Thank you for hanging out Kristin and yes you are right but my situation is a little different. This was obviously a complete disaster and my depression is the main reason for it. I was neglectful in the daily maintenance of staying on top of my son to do the things he should do. I honestly just could not deal with another thing during this time and so I just ignored it everyday and didn't bother to say anything about it. My son is 12 and Autistic and so he has trouble with executive functioning and needs reminders and micromanaging. With the mess being this bad I just decided to take it on myself so I did not have to be bothered with telling him what to do and all of that. Besides he couldn't have done what need to be done thoroughly. However, I am happy to say that we have a good routine going now since cleaning this disaster and I refuse to ever let it get to that point again. He has a good pick up system daily and I make sure to stay on top of it so we keep it together. But I get it and thank you for your advice. I appreciate you being here! God bless!
@@MightyMama I hope I didn’t offend you. Autism is tough. My brother has it, too. It definitely makes things easier to just do it yourself, I understand. I’m being treated for depression, as well, but it’s nothing near your experience. I’m so happy to see you have the strength to get going again. I love watching you transform your home. Hugs!
Thank god i found you. My father passed away sunday. I have to empty his apartment, feel i can do it with your help. Thank you popping up just in time in my phone, so awsome work and peptalk. Hugs from sweden ❤️
Our first instinct is to just get it done... But like you I have 2 kids with autism. They do "TRASH, DISHES, LAUNDRY" in their rooms, the hallway and their bathroom. After that its pretty easy do-tos. My motto is "you do what works".
My son has ASD as well... he doesn't like getting rid of ANYTHING so declutteringis not a thing unless i do it by myself, and then I feel guilty! Will you share how you established the routine with him? How "involved" are u in the routine? When i sit and "supervise" i tend do still end up doing most of it. LOL And you GO GIRL you got into the nitty gritty!
my mom has suffered with anxiety, depression, ocd and a number of mental illnesses for most of her life. before my parents divorced, the mental and verbal abuse my mom endured from my dad made it unbearable for her to keep the maintenance of the house or us kids.. now looking back, i wish i had helped so much more. but now i'm 19 i try my best to do a good deal of cleaning and helping my mom in general. thank you for showing this, it really shows how hard moms work, and please never feel like mental illness makes you less of a mother. it is such a feat to tackle your own mental tolls and to take care of your family. much love!!!!!
Hi Isabella! You are an amazing young lady and your Mama is so lucky to have you! You are the proff thag she is an amazing Mama! I am sorry she had to endure such abuse and with mental illness. It makes lofe si much more harder to deal with on the daily. And I am also so sorry thatbyou had to live through that hardship as well. I come from a very disfunctional childhood and it is definitely part of the reason for my mental illness. Eventually I will tell that story too. I am happy you found me Isabella! Please tell your mom about my channel I would love to be here for both of you and help to mitivate! I can so relate. God bless & stay Mighty! 💪🦋🙏🤎
That is wonderful how you are so young and help mom in her daily usual struggle with mess and stuff, believe me, not only because she is given too much of a burden of her own mental health problems, but simply because it makes you a better person, more ready for life, for your new family later on. Cleaning is not always just a chore. It can be a kind of self reflexion, time for your music, dance moves, unwinding a bit of the built up stress... But if you are lucky to do it side by side with your mom, cherish those moments. Best wishes to you and mom. Hope she feels a bit better having such a nice daughter next to her.
My jaw dropped. It never drops. That room went from disarray-- to pristine. And thank you for your reminder that we are NOT defined by our surroundings
I'm such a dysfunctionally anxious person, I never ever thought I'd have the guts to put myself on YT. Discovering cleaning videos like this, diving into the community surrounding it, finding so many people with brains like mine in houses like mine, really encouraged me. So, you know. Thanks for the stuff you say and do here!
Thank you Aleshia! I am so happy you found me and happy to know I have helped. I appreciate you being here! I will definitely check out your channel. It was scary putting myself out here like this and my ugly mess but I knew I could help others and so I knew it was the right thing to do. I am always here if you need it! Anxiety is the worst! You are definitely not alone! God bless & stay Mighty! 🌼
I'm new here, not a mom, but care for my 83 year old mom who is on oxygen, and my 73 year old husband who has dementia. I suffer from anxiety and depression and I stumbled on your channel and it really was inspiring and made my day!!
My anxiety was through the roof when I came back from my honeymoon and my room was a wreck but I managed to get it clean. And my mom has trouble too and I help clean her house as much as I can. I’ve cleaned her bedroom and did three loads of dishes, a load of laundry, and next time I visit her, I’m gonna help her with my 11 year old sisters room, it’s a mess!! But watching these videos are all the motivation I need, thank you
I like the way you show the real life struggle for someone who suffers from depression. I like it when you didn't play crazy music during your cleaning! That makes me nervous!
Thank you for REAL cleaning video. Lot of times girls post a video of them just doing bed and putting away laundry and their house is not messy at all. You did a lot and looks really good :)
Not just mighty moms and dads here. I'm a mighty childless teacher who is overwhelmed from having my whole classroom at home (teaching online) and drained from working around the clock this year. The overwhelm from my mess is paralysing at times. It ain't pretty but your videos are helping me dig in. Thanks!
I've been working on my room. It's been a mess for a long time. I'm slowly are working on it and almost done. It has been hard. My anxiety made me avoid it. Just close the door. Out of sight, out of mind. Thank you for giving the strength to do it
When my room looked like this when I was younger, my mom would throw everything out of my shelves on the floor+bed and I had to clean everything up alone. When I was about 6-8, she would help me but I always had to stay with her together the whole time. Has helped me a lot to learn about what it means to keep my room clean
So it's not just my apartment, it is so real, all the hats off to you, showing the whole process, amazing finish, I know first hand how this kind of work helps with anxiety and stress levels, even a small shelf decluttering can spark up your day. Thank you, Mighty Mom, such an inspiration to me!
Wow, what a thorough cleaning you did. When you pulled out the desk and the armoire, both times I said “ whoa” out loud. Then again pushing the bed over and seeing more mess! It’s great you were able to stay with it and get it done. I hope your son watched this video.
Thanks so much Kathi! I truly love to clean! Its my therapy but it is just super hard to do in this house because my youngest is very needy. I usually have to do major cleanings on the weekends so my husband is home to help with kids. I appreciate you being here! God bless & Stay Mighty!
I said the same when she moved the desk!! Amazing cleaning job!! Maybe u can have ur son do ten min nightly tidy before bed? Or every other night? Good way to make it a habit:) love ur vids!!🥰
this is the most thorough deep cleaning video ive everrrr watched. you cleaned and organized EVERYTHING. things ive never even thought to clean. amazing amazing amazing.
Welcome back Mighty Mamas & Mighty Dads & anyone who is in need of cleaning motivation and struggling with anxiety and depression! I am here for everyone who needs my help! I am so happy to be back and bring you this real life messy clean up. My son's room is a complete disaster and I am very ashamed of it but this is the ugly truth behind anxiety and depression. If you are here then I am sure you can relate. Please comment below on your progress of our journey to take control of the mess in our homes! 👇🏻👇🏾👇🏽👇👇🏿👇🏼 I love to hear from you all! Let's get cleaning together! xo
WOW! What a difference! The room looks really nice. Sometimes, you just need a good "mom clean". Hopefully, this will help your son to be able to keep up with his room. Great job!
Thanks for the encouragement. I have noticed, even 15 minutes or 5 minutes makes a difference. So during those times when I'm anxious, depressed, or otherwise unmotivated, I try to just give at least 5 or 10 minutes a day to an area, and let that be enough. Instead of doing all or nothing, I have to be satisfied with just doing SOMETHING. 🙂
Fifteen minutes daily is much better than nothing, and those fifteen minutes might overlap into half an hour of great work! Unfortunately, atm I cannot even accomplish 15 minutes but there is only me here to pick up after daily, but there is usually a houseful of family each weekend. Depression and anxiety is terrible and takes away the joy in life and your ability to properly care for yourself. Great job on this cleaning video and your understanding!!
I am a disabled veteran who suffers from horrendous depression and severe panic attacks. I work full time in a very physical and stressful environment (a hospital laundry) and when I get home the last thing I want to do is ANYTHING. I hate the way I let my home gets and then wonder what's wrong with me that I don't care. That IS the depression and anxiety talking. I am so happy I found your channel. You let me and others know that we are not alone,that it is not our fault, and we can get it together and keep it that way. I take 15 minutes at a clip. 15 minutes work, 15 minutes relax, 15 minutes work....
Oh my god, your channel is everything I was looking for! I have severe depression and honestly, all those cleaning channels where they're working with a borderline show-level room honestly made me feel worse about everything. I get so overwhelmed by where to start on Up days that I just can't, and the cycle starts over again 🙃 It is so, SO affirming to see someone who understands getting through it. Thank you!
I recently found your channel. My stress level is off the chart and now is affecting my health. I am a new "empty-nester" and a crafter. My home is overflowing with everyone's mess...including my own. Thanks to you, I'm ready to face it. Thank you!!!
Hi! May I ask your name? And I am just curious. Did everyone leave their stuff in your house after they fled the nest? If so, are they planning on coming back to get it? Maybe you can have them go through and declutter. Otherwise, you can just rent a dumpster or have a donation truck scheduled for a pick up. You shouldn't feel so stressed. You deserve that beautiful organized craft room to spend time and enjoy your passions! Get on it! You can do it! I am always here for ya! Stay Mighty! 💪🏻🙏🏼🤎🦋
I just found your channel today. I love how you are so brutally upfront about your anxiety and depression. I am a single full-time working mom to 4 boys so this is definitely the motivation I need. Thanks for all you do!
Your videos are a lifesaver!!! I wish I had you when I was an overwhelmed kid struggling to find some way to organize the disaster in my room. Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable! You are awesome!!!
I’ve never thought about this anxiety issue being a cycle, but it really is! I just recently discovered cycle syncing, and I’ve found that affects my anxiety as well. Ugh. I’m so proud of you for starting. Look how much you got done!!! You go mighty mama😘
TY Jess! Yes! Its a vicious cycle and I am caught in it. I have been for many years and its time I really work hard at breaking it so I create healthier habits to live less streesed and anxious ans depressed. We can only try! Right! Lysm! Thanks for hanging out my friend!♡
Not a mom or dad, im a daughter. New subscriber but I love your message and I know you videos will motivate me to help around the house and take off at least one stress off my moms mind. Amazing video !!
Welcome Patricia! This was my grandmothers name too but she went by Jane! Have no clue how that happened but seeing your comment with your name made me think of her. Thank you for being here! I am ;here for anyone who need this motivation and a friend! I am not just a Mom either. 😂 So I welcome you here as well! I appreciate you! I have added you to my prayer list! Stay Mighty! 💪🏻🦋
This makes me so happy to hear! You can do it! I hope you joined the journey! I have so much cleaning motivation coming! And thank you for being here! I will add you to my prayer list!💪🏻🦋
Awwe! Thank you and that's so sweet! I was clapping too! Phew! That was a rough one! I won't ever let that happen again! Thanks for being a huge support! love ya! xo
❤hi To all the mighty mamas and daddies. I’m so glad to join on this journey. I hate my ptsd and anxiety and this is exactly what I need to clean away to heal to embrace healing yessssss
Thank you so much!! I promise you my house doesn't always get like this and I am making sure it never does again! I appreciate you being here. It feels so good to clean up the past and move forward! I can't wait to start sharing the home projects and the organizing videos as well as some of my tips and tricks of staying on top of it all! We need to do a podcast about this topic! Miss you so much! 🤍
I accidentally found your channel and I am so glad I did. You keep it 100% real and inspire many who can relate to you. My daughter is a single parent and works from home with 2 kids my grandson has autism and everyday is a challenge for my daughter to juggle housework her job and taking care of her son with special needs and taking care of her daughter while dealing with anxiety and depression she doesn't take any medication for her mental health either and it can be draining . I don't know how she does it between her job at home and cleaning. She says she does get tired of cleaning everyday and it doesn't stay clean but she pushes on I just wanted you to know you are not alone and your videos brings awareness to others . God bless you and your family, keep the videos coming.
I'm a teenage girl I'll be 15 in a couple months and I'm in highschool I struggle with depression and anxiety but I'm also a neat freak and cleaning my room or other rooms in the house is so refreshing and makes me feel like a new person. It makes me feel alive again.. good job momma your doing amazing!! Keep it up love.
Awwe thank you Barbie! You remind me so much of my younger self. I always have been a clean freak and would spen hours cleaning and organizing my room. I preferred this over hanging with friends. Well the one I had at least. Lol! I have always been a homebody! Sound like you may be a perfectionist yourself. This can be a double edged sword so be careful with always wanting things perfectly clean. It backfires once you become a Mama! I am always her for you girl! We can clean together! I think my videos will help you learn ways to be more laxed when it comes to the "clean freak" in you. And I say this becaue I know it all too well and I am learning in this journey too. Hope you join the journey! Happy to have you here! God bless & stay Mighty!🦋💪🤍
@@MightyMama Aww thank you! I completely understand I have literally two friends and prefer to clean then do things with them.. rn I'm staying at one of their houses bc my dog just got out down which makes things harder she was my rock and joy when my parents would fight or other things that go on at my house.. I'll be along on this ride with you and can't wait to see more of your videos! Stay strong.
Hi Christina! Thank you for being here and yes take your time and allow yourself grace because even one small act is better than nothing so be proud of that! I hope you will stick around and join the journey! Just keep going! I am always here for ya! God bless! Adding you to my prayer list! Stay Mighty!💪🏻🦋
I just finished a project, trying not to get sidetracked and my apartment suffered while I was concentrated on that. Now I have to get started and get it all done... Cleaning again. Sometimes it's so hard to get started if you dropped everything because the cleaning waits til tomorrow, some projects do not... but I started yesterday in the evening slowly. It doesn't look that bad anymore, but it's so hard to get back into the habit.
I have been struggling with depression for 13 years. My son 10 with adhd and concomitant illnesses, my daughter 6 years also has her worries. i have had the chaos under control for 4 years. only the children's rooms always slip away from us a bit. I am happy that I found your channel.❤🍀 very often one is condemned directly. but honestly, on some days it is more important to me to have happy children instead of tidy rooms❤❤❤
I feel very proud of your my family just went through post partum depression and anxiety with my sister. It was hard for everyone but now she is doing it most better. Thank for your video God love you
You show it can be done! Hope for all the parents who have to cope with anxiety and depression simultaneously with parenthood... It is good to know we are not alone and things can get better.
I'm autistic (Asperger's) and living in a chaotic environment causes a lot of stress for me. I need to have everything in ordner and quite minimalistic (nowadays it's a trend LOL). I love watching your videos because just seeing someone clean up helps my stresslevels drop. I wish you all the best and I think your autistic son will love his room!
Hello! I am so happy you found me! I think you are amazing just by your comment! I can tell who people are just by their words whether spoken or written or technically typed ( I am sure you can appreciate that analogy) lol! My son is actually Asperger's too! Although, didn't they remove that dx from the DSM which I do not agree with? Let me know if you know of that or did they list it again. Either way he is Asperger's too and he was very happy with his room after I cleaned it and he has been following a good daily cleaning routine to maintain it and it is going great! I am so happy my video offered you that satisfaction! I hope you will come again to watch more. I have a new one coming out tomorrow! Please consider subscribing to get your therapy here! Lol! I have lots of good cleaning videos and I am going to be moving in minimalist direction soon. I first needed to clean the messes. Stay tuned for those videos coming soon! God bless & Stay Mighty!🦋💪🏻
I am familiar with anxiety/depression cycles and know how much energy and bravery it takes to share this with others. You are such a fine person to show how you cope and to tell what you are thinking as you do. This will help a lot of people and it has helped me. thank you
Thank you for sharing. Dealing with anxiety and depression myself, I have let things get bad. This has given me motivation to push through the overwhelming and get things in order.
I'm watching you at 10pm and I can't wait for morning to continue cleaning. I have learned to use cleaning to relax. You're right we make our homes. Good night and God bless.
So happy to find you! I’m not a mom … but a 63 year old caregiver …. With anxiety … depressive procrastinating perfectionist! 🤪. Finally someone I can relate to. I will pray for you as well. 🙏❤️
I am cleaning with you, just listening to your words actually encouraged me to get out of bed for the first time in 2 1/2 days. Thank you so much, keep talking to me!
Hi I'm Carol. I suffer from anxiety & depression so I understand completely how things go with cleaning. I used to be a neat freak and I still hate clutter but after having my Achilles repaired and a couple other surgeries on my foot I wasn't able to clean and do the everyday chores that needed to be done. I have the greatest most passionate and understanding hubby who still helps more than he should. It was such a long recovery with the surgery and depression was horrible with not being able to walk and do Cleaning was just overwhelming. It's still a struggle but videos like these truly help motivate me. Thanks for sharing and God bless you and your family.
I too suffer from depression and anxiety. Have been feeling very blah when it comes to cleaning and staying organized. Thank you for the videos. God bless
it's so hard to clean someone else's mess because you can't tell what to keep or not or where do you put all the stuff so it takes much more work and effort and concentration ! Much love and appreciation for the work you do here
This is my first video of yours. I'm very glad I found your channel. I suffer from depression/bipolar and anxiety myself and really appreciate your energy and motivation. I just recently moved into our first owned house and have alot of repairs as well as cleaning so I really do appreciate you.
Start with a trashbag. Trash or recyclables should be one of the easiest items to identify. Then maybe clothes/laundry. Easy successes to get a starting point and to get the momentum started. Maybe check out Cass from the channel "Clutterbug", her videos might help you as well. ☺ Best wishes to you 🍀
I usually start first with gathering stuff that I want out of the house, that gives room for the next step, organizing what I want to keep using cubbies and organizers that I allready have. Try not to spend money on anything new unless you absolutely have to. Every day when time is convenient pick messy spot in the house and purge hard, than work it to your satisfaction.
I just found your channel last night and have made it this far cleaning along with you. I knew I had anxiety and depression but I didn’t realize that is what made me put everything off so much. I’ve cleaned more in one day than I have in months. Thank you for being so real and raw and taking us along this journey with you. God bless ❤️
Wow thanks for showing us how you just need to dive in, it will get better. You also show us that we are not alone & we're not the only one with this problem.
Thank you for being real, I have a really messy bedroom and struggle real bad cleaning it all, I've searched on here for organising and cleaning tip videos and most seem like they have just thrown half their closet on the floor and nothing is real, your video though is one of the only real videos I've found on here, give yourself a massive pat on the back for what you have achieved, thank you for sharing what you have accomplished
Thank you, thank you! Just found your channel and I can't tell you how much it affected me to have found someone who understands. I deal with anxiety and depression and the past 3 years my home has suffered because of it. It's so overwhelming now. I used to scrapbook and did some woodworking but haven't been able to do any of it either. When I watched this and heard what you said, I actually cried because you get it. I always feel so useless for not being able to do what I used to. And watching all these other cleaning channels never affected me the way yours has. I actually cleaned and organized my under sink cabinet! Thanks again, I look forward to seeing more.
You are currently getting me through one of the hardest times in my life i appreciate you so much i had turnd to drinkin and now your helping pull my self out
Thx for sharing. Health issues and depression. And we are about to remodel our entire house. It takes everything in my power just to wash dishes. 2 surgeries on my foot. It hurts! Plus I’m a recovering Alcohol Addict. Almost one year! Just found you. You are awesome! God bless you girl and I’m fixing to put on some Christian tunes and clean my “dump station room”. Sons old bedroom. Can only do 30 min at a time. He’s 32, and doesn’t live here. But it’s about to all get thrown out girl if he doesn’t come and get it. Watching this video is getting me PUMPED UP! I always clean better with uplifting music! Cell phone goes on silent! Keep up the good work. Sometimes a good Prayer and some alone time will recharge my batteries! Prayers for everyone s health issues!
Hi Mandy! Bless your heart! I appreciate you being here and your words! And yes girl I feel ya! Throw his stuff out if he don't come get it! LOL! You need to create that happy space for you now! It's Mamas turn! 😂 I also jam out to Christian music when I clean. I listed to 735 on xfinity music. love it! You can always mute me and blast your music while you clean along with me! I don't mind. lol! I will definitely add you to my prayer list. Praying for your strength, healing, and peace. Stay on this journey with me! Lets take control back of our home together! I have a new video coming tomorrow! Stay tuned! Good cleaning motivation before the holiday! God bless & Stay Mighty Mama! 💪🏻🦋🙏🏼
Thank you for this video, I suffer from anxiety and depression myself although I am not a parent I have days when I have to motivate myself into tidying up as my depression has got a little worse over the past few months and I found your video very calming to watch and seeing the wonderful result at the end of your video. Best wishes to you as well.
Thank you so much for being here Shiralee! I am so happy you found me! Please join the journey and cstch my new videos this weekend for more cleaning motivation and good talks! You are stronger than your depression! Through God anything is possible! Stay up & stay Mighty!💪🦋🙏
I looooovvvvveeeee the commentary that you do in your clean up videos ! Please continue with it verses playing music . It feel like I’m cleaning and having a convo w my mom friend . Love your channel and cheering you on!
The de-cluttering, sorting and organizing was so interesting to observe. I have a techie son also and recognize much of what is in that room from a few years ago. (My son is grown now.) I see such focus in you and will remember it when I need to be focused myself. thank you
My husband asks me to play “that one cleaning lady” when I’m cleaning so he gets motivated too. I’ve played other channels but he’s picky. He says other people’s high pitched voices irritate him. Apparently your voice is acceptable in the background🤷🏻♀️👍keep doing what your doing and thank you for the motivation.
I have bad ADHD, so depression, anxiety, and clutter come right along with it. Your videos helped motivate me to start on my mess and I want to say thank you. I break it up into multiple sessions per day that last about 10-15 minutes each so that I won't get overwhelmed and everything looks SO much better. I already feel like my mental state is improving. I even made a new library area for all of my books!😀. I've already made huge progress today and will continue tomorrow, so I'm giving myself time to relax and eat dinner. I plan on decluttering and improving my gaming area tomorrow and who knows what else I'll tackle after that.
I feel your struggle. I am trying to climb out this anxiety and depression and take my house back myself. Your giving me a good boost. Thank you for the encouragement.
Hi, I totally understand the debilitating effects of anxiety and depression, with some days it being difficult to even rouse oneself from bed (I have that "luxury" as I'm now living alone). Since my beloved husband passed last August, there is nobody now relying on me and cleaning isn't even on my radar. Anyone suffering with anxiety has my very best wishes to overcome that. 🤩
Wow! Big job done, good job pushing through. All kid’s rooms need a mom clean at least twice a year. You set your kids up to succeed if they can maintain their room after it’s cleaned.
Severe anxiety, severe insomnia due to PTSD and a severe umbilical hernia (just had abdominal surgery in November) and on top of it all... My maintenance department is supposed to do a major inspection on my house at some point with only 24 hour notice (because they want me to know who owns who).... I'm beyond... Yea Just your voice... The inspiration... Thank you!
Candice! I am here for you! I am so sorry that you are going through so much at once. I will definitleynadd you to my prayer list! I want you to know that you have the power within you to do whatever you need to be done. Start small and keep going! You deserve happiness and peace. It is up to you to make that change and while I know oh! I really know how darn hard it is!! It can be done! You can do the little things now to lead to bigger things later. Take your time and start small. Are you able to stand? If not you can always pull a chair up to an area or sit on a pillow on the floor to go through paperwork or piles of junk you need to clear out and donate. Just an idea. Also, for the insomnia (I get it occasionally too). Its the worsr because then it spikes my anxiery and I could go into panic attacks so I have found lemon balm tea to work and creating a real nightrime routine that I do exactly the same way and at the exact same time each night. As lomg as I am in bed at that time and with my lemon balm tea by Traditional Medicinals. Be sure to turn off your wifi on your phone!! This is key and put the phone in a drawer. I use this time ro write a list snd unload all of my thoughts. Usually between the tea and the writing I get sleepy and can turn over and pass out. It takes practice but I am in this groove and it makes all the difference in your days both physically and mentally. I hope you have joined rhe joureny here! I have a new video up tomorrow for ya. Try and get something done. You can clean along with me! You can do this! You have what it takes! Do what you can and see where it takes you! And I want you to drop me a comment letting me know what you were able to do! I will be looking for you Candice!🤣🤣 You can do it girl!!💪🦋🙏 Stay Mighty! God bless!
Thank you Audrey! I appreciate your kind words and I am so happy you found me! Stay tuned for lots of organizing and declutter videos to come! We are going to get our homes in order! God bless & stay Mighty!🦋💪
I've been watching your videos for the past few days - I'm not a mum but I do suffer from anxiety and depression and my mum has been unwell in the hospital so every time I think about my house it causes further anxiety. I watch your video and then I get started on something, go back to it, stop, go back again and it's really motivated me so thank you for that :)
i am watching these videos just for fun and i dont have anxiety but your speech gave me a different perspective about anxiety and i think it is nice so thanks and i hope you are doing okay with your journey
Loving your videos! They really inspire me and get me going! I am not diagnosed with anxiety or depression (maybe because I have not go to a health professional for it), but I can relate so much with what you express about how you feel and how hard it is most of times to get oneself to do what needs to be done to break the depress-mess-overwhelm cycle. Day after day, I suffer more by mentally torturing myself by silently repeating that I have lots of things to do (and getting overwhelmed) than by actually doing them. It feels so incredibly good and awesome when the house is relatively cleaned and organized. Thanks for opening up and sharing part of your life with us! Stay blessed.
My depression got so bad I used to let it get horrendous on weekends and maintained little during the week of cleanup. Single mom of 2 and full time working with autistic children its exhausting. I love watching these videos and been able to maintain my place and work on places little by little decluttering and feeling the weight off me each day so I can focus on the important things like maintaining my anxiety depression and PTSD and being with my kids
I just found your channel. Thank God! I have anxiety and depression. So does my family. I'm not a mom. However I live with my elderly parents and they are hoarders. Your videos have helped me so much. They can't clean. And this has really motivated me. Thank you so so much!
I was cleaning while this video is going on I just clicked on a random video I didn't know how much your channel helped but I feel so relieved that I'm getting this mess tackled
Love this lady !! Your are making me feel great about getting up and actually doing this it's the motivation you give your energy and just being so transparent when my kids were small had to do the exact same thing bc they couldn't do what needed to be done like I did and then w depression and anxiety it's not easy to even get out of bed and do housework let alone give orders to have them clean there's completely admire you for this !!!! Great Mom 💜💜💜💜
When it said you were discouraged by this point... you're amazing. You kept finding 1 hidden mess after another. And you kept pushing through and got it done WELL! EXCELLENT JOB MAMA!!!
Im not a mom but i life with my mom because im only 18. Im depressed and have big anxiety so my room is so messy… im most of the time alone at home and so the mess is in the complete house but your video helps me so so much to clean the house alone and with my mom. My mother is so happy that i clean it by myself🥺 thank you so so much🥰🥰
I really like your videos. Because my home is in such a bad state, I don't have time to watch the video first and then clean. And usually, videos like these just have alot of music playing. I like the spoken motivation. It helps me wayyyyyy more.
I'm not a parent, but I've basically have raised myself and it's hard to take care of myself when I struggle with anxiety and depression along with autism. I can function and do normal tasks, but sometimes it is hard to focus on it and this honestly helps me do it 🥰
I appreciate your honesty! I lost my house a year ago due to 4 surgeries, both eyes and both hands. Rules for eyes, dont bend over and dont pick anything up. Each eye was 6 weeks of those rules. I had 1 week then hand surgeries, rules were to not pick anything up and the pain was awful. I live alone so i still had to function but it was just existing. I also have never got my things all sorted and unpacked. I have too much!!! It is difficult to get rid of stuff!!! Im also a quilter, sewist, crafter and Junk Journaler. Each one has a stash of stuff. Your video is encouraging me to keep working at it.....🎉
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One mom to another: your son should have been with you doing this. Hugs!
Thank you for hanging out Kristin and yes you are right but my situation is a little different. This was obviously a complete disaster and my depression is the main reason for it. I was neglectful in the daily maintenance of staying on top of my son to do the things he should do. I honestly just could not deal with another thing during this time and so I just ignored it everyday and didn't bother to say anything about it. My son is 12 and Autistic and so he has trouble with executive functioning and needs reminders and micromanaging. With the mess being this bad I just decided to take it on myself so I did not have to be bothered with telling him what to do and all of that. Besides he couldn't have done what need to be done thoroughly. However, I am happy to say that we have a good routine going now since cleaning this disaster and I refuse to ever let it get to that point again. He has a good pick up system daily and I make sure to stay on top of it so we keep it together. But I get it and thank you for your advice. I appreciate you being here! God bless!
@@MightyMama I hope I didn’t offend you. Autism is tough. My brother has it, too. It definitely makes things easier to just do it yourself, I understand. I’m being treated for depression, as well, but it’s nothing near your experience. I’m so happy to see you have the strength to get going again. I love watching you transform your home. Hugs!
Thank god i found you. My father passed away sunday. I have to empty his apartment, feel i can do it with your help. Thank you popping up just in time in my phone, so awsome work and peptalk. Hugs from sweden ❤️
Our first instinct is to just get it done... But like you I have 2 kids with autism. They do "TRASH, DISHES, LAUNDRY" in their rooms, the hallway and their bathroom. After that its pretty easy do-tos. My motto is "you do what works".
My son has ASD as well... he doesn't like getting rid of ANYTHING so declutteringis not a thing unless i do it by myself, and then I feel guilty! Will you share how you established the routine with him? How "involved" are u in the routine? When i sit and "supervise" i tend do still end up doing most of it. LOL
And you GO GIRL you got into the nitty gritty!
my mom has suffered with anxiety, depression, ocd and a number of mental illnesses for most of her life. before my parents divorced, the mental and verbal abuse my mom endured from my dad made it unbearable for her to keep the maintenance of the house or us kids.. now looking back, i wish i had helped so much more. but now i'm 19 i try my best to do a good deal of cleaning and helping my mom in general. thank you for showing this, it really shows how hard moms work, and please never feel like mental illness makes you less of a mother. it is such a feat to tackle your own mental tolls and to take care of your family. much love!!!!!
Hi Isabella! You are an amazing young lady and your Mama is so lucky to have you! You are the proff thag she is an amazing Mama! I am sorry she had to endure such abuse and with mental illness. It makes lofe si much more harder to deal with on the daily. And I am also so sorry thatbyou had to live through that hardship as well. I come from a very disfunctional childhood and it is definitely part of the reason for my mental illness. Eventually I will tell that story too. I am happy you found me Isabella! Please tell your mom about my channel I would love to be here for both of you and help to mitivate! I can so relate. God bless & stay Mighty! 💪🦋🙏🤎
That is wonderful how you are so young and help mom in her daily usual struggle with mess and stuff, believe me, not only because she is given too much of a burden of her own mental health problems, but simply because it makes you a better person, more ready for life, for your new family later on. Cleaning is not always just a chore. It can be a kind of self reflexion, time for your music, dance moves, unwinding a bit of the built up stress... But if you are lucky to do it side by side with your mom, cherish those moments. Best wishes to you and mom. Hope she feels a bit better having such a nice daughter next to her.
My jaw dropped. It never drops. That room went from disarray-- to pristine. And thank you for your reminder that we are NOT defined by our surroundings
OMG! Finally someone who understands and doesn’t judge!
Finally! It seriously helps!💜☮️💜
Shout out to the Mighty Dads struggling. You got this, Dudes!
Yes!! Woot! Woot! Dads are awesome! Stay Mighty!
I'm such a dysfunctionally anxious person, I never ever thought I'd have the guts to put myself on YT. Discovering cleaning videos like this, diving into the community surrounding it, finding so many people with brains like mine in houses like mine, really encouraged me. So, you know. Thanks for the stuff you say and do here!
Thank you Aleshia! I am so happy you found me and happy to know I have helped. I appreciate you being here! I will definitely check out your channel. It was scary putting myself out here like this and my ugly mess but I knew I could help others and so I knew it was the right thing to do. I am always here if you need it! Anxiety is the worst! You are definitely not alone! God bless & stay Mighty! 🌼
Your room looks so nice now
I'm new here, not a mom, but care for my 83 year old mom who is on oxygen, and my 73 year old husband who has dementia. I suffer from anxiety and depression and I stumbled on your channel and it really was inspiring and made my day!!
I see so much devotion and unconditional love that only a mother can give. 👏
My anxiety was through the roof when I came back from my honeymoon and my room was a wreck but I managed to get it clean. And my mom has trouble too and I help clean her house as much as I can. I’ve cleaned her bedroom and did three loads of dishes, a load of laundry, and next time I visit her, I’m gonna help her with my 11 year old sisters room, it’s a mess!! But watching these videos are all the motivation I need, thank you
I like the way you show the real life struggle for someone who suffers from depression. I like it when you didn't play crazy music during your cleaning! That makes me nervous!
I also like how it’s real. It’s a real mess. This helps me a lot
Thank you for REAL cleaning video. Lot of times girls post a video of them just doing bed and putting away laundry and their house is not messy at all. You did a lot and looks really good :)
Not just mighty moms and dads here. I'm a mighty childless teacher who is overwhelmed from having my whole classroom at home (teaching online) and drained from working around the clock this year. The overwhelm from my mess is paralysing at times. It ain't pretty but your videos are helping me dig in. Thanks!
I've been working on my room. It's been a mess for a long time. I'm slowly are working on it and almost done. It has been hard. My anxiety made me avoid it. Just close the door. Out of sight, out of mind. Thank you for giving the strength to do it
When my room looked like this when I was younger, my mom would throw everything out of my shelves on the floor+bed and I had to clean everything up alone. When I was about 6-8, she would help me but I always had to stay with her together the whole time. Has helped me a lot to learn about what it means to keep my room clean
So it's not just my apartment, it is so real, all the hats off to you, showing the whole process, amazing finish, I know first hand how this kind of work helps with anxiety and stress levels, even a small shelf decluttering can spark up your day. Thank you, Mighty Mom, such an inspiration to me!
Wow, what a thorough cleaning you did. When you pulled out the desk and the armoire, both times I said “ whoa” out loud. Then again pushing the bed over and seeing more mess! It’s great you were able to stay with it and get it done. I hope your son watched this video.
Thanks so much Kathi! I truly love to clean! Its my therapy but it is just super hard to do in this house because my youngest is very needy. I usually have to do major cleanings on the weekends so my husband is home to help with kids. I appreciate you being here! God bless & Stay Mighty!
I said the same when she moved the desk!! Amazing cleaning job!! Maybe u can have ur son do ten min nightly tidy before bed? Or every other night? Good way to make it a habit:) love ur vids!!🥰
this is the most thorough deep cleaning video ive everrrr watched. you cleaned and organized EVERYTHING. things ive never even thought to clean. amazing amazing amazing.
Thank you Chantal! I appreciate you being here! New video coming tomorrow! Let's keep cleaning together! God bless & stay Mighty!
Welcome back Mighty Mamas & Mighty Dads & anyone who is in need of cleaning motivation and struggling with anxiety and depression! I am here for everyone who needs my help! I am so happy to be back and bring you this real life messy clean up. My son's room is a complete disaster and I am very ashamed of it but this is the ugly truth behind anxiety and depression. If you are here then I am sure you can relate. Please comment below on your progress of our journey to take control of the mess in our homes! 👇🏻👇🏾👇🏽👇👇🏿👇🏼 I love to hear from you all! Let's get cleaning together! xo
Could you share the name of the first song please?
WOW! What a difference! The room looks really nice. Sometimes, you just need a good "mom clean". Hopefully, this will help your son to be able to keep up with his room. Great job!
Thanks for the encouragement. I have noticed, even 15 minutes or 5 minutes makes a difference. So during those times when I'm anxious, depressed, or otherwise unmotivated, I try to just give at least 5 or 10 minutes a day to an area, and let that be enough. Instead of doing all or nothing, I have to be satisfied with just doing SOMETHING. 🙂
Yep! That is key! You got it! It all adds up and a little cleaning is better than none! Tha ks for being here! God bless & stay Mighty!
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Fifteen minutes daily is much better than nothing, and those fifteen minutes might overlap into half an hour of great work! Unfortunately, atm I cannot even accomplish 15 minutes but there is only me here to pick up after daily, but there is usually a houseful of family each weekend. Depression and anxiety is terrible and takes away the joy in life and your ability to properly care for yourself. Great job on this cleaning video and your understanding!!
I play my favourite 🎵 songs....when the song stops.... move to the next room.... 1 song per room.....it makes a big difference ❤
This motivated me so much to clean my own room that is horribly messy! Thank you so much, your efforts to help people are so important!
I am a disabled veteran who suffers from horrendous depression and severe panic attacks. I work full time in a very physical and stressful environment (a hospital laundry) and when I get home the last thing I want to do is ANYTHING.
I hate the way I let my home gets and then wonder what's wrong with me that I don't care. That IS the depression and anxiety talking. I am so happy I found your channel. You let me and others know that we are not alone,that it is not our fault, and we can get it together and keep it that way. I take 15 minutes at a clip. 15 minutes work, 15 minutes relax, 15 minutes work....
Oh my god, your channel is everything I was looking for! I have severe depression and honestly, all those cleaning channels where they're working with a borderline show-level room honestly made me feel worse about everything. I get so overwhelmed by where to start on Up days that I just can't, and the cycle starts over again 🙃 It is so, SO affirming to see someone who understands getting through it. Thank you!
I recently found your channel. My stress level is off the chart and now is affecting my health. I am a new "empty-nester" and a crafter. My home is overflowing with everyone's mess...including my own. Thanks to you, I'm ready to face it. Thank you!!!
Hi! May I ask your name? And I am just curious. Did everyone leave their stuff in your house after they fled the nest? If so, are they planning on coming back to get it? Maybe you can have them go through and declutter. Otherwise, you can just rent a dumpster or have a donation truck scheduled for a pick up. You shouldn't feel so stressed. You deserve that beautiful organized craft room to spend time and enjoy your passions! Get on it! You can do it! I am always here for ya! Stay Mighty! 💪🏻🙏🏼🤎🦋
I tackled my kitchen this morning. Rearranged everything, organized everything . was step one! Thank you for the motivation.
I just found your channel today. I love how you are so brutally upfront about your anxiety and depression. I am a single full-time working mom to 4 boys so this is definitely the motivation I need. Thanks for all you do!
Hi Rachel! Thank you for being here! I appreciate you!🙏💪🤎🦋
This was honestly such an inspiring and motivational watch, you did amazingly well! 🤍
Your videos are a lifesaver!!! I wish I had you when I was an overwhelmed kid struggling to find some way to organize the disaster in my room. Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable! You are awesome!!!
The voiceovers are just sooooo therapeutic for me.. thank you 🙏🏾
Omg thank you so much, this is my life rn...tbh it's caused me to get so much worse in depression...
Wow well done mama. I hope your son was happy and will keep it tidy xx
I’ve never thought about this anxiety issue being a cycle, but it really is! I just recently discovered cycle syncing, and I’ve found that affects my anxiety as well. Ugh. I’m so proud of you for starting. Look how much you got done!!! You go mighty mama😘
TY Jess! Yes! Its a vicious cycle and I am caught in it. I have been for many years and its time I really work hard at breaking it so I create healthier habits to live less streesed and anxious ans depressed. We can only try! Right! Lysm! Thanks for hanging out my friend!♡
Not a mom or dad, im a daughter. New subscriber but I love your message and I know you videos will motivate me to help around the house and take off at least one stress off my moms mind. Amazing video !!
Welcome Patricia! This was my grandmothers name too but she went by Jane! Have no clue how that happened but seeing your comment with your name made me think of her. Thank you for being here! I am ;here for anyone who need this motivation and a friend! I am not just a Mom either. 😂 So I welcome you here as well! I appreciate you! I have added you to my prayer list! Stay Mighty! 💪🏻🦋
Hehe I'm a daughter too! I'm 18 and I have a hard time keeping my room clean all the time, so these videos help a lot. :)💜
You have no idea how much ur mama will appreciate this♥️ well done you
I am so inspired to get my house in order, and thank you for being real!
This makes me so happy to hear! You can do it! I hope you joined the journey! I have so much cleaning motivation coming! And thank you for being here! I will add you to my prayer list!💪🏻🦋
Yess...this is my favorite thing about her!
Yes ma’am!! You killed it with this room. It was so satisfying to watch and my 2 year old clapped for you at one point in the video 🤣🤣🤣
Awwe! Thank you and that's so sweet! I was clapping too! Phew! That was a rough one! I won't ever let that happen again! Thanks for being a huge support! love ya! xo
❤hi To all the mighty mamas and daddies. I’m so glad to join on this journey. I hate my ptsd and anxiety and this is exactly what I need to clean away to heal to embrace healing yessssss
Absolutely blown away sis! You did an INCREDIBLE JOB WITH THIS SPACE!! Well done!!!💙 Avery is ons lucky dude to have YOU as his Mighty Mama!! xx
Thank you so much!! I promise you my house doesn't always get like this and I am making sure it never does again! I appreciate you being here. It feels so good to clean up the past and move forward! I can't wait to start sharing the home projects and the organizing videos as well as some of my tips and tricks of staying on top of it all! We need to do a podcast about this topic! Miss you so much! 🤍
@@MightyMama hi mighty mana u should check his room 2 days a week if he has his room clean
Thank you for keeping it real. Thank you for keeping it honest. It’s so nice to know I’m not alone.
I accidentally found your channel and I am so glad I did. You keep it 100% real and inspire many who can relate to you. My daughter is a single parent and works from home with 2 kids my grandson has autism and everyday is a challenge for my daughter to juggle housework her job and taking care of her son with special needs and taking care of her daughter while dealing with anxiety and depression she doesn't take any medication for her mental health either and it can be draining . I don't know how she does it between her job at home and cleaning. She says she does get tired of cleaning everyday and it doesn't stay clean but she pushes on I just wanted you to know you are not alone and your videos brings awareness to others . God bless you and your family, keep the videos coming.
I'm a teenage girl I'll be 15 in a couple months and I'm in highschool I struggle with depression and anxiety but I'm also a neat freak and cleaning my room or other rooms in the house is so refreshing and makes me feel like a new person. It makes me feel alive again.. good job momma your doing amazing!! Keep it up love.
Awwe thank you Barbie! You remind me so much of my younger self. I always have been a clean freak and would spen hours cleaning and organizing my room. I preferred this over hanging with friends. Well the one I had at least. Lol! I have always been a homebody! Sound like you may be a perfectionist yourself. This can be a double edged sword so be careful with always wanting things perfectly clean. It backfires once you become a Mama! I am always her for you girl! We can clean together! I think my videos will help you learn ways to be more laxed when it comes to the "clean freak" in you. And I say this becaue I know it all too well and I am learning in this journey too. Hope you join the journey! Happy to have you here! God bless & stay Mighty!🦋💪🤍
@@MightyMama Aww thank you! I completely understand I have literally two friends and prefer to clean then do things with them.. rn I'm staying at one of their houses bc my dog just got out down which makes things harder she was my rock and joy when my parents would fight or other things that go on at my house.. I'll be along on this ride with you and can't wait to see more of your videos! Stay strong.
I really appreciate someone with the same issues saying take your time
Thank you
Hi Christina! Thank you for being here and yes take your time and allow yourself grace because even one small act is better than nothing so be proud of that! I hope you will stick around and join the journey! Just keep going! I am always here for ya! God bless! Adding you to my prayer list! Stay Mighty!💪🏻🦋
I just finished a project, trying not to get sidetracked and my apartment suffered while I was concentrated on that. Now I have to get started and get it all done... Cleaning again. Sometimes it's so hard to get started if you dropped everything because the cleaning waits til tomorrow, some projects do not... but I started yesterday in the evening slowly. It doesn't look that bad anymore, but it's so hard to get back into the habit.
I have been struggling with depression for 13 years. My son 10 with adhd and concomitant illnesses, my daughter 6 years also has her worries. i have had the chaos under control for 4 years. only the children's rooms always slip away from us a bit. I am happy that I found your channel.❤🍀 very often one is condemned directly. but honestly, on some days it is more important to me to have happy children instead of tidy rooms❤❤❤
I feel very proud of your my family just went through post partum depression and anxiety with my sister. It was hard for everyone but now she is doing it most better. Thank for your video God love you
You show it can be done! Hope for all the parents who have to cope with anxiety and depression simultaneously with parenthood... It is good to know we are not alone and things can get better.
I'm autistic (Asperger's) and living in a chaotic environment causes a lot of stress for me. I need to have everything in ordner and quite minimalistic (nowadays it's a trend LOL). I love watching your videos because just seeing someone clean up helps my stresslevels drop. I wish you all the best and I think your autistic son will love his room!
Hello! I am so happy you found me! I think you are amazing just by your comment! I can tell who people are just by their words whether spoken or written or technically typed ( I am sure you can appreciate that analogy) lol! My son is actually Asperger's too! Although, didn't they remove that dx from the DSM which I do not agree with? Let me know if you know of that or did they list it again. Either way he is Asperger's too and he was very happy with his room after I cleaned it and he has been following a good daily cleaning routine to maintain it and it is going great! I am so happy my video offered you that satisfaction! I hope you will come again to watch more. I have a new one coming out tomorrow! Please consider subscribing to get your therapy here! Lol! I have lots of good cleaning videos and I am going to be moving in minimalist direction soon. I first needed to clean the messes. Stay tuned for those videos coming soon! God bless & Stay Mighty!🦋💪🏻
I am not a mom but l like your videos anyway ❤️👍🏻
Thank you Lisa! I am here for everyone! I hope my video has motivated you to clean too! xo
I am familiar with anxiety/depression cycles and know how much energy and bravery it takes to share this with others. You are such a fine person to show how you cope and to tell what you are thinking as you do. This will help a lot of people and it has helped me. thank you
Very inspirational. I have depression and i dont want to clean my home. I struggle but like you I stand up again. Nothing is perfect.
It's so difficult to keep up with the kid's rooms... a constant battle. I try to dejunk every few months as it = less mess. Keep up the great work!!
Thank you for sharing. Dealing with anxiety and depression myself, I have let things get bad. This has given me motivation to push through the overwhelming and get things in order.
I started!! I’m cleaning my backyard and have your video playing!
I'm watching you at 10pm and I can't wait for morning to continue cleaning. I have learned to use cleaning to relax. You're right we make our homes. Good night and God bless.
So happy to find you! I’m not a mom … but a 63 year old caregiver …. With anxiety … depressive procrastinating perfectionist! 🤪. Finally someone I can relate to. I will pray for you as well. 🙏❤️
I am cleaning with you, just listening to your words actually encouraged me to get out of bed for the first time in 2 1/2 days. Thank you so much, keep talking to me!
Thank you so much for this video. I've felt so alone in this struggle and thought it was just me. You are a great motivation to keep pushing.
Hi I'm Carol. I suffer from anxiety & depression so I understand completely how things go with cleaning. I used to be a neat freak and I still hate clutter but after having my Achilles repaired and a couple other surgeries on my foot I wasn't able to clean and do the everyday chores that needed to be done. I have the greatest most passionate and understanding hubby who still helps more than he should. It was such a long recovery with the surgery and depression was horrible with not being able to walk and do Cleaning was just overwhelming. It's still a struggle but videos like these truly help motivate me. Thanks for sharing and God bless you and your family.
Wow! You did a great job! I don’t know how old your son is but I think maybe he could have helped you some? Room looks so tidy and clean!
This is the most thorough cleaning I have ever seen on YT!
I too suffer from depression and anxiety. Have been feeling very blah when it comes to cleaning and staying organized. Thank you for the videos. God bless
it's so hard to clean someone else's mess because you can't tell what to keep or not or where do you put all the stuff so it takes much more work and effort and concentration ! Much love and appreciation for the work you do here
This is my first video of yours. I'm very glad I found your channel. I suffer from depression/bipolar and anxiety myself and really appreciate your energy and motivation. I just recently moved into our first owned house and have alot of repairs as well as cleaning so I really do appreciate you.
Phenomenal, I can't get off my butt, I don't know where to start, this was amazing!
Start with a trashbag. Trash or recyclables should be one of the easiest items to identify. Then maybe clothes/laundry. Easy successes to get a starting point and to get the momentum started.
Maybe check out Cass from the channel "Clutterbug", her videos might help you as well. ☺
Best wishes to you 🍀
I usually start first with gathering stuff that I want out of the house, that gives room for the next step, organizing what I want to keep using cubbies and organizers that I allready have. Try not to spend money on anything new unless you absolutely have to. Every day when time is convenient pick messy spot in the house and purge hard, than work it to your satisfaction.
I just found your channel last night and have made it this far cleaning along with you. I knew I had anxiety and depression but I didn’t realize that is what made me put everything off so much. I’ve cleaned more in one day than I have in months. Thank you for being so real and raw and taking us along this journey with you. God bless ❤️
Wow thanks for showing us how you just need to dive in, it will get better. You also show us that we are not alone & we're not the only one with this problem.
Wow! Great job, Mom. Very challenging to do with anxiety and depression, I have tried, and I’m not a Mama. Brava to you🙏🏻🤗💕
Thank you for being real, I have a really messy bedroom and struggle real bad cleaning it all, I've searched on here for organising and cleaning tip videos and most seem like they have just thrown half their closet on the floor and nothing is real, your video though is one of the only real videos I've found on here, give yourself a massive pat on the back for what you have achieved, thank you for sharing what you have accomplished
Thank you, thank you! Just found your channel and I can't tell you how much it affected me to have found someone who understands. I deal with anxiety and depression and the past 3 years my home has suffered because of it. It's so overwhelming now. I used to scrapbook and did some woodworking but haven't been able to do any of it either. When I watched this and heard what you said, I actually cried because you get it. I always feel so useless for not being able to do what I used to. And watching all these other cleaning channels never affected me the way yours has. I actually cleaned and organized my under sink cabinet! Thanks again, I look forward to seeing more.
You are currently getting me through one of the hardest times in my life i appreciate you so much i had turnd to drinkin and now your helping pull my self out
Thx for sharing. Health issues and depression. And we are about to remodel our entire house. It takes everything in my power just to wash dishes. 2 surgeries on my foot. It hurts! Plus I’m a recovering Alcohol Addict. Almost one year! Just found you. You are awesome! God bless you girl and I’m fixing to put on some Christian tunes and clean my “dump station room”. Sons old bedroom. Can only do 30 min at a time. He’s 32, and doesn’t live here. But it’s about to all get thrown out girl if he doesn’t come and get it. Watching this video is getting me PUMPED UP! I always clean better with uplifting music! Cell phone goes on silent! Keep up the good work. Sometimes a good Prayer and some alone time will recharge my batteries! Prayers for everyone s health issues!
Hi Mandy! Bless your heart! I appreciate you being here and your words! And yes girl I feel ya! Throw his stuff out if he don't come get it! LOL! You need to create that happy space for you now! It's Mamas turn! 😂 I also jam out to Christian music when I clean. I listed to 735 on xfinity music. love it! You can always mute me and blast your music while you clean along with me! I don't mind. lol! I will definitely add you to my prayer list. Praying for your strength, healing, and peace. Stay on this journey with me! Lets take control back of our home together! I have a new video coming tomorrow! Stay tuned! Good cleaning motivation before the holiday! God bless & Stay Mighty Mama! 💪🏻🦋🙏🏼
Thank you for this video, I suffer from anxiety and depression myself although I am not a parent I have days when I have to motivate myself into tidying up as my depression has got a little worse over the past few months and I found your video very calming to watch and seeing the wonderful result at the end of your video. Best wishes to you as well.
Thank you so much for being here Shiralee! I am so happy you found me! Please join the journey and cstch my new videos this weekend for more cleaning motivation and good talks! You are stronger than your depression! Through God anything is possible! Stay up & stay Mighty!💪🦋🙏
Do you find yourself just walking in there at all times of the day just to appreciate how amazing that looks?
ohhhh yeah!! It felt like a new house! 😂 Thanks for being here! Stay Mighty!
I looooovvvvveeeee the commentary that you do in your clean up videos ! Please continue with it verses playing music . It feel like I’m cleaning and having a convo w my mom friend . Love your channel and cheering you on!
Thank you! Will do! I am trying to please everyone. Some like the music too. I appreciate you being here! Stay Mighty friend! xo
The de-cluttering, sorting and organizing was so interesting to observe. I have a techie son also and recognize much of what is in that room from a few years ago. (My son is grown now.) I see such focus in you and will remember it when I need to be focused myself. thank you
My husband asks me to play “that one cleaning lady” when I’m cleaning so he gets motivated too. I’ve played other channels but he’s picky. He says other people’s high pitched voices irritate him. Apparently your voice is acceptable in the background🤷🏻♀️👍keep doing what your doing and thank you for the motivation.
I have bad ADHD, so depression, anxiety, and clutter come right along with it. Your videos helped motivate me to start on my mess and I want to say thank you. I break it up into multiple sessions per day that last about 10-15 minutes each so that I won't get overwhelmed and everything looks SO much better. I already feel like my mental state is improving. I even made a new library area for all of my books!😀. I've already made huge progress today and will continue tomorrow, so I'm giving myself time to relax and eat dinner. I plan on decluttering and improving my gaming area tomorrow and who knows what else I'll tackle after that.
I feel your struggle. I am trying to climb out this anxiety and depression and take my house back myself. Your giving me a good boost. Thank you for the encouragement.
Hi, I totally understand the debilitating effects of anxiety and depression, with some days it being difficult to even rouse oneself from bed (I have that "luxury" as I'm now living alone). Since my beloved husband passed last August, there is nobody now relying on me and cleaning isn't even on my radar. Anyone suffering with anxiety has my very best wishes to overcome that. 🤩
Wow. What an amazing clean. Your son must be so pleased and proud of you.
Wow! Big job done, good job pushing through. All kid’s rooms need a mom clean at least twice a year. You set your kids up to succeed if they can maintain their room after it’s cleaned.
I am so proud of u being strong and getting your in order. Because u will feel so much better.
Severe anxiety, severe insomnia due to PTSD and a severe umbilical hernia (just had abdominal surgery in November) and on top of it all... My maintenance department is supposed to do a major inspection on my house at some point with only 24 hour notice (because they want me to know who owns who).... I'm beyond... Yea
Just your voice... The inspiration... Thank you!
Candice! I am here for you! I am so sorry that you are going through so much at once. I will definitleynadd you to my prayer list! I want you to know that you have the power within you to do whatever you need to be done. Start small and keep going! You deserve happiness and peace. It is up to you to make that change and while I know oh! I really know how darn hard it is!! It can be done! You can do the little things now to lead to bigger things later. Take your time and start small. Are you able to stand? If not you can always pull a chair up to an area or sit on a pillow on the floor to go through paperwork or piles of junk you need to clear out and donate. Just an idea. Also, for the insomnia (I get it occasionally too). Its the worsr because then it spikes my anxiery and I could go into panic attacks so I have found lemon balm tea to work and creating a real nightrime routine that I do exactly the same way and at the exact same time each night. As lomg as I am in bed at that time and with my lemon balm tea by Traditional Medicinals. Be sure to turn off your wifi on your phone!! This is key and put the phone in a drawer. I use this time ro write a list snd unload all of my thoughts. Usually between the tea and the writing I get sleepy and can turn over and pass out. It takes practice but I am in this groove and it makes all the difference in your days both physically and mentally. I hope you have joined rhe joureny here! I have a new video up tomorrow for ya. Try and get something done. You can clean along with me! You can do this! You have what it takes! Do what you can and see where it takes you! And I want you to drop me a comment letting me know what you were able to do! I will be looking for you Candice!🤣🤣 You can do it girl!!💪🦋🙏 Stay Mighty! God bless!
This is my favorite cleaning video to date. Real life. REAL. Thank you!
Thank you Audrey! I appreciate your kind words and I am so happy you found me! Stay tuned for lots of organizing and declutter videos to come! We are going to get our homes in order! God bless & stay Mighty!🦋💪
Came across this video but, what you said is so true. I suffer with depression and I get it. You help me so much. Thank you.❤
I've been watching your videos for the past few days - I'm not a mum but I do suffer from anxiety and depression and my mum has been unwell in the hospital so every time I think about my house it causes further anxiety. I watch your video and then I get started on something, go back to it, stop, go back again and it's really motivated me so thank you for that :)
i am watching these videos just for fun and i dont have anxiety but your speech gave me a different perspective about anxiety and i think it is nice so thanks and i hope you are doing okay with your journey
Loving your videos! They really inspire me and get me going!
I am not diagnosed with anxiety or depression (maybe because I have not go to a health professional for it), but I can relate so much with what you express about how you feel and how hard it is most of times to get oneself to do what needs to be done to break the depress-mess-overwhelm cycle.
Day after day, I suffer more by mentally torturing myself by silently repeating that I have lots of things to do (and getting overwhelmed) than by actually doing them. It feels so incredibly good and awesome when the house is relatively cleaned and organized.
Thanks for opening up and sharing part of your life with us! Stay blessed.
My depression got so bad I used to let it get horrendous on weekends and maintained little during the week of cleanup. Single mom of 2 and full time working with autistic children its exhausting. I love watching these videos and been able to maintain my place and work on places little by little decluttering and feeling the weight off me each day so I can focus on the important things like maintaining my anxiety depression and PTSD and being with my kids
I just found your channel. Thank God! I have anxiety and depression. So does my family. I'm not a mom. However I live with my elderly parents and they are hoarders. Your videos have helped me so much. They can't clean. And this has really motivated me. Thank you so so much!
I was cleaning while this video is going on I just clicked on a random video I didn't know how much your channel helped but I feel so relieved that I'm getting this mess tackled
Love this lady !! Your are making me feel great about getting up and actually doing this it's the motivation you give your energy and just being so transparent when my kids were small had to do the exact same thing bc they couldn't do what needed to be done like I did and then w depression and anxiety it's not easy to even get out of bed and do housework let alone give orders to have them clean there's completely admire you for this !!!! Great Mom 💜💜💜💜
When it said you were discouraged by this point... you're amazing. You kept finding 1 hidden mess after another. And you kept pushing through and got it done WELL! EXCELLENT JOB MAMA!!!
Im not a mom but i life with my mom because im only 18. Im depressed and have big anxiety so my room is so messy… im most of the time alone at home and so the mess is in the complete house but your video helps me so so much to clean the house alone and with my mom. My mother is so happy that i clean it by myself🥺 thank you so so much🥰🥰
I really like your videos. Because my home is in such a bad state, I don't have time to watch the video first and then clean. And usually, videos like these just have alot of music playing. I like the spoken motivation. It helps me wayyyyyy more.
So satisfying and motivating to watch, thanks! At eight minutes in I paused to go tackle a cupboard that is driving me crazy.
Such an amazing transformation! You are taking control and doing your best.
I'm not a parent, but I've basically have raised myself and it's hard to take care of myself when I struggle with anxiety and depression along with autism. I can function and do normal tasks, but sometimes it is hard to focus on it and this honestly helps me do it 🥰
I appreciate your honesty! I lost my house a year ago due to 4 surgeries, both eyes and both hands. Rules for eyes, dont bend over and dont pick anything up. Each eye was 6 weeks of those rules. I had 1 week then hand surgeries, rules were to not pick anything up and the pain was awful. I live alone so i still had to function but it was just existing. I also have never got my things all sorted and unpacked. I have too much!!! It is difficult to get rid of stuff!!! Im also a quilter, sewist, crafter and Junk Journaler. Each one has a stash of stuff. Your video is encouraging me to keep working at it.....🎉
I really appreciate this video! I’m a full time working mom of 3 and was able to completely relate to this 😊 Thank you.
Just found your channel, and I’m never living, you are such a amazing person and so real! Love from Denmark and thanks for helping me up ❤️🙏🏼