The UNTOLD Truth About Haram Relationships
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In this clip, the 3 muslims discuss the untold truth about haram relationships. We discuss how to turn a haram relationship into a halal one with marriage. We talk about how Muslims can’t have boyfriends and girlfriends and how to find alternatives.
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It's really unfortunate that these kids are sent to college, while being so badly prepared for that environment. I mean, we're all so weak, a college environment has doomed so many into taking part in horrible sins. May Allah make a way out for us💔
If you’re gonna go to college and you’re Muslim or Christian it’s better just to go online instead of physically
@@lightreyes1702 I agree✨
haram relationships are all fun and games until you eventually break up and go through the heartbreak for years, Shaytan delays the pain but will always deliver
To those who are in haram relationship, don’t worry about the pain you’re going to experience because trust me it won’t last long. The pain will ease and Allah will heal your heart and seek His forgiveness and His pleasure because in the end you will only be asked alone. You got thiss 👏🏻
Nothing is more filthy than being in a Haram relationship. Haram relationship will weaken your loyalty and love for your parents and siblings. Depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, fear of being caught, fear of being cheated, emotional & physical torture. That is all you have to welcome with your Haram relationship. If you are in a Haram relationship it is impossible that you will have mental peace!
Have you ever sit back and imagined the heartache that your father would feel after knowing about the filthy thing that are in? or anxiety of your mother that she would have after knowing about your relationships? ... Imagine emotional torture of those parents whose daughter left the house in the darkness of night to spend the rest of his life with a guy!
If you are in a relationship end it now!
100% this has become so normalized in the west among Muslims
you are overestimating it but yeah its bad
@@mounir9899 Having relationship between two opposite genders before marriage seems a little thing to you!?
Muslims need to leave bida that divides them and unite on sunnah.
@@mounir9899 he aint trust me
"There is wisdom is following the rules and barriers that Allah has put" etch that into my heart
I agree with Aanghel, I’ve had so many situations where I’ve tried asking for a girls wali but they will say that they prefer to talk a little first which is why I believe that a lot of people go the route Aanghel mentioned
That being said, there should definitely be solutions to figure this out cause most people are just walking around confused on what to do…including myself
I also think it’s hard for many because of parents as well not being accepting of who their child brings even though they may be suitable (maybe rejecting due to cultural, family, career choice reasons, etc…)
Anghel on point on the disconnect 👌🏽
Highly relatable topic glad its being spoken about 👏🏽👏🏽 Message for parents. Your kids are coming to you making adult halal decisions, the more you reject them don't think they won't be making adult haram decisions behind your back. Parents can be the biggest obstacles unfortunately for marriage, especially if there is no valid Islamic reason to reject a proposal. Unfortunately it's the dunya over deen mentality they don't want to challenge.
The women I’m with her dad won’t accept me because I’m black. When we first met we weren’t practicing. Wasn’t praying. As we got closer over the years we became better Muslims. I said we have to get married. Now that we know what we know we can’t continue like this. So I tell my parents and then we go to talk to her parents Her mom said dad will never accept this and she won’t accept it until he does and the father won’t accept it because I’m black and there culture marrying outside of of the race is not what they do. Her parents say they don’t care about deen as primary foundation of moral compass. Care more about culture and what there people will say. Her parents won’t talk to her and blame her for separating from the family. We are both adults in our mid and late 20s. We went got married and make dua that Allah guides them and that one day in the future our families can come together. We have kept the door open for communication and refuse to cut ties with the family.
If the parents are unjustly not accepting you to marry it’s actually against Islam. You are Muslim she’s Muslim. You have job you have home a car can you take care of her. Ok go get married inshallah. I wish i knew what I know now years ago. Get married better sooner than later.
May Allah make it easy on you bro. The ummah is so embarrassing with tribalism and culture at times wallahi
You can't marry with no wali this would constitute a invalid marriage. I suggest you separate from this girl,rather than this girl separating from her whole family. insha'Allah both of you will find a suitable spouse where you are not being rejected due to your race. As well as the girl she can find someone she is attracted to of her own ethnicity. She must obey her parents . I don't see how such a union can ever be successful with such haram/ sins commited at its beginning. It's time to make a clean break and be strong. Please know I wish you know I wish you no ill will.
@@MissHersi963 we are married. The parents told us they don’t care about deen. Care more about culture and what other ppl in the family will say about her marrying outside. If it wasn’t for Islam we wouldn’t even think to get married. We put Islam and our deen first. You are to obey your parents as long everything is aligned with Islam, but once you are an adult we are both in our mid to late 20s and your parents are unjustly not allowing you to marry and they are not putting Islam first then you don’t listen to your parents on this particular instance. Islam is easy to follow it is people that try and make it hard.
@@MissHersi963 Sorry to say this but parents/people with mindset like you are one of the reasons why children fall into zina. Culture/whatever it is over religion is absolutely horrible. When a man and woman know that getting closer to Allah by doing the sunnah such as getting married is one of the way to get His blessings, why not let them do it? Parents putting a cultural or racial wall behind halal marriage should learn more about the deen. I'm sorry for being harsh but muslim parents should open their eyes.
@@tariqjamal3513 im sorry to inform you but marriage must be with consent of a wali. if they have a culture bias thats unfortunate but a wali is still required regardless
Why are haram relationships bad ... because allah said so
Allah*
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 there are no capital letters in arabic
Asslamikum! The brother with hat, I got a message for you or your friend you are talking about. Just marry her, say Bismillah and do it. The longer you wait the harder it becomes, it seems. Islam is simple and we as humans make it hard. Yes, marriage has its challenges, but there beauty in the struggle. May Allah make it easy for us. Ameen. Ps love the content 👌
Halal or Haram relationships have untold truths.
I like your insight and perspective on many things, but many of us who don't know the meaning or definition of Islamic words, it would help if you put it as a caption or in the description.
I find the One Islam productions Imam hafith lectures on youtube to be very educational & informative
As-salaam Alaikum brothers
Not been watching you for long, I like the content so far thank you.
This is a subject that I bet is a problem for many brothers and sisters, yes Allah knows best but it doesn't always work out that way.
As a Muslim we should resist the urge to do Haram but Allah tests us in many ways and we won't all get it right, thankfully Allah is most merciful most forgiving but that doesn't mean you should do Haram as Allah knows all things and knows us better than we know are self's so fear Allah and the day of judgment In-sha-Allah this will help keep you on the true path.
It’s like pure orange juice and artificial flavoured orange juice. Both might taste good but only one is beneficial.
“Ya mukalib al quloob thabit qalby ala deenak” “Oh rotator of the heart, make my heart strong upon your religion” يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِي عَلَى دِينِكَ 🎀💗
اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي
Transliteration: Allahumma innaka afuwwun tuhibbul afwa fa’fu annee 🎀💗
Rabbana ighfir lee waliwalidayya walilmumineena yawma yaqoomu alhisab
“Our Lord! Forgive me, my parents, and the believers on the Day when the judgment will come to pass.”🎀💗
May Allah give us a righteous husband/ spouse Ameen
I think no one talks about the fact that It's very easy especially for attractive Muslims to get into haram relationships. Then the average/below average get low-key jealous of them that they can easily have like a love marriage through a relationship that their parents initially don't know about.
Astaghfirullah.
Alhamdullilah
Great Brothers 🏆
Just start with the wali'. Don't promote dating without being engaged first. This video, at least in the beginning, feels like it's promoting people doing it the haram way and hoping for it to end up well. Some people have barakah put into their relationships later on by the mercy of Allah subhanahuwata'ala but many people, if not most, who do it the haram way end up with their connections ruined and may even end the harm relationship and move on to another one without any progress towards marriage, making them fall into sin. 'Auuthubillahi minashhaitanirajeem.
As im watching this, the part about the online chatting is already a bad start, a private 1 on 1 discussion between a man and woman online can lead to haram and so it should only be allowed with other people, preferably the wali, involved in the chat room to monitor the discussion and keep it halal.
Gets better at 6:00 alhamdullilah. Marriage first.
Bruh the dude on the right has to stop. It's very likely that a man and a woman talking privately, even online, are gonna have shaitan lead them to haram stuff. This thing shouldn't be promoted, even if it's happening, it should be criticized.
9:15 have conversations *** BUT WITH OTHER PEOPLE INVOLVED.
Need a source for the hadith from the dude on the right. You can't see the woman without a hijab on until nikah' is completed.
Agreed about the college part. Try to live with your parents when going to college so that it's more like regular school insha'Allah azza wa jal and not a 'new environment' with more pressure in a dorm life.
The last line seems like bad advice, talk with the masjid imams first about your khutba before giving your version of what is 'real stuff'
You guys when u get the chance break down law of attraction, the universe, manifesting, astrology why these things are haram and what they really mean
Please react to Jordan Peterson's video released addressed to Muslims. Would love to know your thoughts. Will not disappoint
Big topic
a lot of it is fear and iinsecurity for both sides
Almost men cant get women, therefore they are single for longterm. Women have lot of options in term of haram relationships.
Faiyad is a hypocrite because he’s dated and has been in a haram relationship in the past
Salam
I met the Shaitain through zina
Yall should respond to youngdons latest video
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I left Islam 6 years ago. Non-violence and pacifism should be the core of any true religion, which isn't the case with Islam.
One of my main reasons for leaving was Islam allows bloodshed and killing of animals in the name of halal, something i couldn't agree with from my then religion
debate me
What are you talking about?
Which criteria are you using to determine what is a true religion? As you mentioned non-violence and pacifism should be the core
Why are you listening to this podcast if you left Islam 6 years ago? What's stopping you from living your life? Why are you in this Muslim space watching a video made by Muslims for other Muslims? Literally what are you doing here?
Your loss our gain iny opinion