How to NOT Abandon the Betrayed During Recovery Work

There are three recoveries at play when a couple endeavors to try and save their relationship: the unfaithful's, the betrayed's and the relationship's. Failure to understand this component has not only shipwrecked many couples but isolated and abandoned many betrayed spouses who couldn't understand till later the damage that was done. Not only does the unfaithful have an affair or addiction, they then push the betrayed's recovery to the back of the plane so to speak, only to make it harder and harder for the betrayed to find oxygen for their own heart, mind and healing. It doesn't have to be this way though, and there is a better way forward. Concurrent healing is not only possible, but in most cases, essential. Today I'll discuss this approach and how the unfaithful can stay away from abandoning their betrayed partner in the process.
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[@kjkjkjjuen]

‘If only’ these were the words spoken to me…what I would have given. Thank you for honoring the betrayed and not shaming the unfaithful. A very good message.

[@tblank0302]

Great message!! Feels so true based on my own experience. Highly recommend everyone send this to their friends who are making their way through the recovery journey. Keep up the fight for your healing!

[@teeryan19]

Both were amazing I hope that people can realize that they are not alone in this because it does feel very lonely. Once you connect with a group or community of men and women who are walking or have been down this path you can see that and the support is priceless for you both. Infidelity is a lonely isolating place when that trauma hits. It’s hard it’s painful but it’s possible to heal. I am so grateful for your content.