THE MINDSET OF HIGH ACHIEVERS - Jordan Peterson
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"Ben Shapiro" is now a unit of speed to measure how fast someone thinks
@@Dimitris_Balf and yet you’d probably still lose in an argument against him
How fast was I going, sir? At least 3 Ben Shapiros.
@@Valstein0 Step out of the car please. You are under arrest. 😂
@Dimitrios yah he doesn't really have to. His arguments are basic logic. But a lot of people don't get that today.
Men can be women!
Ben: No, they can't.
.6 Ben Shapiros per mile
People who open up like that are rare and awesome.
And presenting a new meaning to ADHD
Though think about the amount and speed of thoughts of and on him, by imagining him to suddenly stop talking to you and just sit there indefinitely
@J.L. Mc Facts, they have to if they want to heal.
@J.L. Mc My wife has been multiple times and I never went but had to take group therapy where we talked about those issues because I got a DUI
A pure melancholic thinker. God could have made him a holy priest, a red martyr Saint. But he chose to use him slightly differently. Love this man. 🙏
Having an obsessive mind and thinking constantly from before I open my eyes until after I close them certainly rings a bell for me. The other element that rings so true for me is the focus on one aspect of life to think about. I believe he said he chose the most difficult; I chose at a similar young age, about 9 or 10 or so, to focus on the problem that I thought was the most urgent, or important, which was how I could explain (to the whole world and everyone in it) why we needed to be kind and cooperative instead of mean and warlike, based on the premise that we are all more alike than we are different, and that we are all equal in terms of rights and responsibilities. I think I was probably 20 or so before I finally realized I was never going to be able tell the world and everyone in it anything. I am so grateful that this man has what it takes to do what he does. He is my hero. Superhero.
I was impressed the first time I heard him speak. Admirable human.
@@patriciaross1336 I'd give anything to have therapy with this man. So many in the field are dumb as dirt.
still the same. being an intellectual is an upgrade
That was deep, what you just said.
Jordan you were like the father figure I was dying to have in my life but never did. I relish everything that you have to say. You have taught me any things and I am so grateful to you! ❤️
I've learned so many new words with this man. Malevolence...vicious ill will or spite towards others. 😅
I remember, my Dad taught me that word when I was younger, but also Benevolence. The opposite of
Malevolence, the quality of being well meaning; kindness. It stuck with me for some reason. I use them all the time to describe things.
The play with kids thing is an awesome take, prepping children for the burden of life and remaining optimistic, never forgetting that there’s always an inner child… it certainly humbles you that’s for sure
Faith! Believe! Survive! Life is full of challenges!
He is benevolent and I hope he knows it.
I ❤this man. Is what I just said out loud to myself as I was listening to him say what preoccupies him. “Malevolence” what a noble problem to be obsessed with solving that you can’t stop yourself from thinking about since you were 13. smh I am not as good a human as you are, sir.
I wish you all the loving kindness any heart can be pampered unto your life and everything you hold dear. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and understanding to the many.
Thank you for an answer. And yes, You make a difference, You change a lot of people - in a good way - I would not even dream that it's possible.
Im an obsessive over thinker! And i haven’t succeeded in turning the voices off, but I have been able to turn the volume down--through focused prayers & meditation!
Instead of engaging & judging the inner conflict I am learning to acknowledge it take deep breaths, relax & let it go!
It’s all about the mind--if indeed you don’t mind it doesn’t matter! Don’t Worry! Bee Happy!
We all wish we had your amazing mind.
Speak for yourself.
While one may not have his level of education, one can be intellectually on a similar plane.
It's agonizing to be aware of the world and see it with clarity. Watching people destroy their marriages, compromise their children's futures, destroy their own bodies with various poisons of pleasure.
My only envy of Peterson is that he learned how to make people listen and stop destroying themselves including their own family.
i love this man since day one i saw him in youtube and hear his motivational vedios till up now. May God bless you sir Jordan! your such a blessings to us.
Obsession is how one achieves excellence.
You’re a sweetheart, Dr. Peterson. Take time off for yourself. You’re looking tired. ❤️💋
“I swear to you that to think too much is a disease, a real, actual disease.” ― Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Notes from Underground. Trust me the idea of being always occupied with thoughts isn't as nice as it sounds.
A particularly messy problem [malevolence] which requires a sustained lifetime of effort in the unpicking and unpacking of it (if it’s actually possible to do!). To me, you appear to be ever so wrathful in speech and mannerism whilst navigating your life’s purpose. It’s so refreshing to hear you share not to underestimate the power of play or time spent with youth/children - you are right, it helps soften the stubborn buildups that appear over time with such driven work as yours. The world is a better place for having your voice present in it ~ thanks for all you do! 🌼🌞🌹
Thank you Mr. Peterson, your words truly inspire me to be a better human being.
I love you Jordan, keep doing you.
My little grandkids keeps my not only young and happy
But also patient...
You are so intelligent, open and honest, and certainly supportive and helpful.
With the obsessive mind how do you turn it off. I was diagnosed OCD at 15. It's been a battle my entire life, eating disorders, anxiety, bouts with depression, an accident in 2021 has completely amped up what I thought could not get any worse. I can't even sleep anymore. I wake in a panic and sweating. I'm trying so hard to fix my brain but it's just so hard
It's not your brain, it's your body. Your nervous system. It's causing your mind to get no rest. You need to get rid of the trauma load. Hope i could help.
@@herminehaller4139 you are half correct. It's his brain. He has an underlying condition that needs to be diagnosed first, then followed with therapy and the correct medication. The central nervous system and brain are connected. You cannot separate the two. It's not possible.
I was exactly like that. And was suffering. I finally picked the phone up and made an appointment with a Doctor. This was six months ago.
I was diagnosed with C-PTSD and have a crippling anxiety disorder.
I have had horrific traumatic events that have happened to me throughout all my life thus far. I did nothing but bury it and move on. It ALL came out a year ago. I had a total breakdown and was transported to the ER. It totally scared me like you wouldn't believe.....
Everyone is different, and everyone tries to cope only in ways they do for themselves...
However....
I had the exact same symptoms the commenter had.
I encourage him to see a Doctor. It will change his life for the better. I guarantee it.
Take care, and I wish you all the best in your life !
Mom's spaghetti.....
You need to see a Doctor right away.
I am encouraging you to do it, because I was exactly where you're at a while ago.
You need the CORRECT medication that will calm you, you cannot do it by "mind over matter". It's totally not your fault in any way at all. Your brain is connected to your whole nervous system. The Vagus nerve connects the two. You have an underlying condition that is the main thing that needs to be diagnosed correctly, then you will be treated correctly.
I was wrongly diagnosed at first. With OCD like you. Yet, nothing helped. I had the same exact symptoms you have. I knew there was something else that was the main problem to begin with. So... I went to the Doctor again. Told him everything, did not hold back.
Got all kinds of tests done.
I was finally diagnosed correctly. I have severe PTSD with a crippling anxiety disorder. I was put on the correct medication right away. Then I was referred to a psychologist. I am in therapy once a week.
Guess what? I am healing. Finally.
I believe in you. Please, see a Doctor as soon as possible. See a different one if you want. You have to get diagnosed correctly. You WILL. Then you finally will begin to heal, and you will feel better. I guarantee it.
I've been there. I completely understand.
Believe me, I DO.
I sincerely am encouraging you to please take my advice. Honestly, because I know it will work. Not only do you need to....for your overall health which will be treated correctly, and put your well-being in the right state of mind and soul...... You deserve it. Because you deserve a good life!! I care!!
I so wish you all the very best. :-)
@@donnamariedavidson5065 I ment, it's her or his nervous system at first place and not a mental problem at first place (not exactly meaning "the brain", but mental patterns or behaviors). I totally get and feel what you describe. I see you also mention the vagus nerve. I think we're on the same page, except from the choice of words ( English is not m mother language though). I recommend the work of Gopal Norbert Klein, a german Trauma therapist, who did some of his videos in english. You find him on TH-cam. All the best! 🙏
desribes me most of my life. I have somone very important to think about now
I identify with what he said in the beginning. Always fucking thinking
Me too. But I'd rather be like that than a senseless boob.
I feel like that too. But I don't produce anything but short paragraphs in comment sections like these.
Without education, it is tyranny.
Love this man
I’ve never understood what is so bad about Jordan Peterson
He think too deeply for this superficial world, the thing he does wrong(for them),and also he goes against the tide
If you think Dr Peterson is "bad" you have been listening to and reading
people who have no conception of what a truly Honest, Empathetic and Brilliant man is. Or, they are just jealous.
Because there's nothing wrong.
I don't understand why people group him in with Andrew Tate and other "manosphere" types either. He has publicly denounced much of that type of behavior and immaturity. There's some Twitter stuff where he tweeted how overweight models are not beautiful which I think was unnecessary but you can't judge somebody based on a single statement because people are multi-dimensional and I think he's done more good than bad.
Had a conversation with someone that thought he was a horrible radical. All he could come up with though is Peterson's misuse of the word "postmodern".
I definitely relate... Jordan where were you when I was 13....lol I love listening to Jordan Peterson ♥️🙏😇🐝😎
Thank you Canadian Dad
When I was in the hospital and having trouble breathing I experienced anxiety like never before. My mind was racing and I couldn’t stop it. I was obsessively thinking about a ridiculous and absurd calculation of how to determine if someone was good or bad. I can’t even explain it because it was so dumb.
If you swap out the dumb crap I was thinking for something intelligent I think that must be what his mind is like. Constantly thinking through a subject, unable to stop or slow the thoughts, until something good comes out of it.
I could relate with you
I understand what me means about obsessive and thinking all the time. It is useful but also absolutely draining for me. When I smoke weed my switch turns slightly to a more free place where it isn't so pressuring and is a lot more fun to be in. I compare it to driving to a place you need to get to a soon as possible with no diversions. On weed it is more of a Sunday stroll where I can drive wherever I want and am not in a hurry. Weed has led me to much deeper meanings in many things because it helps branch my thinking out and helps my creativity
My parents never played with me and never taught me.
I know what it means to have an obsessive mind. When I am painting we’re thinking about painting it is very difficult to stop, especially at night thinking of the images as they run through my mind. I also like to write, but, thank goodness I am not currently occupied with that! I have some beautiful grandchildren now from my son who I can claim truly has been a prodigal son! Not much has given me the joys of these children have at this time in my life! Last summer, while waiting for his sister Talia to arrive, my then one year old grandson Adi and I were in a room. I was watching him and interacting with him but I had a terrible headache and was lying on the floor! Adi came over and put his face on my leg a few times. He was kissing me and moved up to my face! My nose ended up in his mouth but he was trying to kiss grandma. I thought thank God these kids don’t bite! Anyway, I grabbed Adi and said “I will remember this day as one of the best days in my life”!
Awesome. Really. I escape into drawing in ballpoint pen. No mistakes or start again 🤭😋
In some of my experiences painting mistakes may be passages into what one artist calls “the adjacent possible” and open up a whole new world of creativity.
@@nancykressdowney1445 Sometimes, I use the mistakes to "learn to hide them" to a degree, but I'm more than a little OCD, and thus, will start again. Teach myself FAITH through art.
I'm a new grandmother, sweet chapter 💕
Congratulations new Grandma! It’s wonderful.
What an amazing man😊🤩
Thank you Dr. Jordan Peterson!😍💝🙏🇺🇸
Kindness. What is it. That's the key I believe. Being kind
Just...no false compassion.
You are brilliant and have a beautiful mind, heart, and soul. ✝️❤️
I'm so glad he said that . I'm told I think too much and I think too deep and I over think. I littoral can not turn it off. But I do fall a sleep fast and I don't really remember dreaming. That's only time I don't think .
As someone with 'OCD', I felt this
I just read many thanks from many folks ! I agree ! My being born with a bright inquisitive mind. I have an almost obsessive personality about creativity and learning my whole life. Mom told me that, when I was a child, she would talk to me & I would be so focused on whatever I was working, I would not even hear her ! I have realized that that is somewhat self-centered of me. Fortunately I never completely lost
the child in me. I was also very somewhat indulged, good education, and many gifts from others. I tend to give too much, so at 70 years old, that I still need to work on discernment of others & situations. Many thanks to Jordan for what you have and do give of yourself. ("IT'S NOT A MATTER OF PERFECTION, BUT TO BE EXCELLENT")
This is mind blowing, 100% out of 100%
The simple definition onf human being
Kudos Mr. Peterson🤗😍💝
thinking 🤔 makes you hungry
but for real that’s why I try hard not to get drunk. the hangovers wipe me out mentally for almost 36hrs. even if I stay hydrated there is somewhat of a wave of depression that comes on and when I feel the hangover completely gone I feel optimistic again.
Surely we can all relate. Malevolence shouldn't be welcome,in any realm.
I find him completely relatable!
Im an overthinker , every time I let go , Hell brake loose. Reading and absorbing information is the only time i feel relieved.
It is incredible to hear others discuss about it without classic society labels that is all in my mind. It is how we are built , not kids anymore so not much space for change
Psalm 40:2-3 He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, & set my 👣 upon a 🪨, & established my goings. & he hath put a new song in my 👄, even praise unto our God: many shall 👀 it, & fear, & shall trust in the LORD.
Psalm 19:13-14, 1 Thessalonians 2:3-6
MHO JP carries the worlds suffering .. and transmutes this to love, his processes are laid bare for the world to see ..
And for us to be reminded of the depth of love required to overcome tyranny .. which serves only to oppress creative love
.. He is an example to us all to emulate, to not simply accept hardship and difficulties, and inequality, to be awake to be aware of our fears and to recognise.. our fear as the antithesis of our love
Love is the only creative power he demonstrates this for us all .. to have the courage to embrace creative love a new consciousness in this regard ..
As it is with this that we will overcome all the challenges we collectively face
I did notice the problem in kids around...it's very difficult situation.
As a child, there comes a breaking point, due to unexpected events. Could be as simple as not getting a toy or sibling getting toy etc. Child thinks a big irrationally is happening.
If child breaks down, he only can try to be good. There is difference between trying to become good and being good.
Only few things can save a child in such breaking down situations.....
Detachment: concluding that situation is irrelevant.
Compassion: concluding that situation is childish or sympathetic.
Great appreciation of mother : nothing else matters. (but mother has to be pure enough for this.)
These qualities are hard to develop and has to be taught. Believing in God may help for a kid, that someday the kid has to face God and shouldn't be ashamed of his/her behaviour.
Beautiful!
The ROOT of MALEVOLENCE - Detachment from Toxic Narcissist Family that I Love Dearly… Is like Discovering that the Monopoly Game Cheaters, never Learn to Play Straight; the Satisfaction of Pure Intents, like: LOVE, Charity, Achievement, Integrity, Empathy, & that Divine Character Traits (2 Peter, Ch. 1), is the Ultimate WIN! They always Cheat & through History, you finally Realize that their Entertainment, is your Torture, as the Vampires are always Thirsty… “SO, FINALLY,” the PAIN, becomes commonplace, & the Game gets BORING! But, essentially… The Game ceases to Exist when the Sorrow, spreads to GRIEF, & they’ve Simply Stabbed you in their Private Piece of Real Estate, that they were to own forever, “Your Space of Heart Just For Them,” & Instead Squandered THEIR Treasure, for a Mess of Pretend WINS.” Some day, they may Realize that they “REALLY LOST,” when the Board Game of LIFE is Folded on a Shelf… And you’re not willing to Comply & Detach from the TRUTH, wasting a Good Afternoon on Them, any Longer! When the Enticement of Interaction, equates to PAIN 100% PAIN… Your Fantasy Ceases, & HOPE is Transferred to the Divine. GOD & Miracles are REAL! This is a Safe-Space for the Integrity-Minded, High Achiever!
🙏🏻💛🕊🍃
@@janiecepoush1904 I can understand this. Solution is multi fold. First you have to know that people never change, accept their flaws. Secondly, don't expect/keep expecting very usual behaviour that you would expect. I.e. confront the problem.
Thirdly, look at the situation with compassion. You have to be bigger person here. No-one is 100% bad, they become somewhat bad due to experiences they face. They being unable to fullfill their responsibilities, makes them child like, and you become elderly. Try to give hint or drive, but not dictate. Know that there are worst things than this. Blowing things up will only cause more problems.
A bad analogy: if you are stuck with a puppy and it bites you, you don't bite back, but still take care of it.
Wishing you good luck.
What a beautiful head of hair on my man Jordan. His brain is pretty dynamic also
Self knowledge is important
God bless you
IMO & experience,
when the mind is "going flat out,
obsessively 100% all the time,"
there is a disturbance in the gut.
There is a proven intimate connection
between the gut & the brain able to
cause issues of depression & anxiety.
What Dr Jordan is describing seems a
perfect example of classic strong Anxiety.
It is relatively easy to fix w/o any drugs.
Wishing you long healthy years of life as you gracefully share your greatness with us.
Wishing you all the best
Prof. Peterson.
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
You are one the smartest man I have ever hear in my life !!!
We have something in common.
My own mind thinks every waking moment in existence. Every nano second Jordan, my mind is ticking over, thinking, thinking, thinking ; however , am also an individual who converts the thinking,
into action.
So I am both a thinker AND,
a doer.
I do this. I do that. I do home maintenance.
I do cleaning. Do cooking. Do sewing. Do making. Do scooting. Do shopping.
I do writing, publishing and photography.
Do , do , do LOTS of things.
And I think, think, think, about lots of things.
I think about ideas, and then I do it.
And I don't let anyone talk me out of it EVEN though many try to talk me out of it.
The way I see it is this.
The brain and mind is for thought.
The body is for its manual applications.
So, I think about the idea.
And my body then transports the idea to make the thought, into a reality.
Those who try and tell me , but you can't do that, and you can't do this, and this person is like this and can't, and that person can't ; and he can't and she can't and can't, can't, can't, Moyne Shire says you can't, neighbours say you can't, my doctor says you can't, the TH-cam community says I can't, someone else's parents and friends says I can't, some stranger on the street says can't, and don't do this and don't do that and no, no, no, blah blah blah as the way it is in small country towns because every person in KOROIT thinks that they are the mayor around the place to the degree that I am dealing with insanely negatively geared no no no can't can't can't backwards bullies ;
people like that are people that I just don't let influence me because the can't can't can't crowd,
all manning up to tell me that I can't do something;
clearly don't understand the truth of my character.
Of course they don't because they are not me.
Which, ME, is an acceptance that others insecurity, lacking, and negative mindsets, isn't mine , obviously. 🤨🙄😑
Which my own runs by CAN.
Of course I can.
And do.
And do.
That's what makes me, me.
Otherwise I would be like every other miserable can't can't can't prick around the place !
And there's enough of them on the planet already.
So IF you're one of those people who try and stop me from achieving, or doing, I will just laugh at you.
Because that is clearly not part of who I am.
Jordan Peterson is my freebie
I was in bet up with my dad I feel in love all animals and took time to learn about them it is beautiful I have parrots 🙄🤔 in pain but beautiful to have love of my parrots love to here from here from you 💚☘️🤞
Straight up and straight to the point that's means pure
This is my mind.. And it's challange to live like that
Thank you so much JP for your contribution to humanity!
Yeah... I understand how "trying not to think is a huge burden". Best find a way to make peace with it. Apply it at something good.
Patient, Deliberate BENEVOLENCE!!!! I find nothing more difficult in this Universe (!)... Herr Doktor Professor Peterson (!)... Negativity 100% of the time(!) And in sleep!!!!
MALEVOLENCE. With an M, not a B.
Grammer is important first, so you can finally LEARN. Watch this clip again and listen correctly to what he is factually stating. Only then, you will understand.
@@donnamariedavidson5065 NO(!)...my problems, not his...please pull your head out of your orifice*. Thank you for engaging your brain cells before you reply*
We are social animals, we want to belong, we want to know with as much certainty as we can muster that our tribe accept us. So it helps if our tribe have clear and easily definable traits and characteristics. We hate the "other" because they are not "us", they both secure and threaten our place in, and membership to, the tribe. They don't look as we do, don't act as we do and don't think as we do, so they must be diminished and made subservient to us. Otherwise they will do the same; make us and our ways lesser than. Xenophobia, racism, theology, ideology all come back to our need for each other. Love breeds fear. So then we us love to tear down the barriers and distinctions between us so we can all belong. But that is antithetical to our nature. Compassion and understanding for others are skills that often must be taught. So how do you feel when the others come to change the place you belong to suit themselves and make you the other? Eroding part of your identity and leaving you as an alien, a pariah in your own home. We hate to protect what we love from what we fear.
I used to make wooden toys for my little cousins (7 total) and i also used to play with them for hours, the most chill and entertaining experience i used to have
Now they are 16yo or older and things have change but in my eyes they are still "the little ones" you know?
Also its hilarious to think about the "Ben Shappiro rate" being used as a messuring speed for thinking
What are kids great at when playing? Imagination, aka, Creativity….creation, the opposite of destruction, which is the core of malevolence. Smart.
I love this.
As much as I admire and love Jordan Peterson I’m glad I don’t have his mind.
He is pure Gold
I love you Jordan.
9:39 at 332 likes when I saw this. Thank you for sharing.
I'm a woman and I know this feeling you experience
A great mind !!!
Thank you love
I do the same thing but finally googled it. He was right the first time. It's pronounced RES-pit not res-SPITE.
Boredom gives our minds opportunities to think. Let yourself be bored and unplug from screens. Let yourself think.
Im doing an academic presentation about this man I loved watching on youtube.
I was just stunned to make an internet research about him. So many articles and sources blaming and denouncing him!
To be honest, they did make me suspicious about him. They made me doubt my blind admiration. What if he is just smart enough to make himself look really virtuous?..
but after seeing such videos here, on youtube, i just prove to myself that its impossible to be malevolent or anything bad, with such words and tone and speech and ideas. … though he actly might be acting lol.😅
Some hater:: Play with kids?! Clip that, let's frame him. Finally some proof.
😅
It’s awesome how this inspiring soundtrack aligns so much with Jordan Peterson’s philosophy on life. Does anybody know the name of this soundtrack/background music/instrumental?
Jordan Peterson for PRIME MINISTER ♥️👌AR
For me it was tackling what God was, how it relates to human development through the ages, shaped philosophy, modern science, and what it's true origin was. In short which theology was closest to the correct interpretation of what God itself was.
And I challenged myself to do it on memory alone, few, if any writings, because I wanted to keep the important bits relevant, and to be able to at will pull out mental notes associated with daily life instead of having that problem of losing a fleeting thought.
I also felt it would help the development of intuition.
The endeavor took me from everything from physiology, to psychology, to paranormal activity, to quantum physics, not to mention many other natural sciences, and what can be called pseudosciences
I also chose to do it on thought alone in homage to ancient humans, who passed teachings without written language
How old is Peterson? He just summed up how many years of research in a 1 min analogy, mark of a true genius!!
I'm 60
Same age
Sadly it takes about 60 years I reckon to be aware of how the world works
I still don't fully understand
But it is truly a pleasure to be 60
And feel you've gained wisdom.
Too old fashioned
Otherwise hot ❤ 😂
Over thinking may be the mindset of high achievers, but God says it will destroy your peace. There must be a rest for the mind to bring balance. ❤
May Allah guide you to Islam Ameen
music - fall equinox by the bows
It's ALWAYS ABOUT YOU
What’s the name of the music
Cast your anxiety upon God
I can't wait to read this book😃❤💪
I’m like that too
❤ u JP please become president
I think 100% of the time too. But it's usually just about food or women. 😅
Malevolent is actually a male event , I like you for your details are small enough to light up the sky.
Same thing for me.
I think about positeve goals and future
It's hard to turn it off
Jesus X he looks exhausted poor man they really did it
I'm the same ❤ I also see the pain in your eyes ❤
So... should I become obsessive to be highly productive?
I always assumed that I was obsessively lazy...
I obsessively conceive on the entirety of the universe
❤️🔥🙏😁yes children
I would really love to see Jordan have a conversation with Jesus.
That would be fascinating ❤