Give some credit to Alpha Male Strategies. I'm sure he's influenced you. A lot of your vids are exact copies of his but customized for a less urban demographic.
you all probably dont give a shit but does anybody know a tool to get back into an Instagram account..? I was dumb forgot the login password. I appreciate any tips you can offer me
Masculinity needs to be sharpened regularly. Carrying over the lesson from previous videos: you have to be willing to walk away from things; women, fun times, etc to go sharpen the sword.
@@David_Hammond This happened to me recently man... this girl i was hoping to begin dating after 3 months of talking... told me something on the same lines about 1 week back... the last telcon we had she said I miss that assertiveness in you to call the shots and continue doing what you used to do... i realise now.... i slipped .. became too soft with her affection.. and its gone to shit since ... we have not spoken for 10+ days now .. there are other issues too besides this... but the talk ended on these lines
I never tolerate disrespect from anyone, especially from women. My standards as a man are very high, so I am always ready to walk away from people who try intentionally or unintentionally to cross the boundaries I set
Have to, real shit. It’s a cold world. I’ve personally found the key is being a kind person by default while being able to be absolutely cold as shit if necessary serves well.
That's why I believe to be "alpha" is a state of mind rather than a whole thing. We are going to slip up and get out of the masculine frame, we are only human but we all as men can possess alpha qualities that keep us in the frame
Right. It is a state of mind and when we start to slip out of that state we gotta get back on that grind. When my time is freed up or I begin to have more expectations of people/my wife, I begin to fall out of that state of mind.
"The opposite of love is indifference" ~ I'm 60 & from the UK ... & although I've been saying that for years, this is the first time I've heard someone else articulate it. "We slip up. We fall off our missions. Be aware of it" ~ these two statements / quotes earned my SUB. Most guys on YT giving solid, valiant red pill advice are in truth just parroting Rollo. Nothing wrong with appreciating & reflecting truth at an intellectual level, but you have cognition & understanding at an intuitive level. Bravo Sir
I'm 16 and I workout almost everyday. What you said about going to the gym and crushing it when your outside of the relationship is true. You limit yourself when you lean on her she is supposed to lean on you. Keep the frame men let's get it
Today when my girlfriend looked at me (when I normaly would say something generic or give her a kiss) I placed my attention within me. What happened wasnt fun for her like she wasnt overly exited. It wasnt her ego being touched. What happened was litteraly that she looked at me very serious like shocked (i thought because she thought I was distant) and said to me, I am falling in love with you all over again. Seriously dude this keeping within your own frame and building from within stuff is magic.
David Hammond BTW love the insight that she will be able to go back on her position as you take up yours. I think thats so true. It gives her space to relax and to focus on what she is good at and to be in the energy that comes natural to her. Thats massive beauty. Btw2, I would advice you not to focus on the subscriber count to much. Rather I would advice you to stay on the track you are right now and build a high quality (people that really vibe with your style) base in stead of a high quantity base. Also, wanting subscribers takes you out of your position of massive abundance. Just do you and see what comes from it and yes great things will come to you thats for sure. Dont know if that makes sense.
I met a girl earlier this year where we dated a couple times then she suddenly pulled away. At the time I did not care that much because I was busy living my life working, gym, live poker and going out with friends. I ended up getting back in touch with her right around the start of Corona where gyms closed, casinos closed, work became stressful. I started to become a bit needy and lost my masculinity since Corona. Pretty much fucked it up with the girl not too long ago. Had a lot of time to read and watch videos of building attraction and masculinity. Out of all that I've read and watched one thing is clear. If it is not natural to you, do the opposite that you're emotions are telling you to do. Be a man, don't show too much emotion, keep yourself busy and DON'T CHASE EVER AGAIN.
Can't stress it enough bro. I have slipped many times myself and I keep slipping. But the problem is so many men have become "femininized" and society allows it to flourish that you begin to think it is how men should normally be. Make a video describing the qualities of a masculine frame.
I've always felt that both men and women were "feminine". Idk if this has anything to do with me being abused as a child by my father, and spending little time with my mother. I guess I just ignored my own suffering in order to falsely believe that we're all innocent. I still look at people as their 100% innocent unless their energy tells otherwise.
Everything you said is completely true, wish I could’ve implemented this idea since the beginning of last year, my enlightenment journey has been hell of a rollercoaster. Once you’re awaken, don’t put or force yourself back to sleep. Stay awoken and be positive
Before the corona virus, I had been working out and overall was happy with myself. I was almost at my peak physically and then a girl came into my life. This girl was obsessed with me, talked highly of me, but at the same time had troubles with alcoholism and depression as well as major baggage from the past that she had not let go of, which pushed me away at the beginning of the relationship. I kept a masculine frame and she (more than likely) subconsciously felt that energy which drove her to want me, until I became attached. I slowly stopped going to the gym, working on myself, and dumped all of my time into her until my masculinity subsided and I became needy. This pushed her away which in turn made me become more needy until she broke up with me and left me for the guy she told me not to worry about. Aside from her toxic traits, each relationship is a lesson for men to understand how to act and react, as well as keeping that masculine frame CONSTANTLY throughout a relationship. Never lose sight of the true man you are. Also, know when to leave a relationship when your gut tells you it's wrong. This channel is so important man, Thank you.
Wow. This is exactly what happened in my last relationship. In the beginning, I had my masculine frame and she had her feminine frame and it was good. As soon as this began to switch, things got consistently worse the more the frames shifted. She was mentally abusive and manipulative, and I saw these things, but I let it slide, like the simp I was. I put up with it because I loved her. And looking back, I see that the roles had switched. She "wore the pants" and I let her lead. I became a beat dog that just wanted to avoid any fights. Just like you said... the arguments got worse. She even said the two things you said... she wasn't attracted to me anymore and that she was indifferent. She just didn't care anymore. She had lost any respect she had for me. It wasn't just indifference, but outright disrespect. And my simp ass just let it continue until she finally broke up with me. She had tried many times before, and I always fought to convince her to stay. The last time, I didn't. Within DAYS of the breakup, I began to see the abuse, manipulation and disrespect for what it was. I had forgotten everything I learned about the red pill. Or at least, conveniently dismissed it, like an idiot. I saw how I had become a shell, or a ghost of the man I was when I met her. That guy would have NEVER put up with shit like that from ANYONE. I knew who I was. What I was worth. I was perfectly happy being alone. Its crazy how things like this happen. Great info, Brother. This is the kind of thing that can wake someone up. I wish I had heard it a few years ago, lol
3 years ago i was in the same situation, i've been single since then and people regulary asks me why i am single. I'm trying to become what i was before and also improve some things
@@saamaadii831 I waited 4 months to contact her. And even then, only because I needed to get something of mine back from her. It didn't go well. Every time, she continued with the gaslighting, blame-shifting and emotional abuse. But I didn't play into it. Just stayed on the point. This only made her more angry. But from my perspective, when we were together, I had to be her verbal and emotional punching bag if I wanted to stay with her. Now... hell naw. She isn't entitled to that anymore. And her trying was actually... sad. Even my counselor was like "OMG, she has serious issues." lol. We are no longer speaking at all. And no, I didn't get my shit back, lol I'm saying all this, because I hope it helps. Counseling helps. It's helped me start to be the man I was again. And contacting the ex did not go well, but part of it was because I waited 4 months to do it. If you are going to try to get her back, I wouldn't wait that long. It seems to have made things much worse. If you are not, then carefully weigh if contacting her, for whatever reason, is wise to your own self. Your sanity, stress, health, time, and life as a whole. Believe me, the stress alone can impact you in ways you would never imagine.
@@theiconoclast651 I can relate to how you felt during that relationship 100% my ex is aswell that type of manipulate girl, its so fucking stressful sometimes, but we actually sync pretty well, atleast at the beginning it was so nice both cared for each other. I simped aswell at the end of the relationship which seems to have made the situation worse because i know my ex doesn't like those type of guys and she said in the start that i don't need to simp and be her puppy. Our communication was not the best because we both are introverted but I love this girl and we both have been quite toxic to each other... I think you can understand my situation :D
Stand your Ground. Focus on Being Present With. Interact with the World via your Mental Energy and Facial Expressions. Verbally Communicate by penetrating your own mind with every syllable which will in effect penetrate their mind as well. They might get emotional but they'll respect it and adjust around your Groundedness.
Thank you soo much - this has really reenergised me to start thinking back to how I used to think. Its sooo easy to forget and lose focus of your masculine frame. This has been sooo helpful.
Dang bro! Good on you for blowing this channel up🔥🔥💣💥 No content creator should ever hate on another, instead they should be refreshed to see what's possible with hard work & talent. Much respect man👊
This video is 100% true . I grew up mostly with My mother as my dad used to be gone weeks at a time for work . So I developed a more feminine side, I would almost always attract and get into relationships with women who never had fathers. Ones who were more “Masculine” they would be attracted to me because I did have a Masculine side, but when I got into those relationships I would become comfortable and slip up , and became more feminine. Caring too much, making sure she was always ok, always saying sorry, opening myself too much. ETC.. I would slowly start to feel each one of those women in my relationships drift away. They start to revert back to their masculine tendencies and I would lose them.
Don't know how I came across your channel but hey, love hearing you while working and I've been gaining a whole new perspective about relationships which has helped me a lot with a not so good one. Keep up the good work and thank you!
I swear to god this man is on a another level. I want really be like him and have the same knowledge as him. Seem like he knows a lot because of experience but if there are some books behind it I want to know so I can read them too
Order and chaos are the yang and yin of the famous Taoist symbol: Order is the white masculine serpent; Chaos, its black, feminine counterpart. The black dot in the white and the white in the black- indicate the possibility of transformation: just when things seem secure, the unknown can loom, unexpectedly and large. Conversely, just when everything seems lost, new order can emerge from catastrophe and chaos. For the Taoists, meaning is to be found on the border between the ever-entwined pair. To walk that boarder is to stay on the path of life, the divine Way. And that's much better than happiness.
Excuse my dumb picture and username I made this account many many years ago but I recently came upon your CHANNEL and I'm going through a very tough breakup right now with the girl I've been with for 7 years, it's never easy knowing you were probably the main reason for the break up and it's been hard to FORGIVE myself of my past actions. I'm going to watch all of your videos and hopefully I can get some help because I truly need it. I look up to people like you man!
I just found your channel and I have watched a few of your videos and plan on watching a ton more and then implementing these steps into my life and hope for the best!! Thank you!
Why there are not millions of followers in your page I guess you are doing really great brother and I pray for you to get success and achieve every steps by taking steps in your life with your knowledge and skill and I believe strongly you will soon get the things which u really wanted to achieve David❤️🕉️ Amen❤️
I remember when my ex was acting up and she was being very cold and uncaring but I was doing my best to work things out with her. But she wasn’t trying and being unreasonable. It’s ok to be sensitive and work things out but as I look back I should have been more stern. I should’ve ended it sooner than I did actually. I didn’t need masculine frame, I should have just left. But if I wanted it to be better being grounded more would get her respect. Plus doing the right thing and not taking her shit and just leaving would have been masculine frame by default. So either I stay or go, masculine frame would be present in either decision. I guess I had delayed masculine frame. I realized you need both in a situation like that if you still want to be with her. You try to work on the issue but hold your side too. But in that situation I didn’t want her at all anyway.
Caring too much shows neediness , the more you try to get close the more she will run from you while leaving is assertive, self respect and that is what women value.
I agree when you said ' men and woman can't be just friends ' you should do a video on this... think it would be quite popular. Keep up the good work, love from London UK 🇬🇧
You're legit bro. I respect your steez. I also know that like millions/billions of people should be hearing my message... I'm still fleshing that out. I have massively important wisdom and information to share to people, so know how much of a compliment that is when I actively choose to say you're legit and have a felt respect for what I see you doing.
Thank you for this video spoke to me ever since COVID; I lost my frame and was becoming needy to women. Finally started working again and working out; I feel free and on my mission too.
I like the way you think 👊🏼 always gotta keep your energies balanced but know when you gotta step up ! 20yrs yung still learning from my own and others experiences
Nikhil Rocks Under stressfull conditions i am more calm and masculine then under "normal" circumstamces. There i often feel anxious or something. However when i experience something stressfull i get into this higher state of me and i'm perfectly calm. It's insane. I'm a Hunter i guess - or ADHD.
@@David_Hammond Great, thats what I just did. very important, plus give your self a minute or 2 to fully understand the situation in order to respond to it within your frame instead of responding to it when you are angry.
One of the main reasons we as men lose our masculine frame is that women constantly test us unconsciously. It's in women's nature to always screen men to see if we are worthy of being the father of their child (again unconsciously). If we fail those tests, we will begin to fall and they begin to rise until we hit that neutral stage and start to lose interest in each other. When I think of my last ex-girlfriend this is so true. Our roles switched completely and I understand very clearly now why we eventually had to break up.
Good morning sir.sir i have a request .Can u plz make a video on How to make a lot of friends & How to have the spark in relationship forever .as starting phase?
Never really comment on videos but after a recent stage of developing anxiety, I can honestly say your video's are inspiring! thank you so much. They have helped me gain perspective and purpose
David, with the rate of increasing subs, I bet in another month you’ll be at 100k. You deserve it man and thank you for the motivation too, I’m gonna take this motivation to grow my gaming channel. 🔥
First one of your vids i watch. As soon as you spoke on the whole thing with problematic women being associated to absence of a father figure i knew you were valid. I subbed
I think this video deserves a millions of views all men need to hear the things that's coming from your brain.... Keep going david i wish you good luck ❤️❤️
it's good to be able to balance both your masculine and feminine energy's. balance is an important part of life and everyone should strive for it. but around women I do believe it's good to remain masculine.
5:11 wow I'm impressed you are encouraging guys to be responsible for their own masculinity 🔥 in general everyone should reflect on themselves instead of blaming everyone for their problems.
i knew i had a feeling i was slipping up but i wasnt sure how to make sense of it, so fucking glad i found this video and its helped me be aware, my fuckin guy!
Hi David, your video is very great and easy to understand. Could you please do a video about on and off relationship? And how to deal with break up when she dumped you?
David, you've got some really good ideas and have a knack for spotting truth. Plus, I can tell you genuinely want to help the fellas who don't have that "edge", so, Props Bro. I would, with absolute humility and respect, like to offer you a couple insights that, should you choose to be open to them, may help in your delivery in videos like these. I'm REALLY GLAD I found this, cuz it was totally random, I was actually looking for a song I want on my AM shower spotify mix and I stumbled on another video of yours. It's called "let her walk away" or something close to that. And then this one was a "suggested pick" from the TH-cam God's. So, after checking em out, I was thinking that, with all the positivity you have and the intelligent points you have to make, maybe it would be a good idea to take 5 minutes before recording and, just sort of mentally form an outline of what ideas/concepts you would like to get across, with emphasis on the more important material and just do a mental "run thru" so that once you hit record, you have your stuff lined up like bang bang bang, I think you'll be more focused and coherent (and bro, this ain't AT ALL saying u aren't coherent etc, but I think you could be more so) I also think that, to bring your audience along with you by using little examples that "they/we" can easily identify with, like, with what you term as holding/maintaining a masculine frame (agreed, SO IMPORTANT) I think a GREAT example of what erodes your masculinity is like, when you get too complacent with your girl or a girl you're trying to lock down buying your dinner, or drinks, or whatever. If she has to keep reaching down into that purse to cover you, or, to keep the night going, you're GIVING away your masculinity, and, as you pointed out, she is totally absorbing it and, eventually, owning it. But, you're SO dead on, when a woman owns your masculinity, that's an IMMEDIATE loss of interest. And I see a lot of guys these days falling into that. Sure, it may have even started with you thinking that you want to empower her, and like, not be a male chauvinist pig, you know, like with the females who pop off like "I don't NEED you holding the door for me." It's a fine line, you know, follow REASONABLE direction, but, when 2 people are dancing, who is supposed to lead? A man is supposed to lead, and in turn, the lady will fit into that "frame" (I dig that word for it bro) and she in turn, can reveal her femininity, and go off on the dance floor, spinnin:' around, dippin' shakin'and making you look and feel like a total stud, as she looks totally fine, and that, is a decent (not perfect) metaphor for a relationship. It's all just a big goofy mating dance, but, like our ancestors, we do what we gotta do to further our seed or whatever, and voíla! Shoot man, if any of that seems like it MAY help you succeed here, with vids on youtube, hot me up, I got more. And just like you, I'm all about helping my brothers elevate themselves and their performance etc. That's what my book is all about. And no, I ain't tryin' to sell you one or plug it on YOUR channel. Brothers gotta look out to some extent, look at the ladies, they got how many magazines teaching them how to dress to impress, how to please a man ( or woman) how to tell if he's cheating etc etc, so they are arming themselves with knowledge, and, that's exactly what we need to do in return. So, hey, seriously, good luck with the videos, I'ma check back every now and again and see how you're doing, cuz sh*t Brother, even mentors need mentors (no I ain't tryin'to be one necessarily) or at least some honest and factual advice. 2021 is gonna be our year fellas! Be safe, stay healthy and God Bless.....
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Curious, David, while you are practicing nofap (semen retention) are you still having sex? And to what extent?
Give some credit to Alpha Male Strategies. I'm sure he's influenced you. A lot of your vids are exact copies of his but customized for a less urban demographic.
I agree with this! I've said it myself that when I am with a Masculine man it Automatically Kicks me into femintiy
you all probably dont give a shit but does anybody know a tool to get back into an Instagram account..?
I was dumb forgot the login password. I appreciate any tips you can offer me
@Walter Lucca Instablaster :)
Masculinity needs to be sharpened regularly. Carrying over the lesson from previous videos: you have to be willing to walk away from things; women, fun times, etc to go sharpen the sword.
Sharpen the sword (beat my meat). Got it
Noci ND no sir 💀
Mohammed Idrees which video was you referring to ?please tell
@@nocind6752 bruuuuuuh hahahahaha
💯💯💯
you can always feel when you drift off your frame because in the body it will show up as anxiety
really?...hmmmm....you got me something to think about
100% truth
Holy shit, this answers many things
I wish I knew about this stuff years ago. I am about to be 34 and only now finding out about this stuff.
Still just a pup…..
You dont realize it now but you have a ton of life in front of you.
So basically you suffered and warning us as a brother. Thank you again
Mr. Banerjee that’s all life is my man. 🤟
Aquarius energy
@@David_Hammond This happened to me recently man... this girl i was hoping to begin dating after 3 months of talking... told me something on the same lines about 1 week back... the last telcon we had she said I miss that assertiveness in you to call the shots and continue doing what you used to do... i realise now.... i slipped .. became too soft with her affection.. and its gone to shit since ... we have not spoken for 10+ days now .. there are other issues too besides this... but the talk ended on these lines
good to see someone from same community :)
This dude is officially my mentor now
same to me bro💪
Same wtf--- I love him
Big fucking yes
Definitely 👌💯
Same
I never tolerate disrespect from anyone, especially from women. My standards as a man are very high, so I am always ready to walk away from people who try intentionally or unintentionally to cross the boundaries I set
Respect
Have to, real shit. It’s a cold world. I’ve personally found the key is being a kind person by default while being able to be absolutely cold as shit if necessary serves well.
@@Natepullup true, its very nice if you can be most kind person and be cold as ice
Walking away is powerful.
You sound high maintenance.
That's why I believe to be "alpha" is a state of mind rather than a whole thing. We are going to slip up and get out of the masculine frame, we are only human but we all as men can possess alpha qualities that keep us in the frame
Right. It is a state of mind and when we start to slip out of that state we gotta get back on that grind. When my time is freed up or I begin to have more expectations of people/my wife, I begin to fall out of that state of mind.
We all slip up.
"The opposite of love is indifference" ~ I'm 60 & from the UK ... & although I've been saying that for years, this is the first time I've heard someone else articulate it. "We slip up. We fall off our missions. Be aware of it" ~ these two statements / quotes earned my SUB. Most guys on YT giving solid, valiant red pill advice are in truth just parroting Rollo. Nothing wrong with appreciating & reflecting truth at an intellectual level, but you have cognition & understanding at an intuitive level. Bravo Sir
I'm 16 and I workout almost everyday. What you said about going to the gym and crushing it when your outside of the relationship is true. You limit yourself when you lean on her she is supposed to lean on you. Keep the frame men let's get it
17 and I’m on that fitness journey like you. Good job bro
@@jimlan5822 Same bro👌💯
kid's are not allowed here😆
Same bro
@@ecstacyave6714 18 year old here 👀
Today when my girlfriend looked at me (when I normaly would say something generic or give her a kiss) I placed my attention within me.
What happened wasnt fun for her like she wasnt overly exited. It wasnt her ego being touched.
What happened was litteraly that she looked at me very serious like shocked (i thought because she thought I was distant) and said to me, I am falling in love with you all over again. Seriously dude this keeping within your own frame and building from within stuff is magic.
David Bloem yes bro. It works wonders. Keep it up and let this be an inspiration to all other men. 💯🙏
David Bloem what exactly is it that you’re doing ?
Enrique Espinoza How do you mean?
David Hammond BTW love the insight that she will be able to go back on her position as you take up yours.
I think thats so true. It gives her space to relax and to focus on what she is good at and to be in the energy that comes natural to her.
Thats massive beauty.
Btw2, I would advice you not to focus on the subscriber count to much. Rather I would advice you to stay on the track you are right now and build a high quality (people that really vibe with your style) base in stead of a high quantity base.
Also, wanting subscribers takes you out of your position of massive abundance. Just do you and see what comes from it and yes great things will come to you thats for sure. Dont know if that makes sense.
What do you mean you started putting attention on yourself?
I met a girl earlier this year where we dated a couple times then she suddenly pulled away. At the time I did not care that much because I was busy living my life working, gym, live poker and going out with friends. I ended up getting back in touch with her right around the start of Corona where gyms closed, casinos closed, work became stressful. I started to become a bit needy and lost my masculinity since Corona. Pretty much fucked it up with the girl not too long ago. Had a lot of time to read and watch videos of building attraction and masculinity. Out of all that I've read and watched one thing is clear. If it is not natural to you, do the opposite that you're emotions are telling you to do. Be a man, don't show too much emotion, keep yourself busy and DON'T CHASE EVER AGAIN.
Now what?? She came back?
@Blackjoy Official facts the virtuous woman will let u pursue her
Thanks for the advice man
Can't stress it enough bro. I have slipped many times myself and I keep slipping. But the problem is so many men have become "femininized" and society allows it to flourish that you begin to think it is how men should normally be.
Make a video describing the qualities of a masculine frame.
Ahmad will do my man! :)
I've always felt that both men and women were "feminine". Idk if this has anything to do with me being abused as a child by my father, and spending little time with my mother. I guess I just ignored my own suffering in order to falsely believe that we're all innocent. I still look at people as their 100% innocent unless their energy tells otherwise.
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@@David_Hammond can you link the vid about qualities of a masculine frame?
Everything you said is completely true, wish I could’ve implemented this idea since the beginning of last year, my enlightenment journey has been hell of a rollercoaster. Once you’re awaken, don’t put or force yourself back to sleep. Stay awoken and be positive
Before the corona virus, I had been working out and overall was happy with myself. I was almost at my peak physically and then a girl came into my life. This girl was obsessed with me, talked highly of me, but at the same time had troubles with alcoholism and depression as well as major baggage from the past that she had not let go of, which pushed me away at the beginning of the relationship. I kept a masculine frame and she (more than likely) subconsciously felt that energy which drove her to want me, until I became attached. I slowly stopped going to the gym, working on myself, and dumped all of my time into her until my masculinity subsided and I became needy. This pushed her away which in turn made me become more needy until she broke up with me and left me for the guy she told me not to worry about. Aside from her toxic traits, each relationship is a lesson for men to understand how to act and react, as well as keeping that masculine frame CONSTANTLY throughout a relationship. Never lose sight of the true man you are. Also, know when to leave a relationship when your gut tells you it's wrong. This channel is so important man, Thank you.
The Way Of The Superior Man this book truly relates to this video. Keep it up brother!
MrBotia yes! My favourite book. 😊🙏
I actually gott that book today, I was reading atomic attraction and how to be a 3% man, so much valuable Info
Wow. This is exactly what happened in my last relationship. In the beginning, I had my masculine frame and she had her feminine frame and it was good. As soon as this began to switch, things got consistently worse the more the frames shifted. She was mentally abusive and manipulative, and I saw these things, but I let it slide, like the simp I was. I put up with it because I loved her. And looking back, I see that the roles had switched. She "wore the pants" and I let her lead. I became a beat dog that just wanted to avoid any fights.
Just like you said... the arguments got worse. She even said the two things you said... she wasn't attracted to me anymore and that she was indifferent. She just didn't care anymore. She had lost any respect she had for me. It wasn't just indifference, but outright disrespect. And my simp ass just let it continue until she finally broke up with me.
She had tried many times before, and I always fought to convince her to stay. The last time, I didn't.
Within DAYS of the breakup, I began to see the abuse, manipulation and disrespect for what it was. I had forgotten everything I learned about the red pill. Or at least, conveniently dismissed it, like an idiot. I saw how I had become a shell, or a ghost of the man I was when I met her. That guy would have NEVER put up with shit like that from ANYONE. I knew who I was. What I was worth. I was perfectly happy being alone. Its crazy how things like this happen.
Great info, Brother. This is the kind of thing that can wake someone up. I wish I had heard it a few years ago, lol
Im exactly in the dame situation, hope u got back yourself bro, and I must do the same
3 years ago i was in the same situation, i've been single since then and people regulary asks me why i am single. I'm trying to become what i was before and also improve some things
Lmao exact same shit happened to me about a month ago with my gf and we broke up, Now I'll have my confidence but have not yet contacted her at all.
@@saamaadii831 I waited 4 months to contact her. And even then, only because I needed to get something of mine back from her. It didn't go well. Every time, she continued with the gaslighting, blame-shifting and emotional abuse. But I didn't play into it. Just stayed on the point. This only made her more angry. But from my perspective, when we were together, I had to be her verbal and emotional punching bag if I wanted to stay with her. Now... hell naw. She isn't entitled to that anymore. And her trying was actually... sad. Even my counselor was like "OMG, she has serious issues." lol. We are no longer speaking at all. And no, I didn't get my shit back, lol
I'm saying all this, because I hope it helps. Counseling helps. It's helped me start to be the man I was again. And contacting the ex did not go well, but part of it was because I waited 4 months to do it. If you are going to try to get her back, I wouldn't wait that long. It seems to have made things much worse. If you are not, then carefully weigh if contacting her, for whatever reason, is wise to your own self. Your sanity, stress, health, time, and life as a whole. Believe me, the stress alone can impact you in ways you would never imagine.
@@theiconoclast651 I can relate to how you felt during that relationship 100% my ex is aswell that type of manipulate girl, its so fucking stressful sometimes, but we actually sync pretty well, atleast at the beginning it was so nice both cared for each other. I simped aswell at the end of the relationship which seems to have made the situation worse because i know my ex doesn't like those type of guys and she said in the start that i don't need to simp and be her puppy. Our communication was not the best because we both are introverted but I love this girl and we both have been quite toxic to each other... I think you can understand my situation :D
Stand your Ground.
Focus on Being Present With.
Interact with the World via your Mental Energy and Facial Expressions.
Verbally Communicate by penetrating your own mind with every syllable which will in effect penetrate their mind as well.
They might get emotional but they'll respect it and adjust around your Groundedness.
Thank you soo much - this has really reenergised me to start thinking back to how I used to think. Its sooo easy to forget and lose focus of your masculine frame. This has been sooo helpful.
Dang bro! Good on you for blowing this channel up🔥🔥💣💥 No content creator should ever hate on another, instead they should be refreshed to see what's possible with hard work & talent. Much respect man👊
BadBoyD TV *No-BS Empowerment Channel* that’s it man. The more you grow the more I grow! 😤❤️💯
This video is 100% true . I grew up mostly with
My mother as my dad used to be gone weeks at a time for work . So I developed a more feminine side, I would almost always attract and get into relationships with women who never had fathers. Ones who were more “Masculine” they would be attracted to me because I did have a Masculine side, but when I got into those relationships I would become comfortable and slip up , and became more feminine. Caring too much, making sure she was always ok, always saying sorry, opening myself too much. ETC.. I would slowly start to feel each one of those women in my relationships drift away. They start to revert back to their masculine tendencies and I would lose them.
Don't know how I came across your channel but hey, love hearing you while working and I've been gaining a whole new perspective about relationships which has helped me a lot with a not so good one. Keep up the good work and thank you!
That's what the society need to Balance energies, each one of us has a role! Just discovered your channel you're amazing keep it up!
Choaib Yahi 🙏🙏
Wild how synced we are. Have been having these revelations since the weekend. It was a strong end to the week, if i may say. 😉
Ira Dran yes brother! We’re all in sync! 🙏💯
Please don't become like other self development channels like Alpha m etc. which have 3 minute ads on each vid. You're on 11k already btw, keep it up.
M X just use an ad blocker
@@cornevanerk9981 ads are IN the video, you can only skip them yourself.
@Dan 240Z True that, but the videos become way too commercial imo. Unlike David's video's atm which feel way more natural and sincere.
M X lol I Defs won’t have 3 minute ads unless their my own product but yeah man i won’t sell out no worries 😊💯
@@David_Hammond David, its only been a year, you're now at 175k subs... KEEP THE GRIND GOING.💯
Yes, that's it! Brilliantly said. It's something I recently had an epiphany about. Due to retention practice. 😊
another point to add is "money" real world money is power, that means its gotta be one of the most masculine things, chase the bag
I swear to god this man is on a another level. I want really be like him and have the same knowledge as him. Seem like he knows a lot because of experience but if there are some books behind it I want to know so I can read them too
Check out develope attraction on yt, alot of what hes talking is from there
Knowledge comes through experience and sometimes that includes pain. Hopefully you can learn from him and not learn through pain.
Masculine men don't wear earrings.
Order and chaos are the yang and yin of the famous Taoist symbol: Order is the white masculine serpent; Chaos, its black, feminine counterpart. The black dot in the white and the white in the black- indicate the possibility of transformation: just when things seem secure, the unknown can loom, unexpectedly and large. Conversely, just when everything seems lost, new order can emerge from catastrophe and chaos.
For the Taoists, meaning is to be found on the border between the ever-entwined pair. To walk that boarder is to stay on the path of life, the divine Way. And that's much better than happiness.
Excuse my dumb picture and username I made this account many many years ago but I recently came upon your CHANNEL and I'm going through a very tough breakup right now with the girl I've been with for 7 years, it's never easy knowing you were probably the main reason for the break up and it's been hard to FORGIVE myself of my past actions. I'm going to watch all of your videos and hopefully I can get some help because I truly need it. I look up to people like you man!
Way to articulate what i and probley a bunch of men have been circulating around trying to pinpoint for years. Cheers to you. Subscribed!
I’ll hug you if I see you in Toronto, I’m near Kipling 🙌
Thank you for your clarity
I never commented on any video in my life , thank you so much you saved a beautiful relationship, thanks boss❤️
You don't know how long i have been looking for a channel just to help me with my life. Thank you
Had to learn the hard way holding masculine frame is always important. CONGRATS ON 10K we hit 11k already growing stonger and faster
Redwan rexz thats it man! Hopefully 12K by tonight! 🙏💯
what does it actually mean to hold your masculine energy
I just found your channel and I have watched a few of your videos and plan on watching a ton more and then implementing these steps into my life and hope for the best!! Thank you!
“So many of you guys say, David, you deserve hundreds of thousands of subscribers...I KNOW.” 😂😂 Yessir!! I love this
Bro you just verbalized everything that I've been saying' you got some gemini there lol good stuff champ👑🔥
Dude you are always dropping gems thank you bro ❤️❤️
Why there are not millions of followers in your page I guess you are doing really great brother and I pray for you to get success and achieve every steps by taking steps in your life with your knowledge and skill and I believe strongly you will soon get the things which u really wanted to achieve David❤️🕉️ Amen❤️
This is a great explanation David 👌👏
You've taken the old cliche "opposites attract" and gone DEEP with it. Love it
krassfilms yes 100%! 💯🤟
I remember when my ex was acting up and she was being very cold and uncaring but I was doing my best to work things out with her. But she wasn’t trying and being unreasonable. It’s ok to be sensitive and work things out but as I look back I should have been more stern. I should’ve ended it sooner than I did actually. I didn’t need masculine frame, I should have just left. But if I wanted it to be better being grounded more would get her respect. Plus doing the right thing and not taking her shit and just leaving would have been masculine frame by default. So either I stay or go, masculine frame would be present in either decision. I guess I had delayed masculine frame. I realized you need both in a situation like that if you still want to be with her. You try to work on the issue but hold your side too. But in that situation I didn’t want her at all anyway.
Caring too much shows neediness , the more you try to get close the more she will run from you while leaving is assertive, self respect and that is what women value.
Wow, david is a dad i never had. Thank you. Much love from toronto Canada
I agree when you said ' men and woman can't be just friends ' you should do a video on this... think it would be quite popular. Keep up the good work, love from London UK 🇬🇧
Revenger079 cheers homie. And yes I probs will! 😊✌️
You're legit bro. I respect your steez. I also know that like millions/billions of people should be hearing my message... I'm still fleshing that out. I have massively important wisdom and information to share to people, so know how much of a compliment that is when I actively choose to say you're legit and have a felt respect for what I see you doing.
Dude, I love your videos so far. I've learned more from just 2 of your videos and there's so much wisdom being passed onto your viewers.
I like the hand gestures (and the sound effects) !! It says so much😅
Thank you for this video spoke to me ever since COVID; I lost my frame and was becoming needy to women. Finally started working again and working out; I feel free and on my mission too.
I like the way you think 👊🏼 always gotta keep your energies balanced but know when you gotta step up ! 20yrs yung still learning from my own and others experiences
hey David ... just found your channel ... loved your genuinity in videos...stay awesome
Only 2 videos watched till now AND I M BECOMING YOUR BIG FAN!
Bro keeping masculine frame when everything is smooth is easy...How to be teach one self to be in masculine frame under stressful conditions
Nikhil Rocks that’s the real test. Breathing helps a lot.
Nikhil Rocks hard time create strong men. Be eager and rejoice because you will rise from the ashes and rebirth into a new you
Nikhil Rocks
Under stressfull conditions i am more calm and masculine then under "normal" circumstamces. There i often feel anxious or something. However when i experience something stressfull i get into this higher state of me and i'm perfectly calm. It's insane.
I'm a Hunter i guess - or ADHD.
That is why you train, cold showers, no fap, etc.
@@David_Hammond Great, thats what I just did. very important, plus give your self a minute or 2 to fully understand the situation in order to respond to it within your frame instead of responding to it when you are angry.
Bro congrats on growing so fast
HERMES thanks man! 😊✌️
Your voice is calming, seriously.
paul zavier so glad haha. ☺️✌️
Thank you for this, i already learned a lot from my first relationship.
Morning ya'll!! Love your energy, brother keep it up
BoundlessLamb cheers fam! 💯👍
Your ADD really vibed with me and helped me listen dude haha. Great video I agree with every word 🤌
Masculine frame! This video is so powerful! Thank you for this bro. Im a fan now. :) keep it up!
One of the main reasons we as men lose our masculine frame is that women constantly test us unconsciously. It's in women's nature to always screen men to see if we are worthy of being the father of their child (again unconsciously). If we fail those tests, we will begin to fall and they begin to rise until we hit that neutral stage and start to lose interest in each other. When I think of my last ex-girlfriend this is so true. Our roles switched completely and I understand very clearly now why we eventually had to break up.
Man, i gotta admit, this video is something else. Thank you so much man.
"Thank you for 10k"
114K Subscribers now. Killin it brotha
Hello sir ,m just watching ur videos since last 2days and it seems so genuine and to the point.Sir thanks a lot to make such content
S sekhar Nayak that’s what I like to hear cheers!
Good morning sir.sir i have a request .Can u plz make a video on How to make a lot of friends & How to have the spark in relationship forever .as starting phase?
Been binging a lot on your videos bro.Learning a lot.thank you!
Never really comment on videos but after a recent stage of developing anxiety, I can honestly say your video's are inspiring! thank you so much. They have helped me gain perspective and purpose
You are so clear on your videos! I’m subscribing keep up the good work 👍 💯
i litterally love watching this guy no homo his smile and energy on another level
i have news for you that may be surprising my friend
David's ASMR drink sips always on point
I never thought of this. It makes total sense. Thanks!
David, with the rate of increasing subs, I bet in another month you’ll be at 100k. You deserve it man and thank you for the motivation too, I’m gonna take this motivation to grow my gaming channel. 🔥
Damn bro your like an older brother I never had the game you put me on is golden, Thank you for it.
My favourite video on this platform by far
Dude, you actually deserve a lot of subs.
First one of your vids i watch. As soon as you spoke on the whole thing with problematic women being associated to absence of a father figure i knew you were valid. I subbed
I think this video deserves a millions of views all men need to hear the things that's coming from your brain.... Keep going david i wish you good luck ❤️❤️
Aymen Kacimi thanks for the positive vibes/blessings man. Let’s keep growing together. 💯❤️
Damn brother the subs are rolling in big congrats! No surprise with this level of content keep it up 💪
the cleff thanks my man a yes haha! 👍
this guy has so much wisdom
it's good to be able to balance both your masculine and feminine energy's. balance is an important part of life and everyone should strive for it. but around women I do believe it's good to remain masculine.
I COMPLETELY AGREE
keep going my man love your clarity in this video simple straight foward stay up kings
ALEXANDER DA GREAT yes sir cheers bro 🙏💯
5:11 wow I'm impressed you are encouraging guys to be responsible for their own masculinity 🔥 in general everyone should reflect on themselves instead of blaming everyone for their problems.
Wow, past 10k before the end of this week🔥. Congrats
Yared Chanyalew thanks man 😊🤟
11.2K subscribers and still growing. Love your videos, you always have something informative to say. Keep it up my brother👍👍
Joshua Hartman appreciate you josh! Let’s get it. 🔥💯
Our roles are rocks.
Love you man , I watch every videos of yours and this one realy helped me .. overall you are helping me a lot on self progression... god bless you...
You just gained a subscriber. I'm not giving up on my masculinity with the f*n softening society
He is the best example of a person who is now *Self-developed*
Going to be come a new man after this quarantine. Thanks much love. 💓
María Erazo awesome man I’m glad! 😊🔥
I really appreciate this video! Thank you for your knowledge! It make sense!
Niqua's World awesome man apply it well! 😊
David you are blessed
This is how i was seeing it in my head but i wasnt sure if it was true..nicely put, nice video friend :D
i knew i had a feeling i was slipping up but i wasnt sure how to make sense of it, so fucking glad i found this video and its helped me be aware, my fuckin guy!
Your videos have changed my life man...thanks a lot
Toluwalase Ayeni 🙏🙏
Aye bro! Watched 6 videos straight. Liked and subscribed. Grateful for your energy and wisdom. Really helpful... namaste🙏🏼
Your channel is growing so fast man. Thousands of subs on the daily. Congrats
Damn bro, your channel is blowing up like crazy. Happy for you man 👍
Jon Doe apprecaite you dude thanks! 💯🤟
"Awareness is transformative in and of itself" Sounds like you've been watching a lot of Elliot Hulse haha. Keep up the good content!
listening to you feels like having a brother never have one so thanks bro!
Hi David, your video is very great and easy to understand. Could you please do a video about on and off relationship? And how to deal with break up when she dumped you?
Ly Xuong sounds good will keep it in mind 😊
Thank you soo much maan. 🤝
David, you've got some really good ideas and have a knack for spotting truth. Plus, I can tell you genuinely want to help the fellas who don't have that "edge", so, Props Bro. I would, with absolute humility and respect, like to offer you a couple insights that, should you choose to be open to them, may help in your delivery in videos like these. I'm REALLY GLAD I found this, cuz it was totally random, I was actually looking for a song I want on my AM shower spotify mix and I stumbled on another video of yours. It's called "let her walk away" or something close to that. And then this one was a "suggested pick" from the TH-cam God's. So, after checking em out, I was thinking that, with all the positivity you have and the intelligent points you have to make, maybe it would be a good idea to take 5 minutes before recording and, just sort of mentally form an outline of what ideas/concepts you would like to get across, with emphasis on the more important material and just do a mental "run thru" so that once you hit record, you have your stuff lined up like bang bang bang, I think you'll be more focused and coherent (and bro, this ain't AT ALL saying u aren't coherent etc, but I think you could be more so) I also think that, to bring your audience along with you by using little examples that "they/we" can easily identify with, like, with what you term as holding/maintaining a masculine frame (agreed, SO IMPORTANT) I think a GREAT example of what erodes your masculinity is like, when you get too complacent with your girl or a girl you're trying to lock down buying your dinner, or drinks, or whatever. If she has to keep reaching down into that purse to cover you, or, to keep the night going, you're GIVING away your masculinity, and, as you pointed out, she is totally absorbing it and, eventually, owning it. But, you're SO dead on, when a woman owns your masculinity, that's an IMMEDIATE loss of interest. And I see a lot of guys these days falling into that. Sure, it may have even started with you thinking that you want to empower her, and like, not be a male chauvinist pig, you know, like with the females who pop off like "I don't NEED you holding the door for me." It's a fine line, you know, follow REASONABLE direction, but, when 2 people are dancing, who is supposed to lead? A man is supposed to lead, and in turn, the lady will fit into that "frame" (I dig that word for it bro) and she in turn, can reveal her femininity, and go off on the dance floor, spinnin:' around, dippin' shakin'and making you look and feel like a total stud, as she looks totally fine, and that, is a decent (not perfect) metaphor for a relationship. It's all just a big goofy mating dance, but, like our ancestors, we do what we gotta do to further our seed or whatever, and voíla! Shoot man, if any of that seems like it MAY help you succeed here, with vids on youtube, hot me up, I got more. And just like you, I'm all about helping my brothers elevate themselves and their performance etc. That's what my book is all about. And no, I ain't tryin' to sell you one or plug it on YOUR channel. Brothers gotta look out to some extent, look at the ladies, they got how many magazines teaching them how to dress to impress, how to please a man ( or woman) how to tell if he's cheating etc etc, so they are arming themselves with knowledge, and, that's exactly what we need to do in return. So, hey, seriously, good luck with the videos, I'ma check back every now and again and see how you're doing, cuz sh*t Brother, even mentors need mentors (no I ain't tryin'to be one necessarily) or at least some honest and factual advice. 2021 is gonna be our year fellas! Be safe, stay healthy and God Bless.....
David, my man. Never never never never never delete this video