a real man is at least 18 yrs old and male. that's it if we don't weigh it down with artificial "standards". no modern standards (rooted in women's expectations) need be applied.
LFA said that one line that really spoke to me about just experiencing that emotional investment shock. When I was 19 I was 5 weeks into talking to a woman and she had issues, but the one thing she told me that messed my head up was "the average attractive woman has multiple guys ready to replace me" I then had some make out and hook ups sessions with other women but that was always in the back of my mind and took my confidence down for years. Now years later almost at 27 I now finally have healed and learned how to become the best version I can be to increase chances. Learned about displaying my positive emotions, upgraded my diet and stopped watching porn to recalibrate my pleasure system.
@@AA12514 I don't like to use the word power in this conotation, because I kind of want to care for these women. I have been treated badly on dating apps, but women in person are pretty nice to me.
All facts here. When I was younger, every now and again, a pretty girl would latch onto me and I thought it was something I said/did. Turns out, on the whole, as a man you have no real say in any of that. You just happened to be standing there and whatever happens, happens....
Another thing too is that too often we feel like it was “fate” that we met our oneitis at the right time. Therefore, we tend to cling on to bad relationships because we cling to this spiritual sense that we are “meant to be”. It’s best to always keep one foot in, one foot out.
Ironically, I've been thinking about the same topic lately and realized that all of my interactions with women are circumstantial. Never have I ever met a woman sitting at home and her appearing at my doorsteps out of the blue. It was always a result of going out and beeing at the right place.
Great video - you have a limited window of opportunity to make it with the girl who presents herself in your life. And - you need to be discerning about it - just because you CAN doesn’t mean you should
I checked out after the 3rd burn / love sick. I don't know how to care enough to try anymore. I make enough money to cover my expenses and save for retirement, I hit the gym and make music. I miss companionship / romance but the idea of trying to appeal to a woman and her agenda again when I know one day she'll wake up and rug pull me on a whim makes me nauseous
Yeah - Seems like 90 % of men I know have been through divorce.Looks like marriage will evolve into an outdated institution relegated to history.But when you think about it again women still like marriage so they can have you on the hook.
When i was a kid, my father used to tell me "one day youll understand everything" Now as a 36 year old man, with my fair share of girl troubles. It just clicked. Lfa yeah bro. Training, clean diet and keeping on the narrow path is giving yourself the best chance at life. Gosh life can be tough. You really need to strengthen your mind and body to survive. Unfortunately it means going through shit and be smart enough to learn as quickly as possible. Love the show bro. I like your 3-4 hour after dark podcasts. Theyre chill and funny at times. Peace bro ✌️ from sydney Australia
Fuck man you and me both. I'm 36 and have never had success with relationships. Never had problem finding dates but many really let down experiences as well. It like just dawned on me at this age.. you gotta just be your own best friend. I gotta quit trying to fill the void. Take care of me.
they get over breakups because they were just using you for money or status and there's a lot of other guys who have that. women dont invest emotionally, narcissists never do.
Spot on video great 👍 man!! I got burned 3 times in my life , the last one the worst!! 15 yr relationship with a NZ lady I thought we were in it for life. She betrayed and I found out devastated that was 3 yrs ago. I do the gym, cycling, Italian cars. I will never live again with a woman and no dating . I am celibate for 3 yrs , read the Bible and pray. Life is beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤. My favorite friend Jesus Christ!!!
OMG. Im from Europe ( Romania) and I just discovered you and I LOVE HOW YOU TALK TO MEN! Real AF. Wise, down to earth. Congrats! It's cool to listen to you from a woman perspective too❤
This reminds me of a time a while back. I was at a bar by myself having a drink after work. A Girl comes up to me and tells me that we are both here for the same reason and wanted to go to my place. This girl was cute, i am not that great looking so this had never happened to me before. My first instinct was that she is going to try to get me somewhere and she or some friends of hers would try to rob me. I told her I'm not interested and to move along. Now you got me wondering if i might have just been in the right place at the right time and screwed up my opportunity. Idk, but i prefer to think i made the right call.
If you’re a parent you should never ‘lose’ your children ‘if’ you go through a divorce both mom and dad need to be close in proximity to the children until they turn 18. A Child needs access to both of his parents.
Great message for this generation of men and the generation of men before us so many women in the 70s divorced their husbands sometimes for the freedom that they never had in their 20s or whatever reason and a lot of men were devastated that can lead to depression which is a disease. a wonderful message to men Thank you.
I am 38 as well, divorced 3 years ago. More topics covered in this video, all of them are so true (from my point of view). As for the "game", the girl has to see you attractive in the first place - therefore I like to call it that females ALLOW you to use your "game" (in case they see you attractive), it is not about game as such. I "checked out" some time ago, not really enthusiastic to start serious relationship yet.
It is the truly arbitrary nature of even meeting another person that ultimately crushed my naive dream of "the one". Hardly seems a point anymore. I can concur about right place, right time. Only had two gfs, met both at social groups I decided to join to meet people. Met them almost straight away! (And they did choose me with agendas and I settled due to low self-esteem.)
Just gotta find meaning and enjoyment in life for yourself. I’ve given up on relationships. Betrayed every single time, it gets old. Why suffer through that?
You make a good point, I was at the right place at the right time many times in life. But because my social skills were garbage I never got anything out of it.
Thanks for this vid LFA. I wouldn't say a normal life is boring nowadays. Going to gym and to church gives inner power. But most people really term these activities boring
Is the juice worth the squeeze? Its not. I'm never dating again. You changed my life sir. Thank you. You don't know how grateful I am to watch this video after what I've been through.
I love how your shirt is the same light turquoise blue as the sky.. 5:00+ "We are not talking about hooking up.." yah "fall is cuffing season" you said earlier..
Not only does this sum up the beginning of my last relationship it sums up the end as well. I met her at a brief job I had. 5 years later she cheated on me with her best friend's partner's friend. We were in a bad spot and this guy just happened to be at the right place and the right time.
I just broke up with my ex and after some gaslighting she finally admitted she had been cheating on me the whole time. I always had a gut feeling she was hiding something
I like your videos, LFA. I watch them from time to time. From my point of view, you can call us women girls or ladies, it all sounds fine. Intention behind the words seems more important than the exact words themselves oftentimes. It seems to shine through. When U.S. men say girls, to me it sounds like it includes grown up women of almost all kinds of ages. I'm German, in our language the equivalent of girls doesn't sound quite the same. Mädchen. Sounds really young and childlike. Mädel is potentially possible. English language makes a lot of expressions possible that German language doesn't, and vice versa. Quite fascinating. But yeah, I like your videos, LFA. So nice to listen to your perspective on men and women.
I had an ethics professor who thought that the climate didn't change our hormones or tendency for certain behaviors, then why from July to October are more newborns?
I recently fell out with a girl who was my ideal woman. Thank god it was not marriage or anything. I am lovesick. But, at least I can use all the energy for gym and work. I can stay awake for 18 hours a day. Madness
Good vid man, I got burnt with marriage, lost a lot of time & a decent amount of money, I'm just doing my own thing at the moment. I don't mind the emotional investment/damage haha-which can be brutal no doubt but when you pair it with the financial damage that's the double whammy. (I divorced her) I probably wouldn't cohabitate now but I'd most likely want a vasectomy to start 'dating' again. Something to keep in mind is the woman you meet will most likely be selling you the person you want & over the next while the real her will emerge, they can play a pretty long game if they want a baby or marriage or house or whatever so always consider protecting yourself even if she seems awesome.
3:00+ What an awesome parallel world "What if scenario.." That is why as you know it is so intense liking several legitimately awesome irons in the fire & how eventually it pares down to one & then voila you are both naked 1:30+ "Respect yourself & respect others." Yes as you know that is why jealous people are destructive & have no restraint they know they will never access others in ways that require permanent mutual truthfulness, friendship, it is like dont get into anything if it is going to end badly nothing has to end badly
I just get so sick of how transactional relationships are. I juste ant to fall in love, be best friends, end of story. But there's all these Neverending conditions that are placed on us me to constantly prove our value just so we can be used by whoever we are letting define us as valuable.
I'm trying to get an LTR, and I'm asking a lot of questions of the women I'm bringing into my life, just trying to get to know them and see what red flags come up, my problem is there's usually a lot of deal breakers and red flags that you have to compromise with when you ask enough questions. the funny thing is a lot of women think they can do better when they're walking talking liabilities and disasters to deal with. It's real dark comedy at the end of the day. Dont get me wrong I'm sure there's a guy that's blind that doesn't ask those questions and just goes in with the end goal in mind.
LFA, you're a smart guy and you seem to have integrity as well, so I'd like to give you some of my wisdom (I'm your age btw, 37 to 38) because I see things entirely differently, and I think its because of my personal experiences. First of all I'd like to propose this way of seeing men v women: men have logical minds mostly, women have emotional minds mostly. What does a logical mind mean? It means cause - effect, logical consistency, if A then B, etc. This is why men try to rationalize female behavior and they get played and get disappointed. A female mind does not necessarily obey logic or even common sense - it was wired to obey feelings aka impulses. Why do you think there are so many incels out there who end up being poisoned by this red pill stuff? Because they are looking for a way to make women predictable and "rational". Like, women should want a guy who's kind and nice and pleasing her and whatnot. But that's not how nature works. Women like what they like and I'll tell you three things that , if done right, will make any guy 10x more successful. 1. Authenticity, don't put a mask on, just do your stuff , 2. Confidence, don't be a pussy, 3. Take things lightly. This one is very important because guys go on dates and they are too tense and try too hard to come off as masculine and classy etc and women can smell through that shit and will expose you. No, it's not just a matter of being at the right place the right time. You have to know how to approach girls. Otherwise you'll always be blaming your incompetence and nerdiness on the circumstances that were against you. Another thing that I disagree with: men also go with plans sometimes. I know dudes who wanted to get married and have offspring even before they had a girl. So this is about each person individually, it's just the way it is. Third, I don't think leaving the game completely is the way to go. If this comes from a place of peace and serenity (for example you want to live an ascetic life or you decided you want to live like that) then I'm with you - but leaving because you can't find a girl, this will bring you bitterness and you'll always feel something's missing.
The crazy vs hot graph is very true. If you want to have a good chance at a long term marriage where you as a man will be at least mildly happy then you will likely need to find a girl who is around a 5 or 6 on the hot scale, or even a 4 if their personality is amazing to you, but the key is to determine that they are low on the crazy scale. The odds of finding a 9 or 10 or even an 8 that isnt at least a 7 or 8 on the crazy scale is very very low. Look at modern hot women in general. 99% of them have been with 25+ men by age 23 and the divorce rate for first time marriage is often very high like well above the 50% average.
Perfect example when you were talking about your friends girlfriend’s friend iv had this happen to me before. Just so happen to work out perfectly haha core memory
4:15 "In every aspect of life tbh with you" yah the lottery paradox is definitely real, & fucking unreal, I know you know all about it, seen some things ;)
Actually, it's because everyone has absorbed the maximum amount of vitamin D from it being summertime. Only means your hormones are not in the gutter like they soon will be through the winter time
I’m in the love sick limbo space atm. It’s not fun. She pulled back, I pulled back. Gotta see if she comes back on her own cause I’m done chasing at this point. Woman are like cats. They go as they please 🤷🏻♂️
The juice ain't worth the squeeze. Why get involved with someone who can fake and act an entire relationship with me only to wake up one day and suddenly realize she doesn't want me and burn me? Besides majority of women never breakup with you innocent, they always try to hurt you out of spite in some way as if you failed them when they're the ones who sabotaged things.
This just proves that bible is fake. Biologically we are not meant to be in LTR its unnatural social construct. That's why you pretty much never see married couples truly happy and still have that spark. More like stagnant and bored. Do you want to be stagnant bored and deluded by some belief system? Power to you my friend. Maybe you just can't do better... And it seems like a lot of those who can't keep coping hard and promoting that absolute dogshit to those of us who are aware that we can and I just can't agree with that manipulative behavior sorry g.
Yeah but you left out the part that women will never be truly happy so they will always leave, they never stay nowadays, so it’s just your turn as the starter 😊
My Dad used to tell me and my brothers, Women have agendas, Men don’t …
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LFA the best Channel For Real Men
a real man is at least 18 yrs old and male. that's it if we don't weigh it down with artificial "standards". no modern standards (rooted in women's expectations) need be applied.
Yep-the only dude who actually gives a fu*k about other men struggling in the game of life 😢 ❤
Never try to build a case to an existing woman for her to stay with you if she wants to wander let her wander.
This is exactly what I did to my fiance.
LFA said that one line that really spoke to me about just experiencing that emotional investment shock. When I was 19 I was 5 weeks into talking to a woman and she had issues, but the one thing she told me that messed my head up was "the average attractive woman has multiple guys ready to replace me" I then had some make out and hook ups sessions with other women but that was always in the back of my mind and took my confidence down for years. Now years later almost at 27 I now finally have healed and learned how to become the best version I can be to increase chances.
Learned about displaying my positive emotions, upgraded my diet and stopped watching porn to recalibrate my pleasure system.
its about age. a girl told me that at my age 30. I told her 'u can go to whoever u want. u r too ugly for me to give af.' that broke her confidence
the roles reverse after some time and the power shifts as you get older
@@AA12514 I don't like to use the word power in this conotation, because I kind of want to care for these women. I have been treated badly on dating apps, but women in person are pretty nice to me.
@@godsbruhwow such a tough guy lol…. This red pill bs is ruining the country just as much as the liberal woman.
@@AA12514 truth!
All facts here. When I was younger, every now and again, a pretty girl would latch onto me and I thought it was something I said/did. Turns out, on the whole, as a man you have no real say in
any of that. You just happened to be standing there and whatever happens, happens....
Another thing too is that too often we feel like it was “fate” that we met our oneitis at the right time. Therefore, we tend to cling on to bad relationships because we cling to this spiritual sense that we are “meant to be”. It’s best to always keep one foot in, one foot out.
Ironically, I've been thinking about the same topic lately and realized that all of my interactions with women are circumstantial. Never have I ever met a woman sitting at home and her appearing at my doorsteps out of the blue. It was always a result of going out and beeing at the right place.
Agreed. LFA. Best Channel For Men. Stay hip out there people.
Great video - you have a limited window of opportunity to make it with the girl who presents herself in your life. And - you need to be discerning about it - just because you CAN doesn’t mean you should
More often than not, you shouldn't.
I checked out after the 3rd burn / love sick. I don't know how to care enough to try anymore. I make enough money to cover my expenses and save for retirement, I hit the gym and make music. I miss companionship / romance but the idea of trying to appeal to a woman and her agenda again when I know one day she'll wake up and rug pull me on a whim makes me nauseous
Yeah - Seems like 90 % of men I know have been through divorce.Looks like marriage will evolve into an outdated institution relegated to history.But when you think about it again women still like marriage so they can have you on the hook.
Same here I’m lost for words when it comes to them.. I just focus on my goals and hobbies keep my circle small
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When i was a kid, my father used to tell me "one day youll understand everything"
Now as a 36 year old man, with my fair share of girl troubles. It just clicked.
Lfa yeah bro. Training, clean diet and keeping on the narrow path is giving yourself the best chance at life.
Gosh life can be tough. You really need to strengthen your mind and body to survive. Unfortunately it means going through shit and be smart enough to learn as quickly as possible.
Love the show bro. I like your 3-4 hour after dark podcasts. Theyre chill and funny at times. Peace bro ✌️ from sydney Australia
Fuck man you and me both. I'm 36 and have never had success with relationships. Never had problem finding dates but many really let down experiences as well. It like just dawned on me at this age.. you gotta just be your own best friend. I gotta quit trying to fill the void. Take care of me.
I’m done with them just focus on me and my goals
Finally! I've been waiting for another LFA video 😊
When the average chick weighs 175 lbs I don't want to be in the right place at the right time. 😅😂
And got 1-2 kids with different dads
@LeeEverett1 bingo, this right here. If she has kids she's batting practice at best
Overweight, single mothers everywhere.
The right place and the right time would be elsewhere at another time......😂😂😂😂😂
they get over breakups because they were just using you for money or status and there's a lot of other guys who have that. women dont invest emotionally, narcissists never do.
Wyu betabuxin
They have a roster of men in their phone to replace you
More often than not, I'm consistently in the wrong place at the wrong time. The universe's ground state.
Spot on video great 👍 man!! I got burned 3 times in my life , the last one the worst!! 15 yr relationship with a NZ lady I thought we were in it for life. She betrayed and I found out devastated that was 3 yrs ago. I do the gym, cycling, Italian cars. I will never live again with a woman and no dating . I am celibate for 3 yrs , read the Bible and pray. Life is beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤. My favorite friend Jesus Christ!!!
You need some pus sy
Amén!
@kennethglover-qq6bh Thank you brother! Bless bless 🙌🙏
Thank you for the video LFA ❤
OMG. Im from Europe ( Romania) and I just discovered you and I LOVE HOW YOU TALK TO MEN! Real AF. Wise, down to earth. Congrats! It's cool to listen to you from a woman perspective too❤
This reminds me of a time a while back. I was at a bar by myself having a drink after work. A Girl comes up to me and tells me that we are both here for the same reason and wanted to go to my place. This girl was cute, i am not that great looking so this had never happened to me before. My first instinct was that she is going to try to get me somewhere and she or some friends of hers would try to rob me. I told her I'm not interested and to move along. Now you got me wondering if i might have just been in the right place at the right time and screwed up my opportunity. Idk, but i prefer to think i made the right call.
Yeah, probably right choice.
You definitely screwed up man. She wanted to f*ck
Something def was off as women are usually not that direct unless they want something from you
Intuition + risk management
Very glad there are guys like LFA around to give advice to younger guys like me
If you’re a parent you should never ‘lose’ your children ‘if’ you go through a divorce both mom and dad need to be close in proximity to the children until they turn 18. A Child needs access to both of his parents.
I was actually thinking this the other day. Most of the time it's the flow of life and being in the right place at the right time
LFA keeping us Men accountable. 💪
timing is everything.
you got a new sub!
Great message for this generation of men and the generation of men before us so many women in the 70s divorced their husbands sometimes for the freedom that they never had in their 20s or whatever reason and a lot of men were devastated that can lead to depression which is a disease. a wonderful message to men Thank you.
I am 38 as well, divorced 3 years ago. More topics covered in this video, all of them are so true (from my point of view). As for the "game", the girl has to see you attractive in the first place - therefore I like to call it that females ALLOW you to use your "game" (in case they see you attractive), it is not about game as such. I "checked out" some time ago, not really enthusiastic to start serious relationship yet.
It is the truly arbitrary nature of even meeting another person that ultimately crushed my naive dream of "the one". Hardly seems a point anymore.
I can concur about right place, right time. Only had two gfs, met both at social groups I decided to join to meet people. Met them almost straight away! (And they did choose me with agendas and I settled due to low self-esteem.)
Just gotta find meaning and enjoyment in life for yourself. I’ve given up on relationships. Betrayed every single time, it gets old.
Why suffer through that?
You make a good point, I was at the right place at the right time many times in life. But because my social skills were garbage I never got anything out of it.
The skills don’t necessarily have to be there. As long as you’re making effort to communicate.
The last minute of this video is absolute gold! If you’ve been there, you’ll know.
It's insane I was having this same conversation about the title of this video a while back
Wow thanks brother just coming out of a 15 year disaster and I'm reeling this really helped me put things into perspective .
Brother... That love sickness part was on point.
Great Video LFA! I can also recommened watching AMS video about being in the right place at the right time
This is one of your best talks ever lfa
Thanks for this vid LFA. I wouldn't say a normal life is boring nowadays. Going to gym and to church gives inner power. But most people really term these activities boring
Lfa pls make a video On natural selection ❤
Preach it I’ve said this for 20 years! Those red pill hacks
So true about usually the guy who winds up love sick.. shes already moved on !
Is the juice worth the squeeze? Its not. I'm never dating again. You changed my life sir. Thank you. You don't know how grateful I am to watch this video after what I've been through.
I love how your shirt is the same light turquoise blue as the sky.. 5:00+ "We are not talking about hooking up.." yah "fall is cuffing season" you said earlier..
Not only does this sum up the beginning of my last relationship it sums up the end as well. I met her at a brief job I had. 5 years later she cheated on me with her best friend's partner's friend. We were in a bad spot and this guy just happened to be at the right place and the right time.
I just broke up with my ex and after some gaslighting she finally admitted she had been cheating on me the whole time. I always had a gut feeling she was hiding something
Im an Old Green Beret" dude..... You are Kool
Yep, spot on. Women just have a vacant for a male partner, never a love for a man.
I like your videos, LFA. I watch them from time to time.
From my point of view, you can call us women girls or ladies, it all sounds fine. Intention behind the words seems more important than the exact words themselves oftentimes. It seems to shine through. When U.S. men say girls, to me it sounds like it includes grown up women of almost all kinds of ages. I'm German, in our language the equivalent of girls doesn't sound quite the same. Mädchen. Sounds really young and childlike. Mädel is potentially possible.
English language makes a lot of expressions possible that German language doesn't, and vice versa. Quite fascinating.
But yeah, I like your videos, LFA. So nice to listen to your perspective on men and women.
I had an ethics professor who thought that the climate didn't change our hormones or tendency for certain behaviors, then why from July to October are more newborns?
When it's cold you stay in bed longer.
really liked this video
LFA thank you for everything!
I just want to ask you: Do you still believe in Semen Retention?
Thanks
I recently fell out with a girl who was my ideal woman. Thank god it was not marriage or anything. I am lovesick. But, at least I can use all the energy for gym and work. I can stay awake for 18 hours a day. Madness
I know u don’t touch on this topic much. But can u do a topic on men and Depression. Love ur opinion on that
best!!!
Best regards from Poland. You seems to be really decent guy 💪🏻
Great video
Good vid man, I got burnt with marriage, lost a lot of time & a decent amount of money, I'm just doing my own thing at the moment.
I don't mind the emotional investment/damage haha-which can be brutal no doubt but when you pair it with the financial damage that's the double whammy. (I divorced her)
I probably wouldn't cohabitate now but I'd most likely want a vasectomy to start 'dating' again.
Something to keep in mind is the woman you meet will most likely be selling you the person you want & over the next while the real her will emerge, they can play a pretty long game if they want a baby or marriage or house or whatever so always consider protecting yourself even if she seems awesome.
3:00+ What an awesome parallel world "What if scenario.." That is why as you know it is so intense liking several legitimately awesome irons in the fire & how eventually it pares down to one & then voila you are both naked 1:30+ "Respect yourself & respect others." Yes as you know that is why jealous people are destructive & have no restraint they know they will never access others in ways that require permanent mutual truthfulness, friendship, it is like dont get into anything if it is going to end badly nothing has to end badly
this format really suits me
Be in the right place at the right time, got it, no problems 😂
Isn't that true
Why obtain the cow , maintain it, feed it , care for it when you can obtain milk and not be obligated to make sure the cow is ok.
awesome video
Cold hard facts
LFA, did you move? I haven’t seen the brick wall in a while! Great video as always!
Words of wisdom.
I just get so sick of how transactional relationships are. I juste ant to fall in love, be best friends, end of story. But there's all these Neverending conditions that are placed on us me to constantly prove our value just so we can be used by whoever we are letting define us as valuable.
Yooo! What’s up Brotha 🫶🏼
Yo!
I'm trying to get an LTR, and I'm asking a lot of questions of the women I'm bringing into my life, just trying to get to know them and see what red flags come up, my problem is there's usually a lot of deal breakers and red flags that you have to compromise with when you ask enough questions. the funny thing is a lot of women think they can do better when they're walking talking liabilities and disasters to deal with. It's real dark comedy at the end of the day. Dont get me wrong I'm sure there's a guy that's blind that doesn't ask those questions and just goes in with the end goal in mind.
I find it easier to pay for play. Dating is a waste of time. Women are no longer girlfriend/wife material.
go p4p in SE Asia $100/hr for a whole night of sex with an 8/10 in Vietnam
LFA, you're a smart guy and you seem to have integrity as well, so I'd like to give you some of my wisdom (I'm your age btw, 37 to 38) because I see things entirely differently, and I think its because of my personal experiences.
First of all I'd like to propose this way of seeing men v women: men have logical minds mostly, women have emotional minds mostly.
What does a logical mind mean? It means cause - effect, logical consistency, if A then B, etc. This is why men try to rationalize female behavior and they get played and get disappointed.
A female mind does not necessarily obey logic or even common sense - it was wired to obey feelings aka impulses. Why do you think there are so many incels out there who end up being poisoned by this red pill stuff? Because they are looking for a way to make women predictable and "rational". Like, women should want a guy who's kind and nice and pleasing her and whatnot. But that's not how nature works. Women like what they like and I'll tell you three things that , if done right, will make any guy 10x more successful. 1. Authenticity, don't put a mask on, just do your stuff , 2. Confidence, don't be a pussy, 3. Take things lightly. This one is very important because guys go on dates and they are too tense and try too hard to come off as masculine and classy etc and women can smell through that shit and will expose you.
No, it's not just a matter of being at the right place the right time. You have to know how to approach girls. Otherwise you'll always be blaming your incompetence and nerdiness on the circumstances that were against you.
Another thing that I disagree with: men also go with plans sometimes. I know dudes who wanted to get married and have offspring even before they had a girl. So this is about each person individually, it's just the way it is.
Third, I don't think leaving the game completely is the way to go. If this comes from a place of peace and serenity (for example you want to live an ascetic life or you decided you want to live like that) then I'm with you - but leaving because you can't find a girl, this will bring you bitterness and you'll always feel something's missing.
The crazy vs hot graph is very true. If you want to have a good chance at a long term marriage where you as a man will be at least mildly happy then you will likely need to find a girl who is around a 5 or 6 on the hot scale, or even a 4 if their personality is amazing to you, but the key is to determine that they are low on the crazy scale. The odds of finding a 9 or 10 or even an 8 that isnt at least a 7 or 8 on the crazy scale is very very low. Look at modern hot women in general. 99% of them have been with 25+ men by age 23 and the divorce rate for first time marriage is often very high like well above the 50% average.
We in the 90 degrees out here bro. Summer for us.
good
My sensai for life!🏜️😎
Just got into a relationship with a French/Danish girl, and i couldn’t have done it without you LFA🫶🏽
With 35% gay guys 10 miles away in Palm Springs, getting hot VS JJ out here easy AF LFA. 😅😂😅
Perfect example when you were talking about your friends girlfriend’s friend iv had this happen to me before. Just so happen to work out perfectly haha core memory
4:15 "In every aspect of life tbh with you" yah the lottery paradox is definitely real, & fucking unreal, I know you know all about it, seen some things ;)
going to get my passport
Are you still in Tulsa OK? How is the dating life down there?
LFA for President of the USA.
I like this guy's low key, average guy type message.
You have the 'traditional' common sense perspective that is grounded but lacking in a lot of people nowadays.
what will you do when you are old and nobody there to take care of you or when you are sick and need to hospitalized?
I think I’ll just treat my loved ones well so they’ll be there for me when I need them.
@@LFA Friends? Family?
You won't need anyone. Can't rely on anyone.
@@sirchirps8695 how do you manage when you are sick and need help
this is beta as hell man. You don't need to be taken care of lmao
That’s why I just focus on work, school, and gym. Women do have alot of options, so that’s why it’s key to become high value.
Actually, it's because everyone has absorbed the maximum amount of vitamin D from it being summertime. Only means your hormones are not in the gutter like they soon will be through the winter time
Got cheated on so I dumped a woman I really cared about Totally Forgot not to over invest anything
Bro, sorry. But you gotta move on to make her regret it.
I'm not even willing to rent by the hour anymore.
Dude cuffing season is literally warm man winter lol
Hmm I wonder which QB you were talking about lol
I’m in the love sick limbo space atm. It’s not fun. She pulled back, I pulled back. Gotta see if she comes back on her own cause I’m done chasing at this point. Woman are like cats. They go as they please 🤷🏻♂️
4/10 looks and delusional. That was me.
What’s bad is I’m not overweight and all I can pull are 4/10 fat women. I’m disgusted.
5:11 nick foles on the eagles
There's a typing mistake in the title brother. You wrote "Bring" instead of "Being".
“Juice ain’t worth the squeeze”
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio
Bot comment.
Fall = "Han Solo" season
The juice ain't worth the squeeze. Why get involved with someone who can fake and act an entire relationship with me only to wake up one day and suddenly realize she doesn't want me and burn me?
Besides majority of women never breakup with you innocent, they always try to hurt you out of spite in some way as if you failed them when they're the ones who sabotaged things.
LFA I haven’t been laid in 10 years, what do I do?
What a coincidence. The moment i closed a date the comin week, this pop ups with this title. Wtf
If you want to be with someone indefinitely. You must marry someone who is God fearing. They won’t leave you unless subject to Gods view of divorce.
Doesn’t make sense what u are saying
Many are demons. Don't marry them. Understood.
@@alexlandy7422 Read a Bible and it will.
This just proves that bible is fake. Biologically we are not meant to be in LTR its unnatural social construct. That's why you pretty much never see married couples truly happy and still have that spark. More like stagnant and bored. Do you want to be stagnant bored and deluded by some belief system? Power to you my friend. Maybe you just can't do better... And it seems like a lot of those who can't keep coping hard and promoting that absolute dogshit to those of us who are aware that we can and I just can't agree with that manipulative behavior sorry g.
Yeah but you left out the part that women will never be truly happy so they will always leave, they never stay nowadays, so it’s just your turn as the starter 😊
In other words a man is just a means to a woman's ends.