I’m 20 years old been drinking almost daily for 4 years. 2 years in is when it got really bad I was out of school and making money with no motives. Had a few failed try’s and fell off hard after a rough year. Only one week sober now but that’s the first week in 2 years. Watching these videos every night is helping me so far
Dude you're still young and your body has the best opportunity to recover, it only gets harder the more years you drink. And trust me it's not worth all the lost years and lost opportunities. You'll be alright man just keep yourself motivated, one day at a time. Keep referring back to these videos they truly do help.
I wake up everyday wanting to quit.. it has its grips in me so bad.. thank you for this video.. Lord please break these chains off of me and anyone reading this
I agree with you as well. I just hit 2 years sober. I don't subscribe to AA either. I went alot when I first got out of rehab, then after a while, I felt worse after I left alot of the times. Some folks were negative, and seem to want to stay in that mind set. I got tired of it. I watch alot of positive video's on sobriety instead. That does me better. Take care!!
I've been sober from alcohol for 11 years. I also just reached 4 years of quit smoking. I LOVE it, best decisions I ever made. Keep up the good work.👍😊
To stop alcohol. And die from alcohol. Means bottles a day and means shakes without this drug. Yes drug. If you dont get the shakes at work after work. Your not that involved in this drug.
Alcohol has brought nothing but bad things to my life yet I always drink as a past time or to get that buzzed feeling. Really want to quit and your video has inspired me. Thank you for this.
MissdermeanerJ quitting is full of ups and downs. There will be times when you feel depressed and anxious while getting sober and your brain will try to justify a good reason to drink again even if you know there isn’t one. Just try to stay strong and surround yourself with as many good people and positive influences as you can. Best of luck!
@@MissdermeanerJ how are you doing now? AA does help. And you don't have to be scared of them, you can say just for today or just for right now, or even Im just here to listen. And if your just listening they will be cool with it.. It helps me at least .. and in this moment when I'm feeling week I'm right here on youtube watching stuff till my next meeting.
Well done July! It will be the best decision you ever made. Check out 'Alcohol Lied to Me' by Craig Beck if you get a chance. The audio book really helped me when I quit.
Hey Nick. You are a good man. Honest and down to earth. I am 17 days sober. I love it. Your vids are awesome. Stay true, stay in touch. Peace, bro. Jakob
@@daviddavian7562 It can be hard trust me I know just have to stand your ground and waking up the next day feeing great that I won that battle helps fight the urge for sure, best of luck you got this
After 20 plus years drinking I finally got help, I've never been sober longer then 3-4 days I made a 1 week clean, feeling the shame and regret from all my drunken decisions but feeling better, withdrawals is fading away, wish me luck going on week 2
I'm addicted to being sober now and I feel free from any substance abuse. It's ruined my life up to now but I've taken back control and I'm 4 months clean. Thanx for the encouragement in these videos.....
You rock. I was a beer binge drinker. Never did like hard alcohol. Then I had a heart attack in 2012. Drank a few times after and ended up in the hospital every time I did with my heart going wonkers. That did it for me. A drink isn't worth my life. Anytime I think about it, which is pretty often in the summer, the remembrance of what happens stops me cold. I had a Kalua and cream last winter. Just one. My heart went nuts. Alcohol is not my friend anymore. Great video, and Congrats!
From drinking a 26 every night after working a 12 hour shift I finally had to change or I was gunna die at a very young age. I decided to change and coming on one year August 17th and couldn’t be more happy unreal how much more energy I have and attitude change on the job site, Hardest part is not having one with the guys after a hitch. Stay strong people
Thanks for doing this update video. I’m 1 year 4 months sober so just a little behind you and it’s so great to see you doing so well. Alcohol robbed us of opportunities ....never again ☝️
Man, I was a touring drummer for years and a opiate addict. I finally got away from music business altogether after having my first kid 10 years ago, but I still drink and everyone's fine with it because it's socially acceptable and I have a good job, but I decided to search for videos like this today after going to a dentist appointment and not be able to get work done because my blood pressure was 190. I realize I'm killing myself slowly at this point. Just looking for ideas on a first step that doesn't cause me to lose my job. Stoked for you!! Godbless
Its all about just taking accountability to yourself first. Realize what you're doing is not helping you and is actually hurting you. You've got this man! Take it one day at a time!!
I'm gonna start day 1. You made a lot of good points and I lost my dad to drinking. I really appreciate you being out there. Thanks for helping me want to quit.
@@LuisSuarez-yv8zn I am on the same kick, maybe a little more frequent and not more than a sixer or a bottle of wine. It just makes me feel like a jerkoff, though. Kicked it for good. And stopped smoking the weed. THAT is harder. I was a commercial grower back in the day and always had the good shit!
I totally agree with you regarding the counting of days. I would always encourage people to not just take it a day at a time but actually a moment at a time, and make sure that moment is in the moment. That it's not a moment dwelling on past mistakes (guilt) or the future (overwhelming). If you can hone in on the art of constantly being in the present moment it is a place you will never touch alcohol again. Forget about the past because it can judge you. Forget about the future because it can worry you. In the present there is no judgement, no hate, no worry or fear. It is all about the peace of "now". I like to think of it a little like one of those flat conveyor belts that you stand on when you're at the airport. You're moving forward but you are stationary. Remain in every moment, and all of those moments become the past the present and the future - your SAFE place where nobody can hurt you. Peace out beautiful souls
Wow, what great advice. I'm constantly obsessing on all the mistakes I've made. Then tripping on what may happen, I make up the weirdest scenarios. I guess it all stems from fear and guilt.
Fantastic video Captain ! I've watched many quitting drinking video's and just as you said stop watching at some point usually because I'm not feeling any connection to what they are saying. You my friend managed to captivate me for the entire video being about as honest a person that you could be. My hats off to you for unselfishly bearing your soul for half an hour so that people like me might find a glimmer of hope for ourselves in what your experience has been like and what you did to get out of it. Very moving!
Thanks man. Being 77 days clear. I totally get the AA comments. Father of three young ones makes it very hard for me to dedicate the amount of time they are saying is needed. I'm so trying to take what works for me. On step 4and 5 and am hopeful it helps me continue this path.
I have been struggling getting my shit straight. My problem isnt quite as big as yours was but, enough to be pretty messy. Thanks for sharing a bit of your story. Gives me hope. 💜
Hey Elena. if you need some help quitting- hmu. I help people get past the anxiety, stress and social pressures that come with putting down the bottle.
Dude, right on. I first found you on TH-cam because I was searching for sleeping in my suburban and videos about Suburban's and I am so glad I found you. You inspire and help people so much by telling your story and just being real. Thanks Man.
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I’m currently 7 days sober been trying to be sober for a month I’m 23 years old I started going to AA and it’s helped me a lot including God 🙏🏽 I’m slowly starting to feel my freedom coming back! I can relate to a lot of what you’re saying I’ve made a fool out of myself countless times I lost the person I thought was going to be husband and it’s all because of my addiction I’m an alcoholic and WE GOT THIS WITH GOD ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE! I hear in AA don’t walk out that door before the miracle happens don’t stop going make time for it!
I’m a year 8 months alcohol free too! Watching TH-cam vids really helps. It’s a long process of rewiring the brain and rebuilding your life but well worth it! I’ve noticed my life outlook becoming more positive too
I like the fact you call a spade a spade!! Well video, I've struggled with alcohol for over 10 years. Sober up, fall in the rabbit hole, sober up blah blah blah...but you nailed every focus point!! Without shame, well said my man👍👍
I have an extremely addictive personality. But luckily alcohol never got a hold of me. I could not imagine. Keep up the good fight. Your an inspiration to many.
Wow 2 years already? I have been following since just before you decided to quit and can only tell you how proud I am of you and happy for you and Lexi both ,, Keep Rockin man
Right on man. Keep up the good work! I’m 4.5 months sober. Whiskey and miller lite was my go to. 12 pack a night at least! Now I’m focused on building my TJ and saving so much money! Lol it’s crazy. Enjoy your videos
Laying on the couch 3 weeks, recovering from HERNIA SURGERY #4..Quit drinking Jan 06 because of your Courage. Unfortunately had a relapse 4 days out of the Hospital. 2 large tumblers of Tequila.. Quit again for sure. My friend KIM ordered me a grey-cap from you. I'm not computer savy.. Cant wait for it to arrive.. Heal well, Brother..
“Your misery will be gladly refunded to you”- legendary quote I think about everytime I even consider doing drugs again. I am with the lord and the lord is with me and as long as I keep my promise, the good lord will keep his and protect me, bless me, and put me in the best position to maintain long term sobriety. With him anything is possible. Good luck to all looking for recovery or in recovery! We are ALL in this fight together as ONE! God be with you and stay safe and strong you all. Love every single one of you recovering addicts, this community helps me a lot thank you 🙏🏼
Dude. You are SO spot on. Thank you! I love the "we stay sober no matter what" comment. I'm struggling and need help. YOU are helping bro. Thank you. I'll end there because I forgot what else I was going to say. AWESOME video. I remember.
These sobriety vids are how you will go viral. Im fighting my own problems with this. We have very similar stories. I dig your common sense approach to sobriety and your openness telling us all this.
Hey Adam, if you need some help quitting- hmu. I help people get past the anxiety, stress and social pressures that come with putting down the bottle. Stay strong!
13 years sober was drinking since 12 and quit at 22 one year after the legal drinking age it's day by day boredom is the worst enemy! Hell yeah thank you sharing! My mom was in the hospital for 10 days coming off booze she doesn't Remember the days at all! Always take my own car and be out around 11 12 the latest I'm not either first 3 steps most important but always have a home to walk into to where we all have something in common!! Congrats thank you for sharing hugs from afar keep on trucking still very aware at 13 years which is cause I've heard a lot of people with many years and than think it's ok I'll have one than the trickle effect I've also like to relate to heroin addicts both waking up in the morning sick throwing up don't eat etc your awesome keep shining your a star ⭐
Thanks for sharing this video . I'm a heavy drinker myself and I'm trying my hardest to quit it's honestly humiliating and embarrassing all the blackouts and shit , and I also picked fights and do dumb shit .. it makes me feel better hearing your story all the similarities , and you stopping drinking, congratulations
5 days in, finding some inspiration here as the weekend is coming and it’s my days off as I’m a shift worker. Drinking rum every other night when not working, enough is enough. But life is all a bit boring without it. I need to do 30 days for myself!
You a so appreciated, you do a great job talking about it. And are probably reaching an important audience, guys who aren’t as young as they once were, but have years to go to drink until their organs are all shutting down, plenty of time to get healthy and clear. I have 7 months and I feel fantastic. Good work you!
Yep. You only have to quit for one day. That's how I did it. I was highly motivated by a heart attack too though. Did the AA thing for 30 days. Got my chip. I wasn't impressed though. Bunch of people who just replaced one vice with a few others. They smoke like fiends and drink way too much coffee. And the sob stories. Geeesh. Couldn't handle it man. Got my chip and left. I have no idea where that chip is today. But I still have a few now and again. Mostly when I'm camping and then it's only a few. During my birthday week I only had 9 beers total and that included the four I had on my birthday at the party we had out in Death Valley. I'm good with it. Glad you are OK too Nick. Hang in there. You know you could spend some of that time going through my more than 900 videos... LOL...
@@billyblastoff4179 Who the holy fuck are you? Ya know I do pretty damn good for being a loser. I'm a veteran of the Vietnam war, a skydiver and hang glider pilot for over 30 years, own my own property and my own successful business and I know how to spell which is something you obviously don't. And Nick has been hanging in there for well over a year. Can you say any of the same? I never intended to quit drinking forever. I just wanted to quit for 30 days to see how hard it is. I did it. Now I very seldom drink. And when I do it's usually never more than 2 or 3 beers. Look in the closest mirror and you'll see who the loser is.
Thank you for making videos, one hour sober and I pray I can actually make it this time. I am at my personal rock bottom, I just left my job yesterday to come home and drink because I couldn’t handle an anxiety attack on shift :( I want to be happy and healthy and I will keep coming back to these videos to find strength. Thank you. Followed you on insta :)
CM, Hey hun. Im sorry you're having such a difficult time right now. You are not alone. if you need some help quitting or even just someone to talk to- hmu. I help people get past the anxiety, stress and social pressures that come with putting down the bottle.
Before I'm saying something which might upset you, let me give you some intro: I'm a little over 2 years sober now for the first time in 20 years. I've also been struggling with booze, drinking the same or even more than you on a daily basis. You just sound like me when I've been trying to stay sober before my current attempt. In the past, I've been a so called "dry drunk", basically still the mindset of an alcoholic but fighting the urge. Fighting the urge can work but my life was miserable, always debating with myself why I should or shouldn't drink, keeping myself busy all the time etc. What I've done now differently is working on the reasons WHY I was drinking, in my case it was anxiety and loneliness. Using therapy I can gladly say that I have 0 cravings anymore and a completely new life started. So my advice to myself if I'd relapse: Analyze the situation which led me to grab the drink. Did I feel lonely? Anxious? Depressed? Our mind is or was programmed to use alcohol in such conditions, but we can retrain it. With therapy and lots of mental exercise. All the best!
I have been sober in AA for 32 years and I was a mess when I walked into AA!! You do not have to be alone with AA and you can be in a group that help each other!! Thanks for the positive video about your sober journey ... So far!!
Thanks for vid, I did the AA route but then went the way worked for me, Tues Dec 10th was nine years for me. Don’t say this to impress or ego based rather it is all possible however you run your programme and main thing is no alcohol and we get on with our lives. Simply I love being sober and want this more than the other option. Thanks again and respect to you 👍✌️
Keep it up brother I was just like you back in the day and I quit for a few months. I only drink if we bbq or go camping now. I can control it now and feel so much better to.
Just keep an eye on that and be careful. I'm not saying that this is the case for everybody (or for you for that matter), but for a large majority moderation is procrastinating the inevitable. You either slide back over time or you just have to quit outright. Self honesty is the key. Keep up the good work Shannon!
Lost my mother last moth & her partner has regressed. Same drink you mentioned in this. Man has been like a father to me for most of my life. I hate seeing him like this. I've had a problem with junk food in the past. Still get cravings. Dropping an addiction is not an easy think to do so be proud of what you have achieved.
So glad you saw your wrong. Good thing for your future. "Simple Man" Lynard Scynard listen with your free time. I have always tried to show my son how life should be just be a simple man. Life will be good. Melva
Congratulations My Recovered Brother And My Friend, I Been Sober From Alcohol 5Years And 1Month I was 21Days Sober When I entered A.A. I did the 12 Recovery Steps Of A.A. With a Sponsor, I don’t go 2, A.A. Meetings that much, But I Do Listen 2, A.A. Speaker Meetings, Sleeping is Awesome Without Alcohol
Much respect towards you Gnarkill, your accomplishments to remain sober is an honorable thing, you should be proud... Keep up the great work bruh! 👍 On a lighter side of things. Your facial reaction to random noises had me busting up, you're quite the character Gnarkill. Much Respect, 🙏 Richie Rich
You may not like posting these vids but I have them saved as a reminder for myself for when I get too complacent. I also am not a fan of the AA but ive been forced through it several times and got a few things out also. I love that you mentioned the nap thing when you start feeling "squirely" and also that you mentioned staying productive. Those 2 things are very important for me also and have helped me tremendously. Thank you for this vid I needed to revisit it today.
This used to be me.. I used to go out every single weekend, thinking it would give me all the answers.. Happiness, Fulfilment, Meaningful Friendships, meet my SoulMate.. You see a lot of people use Alcohol as a crutch to reward them with the Confidence to approach that person, or the Charisma to get up and Dance or the Humour to make people laugh or whatever that may be. But if you look deep inside you CAN carry all these incredible traits without a Drop of Alcohol, replacing your Weekends going to Bars to Weekends filled with Incredible Hobbies that fulfil you internally and that build towards your Dreams. Imagine Building the Business of your Dreams, Traveling the World, Building your Dream Body or whatever it is you want in your One Life. If you have ever considered Giving up Alcohol, Even cutting down on Alcohol or wanting to replace your Weekends of Clubbing with fulfilling events.. then I am here to tell you it is 100% possible and very very simple. It is never too late to turn your Life around guys! Clubs are designed to get you as intoxicated as possible and spend more money, it is a Business. The music, the lights, the people. Cracking this code is amazing, do things that fulfil you and the rest will follow! :)
Gnarkill Keep talking about it maybe not on TH-cam if you don't want to, but keep talking to anyone who will listen, it will free you, and be patient good things will happen it takes time though, proud of you buddy
Enjoyed your video very much. Helped me 3rd day of sobriety. Alcohol is not my friend that's for sure but it's me or that other me that causes the real problem. Babysitting your other self.
Sooo proud of you, man! Ím an addictionspecialist, and think you are very brave and helpful to a ton of ppl out there by talking abt this. AA isn’t for everyone, and I personally, in my work experience, have NEVER seen AA worlk well enough for any of my clients, and they too describe it as culty. Looking at their stats and other key factors, it has extremely low positive results all over, way too low for AA to be such a huge part of the rehab systems world wide. That said, I have seen ppl who AA and NA worked well for too, but not without buying into it all 100%...but hey, it is better than the alternative:-)... AA would be great with some updates and adjustments imo- but there needs to be alternatives to AA too. My family on both sides were heavy alcoholics who all died brutally and sad- AA never worked for any of them, so my views might be colored by that, still, I would never tell a client to not try it. I always recommend trying it to all my clients, and am aware that my personal opinions on AA has no place in my work. It is personal. Ack...sorry for ranting abt this- all I really wanted to say was GREAT job, man! Keep it up! Love from Norway🇳🇴🥰
I found you by accident tonight. & I Thank God I Did! I have recently gotten sober & it's Not easy, I just had to say thank you for making these videos & for caring about people you 've never even met, And for the funny stuff you say, Food taste much better now to I!!! Lololol👍😃💜 My savior & comforter Is MUSIC! I'd not play anything But I listen Every day. Lately it's been Chris Cornell & The grunge era " the 90"s" and Creed & three days Grace with Adam😃🎵🎵🎵🎵
Nice job dude, you stopped it before it started destroying your health. I’m way past that, my health is starting to fail. Damn this disease, it’s nice to see people get out early cuz it gets dark eventually. Keep it up.
Yup 3-4 weeks was about the same time it took me to start seeing and thinking so much more clearly. I did alot with numbers at work, and was able to process them 3x as fast as I reached a month sober.
I’m 20 years old been drinking almost daily for 4 years. 2 years in is when it got really bad I was out of school and making money with no motives. Had a few failed try’s and fell off hard after a rough year. Only one week sober now but that’s the first week in 2 years. Watching these videos every night is helping me so far
Dude you're still young and your body has the best opportunity to recover, it only gets harder the more years you drink. And trust me it's not worth all the lost years and lost opportunities. You'll be alright man just keep yourself motivated, one day at a time. Keep referring back to these videos they truly do help.
I wake up everyday wanting to quit.. it has its grips in me so bad.. thank you for this video.. Lord please break these chains off of me and anyone reading this
Hope you’re okay!
I’m the exact same in tears reading this
All stay strong!
Amen to that
I same it like being in purgatory. The grips are so bad.
I agree with you as well. I just hit 2 years sober. I don't subscribe to AA either. I went alot when I first got out of rehab, then after a while, I felt worse after I left alot of the times. Some folks were negative, and seem to want to stay in that mind set.
I got tired of it.
I watch alot of positive video's on sobriety instead.
That does me better.
Take care!!
I've been sober from alcohol for 11 years. I also just reached 4 years of quit smoking.
I LOVE it, best decisions I ever made. Keep up the good work.👍😊
Wanna date?
To stop alcohol. And die from alcohol. Means bottles a day and means shakes without this drug. Yes drug. If you dont get the shakes at work after work. Your not that involved in this drug.
d Craig beck
Gosh darlin.....but you only look about 17!
how old were you when you started drinking?
Alcohol has brought nothing but bad things to my life yet I always drink as a past time or to get that buzzed feeling. Really want to quit and your video has inspired me. Thank you for this.
Tyler Alvarez same here
Everytime I see Alcohol ads, I want to smash those bottles.
same here
Me as well..DUI lost job etc
@@gfox860instagram that etc doh... I just filled in all my fuck ups.
I struggling alcoholic
Thanks for this video
I'm newly sober. Its been tough but I'm trying hard. Glad to see others succeed.
Michelle VanDeWalle I’m on day 17 myself.
Day 1 for me. The first step of my journey. I'm ready
@@brianbauer7560 The record for any drunk is 1 day, the first year can be very hard and you might need a strait jacket.
@@brianbauer7560 The record is 1 day,
@@niall441 1 month, 5 days now. I feel great. And the money I'm saving is incredible. Wish I'd done this a long time ago.
Your funny! I love it! I love being sober and it’s a work in progress but the benefits OUTWAY being drunk
I"m approaching one month drink-free. Your story has helped me tremendously. Heal that injury up good sir.
How do you do it? I'm geniunely addicted and I want and need to quit and I feel like even though I want to be sober so bad I just... can't.
Helppp....
Right on C33.
I been slowing down on my drinking and actually feel better
MissdermeanerJ quitting is full of ups and downs. There will be times when you feel depressed and anxious while getting sober and your brain will try to justify a good reason to drink again even if you know there isn’t one. Just try to stay strong and surround yourself with as many good people and positive influences as you can. Best of luck!
@@MissdermeanerJ how are you doing now? AA does help. And you don't have to be scared of them, you can say just for today or just for right now, or even Im just here to listen. And if your just listening they will be cool with it.. It helps me at least .. and in this moment when I'm feeling week I'm right here on youtube watching stuff till my next meeting.
@WhudUP Do .....so put down the beer bottle and pick up a joint instead..... Great advice 👍
I quit entirely a couple weeks ago. Hearing you talk about it is absolutely inspiring
July stay strong brothaa
Well done July! It will be the best decision you ever made. Check out 'Alcohol Lied to Me' by Craig Beck if you get a chance. The audio book really helped me when I quit.
Hey july, hows the journey going? are you still holding strong?
@@nate4166 went 2 months sober then had drinks on a vaca sadly. The 2 months was nice to give back clarity though, im back to being sober again though
Love hearing that!
Hey Nick. You are a good man. Honest and down to earth. I am 17 days sober. I love it. Your vids are awesome. Stay true, stay in touch. Peace, bro. Jakob
Stay strong everyone, where all in this together.
Yes we are! :)
I’m trying again. Chronic relapser here.
@@daviddavian7562 It can be hard trust me I know just have to stand your ground and waking up the next day feeing great that I won that battle helps fight the urge for sure, best of luck you got this
Thank you for making videos like this!! I'm 363 days sober today 🙂
After 20 plus years drinking I finally got help, I've never been sober longer then 3-4 days I made a 1 week clean, feeling the shame and regret from all my drunken decisions but feeling better, withdrawals is fading away, wish me luck going on week 2
Well ?
You are helping me ! 4 days sober - lifetime to go. THANK YOU !
FUCK YEAH!!! Kick that BULLSHIT!!
Keep it up!!
Hey man you should know that you've helped so many people with your story, thanks.
I'm addicted to being sober now and I feel free from any substance abuse.
It's ruined my life up to now but I've taken back control and I'm 4 months clean.
Thanx for the encouragement in these videos.....
I'm struggling atm. Literally no one understands, i just discovered you i love hearing your testimony.
You rock. I was a beer binge drinker. Never did like hard alcohol. Then I had a heart attack in 2012. Drank a few times after and ended up in the hospital every time I did with my heart going wonkers. That did it for me. A drink isn't worth my life. Anytime I think about it, which is pretty often in the summer, the remembrance of what happens stops me cold. I had a Kalua and cream last winter. Just one. My heart went nuts. Alcohol is not my friend anymore. Great video, and Congrats!
Solzeye Jewels how old were you I get like that to !
From drinking a 26 every night after working a 12 hour shift I finally had to change or I was gunna die at a very young age. I decided to change and coming on one year August 17th and couldn’t be more happy unreal how much more energy I have and attitude change on the job site, Hardest part is not having one with the guys after a hitch. Stay strong people
Thanks for doing this update video. I’m 1 year 4 months sober so just a little behind you and it’s so great to see you doing so well. Alcohol robbed us of opportunities ....never again ☝️
That's the attitude Jazz! Never again. We now live in a moment of love and freedom. Alcohol is vile on all levels.
Man, I was a touring drummer for years and a opiate addict. I finally got away from music business altogether after having my first kid 10 years ago, but I still drink and everyone's fine with it because it's socially acceptable and I have a good job, but I decided to search for videos like this today after going to a dentist appointment and not be able to get work done because my blood pressure was 190. I realize I'm killing myself slowly at this point. Just looking for ideas on a first step that doesn't cause me to lose my job.
Stoked for you!! Godbless
Its all about just taking accountability to yourself first. Realize what you're doing is not helping you and is actually hurting you. You've got this man! Take it one day at a time!!
I'm gonna start day 1. You made a lot of good points and I lost my dad to drinking. I really appreciate you being out there. Thanks for helping me want to quit.
I’m only drinking a bottle of vodka a week, but I still think I need to quit. Thanks for sharing, bro.
I drink once every 2-3 weeks, and even that is pushing it.
This'll be my last one and after that im done ... No more of this shit.
@@LuisSuarez-yv8zn I am on the same kick, maybe a little more frequent and not more than a sixer or a bottle of wine. It just makes me feel like a jerkoff, though. Kicked it for good.
And stopped smoking the weed. THAT is harder. I was a commercial grower back in the day and always had the good shit!
The problem is not the times you drink the problem is the quantity of alcohol you consume when you drink
I drink so much that if I drank a fifth of Bourbon a week, I'd be cured.
Good job man, I was just as bad, I'm 5 weeks sober feelin good!
How's your sobriety going?
I totally agree with you regarding the counting of days. I would always encourage people to not just take it a day at a time but actually a moment at a time, and make sure that moment is in the moment. That it's not a moment dwelling on past mistakes (guilt) or the future (overwhelming). If you can hone in on the art of constantly being in the present moment it is a place you will never touch alcohol again. Forget about the past because it can judge you. Forget about the future because it can worry you. In the present there is no judgement, no hate, no worry or fear. It is all about the peace of "now".
I like to think of it a little like one of those flat conveyor belts that you stand on when you're at the airport. You're moving forward but you are stationary. Remain in every moment, and all of those moments become the past the present and the future - your SAFE place where nobody can hurt you. Peace out beautiful souls
Wow, what great advice. I'm constantly obsessing on all the mistakes I've made. Then tripping on what may happen, I make up the weirdest scenarios. I guess it all stems from fear and guilt.
47 days! Thanks for these videos!
Fantastic video Captain ! I've watched many quitting drinking video's and just as you said stop watching at some point usually because I'm not feeling any connection to what they are saying. You my friend managed to captivate me for the entire video being about as honest a person that you could be. My hats off to you for unselfishly bearing your soul for half an hour so that people like me might find a glimmer of hope for ourselves in what your experience has been like and what you did to get out of it. Very moving!
What help me over drinking alcohol is praying and cardio
Thanks man. Being 77 days clear. I totally get the AA comments. Father of three young ones makes it very hard for me to dedicate the amount of time they are saying is needed. I'm so trying to take what works for me. On step 4and 5 and am hopeful it helps me continue this path.
“WE STAY SOBER NO MATTER WHAT” So Simply Yet SOO POWERFUL, Thanks Cap
"An idle mind is the devil's workshop."
I have been struggling getting my shit straight. My problem isnt quite as big as yours was but, enough to be pretty messy. Thanks for sharing a bit of your story. Gives me hope. 💜
Hey Elena. if you need some help quitting- hmu. I help people get past the anxiety, stress and social pressures that come with putting down the bottle.
I’m so productive when I’m sober
Thank u Bro it's my second day being somber pray for me I really Need This
praying for you i know what it's like to battle the bottle
How is it going?
It’s my first day, & I’m committed to staying sober!
YOU GOT THIS! Keep going it gets better
Dude, right on. I first found you on TH-cam because I was searching for sleeping in my suburban and videos about Suburban's and I am so glad I found you. You inspire and help people so much by telling your story and just being real. Thanks Man.
hi everyone ,if anyone else wants to learn about best steps to stop drinking try Bablim Zero Drinking Booster (just google it ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my co-worker got cool results with it.
I’m currently 7 days sober been trying to be sober for a month I’m 23 years old I started going to AA and it’s helped me a lot including God 🙏🏽 I’m slowly starting to feel my freedom coming back! I can relate to a lot of what you’re saying I’ve made a fool out of myself countless times I lost the person I thought was going to be husband and it’s all because of my addiction I’m an alcoholic and WE GOT THIS WITH GOD ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE! I hear in AA don’t walk out that door before the miracle happens don’t stop going make time for it!
How's your recovery going? I'm trying to cut back, just looking for support from others in a similar position!
Currently 5 months sober!!
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@@jaquelineestrada7845 congrats and prayers up! I'm slowly starting to battle my drinking problem after years of denial lol
I’m a year 8 months alcohol free too! Watching TH-cam vids really helps. It’s a long process of rewiring the brain and rebuilding your life but well worth it! I’ve noticed my life outlook becoming more positive too
I like the fact you call a spade a spade!! Well video, I've struggled with alcohol for over 10 years. Sober up, fall in the rabbit hole, sober up blah blah blah...but you nailed every focus point!! Without shame, well said my man👍👍
Don’t be afraid.. you are gifted with your experience and delivery 🙏
I have an extremely addictive personality.
But luckily alcohol never got a hold of me. I could not imagine. Keep up the good fight. Your an inspiration to many.
Wow 2 years already? I have been following since just before you decided to quit and can only tell you how proud I am of you and happy for you and Lexi both ,, Keep Rockin man
Im not exactly at smirnoff a day level but am definitely getting there this is the wake up call i needed
Right on man. Keep up the good work! I’m 4.5 months sober. Whiskey and miller lite was my go to. 12 pack a night at least! Now I’m focused on building my TJ and saving so much money! Lol it’s crazy. Enjoy your videos
Alcohol = $ hangovers, jail, embarrassment, and depression. 👊
yes depression
True
Don't miss hangovers one bit
Hangovers are the worst. Feels great for three hours and shitty for the rest of the day.
@@LuisSuarez-yv8zn shitty for days and days after
I had the “super senses” experience when I quit smoking, it will be amazing if I get to experience it again in quitting drinking.
Laying on the couch 3 weeks, recovering from HERNIA SURGERY #4..Quit drinking Jan 06 because of your Courage. Unfortunately had a relapse 4 days out of the Hospital. 2 large tumblers of Tequila.. Quit again for sure. My friend KIM ordered me a grey-cap from you. I'm not computer savy.. Cant wait for it to arrive.. Heal well, Brother..
“Your misery will be gladly refunded to you”- legendary quote I think about everytime I even consider doing drugs again. I am with the lord and the lord is with me and as long as I keep my promise, the good lord will keep his and protect me, bless me, and put me in the best position to maintain long term sobriety. With him anything is possible. Good luck to all looking for recovery or in recovery! We are ALL in this fight together as ONE! God be with you and stay safe and strong you all. Love every single one of you recovering addicts, this community helps me a lot thank you 🙏🏼
So happy for you! I've lost two loved ones to liver failure due to alcohol. I wish they would have done what you did. Congratulations!!
Currently on day 4. This is my 3rd attempt. I’m all in and never looking back.
Dude. You are SO spot on. Thank you! I love the "we stay sober no matter what" comment. I'm struggling and need help. YOU are helping bro. Thank you. I'll end there because I forgot what else I was going to say. AWESOME video. I remember.
You helped, or inspired me man! I am very drunk right now but hoping to change my habit soon as its running my marriage, so please carry on
@Jewel Joy Beautiful response, thank you Jewel :-)
Can we talk?
You got this! Coming here and watching this video is a first step!
Jewel Joy No
Thank you for sharing this. I needed some encouragement.
These sobriety vids are how you will go viral. Im fighting my own problems with this. We have very similar stories. I dig your common sense approach to sobriety and your openness telling us all this.
Hey Adam, if you need some help quitting- hmu. I help people get past the anxiety, stress and social pressures that come with putting down the bottle. Stay strong!
Antonio Nathan Pargas info on getting passed the anxiety im 40+ days sober and can’t shake it
13 years sober was drinking since 12 and quit at 22 one year after the legal drinking age it's day by day boredom is the worst enemy! Hell yeah thank you sharing! My mom was in the hospital for 10 days coming off booze she doesn't Remember the days at all! Always take my own car and be out around 11 12 the latest I'm not either first 3 steps most important but always have a home to walk into to where we all have something in common!! Congrats thank you for sharing hugs from afar keep on trucking still very aware at 13 years which is cause I've heard a lot of people with many years and than think it's ok I'll have one than the trickle effect I've also like to relate to heroin addicts both waking up in the morning sick throwing up don't eat etc your awesome keep shining your a star ⭐
I don't even drink hard alcohol. But my beer drinking is bad. I really appreciate you.
Thanks for sharing this video . I'm a heavy drinker myself and I'm trying my hardest to quit it's honestly humiliating and embarrassing all the blackouts and shit , and I also picked fights and do dumb shit .. it makes me feel better hearing your story all the similarities , and you stopping drinking, congratulations
5 days in, finding some inspiration here as the weekend is coming and it’s my days off as I’m a shift worker. Drinking rum every other night when not working, enough is enough. But life is all a bit boring without it. I need to do 30 days for myself!
You a so appreciated, you do a great job talking about it. And are probably reaching an important audience, guys who aren’t as young as they once were, but have years to go to drink until their organs are all shutting down, plenty of time to get healthy and clear. I have 7 months and I feel fantastic. Good work you!
Excellent post Jennifer and so incredibly true. Well done on your 7 months! Feels good when you raise your game and enjoy your new found life
This video is gold man
Ive always wanted to talk to people about quitting
Yo Lance, if you need some help quitting- hmu. I help people get past the anxiety, stress and social pressures that come with putting down the bottle.
Very inspiring brother. I had two months clean and just relapsed.
Yep. You only have to quit for one day. That's how I did it. I was highly motivated by a heart attack too though. Did the AA thing for 30 days. Got my chip. I wasn't impressed though. Bunch of people who just replaced one vice with a few others. They smoke like fiends and drink way too much coffee. And the sob stories. Geeesh. Couldn't handle it man. Got my chip and left. I have no idea where that chip is today. But I still have a few now and again. Mostly when I'm camping and then it's only a few. During my birthday week I only had 9 beers total and that included the four I had on my birthday at the party we had out in Death Valley. I'm good with it. Glad you are OK too Nick. Hang in there. You know you could spend some of that time going through my more than 900 videos... LOL...
mobiltec yer a loser, go back to drinking like gnarkills going to.
@@billyblastoff4179 Who the holy fuck are you? Ya know I do pretty damn good for being a loser. I'm a veteran of the Vietnam war, a skydiver and hang glider pilot for over 30 years, own my own property and my own successful business and I know how to spell which is something you obviously don't. And Nick has been hanging in there for well over a year. Can you say any of the same? I never intended to quit drinking forever. I just wanted to quit for 30 days to see how hard it is. I did it. Now I very seldom drink. And when I do it's usually never more than 2 or 3 beers. Look in the closest mirror and you'll see who the loser is.
This is helping me with trying to stop drinking, I am struggling with this. Thanks 😊 Stay Sober
Thank you for making videos, one hour sober and I pray I can actually make it this time. I am at my personal rock bottom, I just left my job yesterday to come home and drink because I couldn’t handle an anxiety attack on shift :( I want to be happy and healthy and I will keep coming back to these videos to find strength. Thank you. Followed you on insta :)
CM, Hey hun. Im sorry you're having such a difficult time right now. You are not alone. if you need some help quitting or even just someone to talk to- hmu. I help people get past the anxiety, stress and social pressures that come with putting down the bottle.
Before I'm saying something which might upset you, let me give you some intro: I'm a little over 2 years sober now for the first time in 20 years. I've also been struggling with booze, drinking the same or even more than you on a daily basis.
You just sound like me when I've been trying to stay sober before my current attempt. In the past, I've been a so called "dry drunk", basically still the mindset of an alcoholic but fighting the urge. Fighting the urge can work but my life was miserable, always debating with myself why I should or shouldn't drink, keeping myself busy all the time etc.
What I've done now differently is working on the reasons WHY I was drinking, in my case it was anxiety and loneliness. Using therapy I can gladly say that I have 0 cravings anymore and a completely new life started. So my advice to myself if I'd relapse: Analyze the situation which led me to grab the drink. Did I feel lonely? Anxious? Depressed? Our mind is or was programmed to use alcohol in such conditions, but we can retrain it. With therapy and lots of mental exercise. All the best!
I have been sober in AA for 32 years and I was a mess when I walked into AA!!
You do not have to be alone with AA and you can be in a group that help each other!!
Thanks for the positive video about your sober journey ... So far!!
You spoke directly to me about the four walls and shutting people out
Now I drink beer about 5 days nonstop, and can not stop. I subscribe and gonna watch all your videos if I survive
Thanks for vid, I did the AA route but then went the way worked for me, Tues Dec 10th was nine years for me. Don’t say this to impress or ego based rather it is all possible however you run your programme and main thing is no alcohol and we get on with our lives. Simply I love being sober and want this more than the other option. Thanks again and respect to you 👍✌️
Hey man, just came up on yr channel. Trying to quit the shit in my head, my girl is a recovering alcoholic......at a crossroads
You've showed me change is possible! If you can do it anyone can! Thank you for inspiring me! What a blessing to come across your videos.
Bro, watched your videos on sobriety and just wanted to say job well done man.
Fantastic video dude!!!
I agree with everything you said.
I just got out of rehab 3 weeks ago. Got 59 days sober today.
Have a great one!!!!
Keep it up brother I was just like you back in the day and I quit for a few months. I only drink if we bbq or go camping now. I can control it now and feel so much better to.
Just keep an eye on that and be careful. I'm not saying that this is the case for everybody (or for you for that matter), but for a large majority moderation is procrastinating the inevitable. You either slide back over time or you just have to quit outright. Self honesty is the key. Keep up the good work Shannon!
Thanks man
Lost my mother last moth & her partner has regressed. Same drink you mentioned in this.
Man has been like a father to me for most of my life. I hate seeing him like this.
I've had a problem with junk food in the past. Still get cravings. Dropping an addiction is not an easy think to do so be proud of what you have achieved.
So glad you saw your wrong. Good thing for your future.
"Simple Man" Lynard Scynard listen with your free time. I have always tried to show my son how life should be just be a simple man. Life will be good. Melva
Congratulations My Recovered Brother And My Friend, I Been Sober From Alcohol 5Years And 1Month I was 21Days Sober When I entered A.A. I did the 12 Recovery Steps Of A.A. With a Sponsor, I don’t go 2, A.A. Meetings that much, But I Do Listen 2, A.A. Speaker Meetings, Sleeping is Awesome Without Alcohol
Inspirational message! We are so proud of what you've accomplished!!
Youre such a brave guy to stop drinking and then share your story. Thnx man!
Much respect towards you Gnarkill, your accomplishments to remain sober is an honorable thing, you should be proud...
Keep up the great work bruh! 👍
On a lighter side of things. Your facial reaction to random noises had me busting up, you're quite the character Gnarkill.
Much Respect, 🙏
Richie Rich
Today is my 2and day sober, your story is inspiring, now it's up to me too continue on day by day!
Way to be courageous to share your story. Through the shame and the pain you are being a leader and showing others the way to live a better life.
You may not like posting these vids but I have them saved as a reminder for myself for when I get too complacent. I also am not a fan of the AA but ive been forced through it several times and got a few things out also. I love that you mentioned the nap thing when you start feeling "squirely" and also that you mentioned staying productive. Those 2 things are very important for me also and have helped me tremendously. Thank you for this vid I needed to revisit it today.
Love how you focused on the positive benefits from stopping 👍 thanks
This used to be me.. I used to go out every single weekend, thinking it would give me all the answers.. Happiness, Fulfilment, Meaningful Friendships, meet my SoulMate.. You see a lot of people use Alcohol as a crutch to reward them with the Confidence to approach that person, or the Charisma to get up and Dance or the Humour to make people laugh or whatever that may be. But if you look deep inside you CAN carry all these incredible traits without a Drop of Alcohol, replacing your Weekends going to Bars to Weekends filled with Incredible Hobbies that fulfil you internally and that build towards your Dreams. Imagine Building the Business of your Dreams, Traveling the World, Building your Dream Body or whatever it is you want in your One Life. If you have ever considered Giving up Alcohol, Even cutting down on Alcohol or wanting to replace your Weekends of Clubbing with fulfilling events.. then I am here to tell you it is 100% possible and very very simple. It is never too late to turn your Life around guys! Clubs are designed to get you as intoxicated as possible and spend more money, it is a Business. The music, the lights, the people. Cracking this code is amazing, do things that fulfil you and the rest will follow! :)
So glad you remembered to add the very old man’s quote at 17:00. That was very powerful.
So glad you beat the beast! An inspiration for others
Box Truck Cory we never beat the beast.
Gnarkill Keep talking about it maybe not on TH-cam if you don't want to, but keep talking to anyone who will listen, it will free you, and be patient good things will happen it takes time though, proud of you buddy
Enjoyed your video very much. Helped me 3rd day of sobriety. Alcohol is not my friend that's for sure but it's me or that other me that causes the real problem. Babysitting your other self.
Hope you are ok pal, haven’t seen a video from you in a while. Sending good vibes from Scotland ❤️
Thank brother for opening up to us on your videos, so happy for your struggles and staying on top. God bless and intill we see you again injoy
Sooo proud of you, man! Ím an addictionspecialist, and think you are very brave and helpful to a ton of ppl out there by talking abt this. AA isn’t for everyone, and I personally, in my work experience, have NEVER seen AA worlk well enough for any of my clients, and they too describe it as culty. Looking at their stats and other key factors, it has extremely low positive results all over, way too low for AA to be such a huge part of the rehab systems world wide. That said, I have seen ppl who AA and NA worked well for too, but not without buying into it all 100%...but hey, it is better than the alternative:-)... AA would be great with some updates and adjustments imo- but there needs to be alternatives to AA too. My family on both sides were heavy alcoholics who all died brutally and sad- AA never worked for any of them, so my views might be colored by that, still, I would never tell a client to not try it. I always recommend trying it to all my clients, and am aware that my personal opinions on AA has no place in my work. It is personal. Ack...sorry for ranting abt this- all I really wanted to say was GREAT job, man! Keep it up! Love from Norway🇳🇴🥰
Good on you man! And everyone else here who's quit drinking. You obviously didn't and don't need AA... you have no reason to have to explain that.
I found you by accident tonight. & I Thank God I Did! I have recently gotten sober & it's Not easy, I just had to say thank you for making these videos & for caring about people you 've never even met, And for the funny stuff you say, Food taste much better now to I!!! Lololol👍😃💜 My savior & comforter Is MUSIC! I'd not play anything But I listen Every day. Lately it's been Chris Cornell & The grunge era " the 90"s" and Creed & three days Grace with Adam😃🎵🎵🎵🎵
Nice job dude, you stopped it before it started destroying your health. I’m way past that, my health is starting to fail. Damn this disease, it’s nice to see people get out early cuz it gets dark eventually. Keep it up.
Yup 3-4 weeks was about the same time it took me to start seeing and thinking so much more clearly. I did alot with numbers at work, and was able to process them 3x as fast as I reached a month sober.
This is a great video I watch it often when I’m suffering from horrible hangover like right now
Excellent! Proud of you 👍 Great videos. If you get a craving, just go to bed. Very good tip no one ever says, but true!
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I love just hearing stories of ppl with the same struggles ,thanks for this video!
Thank you for this video. Ive been struggling with alcohilism for a long time now. This video was encouraging.