3:19 Fuck being humble 5:33 We should all be millionaires 8:02 Buy yourself the damn flowers 12:07 The courage to be disliked 14:35 Surrounded by idiots 16:50 How to talk to anyone
I AM OPENLY DISCLOSING that i haven't touched a book for non academics in my life but the minute i read the preface of tams book i knew it was going to be a new beginning and the way my life has changed for the better
Having read the complete book "Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers" I can confidently say it's an absolute gem. 100% recommend buying it. A solid 10/10!❤ It’s packed with actionable steps, not just pages of theory, making it incredibly practical and relatable. Some lines really hit hard, and I find myself revisiting them often. The real-life examples throughout make it easy for all the girlies to connect with, and I love re-reading it for inspiration. Plus, it references many other self-help books, making it a one-stop resource for personal growth
3:19 F*** being Humble - Stefanie Sword-Williams 5:35 We should all be Millionaires - Rachel Rodgers 8:04 Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers - Tam Kaur 12:06 The Courage to be Disliked - Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga 14:35 Surrounded by Idiots - Thomas Erikson 16:50 How to Talk to Anyone - Leil Lowndes
This is call a perfect timing. The universe know that. I'm currently working on myself to be a hot girl honestly and Tam's content perfectly suits that. ❤❤
there's a book called Hidden Manifestation by Oliver Mercer, and it talks about how using some secret techniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
I’m a Londoner and yesterday when I walked by my local Waterstones store I quietly fangirled when I say your book displayed right at the front of the shop window. Don’t worry Tam, I’m still waiting for it to be ready for collection in my library x
I was actually hoping you'd mention your book because it deserves a place on this list. Definitely worth reading because of the chapter summary and homework.
Girl i think ur so underrated you deserve more than you now have. You have so many videos about various things that helps us. I hope you'll grow more both financial and mentally. I become more enthusiastic after watching a random video of yours. Thank you for all these videos🎀
Never read a self help book in my life, more of a fiction girlie myself, but sre Tam, i trust you. Imma write this down for when im not broke. ( Which is very soon, abundance mindset)
Help books are good, but I try not to read too many of them because I feel like it overwhelms me. I’m about to start reading some fiction books as well. I think I need a balance
ByeBye unhealthy thoughts like: ‘I don’t matter’, and ‘I’m not good enough’. I broke myself down with it and made some really “bad choices”. Last year I found out I’m autistic as hell! My healing journey started… With all the new knowledge about autism, I want to built myself up from the ground. Really get to know who I am, instead of how I think society wants me to be. I’m obsessed with my healing process and I know I will learn a lot from your book. Thanks universe for putting Tam on my road! And thanks Tam for being you💖
Recently, I've been feeling really demotivated and the first thing that can act as a driving force for me is a good self help book and you just introduced so many of them. Thank you ❤
I completed reading it and it's awesome like your mindset is gonna shift and you're gonna become the best version of yourself through the practices instill in the book 🎉 📚 good luck with the reading girlies❤!❤!❤
Divine timing like usual Tam!! Thank you for creating this videos. You’ve inspired me so much to create too! I’m currently writing a book, working as a nurse and doing content creation ❤ I wouldn’t be where I am today if I didn’t come across your videos. My new mantra is every day feels like a vacation ❤❤
I’ve listened to a couple books that changed my life recently ❤ Teri Cole Too Much -for high functioning codependent people. She also has an awesome book that’s next on my list called Boundary Boss. Buy yourself the damn flowers! 🌺 Tam I am so beyond proud of you and I cannot wait until your next book! The Game of Life ❤
8:24 I bought this my first book of my life cause it's your boo watching you since past 2 years the way you used to show working on yiur book to publishing it I'm so proud of you I'm 18 now but feel wise reading this 😭💕
This video was amazing Tam, you have really got me into reading non-fiction as a person who loves and only has ever read fiction. But I have a suggestion, I saw how you folded the pages on which you gained a knowledge but I recommend you to annotate your books instead with tabs- annotation allows you to fully immerse yourself in the book and interact with the information and retain your very first thoughts and reactions of the book which I find very useful.
1. F*ck being humble 2. We should all be millionaires 3. Buy yourself the damn flowers 4.the courage to be disliked 5. Surrounded by idiots 6. How to talk to anyone
Recently got a new book that would work well with these called Likeable Badass by Alison Fragale PhD. She goes into several ways to promote yourself, and the psychological reasons they work. Like Tams book, there is a homework section at the end of each chapter.
Omggg just finished the video Ma Sha Allah its soooo amazingggg love you tammm alwaysssss a big fan Added this to my playlist will buy them soon and gonna check them out.... Thanksssss🤗🤗
Tam, please make a video on how you read and implement self-help/improvement books. Cause I have been reading them passively and none of the information and tips stay in my head for long. It's like I read it and then forget it. So, it would be great if you made a video on how to read and implement the knowledge actively.
I have started my self love journey with buy yourself the damn flowers. I received the book today and after reading the introduction i am in love with the book because it hits home,its so relatable and inspiring that if tam can overcome her anxious attachment style and build a healthy confidence self concept then i can too.I am very excited to finish the book and implement all the knowledge,thank you tam so much ❤❤❤after that i am going to read all your recommendation.
thank you so much tam! i also wanna say, idk if its just me but i like this background a lil better than the walking closet because its less complicated and the focus is on you. just an opinion 💗
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
thanks for the video tam! i've read some great self-help books that have helped me a lot based on you previous videos so it's great to see what new books you are recommending :) i'm planning to read 'the courage to be disliked' and 'surrounded by idiots'
I have already bought your book and am in the process of reading it. The other recommendations also sound amazing so I will probably read all of them. Thank you so much, you are an inspiration
shes soo beautiful....i also wanna say that i had been going through something since a loooong time..then i found you and i simply cannot than you enough...alll you 'how to ' videos help me...literally all of them....thank you sooo much... ik im not old enough to be saying this to you(im 17) but..god bless u and thank u your video on getting over with toxic family perfectly matches with evtg thats going on with me .....its so helpful...thank you
Perfect video!!! I have been struggling to find a good self-help book to read so thank you for your recommendations, also love your book have read it twice definitely recommend ❤📖😊
i loved this video sm, exactly what i needed. And i started reading buy yourself the damn flowers. I've only read the prologue and half of chapter 1 and I already love this book sm
I think I am in love with you. I have watched almost every video of yours, and I enjoy every new video you put out, and I always learn something new from you. I just love how you keep growing and how you put out new content every time. Thank you sooo much for sharing your thoughts online, and know that you have helped me sooo much. ❤
i bet when you were doing the previous book recommendation video, you were dreaming about the day you'll suggest your own book there as well and here you are!
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
In mid of your vedio I was just going to comment the only book you all need is 'buy yourself the damn flowers' just then your book showed up in the vedio 😂❤️
i wanna pick up the first book you talked about bc it seems fun but honestly i really need to master how to talk to people and network.. im finally at this stage at my life, so, starting step by step with these recommendations, i'll start reading the "surrounded by idiots" first :) thank you for the intel tam!
I need a video about how to deal with fake bestfriends . I have some friends , but that friends have some friends and no it doesnt bother me But its just this bestfriends of me tells me that they are the true friends that i have and ignores me , doesnt talk to me if i dont talk with them or start a coversation , laughs and have fun with the people that i hate the MOST ! And i really need to change my mindset about them being the sweet little angels which they are not . Everytime when i know that they are hurting i just cant avoid that feeling and i cant stop being sad and hurt . I really need to change it , and be myself without them , can u please do one video something like this
3:19 Fuck being humble
5:33 We should all be millionaires
8:02 Buy yourself the damn flowers
12:07 The courage to be disliked
14:35 Surrounded by idiots
16:50 How to talk to anyone
Thank youu ❤
Thank you
Yess and she also had the book links in the description in case you didnt know
if everyone was a millionaire it would be meaningless, although with the way inflation is going millionaire might be the new middle class 😅😬
Thank uuu💞
I AM OPENLY DISCLOSING that i haven't touched a book for non academics in my life but the minute i read the preface of tams book i knew it was going to be a new beginning and the way my life has changed for the better
Having read the complete book "Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers" I can confidently say it's an absolute gem. 100% recommend buying it. A solid 10/10!❤
It’s packed with actionable steps, not just pages of theory, making it incredibly practical and relatable. Some lines really hit hard, and I find myself revisiting them often. The real-life examples throughout make it easy for all the girlies to connect with, and I love re-reading it for inspiration. Plus, it references many other self-help books, making it a one-stop resource for personal growth
I absolutely agree 👍👍
3:19 F*** being Humble - Stefanie Sword-Williams
5:35 We should all be Millionaires - Rachel Rodgers
8:04 Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers - Tam Kaur
12:06 The Courage to be Disliked - Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga
14:35 Surrounded by Idiots - Thomas Erikson
16:50 How to Talk to Anyone - Leil Lowndes
Aren't you a blessing ❤
Thx love
This is call a perfect timing. The universe know that. I'm currently working on myself to be a hot girl honestly and Tam's content perfectly suits that. ❤❤
Uss let's do it 💪 🫶
one thing i absolutely love about her is her fashion sense
TAM IS LITERALLY THE ONLINE OLDER SISTER
The older sister I don’t have :)
there's a book called Hidden Manifestation by Oliver Mercer, and it talks about how using some secret techniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
Yeah worth it .
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I’m a Londoner and yesterday when I walked by my local Waterstones store I quietly fangirled when I say your book displayed right at the front of the shop window. Don’t worry Tam, I’m still waiting for it to be ready for collection in my library x
I was actually hoping you'd mention your book because it deserves a place on this list. Definitely worth reading because of the chapter summary and homework.
Girl Boss Hustle: Earn 10k from Home showed me the way to make 10k a month without leaving my house. Why is no one talking about this?!
Just a 17 yr old girl learning a lot from a sister...
The timing!! 😭😭✨
TAMMMM I LOVE THE AUDIO QUALITY
Girl i think ur so underrated you deserve more than you now have. You have so many videos about various things that helps us. I hope you'll grow more both financial and mentally. I become more enthusiastic after watching a random video of yours. Thank you for all these videos🎀
Ikr
The book that attracted me is '' buy yourself the damn flowers''
Wanna read it immediately after the way you described
Never read a self help book in my life, more of a fiction girlie myself, but sre Tam, i trust you.
Imma write this down for when im not broke. ( Which is very soon, abundance mindset)
Help books are good, but I try not to read too many of them because I feel like it overwhelms me. I’m about to start reading some fiction books as well. I think I need a balance
ByeBye unhealthy thoughts like: ‘I don’t matter’, and ‘I’m not good enough’.
I broke myself down with it and made some really “bad choices”.
Last year I found out I’m autistic as hell! My healing journey started…
With all the new knowledge about autism, I want to built myself up from the ground. Really get to know who I am, instead of how I think society wants me to be.
I’m obsessed with my healing process and I know I will learn a lot from your book.
Thanks universe for putting Tam on my road!
And thanks Tam for being you💖
As a bookworm, i am grateful ❤
Recently, I've been feeling really demotivated and the first thing that can act as a driving force for me is a good self help book and you just introduced so many of them.
Thank you ❤
This video could not have come at a more perfect time!!! My aim is to turn 24 as a better version of myself, would add these books to my cart!
I've ordered your book buy yourself the damn flowers ❤ And tomorrow it is gonna deliver!!! I'm so excited ❤❤❤❤❤
Same!!! I am also so excited and happy to read it❤❤
I completed reading it and it's awesome like your mindset is gonna shift and you're gonna become the best version of yourself through the practices instill in the book 🎉 📚 good luck with the reading girlies❤!❤!❤
I received today ,its so relatable i cant tell you like i am seeing myself.indeed the best gift for my upcoming birthday by myself 🎁🎁❤❤
QUEEN POSTED!
You provide so much value in each and every video of yours truly love it
Tam you have really helped me a lot fr I had to write a paragraph on role in my exam and damn I knew I had to write in "Tam kaur " ❤️
Divine timing like usual Tam!! Thank you for creating this videos. You’ve inspired me so much to create too! I’m currently writing a book, working as a nurse and doing content creation ❤ I wouldn’t be where I am today if I didn’t come across your videos.
My new mantra is every day feels like a vacation ❤❤
I’ve listened to a couple books that changed my life recently ❤
Teri Cole Too Much -for high functioning codependent people. She also has an awesome book that’s next on my list called Boundary Boss.
Buy yourself the damn flowers! 🌺 Tam I am so beyond proud of you and I cannot wait until your next book!
The Game of Life ❤
Thank you tam for being the elder sister I never had 🌸💖
8:24 I bought this my first book of my life cause it's your boo watching you since past 2 years the way you used to show working on yiur book to publishing it I'm so proud of you I'm 18 now but feel wise reading this 😭💕
This video was amazing Tam, you have really got me into reading non-fiction as a person who loves and only has ever read fiction. But I have a suggestion, I saw how you folded the pages on which you gained a knowledge but I recommend you to annotate your books instead with tabs- annotation allows you to fully immerse yourself in the book and interact with the information and retain your very first thoughts and reactions of the book which I find very useful.
The way I immediately went to buy the books "The Courage to be Disliked" & "How to Talk to Anyone" so fast!! Can't wait to read them
1. F*ck being humble
2. We should all be millionaires
3. Buy yourself the damn flowers
4.the courage to be disliked
5. Surrounded by idiots
6. How to talk to anyone
I love you
Buy yourself*
i was literally finding books to read this morning lol love you
Recently got a new book that would work well with these called Likeable Badass by Alison Fragale PhD. She goes into several ways to promote yourself, and the psychological reasons they work. Like Tams book, there is a homework section at the end of each chapter.
A good book is girls who run with the wolves and it’s about how our intuition is gifts from our ancestors in perious lives
Thank you tam💖💖💖
tam!!!❤
I literally felt like she was talking to me one to one . She is a sister i always wanted ❤
I'm watching this on my hot girl walk❤️ great timing
I manifested this video there is no way
This video is sooooo good , thank you so much, i really needed these books you mentioned, and your timing is driving me crazy
Perfect timing girlie ❤
One of my goals for Fall 2024 is to start reading more self-help books. This is really helpful! I also have to read yours of course 🥰
getting the book now
I just love watching her videos!!🫧💖
The timing ✨ Wow…just wow ❤️🔥
You are literally my saviour 🎀🥺
bruhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU TAM. THANK YOU TAM. ALWAYS DELIVERING WHAT I NEEEEEEEEEEEED.
insanely perfect timing 💗 can’t wait to read these
Omggg just finished the video Ma Sha Allah its soooo amazingggg love you tammm alwaysssss a big fan
Added this to my playlist will buy them soon and gonna check them out.... Thanksssss🤗🤗
This is the most perfect timing because I am about to finish your book and I need new ones 😌
I needed this recommendation for these 3 months ❤
She's definitely the sister or bestie we never knew we needed!🩷 Lots of love Tam!✨🩷
Tam, please make a video on how you read and implement self-help/improvement books. Cause I have been reading them passively and none of the information and tips stay in my head for long. It's like I read it and then forget it. So, it would be great if you made a video on how to read and implement the knowledge actively.
Exactly!
Go girl!!! 💖💃✨
Ps: this is the first time I'm here within an hour of post thankfully!
I have started my self love journey with buy yourself the damn flowers. I received the book today and after reading the introduction i am in love with the book because it hits home,its so relatable and inspiring that if tam can overcome her anxious attachment style and build a healthy confidence self concept then i can too.I am very excited to finish the book and implement all the knowledge,thank you tam so much ❤❤❤after that i am going to read all your recommendation.
I was waiting for this video 😭❤️
Thank you, Tam! 💗💖🩷
Aaaaaaaahhhh!!!!! I was waiting for ittt . Thankyouuuu ❤❤❤
How to write a book video please❤❤❤❤❤
thank you so much tam! i also wanna say, idk if its just me but i like this background a lil better than the walking closet because its less complicated and the focus is on you. just an opinion 💗
Omg I'm so ready❤❤❤❤😊❤😊❤😊❤
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
at this point i look forward to every Friday
Please do a Q&A please please please Tam! love you!
I love everything about this video ❤
thankyou so much I am grateful to have you sis 💜
thanks for the video tam! i've read some great self-help books that have helped me a lot based on you previous videos so it's great to see what new books you are recommending :)
i'm planning to read 'the courage to be disliked' and 'surrounded by idiots'
book rec videos are my absolute favouriteeeeeee
I have already bought your book and am in the process of reading it. The other recommendations also sound amazing so I will probably read all of them. Thank you so much, you are an inspiration
Tam, I've done a lot of reading about friendship break ups but can you do a video about reconnecting with friends when it's been a long time?
This is actually so real this would be helpful
brb ordering the mentioned books rn💋
I was waitinggg for another book recomendation video, so happy it's hereee!!!!! Ah!!! ^^🌸💛💛❤ Thanksss Tam❤
I’m listening to the recommendations and on another tab adding books to my cart. 🎉
I love your previous video of book recommendations so I’m so happy for this video!! Thank you for making this love you lots from Japan🥰
Could u do a study video on how to study when stressed out? How to do things when u are stressed out?
shes soo beautiful....i also wanna say that i had been going through something since a loooong time..then i found you and i simply cannot than you enough...alll you 'how to ' videos help me...literally all of them....thank you sooo much... ik im not old enough to be saying this to you(im 17) but..god bless u and thank u
your video on getting over with toxic family perfectly matches with evtg thats going on with me .....its so helpful...thank you
Perfect video!!! I have been struggling to find a good self-help book to read so thank you for your recommendations, also love your book have read it twice definitely recommend ❤📖😊
Tam's a girl's girl fr 💗
Not me adding books to "my cart" as I watch Tam recommend them!!!!! love your energy!!!
i loved this video sm, exactly what i needed. And i started reading buy yourself the damn flowers. I've only read the prologue and half of chapter 1 and I already love this book sm
giiiiirl I already bought it 💅❣
I think I am in love with you. I have watched almost every video of yours, and I enjoy every new video you put out, and I always learn something new from you. I just love how you keep growing and how you put out new content every time. Thank you sooo much for sharing your thoughts online, and know that you have helped me sooo much. ❤
Thank you for the best recommendations🥰💗
i bet when you were doing the previous book recommendation video, you were dreaming about the day you'll suggest your own book there as well and here you are!
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Buy her book it is more than worth it❤❤❤
Thankuu tam for putting that violin song at the end againnnnnnn 🤌❤❤
I'll read all the books mentioned in the video. Can you make a series for book recommendations every month.... it'll be really helpful
Buy yourself the damn flowers by Tam Kaur should have been number 1 on the list❤
that’s it, I’m reading all of them
TAM'S VIDEOS ARE THERAPY
Tysm Tam! I would highly recommend "Quiet" from Susan Cain. It explains in detail the power of introverts.
Tam plzz make a video on how to manifest anything in the right way. Plzzz😭
Thank you, Tam! I purchased all of them 💜
In mid of your vedio I was just going to comment the only book you all need is 'buy yourself the damn flowers' just then your book showed up in the vedio 😂❤️
Gonna buy most of them. Loved the recommendations. ❤
Thank youuuu!! I’ll finish your book first and then check out the others ❤️💗
The timing is crazy
Because everyday is “perfect timing” lol so the timing is crazy could be even in 3 months
i wanna pick up the first book you talked about bc it seems fun but honestly i really need to master how to talk to people and network.. im finally at this stage at my life, so, starting step by step with these recommendations, i'll start reading the "surrounded by idiots" first :) thank you for the intel tam!
I need a video about how to deal with fake bestfriends .
I have some friends , but that friends have some friends and no it doesnt bother me
But its just this bestfriends of me tells me that they are the true friends that i have and ignores me , doesnt talk to me if i dont talk with them or start a coversation , laughs and have fun with the people that i hate the MOST !
And i really need to change my mindset about them being the sweet little angels which they are not .
Everytime when i know that they are hurting i just cant avoid that feeling and i cant stop being sad and hurt .
I really need to change it , and be myself without them , can u please do one video something like this
Due to my academics I'm not able to read self-help books but I've ordered tam's book and I'm excited 🎉