Becoming A Single Mom At 16

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  • Sixteen-year-old Rebecca was focused on her dream to become a horse vet and was due to start a college course that she hoped would be the first steps to her new career, but after splitting up with her boyfriend of six months, she discovered she was pregnant. With no support from the father of her baby, Rebecca is facing life as a single mum.
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  • @Madie-COPS
    @Madie-COPS 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +470

    Anyone else watching this while eating their food … with no baby or kids around 😛

    • @Maria-or7fv
      @Maria-or7fv 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      for reall 🤪

    • @magnus1001
      @magnus1001 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Are you in my back seat?! Literally watching this eating in my car! US?

    • @tosinesther5216
      @tosinesther5216 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      😂😂😂me too haha.

    • @saylenadominguez2924
      @saylenadominguez2924 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Yessss 😂

    • @justynanowak8155
      @justynanowak8155 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Am eating but I have two kids🤣 best things that ever happened to me but I was 30 so that’s a biggg difference

  • @WLotus
    @WLotus 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +70

    So he was a grown man with a high school girl, as is most often the case when teen girls get pregnant. Yikes! I hope Rebecca is doing okay.

    • @mariec3527
      @mariec3527 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right ! Like why !!
      It disgusts me so much and I found out that's a reason why it's highly illegal because all these grown men are getting these young girls pregnant which in turns make them drop out of school and go on government assistance unfortunately.

    • @kyieberry
      @kyieberry 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      A whole grown ass man!

    • @iyshalarain3098
      @iyshalarain3098 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      A lot of our fate and the young girl is held responsible while they move on with their life

    • @melissabrown2192
      @melissabrown2192 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      A.K.A. he was a predator

  • @simmone009
    @simmone009 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +87

    There child would be around 15 or 16 years old now

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Hope they didn’t get someone pregnant 😅

  • @chanyphilly8266
    @chanyphilly8266 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +112

    When you giggle because your mum mentions contraception, you're too young to have a baby.

  • @Walidanukasa
    @Walidanukasa 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +161

    Monique wanting to get an abortion and not being allowed by her mother is a recipe for resentment. Poor child.

    • @sharkysplash1415
      @sharkysplash1415 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      Or a blessing maybe she will look at her child and be like thank god my mother didn’t let me

    • @marylee19941994
      @marylee19941994 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly they have higher family omg

    • @Walidanukasa
      @Walidanukasa 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@sharkysplash1415 I really hope so. That, of course, would be the best outcome.

    • @rinabitoni3746
      @rinabitoni3746 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      She doesn't seem adjusted well to motherhood

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Then saying she’s not gonna help care for her. You can tell your daughter to not have an abortion then offer to care for the baby but if you don’t you shouldn’t suggest it in the first place.

  • @melrwill
    @melrwill 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    Where are these girls' fathers?!!!
    Then they've sadly gone on to be single moms themselves. I feel for them

    • @JehovahsWrath
      @JehovahsWrath 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Yes it's sad, most of these young teenaged girls are more times likely to end up like this without a father because they have no strong male role models.

    • @toobeautiful3517
      @toobeautiful3517 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      @@JehovahsWrathNot true! Plenty of young girls have become very successful without having a father in their lives!❤

    • @OuuThatteaHot
      @OuuThatteaHot วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      She said she had a dad did you watch it? She literally said her dad brought her a horse 🧍🏽‍♀️

  • @audreyedwards96
    @audreyedwards96 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I see a lot of ppl blaming the girl blaming the parents but not the grown 18/19 man who was sleeping with a young impressionable little girl. Why wasn't he put n jail for statutory rape.

  • @jennig7543
    @jennig7543 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

    I wonder whats the update on Rebecca?

    • @nayamariee_
      @nayamariee_ 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      same

    • @Thankmelater6029
      @Thankmelater6029 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Me too I wish someone knew her instagram!

  • @Ms_5Jackson
    @Ms_5Jackson 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Things happen, teenagers we've all been, young, dumb want to have fun, until pregnancy occurs, everyone makes mistakes, she'll have to learn,no judgement,(trust me) just God bless her and her 🐥🍼 baby 🙏👍

    • @JehovahsWrath
      @JehovahsWrath 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Amen I agree

    • @MalaYLoca
      @MalaYLoca 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I’ve never been THAT teenager, but I hear you.

  • @lunalove9395
    @lunalove9395 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    86 grandchildren + 80 great grand children is crazy though...wonder how many kids she had to have that many

    • @louisenewton7556
      @louisenewton7556 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I wounder that myself

    • @Hailey-y5v
      @Hailey-y5v 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Adoption, step/half family

  • @Lomilovebug
    @Lomilovebug 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This makes me feel so sad so young so vulnerable and having so much responsibility I am 38. It makes me think of my 16-year-old daughter thank God she doesn’t have this issue. A great support will help her along the way.

  • @rinabitoni3746
    @rinabitoni3746 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Her friend doesn't seem to be bonding well with her baby.

    • @farahjoseph
      @farahjoseph 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Hey cousin you mean?

  • @reyannahinds_
    @reyannahinds_ 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Does anybody know where she is now ??, I remember watching thiss

  • @potato1084
    @potato1084 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    24:19 That hospital made such an irresponsible decision. They wanted to turn me away too and when I got checked I was 10cm. Imagine if I just went home?

  • @regs6135
    @regs6135 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    It’s disturbing how the adults are like fine with all of this

    • @leelee8614
      @leelee8614 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      I mean at first every parent would not be happy if their teenage daughter is pregnant. But when the baby is here there's not much you can do but adjust to it, you cant be angry at your teenage daughter for the rest off your life. and the 2 girls are now in their late 20s or early 30s with teenage children with a loving family and thats all that matters.

    • @Lbree1077
      @Lbree1077 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I mean teenagers have sex. Nothing you can do about it

  • @deegray87
    @deegray87 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The baby is beautiful. I wonder how Rebecca getting on now?

  • @Teenie-mg8xn
    @Teenie-mg8xn 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    She said she still wants to be a child...should've stayed in a child's place!

    • @Afrogirrl
      @Afrogirrl 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Be mad at the parent instead of the child to be honest.

    • @rei4172
      @rei4172 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@Afrogirrl its both side's fault. The daughter knew what pregnancy is in the first place and how its caused. Don't be intimate with someone if you do not want to risk having kids. It's just immature decisions on the child's part. If the parents never bothered educating her and things like that its also their fault, but you can only do so much and if they really want to do things like this, they will. They didn't force her to date someone and be intimate with someone, she chose that.

    • @Afrogirrl
      @Afrogirrl 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@rei4172 it’s how she was raised. Most kids don’t go out and get pregnant, and how she was set up in a way that programmed this. Just look at the home, no father figure. No good male role model. Higher chance of looking for attention and praise from other men, higher chance of getting with the wrong men as she doesn’t have a proper representation of how a good one acts. Mum has to be 2x as observant of small behaviours as there isn’t an another parent to help out.
      I think things are much deeper than simple decisions. There’s always a reason behind them, and a reason behind those reasons. Not trying to sound cocky. And this applies especially to children.

    • @rei4172
      @rei4172 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@Afrogirrl I understand since live in almost the exact same situation she does. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years since high school and despite how I was raised, I knew not to get pregnant at my age because of the lifelong consequences it could have for me and the baby. I do understand that she wasn't given the best at the start, but she does need to take accountability despite the situation. Now another child is going to grow up without a father almost the same as she did. Thats one reason why I want to wait for kids because I want to give them what I never had, and I feel most kids in similar situations could relate if they wanted kids in the future. She also was partaking in those activities and took a risk knowing it may cause her to become pregnant. Thats the part she needs to take more accountability for. Her parents did plenty wrong in this situation as well.

    • @Teenie-mg8xn
      @Teenie-mg8xn 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Afrogirrl her parent didn't make her lay down and open her legs. But it's definitely a generational curse.

  • @sheebahkabanda8412
    @sheebahkabanda8412 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Not me waking up late and happy just because I don’t have anyone calling me mummy

  • @tan_ya_
    @tan_ya_ 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I knew they were British before I clicked play 😂 the title was too polite.

  • @babibrii
    @babibrii 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I had my son at 16 and he’s an AMAZING kid ❤❤ our birthdays are 4 days apart and we have a great relationship. Him and my brother are 4 and a half years apart and theyre the best of friends ik the baby and your sister will have a good relationship. Having a baby young is scary , but it can definitely work if u make it work !

  • @niasmith9197
    @niasmith9197 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    Why did they stop making this show? Does anyone know of a newer British show like this?

    • @baxterbunch
      @baxterbunch 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Teen mum uk and 16 and pregnant uk

    • @niasmith9197
      @niasmith9197 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@baxterbunch Thanks! I'll check these out.

    • @lunalove9395
      @lunalove9395 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      it was on BBC three which stopped making programming at one point. I guess the closest is there was a UK version of teen mum on MTV.

    • @mai0033
      @mai0033 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I don't but I know this Australian reality tv series called "yummy mummies"

    • @baxterbunch
      @baxterbunch 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@niasmith9197 also one born every minute which is on TH-cam now but ended in 2019 was amazing but it’s just babies being born and the backstory of the women

  • @amys5669
    @amys5669 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    How come no one considers placing a child for adoption? They don't want to have an abortion. They don't want the baby. Place the child for adoption.

    • @Turquoise4eva
      @Turquoise4eva วันที่ผ่านมา

      I said they same thing.

  • @Dulce_De_Luche
    @Dulce_De_Luche 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Where have I seen her before?

    • @Ineedbilliefortheoxytocin
      @Ineedbilliefortheoxytocin 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      She kinda looks like Nia from Dance Moms

    • @One_and_Justice_4_All
      @One_and_Justice_4_All 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      She’s been on it before….from 5 years ago I think.
      I remember this one.

  • @Ms_me914
    @Ms_me914 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    beautiful babies!

  • @victorianacastro7757
    @victorianacastro7757 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Old episode.

  • @hekeepsblessingme1312
    @hekeepsblessingme1312 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Omg! This is sad

  • @LivvyAlexW
    @LivvyAlexW 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    What year is this from?

  • @Agt3005
    @Agt3005 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    How does she have 80 kids??

  • @MalaYLoca
    @MalaYLoca 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I pray she fulfilled her dreams 🙏🏽

  • @tanyabruce1019
    @tanyabruce1019 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    When I had my baby I didn't have my mom or dad or only sister they were all passed away

    • @sheaholland9704
      @sheaholland9704 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Aww the sweet mama 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Teenie-mg8xn
    @Teenie-mg8xn 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Generational curse.

    • @sheaholland9704
      @sheaholland9704 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Right hopefully the baby sister take a different route and not look up to her big sisters

    • @ayeitsneciie1386
      @ayeitsneciie1386 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@sheaholland9704not a curse the mom got pregnant as an adult the older sister got pregnant as an adult just the two cousins are teen oarents

  • @peacefaith2939
    @peacefaith2939 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    we have to make better choices, beautiful yng lady, but God is able to use you for his purpose!!

  • @Monieloved1
    @Monieloved1 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Where is the dude at that got her pregnant?

  • @nicholecutaneo139
    @nicholecutaneo139 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That sounds ridiculous 86

  • @farahjoseph
    @farahjoseph 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Monique kinda favor Aaliyah

  • @BrandiFisher-fx9ks
    @BrandiFisher-fx9ks 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    That must be really hard breastfeeding as a teenager.

    • @OfficialMuffiin
      @OfficialMuffiin 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Breastfeeding is hard no matter what age?

  • @starrrlanen3688
    @starrrlanen3688 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Looks like to me the baby got the same Dad 😂😮

  • @thetruth5098
    @thetruth5098 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Beautiful young girl. She should have been more careful having sex. But her life can absolutely still be amazing ❤❤

  • @Berta2real
    @Berta2real 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    7 min mark is sad...gotta watch those friends your kids hang around as well. It seems that young girl who was excited about a little girl being with child is maybe just as hot in the pants and encourages that type of behavior. Sometimes, it may be good to change your teens environment if you're able and lucky enough to catch certain behaviors.

  • @babibrii
    @babibrii 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She looks like a younger version of the TH-camr jaylabrenae 😍

  • @lisaarchie5072
    @lisaarchie5072 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Funny how both mom's keep saying that they are Christians. Lmao!! Christians are not exempt from sins. Saying that you are a Christian do not give you respect..

    • @leelee8614
      @leelee8614 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      They're just saying that they're christians that do not believe in abortions. They never once acted like they're exempt from sin sftu

  • @aquao5372
    @aquao5372 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This musta been early 2000’s lol

  • @roseesegateret1013
    @roseesegateret1013 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Miller Jessica Martinez Scott Martin Ruth

  • @dianneleslight4970
    @dianneleslight4970 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Why not adopt the baby out

    • @abbielawrence1388
      @abbielawrence1388 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      Would you adopt a baby ? 1000s of babies and children in foster care don’t get adopted. Placing a child up for adoption doesn’t guarantee that the child will be adopted plus the child will never fully get over the fact that their birth mother didn’t want them and that’s coming from a child who is adopted and grew up in a house who also fostered children

    • @sbadiyahaustin
      @sbadiyahaustin 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      it's extremely hard for women to give away their babies after they've carried them for 10 months and then gave birth to them. that is not an easy thing to do and can be traumatizing for, both, mom and baby alike in the future.

  • @himmy_turner_
    @himmy_turner_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    why would u not let ur child receive health care....u shouldve let her get the procedure now youve ruined her life

  • @ZeeA0705
    @ZeeA0705 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Soo let me get this straight she stalks him while being pregnant to keep an eye on him yeah that’s how immature she is and she’s about to have a baby how dumb is that like girl if you aren’t with your baby daddy no more don’t need to stalk him or see what he’s doing he can do what he likes you aren’t dating

    • @Walidanukasa
      @Walidanukasa 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

      She was 15/16, he was 18/19. He was as involved in the creation of this child as she was, yet he goes on with life. If he chooses, his life will not change in any way. She "stalks" him online. Is it immature? Yes. Is getting a 16 year old girl pregnant and then abandoning her immature? It is more than that, it is inexcusable.

    • @gekkekipp4294
      @gekkekipp4294 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      I don’t think she is. It’s logic it’s the hormones. You don’t have the right to say that to someone who you don’t even know and see a little of their life on yt

    • @weluvcoco9001
      @weluvcoco9001 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She's literally 15 what do you expect, she is a child her mom should let her get the abortion

    • @toriamigo
      @toriamigo 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      I dont think checking his facebook constitutes as stalking.

    • @LeeGee-p1v
      @LeeGee-p1v 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      How are you talking to a child?!

  • @cynthiajones4332
    @cynthiajones4332 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done. Romans 1:28 Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord, Acts 3:19

  • @rose_thee_stallion
    @rose_thee_stallion 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Wow! The hospital sent her home and she had her bby 1 hr later. Crazy. And this video was uploaded before on this channel.

  • @Ineedbilliefortheoxytocin
    @Ineedbilliefortheoxytocin 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    HELP I WAS STALKING YOUR ACCOUNT AND IM EARLY!!!!!

  • @RK-rj2sc
    @RK-rj2sc 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    😊 beautiful people

  • @RK-rj2sc
    @RK-rj2sc 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    😊😊😊😊😊

  • @RK-rj2sc
    @RK-rj2sc 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    😅😅😅😅