I prefer meeting a woman in real life now because it’s a little easier to read someone that way. There’s a lot of things one can hide behind that computer screen...
Man I’ve dealt with women that won’t even talk on the phone! They just wanna text! When I met them I knew why! They couldn’t hold a conversation to save their life! So yep convo is a lost art!!
jmoo2k6 dick Gregory once said that British intelligence created cell phones to destroy humanity. Radiation aside, I'm starting to get a sense of what the ancestor was speaking to.
I do think social media has made many people anti-social and develop no social skills. I cant tell you how many times a couple of questions or a brief conversation has saved from a likely messed up situation just because she has a nice ass. Also, you miss things by staring into the phone. I have a short story, one day I was on campus to turn in a grad paper, and they had a dj on the yard. I lay back and observe things, I saw a girl dancing on a bench in a tiny skirt, three brothers on they phone taking selfies and stuff. They clearly missing the obvious , she was trying to get one of their attention. Later, a friend of mine stopped to speak, I peeped out this cute woman trying to get his attention I gave him a nudge, told him look left, even bumped hm toward her. He focused on the phone. She gave up and I did, she was the kind of woman he liked physically.
Indeed it is destroying us.. People could use SOCIAL MEDIA so much better than they are now... Think about the REAL usage Live Skype/Instagram could do. You could be teaching someone English or Learning Japanese via skype from a teacher who speaks both... Learning a skill in a foreign place from the comfort of your home. Least that's how I like to take advantage of the Internet.... But people use it to gain attention and validation online from people THEY WILL NEVER MEET 70--80% of the time. You could legit become a Millionaire even Billionaire online if you used to your advantage...People rather LOOK RICH on instagram than to get rich in REALITY..... Waste of Energy and technology.
Totally agree!!!! Social media has destroyed the original ways of meeting and greeting ppl...No one approachs or give signs of interest anymore...Its SAD..smh...
People nowdays use their phone obsessively than practically. Its so sad man. If you go to a resturant, I gurantee you, you will see a guy and a girl at a table and one of them or both of them will be on their phone doing something. Great video again Rom. You never cease to amaze me bruh.
True, I miss that. People seem so in their phones now that I sometime feel sad. Especially if I'm with that person and I can see their overly in their phone. It's annoying!
True,when I'm out in public I see all these people heads down in their phones.They don't speak,greet nor notice anything.But hey,look at it this way,,YOUR NOT ONE OF THOSE MANY ROBOTS.
Excellent bro. ROM..My father who is 75yrs old say the same thing,people don't talk face to face no more nor even speak out in public.I met many people who I can tell is a social media type talker,their conversation is lame face to face.
Well me being an older millennial. I remember having to call girls on the phone or approach them before txt and social media took off. Now that I'm in my early 30s talking on the phone with a woman is an anomaly. Normally she is around my age or the older. But the younger ones only txt to be discreet. Probably because they are being sneaky and entertaining multiple guys.
i remember this one girl i was messing with. when we were alone she would sometimes say " well let me txt my mom to let her know you didn't kill me" first time i said in my head. ok. but her tone was off. when she did it a2nd time about a month later i knew what was up . she said it EXACTLY like the first time . like a robot. i even threw her phone off the bed after i turned it off lol. she said " just so you know im going to check it in a few minutes" smh
Smell is so important and I'm not talking about perfume or cologne. Cannot stand an unclean man. Work with the public and have had people come to the counter and be like whew wee. Bathing is crucial for me to even find an interest in you. I love water, lotion and perfume. But you got to be clean to use the scents.
Conversation could lead to a better sexual experience with women as well. The term "mindsex" comes to mind lol. You're absolutely right, with cell phones being popular most people have forgotten how to effectively communicate with each other.
One thing I don't like about texting...You can text one thing, but IT IS SO EASY for someone else to take it out of context which equals misunderstanding/miscommunication.I'm not a big fan on talkin on the phone unless I'm having a good time choppin it up. Face to face convo is the best way to present yourself and strengthen your mouthpiece
I’m 18 and this is becoming a foreign concept to people my age for real. Most girls that I’ve talked to thinks it’s weird that I don’t like talking or texting on the phone and prefer talking to them in person. Also it seems like they’re always in a rush and the fact that I’m trying to talk to them and get to know them first makes them feel like I’m not interested even if I tell them I am. I might start making videos because I got alot more to say about this lol.
Uncle Rom, you have no idea how much women of all ethnicities WILL NOT leave me alone due to the grand conversational sessions we share! Always on point, Unc!
HAHA, true to that, Unc! In fact, one of my female friends said that I have a tendency to *mind-fuck* the hell out of a woman .. but in my mind, its just raw, real and unfiltered dialog.
I agree most people are loosing the human touch these days. Thier body language says alot in person and the people who can start a good conversation will always be in demand.... especially if your funny.
Many people say social media has made us antisocial. I never was cool with online dating because as you so elegantly pointed out a selfie or a picture can be very misleading. By the way that whole woman having body odor is real according to a coworker. I told him they should come out with smelfies which is a selfie that lets you know how people smell. Peace.
I'm in a relationship now; however, when I was single it was not worth the effort conversing with most women. I became more selective; approaching only women who smiled at me when I looked into their eyes. In my past experiences, I 've found that women can be quite dismissive if they don't like you so the convo could end abruptly. Conversely, women engage more in convo when they like you.
This is why I'm no longer do dating sites cause a picture is no substitute for personality. And just because she look good doesn't mean that she ain't shit or she ain't crazy.
What's up uncle rom and that's why i keep phone use to a minimum. When i would sit and eat with my grandfather or now with the nieces and nephews i keep the phone tucked away to show them they have my attention. Conversation among some people has become a lost art.
When presented in the right fashion you find out everything you need to know,mental issues,health issues,everything,good topic nobody else touched on this.
That's part of the reason why hip hop is horrible now... Lemme rap with you evolves articulating yourself..they can't... Hence mumble... Take the "m" from "umble".. Message..
I love talking to women. Especially their head is resting on your shoulder. Feels great. Something about the right female energy gives me a boost. Its not all about sex for me.
very good video I've literally just spent 3 hours talk to me to the woman I'll probably be in my next relationship with and she was telling me most men don't even know how to ask a woman out on a date let alone hold a conversation let alone a conversation. But when you conversate with a woman you have to ask certain questions and you have to listen because she may not even be your type of woman or you may not be her type of man you have to make sure you have the same vibe it doesn't really matter if your physical attraction if you're trying to seriously say about the person you need to have a vibe you need to have certain things in common that you share she knows I'm an alpha and she loves it and she likes to be submissive she thinks it's sexy to be submissive
theboy murph just the other day i had a client come to me and start a convo on with me about my shirt which was of a band i like. we were talking and it felt real. it felt great.
To me texting has completely ruined the art of having a decent conversation. People reject good people everyday just because their perception through text is way different than what it is in real life. I can be the coolest person on Earth but if I suck at texting, to that person, I’m lame af
Another classic👌🏽 Women speak through the elements of music: Rhythm, Melody and Harmony... A man who doesn’t realize that can literally become spellbound. That’s also why preachers “speak/sing” to the congregation... It’s power that the average can’t even grasp
texting also makes social interaction akward. you can meet someone and text all you want but if you have no real face to face time you don;t get a REAL feel for them. they can make a joke in a text or say something but you ain't seeing how they react to what you say. maybe they had a stink face or hurt face. and then when you meet up in person since you had no face to face it's like you dont even really know them
Good video and subject to touch on Rom! I agree, me personally, I don't fool with none of those social media sites especially when it comes to meeting women. I prefer to meet them in person, feel them out and get to know them! Social media has destroyed the dynamics and fundamentals of personally conversating with women to see where their heads are at. To me, social media is another mask in many cases to cover up who people really are. That's why you have people who put up fake profiles, want to show off certain items including money to make people think they have something! I've seen and witnessed it with my own eyes, it's people I knew personally who lied a whole lot about themselves on social media. These people talking about they went to University of Michigan and never stepped a foot on a campus! I know what you're saying, go back to men wanting to connect with women on social media as well as women to when it comes to men but stick to men now, you have to be really careful because you don't know that person and they can be insane like you said. Both of my brothers experienced that shit with women they met through social media, especially my older brother with the two sons I mentioned to you before, I told him numerous of times about doing the dumb shit he was doing. Moving out of town in the middle of nowhere living and shacking up with women he don't know from adam, he'll tell me that he been communicating with her for the past few years. Me and my mother would be like so what, you think because you've been talking to someone through social media for a few years that you know them personally! Me and moms told my brother, you keep on doing that shit if you want to, your ass is going to be found dead laying in a ditch somewhere, folks is crazy out here. It's a story that happened not to far from where my brother was at, it was another brother who was dealing with a women through social media, hooked up with her in a small town by my brother, next thing you know, his body was found dead in a ditch, his body was a skeleton! That was a wake up call for my brother because that women he was dealing with was crazy too, he's getting into it with her. My brother is back now, I told him, leave these social media women alone and keep your ass home. You have to be smart out here and cautious when it comes to making certain decisions how you choose to meet with these women, shit can get ugly and dangerous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Excellent video Uncle Rom. This goes both ways. I think women are also caught up in the texting thing too. They may like you and want to talk to you but want you to call. They'll text you, but will want you to call them. They'll text you all day long but will get upset when you don't call. It's strange. Very strange.
The environment can have a lot of effects. The types of conversations that you have with women at work are very limited unless you are willing to cross those red lines. Besides, unless you share similar values and are old friends, most conversation with a woman is boring. Gotta have sex talk to keep it interesting. That's just the way it is!
Sad but so very true! So much can get lost/misunderstood in a text/snap/tweet....whatever form of social media that's being used. There is something about verbal communication that helps with stimulating the mind and the imagination. Now don't get me wrong an appropriately worded text can do that too😄 however to HEAR it being said carries waaaay more weight. So when I receive the "WYD, You up, I miss you" texts and it's from someone I want to HEAR from, I will respond with "Huh? And when they reply with the same text, I will reply with "I can't hear you!" 🤗 I had to walk away from the 52 year old who stated that "he's the old guy that likes to text" I shared with him that "I'm the mature lady who likes to talk" ✌. Using pre-scripted texts to copy and paste to send and scheduling messages to be sent at a certain time is Lazy Game! No effort, no thought is put into that, 12 year olds can do that! Let me know that I crossed your mind throughout the day or you saw something that made you think of me. Take me there cause I'm ready to go!! 😄 #NextStop
You've Dont It Again!! This is so true! I've Experienced this w/ an Ex, I already had Reservations regarding him anyway. Insult to Injury was this Texting thing. I found it to be a BIG TURN OFF!!! We're Adults , ya know👍👍👍👍
Ain't it true? I had some wang dang tell me the other day that I am walking faster than my cane. I simply asked him what's up? He said he was telling me that I was beautiful. ..am I missing something or was he on one?
I've bagged a lot of women just off of my conversation alone. It depends on the woman. Some women need validation from men and some like to delve into a man's mindset and values. Conversation can provide both. Social media can be buffers to complete personal interaction, where catfish abound and lies are told more easily to mask vulnerability.
What's up Big Rom, I'll meet female's when I get out in the public sector and when contact is made every female like to text I'm always sceptical with the way communication is going I notice my niece's always sharing they're cell phone with their girl friend's from pictures to other links on their phone I feel personal with people that I talk to I don't socialize with everybody exspeically if I don't know them modern technology is so advanced I've been out and a younglady said I know you and I'll say excuse me I never formerly introduced myself to you so she the said I know you from someone's social media page I thought damn because I'm sure I didn't know her because my circle is kinda small and I'm around the same people most of the time come to find out a couple of people demonstrate their lives with this crap exposing their whole life day to day and enjoying it just like the rest of the female's getting caught up in attention secking.
Darren Hawkins it's also a generation thing. I see ME-linneals face timing a lot and sometimes they groom their make up in their phones. VERY narcissist. even at the grown & sexy events I see women singing while face timing at the events to their favorite jams. it's almost like they don't want conversation with a man. just women in packs on the dancefloor face timing and they only do line dances ie cupid shuffle, cha cha slide etc
I learned this Game Long time ago.. Don't comment or like females pictures... I would Love to hear your Social media game though! Social Media is a Woman's Playground, You not beating them at this shit (unless you have a following) getting her attention when you got The WORLD of thirsty dudes (Options) DMing her and leaving her comments under her pictures and liking them. Rom the whole aspect of Lost conversation is so unreal it's not funny...Women today think sending you a DM message or liking your pictures EQUALS to you "staying in touch" with one another. This is GAME women run on dudes today, instead of just answering their phones and linking up.. They're "Busy" but you see them constantly on social media updating their status like a Job, or see her posting pictures on Social media at the Club with Tyrone (Who also follows her) lol. Anytime I approach a Woman and she mentions her "Instagram/Twitter" and not her Number? I'm cool on her. All that is a way to Boost their "EGO" and become one of her Groupie followers.... Why follow you when I can cut the bullshit now?
I prefer meeting a woman in real life now because it’s a little easier to read someone that way. There’s a lot of things one can hide behind that computer screen...
That's how I feel.
Lawson S Women will still lie in your face!!! 👌
Vetting women...
That's game right there... voice tonality!
Also, how she physically reacts to you and how she looks at you.
That's all a part of communication.
I always do that.
Man I’ve dealt with women that won’t even talk on the phone! They just wanna text! When I met them I knew why! They couldn’t hold a conversation to save their life! So yep convo is a lost art!!
I hate that. Texting has it's place but I need to talk to a woman.
These days some people are too busy looking at their phone to pin, post and tweet everything instead of interacting with people.
Truth.
jmoo2k6 dick Gregory once said that British intelligence created cell phones to destroy humanity. Radiation aside, I'm starting to get a sense of what the ancestor was speaking to.
I do think social media has made many people anti-social and develop no social skills. I cant tell you how many times a couple of questions or a brief conversation has saved from a likely messed up situation just because she has a nice ass. Also, you miss things by staring into the phone. I have a short story, one day I was on campus to turn in a grad paper, and they had a dj on the yard. I lay back and observe things, I saw a girl dancing on a bench in a tiny skirt, three brothers on they phone taking selfies and stuff. They clearly missing the obvious , she was trying to get one of their attention. Later, a friend of mine stopped to speak, I peeped out this cute woman trying to get his attention I gave him a nudge, told him look left, even bumped hm toward her. He focused on the phone. She gave up and I did, she was the kind of woman he liked physically.
Indeed it is destroying us.. People could use SOCIAL MEDIA so much better than they are now... Think about the REAL usage Live Skype/Instagram could do. You could be teaching someone English or Learning Japanese via skype from a teacher who speaks both... Learning a skill in a foreign place from the comfort of your home. Least that's how I like to take advantage of the Internet....
But people use it to gain attention and validation online from people THEY WILL NEVER MEET 70--80% of the time. You could legit become a Millionaire even Billionaire online if you used to your advantage...People rather LOOK RICH on instagram than to get rich in REALITY..... Waste of Energy and technology.
Totally agree!!!! Social media has destroyed the original ways of meeting and greeting ppl...No one approachs or give signs of interest anymore...Its SAD..smh...
We need to get back to that. I'm wiling to bet some couple has a social media relationship where they never heard each other's voice.
Rom Wills Im sure
People nowdays use their phone obsessively than practically. Its so sad man. If you go to a resturant, I gurantee you, you will see a guy and a girl at a table and one of them or both of them will be on their phone doing something. Great video again Rom. You never cease to amaze me bruh.
Thank you brotha.
True, I miss that. People seem so in their phones now that I sometime feel sad. Especially if I'm with that person and I can see their overly in their phone. It's annoying!
I understand.
True,when I'm out in public I see all these people heads down in their phones.They don't speak,greet nor notice anything.But hey,look at it this way,,YOUR NOT ONE OF THOSE MANY ROBOTS.
Excellent bro. ROM..My father who is 75yrs old say the same thing,people don't talk face to face no more nor even speak out in public.I met many people who I can tell is a social media type talker,their conversation is lame face to face.
Interesting.
Look DEEP before you LEEP Brothers..
Good advice.
Well me being an older millennial. I remember having to call girls on the phone or approach them before txt and social media took off. Now that I'm in my early 30s talking on the phone with a woman is an anomaly. Normally she is around my age or the older. But the younger ones only txt to be discreet. Probably because they are being sneaky and entertaining multiple guys.
Yeah texting is good for cheating.
i remember this one girl i was messing with. when we were alone she would sometimes say " well let me txt my mom to let her know you didn't kill me" first time i said in my head. ok. but her tone was off. when she did it a2nd time about a month later i knew what was up . she said it EXACTLY like the first time . like a robot. i even threw her phone off the bed after i turned it off lol. she said " just so you know im going to check it in a few minutes" smh
Smell is so important and I'm not talking about perfume or cologne. Cannot stand an unclean man. Work with the public and have had people come to the counter and be like whew wee. Bathing is crucial for me to even find an interest in you. I love water, lotion and perfume. But you got to be clean to use the scents.
Scent is real important.
Conversation could lead to a better sexual experience with women as well. The term "mindsex" comes to mind lol. You're absolutely right, with cell phones being popular most people have forgotten how to effectively communicate with each other.
Exactly.
One thing I don't like about texting...You can text one thing, but IT IS SO EASY for someone else to take it out of context which equals misunderstanding/miscommunication.I'm not a big fan on talkin on the phone unless I'm having a good time choppin it up. Face to face convo is the best way to present yourself and strengthen your mouthpiece
Yeah that's the thing. Text is really limited as far as true communication.
I’m 18 and this is becoming a foreign concept to people my age for real. Most girls that I’ve talked to thinks it’s weird that I don’t like talking or texting on the phone and prefer talking to them in person. Also it seems like they’re always in a rush and the fact that I’m trying to talk to them and get to know them first makes them feel like I’m not interested even if I tell them I am. I might start making videos because I got alot more to say about this lol.
Make those videos.
Yeah shit is odd now days.
I cant imagine how it is for women around your age. Its bad for women mid twenties to early thirties
same. it does feel rushed. liek you trying to talk to them but they are not fully present. i am one of the ones who actually still do like to talk
I feel the same people don't talk anymore it's actually sad. Women talk to me but they already know i'm no joke so they will be hesitate at first.
Understand.
Uncle Rom, you have no idea how much women of all ethnicities WILL NOT leave me alone due to the grand conversational sessions we share! Always on point, Unc!
You making love to their ears.
HAHA, true to that, Unc! In fact, one of my female friends said that I have a tendency to *mind-fuck* the hell out of a woman .. but in my mind, its just raw, real and unfiltered dialog.
The person that disliked, be the one who stalk women IG profiles and DM them 10 times and gets no answer back.
LOL!
I agree most people are loosing the human touch these days. Thier body language says alot in person and the people who can start a good conversation will always be in demand.... especially if your funny.
Truth.
Many people say social media has made us antisocial. I never was cool with online dating because as you so elegantly pointed out a selfie or a picture can be very misleading. By the way that whole woman having body odor is real according to a coworker. I told him they should come out with smelfies which is a selfie that lets you know how people smell. Peace.
LOL! Smelfie!
I'm in a relationship now; however, when I was single it was not worth the effort conversing with most women. I became more selective; approaching only women who smiled at me when I looked into their eyes.
In my past experiences, I 've found that women can be quite dismissive if they don't like you so the convo could end abruptly. Conversely, women engage more in convo when they like you.
Good points.
This is why I'm no longer do dating sites cause a picture is no substitute for personality. And just because she look good doesn't mean that she ain't shit or she ain't crazy.
Truth.
What's up uncle rom and that's why i keep phone use to a minimum. When i would sit and eat with my grandfather or now with the nieces and nephews i keep the phone tucked away to show them they have my attention. Conversation among some people has become a lost art.
It really is.
When presented in the right fashion you find out everything you need to know,mental issues,health issues,everything,good topic nobody else touched on this.
Exactly. Plus you can read body language.
That's part of the reason why hip hop is horrible now... Lemme rap with you evolves articulating yourself..they can't... Hence mumble... Take the "m" from "umble".. Message..
Yep.
I love talking to women. Especially their head is resting on your shoulder. Feels great. Something about the right female energy gives me a boost. Its not all about sex for me.
That's what's up.
very good video I've literally just spent 3 hours talk to me to the woman I'll probably be in my next relationship with and she was telling me most men don't even know how to ask a woman out on a date let alone hold a conversation let alone a conversation. But when you conversate with a woman you have to ask certain questions and you have to listen because she may not even be your type of woman or you may not be her type of man you have to make sure you have the same vibe it doesn't really matter if your physical attraction if you're trying to seriously say about the person you need to have a vibe you need to have certain things in common that you share she knows I'm an alpha and she loves it and she likes to be submissive she thinks it's sexy to be submissive
That's how you do it. That convo can get you in there.
theboy murph just the other day i had a client come to me and start a convo on with me about my shirt which was of a band i like. we were talking and it felt real. it felt great.
How you get these chicks to open up. A lot of them talk about nothing, no depth.
Marrio Gandy facts.
Ask them questions they can't just give a yes or no answer to. Ask them what they want to do with their lives.
Open ended questions
Good points Uncle R! Plus when you get to talk to her in person you can tell yourself if she is worth spending your time with.
To me texting has completely ruined the art of having a decent conversation. People reject good people everyday just because their perception through text is way different than what it is in real life. I can be the coolest person on Earth but if I suck at texting, to that person, I’m lame af
That's the problem.
Another classic👌🏽 Women speak through the elements of music: Rhythm, Melody and Harmony... A man who doesn’t realize that can literally become spellbound. That’s also why preachers “speak/sing” to the congregation... It’s power that the average can’t even grasp
Your comment why you're at the top level of the game.
Tony Bulley Interesting. Can you expound on that?
texting also makes social interaction akward. you can meet someone and text all you want but if you have no real face to face time you don;t get a REAL feel for them. they can make a joke in a text or say something but you ain't seeing how they react to what you say. maybe they had a stink face or hurt face. and then when you meet up in person since you had no face to face it's like you dont even really know them
You have to get know them because they could INDEED BE CRAZY. I say that all the TIME. It's good to hear it again.
Yeah I don't have the gift of gab. Something I need to work on.
It can be developed.
Hell yes !!!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 thank you for this one Ron .
You're welcome.
All relationships benefit from good conversation.
Conversation runs the nation!💯
Hmmm, great topic for a Friday show. Thanks for sharing! Good video!
Char Willie We actually touched on it a bit on the pookie/rayray show: "stimulate my mind" and pretty much the rest will follow/fall into place "
Let me know I might pop in.
Good video and subject to touch on Rom! I agree, me personally, I don't fool with none of those social media sites especially when it comes to meeting women. I prefer to meet them in person, feel them out and get to know them! Social media has destroyed the dynamics and fundamentals of personally conversating with women to see where their heads are at. To me, social media is another mask in many cases to cover up who people really are. That's why you have people who put up fake profiles, want to show off certain items including money to make people think they have something! I've seen and witnessed it with my own eyes, it's people I knew personally who lied a whole lot about themselves on social media. These people talking about they went to University of Michigan and never stepped a foot on a campus! I know what you're saying, go back to men wanting to connect with women on social media as well as women to when it comes to men but stick to men now, you have to be really careful because you don't know that person and they can be insane like you said. Both of my brothers experienced that shit with women they met through social media, especially my older brother with the two sons I mentioned to you before, I told him numerous of times about doing the dumb shit he was doing. Moving out of town in the middle of nowhere living and shacking up with women he don't know from adam, he'll tell me that he been communicating with her for the past few years. Me and my mother would be like so what, you think because you've been talking to someone through social media for a few years that you know them personally! Me and moms told my brother, you keep on doing that shit if you want to, your ass is going to be found dead laying in a ditch somewhere, folks is crazy out here. It's a story that happened not to far from where my brother was at, it was another brother who was dealing with a women through social media, hooked up with her in a small town by my brother, next thing you know, his body was found dead in a ditch, his body was a skeleton! That was a wake up call for my brother because that women he was dealing with was crazy too, he's getting into it with her. My brother is back now, I told him, leave these social media women alone and keep your ass home. You have to be smart out here and cautious when it comes to making certain decisions how you choose to meet with these women, shit can get ugly and dangerous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's a lot of traps on social media.
As a SAPIOsexual woman I APPROVE this message! I'm attracted to voices so I gotta holler old school style...c if we got that banter...need that heat!
That's what's up sis.
Another good convo!
Thank you.
Excellent video Uncle Rom. This goes both ways. I think women are also caught up in the texting thing too. They may like you and want to talk to you but want you to call. They'll text you, but will want you to call them. They'll text you all day long but will get upset when you don't call. It's strange. Very strange.
It is indeed.
Keep them basketball analogies flowing Rom...They make things easy to understand...
It's a right brain thing.
The environment can have a lot of effects. The types of conversations that you have with women at work are very limited unless you are willing to cross those red lines.
Besides, unless you share similar values and are old friends, most conversation with a woman is boring. Gotta have sex talk to keep it interesting. That's just the way it is!
I can see that. From my perspective any convo with me is always exciting.
Lord Banzai funny how sex does that.
Sad but so very true! So much can get lost/misunderstood in a text/snap/tweet....whatever form of social media that's being used. There is something about verbal communication that helps with stimulating the mind and the imagination. Now don't get me wrong an appropriately worded text can do that too😄 however to HEAR it being said carries waaaay more weight. So when I receive the "WYD, You up, I miss you" texts and it's from someone I want to HEAR from, I will respond with "Huh? And when they reply with the same text, I will reply with "I can't hear you!" 🤗 I had to walk away from the 52 year old who stated that "he's the old guy that likes to text" I shared with him that "I'm the mature lady who likes to talk" ✌. Using pre-scripted texts to copy and paste to send and scheduling messages to be sent at a certain time is Lazy Game! No effort, no thought is put into that, 12 year olds can do that! Let me know that I crossed your mind throughout the day or you saw something that made you think of me. Take me there cause I'm ready to go!! 😄 #NextStop
Well said sis.
great point. when you hear the tone it;s very important.
You've Dont It Again!! This is so true!
I've Experienced this w/ an Ex, I already had Reservations regarding him anyway. Insult to Injury was this Texting thing. I found it to be a BIG TURN OFF!!! We're Adults , ya know👍👍👍👍
Exactly.
Rom your top rated my brother, your too cautious and smart brother
Uncle Rom , you should do a video on voice tonality or the importance of mind"sex" 🙏
Good suggestion.
Great video i take my time now love the advice will use
good deal.
All women respond to is the things of the world that they hear
Yep.
I hate talking on the phone, but I’ll text you. However, before I talk on the phone I rather see her in person.
Jazzy Daddy same
Okay.
Big unk rom,always coming thru in the clutch.swear mfers barely kno how to talk in person
It's unfortunate.
Run daughter topic on "consistency" please .
Women would rather talk to uglier women over men like that makes sense. Or is it the man to smart for them
It could be anything.
Ain't it true? I had some wang dang tell me the other day that I am walking faster than my cane. I simply asked him what's up? He said he was telling me that I was beautiful. ..am I missing something or was he on one?
His approach was wack.
I've bagged a lot of women just off of my conversation alone. It depends on the woman. Some women need validation from men and some like to delve into a man's mindset and values. Conversation can provide both. Social media can be buffers to complete personal interaction, where catfish abound and lies are told more easily to mask vulnerability.
That's the problem.
Real talk💯
Thank you.
I prefer a live stream video now if we talking online that's easy to see who who no filler lol. if anyone wants to verify people.
Seen.
Rom...lol...smh! My dad drilled this into my head. He was 100 percent right.
He knew.
yea just like customer service is as well. Gov/corp/enforcement cause society social issues.
What's up Big Rom, I'll meet female's when I get out in the public sector and when contact is made every female like to text I'm always sceptical with the way communication is going I notice my niece's always sharing they're cell phone with their girl friend's from pictures to other links on their phone I feel personal with people that I talk to I don't socialize with everybody exspeically if I don't know them modern technology is so advanced I've been out and a younglady said I know you and I'll say excuse me I never formerly introduced myself to you so she the said I know you from someone's social media page I thought damn because I'm sure I didn't know her because my circle is kinda small and I'm around the same people most of the time come to find out a couple of people demonstrate their lives with this crap exposing their whole life day to day and enjoying it just like the rest of the female's getting caught up in attention secking.
Oh snap. She's knows you from a social media page. Some people think this is an advanced way of interacting with people.
Darren Hawkins it's also a generation thing. I see ME-linneals face timing a lot and sometimes they groom their make up in their phones. VERY narcissist. even at the grown & sexy events I see women singing while face timing at the events to their favorite jams. it's almost like they don't want conversation with a man. just women in packs on the dancefloor face timing and they only do line dances ie cupid shuffle, cha cha slide etc
Darren Hawkins that truth !!!!
Devils in the details I.e. “nuances”
Truth.
I learned this Game Long time ago.. Don't comment or like females pictures... I would Love to hear your Social media game though!
Social Media is a Woman's Playground, You not beating them at this shit (unless you have a following) getting her attention when you got The WORLD of thirsty dudes (Options) DMing her and leaving her comments under her pictures and liking them.
Rom the whole aspect of Lost conversation is so unreal it's not funny...Women today think sending you a DM message or liking your pictures EQUALS to you "staying in touch" with one another. This is GAME women run on dudes today, instead of just answering their phones and linking up.. They're "Busy" but you see them constantly on social media updating their status like a Job, or see her posting pictures on Social media at the Club with Tyrone (Who also follows her) lol.
Anytime I approach a Woman and she mentions her "Instagram/Twitter" and not her Number? I'm cool on her. All that is a way to Boost their "EGO" and become one of her Groupie followers.... Why follow you when I can cut the bullshit now?
Well said.
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Thank you.