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  • @The3Muslims
    @The3Muslims  2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

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  • @brandonrichardson7248
    @brandonrichardson7248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm not Muslim at all, but I definitely respect Muslims because I can tell that they actually believe what their book says.
    But the part at 18:53 "Don't say if" really hit me because my mom just died a few weeks ago. And it is so true. Definitely opens the door.

    • @afandifitri
      @afandifitri 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear that man. Inshallah (Lord Willing) , your mom is granted Paradise bro.

    • @mirzabaig4711
      @mirzabaig4711 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless you and your mom. Whenever Muslims experience loss we say "To Allah we belong and to Him we shall return".
      My heart goes out to you brother.

    • @adampatel8763
      @adampatel8763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@afandifitri Brother I understand what you're trying to say with regards to goodness, but we can't wish paradise for those who didn't believe brother. You may wanna check up on the rulings with regards to this.

  • @asadullahsaaid3794
    @asadullahsaaid3794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    *Timestamps:*
    0:00 - Introduction
    0:17 - Topic of the Discussion
    0:34 - Nice Guy vs Good Guy
    2:18 - Good Man vs being Good at being a Man
    6:40 - Merits of practicing Islam
    8:37 - Islam being the only moral way of life
    9:46 - Muslims by name
    10:20 - Only being good at being a Man
    11:11 - Finding the Right Balance
    13:46 - Need of Being a Strong Man
    20:39 - The Base of being a Good Man
    27:00 - Protective Jealousy: Ghirah (غَيْرَة)
    31:23 - Salah & its importance
    33:01 - Finding & achieving your current goals
    35:17 - Disobeying Allah ﷻ
    35:59 - Ease of Repentance in Islam
    36:32 - Striving to Change
    37:24 - The 3 Muslims making Dua
    38:28 - What is a Man? (before & after Islam)
    45:11 - The Middle Path b/w Dunya & Akhira
    48:54 - Etiquette of Giving & Receiving Advice
    58:31 - Giving Advice sans acting on it yourself
    1:00:16 - Importance of Intentions
    1:09:13 - Closing Remarks
    1:09:43 - Importance of learning about Intimacy
    1:10:56 - Wrapping Up

    • @peanut_bum8239
      @peanut_bum8239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How’d u get early access? The vid hasnt even premiered yet lol

    • @The3Muslims
      @The3Muslims  2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@peanut_bum8239 he’s on the team doing timestamps

    • @peanut_bum8239
      @peanut_bum8239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@The3Muslims ohh i see

    • @shariarshuvo
      @shariarshuvo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ahh yes, That Timestamps Guy

  • @alenhuseinbasic899
    @alenhuseinbasic899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You brothers are inspiring me so much mashallah. Focusing much more on being closer to my deen and strengthening my imaan subhanallah. Salaam from a Bosnian brother from London.🇧🇦🇬🇧

    • @languages1016
      @languages1016 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Asalam alejk brate nek si ziv I zdrav bio

    • @alenhuseinbasic899
      @alenhuseinbasic899 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@languages1016 Elhamdulillah brate moj, veliki pozdrav. Ne pričam bosanski dobro ali ucim naše jezika svaki dana, inshallah one day mogu da pricam tečno

    • @languages1016
      @languages1016 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alenhuseinbasic899 Dobro, Inshallah

  • @saaleha6603
    @saaleha6603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 MashaAllah loved this! ☺️
    It's all about finding your middle path. Islam is about taking the middle path, everyone's individual journey to find the middle path is unique and different to the next person. SubhanAllah practicing Islam is a journey in itself and finding your balance is a life long aim 😄
    May Allah also protect our strong Muslim men and help them to be great leaders for their families and for society Ameen 🤲🏽 #men

  • @noraotmani4736
    @noraotmani4736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    you guys look tired, may allah make it easy for you and reward you for all your hard work, looking forward to the next episodes.

  • @blususpect
    @blususpect 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a great episode! An amazing setup as well! Inshallah Allah continues to elevate the 3 of you! The realest podcast in the Dunya!

  • @noraotmani4736
    @noraotmani4736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    also this episode got me thinking ....from an islamic perspective i think a good woman is one who is practicing islam and is on the right path, who is kind and loving basically feminine ...etc , and to be good at being a woman is using those traits and skills and knowledge that allah blessed you with at fulfilling your duties and play your role in this dunya as a good daughter, sister, wife, mother....to its best potential.

    • @cleartrueblue66
      @cleartrueblue66 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you expand on this? What are some specific examples of being good at being a woman, besides fulfilling your duties?

    • @Ricestlover
      @Ricestlover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nice comment sis
      We need more muslimas like you

    • @saaleha6603
      @saaleha6603 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      👏🏽👏🏽 100%! ❤️

  • @alui5362
    @alui5362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I enjoyed you guys going through the substantive attributes.. Gheerah to me has a good and bad side - I think it should come from a place of protectiveness, and wanting to keep the people (especially women, but I would include even those who are unable to protect themselves, like young children or even other men). And something to emphasise is that it shouldn't come from a place of insecurity - that I think is a danger that will turn it into something toxic and harmful to the one you are trying to protect.

  • @cleartrueblue66
    @cleartrueblue66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brother Faiyad makes an excellent point at 20:25. Makes me think of that quote "It's better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war."

  • @RaaqibAlIslam
    @RaaqibAlIslam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    The sound is quite low...not sure if everyone's experience it though but I can barely hear anything.

    • @shariarshuvo
      @shariarshuvo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I am very sorry. This is only for Episode 1. I messed up a bit. Please volume up for now, won't happen again. Future episode's audio is top notch quality

    • @blackgown7485
      @blackgown7485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same....i cant hear them properly. Their mics are too low

    • @blackgown7485
      @blackgown7485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shariarshuvo my volume is high...but its like tgeir chatting to themselves lol

    • @shujaatullah1226
      @shujaatullah1226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@shariarshuvo no iasues bro its just the first podcast

    • @imembalti1270
      @imembalti1270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its actually fine for me too

  • @mohammadn4355
    @mohammadn4355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can’t wait for this🔥 it’s 12:36am here and 36 hrs till it releases.

  • @mohamedsalimcharghy3195
    @mohamedsalimcharghy3195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mashalah
    I can clearly see that you all complete each other ❤️

  • @thegameseriesop1300
    @thegameseriesop1300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    #Man Alhamdulillah I've watched this whole Podcast it is was super informative. Jazakallah Khair for providing me with such precious knowledge.

  • @zara1559
    @zara1559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ah! Awesome new set up brothers, masha'Allah.

  • @danaeskandarani4251
    @danaeskandarani4251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mash'aAllah! Jazakum Allahu Khiran for your work #Man

  • @onepeace661
    @onepeace661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I thought the podcast would drop today but instead its tomorrow...good choice since tomorrow the people have more freetime bc of weekend 💪🏼📈 #growth #quality

  • @ahmadamirul7569
    @ahmadamirul7569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very beneficial podcast for a 24yo man like me alhamdulillah 👍

  • @sisan917
    @sisan917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great episode, being a good man is following the suna and that requires the strength to stand for it, so you have to be strong in every way that is important to follow the haq, jazakum allah khayran for bringing this up there's a major lack of in todays society, young man are only seeing feminine/degenerate man in the day to day.

  • @mubareka__
    @mubareka__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sound is clear but had to raise volume high just for future reference. But great studio episode. Love the vibe! Alhamdulilah

  • @TheAbdlMalik
    @TheAbdlMalik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😎 Episode 1 - Phenomenal

  • @Gearz4lyfe
    @Gearz4lyfe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quality is clean masha'Allah tabarakAllah

  • @a4482921
    @a4482921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    MashaAllah it’s finally here, great content as usual 😊

  • @HasanK47
    @HasanK47 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    MashaAllah, Beautiful podcast. Maybe add an intro and outro to make it look more professional inshaAllah.

  • @hibatuadam2777
    @hibatuadam2777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maashallah. Amazing ep. More pls

  • @WeEducateAndTutor
    @WeEducateAndTutor 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you guys❤️! MashaAllah, may He swt protect your hearts and help you purify them Allahumma Amen

  • @hanafisaidu
    @hanafisaidu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MashalLah May Allah purify our intentions Amin..

  • @chloe-nr4ti
    @chloe-nr4ti 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Really enjoying your videos...real talk🙏

    • @ulama7828
      @ulama7828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Interested in Islam?

  • @budtalks
    @budtalks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Commenting for the algorithm

  • @akhirecitations65
    @akhirecitations65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mashallah. May Allah bless your work

  • @soundsofvelvet1278
    @soundsofvelvet1278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can't blame Faiyad for having UFC on his mind cos the card was pretty good 😂😂😂.
    Strickland vs Pereira and Izzy vs Cannonier. Was a stacked card

  • @dat3rdsideboy386
    @dat3rdsideboy386 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was amazing

  • @moaadzeedan6363
    @moaadzeedan6363 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashaa Allah, Great podcast brothers. Remember, not to say "Inshaa Allah" when making duaa as mentioned in this hadith,
    Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “When one of you calls upon Allah, let him be determined in the supplication and he should not say: O Allah, give me if You will. There is no one to coerce Allah.”
    Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6338, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2678

  • @ninjachrish
    @ninjachrish 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Assalamualaikum. The audio is a little too low. These shows are great by the way, may Allah bless the three of you

  • @talksense6648
    @talksense6648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May Allah protect the3Muslims ❤️ Ameen 🌻

  • @Farrukhsiyar159
    @Farrukhsiyar159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Speaking of being good aat being a man, you remember that "Nofap and No Pmo" video Anghel posted in 2015? Can yall react to & discuss that video during your next podcast? I think this would benefit a lot of the brothers. Not me of course, but other people might benefit.

    • @shariarshuvo
      @shariarshuvo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      great to Brian griffin in the comment section.

  • @cocapepsi8829
    @cocapepsi8829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    amazing episode

  • @AliSheikh
    @AliSheikh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are good for the ummah

  • @abdihakimsharif5663
    @abdihakimsharif5663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great podcast

  • @asimraja2431
    @asimraja2431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice topic to ponder upon.

  • @hishamghazi77
    @hishamghazi77 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is awesome

  • @SmeshMMA
    @SmeshMMA 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great podcast! only one thing the volume is super low brathas, keep it up.

  • @Just_logic
    @Just_logic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good going brothers

  • @m0ralidad_0bjetiva
    @m0ralidad_0bjetiva 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha Allah brothers. Keep work going Insha Allah. 🧡 #Man

  • @down9062
    @down9062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha Allah great talk

  • @Tonyraton18
    @Tonyraton18 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the podcast, it's a shame that the volume isnt very high tho

  • @RicoZaid_
    @RicoZaid_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "The Way or Men" written by Jack Donovan wrote exactly this "Being a good man and being good at being a man." Most of the things that people think being a good man has to do with being a good person and nothing to do with masculinity.

  • @unapollogetic6488
    @unapollogetic6488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    mashalallah the quality

  • @raheeqy8914
    @raheeqy8914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    premiere gang 🙌🏾
    mashallah the setup lookin dope, looking forward to these weekly podcasts 🤍

  • @farhanstreet
    @farhanstreet 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashaAllah, its so important for muslim men to realize that manhood is very important. I wont hesitate to say that before i read about sahabas, what really inpired me to be in my more manlier form is Gabriel al romaani and yes Red pill community too

    • @noneofyourbuizness
      @noneofyourbuizness 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Red pill lool
      A cancer mindset that dont align with islamic values

  • @AbuTuraab72
    @AbuTuraab72 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the audio is quite low since u started the studio, had it on max volume and i could only just hear, may be my laptop, if its not then perhaps try makin it louder please, BarakumuLlahu fikum

    • @shariarshuvo
      @shariarshuvo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am very sorry. This is only for Episode 1. I messed up a bit. Future episode's audio is top notch quality

  • @Tafseel
    @Tafseel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome

  • @akh803
    @akh803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Here's a podcast where Tim Humble talks about qualities that make you a man: th-cam.com/video/gS5t5N-jrJM/w-d-xo.html

  • @mustafaalam9565
    @mustafaalam9565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    End was hilarious bro😂😂😂😂😂

  • @cooler0727
    @cooler0727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stay blessed,

  • @DhabLibaaxPodcast
    @DhabLibaaxPodcast 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Legends

  • @sirArminFazeli
    @sirArminFazeli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally ❤️

  • @muizzmohamad5256
    @muizzmohamad5256 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I kind of agree with aeghel. Theres this one sahaba who cant fight but he is a poet. Harith? I think.

  • @firetube2ndchannel
    @firetube2ndchannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brooo bring the studio back

  • @russianspysleazeball1126
    @russianspysleazeball1126 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salaam

  • @thegameseriesop1300
    @thegameseriesop1300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jordan Peterson got kicked out of the UFC 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @stephenjennings8569
    @stephenjennings8569 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As salaam alaikum wa rahmatuallâh wa barakatuh insh'Allâh you'll insh'Allâh is coming together with these may Allâh have emense blessings for you'll alone
    الحم لله

  • @meghbalokakash332
    @meghbalokakash332 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep going. ❤️🇧🇩

  • @benjenkins3220
    @benjenkins3220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    For me the volume was still quite low- can you make it higher?

    • @shariarshuvo
      @shariarshuvo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am very sorry. This is only for Episode 1. I messed up a bit. Future episode's audio is top notch quality

  • @afhamumar4933
    @afhamumar4933 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think stoicism also adds good attributes for being good at being a man. also a man shud have core values to stick too..

  • @mubareka__
    @mubareka__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anghel looks like he really missed his popcorn lol

  • @Rafm1236
    @Rafm1236 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subhaanallaah

  • @zubayerhossain7551
    @zubayerhossain7551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Turn up the volume please :((

  • @Hunredbandz
    @Hunredbandz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fo da algo

  • @nouyt9144
    @nouyt9144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Me trying to calculate the difference: 🤔

  • @zubairsyed1577
    @zubairsyed1577 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you put the new episodes on apple podcasts?!

  • @anouarfrk5792
    @anouarfrk5792 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Assalamu alaykumu can you lot make an episode talking about pride and ego and how to stay humble ?

  • @backeslache4264
    @backeslache4264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The audio is kinda low, but good episode though

    • @shariarshuvo
      @shariarshuvo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am very sorry. This is only for Episode 1. I messed up a bit. Future episode's audio is top notch quality

    • @Ramiz_
      @Ramiz_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shariarshuvo inshallah

  • @nikolaandelkovic5284
    @nikolaandelkovic5284 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subhan Allah. Andrew Tate: "Being a good man, and being good at being a man are slightly different things". PBD Podcast Exclusive: Andrew Tate UNCENSORED Interview with Patrick Bet-David 1:24:45

  • @abdaalahmad5483
    @abdaalahmad5483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Protective jealousy as a translation for gheerah seems very wrong and can push people the wrong direction, I think it is better to not translate it and really start seeing it as a thing that is mandatory.

  • @meghbalokakash332
    @meghbalokakash332 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @edisonc6080
    @edisonc6080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Get yo mind out the gutter astaGgggfurAllah😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Br Faiyad strikes again

  • @Abdrahim_had
    @Abdrahim_had 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    a real good men, know who to treat woman well, in privacy in public in General, thats what let the testos flow, if that is your weak point work in it.
    the best amongs you is the best for his family, said by our beloved Prophet Peace upon him.
    انما الحياة الدنية متاع و خير متع الدنية الزوجة الصليحة😊

  • @taheraomar9210
    @taheraomar9210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The solution is the woman,give her the Islamic education.She is bringing up this boy into a male.Teach the woman about Allah not just herself……

  • @masudalikhan
    @masudalikhan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The sound is low

  • @tabishfaraazchaudhary2971
    @tabishfaraazchaudhary2971 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being a good man is actually necessary before being an Alpha or whtevr

  • @stephenjennings8569
    @stephenjennings8569 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    insh'Allâh a man or woman who fears Allâh wants more for his brother or sister insh'Allâh than what he or she has insh'Allâh my shahada was 7-11-14 today is 7-11-22 insh'Allâh my son my mom insh'Allâh me took our oath to Allâh by his permission and his gracious and most merciful Bismillah Ar Rahman Ar Raheem 190 blessings insh'Allâh
    الحم لله

  • @mahmmediaabulhasan9569
    @mahmmediaabulhasan9569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looking Nice guys (no pun intended)

  • @moroprincess
    @moroprincess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    is it just me or is the volume really low? :(

    • @shariarshuvo
      @shariarshuvo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am very sorry. This is only for Episode 1. I messed up a bit. Future episode's audio is top notch quality

  • @Kuma_クマさん
    @Kuma_クマさん 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    #MAN

  • @ulama7828
    @ulama7828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What should I say when I see muslims (like recently been seeing many 'Muslim' woman) committing zina/being in haram relationships with kufar men/woman. Like its wrong even logically, but what can I say? Advice? Like it makes me have a bad feeling in my gut and I wanna do something about it.

    • @Ricestlover
      @Ricestlover 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Thiven C yes it’s happening

  • @prajalpi
    @prajalpi ปีที่แล้ว

    35:02

  • @cleartrueblue66
    @cleartrueblue66 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    34:24

  • @blackgown7485
    @blackgown7485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cant hear u properly....i think your talking too low

  • @Saifjadallah95
    @Saifjadallah95 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ya’ll are high, except for the guys on the sides

    • @The3Muslims
      @The3Muslims  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      High on that imaan boyyyyyy

  • @ameerallietalks
    @ameerallietalks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    #Man

  • @rahim5060
    @rahim5060 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great points thank you!! Just the brother with the red sweater speaks so slow like he is high lol it’s a bit annoying no offence brother

  • @Account2129
    @Account2129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    # man

  • @astraysora5725
    @astraysora5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    W

  • @ahmadamirul7569
    @ahmadamirul7569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    #Men

  • @mohammedkhan6033
    @mohammedkhan6033 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    #MEN

  • @abudream92
    @abudream92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    #men ;)

  • @abusewrId
    @abusewrId 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Andrew Tate hitting girlfriend with cane video, check the context

  • @almurabitun
    @almurabitun ปีที่แล้ว

    I like this podcast.
    In England the racists have gotten the shit kicked out of them by Muslim Bangladeshi and Pakistani mandem. Even back in the days we defended against racist non-Muslim Carribbeans (now many are Muslim).
    The Arabs and Afghans who mainly live in Lond etc came here in the 90s and 2000s and live comfortably

  • @MDRAHMAM321
    @MDRAHMAM321 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    #men