space is power guys lol learn how to use it wisely
There’s also the saying, “How can someone miss you if you never go away?”
It applies as much to being part of social/activity groups too, it’s easy to end up taken for granted when you’re always there, One interesting aspect of pandemic related shut downs and isolation was realizing which people I missed, as well as those that were more significant than I realized.
"I need space" is properly translated as "I don't know how to, or am afraid to communicate my needs, so I'm just going to move onto the next option." You have space when you're apart in general, if you can't think about things within that time, you're simply making excuses to avoid discussion.
Everything else is playing games and unhealthy relationship habits.
Wow, the cat analogy, why didn't I think of that. Makes sense to me now, back to the drawing board, thanks for the wake up!!
The cat comparison was originally Adam Corollas idea
Wow? every dating coach uses the cat analogy. It's been so overused that one time I saw a female dating coach saying men are like cats lol
yeah well been seeing my lady freind aka my crush aka my girlfreind this week comeing or today as iam going too been going over too town an back too mot late on today an well seeing if i can meeting up with my loveley girlfreind aka my crush aka my lady freind an seeing how shes been doing over the past few weeks an days etc an ask her how shes been over in lockdowns with not seeing her man aka new boyfreind thats me
well ask her if we are still on for coffee dates an dating one other Bolth, too. togerther with one other !!!!!! an is she still keen on meeting up for the date drinks an hang ing out too togerther with me an her bolth too togerther or what soo sometime well been seeing her today if iam going into mot today lateer on as iam but busying this loveley morning in new zealand its another awesome sunny day in nz new zealand anna joyanima yo wold love it over in new zealand with the show upp on the hills an baby Laumbs out on the farm etc wher i am now ate etc
CCW
This Girl is brilliant I'm learning fast Lol
Happy to help :)
Surprisingly, most women don't seem to mind if they're usually almost always the one who calls. I just let them come to me and I reach out more if they reach out often. That seems to give them the mix they need and like and I don't have to be bothered with figuring it out. It's more or less just a natural dance.
Fight, Freeze, or Flee. Same as accept it, change it, or leave it. Space is such a complicated thing, just remember when there is space it can also destroy a relationship. Trusting that a guy will always be there is basically keeping him waiting on her, and a form of control. The cat comparison is really amusing, as my cats are great, and two of them in particular have bonded to me. They are really quite easy to get along with. Cats are easy to get along with when they love you, when women love you or even like you they aren't, and women are domesticated.
Man, figuring out what's going on in a woman's head is hard work 😅😅
Given other enough space it's a sign of confidence in our selves! We know what our worth is and we know that some space will only help straighten our relationship!
see what happens when a man wants space and ignores a lady for 3 or 4 days
eh I learned the hard way how to handle space. She asks for it give a week anymore than that and she isn't committed so its time to reevaluate your options.
@@ghostoferlock apparently those are the ones that come back brother
@@ghostoferlock i tried 2 months. no contact. he came back. 🤷♀️ he learned to leave, he learned to come back. That very same guy told me he can only talk to me on friday nights and weekends since he's reviewing for bar exams. i was okay with it. the very same guy who didn't ask me for a date for 2 months because he was saving his money to open a meat shop. I was okay with that too. we were in a long distance relationship for 2 yrs. it was never an issue. if you trust them and the relationship enough. a few days gone won't really bother you.
@@dimpledimple5545 sorry to hear it is going like that. Must be very frustrating
I WISH YOU WERE AROUND ANNA WHEN I WAS YOUNGER,
COULD HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH.!!!
THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISDOM ANNA,!!👍
She's simply presenting the info, someone else has done the research or gone thru the said emotions.
JUST GOT PUSHED AWAY, CAN NOT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER, THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISDOM
If you adopt the mindset that "she's not your girl, it's just your turn" it makes things a bit easier to deal with, I think. Then you are always prepared for the relationship to fail.
There's no sense in becoming strongly attached to something as fickle as a woman.
Dump her, move on buddy. She is probably already with another man lined up
@@edwhatshisname3562 well fkng said bro!
ANNA JOYANIMA. TODAY IAM GOING INTO TOWN AN MEETING UPP WITH MY CRUSH AKA MY LADY FREIND AKA MY NEW GRILFREIND WELL BEEN SEEING HER THIS AMAZING LOVELEY MORNING TODAY ON TUESDAY 19 TH OFF OCT 2021 AN. ASKING HER HOW SHES BEEN DOING OVER THE LAST FEW WEEKS AN SOO SOO SOO SOO SOO. AN WELL BEEN ASKING IF WE ARE STILL ON FOR GOING OUT TOO TOGERTHER SOMETIME SOON FOR OUR FIRST COFFEE DATES AN DATING HER AN ASKING HER ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP MY ONLEY TIP FOR YO IS NEVE GIVE A WOMEN SPACE. IN THE DATES OR IS DATING YO OR IN THE RELATIONSHIP ETC. AS THEY CAN BEE. CHEATING ON THEY WITH ANOTHER GUY. WHEN SHES IN YOUR SPACE
@@stewartmarques1485 YEP, SHE SAID SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND, IM GONE
have to respectfully disagree with space. If she asks for space and its more than a few days outside of something significant happening to her. She is doubting the relationship. Be honest and direct stating I understand you need space. However, my needs are valid as well reach out when you think you are ready and if I am still available we can reconsider this relationship. This isn't playing games its called being open and honest when communicating. Everyone deserves someone who is crazy to be with them and that includes you! I am not saying jump ship necessarily but you need to set the ground rules and not give up any power don't be an option be the only choice in her mind.
Damn skippy!!!
7 months and less than 20 likes....is a travesty. Well said.
you must be doing something wrong if she evens asks for it, you should be a g like me n know when to give it with no words said
Very very interesting. Something I needed to hear. Thank you Joyanima
Nice Video Anna!
OMG!! So true about comparing women to cats but also cats choose who they want to be with! 👌
OK! Your hair is amazing today! Just magical!
Thank you Joyanima for your video which gave me an indispensable advice . I admire alot your comparison of women to cats .You’ve hit the Bull eye in saying so as my cat when sleepy doesn’t pay attention to the Tuna I offer him . Bless you Joyanima .looking forward to receiving more of your super- informative videos
I don’t know too much about this stuff, being 45 and never had a date
At 45, strange,stil you are watching this content for some reason.I'm 47 but in the past made many mistaces whit women,blue pil you know.
@@vanstraelend getting that way, but so far au natural
You are not alone, I am 46 and never had a real date.
" I need space"... means I want to go off and date this other person until I get bored,but I want you to stay around and welcome me with open arms and be so happy and to overlook the fact that I slept with someone else ,because "We were on a break!"
Right! I don't see why other people don't see this. Its the 'I want my cake and eat it to" manipulation
No, not necessarily.
does such a great job on these videos. i've dated for over 20 years and married for two and I wish i had these decades ago.
Space doesn't mean it's over but a restraining order does
This comment wins 😂😂😂
Great to hear your perspective on space. Can u go deeper into this topic. (Ie how to recognize this, how to treat it, how long does this behavior last in a healthy relationship...a what point do we as men just say "enough...I'm out"). I'm fine with space and in fact need my own .. but also have struggled and perhaps have cut things off too soon in the past. I don't want someone who has so much indecisiveness... at some point we are either in this together or not.
ive bought you a rocket anna as your so keen on space 😂😂😂👍
Anna Love the red sweater on you !! New hair style all so great ! N Y
Great job on this keep us up
Space is not a tool of attraction.
Space is a mechanism to increase desire .
You are absolutely right! Great comment, sir!
Your Wonderful Anna!
Outstanding advices
Im a big fan of space.. both outer and personal
She need's to put her phone down and be available to one person. But we all know that's impossible. so let her go and keep going: )
TJ Bro.
Amazing!!
You are!
Damn I wish I would have seen this months ago!😩
Ikr
You are the best advisor
I thought “I need space” was an indirect way of saying “it’s over”.
Where was this video years ago when I needed it?
Nice👍👍👍 messages, thanks🙏🙏🙏
Right on time
I love to focus on myself
Watching this video from india
You have even scared me by saying giving space can even be dangerous and can lead a brake up 😱
I currently have the"I think I just need time" going on
What she means is she needs a 6'3" handsome man with muscular body named Space. In fact she's been getting Space for some time already.
That is 100 per cent correct.
95% of these people don't understand what "give her space" really means. They should just focus on themselves
Yesterday i purposely haven't awnsered my crush at all while i normally do that everyday as part of making him miss me, & while it may just be coïncidence, & i try it out almost 2 more days (today & almost all of tommorow), but at first glance (in day 1 (since its only day 1 it might still just be coïncidence)) i did a little bit of a positieve result because normally i'm always the 1 starting a conversation (not neccesarelly the 1 ending it though) but yesterday he did first & that only started since i didn't text him at all yesterday
I was pursuing thus lady that I enjoyed dancing with. After tge Pandemic when the social dances starred up again, I attempted to go to her during these dances snd attempted to have a short conversation with her.. nothing long, just a short chat..
One evening she was sitting on the sofa that was in that studio. I sat down on the sofa, not too close to her, and attempted to start another short cvonversation with her.
I believe it lasted two or three sentences, she excused her self, and went the owner/instruction to chat with her.
I have not seen her ever since.
Her email address she sent to me 5 months ago is no longer usable. (Unsuccessful search)
I believe tgat is the FLEE mode you were taking about.
The girl wanted to get together after an AA meeting. Had lunch and went to my home. We both had a great time laughing and talking. She said she had to go home for her kids, she gives me a very warm hug. I asked if she would get together again and she said yes. I walked her to the car and before getting in the car she gives me another hug. Everything was going good then she messages me and told me our meeting was just an unfortunate meeting and that was that. Never seen a girl like tthat, have fun and then get dumped three days latter. She won't tell me anything so that's it.
She got coold feet. Something in her mind is probably warped and she went into panic mode. Alcohol (and recovery) can create all sorts of anomalies and weird behavior. Just forget her and find a high quality woman
It escalated too fast and she went back thinking about what just happened. Girls are fickle minded so dont be to upset about what happened and move on. And trust me, when she sees that you are dating other girls she will come back to you. It is up to you then to decide if you want her back or not.
The main point is true but all of this talk about pursuit, chasing, and playing hard to get creeps me out. If they are actually scared of you they are going to "want space" permanently. When you talk about "chasing" someone it makes you sound like a predator. "Playing hard to get" means deliberately confusing someone in the hopes that they will date you out of a "sunk cost" fallacy, (i.e. they don't want to waste their previous effort, so they keep going). I know wanting a relationship where one person can simply ask for what they want, and the other person can rationally decide whether or not to do that is maybe naive, but maybe it is worth the extra awkwardness and rejections. Though such a relationship would still involve people asking for "space" since presumably you both have lives outside of the relationship, LOL.
Stuff be making no sense man girls are never sure what they want and complaining at the same time as they get older they are wife material and why they are still single smdh
Love the thumbnail of this video 'women need this' with Anna holding her index fingers apart ha ha. I'm so immature ;)
I gave her space and she went after another guy smh
The last time I gave my cat space, it left. So, the cat analogy can be a miss.
Space only make me want other woman til she back 🤷🏽♂️ what happens in space stays in space
In a universe of both time and space ... ANYTHING is infinitely possible especially when either partner chooses to give the other partner both time and space (don't forget the importance of QTips).
Hello there Anna
Joy, nowadays, you start to seem boring love. I did follow you in the first, but nowadays, you seem to be churning the same batter again and again. It's healthy for us to have space from Joyanima for a few weeks.
Men are drawn to trust and loyalty… and we know when you aren’t
If she wants space she should be an astronaut!
240.001 was ME!
Do these points still apply when the girl is already my girlfriend?
Hissing and scratching at you, just like the cat... 😜
Wat about u are in the same work place with this person u like n she has been promoted n she is giving some distance lately n she playing with another in the same work..I need answers
Can you make a beautiful video about long distance relationship
❤️
OK I'm a Attracted to you
Not many men will understand or respect my need for space. it has nothing to do with the relationship 99% of the time. sometimes, we need a breather from everything to get a better look at our perspective. sometimes, things get too much that detaching myself makes me clear my head. away from all the stressors or when i need to really dedicate a time for something we have to do. Have a little trust, have a little faith. When a guy says, I will be busy with this project for the next 2 weeks.. that's asking for space. when a guy says, I'm going out for a drink with the guys, that is also asking for space. When a guy says, i can't come this weekend. That's also asking for space. it's just a matter of understanding that sometimes, our company is not needed, and a person needs to be himself or herself from time to time.
"familiarity breeds contempt"
"absence makes the heart grow fonder"
Very well said!
Wait so men ask for space but women try to show through their actions they need space. Why not put it in words?
@@aklforge i put it into words. But most men don't really listen? They take it as the woman walking away from the relationship. ( That's from experience). When the woman withdraws and emotionally at that, it means you weren't listening to her. Most men want the easy way out. They woo the woman when they did something wrong. Not giving her enough time or space to evaluate her feelings or clear her mind for fear of losing her. Until she blows up. And then he thinks that the woman didn't say anything or wants out in the relationship. She did. You just never listen.
@@aklforge have you watched 100 Days of Summer? I recommend you to watch the movie. It's the perfect example of the guy never listened to a woman. You'd thought that Summer did him wrong. Until you watch it from her perspective.
@@dimpledimple5545 lol my question still wasn't answered...
Yes RED again, she's sending a signal !!!!
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I act like a bugger so they dont come back but it attracts them more so if you love a women treat em horrible they love it 😂😂😂👍
Naa, cut ties completely and start looking for a new girl. If she's asking for space the most likely cenario is that she is cheating already
YEAH GREAT TIPS FROM YO ANNA JOYANIMA THIS MORNING WELL DO SOME OFF THEM ON TUESDAY THIS WEEK WHEN I AM MEETING UP WITH MY CRUSH AKA MY GIRLFREIND AKA MY LADY FREIND WELL ASK HER IF WE CAN TALK WITH ONE OTHER FOR FEW HOURS AFTER HER WORK IS FISHED UPP BEFORE SHE GOS HOME ETC.
Give her all the space she wants( 6 months to 6 years).
Are we talking about outer space?
So now I have to be an astronaut ????
i rather the nasty awful brake up what you just not even being honest with the person but i really hear what you're saying.
Let her go bye!! bye !! Your turn is over
Giving her SPACE when a NEW guy friend comes in her life somehow [coworker, classmate etc] just gives her SPACE to get to know the new guy lol!!! -dont give space. Let her know your into her!
How do you give space when you have to go to bed with them every night and you live together? What if you have kids together?
get a new bed
Big fat wallet said it all😂
First😄
@El Macho Trump Amen⛪✝️
@El Macho Trump When I can. This pandemic makes it difficult to go regularly.
well been asking her my crush how long was your last relationship with her ex boyfreind shes talked about sometime back agion with i when she was comeing too look for me too talkwith me out on the street in town well been asking her if shes still singel or is whanting a new relationship with me ate the mo as boyfreind an girlfriend
Get a dog 🐕, maybe two. You can have more than one dog and they don't get weird. Throw in some beer and a good trout stream or bass lake and you experience heaven.
IF SHE LIVING OUT OF STATE NOW FOR HERE STUDIES AND WE MESSAGE ONLY 3 TIMES A WEEK IS THAT ENOUGH SPACE ??
Dump her bud, she probably is aligning a dude were she studies, if not probably already cheating and giving you reasons to dump her
@@stewartmarques1485 THANKS FOR YOUR EXPERIENCE OR ADVICE OR SUGGESTION BUT BELIEVE MAN SHE'S REALLY WORTH IT I SAID SHE'S STUDYING IN COLLEGE NOT THAT I'M IN THE MILITARY GONE AWAY SHE'S GONNA BE A MEDICAL DOCTOR NOT A "NURSE" ACTUALLY DR. BUT HOW YOU DON'T KNOW ME OR KNOW HER I DON'T WORRY ABOUT YOU COMMENT THAT'S YOUR OPINION AND THAT COUNTS TOO BROTHER
@@NOAHCASAS good luck man... but I would read about hypergamy and female nature if I was you... if she is going to be a doctor she is going to want someone on her level... if you are not a doctor lawyer or something like that she will look for a man that will be on her level... so that would explain the distance... and yes she is probably checking out her options in her school/class. But yeah man, good luck
In marriage there is no space so the attraction exist only before marriage ..
This is suppose to be ok behavior? How is it then the women is said to be a man’s “peace”
Women are carazy. The longer you don't see a person, the less you think of them. There's no time or space to miss someone because you're hanging out with friends or new people and doing your own things. As for deciding how you feel, that's done quickly. You don't need days and days to think about it. What's there to think about? It's not calculus. If she started acting distant and stopped messaging you, that means she's either moving on or needs space to figure out her feelings. Are we supposed to stop caring about her and forget her or keep caring about her and keep quiet? In my experience needing space means the girl disappears and mails you your stuff and gifts you gave her. Just forget her.
Doesn’t help when she’s in your class
Anna are you single? 😁
Won't she think it as ignorance ?
This not winning men over
Hey Blondie! In the open free hair you look gorgeous & so cuteyyyyy🥰
hey anna Joyanima CAN YO DO SOME VIDS ON WOMEN WITH BLONDIE HAIR AS IAM ATTRACTED TOO THEM HAVE BEEN FOR A EVERY LONG TIME TOO AN AM ATTRACTED TOO OTHER WOMEN AS WELL TOO ETC JUST SAYING
HOWS IT GOING FOR YO SOO LOVELEY TOO TALK WITH YO THIS MONDAY MORNING ANNA JOYANIMA.
Killer hot anna.
I love u my darling
It's Lady's Choice. Be a knight and a gentleman and respect her choices.
Yea because men don't feel and love to be took for a cxxt