Lita reflects on the double standards of the Edge storyline: Oral Sessions with Renee Paquette
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- Lita was part of one of the most infamous angles in WWE history. Here's what she thinks about it in hindsight.
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Edge got shot into the main event scene from that situation and she retired while getting humiliated.
Edge was in the main event scene a bit before the Lita affair…
@@NickthePobrecito that situation led to the birth or the rated R superstar. That heat is what took his career to the next level.
Even so, it doesn't excuse retiring Lita the way they did.
Worst thing wwe ever did
@@NickthePobrecito he wasn't, he was a midcarder
Edge was a superstar before and after her, Lita was a pretty average wrestler with zero personality. It's not rocket science.
Meanwhile the Triple H , Chyna and Stephanie thing was actual real life and it never became a storyline .....mmmm, ok McMahons , I see you :/
Thought that was not just a storyline, but a true-life love triangle too.
The Edge , matt & lita thing was real life 😂
@@Birdoswrld- Just like all of entertainment does WWe overexaggerates what actually happened but they don't when it involves themselves (the McMahons) . There's interviews where they explain what actually happened and the storyline that WWe put was overblown for entertainment but so called fans believe everything that wwe put in their programming lol , throwing adult toys at her and shit like that .... a lot of backstage shit went down with others that wouldn't be tolerated with nowadays, it's all on TH-cam (others complaining of how employees , especially women were not treated professionally .
@@Birdoswrld-
So was chyna, hhh and stephanie
Stephanie was lita
Hhh was edge
Chyna was matt Hardy
Only thing was hhh wasn't married but he still was with Chyna, but chyna had her issues.
And yeah its Grimey as hell
True, but several other things played a factor, no one was married in that situation, Chyna stayed fired, it was a different time with the internet, HHH was out with an injury when it all came out and they actually were in love
It's 100% a double standard that Amy still gets shit for the affair but Edge doesn't. 17 years later and we're STILL talking about it? Like, come on. That's ridiculous. Give Amy a break and move on people. Literally ALL three of the people involved in the incident have ALL moved on and don't care about it anymore.
Last time I checked she cheated on her bf in real life and it was her choice, she can live with the consequences
@@seaworld5653 she cheated on her boyfriend not set a child's hospital on fire or committed tax invasion. What happened between her, Adam and Matt is literally no ones business other than theirs. The three of them have moved on and been able to work towards a place where they can be cordial in the same settings. The fans really need to let this shit go
It is a double standard but to be fair, Lita behaved appallingly.
@@seaworld5653 Edge can't? This is exactly what she meant by double Standards. You're part of the double Standards.
@@spiceupyourlife7755 eh when ever u are accused of sexual assault you would understand the the way I think the double standard she gets off free
She's right tho. Edge cheated on his wife too but he NEVER got the level of hatred that lita got from the fans. Edge screwed over matt too but he never got the abuse lita got. And before anyone says "edge's wife wasn't a wrestler", that doesn't make it ok. Edge was an adulterer just like lita, but he gets away scott free while lita gets shat on and even to this day some fans still haven't moved on from it. Edge benefited the most from this scandal as his career skyrocketed afterwards but yet he's worshipped by the fans.
And knowing men it was 100 percent edge who went after lita not the other way around.edge deserves the shit more then lita.i don't think lita would have went for edge for no reason but edge did have a reason he was lonely injured and needed some women
@@wingedhussar1453 I do think Edge pursued Lita but that's not always accurate, Lita takes full blame and has even said she willingly went after him too.
@@wingedhussar1453 but lita shoulda have just left Matt
@@empressink_ yea but edge started it
In reality it doesn't matter what other people think...the only people that should really care are Edge and his ex-wife when it happened...Im sure the "level of hate" was pretty strong against Edge from the one person that actually mattered ...everyone else can suck an egg and keep reading their tabloids
Lita is still one of my all time favourite wrestlers not just female. Her skill stands out and deserves respect for it.
She was sloppy in the ring jn my opinion, but then again, so were most female wrestlers at that time.
@@PilloTheStar i say this all the time i swear everytime she does a moonsault she looks like she is going to break her neck again.
@@wrathfang exactly. I would've feared for her safety if I didn't hate her for being a thot lol
WWE didn't do Lita any favors at the end of her career. I think that's what people have held onto, with pushing her personal life so much into their storylines. And it's a shame.
Yeah shes gonna remain single due that storyline.
@@iaintgonlie7858 lmfao she's been in a long term relationship.. the fuck are you talking about?
I hate sound like that guy but I love how karma came back to hit lita and I’m glad Matt had a happy ending
I mean she cheated on Matt, but once Lita & Edge split, I don’t see the need to give her grief about it. Edge & Matt both are married with kids so they’ve all moved on.
Edge cheated on his wife.
@@Figs3 who tf cares?
@@Figs3 On Beth?
@@Figs3 Beth weren’t there on that storyline until her debut on 2006 I guess, they were married on 2016.
@@ricekyo his first wife.
I still love Lita after all these years 😍😍😍
I love how this conversation really gets to the heart of the nature of sexism today. No one is condoning how Amy conducted herself at the time. But the consequences she suffered for those actions went far beyond anything that Edge, who was just as responsible, had suffered. Glad that Lita and Renee are speaking truth to power on the subject, and I hope Lita knows how much her fans support her!
You nailed it!
Especially since this was back in 2005 when sexism was an afterthought.
@@antwilder u mad
@@antwilder found the incel
@@antwilder they wrestling fans not boxing 😂
The problem here is not sexism. Yes, Edge was a scumbag, but Matt didnt sacrifizr anything for Edge, while he sacrifized much for Lita. Also, the fact Edge also dumped Lita made the fans hate him less. I assure you, of Edge and Lita were still together, Edge would still be hated to this day.
You forget edge was matts best friend he trusted him more than he trusted jeff also edge was a married man lets not forget also lets not forget matt also said in a interview that him and lita worked it out and still dated up until he left for smackdown when hima nd edge had that looser leaves raw match then she started sating edge. also matt and lita both that she never had sex with edge they just kissed matt also said that wwe made it bigger than what it was.
2:18
“Did anything THAT bad happe-“
Yes it did, trying to downplay cheating is questionable behavior
Exactly
It was TWENTY YEARS AGO. Do you people not go outside anymore? 😂
Edge remarried with kids, the fat Hardy brother got married with kids, Lita was engaged last I heard. Everyone has moved on but the neckbeards here. Get a life.
Common woman L tbh
She's garbage, and old and single
They dragged Lita through filth but no one batted an eye (at least back then) when Steph and Hunter got together. Okay…
Yup
People didn't know Hunter and Chyna were a thing and believed the storyline that Steph and Hunter were together so it was hidden from the public eye. If social media was around back then, it would've blown up.
Everyone behind the scenes hated the fact that HHH was dating the boss's daughter. Wtf are you typing about? Both have admitted this. Taker's done interviews where he talked about it when asked. Even Vince himself didn't approve but let it slide because it's what Steph wanted.
That ending felt so uncomfortable and Lita is clearly not over it. You can tell it still really bothers her & I wonder how much she thinks what could have been with certain things. I truly hope she's somewhat at peace with shit.
The problem is that it's not HER bringing it up, it's the fans who keep bringing it up to her. She said it at the beginning.
I don't know how anyone expects fans to stop talking about it, when Lita herself is drawing even more attention to the whole debacle on Renee's podcast. Lita shouldn't have even entertained this as a subject of discussion-if it apparently still bothers her so much. I honestly don't think she cares though; which is why they are able to talk about the double-standard issue . It's definitely water under the bridge, and I think Lita knows that.
@@DoubleRDubPlays This is why she never got wifed up. Everyone knows shes a cheater and this is why no other WWE superstars would marry her. Most wrestlers end up finding a love connection with eachother but when everyone knows you may be untrustworthy you lose tons of options.
Edge got married, Matt got married and she hasnt and probably won't. WWE played her in the sense her image was damaged when they ran with the storyline . She came off as vindictive and disloyal with the blurred lines wwe used.
@@iaintgonlie7858 Youre not wrong. this applies to real life too. once people find out you have cheated on someone before, they want no part of that. Lita really only has herself to blame
Then maybe she shouldn't have cheated on her BF 🤷🤷🤷
loved her in the WWE she is amazing
just like Renee
Hell yea, facts
Renee saying was it that bad; man if this happened to her I bet she wouldn't be saying that. But credit to Amy for regretting it and wanting to change it if she went back. Time can heal wounds and now they can move on
Renee is so understanding here, I've always loved her but I feel bad for Lita. Yes what she did was a bad thing but she knows it and the abuse she continued to suffer from because of it was uncalled for. Edge got off scott free and you can't argue that, he was just as guilty but paid no dividends for it while Lita got humiliated and treated like dirt. It was also something that happened YEARS ago and the fact that people still bring it up is ridiculous, Lita was a driving force for the Divas division and she deserves better than to constantly have her affair brought up instead of her accolades while no one ever mentions it to Edge.
Edge did “pay” at the time, he was given tons of abuse too, I think the issue they are taking about is that Lita still does. Edge and Lita did immediately admit they handled it badly and apologised to Matt but Matt chose to abuse them on the Internet and literally encouraged his fans to harass them. That got missed in the pity parade for him in 2005. He also filmed himself committing acts of disturbing violence on a Lita cut out. He said he hoped Edge died on live TV. His brother said he was controlling. That is not to say they handled it right but Matt was not innocent. Another couple of things - Edge, at the time, was used to being a heel and used to taking massive heat of fans so was probably in a better place to utilise it, it was genuinely a new experience for Lita and Edge is by far a more confident performer in terms of outside the ring. Secondly, we have watched Edge and Matt grow and move on, we’ve seen them date, marry and have children with their wives whereas Lita has been a lot more out of the public eye for fans to see her “moving on” story, the prevalent memory of her is still then because she’s not as in the public eye. But yeah, nobody should have been interested then, it was a personal situation and everyone should drop this shit now, everyone involved got over it a long time ago
@@Danathema I know Matt’s not innocent and I’m so glad you pointed this out because people tend to forget this shit! Matt’s an asshole and he still proves to act like a child throwing a tantrum. I guess people can easily forget him posting fake suicides online but they ignore that and continue to harass Lita, smfh.
Tbh, I always forget about that part of her life and career. I always remember her amazing matches. She’s greatly missed in the ring.
I don't understand why Renee is showing her sympathy. She's clearly guilty. She herself admits it. Edge is guilty too. So basically Renee is trying to say today women have more of a leverage so it's okay for women to cheat?
This is just ridiculous. Nobody should go through what Matt went through. "Cheating" should not be celebrated. It's betrayal. It's a sin.
Idiot, you could not have possibly missed the point any more
@@jbfarley they havent got a point. They are hypocrites, they probably would criticise HHH for cheating on Chyna the same way but try to justify Lita's actions.
@@jbfarley there was no point the face she brought it up she just wants views end of story people moved on
What are you, the church? Are you a tribunal or something? 😂😂😂 shut up, nerd, go get a life.
What do they mean by narrative? She did actually do those things and people were right to be upset with her. I mean I fully support the idea that everyone should move on and she should definitely forgive herself if she's in a better place but, if she's sitting there decades later and still acts as if there's another whole layer to the story that would change people's mind about it, I'm not convinced that she even is in a better place.
I never cared for Edge because he was the only one that benefitted from what happened. Lita got shit on while Matt was never the same in WWF though he cleaned himself up years later.
I’m glad Amy came out of it a much stronger person and didn’t let it take over her life ✊🏻
There are plenty of double standards that benefit women but don't her moaning about that
They're talking about sexism she personally went through, keep up
@@katie5920 he is keeping up it's called a reality check
@@katie5920 she cheated on a man and he got fired for daring to talk about it. There’s your double standard. He eventually got brought back but only because of fan backlash and Vince seeing dollar signs in it. She has no one to blame but herself for being a cheater but I guess accountability remains hard for women.
@@Straightouttapocket Because she's the only one who cheated? oh wait, she wasn't but she was the one who got the most hate.
@@Straightouttapocket "Accountability remains hard for women" no, the issue is women are held to way higher standards than men and are hated a hell of a lot more for things.
The part I remember was Edge vs Cena storyline when Cena constantly just slit-shamed the shit out of Lita. Like in one sense Cena was really funny in how he insulted her and I'm a Cena fan so I'm biased, but like it was too much. It seemed like Lita felt genuinely bullied in those instances.
@Mr. SuliMan yeah and the worst part is that cause of the context of the feud the initial thought process is "boo you're a crybaby heel" but like take a second to actually think about it and she's exactly right in what she's saying. She is a human with feelings yet WWE just had cena cone up with more ways to call her a slut than humanly possible.
@@notoriousmigz2427 yet she hurt Matt and it’s ok right
@@notoriousmigz2427 Cena loved every minute of it.
@MacGyver’s MacRiley How should the fans have reacted?
@@washedinhisblood.3906 bloody simps dude. Everything Woman do is ok to them.
You aint gonna have a reply
Lita really doesn't deserve to have her entire career painted by just that one incident, just like Matt and Edge. Especially since it led to such an amazing feud and honestly the character chemistry between Edge and Lita makes them one of my all-time favourite couples in Wrestling.
Really do wish Lita stayed in WWE and in wrestling cause she is one of the greatest wrestling characters of all time and honestly still my 2nd favourite woman's wrestler.
Bro fr, Same Lita has so many great moments pre 2005 that although is advertised all the time which is great, It's some of the fans that bring up the whole affair triangle thing.
She does deserve to get her legacy destroyed. She's a piece of shit.
For me......The GOAT of all female wrestlers. To this day, my favourite woman in the ring.
She was very fluid in the ring. Her lita carana and moonsault are still my favorite moves from any woman in wrestling history
Loool she was a terrible wrestler , absolute state of her dangerous moonsault
@@user-fu3fu4ye7j You better not be a Sable or Sunny fan saying that lol
I am a Lita fan and she is absolutely a trailblazer, but she ain’t the GOAT. Just the 1980-90s Joshi alone have multiple GOAT contenders, and then consider all the women from 2000-present day in the independents, AEW, and WWE.
@Blaze Blaze Of course they did. They, especially Sunny didn't do shit
She is amazing loved her in wwe
Still love her...
@@dakidfromknowhere765 me too
@@dougthePogingguitarist is ta talking about lita or renee
@@herecomesdatrain both are both amazing
Bottom line..she broke Matt Hardy's heart and he got fired for putting it out there.
Not really, they used it
Bro he never wanted her listen to him speak. Matt is a pos. Edge broke up a marriage for a push while lita took the blame. She deserves love and to do what she wants. Yall phychos never let a boo hoo heartbreak go. Unhinged men.
That was such a crazy time and there is definitely a double standard.
so? Start complaining about women getting free drinks at the club and not having to pay for dates than.
Look, I like Lita, I’m sad that it had to be like this but it’s not a double standard, you cheated on Matt with Edge. You had a choice, Matt didn’t. Edge too, he should’ve been a bro and distanced himself but at the end of the day, he’s the ultimate opportunist.
Actually Matt did cheated on Lita first before she cheated on Matt it was confirmed by Matt in one of his interviews
I knew there was something off about that storyline. Especially from the fans, Why did Lita catch majority of the backlash? Yes, she handled it wrong by cheating however Edge equally had part in it as well. Edge career shot to the top while Lita dwindled. WWE and fans did Lita wrong, BIG TIME!!!
Yeah shot to the top as the main event jobber
@ATrain I never looked at it from that standpoint which I agree with. I understand he was a Heel, they've ment to be hated however Edge used the cheating scandal as leverage (which worked) so at the end of the day that whole situation was beneficial for him.
@ATrain I know Lita signed off to do the storyline, but why did she caught the short end of the stick? Why did she caught flack to the point of retirement? That's what I want to know.
@@aliyahhussain4553An 11 time world champion and 2-time WrestleMania main eventer. But yeah, sure, “jobber”. 🙄
I loved heel Lita, she was sexy and violent, she added so much to Edge developing into the great heel he became. It reminded me of how Sensational Sherrie helped elevate Macho Man once he turned heel. I loved how WWE was able to take this real life situation and use it as a platform to elevate their talent. I dont care about her cheating on Matt Hardy, that was none of my business.
This world blows me away daily with how okay people are with cheating.🤦♂️
Crazy
It’s really not that big of a deal. It genuinely only concerns the parties involved. You act as if cheating is a war crime lol 💀
Cheating is bad, but let people grow. It happened forever ago and the WWE made it even worse.
It blows me away with how it was TWENTY YEARS AGO and you nerds are still talking about it like it happened yesterday. Edge remarried, Hardy married (a crazy bitch) and had kids, Lita moved on, this is dead news. Let it go. 😂
I was a huge fan of lita during the time, I ran a fansite, it was like firefighting against trolls with real perspective of it not actually being a huge drama, just a thing that happens.
Edge got a lot of sh1t for a long time but Amy cheated on her boyfriend with one of his best friends and got him fired because he wasn't as over as Edge. People were annoyed because Jeff got released and Matt was dealing with being injured knowing his brother was going through hell at home and let his girlfriend travel with his friend and the stabbed him in the back. If Jeff never got released for the drugs then Matt never would have been released.
NO lets not forget edge was a married man and lita did not get matt fired matt slept with one of his friends ex girlfriend and the firend who use to work at wwe told wwe that matt slashed edge tires when it was a fan who did it. So lets not put that on lita matt is also to blame instead of bring a grown man he acted like a 15 year old and told his business which matt said he was laso at fault.
Wait, what? It wasn’t Lita or Jeff’s fault that Matt got fired? That was on Matt for how he portrayed himself during that time.
I love your stuff Renee, is there any chance we could get you and pat talking about shit.
Everyone has done something that they are not proud of. That's life. You should be allowed learn from your mistakes. Nowadays it feels like no one is allowed to grow past a mistake. People brand you with the scarlet letter.
Adultery isn't a mistake.
She didn't help her situation by going along with the WWE storyline. These tapes last forever and going around as a cheater and humilating you ex is a bad look.
I don't feel it is a double standard anymore. Corey Graves got a lot of crap from fans when he got with Carmella. Even though he was separated, the fans were attacking him a lot on social media and yelling at him at events. Same with Sammy Guevara in AEW when he got with Tay Conti. Fans still hate him for that lol.
wasnt sammy dating jericho or something like that
@Eddie W lol no he was with some girl he was with in high school or something. He proposed to her in the ring after a show and then they had a falling out. When Sammy got with Tay, like so many fans blasted him. They were legit giving death threats and whatnot over some girl they didn't even know and just assumed Sammy left her for a hotter girl. It was a mutual falling out but fans just assumed because she wasn't very attractive conventionally and obviously Tay is a smokeshow, so in their minds, he just ditched her. Even if that was the case it still isn't anyone's business but theirs.
I don’t disagree about the double standard but a few key things.
Edge, Matt and Lita were all public figures.
And the story fans got was Lita cheated on Matt with edge.
Yes, edge is shitty in this scenario as well. But Lita was seen as the coupled party.
People didn’t even know edge was married. Had his wife been another wrestle who was public know, yes he would have gotten more heat.
He deserves more heat for this whole thing
Lita, Edge, Triple H all deserve to be publicly shamed for committing Adultery on their Spouse (Fact)
Agreed.
I love how Renee says relax everyone it wasn’t really that bad guys……..?!?!?? Ummmmmmmm lita cheated on Matt while he was at home recovering from a serious injury with literally one of his best friends who was edge and was literally married at the time!!!!! Um that’s really fucked up renee period!! You don’t fuck your best friends girlfriend while you’re married to someone else period!!
No stop being abusive. Matt hardy was not a good guy. Boo hoo.
She made a bad decision and she paid for for it. It's wrong to continue to punish someone for something they did, while it could've been avoided if she had made the better decision she didn't and that's that.
And she went along with the Storyline as a heel which made her look even worse. Imagine your woman cheating on you and slobbing down the guy in your face to add some sting. Made her look very bad, thats the last thing a guy wants to see.
@@iaintgonlie7858 Yeah, she went along with the story because IT WAS HER JOB. 🤦♂️ What was she supposed to do, walk away from a job that was, I’m assuming, still paying her very good money when she had nothing else lined up? It’s very easy for smarks to play morality police from their couches when it’s not your bank account to worry about.
@@iaintgonlie7858 Vince threatened to fire her if she didn’t go along with it.
@@Jeff_Pryce UPS is always hiring.
@@Mmrwok92 id sue in that case
Miss Amy Dumas (Lita) has always been one of my all time favorites, one of the most exciting performers of all time. I never agreed with the whole idea of taking an uncomfortable time in her personal life and turning it into a story line, I understand giving the character more depth by adding some real-life drama into it, but that was too much, and I felt bad for all of them being dragged through the mud at the time. I love you Miss Dumas, and you're right, there is a double standard, and you bore the brunt of it in that case, but that will never change my opinion. You are the beautiful best, and Miss Rene Thankyou for all you've done, and continue to do🤗 From Aftermath, to the show with Mean Gene, to being the new voice of Raw and , ofcourse, Oral Sessions. Just wondering when you're going to have Lillian Garcia on your show🤗, and congratulations to you and Jon on your little one❤ Love you All, and keep up the great content😁
Double standard? She cheated, Matt lost his job. She got to stay. In the end I think it all evened out. Lolol
Double standard: Edge was the one who was married but Lita took way more of the hate/blame.
Double standard: Edge’s career skyrocketed while Lita was forced into embarrassing segments and eventually retired due to the hate she had received.
Lita isn’t the reason Matt lost his job. Matt’s lack of professionalism is the reason he lost his job.
@@Mmrwok92 they were both punished. The embarrassing bed in the ring angle. Plus he jobbed a bit after that. Besides. it doesn’t matter who took more of what. They both did wrong. No need to keep whining about it. Plus she’s returned multiple times with no issue. Seems like she moved on.
I don’t know why this needs to be said again but the reason she got so Much heat was because she cheated on Matt Hardy a hugely popular star who was then fired. It wasn’t “muh Sexism”
It's always the same. Criticizing a woman or saying something non positive or not virtue signaling means you're a muh "ist-a-phone"
*ist-a-phobe
Some of the replies and comments here are proving the double standards. 🤡
They both justifying cheating
It was forever ago, let people live
She said it was wrong
@@katie5920 nice deflection
Lita still fine as hell
Wwe did her dirty for that storyline smh 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
I agree
@@spiceupyourlife7755 stfu
And she did Matt dirty. Stop acting like this was all forced onto her
@@bradycurtis2129 It WAS forced on her. They literally told her she had to do the live sex thing or she’d get fired.
And they all moved on. If you haven’t, you need a life. 😂
Double Standard? I distinctly remember Edge being called out on every show for “Screwing Matt”. He also got exiled from the locker room I heard. Also he was his friend but you were his girlfriend. Much different. Edge was a prick for cheating too.
The first time I heard Edge talk about it was in his Decade of Decadence DVD. I remember him saying that people felt that he was just like his onscreen persona in that he felt good that all of this happened when, in reality, he didn't. It did eat away at him.
But.....it never hurt Edge's career, True he was hated for a long time but that made him a genuine villain with crazy heat. In fact it may have elevated him to the main event, Lita got labeled a "slut" week in and out and it ruined her career and forced her to retire. Definitely a double standard
There’s a clear double standard. Edge dealt with “heat” for like a year after. All the while being shot up the card and bagging multiple world championships. Meanwhile Lita got publicly shamed and humiliated in every segment and match she was involved in. They even fucked her over during her retirement. One of the greatest to ever do it and they treated her like shit. Not to mention the legions of “fans” who still give her shit about it today as if what happened to Matt Hardy affects them in any way. And not to bag on people but Matt Hardy and his wife beat the shit out of each other and wrestling fans act like it never happened. Crazy that cheating is a big deal but domestic violence isn’t.
@@guwopman3503 he was a main event jobber,who never had any proper reigns and was always losing
Edge was married though, he’s the one who broke a vow. He got way less hate than Lita which was wrong. Both should have been equally held accountable.
I would have agreed with her but she did cheat on Matt and when cm punk broke up with her ( because of AJ Lee) she was deverstated and apparently did not want to go into the hall of fame if punk was there. Is that not having double standards.
Edge was married as well..
@@Figs3 but that has got nothing to do with my point
@@aliyahhussain4553 reread it. My B. I got confused when you were solely blaming Lita but Edge cheated, as did Punk.
Honestly, I can’t be mad at Punk or AJ about that. According to AJ’s autobiography, there had been attraction between them for a long time, they actually stayed away from each other an entire year because of it, and finally, they decided “the hell with it” and got together. They’re happily married now while Lita was engaged last I heard, so it worked out for everyone.
@@Jeff_Pryce yeah I guess
no one ever mentions how triple h cheated on chyna with stephanie 🤷🏾♂️
Yeah that's curious isn't it? That situation has much in common with the Lita/Edge/Matt thing.
Wow! Can't believe it's been this long. We're getting old 😭
There was no double standard. Everyone gave edge crap for cheating on his wife. The only difference is Matt went after Lita harder because she is the most at fault from his perspective. She was his girlfriend.
Oh there 100% was a double standard. Edge was pushed to the moon while Lita was put in embarrassing segments and made a laughing stock of during her final months with WWE. Similar to Mickie’s first run in WWE when Cena broke up with her when she cheated with him on Kenny Dykstra.
the fact that people still put crap on Amy disgust me, for real people? that triangle love thing was ancient. it was in 2005. I’m pretty sure Amy, Matt and Adam completely over it by now. They are in good terms. Also it’s their love lives not us. Grow up.
Don’t attempt to be the victim in that situation. Everyone profited from it but you and Adam were pricks for cheating. Edge is still my favourite wrestler or top 3 but he was still a prick for doing it. You too.
Yeh and that was 16 years ago
Yeah that was such a low blow especially when Matt was out injured and needed her the most and to think that Adam was one of Matt's best friends. Matt was there when Adam was injured too. As talented as Lita was, I feel the way she went out with her reputation tarnished was well deserved
Then again it was all good for Matt in the end as it should be. I mean look at Reby. Absolute upgrade.
That was nearly 20 years ago, get over it. Wow, this is why wrestling marks are so toxic.
@@rockstar3290 reby is no upgrade in terms of looks
Shes a ryde or die that makes her an upgrade
Two people were in the wrong but only 1 got the real backlash. That sucks. Lita got talked about from the fans and humiliated by WWE. Yet people didn't hate Edge for it even though he was the one who was married. I feel all the people involved have now moved on and thats that. Lita is a legend!
Exactly. Edge was seen as a hero and Lita was seen as a slit etc.
@@spiceupyourlife7755 it was her choice to cheat, she could have said no
@@seaworld5653 same thing with Edge/Adam. He could've said 'no, Amy, I'm married." But he didn't do that. He was able to get his career going strong again even winning the championship after Lita retired. It took Lita a long time before the fans actually started to treat her better.
@@spiceupyourlife7755 stfu
@@paulgomez8877 Edge was the active pursuer. Even Matt acknowledged he was love bombing lita and emotionally manipulating her.
Damn people get so much surgery that they become unrecognizable... Trish looks really weird too now...
youre so right.. seen other examples, like politicians, having seen one in my countries media for years (had no choice lol) and suddenly now, the person looks 75% different due to the plastic surgery. It's so vile and weird. 🤢
Lita can say what she wants but she did Cheated Matt!!
Forever ago, and edge cheated too but you're proving their point. The man in the situation isn't being held to the same standard.
This is what happens when WWE writing is not just a story line ... is actual human life lol
Lita deserves her flowers and the fans gotta stop acting like they're perfect themselves. Let the past be the past and remember her for all the other great things she brought to the table rather than this one interesting storyline that happened. She's more than what that fans choose to have her be reminded about.
I agree. Lita definitely deserves her flowers. Trish was showered with them in her last match in 2006 and again versus Charlotte in 2019. Lita was every bit the pioneer that Trish was and more. Because of her, women like AJ Lee, Sasha Banks and Bayley were inspired to come into the business. And yet she was repaid for her years of service with the most disgraceful sendoff in the history of the company. She should be remembered for her accomplishments inside the ring, not something almost 20 years that happened behind closed doors that only internet nerds and nothing-happening losers care about.
Hopefully she may eventually get the real sendoff someone with her trailblazing career has earned.
@@Jeff_Pryce lol i Laugh
Yet matt got fired at the time, she didn't... ..
I once was in a love triangle and carried the guilt to this day. Still feel like shit, I've never been able to forgive myself even with Renee minimizing it because nobody "gets" hurts
People get cheated on everyday B
Because they are guys asking and commenting, the story was catered to men, how everything was in that era, and the women got the backlash. Shit is wild, but it’s still being used in other promotions and still in WWE. That’s why the Rey Mysterio/Daughter relationship with Murphy got cut ASAP. The universe spoke up on it, even if it was PG. The people are tired of seeing it. And there’s the half that want to continue to see that shit.
I remember this whole ordeal. And I remember thinking that WWE was in such poor taste for taking a personal situation and turning it into a story line. It really is a double standard. As women, people have this assumption that we should have known better and that we're a sl*t or something if we think of sex the way a man does. And yet, men are rarely held accountable for their actions in the same situation. People really placed all the blame on Amy but didn't factor in Edge's part in everything and even factor in what was happening with Matt as well. They all played a part in this ordeal and are equally responsible. The fact that people keep harassing her over it 17 years later is bullsh*t.
Its a double standard but thats how it is. WWE did her dirty for sure because being known as a cheater infront of millions is gonna turn alot of the male audience off. I assume thats why she never got married. Dudes hear about this and see the WWE antics afterwards and are like NOPE.
@@iaintgonlie7858 I think she just decided marriage wasn't for her. And that's okay. She has always been pretty free spirited. I understand not wanting marriage because I myself, have no care to get married again or even date. I don't think the cheating had as much of an impact as one would think because it has become so common in this day and age. I wish her the best and hope that wherever she is and whatever she is doing that she is truly happy.
@@vixxenreigns I noticed you said ''married again''. Most women want to get married and have that security. Lita without a doubt wanted a family it is natural. She disqualified herself with these WWE moments. Men don't marry known cheaters.
Double Standard ? She literally fucked her boyfriends best friend / coworker and you think it’s wrong that she’s being demonized like wtf 😂🤦🏿♂️
And her and the guy she cheated with benefitted while the victim lost his job where is the double standard when one person causes all of this 😂
She'll be alright, wrestling fans just like to troll. I haven't thought about it in years.
To quote the late james brown it's a man's world. When a man does some ish with 2 women it's a cool thing he's a player and rewarded but if a woman has two guys she's a ho double standard and get ridiculed
Nobody who has a life does. If you have a life that’s busy and worth living, there’s no point in obsessing over what some stranger we’ve never met does behind closed doors. The ones who do are just sad little people that don’t have a lot going on for them.
but in real life you cheated on your partner and left with edge and the eventaully left edge regardless of gender i think there is something we can all agree on
Edge didn't get this much hate like she did
@@spiceupyourlife7755 stfu
Edge got zero heat from that
@@spiceupyourlife7755 Edge's partner wasn't well known, Lita's was. They played on the Matt and Lita love story. People were sympathic to Matt especially since he was fired.
@@guitoorbenchi Don't matter. Edge should gotten alot of backlash too. Yet you trying to make excuses for him.
It’s tough to say how it would be received now. It’s possible that there would be some hate on social media and that it would be more vicious but I think that a lot of the talk would be people debating whether it’s a work or a shoot. “You’re getting worked, bro!”
Back then, we knew and everyone knew that this was a shoot and it was real. WWE played into that as well. Matt Hardy appeared on Raw and wasn’t referenced by name. So it’s an interesting discussion.
Lita got OVER being put with men throughout her career - whether hate or love. It was ironic, she came in as a manager but was seen as a wrestler - As opposed to Trish, who people wrote off as just a Debra type character. then coming back after injury she was put with Matt again to keep her fresh as Trish was more in the division with the belt. Then the Kane story which was a big deal, then Edge… although her injuries didn’t help, she was packaged with males in the midcard most of her career - in early 2001 she was more over than Chyna ever was - the crowd chanting Lita as she stood ringside amongst stars like stone cold and the undertaker - she never even needed the belt
Women get more flack because women are the ones who get to choose when it comes to sex. A decent looking woman will get hit on once or twice a day. So the fact that she choose to cheat with edge who already cheated on one wife she looks worst. Is it a double standard yes, but it’s one that’s based on females having more options and her choosing to cheat. Edge was an ass and Matt was a victim, but many people feel lita made the choice.
The WWE was extremely sexist in how they treated the women (And how the fans treated them)
I can’t believe some people still are emotionally invested in that old real life situation and the storyline. It shouldn’t affect anyone that much except the people involved and if they’ve moved past it so should anyone else
I really felt bad for Matt .... having a fiance' that cheated, it fkn sucks, but time moves on, both have moved on, both in a better place, it's just was a private matter that was dealt publicly ....btw, Renee is killing the podcast game!
Edge married, Matt Married, Lita single.
@@iaintgonlie7858 Lita in a great relationship, you're as dumb as they come. Lmfao.
I love this interview, great Podcast Renee and congrats.
@@reneepaquette we also listened to you,,,,don’t have the courage to say wrong what was wrong …..you just maniac ,,,,how can people now are ok with cheating on somebody….i think renee you might have done this your lifr once thats y
She cheated on Matt in real life with him no double standards she cheated plan and simple. She was the one in the relationship and she stepped out it’s 100% her fault! Yeah Edge should get some too but she was the one in the actual relationship!
You forget edge was matts best friend he trusted him more than he trusted jeff also edge was a married man lets not forget also lets not forget matt also said in a interview that him and lita worked it out and still dated up until he left for smackdown when hima nd edge had that looser leaves raw match then she started sating edge. also matt and lita both that she never had sex with edge they just kissed matt also said that wwe made it bigger than what it was.
She stepped out of her and Matt’s relationship that’s where she is the villain she is the one that cheated that’s where Matt’s fans are mad plain and simple Edge cheated on his wife he’s a dirt bag for that one 100% not saying he isn’t no one’s saying he isn’t but she’s the bad guy here! She was the one in HER relationship! And they did sleep together they admitted years ago as for Matt trusting his friend more than his brother that’s cute but okay.
She stepped out of her and Matt’s relationship that’s where she is the villain she is the one that cheated that’s where Matt’s fans are mad plain and simple Edge cheated on his wife he’s a dirt bag for that one 100% not saying he isn’t no one’s saying he isn’t but she’s the bad guy here! She was the one in HER relationship! And they did sleep together they admitted years ago as for Matt trusting his friend more than his brother that’s cute but okay.
Still my Fav Diva, Past or Present. She gets no Flak from me
Lita, Edge, Triple H all problematic for committing Adultery on their Spouse (Fact)
Agreed.
All I wanted to know is if she has talked to the hardy boyz recently. And how is she still able to use the twist of fate?
she was pictured with jeff at a wrestling convention last month during mania weekend. matt was most likely there too. they’re on good terms
Wow, get over it. I'm sure there's shit they had and have to deal with too. It's the baggage that comes from cheating in the workplace on a show like the WWE. You live and you learn. Nobody wanna hear that.
How is she gonna get over it and stop talking about it when a bunch of toxic wrestling fan chumps keep asking her about it every day?
@@victorspell1 Renee is supposed to be her friend. She obviously didn't mind speaking on it for the millionth time.
@@juniorhernandez9997 Because others still are and it's nice to hear Lita's side and she's right. Edge even if he got any sh*t it was nothing compared to what she got.
Congratulations to Lita on being a tag team champion with Becky Lynch 😊Lita deserves it looking back at her retirement it didn't sit well with me WWE should have acknowledged her better and showed videos of her accomplishments they should have let her had a party with Trish and all the superstars I feel like WWE is making up for it now 😊
Lita was the cheater, it is what it is
Edge cheated on his wife also tho but nobody says nothing about that
When you have situations like this there is always collateral damage. And that’s what happened to Lita and Matt. Edge is the only one that benefited from that situation. Is it right? No, But they took a real situation and played off of it. Imagine being Matt Hardy and you have to see your ex with a man that you called a friend, Not only are they together in real life. But Matt had to play along with it .And Lita was a willing participant. Matt was recovering from surgery, And she sleeping with Edge.
She’s a sloot
Just because worse things have happened, doesn't excuse Lita's actions
The fact that Lita still gets shit for it TO THIS DAY almost 20 years later and not Edge tells you everything you need to know. I love Edge but he was equally terrible in the situation, he cheated on his wife for crying out loud.
She’s the one that cheated that’s why edge wasn’t dating Matt hardy lita was and she costs Matt hardy his job and now she’s trying to play victim shits ridiculous 😂🤦🏿♂️
@@Lildoodirty Matt's behavior cost him his job. She didn't fire him
@@MyNeonBubbles so he’s responsible for starting the whole situation huh not her having affair with edge
@@Lildoodirty do you have any reading comprehension skills?
One, any return appearances she's made have consisted of her getting cheered as a proper babyface, so clearly the majority of the shit she got has receded. As for whatever lingering heat still remains, recency bias has a lot more to do with it than sexism does. What has Lita accomplished professionally or personally since then to give people something else to talk about?
Seriously where is the accountability here? You slept with your ex boyfriend's best friend and yet u show no remorse?
But oohhh dOuBle StANdaRdS
@@Lildoodirty I don't give a fuck. Where's the remorse? She destroyed q marriage between Edge and his then and now ex wife.
Lita, Edge, Triple H all unprofessional for committing Adultery on their Spouse (Fact)
Agreed.
I could be wrong, but I don't recall Lita ever showing remorse for the whole thing. Meanwhile Edge has shown some numerous times.
I can't feel bad for her, because of how she did Matt. She was very cruel on top of the betrayal, her life is what she made it.
Yes, in a video she is qouted also with saying things that sounded very selfish. "What was best for my carreer" etc related to the relationship, that Matt/Lita's relationship was only based on their passion for their carreer/wrestling. But she never stopped up and asked what Matt felt about it. She couldnt see herself grow old with Matt, because she had already, when it began, placed her mindset with Matt that it was a relationship related to their wrestling carreer.
i'm more upset that the whole thing changed her relationship with jeff
now where did jeff came from? :)
@@awwalali6200 Jeff was like a brother to her, he was her brother. It's just too bad, I love their relationship and time together in WWE.
I call it karma. when she was asked about why she cheated on Matt Hardy the first thing she said was he use their personal relationship for promo😂😂
Lita not Edge we’re victims in this situation. This has nothing to do with sexism
She deserves all the crap sandwiches. The way she did Matt… Totally shady
People saying it's Lita's fault for cheating on her "bf" but forget the part where Edge cheated on his "wife" and it's no biggie??? It's definitely DOUBLE STANDARD for sure.
If you publicly show millions of people that you can’t be trusted, then celebrate it, don’t be surprised when they remember it.
I mean she cheated if she wasn’t happy she should have ended it
People cheat and regret it later in life but the main problem is WWE making it an angle out of it.
100%. I don't condone at all what both edge and lita did, but like that shit is personal and behind the scenes, not for TV. Also, Edge, Lita, Edges wife and Matt are all adults who in terms of their lives and relationships can make their own choices and whether they want to be loyal, cheat, sleep around, whatever is not in any way WWE's or their audiences business. Really WWE (vince) more than anyone is the villain of the story fir how he portrayed it on live week to week TV, then put Edge and lita in angles like the sex celebration or opposite the thuganomiced marine Cena who has an infinite amount of slut themed jokes for Lita. Like if there was no real life backstory of the Edge lita affair, and it was like one pr two sporadic insults as oppose to making up like 75% of his promos for that angle, then I wouldn't have minded Cenas stuff to lita because it's cena being himself at the time, just insulting everyone, but the extent and frequency of his stuff toward lita was ridiculous.
I loved lita face or heel she's is my favourite diva of all time I'm so pound of her she inspired me every day x #thankyoulita
ridiculous of the double standards. both guys are married w kids but she gets the flak as a byproduct of CHOOSING to stay single???? come on! shes taking care of animals, shes loving her surfing life. fr im certain plenty of simps will lay on the ground for each step she takes so she doesnt have to touch the ground
Lita and Renee are full of $hit she became the biggest star for women in WWE from her relationship storylines her them acting like she a victim is BS