So true yea that statement is wow. Sometimes God Grace for our lives is so big as we keep praying God answer me answer me . But he knows wat he has planned for u , ur prayers can’t even comprehend
I can relate on that jealousy part so much! My best friend recently got married. I remember the day before I had some last minute tasks to do for the wedding day: I was so angry. Luckily I caught myself because I knew that wasn't the energy I'd want on the day. Lol, I remember driving and just praying that God will take away that feeling and replace it with the actual joy I have because my best friend was getting married! And it was such an exciting time. Next morning when I drove to the venue, I was so joyous. I didn't have any of those other feelings. I think its so important to acknowledge your feelings and pray through it and give God the opportunity to intervene
No doubt this was created for me. On a fast and i prayed for God's counsel concerning my desires for marriage and this was the first video in my feed...thank you ladies for being God's vessels. Also only discovered Busi's channel over the weekend and i subscribed immediately.
I loved every part of this. I love how Buli said that sometimes Christians compromise to accommodate people or for them to have access to us. This notion is so hard not to notice especially in the entertainment industry. I love Buli's solid grounding on her faith! and Mabocie girl please invite me to your singles event. I have always been timid to put myself out there like that. Blessings ladies
“It is what your heart speaks, that your hands give”. That curing jealousy with just keeping it moving spirit. It’s a whole lot. So much unlearning unlocked.
I am one of those who has had a lengthy single season. Almost all my friends are married with kids, and I have been present at each of those seasons in their lives. I must say, for me what has kept me is being planted in a local church, and serving there constantly. Yes now and again you get into your feelings about when will it be your turn, it's not a perfect journey. But one day, I bumped into this scripture that soothed my heart like nothing could, 1 Corinthians 7:32-34 I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. My biggest struggle with friends who got married was that they had other priorities and rightfully so, so that change in dynamic is tricky therefore without noticing, it is serving God that made things easier for me, and that's still the case even now and I love it. Still believing for marriage and I know it's coming. Lovely chat ladies😍
Wooow that's profound ,,,and I think being single gives you time to self introspect and spiritually meditate,build a solid relationship with God and that itself it's a journey on it's own,,,yes we question and wonder when is our turn but rushing the process will only lead into failure and unhappiness,,,let it flow organically,,His time will be beneficial for us
Dats wats also bn keeping me 4 years now. Dat tightness wit God. Hvng visitations,thngz gettn revealed 2 u b4 they evn hppn-bt now i can fl dat i need companionship. A friend 2 talk 2&hv mutual goals with&build with. Its nice 2 b married. I just knw it evn b4 i get there. Even da Word says 2 is better than 1. I love how u guys kp talkn abt serving,4 me,its not evn easy 2 hv dat bcoz of da work i do-i barely stay in a place 4 long. So i guess in a way,im not ecn visible 2 da ryt ppl
Woooow very true. Totally I’m at this point in my life where almost all my friends are married and God reminded me that Daughter serve, remember your first deeds, do not stop to appear. And very true, the local church, my pastors and youth ministries and cells have kept me coz 2-3 times when you are low, it has made realised how quickly one can fall away It is an honour
As a lady in her mid twenties desiring marriage, I learned so much from your experiences and some things you shared that you might not think "were that deep".
I love how Buli is true to self and so authentic. I’m married and this was a master class to be better in my home. Thoroughly enjoyed this talk. Thank you.
This video couldn’t have come at a better time. I’ve been asking God sooo many questions regarding this aspect of my life and I got so many answers from this video, especially in terms of the standards that I have and should have as a woman approaching her mid-twenties..🥹♥️ Thank you for this, Ladies. 🙏🏾
Talk about perfect timing..Iam in my early thirties and exactly where am at about being single, desiring marriage and praying about it.. So much needed to hear and I've learnt so much hey, thank u a lot for this topic ladies, it was so profound and absolutely eye opening about being single, courting and marriage. God bless your beautiful hearts. ❤️🙏🙌
I totally agree, sometimes for you it will take praying and fasting. Was me case, I saw how women in my family were successful but weren't getting married. I prayed and I knew something needed to break. I became intentional with declaring Obadiah 1:17. God is surely faithful
❤ fire Please talk about the single and dating season. I am here learning for when I get married. Thank you for speaking life into us. May God continue to using you 🎉. I watch it twice and took 2 pages of notes.
this is the best video I've ever watched, thankful for the opportunities like these. Hearing from young Christian wives is life changing and motivating. Perfect timing, thank you sisters.
I’d like to suggest a video on the struggles of past traumas/daddy issues and how one should or rather try to navigate life whilst still having the desire of marriage because I believe we sometimes block things or people because of our past🙏🏽
This was needed 🤍 Thank you for your obedience ❤. I also wanna say I love how Sis Buli gives attention to everyone when they speak like she listens. That's what I'm also learning to do, listen fully when people speak and not to be quick to answer. God bless you ✝️
Wow ths is def for me. I’m 27 ths august and have never dated. And now I’m at the age my friends are getting married, engaged and all. And I think it’s tricky wen u keeping urself for marriage and u getting to tht impatient stage. But somthing I’m learning about God is his beauty is not in the answers, his beauty is about finding the answer
Woowww so profound , ❤.because im 30 and i have never dated ,had my first and last kisss at 26😢...im at that impatient stage to ,so iv let God guide me to where he wants me and what he wants for me..
Awoa ladies 27 is young tlhe. There is so much to do out there other than being some guy's wife. In some cases marriage can even be restricting. Imagine being as young as you are getting an amazing opportunity but you have to stay in your hometown cause you are married. You will be 80 still wondering "what if..."
Definitely looking forward to part 2 ladies, Buli I am glad you are back at this kind of content that attracted me to your chanel🙏😍😘 "Don't miss your season because you are Lazy to Pray" 🙏 🙏
15:32 bwahahhaha! The 'he must go to church = equally yoked' kept me single forever guys! LOL! I'm glad you're teaching the younger ladies you're doing an amazing job ladies for real LOL!
So far from prepared for marriage and the idea of a relationship is actually is so far (still healing) but i am oh so grateful for this, going to pray and maybe ask God what is on my list that needs to be changed - the things i desire that might not align with His.
Thank you Buli and Busi, single season can be tricky but with the Holy Spirits guidance and allowing oneself to be vulnerable with God through conversations(prayer) yho it can be a beautiful wait
I also used to say I don’t want abo brother in Church 😅because of the ones I’ve seen; how they have treated women and I was like I don’t want this for myself. I judged the good men in Christ because of the not so good ones I know. Kodwa manje I can’t compromise and I want a man who will be equally yoked nami (a Christian, a man who has a relationship with God, prayerful, kind, etc.) I have also realised that we can be Christians but not have same values, as you mentioned there are new age Christians and I am not into that mina.
Be clear in your prayers, tell God every detail (desires and fears), he is faithful. Pray you find exactly what you need because He's not a God of compromises either hey sis.
Amazing topic. I also said the “i love you “first 🤭 I never had a desire for marriage but God used a lot of things to prepare me🥲 But one important message he said so clearly after he had made it clear that he has that blessing for me was “He who finds a wife finds a good thing” i needed to be a wife first before he present me to my physical husband. A wife to Christ, fully submitting. There after(months later) came the the list, the list was not my desires because first I submitted to Christ and Christ showed me what a husband i needed. The list was for a testimony hence before even writing it, i had to pray and align everything i was supposed to write with what God had for me. One cant invite God to bless their desires, the desires need to come from God hence… Seek God first and all his righteousness and EVERYTHING SHALL BE ADDED. N.B not to say that desiring is wrong 🙈 because God gives us the desires of our hearts. But to say, the source of the desires should be God since our focus is in Him. It shouldn’t be our flesh. But also it’s important to pray that God prepares you for the husband he has for you because sometimes its us who delay our blessings by not being ready for them. I enjoyed your conversation ladies❤️ im new here from Sims Rights channel ❤️
I remember saying to God if it happens its okay and if it doesnt its still okay and told myself i wana concentrate on God alone...i was at peace and celibate for 6years faithfully so then on the 7th year i got married. God is faithful.
10:49 “He is everything I needed but nothing I could have prayed for, because I wouldn’t have known how to pray for this particular person” 🙌🏼
So true yea that statement is wow. Sometimes God Grace for our lives is so big as we keep praying God answer me answer me . But he knows wat he has planned for u , ur prayers can’t even comprehend
I felt that
POWERFUL!!!!!
"Don't choose someone who will cost you your eternity" I loved that 👌
LOVED THAT
Powerful indeed🔥🙌
I love that as well
"Don't miss your season because you're lazy" PRAY ❤🙌🏽
I feel like you always get the right people for each topic. May The Holy Spirit continue to guide you sis❤❤
I am a 22-year-old woman, thank you for pouring into me and highlighting the important things to consider before I start praying for a partner.
I can relate on that jealousy part so much! My best friend recently got married. I remember the day before I had some last minute tasks to do for the wedding day: I was so angry. Luckily I caught myself because I knew that wasn't the energy I'd want on the day. Lol, I remember driving and just praying that God will take away that feeling and replace it with the actual joy I have because my best friend was getting married! And it was such an exciting time. Next morning when I drove to the venue, I was so joyous. I didn't have any of those other feelings. I think its so important to acknowledge your feelings and pray through it and give God the opportunity to intervene
No doubt this was created for me. On a fast and i prayed for God's counsel concerning my desires for marriage and this was the first video in my feed...thank you ladies for being God's vessels.
Also only discovered Busi's channel over the weekend and i subscribed immediately.
Bless you sis❤ thank you
I loved every part of this. I love how Buli said that sometimes Christians compromise to accommodate people or for them to have access to us. This notion is so hard not to notice especially in the entertainment industry. I love Buli's solid grounding on her faith! and Mabocie girl please invite me to your singles event. I have always been timid to put myself out there like that. Blessings ladies
“It is what your heart speaks, that your hands give”. That curing jealousy with just keeping it moving spirit. It’s a whole lot. So much unlearning unlocked.
I am one of those who has had a lengthy single season. Almost all my friends are married with kids, and I have been present at each of those seasons in their lives. I must say, for me what has kept me is being planted in a local church, and serving there constantly. Yes now and again you get into your feelings about when will it be your turn, it's not a perfect journey. But one day, I bumped into this scripture that soothed my heart like nothing could, 1 Corinthians 7:32-34 I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. My biggest struggle with friends who got married was that they had other priorities and rightfully so, so that change in dynamic is tricky therefore without noticing, it is serving God that made things easier for me, and that's still the case even now and I love it. Still believing for marriage and I know it's coming. Lovely chat ladies😍
Wooow that's profound ,,,and I think being single gives you time to self introspect and spiritually meditate,build a solid relationship with God and that itself it's a journey on it's own,,,yes we question and wonder when is our turn but rushing the process will only lead into failure and unhappiness,,,let it flow organically,,His time will be beneficial for us
Dats wats also bn keeping me 4 years now. Dat tightness wit God. Hvng visitations,thngz gettn revealed 2 u b4 they evn hppn-bt now i can fl dat i need companionship.
A friend 2 talk 2&hv mutual goals with&build with.
Its nice 2 b married. I just knw it evn b4 i get there. Even da Word says 2 is better than 1. I love how u guys kp talkn abt serving,4 me,its not evn easy 2 hv dat bcoz of da work i do-i barely stay in a place 4 long. So i guess in a way,im not ecn visible 2 da ryt ppl
Woooow very true. Totally I’m at this point in my life where almost all my friends are married and God reminded me that Daughter serve, remember your first deeds, do not stop to appear. And very true, the local church, my pastors and youth ministries and cells have kept me coz 2-3 times when you are low, it has made realised how quickly one can fall away
It is an honour
“Don’t cure Jealousy with service” 🙌🏾
"Once you desire you prepare your heart to receive" ❤️🥰❤️🥰 thank you so much for this Sisi Bulie💚💚
As a lady in her mid twenties desiring marriage, I learned so much from your experiences and some things you shared that you might not think "were that deep".
“Don’t miss your season because you are lazy”, Pray..❤️ thanks ladies, powerful words.
I love how Buli is true to self and so authentic. I’m married and this was a master class to be better in my home. Thoroughly enjoyed this talk. Thank you.
"eternity is personal, don't choose someone who will cost you your eternity" that hit different
The wisdom God has given you Buli… unmeasurable. We thank God for using you to share your platform with us. We continue to learn 🙏🏾❤️💯
Beautiful Godly friendships that pour so much wisdom into the rest of us. Thank you❤
This episode is speaking to me right now .thank you Holly spirit for directing me to this conversation. I needed to hear this.🙏🙏🙏
Everything that i needed but nothing i could have prayed for. Yhu! That's a word 👏
As always Fire episodes. Love the consistency
I have been saying woooow throughout the conversation,what a healing conversation ❤❤
jo! God has been so good to me, so grateful for my husband too "he is everything I need and needed but nothing i could have prayed for".
This was so good! Thank you ladies!
❤ This was so powerful. I loved this so much I wanted to keep liking it over and over.
Yoh this segment was so good. We really need more of these conversations for us people who are still looking.
This video couldn’t have come at a better time. I’ve been asking God sooo many questions regarding this aspect of my life and I got so many answers from this video, especially in terms of the standards that I have and should have as a woman approaching her mid-twenties..🥹♥️
Thank you for this, Ladies. 🙏🏾
Talk about perfect timing..Iam in my early thirties and exactly where am at about being single, desiring marriage and praying about it.. So much needed to hear and I've learnt so much hey, thank u a lot for this topic ladies, it was so profound and absolutely eye opening about being single, courting and marriage. God bless your beautiful hearts. ❤️🙏🙌
I needed to hear everything that you spoke about on this episode!🥺🤞🏽I'm glad I decided to listen and also take notes❤
Thank you for this conversation 🙌🏽👏🏽 So impactful
A lot of wisdom was shared here !!! ❤️ loved this so so much x
I have BEEN waiting for this one 🥹🙌🏽❤️
I honestly loved this conversation. I live how it's super relatable ❤
These conversations never miss!!!❤
1.Be equally yoked.
2.Do not choose someone who will cost you your eternity.
Thank you so much Buli I needed this ♥️
Not me wild opening my eyes to the I love you 1st part 😄 yet im like yes girls 😄❤️
I totally agree, sometimes for you it will take praying and fasting. Was me case, I saw how women in my family were successful but weren't getting married. I prayed and I knew something needed to break. I became intentional with declaring Obadiah 1:17. God is surely faithful
❤ fire
Please talk about the single and dating season. I am here learning for when I get married. Thank you for speaking life into us. May God continue to using you 🎉.
I watch it twice and took 2 pages of notes.
Funny story. I watched an old episode with y’all just this past Sunday 🥹. Now there’s a new version🙌🏿.
I’m only 19 but I’m really learning a lot from you guys
I enjoyed this chat so much thank you ladies 🙏🏻🙏🏻
LOVED this!!!
Your Channel is excellent and wish everyone could listen to these talks. These conversations are extremely necessary. Thank You Buli. 🌻
🥹❤️ thank you ❤️
Really needed to hear this. Thank you ladies and may God continue to guide you sis Buli as you bring us more topics.
I’ve been dying for Mabocee to be here 🎉❤🎉🎉❤❤❤
this is the best video I've ever watched, thankful for the opportunities like these. Hearing from young Christian wives is life changing and motivating. Perfect timing, thank you sisters.
❤️❤️❤️
I thank the Holy Spirit for placing this topic into your heart❤ and thank you for being obedient to the Holy Spirit😊🎉 You're appreciated
Thank you for this, ladies.❤
I’d like to suggest a video on the struggles of past traumas/daddy issues and how one should or rather try to navigate life whilst still having the desire of marriage because I believe we sometimes block things or people because of our past🙏🏽
Ohhh this is Good ❤️ noted
I would love this. My daddy issues have seen me avoid relationships and block potentials.
Listen ,I know this will be good. My true favourites are here🥰🥰🥰so I liked before watching
❤❤❤ Sisters I never knew I needed.May God continue increasing the spirit of wisdom to you both.
Buli, you are so good. I learn so much from your talks 🎉🎉🎉
“Eternity is personal “ ! I felt it
I absolutely love this talk🙌🏾
Loved this! Would love part 2 with her to delve into navigating after you have met the person.
Definitely agree to that part 2 topic🙌🏽
This was needed 🤍 Thank you for your obedience ❤. I also wanna say I love how Sis Buli gives attention to everyone when they speak like she listens. That's what I'm also learning to do, listen fully when people speak and not to be quick to answer. God bless you ✝️
So true. What a blessing to the kingdom ahe is
@@maboocie True Sis Busi and also you too what a blessing you're to the Kingdom of God ✝️
Really enjoyed this video omg!!🥰❤️
This was so educating and eye opening for us who are still waiting for marriage. Thank you ladies❤❤
This was so good. Shu!!!! ❤
This was so good and relatable!
Just few minutes before I knock off. 💃💃💃lemme finish my day by watching this video😍😍💕🙌
Wow ths is def for me. I’m 27 ths august and have never dated. And now I’m at the age my friends are getting married, engaged and all. And I think it’s tricky wen u keeping urself for marriage and u getting to tht impatient stage. But somthing I’m learning about God is his beauty is not in the answers, his beauty is about finding the answer
Relatable, and I’m also turning 27, in December.
Shu ❤️
Woowww so profound , ❤.because im 30 and i have never dated ,had my first and last kisss at 26😢...im at that impatient stage to ,so iv let God guide me to where he wants me and what he wants for me..
@@NirvanaNolundi 🤣🤣🤣yhoooo I haven’t even gotten to the kissing stage or point🤣🤣🤣. Kissing is foreign to me
Awoa ladies 27 is young tlhe. There is so much to do out there other than being some guy's wife. In some cases marriage can even be restricting. Imagine being as young as you are getting an amazing opportunity but you have to stay in your hometown cause you are married. You will be 80 still wondering "what if..."
Loved this conversation so much, totally relatable ❤
I loves this and I needed this 😢❤
This is a really beautiful conversation. 💞
The pink and orange look so good on you guys 🥹
Finally sat down and watched this
I've learnt a lot thanks sis B ❤ 😍
It's the same heart for Jesus for me
Definitely looking forward to part 2 ladies, Buli I am glad you are back at this kind of content that attracted me to your chanel🙏😍😘
"Don't miss your season because you are Lazy to Pray" 🙏 🙏
wow needed to see this. needed to hear all of it.
15:32 bwahahhaha! The 'he must go to church = equally yoked' kept me single forever guys! LOL! I'm glad you're teaching the younger ladies you're doing an amazing job ladies for real LOL!
So far from prepared for marriage and the idea of a relationship is actually is so far (still healing) but i am oh so grateful for this, going to pray and maybe ask God what is on my list that needs to be changed - the things i desire that might not align with His.
Also i am definitely in my EARLY 20's!!!🙆♀
Oeee😍😍😍eternity is personal ❤❤loved that!!!
Thank you Buli and Busi, single season can be tricky but with the Holy Spirits guidance and allowing oneself to be vulnerable with God through conversations(prayer) yho it can be a beautiful wait
This is good. Thank you for speaking on this.
"Help me keep what matters" 💕
Thank you for this conversation ❤
Loved every second of this video ❤️
This was such a lovely conversation ❤️
I enjoy these so much 😊
I loved this ❤️❤️
Please a series on singleness
Great conversation ladies🥰❤️
Loved this so much❤
We definitely need a part 2 🥺
This was very informative thank you Buli❤❤
Loved this video. So much to take away ❤
This was brilliant. Very challenging🥹
I loved this so much.
20 min in and I’m just like … Thank u Ladies ❤
Lovely conversation. Definitely was for me
I also used to say I don’t want abo brother in Church 😅because of the ones I’ve seen; how they have treated women and I was like I don’t want this for myself. I judged the good men in Christ because of the not so good ones I know. Kodwa manje I can’t compromise and I want a man who will be equally yoked nami (a Christian, a man who has a relationship with God, prayerful, kind, etc.)
I have also realised that we can be Christians but not have same values, as you mentioned there are new age Christians and I am not into that mina.
Be clear in your prayers, tell God every detail (desires and fears), he is faithful. Pray you find exactly what you need because He's not a God of compromises either hey sis.
@@sindisessions Amen sis that is so true 💕🙌🏾
Really enjoyed this episode 😊❤
Our new wed, ay Buli your episodes are always on fire.
Amazing topic. I also said the “i love you “first 🤭
I never had a desire for marriage but God used a lot of things to prepare me🥲
But one important message he said so clearly after he had made it clear that he has that blessing for me was “He who finds a wife finds a good thing” i needed to be a wife first before he present me to my physical husband.
A wife to Christ, fully submitting. There after(months later) came the the list, the list was not my desires because first I submitted to Christ and Christ showed me what a husband i needed. The list was for a testimony hence before even writing it, i had to pray and align everything i was supposed to write with what God had for me.
One cant invite God to bless their desires, the desires need to come from God hence… Seek God first and all his righteousness and EVERYTHING SHALL BE ADDED.
N.B not to say that desiring is wrong 🙈 because God gives us the desires of our hearts. But to say, the source of the desires should be God since our focus is in Him. It shouldn’t be our flesh.
But also it’s important to pray that God prepares you for the husband he has for you because sometimes its us who delay our blessings by not being ready for them.
I enjoyed your conversation ladies❤️ im new here from Sims Rights channel ❤️
❤loved this conversation
I was definitely directed to this by the holy spirit ,, girl is just 20 yrs, but she learnt a lot ..May God continue to bless the both of you.🥺🤭❤️
Loved this episode
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Thank you so much for this segment.
Turning 21 this year and this was so insightful
I remember saying to God if it happens its okay and if it doesnt its still okay and told myself i wana concentrate on God alone...i was at peace and celibate for 6years faithfully so then on the 7th year i got married. God is faithful.
I just love Maboocie 🥹❤️