hey you’re not alone, my bf is very similar to you in the sense that it’s extremely difficult for him to share his feelings. even if it’s just to the camera, keep sharing you’re feelings. good luck!
I’m a gay Mexican American currently living in Mexico, I cared for my grandmother with dementia. Bottling up emotions can lead to that. It’s a horrendous incurable disease. In other words, or to the point, find a method to let your emotions/feelings out. Write it down and toss it, or upload a video, or speak to someone close to you(if you’re comfortable). Do NOT bottle up! Keep your head up and stay strong, you have a long life ahead of you. Take care!
Animotophobia can be debilitating. Seems like you are headed in a positive direction here. You could probably benefit from finding someone who is just a very good listener. A good listener will not need to comment. It is also not necessary to look at the person who is listening. Your anger/frustration is a manifestation of your suppression more than likely. If what you are doing works, then keep doing it. If you need more, then seek a really good listener. If things get worse perhaps counseling as past trauma is often the cause. In any case there are varying degrees of this and if what you are doing can keep the anger/frustration down then good on ya. Now I'm just gonna act like that good listener.
I'm 56 and I'm doing the same thing... in fact we ALL do (whether they tell you or not) Adults are just kids with more orbits around the sun :b Being an adult is about discovering and sharing just like in school, but we do that when we go to work. My advice (even though you didn't ask - sorry 'bout that): 1) Settle into yourself - it's ok to think the way you are thinking. It's ok to not have the answers - most people don't have answers for many things. If someone asks me a question I can't really answer (because I don't know), I might say "Hmmm. That's a really great question - I'm not really sure what I'm feeling. Can you give me a few days to figure out how to articulate what I'm feeling?" This signals that you want to talk about it (with your parents or friends or whoever) and will get back when you can really talk about it; 2) Remember that words are (language is) a construct humans have developed to communicate our internal ideas to other people. But, there aren't words for everything especially when it comes to our feelings. That's why we have weird words like "icky" or "oof" or "hmmm". Some things are easy... "I'm hungry" is inside you and someone else can't do anything about it until you articulate it. So, some "inside" feelings don't have "outside" words - and it's ok to not know them or have to find them. Check this out - there are German words with no English equivalent: www.ef.com/wwen/blog/language/17-german-words-with-no-english-translation/ 3) Pick 1 or 2 people that you want to confide your inside to that will listen and not interject. Sometimes your parent(s) can be that, or a brother/sister, or a friend - but find one person that is willing to act as the camera. The reason it's better than a camera?? Hugs. (and actually hearing someone speak "I love you - it's ok"). Good luck Dan!
It’s important to actually talk out your feelings like this no matter what way you do it. Part of being a human is learning how to process the world as it comes at you - and talking through it like this is one of the most underrated ways. Don’t listen to any haters. You’re in control of your content and your spaces. Especially since guys are told to keep their feelings to themselves, asked to be a statue. You can’t find peace and resolution in yourself without being able to articulate your world and experiences and emotions to yourself. Without it, you’ll just find yourself in a spiral down into despair and self-hatred. Keep going and break the cycle!
For the other things you say in your video - idk if you’d want responses exactly of anything you said - I think it’s fair to feel angry for no reason sometimes. Humans are just as irrational as they are rational. Sometimes we have to accept the fact that sometimes there is no good reason even if we don’t want to admit it. Even if we want there to be one. What matters more is simply how you live and act because of (or in spite of) that. This is a perfectly productive way to peel things back. Sometimes you gotta vent. Sometimes perfect isn’t perfect. Routines get boring. Life isn’t how we imagine it. I think it’s fair to say that as we progress as people, we also sometimes realize we are unsatisfied. Maybe it’s about the routines, or the people you see, or your environment. Your life’s in your hands and the best thing you can do is open yourself up to opportunity and seeing possibilities even when you don’t really know why you’re angry sometimes. I definitely typed a lot but I’ve been thinking about a lot of the same things so hopefully this gives some kind of insight
I randomly stumbled across this, and I know the feedback of some random guy might not count for much but here’s my take… I’ve had similar issues in my past, much of this was related to undiagnosed autism (which has since been diagnosed). A lot of what you say does sound like some of the social/ emotional traits related to autism. If you’ve not explored that then it could be worth looking into. The AQ-50 is a good self-assessment tool (it’s not diagnostic in itself but can inform a GP on whether further assessment is needed). Not dealing with all my pent up emotions and issues hit me hard, it affected others around me because I struggled. Identifying in yourself when something isn’t right is the first step but whatever the case may be, whether it’s autism, depression or anything else - put yourself first, find a way to unlock the issue, don’t let it eat away at you - I made that mistake. So yeah 😕 I’m not saying it is autism - but I relate to a lot of what you’ve said and that for me was linked to my autism, so I’m just putting that out there. It’s also potentially a form of depression. Even if it’s not autism or depression, what you have said today takes some courage. So give yourself some credit 🙂 I could write more but I don’t want to offend. Like I said I’m just a stranger but I hope in some small way me being open here helps you or someone else.
@@AnthonyFurnivalTrains thank you so much for sharing I am not offended at all, I always thought that I might have social autism, and sharing your story will definitely help others 🤝
@ happy to help - autism is a spectrum condition which affects people in different ways, so it’s always worth looking into. I mean there’s no medication or cure, but just knowing what I was dealing with helped me a lot 🙂
@CameraDAN-p7g never let fear witth in fear its self, to keep you down. Allways keep a strong mind an a strong heart. Lot of people cant express things. Or how to show it. Its about that see being hurt. Stop letting your self down stand up. Keep going you will make it. Always find something keeps you happy. An motivation is the key in life
What is stirring in your heart in the middle of such division and unrest is Father God being revealed to you. Jesus says, "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."
I think that I resonate a lot with what you’re saying. Thanks for sharing what’s on your mind, I’m listening. TH-cam is such a great outlet for this kind of stuff. Take care
Может тебе трудно выразить себя потому, что ты идиот? Может это потому, что у тебя нет своих мыслей, и тебе нечего выражать, и ты просто повторяешь глупости про мужскую культуру? )))
@Yellow_Apollo well I’m not gay and I have the same problem so I think that us as humans struggle with similar challenges to find different solutions. Just like how there are more than one way to find the right answer to a math problem, anyway thanks for the support ✌🏼
I was insecure and introverted as a kid but as I've grown as an adult I am comfortable talking about almost anything, unless I feel shame about something. But shame only comes up if I'm caught in a lie etc which is rare, rare that I lie. I talk about my depression, frustrations, anxiety, and issues around love and s*x. As you are more comfortable with your authentic self, it becomes easier to communicate. You do it quite well here! 😊
Keep going guy! Nobody really cares as you do about your feelings, it's sad but it makes you free. Try to open yourself up, you're no different than anyone else, it's somehow a delusion - the shame, the panic, the fear of rejection of others - because of who you are. You are you, a part of this human consciousness, all you feel and thought of was already said and done in the past, your experience and view of the world will in 99.9% cases be nothing special. The thing which is holding you from a full human experience is the illusion - that you are special. Get close to people, you'll get to know more about yourself by the authentic interactions, like this - you can't understand the unconscious parts of yourself, your experience is much more limited by the fact that you do not share yourself truly. The life on the other side gives you much more possibilities which I feel you're searching for by sharing this video. I wish you good luck in your journey!
This sharing will not bring you the real interactions, we're anonymous, we don't know each other, you need to go outside. People here will in most cases only validate you, which will make the regular narcissism of a human in your state of mind deeper and limit you from going further.
@@hadesbird I didn’t upload this for others, I appreciate the support but I am just sharing my experiences. I appreciate your support and thoughts on the matter
Thanks for sharing! I can totally relate, I’m an introvert and am on the autism spectrum so it can be really difficult at times to talk out my emotions and even talk to people I’m close to. Just keep going and find a good outlet to get those thoughts out! Journaling is something that has helped me as well
Had what turned out to be a 2 year time span when 1) Decided I couldn't tell anyone anything and therefore decided 2) Not to. As I consider that time, my understanding now is that as the Loner who I naturally am made his way, doing that was a way to adapt to the situation at the time. Which continues. It's no secret what everybody knows.
I hear you man. I also have great difficulty expressing myself - except anonymously, to people I don't know. I totally get it. Sometimes, I am also apparently angry for no reason at all. I can totally relate to that.
I rarely doom scroll, but thanks to TH-cam recommendations I found you. Many of us feel like you, but we may not have the courage to share it, on camera no less. The honesty and feeling is present, and that's refreshing. Glad to have seen your video.
Another random viewer - you came up on my feed. I think it might be a great idea for you to vlog every day for a while. Just share your thoughts every day - and express your heart. You do very well speaking to the camera - it is a great way to sort things out. I will look forward to hearing from you again - and watching your progress!
Hi bud, your video came up in my recommended page. Do you want us to respond and to offer advice or do you just want to express your feelings and leave it at that? If you want us to respond then awesome. You're doing things right. You're recognising your feelings and you're talking about them even if it is to a camera. There will be a lot of people who will impose their opinions on you telling you that you "should do this, or should do that" please be cautious in following advice where people tell you that you SHOULD do anything. Advice is meant to have you consider thoughts and possibilities and make up your own mind on the direction you feel is best for you, so please as soon as you read "you should..." be cautious. I think you're doing the right thing, you have found a way to talk and that is the start to understand these feelings and impulsions. Good job bud.
I don't know how old you are but you remind me a little of how i was around 16. With me I was diagnosed with depression but now I think I was probably on the cusp of being neurodivergent or just hormonal. I was angry all the time too but for me it was me dealing with past trauma from what you might call middle school from age 11 to 14. Here that's the age we go to high school. Back then I didn't have a vocabulary to describe to adults what I was feeling. Once I had a vocabulary I would tell every body that would listen. mostly adults, rarely other kids. But that took many years. All that said, I'm not saying you might be experiencing what i did 30 odd years ago but feel free to explore stuff including diet and exercise to see what works for. I will end by saying anger is addictive and can become habitual so just be mindful of that. Good luck 🤞🏽
It's good to let it out from time to time. You are a teenager and things are not supposed to make complete sense yet so don't worry about things when you are happy. Just get along and do what you need to do. Sometimes emotions make us angry for no good reason when hormones are zooming around our bodies. Sometimes friends act in a way we think is not them. It's all part of growing up into adults and becoming the person we will be. What I am saying is you are a normal teen with normal feelings but you can always come here and let things of your chest and know there are faceless people who care even though you don't know them. Take care out there but most of all enjoy yourself and have fun.
Life is a journey, not a destination. A cliche, but also true. People will come and join you along your journey and leave you and continue along with their journey. You should be happy for them because it is what the need to do for their journey. You need to embrace it as a good thing, because it is a good thing and not let it unsettle you. I hope this might be useful.
I can sooo relate to this! People sometimes asks me “what’s wrong?” and I feel weird answering that I don’t know but honestly sometimes I have no idea how I feel and other times how I feel doesn’t at all match what’s going on in my life at the moment. Thank you for sharing!
Feelings - my deep feelings were transformed into words. I wrote a poem book - deep emotions and dreams. Writing is one. What you doing is helpful to express yourself verbally. Sports or weightlifting is a way to release energy and anger. Can be swimming, walking, anything.
Hey, buddy, listen! Get out there with your friends, experience the world around you, create new experiences to immerse your daily life with! Doing it will provide you with tons of new thoughts to ponder over. Your goal is to make yourself SO involved in good thinking, so much so you wouldn't have your busy mind buzzzzzing around. Also, are your friends dudes you can talk to about sh*t that happens? I bet if you opened up to them, they'd allow themselves to get out of their own shell (do it gradually). At your age, sharing too much with your girl may prove to be a "downer", though I don't know her - how mature she is. One last thing - making sense of this world around us, when only yesterday you were just a kid, without a care in the world, just watching toonies and playing around with your toys - is extremely daunting. There's just no manual, no user-guide. Don't you have an older cousin? An older brother? (or even younger - you can figure things out together) Maybe you two have gotten yourselves into a rut and haven't figured out you two can help each other out? Food for thought, man!
There are a lot of people who find it hard to share things. It generally gets easier the older you get as we become more secure. The irony of it is the more you talk the more it relieves itself. If it is helping then carry on what you are doing. We all have a mask to wear, smiling on the outside and crying on the inside. It is what makes us human. Anyway I guess what I am trying to say is focus on positives, you are loved and you have a purpose.
Firstly, the important thing is to talk about your feelings and not bottle them up. Whether you talk to a camera, a friend or a counselor/therapist doesn’t matter as long as you’re talking about them. Secondly, do you best to not stay in your negative feelings any longer than necessary. You can’t have the positive emotions without the negative ones because it’s all about balance.
Everybody’s different. Ignore the pressure to share everything but find a couple of people who gradually you feel ok with (no demands and no expectations) and, with them, set up rules for divulging anything that “troubles” you. Your fear of being judged or people being too intimate makes you panic about loss of control - that’s why you feel defensive. And yes you do know how to express yourself…. this video is proof. You sound to me like a young man whose expectations of himself are too great, too burdensome. If talking to a camera does something positive for you then keep doing it. You’re ok but talking about your feelings etc is something that we learn how to do, for many of us it doesn’t come naturally. Trust and confidence take time. Slow down and you’ll learn how to do this, probably imperfectly, but you’ll get there.
It’s hard at times to express your feelings and emotions. It’s nice that you express to the camera and people replying by commenting. If it helps you feel more relieved have at it and ones will be there for you 👍
Your picking up the anger and frustration from the people around you. Not necessarily family and friends but strangers. Empathy can come in the form of feelings that aren't yours.
You are way ahead of most folks your age. You have insightful self-awareness which will allow you to process your pain to a successful resolution. Plus you can laugh at yourself - a great quality!
I know different people have different causes of their feelings and some can feel extremely depressed, anxious, etc without any specific cause. I'm in my mid 20s and I've been angry, depressed had anxiety and so much ever since i was in middle school. I've also always felt like im not deserving of life and shouldn't be here for all those years. I've always known the cause of all of that, and thats becaue I've been gay for as long as i can remember. Never chose it, never asked for it, never wanted it, but i always was and theres only 1 thing that can change that.... yet for some reason I'm still here and idk why
Talking to a camera helps because you know the camera doesn't judge you and that's quite alright. Practice opening up (just a little at a time) to your camera first, girlfriend, family and see that they are just as insecure opening up. What you're dealing with is normal. The phrase that gets me through the day is "Everyone knows my deepest, darkest secrets and frankly, they don't give a damned - so why am I getting hung up on it?". Not sure if that's true or not but helps me get through the day lol
@@CameraDAN-p7g Awesome! I'm on the autism spectrum so I have trouble keeping eye contact or opening up to all but a very few. Of those I trust and have opened up to, they give me a hug, laugh it off and reassure me that we all deal with these things, some very personal. My advice to you is to enjoy your life, let it be known what YOU want to be let known and let the other stuff rest until the time is right - no need to rush anything. You remind me a lot of myself in my earlier years so just know things get a lot easier going forward 🙂
@@houstonfirefox thank you for all the wise words, I have got a lot to learn but I think recognizing that is part of the process, again thank you for the support
Oh, by the way, I doubt personally that it is either/or autism or depression, which some people have commented and suggested! Some people, like myself, just find it difficult to talk to people, expressing and opening up our deepest thoughts and feelings! It's fairly normal really to be like that. It's not because you don't trust those who you are close to or know! However, you will, as I said earlier, in a previous comment, learn to open up in time, and one commented about someone being the camera - great idea! But it's still difficult, so as a compromise, may I suggest when you would like to talk to someone, ask them to hold a camera in front of you, so you think you're still just talking to a camera!
@CameraDAN-p7g I get you, that's why I said what I did in both my comments - it's a work in progress! But at least you've begun the work, and that's the main thing! Remember, we're here for you too, buddy! There's never no one!
You are doing great… keep figuring it out… that’s all we can do… there are no right answers… life is all about figuring it out day by day and making the best of it
For someone your age to say they dont have much life experience is extremely mature. We all put on the face we want people to believe we are though we are completely different. you will do well in life, and dont think you have to justify things to anyone, just keep doing what your doing, its all going to fall into place for you.
Don´t be frustrated. Live Your Life as You want. Be Yourself, Get to Know Yourself better, Build Up your Own Life Career and enjoy the hard work that you´ve done for yourself and keep moving on.. Keep on Living. Value yourself, your position, your aspiration, your struggles, and stay strong.
Keep talking; it helps. And you never know when you may help someone with your story. Nice to meet you…as you are. Trust life; she knows best. 😊 Things get better/easier in time. I have discovered that practicing gratitude improves happiness.
Nope, you're not alone either! It's best to get things out, and if this is the only way that works for you - then keep doing it! You will eventually learn and be able to open up to other people, in your own time - there's no rush! Just endeavour to keep strong, being you and do what you do! We're here for you as much as your gf and family would be and want to be! ❤😊
Life is about facing challenges like this, to me it looks like ur on a good track! Not knowing why can be frustrating and scary but that’s just one of the challenges I guess. Even tho you live a privileged life it’s absolutely normal to not feel good from time to time. You are already figuring out how to live your life, keep going!
I see these videos pop up for me all the time. TH-cam is a great platform to make videos like this to express yourself. I’m sure the more you do it, the more cathartic it will be for you. Good luck in your journey. 🪬
All good, but at some point you have to share those feelings with people you trust and love you. It's the way solid relationship build... which is key for happiness in the long run. Regarding anger and frustration, therapy can help you figuring it out. Keep it up! Life has its perks, specially at your age. But just keep going, it gets easier.
If you sit down with those feelings and thoughts and just be and not force, try to feel who is feeling those feelings and where are those feelings. Because you might notice that are those feelings really all that bad? or a they just uncomfortable. So sit with them and feel them. Most important is to know that you are not separate from me or anybody else, you are one with everything and those feelings are just expressions of this experience which we call life. So you don't need to carry life, let life carry you. But hey if you do post and talk how you feel then know that all is fine.
You should try a therapist because then you are talking to someone who doesn't know u and won't be judging. They would get you to do the talking and just guide u to understand yourself, then help verbalise and summarise what you've said. Journaling is also really good to write down your thoughts/feelings as they arise and keep a record - similar to what you're doing with the camera.
great video just be yourself as my freind walter p chrysler jr told me count on one hand how many true freind you have if you have five your rich I am 63 and have made my money and have more then five true freinds
My recommendation is to read the bible....try to discover the purpose of life...As a young dude, you should be full of life and doing as much as you can.
Maybe you are worried of the future? You never know. The way you say you can not express yourself easily you can have some misunderstandings or you just keep them inside. Does this nake you feel really lonely despite having girlfriend and people around you? I wonder if its not the way you grew up in your family - having to sort of kind of hide yourself. Last thing can you try to talk with some health worker?
ckean up the mess in your room. make sport for endorphins and a good body feeling. read books. don't talk to an audience. if you need to talk; find someone. it is not easy, but if you go a path, way, the way offers way more. if not. take a new direction.. that's life.. try,fail, try again, fail, and try again. success.. btw... Sabine Hossenfelder may could be interesting for you...
hey you’re not alone, my bf is very similar to you in the sense that it’s extremely difficult for him to share his feelings. even if it’s just to the camera, keep sharing you’re feelings. good luck!
thank you, i'm 71 years old but i can relate to all of it ... keep at it, life is amazing
@@TonyVitaleTVOD thanks Tony appreciate the support, life truly is amazing 🤝
You’re gorgeous inside n out 🫶🏻
I’m a gay Mexican American currently living in Mexico, I cared for my grandmother with dementia. Bottling up emotions can lead to that. It’s a horrendous incurable disease.
In other words, or to the point, find a method to let your emotions/feelings out. Write it down and toss it, or upload a video, or speak to someone close to you(if you’re comfortable). Do NOT bottle up! Keep your head up and stay strong, you have a long life ahead of you. Take care!
Animotophobia can be debilitating. Seems like you are headed in a positive direction here. You could probably benefit from finding someone who is just a very good listener. A good listener will not need to comment. It is also not necessary to look at the person who is listening. Your anger/frustration is a manifestation of your suppression more than likely. If what you are doing works, then keep doing it. If you need more, then seek a really good listener. If things get worse perhaps counseling as past trauma is often the cause. In any case there are varying degrees of this and if what you are doing can keep the anger/frustration down then good on ya. Now I'm just gonna act like that good listener.
I'm 56 and I'm doing the same thing... in fact we ALL do (whether they tell you or not) Adults are just kids with more orbits around the sun :b Being an adult is about discovering and sharing just like in school, but we do that when we go to work. My advice (even though you didn't ask - sorry 'bout that):
1) Settle into yourself - it's ok to think the way you are thinking. It's ok to not have the answers - most people don't have answers for many things. If someone asks me a question I can't really answer (because I don't know), I might say "Hmmm. That's a really great question - I'm not really sure what I'm feeling. Can you give me a few days to figure out how to articulate what I'm feeling?" This signals that you want to talk about it (with your parents or friends or whoever) and will get back when you can really talk about it;
2) Remember that words are (language is) a construct humans have developed to communicate our internal ideas to other people. But, there aren't words for everything especially when it comes to our feelings. That's why we have weird words like "icky" or "oof" or "hmmm". Some things are easy... "I'm hungry" is inside you and someone else can't do anything about it until you articulate it. So, some "inside" feelings don't have "outside" words - and it's ok to not know them or have to find them. Check this out - there are German words with no English equivalent: www.ef.com/wwen/blog/language/17-german-words-with-no-english-translation/
3) Pick 1 or 2 people that you want to confide your inside to that will listen and not interject. Sometimes your parent(s) can be that, or a brother/sister, or a friend - but find one person that is willing to act as the camera. The reason it's better than a camera?? Hugs. (and actually hearing someone speak "I love you - it's ok").
Good luck Dan!
@@davidallyn1818 thank you means a lot and I appreciate the advise 🤝
It’s important to actually talk out your feelings like this no matter what way you do it. Part of being a human is learning how to process the world as it comes at you - and talking through it like this is one of the most underrated ways. Don’t listen to any haters. You’re in control of your content and your spaces. Especially since guys are told to keep their feelings to themselves, asked to be a statue. You can’t find peace and resolution in yourself without being able to articulate your world and experiences and emotions to yourself. Without it, you’ll just find yourself in a spiral down into despair and self-hatred. Keep going and break the cycle!
For the other things you say in your video - idk if you’d want responses exactly of anything you said - I think it’s fair to feel angry for no reason sometimes. Humans are just as irrational as they are rational. Sometimes we have to accept the fact that sometimes there is no good reason even if we don’t want to admit it. Even if we want there to be one.
What matters more is simply how you live and act because of (or in spite of) that. This is a perfectly productive way to peel things back. Sometimes you gotta vent.
Sometimes perfect isn’t perfect. Routines get boring. Life isn’t how we imagine it. I think it’s fair to say that as we progress as people, we also sometimes realize we are unsatisfied. Maybe it’s about the routines, or the people you see, or your environment. Your life’s in your hands and the best thing you can do is open yourself up to opportunity and seeing possibilities even when you don’t really know why you’re angry sometimes.
I definitely typed a lot but I’ve been thinking about a lot of the same things so hopefully this gives some kind of insight
@@ryejpeg thank you I Appreciate you sharing your take on it and I could not agree more 🤝
I randomly stumbled across this, and I know the feedback of some random guy might not count for much but here’s my take…
I’ve had similar issues in my past, much of this was related to undiagnosed autism (which has since been diagnosed). A lot of what you say does sound like some of the social/ emotional traits related to autism. If you’ve not explored that then it could be worth looking into. The AQ-50 is a good self-assessment tool (it’s not diagnostic in itself but can inform a GP on whether further assessment is needed).
Not dealing with all my pent up emotions and issues hit me hard, it affected others around me because I struggled. Identifying in yourself when something isn’t right is the first step but whatever the case may be, whether it’s autism, depression or anything else - put yourself first, find a way to unlock the issue, don’t let it eat away at you - I made that mistake. So yeah 😕
I’m not saying it is autism - but I relate to a lot of what you’ve said and that for me was linked to my autism, so I’m just putting that out there. It’s also potentially a form of depression.
Even if it’s not autism or depression, what you have said today takes some courage. So give yourself some credit 🙂
I could write more but I don’t want to offend. Like I said I’m just a stranger but I hope in some small way me being open here helps you or someone else.
@@AnthonyFurnivalTrains thank you so much for sharing I am not offended at all, I always thought that I might have social autism, and sharing your story will definitely help others 🤝
@ happy to help - autism is a spectrum condition which affects people in different ways, so it’s always worth looking into. I mean there’s no medication or cure, but just knowing what I was dealing with helped me a lot 🙂
@CameraDAN-p7g never let fear witth in fear its self, to keep you down. Allways keep a strong mind an a strong heart. Lot of people cant express things. Or how to show it. Its about that see being hurt. Stop letting your self down stand up. Keep going you will make it. Always find something keeps you happy.
An motivation is the key in life
What is stirring in your heart in the middle of such division and unrest is Father God being revealed to you. Jesus says, "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."
keep going, thanks for sharing!!
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I think that I resonate a lot with what you’re saying. Thanks for sharing what’s on your mind, I’m listening. TH-cam is such a great outlet for this kind of stuff. Take care
In this uber masculine culture its so hard to express yourself
what uber masculine culture
Может тебе трудно выразить себя потому, что ты идиот? Может это потому, что у тебя нет своих мыслей, и тебе нечего выражать, и ты просто повторяешь глупости про мужскую культуру? )))
Im a gay guy that has so much trouble with talking to people and sharing my real feelings
@Yellow_Apollo well I’m not gay and I have the same problem so I think that us as humans struggle with similar challenges to find different solutions. Just like how there are more than one way to find the right answer to a math problem, anyway thanks for the support ✌🏼
@ yeah
@Yellow_Apollo also I saw you post car content wich is sick I love cars I want a hellcat super stock and a r8 v10 plus
@ haha lmao
I was insecure and introverted as a kid but as I've grown as an adult I am comfortable talking about almost anything, unless I feel shame about something. But shame only comes up if I'm caught in a lie etc which is rare, rare that I lie. I talk about my depression, frustrations, anxiety, and issues around love and s*x. As you are more comfortable with your authentic self, it becomes easier to communicate. You do it quite well here! 😊
Keep going guy! Nobody really cares as you do about your feelings, it's sad but it makes you free. Try to open yourself up, you're no different than anyone else, it's somehow a delusion - the shame, the panic, the fear of rejection of others - because of who you are. You are you, a part of this human consciousness, all you feel and thought of was already said and done in the past, your experience and view of the world will in 99.9% cases be nothing special. The thing which is holding you from a full human experience is the illusion - that you are special. Get close to people, you'll get to know more about yourself by the authentic interactions, like this - you can't understand the unconscious parts of yourself, your experience is much more limited by the fact that you do not share yourself truly. The life on the other side gives you much more possibilities which I feel you're searching for by sharing this video. I wish you good luck in your journey!
This sharing will not bring you the real interactions, we're anonymous, we don't know each other, you need to go outside. People here will in most cases only validate you, which will make the regular narcissism of a human in your state of mind deeper and limit you from going further.
@@hadesbird I didn’t upload this for others, I appreciate the support but I am just sharing my experiences. I appreciate your support and thoughts on the matter
Thanks for sharing! I can totally relate, I’m an introvert and am on the autism spectrum so it can be really difficult at times to talk out my emotions and even talk to people I’m close to. Just keep going and find a good outlet to get those thoughts out! Journaling is something that has helped me as well
Bro got that positive canthal tilt
@@previll 🧏🏼♂️ real
Had what turned out to be a 2 year time span when 1) Decided I couldn't tell anyone anything and therefore decided 2) Not to. As I consider that time, my understanding now is that as the Loner who I naturally am made his way, doing that was a way to adapt to the situation at the time. Which continues. It's no secret what everybody knows.
I hear you man. I also have great difficulty expressing myself - except anonymously, to people I don't know. I totally get it. Sometimes, I am also apparently angry for no reason at all. I can totally relate to that.
I rarely doom scroll, but thanks to TH-cam recommendations I found you. Many of us feel like you, but we may not have the courage to share it, on camera no less. The honesty and feeling is present, and that's refreshing. Glad to have seen your video.
@@gerardoexber thank you means a lot, glad you enjoyed the video
Another random viewer - you came up on my feed. I think it might be a great idea for you to vlog every day for a while. Just share your thoughts every day - and express your heart. You do very well speaking to the camera - it is a great way to sort things out. I will look forward to hearing from you again - and watching your progress!
Hi bud, your video came up in my recommended page. Do you want us to respond and to offer advice or do you just want to express your feelings and leave it at that? If you want us to respond then awesome. You're doing things right. You're recognising your feelings and you're talking about them even if it is to a camera. There will be a lot of people who will impose their opinions on you telling you that you "should do this, or should do that" please be cautious in following advice where people tell you that you SHOULD do anything. Advice is meant to have you consider thoughts and possibilities and make up your own mind on the direction you feel is best for you, so please as soon as you read "you should..." be cautious.
I think you're doing the right thing, you have found a way to talk and that is the start to understand these feelings and impulsions.
Good job bud.
I don't know how old you are but you remind me a little of how i was around 16. With me I was diagnosed with depression but now I think I was probably on the cusp of being neurodivergent or just hormonal. I was angry all the time too but for me it was me dealing with past trauma from what you might call middle school from age 11 to 14. Here that's the age we go to high school. Back then I didn't have a vocabulary to describe to adults what I was feeling. Once I had a vocabulary I would tell every body that would listen. mostly adults, rarely other kids. But that took many years. All that said, I'm not saying you might be experiencing what i did 30 odd years ago but feel free to explore stuff including diet and exercise to see what works for. I will end by saying anger is addictive and can become habitual so just be mindful of that. Good luck 🤞🏽
@hirancpatel1 thank you I appreciate you sharing and I’m glad you have been able to grow 🤝
@CameraDAN-p7g thank you 😁
It's good to let it out from time to time. You are a teenager and things are not supposed to make complete sense yet so don't worry about things when you are happy. Just get along and do what you need to do.
Sometimes emotions make us angry for no good reason when hormones are zooming around our bodies. Sometimes friends act in a way we think is not them. It's all part of growing up into adults and becoming the person we will be.
What I am saying is you are a normal teen with normal feelings but you can always come here and let things of your chest and know there are faceless people who care even though you don't know them. Take care out there but most of all enjoy yourself and have fun.
Life is a journey, not a destination. A cliche, but also true. People will come and join you along your journey and leave you and continue along with their journey. You should be happy for them because it is what the need to do for their journey. You need to embrace it as a good thing, because it is a good thing and not let it unsettle you. I hope this might be useful.
i am the same way too it is difficult for me to share my feelings
Same problem here and got over it. You are fine.
@@teddey123 thanks man I am doing great
Cute boy. Your life will be good. I'm sure of it.
I can sooo relate to this! People sometimes asks me “what’s wrong?” and I feel weird answering that I don’t know but honestly sometimes I have no idea how I feel and other times how I feel doesn’t at all match what’s going on in my life at the moment. Thank you for sharing!
Feelings - my deep feelings were transformed into words. I wrote a poem book - deep emotions and dreams. Writing is one. What you doing is helpful to express yourself verbally.
Sports or weightlifting is a way to release energy and anger. Can be swimming, walking, anything.
Hey, buddy, listen! Get out there with your friends, experience the world around you, create new experiences to immerse your daily life with! Doing it will provide you with tons of new thoughts to ponder over. Your goal is to make yourself SO involved in good thinking, so much so you wouldn't have your busy mind buzzzzzing around.
Also, are your friends dudes you can talk to about sh*t that happens? I bet if you opened up to them, they'd allow themselves to get out of their own shell (do it gradually). At your age, sharing too much with your girl may prove to be a "downer", though I don't know her - how mature she is.
One last thing - making sense of this world around us, when only yesterday you were just a kid, without a care in the world, just watching toonies and playing around with your toys - is extremely daunting. There's just no manual, no user-guide. Don't you have an older cousin? An older brother? (or even younger - you can figure things out together) Maybe you two have gotten yourselves into a rut and haven't figured out you two can help each other out?
Food for thought, man!
@@roearchive6366 thanks for your thoughts man, I Appreciate you sharing your wisdom 🤝
Good to express yourself bro. Keep doing it. Good not to bottle things up.
It's easier to talk to a camera...how interesting. 🐧🍎🍏💙
There are a lot of people who find it hard to share things. It generally gets easier the older you get as we become more secure. The irony of it is the more you talk the more it relieves itself. If it is helping then carry on what you are doing. We all have a mask to wear, smiling on the outside and crying on the inside. It is what makes us human. Anyway I guess what I am trying to say is focus on positives, you are loved and you have a purpose.
@@kenjewell5619 thank you for the support
Firstly, the important thing is to talk about your feelings and not bottle them up. Whether you talk to a camera, a friend or a counselor/therapist doesn’t matter as long as you’re talking about them. Secondly, do you best to not stay in your negative feelings any longer than necessary. You can’t have the positive emotions without the negative ones because it’s all about balance.
Everybody’s different. Ignore the pressure to share everything but find a couple of people who gradually you feel ok with (no demands and no expectations) and, with them, set up rules for divulging anything that “troubles” you. Your fear of being judged or people being too intimate makes you panic about loss of control - that’s why you feel defensive. And yes you do know how to express yourself…. this video is proof. You sound to me like a young man whose expectations of himself are too great, too burdensome. If talking to a camera does something positive for you then keep doing it. You’re ok but talking about your feelings etc is something that we learn how to do, for many of us it doesn’t come naturally. Trust and confidence take time. Slow down and you’ll learn how to do this, probably imperfectly, but you’ll get there.
I don’t know why I got recommended this but you seem wholesome. Congrats on being blessed by YT algorithm
@@lucasallenlittle thanks man it’s crazy how fast it has grown
It’s hard at times to express your feelings and emotions. It’s nice that you express to the camera and people replying by commenting. If it helps you feel more relieved have at it and ones will be there for you 👍
Hey, you do you and express yourself however you want... Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combinations!
Your picking up the anger and frustration from the people around you. Not necessarily family and friends but strangers. Empathy can come in the form of feelings that aren't yours.
You are way ahead of most folks your age. You have insightful self-awareness which will allow you to process your pain to a successful resolution. Plus you can laugh at yourself - a great quality!
@@flyjet787 thank you man 🤝
I know different people have different causes of their feelings and some can feel extremely depressed, anxious, etc without any specific cause. I'm in my mid 20s and I've been angry, depressed had anxiety and so much ever since i was in middle school. I've also always felt like im not deserving of life and shouldn't be here for all those years. I've always known the cause of all of that, and thats becaue I've been gay for as long as i can remember. Never chose it, never asked for it, never wanted it, but i always was and theres only 1 thing that can change that.... yet for some reason I'm still here and idk why
@@Svalinn-s1j I’m sorry to hear that man but thanks for sharing 👍🏼
Talking to a camera helps because you know the camera doesn't judge you and that's quite alright. Practice opening up (just a little at a time) to your camera first, girlfriend, family and see that they are just as insecure opening up. What you're dealing with is normal. The phrase that gets me through the day is "Everyone knows my deepest, darkest secrets and frankly, they don't give a damned - so why am I getting hung up on it?". Not sure if that's true or not but helps me get through the day lol
@@houstonfirefox they actually all have seen this video and I have been able to talk about it a lot more openly, thank you for the support btw ✌🏼
@@CameraDAN-p7g Awesome! I'm on the autism spectrum so I have trouble keeping eye contact or opening up to all but a very few. Of those I trust and have opened up to, they give me a hug, laugh it off and reassure me that we all deal with these things, some very personal. My advice to you is to enjoy your life, let it be known what YOU want to be let known and let the other stuff rest until the time is right - no need to rush anything. You remind me a lot of myself in my earlier years so just know things get a lot easier going forward 🙂
@@houstonfirefox thank you for all the wise words, I have got a lot to learn but I think recognizing that is part of the process, again thank you for the support
Oh, by the way, I doubt personally that it is either/or autism or depression, which some people have commented and suggested!
Some people, like myself, just find it difficult to talk to people, expressing and opening up our deepest thoughts and feelings! It's fairly normal really to be like that.
It's not because you don't trust those who you are close to or know!
However, you will, as I said earlier, in a previous comment, learn to open up in time, and one commented about someone being the camera - great idea! But it's still difficult, so as a compromise, may I suggest when you would like to talk to someone, ask them to hold a camera in front of you, so you think you're still just talking to a camera!
@@ian_bradley it’s really not that bad but I just don’t like to share like a lot of people, I have gotten better at it tho fs
@CameraDAN-p7g I get you, that's why I said what I did in both my comments - it's a work in progress! But at least you've begun the work, and that's the main thing! Remember, we're here for you too, buddy! There's never no one!
you're really brave. thank you for sharing!
You are doing great… keep figuring it out… that’s all we can do… there are no right answers… life is all about figuring it out day by day and making the best of it
Where words fail actions speak.
You're inspiring and so brave. Thank you for sharing this. You're going to help a lot of people with this.
@@DanWalksLA thanks Dan, from Dan to a Dan that means a lot 🤝
Bro Kermit in the background says it all 🙂
For someone your age to say they dont have much life experience is extremely mature. We all put on the face we want people to believe we are though we are completely different. you will do well in life, and dont think you have to justify things to anyone, just keep doing what your doing, its all going to fall into place for you.
Don´t be frustrated. Live Your Life as You want. Be Yourself, Get to Know Yourself better, Build Up your Own Life Career and enjoy the hard work that you´ve done for yourself and keep moving on.. Keep on Living. Value yourself, your position, your aspiration, your struggles, and stay strong.
Express yourself, we all need to love and respect each other.Positivity
You're amazing. Keep up the good work
Thank you stranger ❤
Keep talking; it helps. And you never know when you may help someone with your story. Nice to meet you…as you are. Trust life; she knows best. 😊 Things get better/easier in time. I have discovered that practicing gratitude improves happiness.
Nope, you're not alone either! It's best to get things out, and if this is the only way that works for you - then keep doing it! You will eventually learn and be able to open up to other people, in your own time - there's no rush! Just endeavour to keep strong, being you and do what you do! We're here for you as much as your gf and family would be and want to be! ❤😊
Life is about facing challenges like this, to me it looks like ur on a good track! Not knowing why can be frustrating and scary but that’s just one of the challenges I guess. Even tho you live a privileged life it’s absolutely normal to not feel good from time to time. You are already figuring out how to live your life, keep going!
I see these videos pop up for me all the time. TH-cam is a great platform to make videos like this to express yourself. I’m sure the more you do it, the more cathartic it will be for you. Good luck in your journey. 🪬
@@ShadowSeekerTarot thank you for the support
All good, but at some point you have to share those feelings with people you trust and love you. It's the way solid relationship build... which is key for happiness in the long run. Regarding anger and frustration, therapy can help you figuring it out. Keep it up! Life has its perks, specially at your age. But just keep going, it gets easier.
Frustrated and mad. That sounds like me. Thanks for sharing.
If you sit down with those feelings and thoughts and just be and not force, try to feel who is feeling those feelings and where are those feelings. Because you might notice that are those feelings really all that bad? or a they just uncomfortable. So sit with them and feel them. Most important is to know that you are not separate from me or anybody else, you are one with everything and those feelings are just expressions of this experience which we call life. So you don't need to carry life, let life carry you. But hey if you do post and talk how you feel then know that all is fine.
you ever been hypnotized?
@@dipazlip nah but it sounds fun
You should try a therapist because then you are talking to someone who doesn't know u and won't be judging. They would get you to do the talking and just guide u to understand yourself, then help verbalise and summarise what you've said. Journaling is also really good to write down your thoughts/feelings as they arise and keep a record - similar to what you're doing with the camera.
I feel you dude... godspeed
great video just be yourself as my freind walter p chrysler jr told me count on one hand how many true freind you have if you have five your rich I am 63 and have made my money and have more then five true freinds
@@jamielieberg7053 love breaking bad, also thanks man
Keep going and you are important.
You're so handsome😍
I enjoy the piano of Geagre Gershwin and most modern composition from Glenn Millerr to Aerosmith. Your oK.
@@perrycomeau2627 thanks for sharing
I'll listen to you anytime. Handsome young man you will get comfortable just keep working. Much love to you❤
Why I'm here - money
@@Skidoo22 tbh man that was never my goal but if I can make some I am not going to complain, I get why you would say that though
You did a really great thing by making this video.
@@jamesfernandes4558 thank you so much 🤝
God’s blessings ❤
Love the channel bro 💪
@LynkUpKid17 thanks bro 🤝
Hellcat red eye
Usually when people are frustrated and or angry it's because their needs aren't getting met.🤔
My pink panther.
all I have to say is *meow*
My recommendation is to read the bible....try to discover the purpose of life...As a young dude, you should be full of life and doing as much as you can.
Awesome not many people can talk to a camera and open up like you have / Onwards to 1k Subscribers
very breedable eyes ngl
Hello👋 I just subscribed to your channel today, and I also just gave you a like now.👌👍
@@leoancherani2223 thanks man 🙏
Track hawk
Maybe you are worried of the future? You never know. The way you say you can not express yourself easily you can have some misunderstandings or you just keep them inside. Does this nake you feel really lonely despite having girlfriend and people around you?
I wonder if its not the way you grew up in your family - having to sort of kind of hide yourself.
Last thing can you try to talk with some health worker?
helloooooo, i like your 2 videos 🥰😍🥰😍
'Why I’m here…'?
Because someone needs to clean your room.
@@strongspiritmindprojects9446 yeah I’ve been meaning to do that 😂, I am moving soon so it is kind of a mess
@@CameraDAN-p7g 'I am moving soon'?
Me too.
Waiting to hear back from a housing contact
from this morning's appointment.
Moving sucks.
Waiting sucks.
@ could not agree more, good luck
@@CameraDAN-p7g Whever I get anxious,
I think about all the people in L.A.
that have to move.
Without their sh*t.
You should try comedy, but don't change your tone of voice. It'd be hilarious.
@@haroldtruffman thanks, when I am not so serious I am pretty funny so keep watching and you will see, thanks for the support
@CameraDAN-p7g there's nothing funnier than being funny by being serious.
ckean up the mess in your room.
make sport for endorphins and a good body feeling.
read books.
don't talk to an audience. if you need to talk; find someone.
it is not easy, but if you go a path, way, the way offers way more. if not. take a new direction.. that's life..
try,fail, try again, fail, and try again. success..
btw...
Sabine Hossenfelder may could be interesting for you...
@@BobusKozerogus thank you for the recommendations 🤝
@CameraDAN-p7g you are welcome ...
Who are you talking to ? You are looking to your right than.straight ahead into where the camera is supposed to be reading notes ?
@@bobf.5538 my camera has a screen and I have it turned so I can look at myself as I record
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Hi.
@@RielVillaroel hi 👋 😁
@@CameraDAN-p7g 🤗
All the best for You !
Hello guy❤🤝✋👍🙏🏻💪
@@pablodejesus1373 hi 👋
Thank you👍✋
Nice 😊
You may have higher testosterone levels than normal which may lead to elevated anger issues. I would check with your doctor to see if that's the case.
@@AryaStarkTheExplorer I do have very high testosterone so it is possible
Good video, but clean yo room
@@jasonberkowitz4754 thank you I will make sure to do that 😂
Money
You look like logagm
In AA I learned that anger is actually fear. And fear is a lack of faith in God.
Happy Monday night from Palm Beach Florida awesome guy 💯
How old r u? Have you heard of Jesus