I love how the story starts off with the op saying that Andrew was supportive but then there's all these different times that Andrew brushes things off or try to keep the peace and it's like really how was really supportive are you Andrew?
She's just going to go ahead and avoid the topic of staying with a man who sits there and watches his family treat you like crap for years and years...😂
I keep hearing about "family". People need to realize that when someone gets married, their spouse is part of the family, and both spouses should be the primary to.the other.
Great story! I dealt with the same issues with myself and my own Mother-In-Law,and I have a great partner in my husband, and now we couldn’t be closer, and I’m so grateful for that. Also my own father and my husband loathed each other as well and I always had his back too,but just like in my case with my MIL things changed,and by the time my father passed away in the spring of 2021 my husband had one of the closest relationships with him even closer than I did.
Agree with OP on every single thing except for not taking her husband’s last name. That’s just weird. I wouldn’t marry a girl if she didn’t want my last name.
Not taking his name was rude of her, to be honest. I'm traditional; you can hyphenate your name, I will refuse to use your maiden name when I address it.
It's her name. You should use it the way she wants it to be. You can be traditional, Orthodox, modern... No one cares. You don't get the right to address in the way you want.
Arabs are very traditional and they don't take their husband's last names. Many African women also don't change to the husband's name. Name is your tribe so your children know their lineage.
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OP is a rockstar...to change the dynamics. I'm so,impressed.😊
Exactly! U stole my words 😅
Such a mature and healthy approach to problem solving is definitely worthy of admiration. Cheers to OP! You deserve all the flowers.
freaking awesome story!! The one where the father only got a card for his birthday was brilliant.
I wouldn't have the patience for that family or hubby.
I love how the story starts off with the op saying that Andrew was supportive but then there's all these different times that Andrew brushes things off or try to keep the peace and it's like really how was really supportive are you Andrew?
Andrew should have did something about his parents and op should have stood up for herself
Did you not see the end? They did,
That's exactly what both if them did
It did take him a long time. He noticed when his family said something but not when his family ignored her
If he can’t stand up for you and cut contact with them… divorce.
Yeah
Did yall finish the vid?
She's just going to go ahead and avoid the topic of staying with a man who sits there and watches his family treat you like crap for years and years...😂
MIL has YET to apologize...
I keep hearing about "family". People need to realize that when someone gets married, their spouse is part of the family, and both spouses should be the primary to.the other.
Family contact twice at year is enough
Script flipped to perfection!
Exactly 💯!
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0:59 for shorts
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One of the best stories about taking a step back and matching energy.
Regardless of if this story is true or not, it’s refreshing to hear a story like this. It shows that people can change for the better.
She moves IN THE SHADOWS 🎉🎉❤❤❤
Great story! I dealt with the same issues with myself and my own Mother-In-Law,and I have a great partner in my husband, and now we couldn’t be closer, and I’m so grateful for that. Also my own father and my husband loathed each other as well and I always had his back too,but just like in my case with my MIL things changed,and by the time my father passed away in the spring of 2021 my husband had one of the closest relationships with him even closer than I did.
Andrew was an idiot for far too long. It's good he finally stepped up. Let's hope he continues.
Agree with OP on every single thing except for not taking her husband’s last name. That’s just weird. I wouldn’t marry a girl if she didn’t want my last name.
Hun, 2 minutes in I can tell you you have a husband issue. You deserve better than that. Give them what they want and what you need, a divorce.
Lol cap
Divorce Andrew (I didn’t watch the whole vid yet)
Now how u feel after finishing
I had to pause I was getting ill from all the passive aggressiveness. And IM PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE. 🤮😂
Wow, can one read it EVEN faster XD
andrew had like a little character arc from not standing up for op then now they are standing up and defending op.
the table has been turned.... touche...
Well played girl...
A divorce worthy guy
Drama Drama Drama!!!!!!
1:03 if came from shorts
Op is my kinda autistic 😅
First
First in being late?!
@Kavyawoo1511 shut up
Not taking his name was rude of her, to be honest. I'm traditional; you can hyphenate your name, I will refuse to use your maiden name when I address it.
It's her name. You should use it the way she wants it to be. You can be traditional, Orthodox, modern... No one cares. You don't get the right to address in the way you want.
Arabs are very traditional and they don't take their husband's last names. Many African women also don't change to the husband's name. Name is your tribe so your children know their lineage.