My girl Aaliyah...I've been tuning in for almost 7 years, thats the thing that always has me back. Aaliyah has said the most REALEST ish in this video, its the transparency that will always have me back! Very humble, inside and out. RELATABLE af. Love this video x10! *Like button.*
Staying with someone who you’re not suppose to WILL really stifle you . Whether it’s financially, mentally , emotionally, or spiritually. People will really stall your blessings !
Yesssss! Whether its someone that you are dating, even friends that you've known forever, and family! Once you realize how toxic they have became to your mental, its time to leave! Its really hard to do especially when it's a relationship!
Left my husband after 12 years a marriage narcissist personality disorder. And when I looked up the symptoms one day I had to go and pack quickly. New furniture new apartment in learning to love myself❤🎉
How do I get the strength I keep allowing him back knowing he's stagnating me not to mention I got a little healthier lose a 100±lbs and he constantly says I think I'm cute I always thought I was a BIG BEAUTIFUL SIS @370lbs I need to gg
You said EVERY SINGLE THING I've been feeling regarding my relationship; it was my first "real" relationship & I realized I did not like him. I liked his personality, and what he could become, but that wasn't his vision. to make it even worse, I wasn't even attracted to him so when he would piss me off he was just so ugly to me. he made me angry & I've NEVER been an angry person, I'm a cryer, I'm an isolater, never have I had angry outbursts like I did with him. This was such a good watch, please do more girl chats like this!
I don't think it's quick to leave. I just think it's knowing your standards, and not tolerating anything less. I'm glad you pointed out the communication part. My previous relationship he wanted me to not say anything or expressing my feelings either. I've always hated it because there was never a chance to express how I feel. The biggest trauma is not being heard.
girl chats are my absolute fav from you. your story is probably helping so many other women and young girls so thank you for being vulnerable and sharing.
Wow... I was procrastinating for monthssssss... I was not happy and we have a child together. The list of issues is a mile long but I felt so guilty for feeling the way I did, I felt like a bad person. I no longer felt the love or wanted the physical part of it, found myself depressed most of the time. I finally left last week! and I feel so free and light. Thank you for your transparency
Definitely needed to hear this, recently left my child’s father after having our second child & its the hardest thing to accept but it’s for the better. Whew thank you for this! 😭
& you know what you do now… level allllll the way up! Set goals & complete them! Use your pain as your motivation… push yourself.. it will take time… but the feeling you will feel after… will be worth it… you will feel FREE ♥️
My mother always told me never depend on nobody but yourself because if they break up with you and they paying for everything then you’re SOL ladies always have a back up plan always have your own money
I loved this so much..I’m remarried. We have been off and on for 20 years literally. I woke up and was like wait! I ain’t got kids with this man 😂… I literally up and leave… marriages, jobs, friendships… because who got time? I’m 38. I’m here to tell y’all LEAVE. I’ll be leaving this one soon too. 🙈🤷🏽♀️
I don’t think it’s quick to leave it’s noticing that your needs are being, coming to terms with it and acting accordingly unapologetically. It may seem that way but perceptions is not always reality. As you get older your patience for bs becomes slim. Ain’t nobody got time for that. Good for You Aaliyah! 🎉🫶🏾🫶🏾!
This girl chat was amazing. I have definitely overstayed in a relationship out of complacency and thinking there was no alternative. But when we wake up and take control of our destiny, it’s the most Powerful feeling 🎉you moved on & moved forward in such an amazing way and it’s been so great to watch as a longtime fan❤
The truth in this video is so appreciated. Self worth and self happiness takes us so far once we get there. Once I’m upset my mouth is lethal too. ♋️The older I’ve gotten i still speak my mind but def from a different place. I love this video and the makeup is gorgeous 💕
Young pretty no kids… Yes 🙌🏽 I was raised to do what I want to do and not having to stay in anything I don’t like. I been making choices since I was a child literally. I’m glad you realize that girl 🙏🏽
I left my baby dad because he's an alcoholic and I was in a domestic abused relationship. It wasn't easy to leave because we have 2 babies together...I always gived him chances in hope he would change but he never did. At the end I started to realize the only reason I stayed with him was because of our kids. But I refuse for my sons to grow up in a toxic household and seeing their mother being disrespected and unhappy...So I left him for good! I feel free now as a single mother ❤️
I agree if you don’t see this person in your visions of your higher self, then they got to go. No point in sticking around and wasting time if you know exactly what you want. The person isn’t fulfilling your needs and wants.
I just turned 30 and I left a relationship I had been in since 19 with a cruel and manipulative man so I can definitely relate. It stifled me emotionally, mentally, physically and financially (even though I was the breadwinner) starting over is rough but I feel stronger for not staying in a stagnant place out of fear. I’m a writer, so I’m starting a blog to document this new phase. I promised myself I would turn my hurt into a business
I honestly really needed to hear this i just left my husband 3 months pregnant and also 9 months postpartum after having a stillbirth at 9months pregnant, but this is what’s best for me overall
@@MindOFAvery yes girl I know it’s a lot but I say to myself God don’t give you nothing you can’t handle, I have good days and bad days but it’s part of my healing journey
The problem is not being single but the problem is ppl being in relationships an still feeling single I hate that for a lot of ppl idc how many times you have to start over your own happiness is what matters
Such a real topic! Learning to know when to leave is so vital. I chose myself for the first time and left a relationship that I always wanted simply because I wanted to keep my family together but it just wasn’t working and leaving was the hardest but the best decision I made for myself. I’m glad you reminded me that moving back with family is only a period in time because sometimes when you’re discouraged, you be forgetting lol
The biggest deal breaker for me is if I'm in a relationship with a man and we had discussion about having kids in the future where I don't want them in the future and he don't want them in the future either, then few years later, he changed his mind, but I didn't and he want them with me anyway, I would leave because it's a waste of his time and it's a waste of my time. When it comes to having children, two people should want them and be ready for the responsibility for them because if one of them don't want them right now or at all, but ended up having them for whatever reason and they become unhappy, the child is going to be affected by it because they can sense whether they're wanted or not. It is VERY important to have these conversation with our partners about this serious topic before having them.
@@avonfettydale9166 actually it’s y’all that’s dying alone in nursing homes & your one bedroom shack. Women live longer single. It’s better to be ALONE & mentally healthy with money, than to be with a demon. Men serve no purpose. I’ll take ALONE Alex for $500💀
Damn Aaliyah hadn’t bumped into your youtube for years and the day I end a 6 year relationship this video pops up on my timeline. I’m a Cancer as well and I know what you mean about being a loyal girl really needed to see this video today so thank you so much! 🙏🏽 Taking this video as a sign to find myself again and be better 💖
This is very very true that people stay unhappy in relationship’s trying to make it work, but it’s best for everyone involved to leave when your unhappy or not getting what you need out of the relationship.
For one, this makeup look is beautiful per usual! Two, you are the realest to ever do it fr. I love how candid you are with us about your experiences and then even holding yourself accountable to the faults you’ve made in your past situations. This is exactly why I watch you consistently because your authenticity is everything. It’s really the growth for me! Such relatable content. Thank you for sharing these tips 🩷
I love your transparency Aaliyah! You took your own time to speak your truth on how you handle things & we all gets stuck in ruts & relationships where we feel like we can’t get out. This was needed. Thank you! 🤎
This whole thing was my life!! I woke up from a 10 year long relationship when I got out. Now i'm so happy! I wish I had this knowledge when I was going through it, but I did have to learn. This is just what someone needs to hear. 💛
Yesssss.... The person I'm with I am realizing we were better as friends before we got in a relationship and now I feel llike when I end it I know I can't be friends after.
I LOVE YOU! you literally broke down my whole love life in this video. I was so confused about whether or not I made the right decision leaving, but this video is all the clarity I needed! thank you so much for this . this video is so powerful and I'll watch this everyday to remind myself .
So many people probably needed this . Thank you💗. I always say “ no man is better then any man” . Choose yourself ladies , get out before it’s too late . Love will come 🩵
Loved this girl chat !! Girl you were literally hitting so many points I felt like I’m talking to myself lol!! ♋️♋️♋️ Accepting that it’s time to walk away can be so hard but it feels like such a relief when you do. Thank you for being open❤
This story time is so good, alot of women take so long to leave and its crazy , you are better off alone if the person is not doing they part of not even making you happy ❤ when I was young I wish i would have been told this point of view .
Love this girl chat so real and relatable as a fellow cancer I agree with the love language part because physical touch and intimacy Are so important to us
Love when you said I have the power to create my own happiness and destiny. I had to figure that out too I’m snapping like this b/c I’m not happy in this relationship or where my life was heading at the time. So many people need to learn this. Congratulations Aaliyah I’m proud of you ❤
"You have total power and controls over you" learning this was literally what made me get over my ex and know I'll never be in another situation like that!
omg Aaliyah !! These are conversations i’ve had with myself lol but seriously I just left a Long term relationship and it wasn’t easy at all but man Choosing yourself feels so much Better 💕🤞🏾 I LOVED this so much .
Love this! I think it’s a good thing to go through a process, especially when it’s not abusive. Just to make sure it’s not something you have to give grace for change and/or taking accountability for how you show up too. I’d love for you to talk about friendships too. I think we talk about toxic friends, but the growth of friendship relationships are a topic I’ve been interested in hearing other people’s thoughts.
I don’t see the products listed in the description box. I love the blush , eyeliner , and lip liner 💗Please lmk ! You’re always pmo to products I love. 💗
This and so much more is the reason I'm subscribed to you and followed you for YEARS! I love these videos. It really hit home for me right now. Thank you
Very real conversation. This is something I realized too. You truly don’t have to stay with someone you don’t want to be with. You’re truly just wasting your time.
Nah For real. This me. Let’s talk about the elephant, cause if we don’t I can’t sleep. I had to train the person I was ending the relationship with about not having to be in a situation you don’t want to be in. Why do it? Life is way too short to be miserable. In this life we have choices. Choose wisely. I so love that you’re talking about this!!
I haven’t watched you in a while and I haven’t been on TH-cam in a while . For comfort I’m binging your videos . Came across this and this is something I needed to hear. I’m feeling my lowest and trying my hardest to detach but it’s hard . I’m just in a messed up situation knowing that he will never change and always treat me like I’m nothing . I’m not getting what I want out of the relationship and respect isn’t being given …
had to comment , fellow cancer (we’re up btw 🎉) . but yes all of this yes !! sometimes we put so much pressure on ourselves in love sometimes .. and love can be blinding .. happy we are picking up and leaving .. choosing yourself should never be apologized for .. solitude teaches you so much about yourself. ok i’m rambling but thank you for this ❤️❤️
Aaliyah has always been wise beyond her years from how she Carrie herself on YT. She definitely knows her worth and what’s best for her!! Keep posting positive and beautiful vids! Love it here🥰🥰🥰
Finally a eyeshadow looookkkkk💓💓 my cancer babyyyy! Been watching u since I was 15 I’ll be 24 in a couple days man the growth is INSANE! Love u always have always will! I’m the same way when it comes to addressing the elephant in the room! I have to!
I actually check out in my head before I actually leave & if I don’t see you in my future I wont stay & if I have to keep explaining myself & nothing has changed my mind is made up & I’m leaving Men are pretty simple but when it’s complicated that’s when you know they don’t want you
Oooouuu good sis, this was right on time😅 We're so similar in our relationship styles, and I'm leaving a 10yr relationship myself. It's definitely not easy.... But I knew for some time, it was definitely time for me to move on. Thank you for this message that touched my soul on this beautiful Sunday. Many blessings to you, as we navigate life trying to find "the one"✨
If you have to put yourself in a box or live in a grey area in your relationship....LEAVE.....if they breathing irritates you....LEAVE...years in...kids...none of that is an excuse for your personal peace
This make up look omg 😍 I need the product list and tutorial! Great tips as always. I’m glad you’re sharing what you’re learning along the way. Love seeing your journey ❤
Aaliyah J you were talking about doing TikTok videos I think it will be great for you. Also, I think it would be a great idea if you could also insert some of your older videos because they are great as well along with all of your updated contacts mixed in with some of the old.
It’s important to spend time with yourself during single season. Set boundaries. Set standards that way you won’t get caught off guard . Then end up in something you didn’t want too .
This is the Aaliyah I remember and love❤️ I unsubscribed a few months ago thinking you were done with TH-cam, but I ran across this vid & aww I can honestly say I’ve missed you so much, as if I actually know you😂 feel like my fav og black IT Girls have fully transferred to IG, but I saw you have actually been posting lately and it makes me happy!! I got me some videos to binge over the weekend. Resubscribed
I had to come back to this video again. I felt this way when you posted it 10 months ago, and I still feel this way now. & it’s been over 12 years &I’m just over it now. Feeling all of this. All the red flags are there. Mrs time with me is limited. I hate it here.
My girl Aaliyah...I've been tuning in for almost 7 years, thats the thing that always has me back. Aaliyah has said the most REALEST ish in this video, its the transparency that will always have me back! Very humble, inside and out. RELATABLE af. Love this video x10! *Like button.*
Staying with someone who you’re not suppose to WILL really stifle you . Whether it’s financially, mentally , emotionally, or spiritually. People will really stall your blessings !
Facts!!!
Why it’s financially the first thing on the list as always
Yesssss! Whether its someone that you are dating, even friends that you've known forever, and family! Once you realize how toxic they have became to your mental, its time to leave! Its really hard to do especially when it's a relationship!
Left my husband after 12 years a marriage narcissist personality disorder. And when I looked up the symptoms one day I had to go and pack quickly. New furniture new apartment in learning to love myself❤🎉
As U should ❤
I’m glad you got out of that situation❤
How do I get the strength I keep allowing him back knowing he's stagnating me not to mention I got a little healthier lose a 100±lbs and he constantly says I think I'm cute I always thought I was a BIG BEAUTIFUL SIS @370lbs I need to gg
Yep! I did this the first time and gonna do it again. 🎉
@@BigHierophantEnergy you'll have to do what makes you happy and love yourself 👍😊❤️
This is soooo true! Before I left I dreamed about being single and happy, definitely detached like 2yrs before I left .
You said EVERY SINGLE THING I've been feeling regarding my relationship; it was my first "real" relationship & I realized I did not like him. I liked his personality, and what he could become, but that wasn't his vision. to make it even worse, I wasn't even attracted to him so when he would piss me off he was just so ugly to me. he made me angry & I've NEVER been an angry person, I'm a cryer, I'm an isolater, never have I had angry outbursts like I did with him. This was such a good watch, please do more girl chats like this!
Exactly what I’m going through right now unfortunately 😔
He brought out the bitch in me and that’s when I knew it was time to get it tf together . If your spirit doesn’t sit right with someone RUN!!
I don't think it's quick to leave. I just think it's knowing your standards, and not tolerating anything less. I'm glad you pointed out the communication part. My previous relationship he wanted me to not say anything or expressing my feelings either. I've always hated it because there was never a chance to express how I feel. The biggest trauma is not being heard.
Attraction is a must… idc what nobody say
girl chats are my absolute fav from you. your story is probably helping so many other women and young girls so thank you for being vulnerable and sharing.
Wow... I was procrastinating for monthssssss... I was not happy and we have a child together. The list of issues is a mile long but I felt so guilty for feeling the way I did, I felt like a bad person. I no longer felt the love or wanted the physical part of it, found myself depressed most of the time. I finally left last week! and I feel so free and light. Thank you for your transparency
Definitely needed to hear this, recently left my child’s father after having our second child & its the hardest thing to accept but it’s for the better. Whew thank you for this! 😭
Same girl. We got this ❤
Wow I know that wasn’t easy but I’m so proud of you for putting yourself first and choosing better for yourself! Best wishes!
& you know what you do now… level allllll the way up! Set goals & complete them! Use your pain as your motivation… push yourself.. it will take time… but the feeling you will feel after… will be worth it… you will feel FREE ♥️
@@littleMissCarter7 We definitely do! Greater is yet to come!
@@Gezebellifestyle Thank you so much!!
My mother always told me never depend on nobody but yourself because if they break up with you and they paying for everything then you’re SOL ladies always have a back up plan always have your own money
This video hits all ages. You don't have to stay because you a little older. I can attest to what you are saying and I am a bit older.
Self reflection is so important and to know yourself !! Thank you for this Girl chat I bet that a lot of women needed to hear this
I loved this so much..I’m remarried. We have been off and on for 20 years literally. I woke up and was like wait! I ain’t got kids with this man 😂… I literally up and leave… marriages, jobs, friendships… because who got time? I’m 38. I’m here to tell y’all LEAVE. I’ll be leaving this one soon too. 🙈🤷🏽♀️
I don’t think it’s quick to leave it’s noticing that your needs are being, coming to terms with it and acting accordingly unapologetically. It may seem that way but perceptions is not always reality. As you get older your patience for bs becomes slim. Ain’t nobody got time for that. Good for You Aaliyah! 🎉🫶🏾🫶🏾!
Right. Many women leave the relationship mentally before physically just dipping out. Leaving mentally first makes the physical seem abrupt.
This girl chat was amazing. I have definitely overstayed in a relationship out of complacency and thinking there was no alternative. But when we wake up and take control of our destiny, it’s the most Powerful feeling 🎉you moved on & moved forward in such an amazing way and it’s been so great to watch as a longtime fan❤
The truth in this video is so appreciated. Self worth and self happiness takes us so far once we get there. Once I’m upset my mouth is lethal too. ♋️The older I’ve gotten i still speak my mind but def from a different place. I love this video and the makeup is gorgeous 💕
As a fellow ♋️ I second this wholeheartedly.
Young pretty no kids… Yes 🙌🏽 I was raised to do what I want to do and not having to stay in anything I don’t like. I been making choices since I was a child literally. I’m glad you realize that girl 🙏🏽
I left my baby dad because he's an alcoholic and I was in a domestic abused relationship. It wasn't easy to leave because we have 2 babies together...I always gived him chances in hope he would change but he never did. At the end I started to realize the only reason I stayed with him was because of our kids. But I refuse for my sons to grow up in a toxic household and seeing their mother being disrespected and unhappy...So I left him for good! I feel free now as a single mother ❤️
Congrats sis 🎉
I agree if you don’t see this person in your visions of your higher self, then they got to go. No point in sticking around and wasting time if you know exactly what you want. The person isn’t fulfilling your needs and wants.
It's not quick to leave when you know who is not for you. Don't waste your time. When you know, you know.
Giving the girls what they need !
as aaliyah was talking, all i kept thinking to myself was like, “that BASE is stunning!” her skin looks so good.
😳 im literally in the day dreaming stage..I don’t feel loved or valued anymore. The constant arguments …Wow! Its like i needed to hear this!
I just turned 30 and I left a relationship I had been in since 19 with a cruel and manipulative man so I can definitely relate. It stifled me emotionally, mentally, physically and financially (even though I was the breadwinner) starting over is rough but I feel stronger for not staying in a stagnant place out of fear. I’m a writer, so I’m starting a blog to document this new phase. I promised myself I would turn my hurt into a business
I’ve been out of a relationship for 7 months and I’m so happy to be free . Love the video , thanks girl ❤
I honestly really needed to hear this i just left my husband 3 months pregnant and also 9 months postpartum after having a stillbirth at 9months pregnant, but this is what’s best for me overall
Damn ❤
@@MindOFAvery yes girl I know it’s a lot but I say to myself God don’t give you nothing you can’t handle, I have good days and bad days but it’s part of my healing journey
Sending love and blessings to you an you unborn. And rip to your baby you lost I am so sorry for that. 🪽💗🩵
goodluck Mama, you got this!💕
Sending love and light 💕✨
The problem is not being single but the problem is ppl being in relationships an still feeling single I hate that for a lot of ppl idc how many times you have to start over your own happiness is what matters
Such a real topic! Learning to know when to leave is so vital. I chose myself for the first time and left a relationship that I always wanted simply because I wanted to keep my family together but it just wasn’t working and leaving was the hardest but the best decision I made for myself. I’m glad you reminded me that moving back with family is only a period in time because sometimes when you’re discouraged, you be forgetting lol
I knew it was time to leave when I cheated back on him and didn’t feel an ounce of guilt. 🤷🏾♀️ I realized the love died far too long ago.
The biggest deal breaker for me is if I'm in a relationship with a man and we had discussion about having kids in the future where I don't want them in the future and he don't want them in the future either, then few years later, he changed his mind, but I didn't and he want them with me anyway, I would leave because it's a waste of his time and it's a waste of my time. When it comes to having children, two people should want them and be ready for the responsibility for them because if one of them don't want them right now or at all, but ended up having them for whatever reason and they become unhappy, the child is going to be affected by it because they can sense whether they're wanted or not. It is VERY important to have these conversation with our partners about this serious topic before having them.
Trying to trap you! Your freedom made him act bad.
@@LilithTheAquarian369 Which is extremely horrifying.
You’re gonnabe alone forever 😂
@@avonfettydale9166 actually it’s y’all that’s dying alone in nursing homes & your one bedroom shack.
Women live longer single. It’s better to be ALONE & mentally healthy with money, than to be with a demon. Men serve no purpose.
I’ll take ALONE Alex for $500💀
Everything was facts! I PRAY that the younger women listen to this video!! I’ve wasted years, and it hurts. But I finally realized things being said.
Damn Aaliyah hadn’t bumped into your youtube for years and the day I end a 6 year relationship this video pops up on my timeline. I’m a Cancer as well and I know what you mean about being a loyal girl really needed to see this video today so thank you so much! 🙏🏽 Taking this video as a sign to find myself again and be better 💖
girl this is crazy!! i literally just asked god for a sign to leave my relationship.... this was my sign thank you god and thank you aaliyah!
Dont forget to use discernment love.
From one ♋️ to another I totally understand the perspective in this video. When my spirit tells me it’s time to go, it’s time to go!
I needed this! Glad I left my toxic relationship alone and found me! ❤️
This is very very true that people stay unhappy in relationship’s trying to make it work, but it’s best for everyone involved to leave when your unhappy or not getting what you need out of the relationship.
Loyalty to yourself FIRST always.
Keep those boundaries + standards.
For one, this makeup look is beautiful per usual! Two, you are the realest to ever do it fr. I love how candid you are with us about your experiences and then even holding yourself accountable to the faults you’ve made in your past situations. This is exactly why I watch you consistently because your authenticity is everything. It’s really the growth for me! Such relatable content. Thank you for sharing these tips 🩷
Everything you said is 100% true. I tell myself these exact things
I love your transparency Aaliyah! You took your own time to speak your truth on how you handle things & we all gets stuck in ruts & relationships where we feel like we can’t get out. This was needed. Thank you! 🤎
This whole thing was my life!! I woke up from a 10 year long relationship when I got out. Now i'm so happy! I wish I had this knowledge when I was going through it, but I did have to learn. This is just what someone needs to hear. 💛
Yesssss.... The person I'm with I am realizing we were better as friends before we got in a relationship and now I feel llike when I end it I know I can't be friends after.
I LOVE YOU! you literally broke down my whole love life in this video. I was so confused about whether or not I made the right decision leaving, but this video is all the clarity I needed! thank you so much for this . this video is so powerful and I'll watch this everyday to remind myself .
So many people probably needed this . Thank you💗. I always say “ no man is better then any man” . Choose yourself ladies , get out before it’s too late . Love will come 🩵
The makeup is flawless, the message is on point 🎀
This is so wild that this popped up while I am in my feelings. I have detaching myself for entirely too long. I am currently not happy with myself.
Loved this girl chat !! Girl you were literally hitting so many points I felt like I’m talking to myself lol!! ♋️♋️♋️
Accepting that it’s time to walk away can be so hard but it feels like such a relief when you do. Thank you for being open❤
I needed to hear this, been with a guy for 8 years and this whole video summed up all my feelings to a T! It’s time to go!
This girl chat was everything. These red flags were all on point as well. And the makeup look 😮💨😍
She’s back!!
This story time is so good, alot of women take so long to leave and its crazy , you are better off alone if the person is not doing they part of not even making you happy ❤ when I was young I wish i would have been told this point of view .
Love this girl chat so real and relatable as a fellow cancer I agree with the love language part because physical touch and intimacy Are so important to us
Love when you said I have the power to create my own happiness and destiny. I had to figure that out too I’m snapping like this b/c I’m not happy in this relationship or where my life was heading at the time. So many people need to learn this. Congratulations Aaliyah I’m proud of you ❤
"You have total power and controls over you" learning this was literally what made me get over my ex and know I'll never be in another situation like that!
omg Aaliyah !! These are conversations i’ve had with myself lol but seriously I just left a Long term relationship and it wasn’t easy at all but man Choosing yourself feels so much Better 💕🤞🏾 I LOVED this so much .
Love this! I think it’s a good thing to go through a process, especially when it’s not abusive. Just to make sure it’s not something you have to give grace for change and/or taking accountability for how you show up too. I’d love for you to talk about friendships too. I think we talk about toxic friends, but the growth of friendship relationships are a topic I’ve been interested in hearing other people’s thoughts.
Aaliyah talking about the reaaaaal. Yes hunny, love you girlie! 💗
Watching this video brought back so many memories. I missed your talks, love you ❤
Main thing in a relationship is learning each other before the relationship and communication plays a big roll in relationships 🤗
Chileeee. I knew it was time to put on my track shoes, when i wasn't getting what i needed.
I don’t see the products listed in the description box. I love the blush , eyeliner , and lip liner 💗Please lmk ! You’re always pmo to products I love. 💗
I wish I could like this video a million times because you are truly speaking facts and I can relate 🥺💕
All this points are right on! I felt all these and left after 6 years and almost single a year later 🎉 and I’m so much happier
This and so much more is the reason I'm subscribed to you and followed you for YEARS! I love these videos. It really hit home for me right now. Thank you
The transparency ! Absolutely love ! ❤
Very real conversation. This is something I realized too. You truly don’t have to stay with someone you don’t want to be with. You’re truly just wasting your time.
Nah For real. This me. Let’s talk about the elephant, cause if we don’t I can’t sleep. I had to train the person I was ending the relationship with about not having to be in a situation you don’t want to be in. Why do it? Life is way too short to be miserable. In this life we have choices. Choose wisely. I so love that you’re talking about this!!
I haven’t watched you in a while and I haven’t been on TH-cam in a while . For comfort I’m binging your videos . Came across this and this is something I needed to hear. I’m feeling my lowest and trying my hardest to detach but it’s hard . I’m just in a messed up situation knowing that he will never change and always treat me like I’m nothing . I’m not getting what I want out of the relationship and respect isn’t being given …
had to comment , fellow cancer (we’re up btw 🎉) . but yes all of this yes !! sometimes we put so much pressure on ourselves in love sometimes .. and love can be blinding .. happy we are picking up and leaving .. choosing yourself should never be apologized for .. solitude teaches you so much about yourself. ok i’m rambling but thank you for this ❤️❤️
Aaliyah has always been wise beyond her years from how she Carrie herself on YT. She definitely knows her worth and what’s best for her!! Keep posting positive and beautiful vids! Love it here🥰🥰🥰
Finally a eyeshadow looookkkkk💓💓 my cancer babyyyy! Been watching u since I was 15 I’ll be 24 in a couple days man the growth is INSANE! Love u always have always will! I’m the same way when it comes to addressing the elephant in the room! I have to!
Im glad u put dates on this old relationship. Because i got confused after the dubai trip video
I loved this. You're glowing from within & it shows. Keep shining SUPERSTAR!! Makeup was also everything. Details on the lip/blush combo please :)
I actually check out in my head before I actually leave & if I don’t see you in my future I wont stay & if I have to keep explaining myself & nothing has changed my mind is made up & I’m leaving Men are pretty simple but when it’s complicated that’s when you know they don’t want you
Oooouuu good sis, this was right on time😅 We're so similar in our relationship styles, and I'm leaving a 10yr relationship myself. It's definitely not easy.... But I knew for some time, it was definitely time for me to move on. Thank you for this message that touched my soul on this beautiful Sunday. Many blessings to you, as we navigate life trying to find "the one"✨
I’ve been a fan of you for a while Aaliyah and seeing your growth is truly inspiring ❤
Yess, need an in depth video on the makeup! Thank you for staying true to this content 🫶🫶
This was so therapeutic for me. I wish u would do this more often. U are helping others with ur testimony ❤
Cancer sis can I just say this video is right on time! Glad to see you back and have a great summer. 💕
If you have to put yourself in a box or live in a grey area in your relationship....LEAVE.....if they breathing irritates you....LEAVE...years in...kids...none of that is an excuse for your personal peace
This make up look omg 😍 I need the product list and tutorial! Great tips as always. I’m glad you’re sharing what you’re learning along the way. Love seeing your journey ❤
Do you have Taurus 😮 in your chart by chance?
Can we get a list of the products you used please 💙
Your makeup is flawless. ❤
That daydreaming part is real😩
Can you list the makeup items that you used please 🙏🏽
Aaliyah J you were talking about doing TikTok videos I think it will be great for you. Also, I think it would be a great idea if you could also insert some of your older videos because they are great as well along with all of your updated contacts mixed in with some of the old.
Such great advice. You are so wise to be so young and generous to share with your followers.
Sis!!! THIS is is video we (really I 😭) needed and didn’t even know it! Thankssss girllll!! 💕💕
It’s important to spend time with yourself during single season. Set boundaries. Set standards that way you won’t get caught off guard . Then end up in something you didn’t want too .
Absolutely beautiful, great advice. ❤
I would love a makeup tutorial on this beautiful look! Love your videos! 💖💖
This was so real !
The “I actually don’t like you” realization is DEEP
GIRL OMG SAME!! love your blush, which one is it?
This is the Aaliyah I remember and love❤️ I unsubscribed a few months ago thinking you were done with TH-cam, but I ran across this vid & aww I can honestly say I’ve missed you so much, as if I actually know you😂 feel like my fav og black IT Girls have fully transferred to IG, but I saw you have actually been posting lately and it makes me happy!! I got me some videos to binge over the weekend. Resubscribed
I had to come back to this video again. I felt this way when you posted it 10 months ago, and I still feel this way now. & it’s been over 12 years &I’m just over it now. Feeling all of this. All the red flags are there. Mrs time with me is limited. I hate it here.
I appreciate everything you said in this video, a lot of 💎💎💎💎 I also love watching you do your makeup because your looks always EAT! 😍😍😍😍😍
This was really good, very beautiful words and maturity shining through.