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- Being an introvert comes with many struggles. But introverts often internalize their problems, mainly because they don’t want to be misunderstood more than they already are. We want you to know that you’re not suffering alone. Psych2Go shares with you 5 problems only introverts understand.
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It's been a while since we did a video on introversion! Hope you like this one and Tanner's animation style! If you'd like to see more of her style, comment below! :)
Psych2Go would love to see more from you guys! love your channel:)
Psych2Go I wish you guys would do some more on ambiverts and extroverts. Ps. Love the videos!
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I really like this style. I would love to see more. I also like the videos on introverts and extroverts. They help me learn how to interact with them better even though talking to people isn't as easy as listening.
Psych2Go I love this animation and this was def relatable.
I'm uncomfortable around people I don't know but when I'm with my friends I'm like.... CRAZY
same
Me too
Same
I’m the same way I’m very quiet when I’m in public but when I’m around people I know or online or at school I’m pretty much talkative
Saaammeee
“Ur so quiet” “finally u talked” most used phrases that are told to an introvert
Kristen Shaheen introvert does not equal shy or quiet
@@DiamanteDea
True. Each word is a stand-alone description of an individual, so it's possible for only one of the three to be an accurate description, but there is a lot of overlap between introvert, quiet, and shy, so it's more likely for an individual who is one of the terms to also be one or both other terms.
People always say I'm quiet. The only place I let out the "crazy" me is outside and everyone is like: "Finally you talk! You never talk during school or anything!" And I'm like: "-.- *doesnt say anything and just walks away to avoid awkwardness*
1000000/10 in accuracy
Oh yeah, the worst one is when you are sitting with a group of people (like a family reunion for example) then someone who thinks they are funny as hell turns to you, and ironically says something like: "Hey man, don't talk so much, let others speak too". Really? I'm feeling awkward enough without you making fun of me in front of everyone. Just stfu and let me sit here quietly, until this awkward situation is over.
I hate small talk. I also feel like people are going to judge anything I say. So in some conversations I just try to keep quiet unless it's a topic I like.
NIKITAH #CGG Same!! Every time I think of what to say I’m worried that someone is going to judge what I say. That is my biggest problem with being an introvert.
@@molly_parker_1847 Yea I get you😖
Yeah the secret is to shut the mouth when comes problems
@@adelinoa.2049 yup
I just try, you know? I just try to be more social, ya know? It’s like, you want to at least feel familiar with your surroundings before you relax, ya know?
People are so
judgemental nowadays and rude
I stay silent and keep to myself
I prefer to be alone
I enjoy my own company
I am my own best friend.
마리야ᄏᄏᄏ me :(
Yup
I'll be anyone's best friend they need, I'm an empathetic introvert, s o I get it
Me too 😐
Same
So many truths. Introverts unite! By ourselves, in our own homes.
theEND1X Gaming Yea!
*gets in bed and throws blanket on*
We're here! We're uncomfortable! And we wanna go home!
theEND1X Gaming 👋
😂😂 this just made me so happy
In TH-cam!
“Do any of these problems relate to you?”
Well yes. EVERY SINGLE ONE
Facts
Same
Y E S
definitely can relate to all
Yeah, same
"Why don’t you smile?"
"Why don’t you talk?"
"Wait-you actually talk?"
"Wait-you actually talk?" Is the most often one I hear and yes, this comment is 7 months late.
I don't smile because I HAVE NOTHING TO SMILE ABOUT 😂
@Flawed Creation Unfortunately there's more extroverts in the world than there is introverts. So the social norm is being an extrovert. That's why nobody tells them to shut up or go inside. Humans are social creatures anyway, that's why it's more known for people to go out and socialise
One time when I was walking down the hallway in school. The vice principal literally asked me “What happened, are you OK ? Why do you look so sad?” But no, I wasn’t even sad or anything. I was just not smiling while walking down the hallway.😂
If someone says one of the above, I would say "fuck you" and leave
"why are you sitting alone?"
"Smile often"
"Don't be too lost in thoughts"
*Always misunderstood*
*Always looked at weirdly*
Always facing toxicity and pointless wrong assumptions
Am I the only introvert that can’t relate to this
I'm an introvert and when i talk, the people are like "OmG! yOu CaN tAlK?" and that's annoying tbh, i just don't trust the people and don't like to share my opinions. And yeah, we are sometimes misunderstood but they've never said 'why are you sitting alone?' or something, even sometimes they don't know if we are here so they can't look us weird. But i'm ignoring them, they may be extrovert but not clever or nice as me.
*Always overlooked*
Always ignored.
"Why are you always quiet?"
*stares at them then continues to draw*
You make enough noise for the two of us -_-
Because we are thinking and analyzing lol
FalconGamer58 I wish I could just respond to those questions with “Because I don’t wanna interact with ignorant people like you”
I always heard that before in my elementary days.. They keep asking me that question which I didn't answer and just continue to draw but now in my HighSchool days, I communicate with other people smiles and laugh with them but all of that isn't really true...
When your an introvert but can't relate because you don't have any friends. And the few you have ate busy with there own lives. I'm so introverted I don't have these problems with friends.
My problem is I have only one friend who I'm comfortable with but they usually hangout out more with their other friends. I want to ask them to hangout together but I never do Cuz I'm scared I might come out as possessive or smth
Snipester Pendragon yeah I understand. I don't like confrontation either . Like I can stand up for myself but mist cituations I get anxiety thinking about saying something.
Kendalyn Shumaker you just described my life lol
Kendalyn Shumaker I relate with the anxiety. I've done regretable things Cuz of anxiety
Kendalyn Shumaker
I avoid talking sometimes just because sometimes I'm ignored, or people will give me weird looks, just because they're not used to me talking. Then I regret what I said for the rest of the day.
Whenever I come into a room full of strangers, I find the next best corner of the room, sit down alone and listen to music because I'm too shy to say hello.
I can feel the judgements about me being rude or selfish in their eyes but I just can't help it...
I feel you. Besides that, nobody would hear my hello anyway
yeah totally, I just think about the new computer application I want to write. I go so far as to have the entire thing planned out just to have something to do without trying to seem rude.
I'm the one sitting on the floor petting the dog the whole time and ignoring the party (if and when I actually go to one).
Ugh so true
“Hi..”
“She talked!” =O
ö
And I'm like "i-its not that big of deal you see this is why I don't talk to people cause they react like this
Introverts have a very rich inner life.
Precisely.
Too bad I couldn't be rich in my outer life. That way I could buy my own secluded mansion on a windy Dutch cliffside with a big library near a forest.
@@jasoncg2956 LOL I also think that way but it will come as long as we stick to ourselves.
@@geoszux8133 I stick to myself in the summertime. Nothing quite like SBS.
Jason Gildersleeve 🤣
Jason Gildersleeve I’m Dutch!
*I don't get invited to parties-*
snow _fall neither do i
snow _fall
Never been, but I'm not mush of a party person myself. I would rather hang out with one or just a few people at a time, greatness I'm not invited to anything like that either
Snow _Fall that one person who ends their sentences with "-"
Gods, it triggers me so much lol
Snow _Fall Same
Only time I've ever been to a social gathering was school dances one I had to do cause of my grade and the other was prom which I skipped on lol
All I hear is adults say: "Oh kids these days are like 'i hAvE anXiEtY' and 'i hAve dEpreSsiON'" When it's actually a real growing problem. They think we're too soft.
Fucking exactly. Don't pretend you have depression for self loathing. (Wait self loathing is a sign of depression w h a t)
Ikr? It's not my fucking problem you have +1000 friends and talk to literally everything. Instead of making fun of me for being sad, try to understand.
Ikr!
Like, why do i have severe anxiety? Oh I dunno Brenda, maybe because i had to go to my own mother's funeral three days before i started highschool?
@@thatskyvern excuse me *w h a t*
There's a term: Narcissism. It can be a personality trait, right up to a severe mental illness. It seems to be becoming more prevalent all the time. People with this problem can victimize other people in subtle but devastating ways: emotional/psychological abuse. This can cause anxiety & depression in their targets. If you look into this, please get some good support while you're researching it as what you find can be very distressing. Take care. T
I don’t like being an introvert because I cant make friends, and sometimes I feel alone. It feels good to be alone ,but I want to be with somebody sometimes but people just don’t want to be with me😔
same 😔
I don't think that's true, I think there are people who want to spend time with ya. I think you might need to find a good hobby you like that you can turn into a social activity, it might be easier to make friends if you already know you got something in common. a lot of hobbies can be turned into a social event.
Emily Österberg this is so me it feels good to be alone but I sometimes want to be with someone who I can talk to with topics I like to talk about.Me myself I like kpop💜and there was these two girls sitting behind me talking about kpop and I wanted to talk with them but I just hesitated and decided to just stay quite
Yes! I just want people to know that wanting to be lonely and wanting to be a loner are two completely different things.
First of all you're a introverted female so you actually have it easier many men seek introverted women
thats what you think everyone has a community.
www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/home.htm?bhcp=1
www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
Its important for us to find out what kind of introvert we are its very important you do have a purpose and the world needs you. God created you for a reason I used to hate God and I used to cry in my bed because of loneliness but now I see why God allowed it I'm so at peace now. I worry way less what people think of me and I can't be easily swayed by the crowd.Matthew 24:7 King James Version (KJV)
7 For nation shall rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom: and there shall be famines, and pestilences, and earthquakes, in divers places.
Kinginhabitat.com/scientists-hypothesize-why-earthquakes-happen-where-they-shouldnt/
kjv pronoun understanding starts with th
singular
if it begins with a y like you you're and yee then its plural
Matthew 24:5 King James Version (KJV)
5 For many shall come in my name, saying, I am Christ; and shall deceive many.
King James Version (KJV)
Fake Jesus in Siberia
th-cam.com/video/n8BOMqks-gQ/w-d-xo.html
Through this you can find out your natural strengths and get into things that you will learn fast there is peace in strength. Get into these things and let your skill naturally develop unconciously.
I have a presentation to do in class and I'm REALLY anxious about it. Pray for me
@@loofy706 I was just gonna ask that.
I got two
I know that *in the name of the moon, you did fine!*
I hope it went great! :)
Hope it went well :)
Unapologetically, I love being introverted! Many of the extroverts that I've met here in NYC seem so extra and it's draining! Oh and I have no friends which is great because I don't need to explain myself to anyone or worry about offending anyone. To all my fellow introverts out there, stay strong!💙
Everyone in my class is extrovert :'(exept me and the nerd rude bitch of the class😥🙌
🖤🖤
Meeee Stay strong to us 😅😅
Yeah I don't even need any friends because I love being alone thinking about weird stuff
Better to be alone than around fake annoying people.
"You've been really quiet lately. Is everything okay?" Yes, Tiffany. You ask this every week. The answer won't change and even if it did I wouldn't tell you.
So accurate! My teachers have asked me, my friends have asked and even my parents have asked me the same question a lot of times!
Dayum 💀💀
I don’t think this is the healthiest way to go about someone checking on your well being. :/
EXACTLY
Frrrrr
I cannot have small talk
I am very quiet
I hate being the center of attention
I can relate.
Same. I *HATE* being the centre of attention!
Britney Mangan I love it
How about, i don't deserve being in the centre of attention
Yes yes YES EVERY THING IS A *BIG* YES
Is it weird that i kinda want attention but when i get everyone's attention i dont like it at all 😂😔
So I guess here's another video I'll be going back to every now and then.
Aww. Any other future requests that you like to see?
Maybe science behind ambiverts (if one can actually be classified as such) and people who flip flop between extroverted and introverted traits.
www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
Its important for us to find out what kind of introvert we are its very important you do have a purpose and the world needs you. Through this you can find out your natural strengths and get into things that you will learn fast there is peace in strength. Get into these things and let your skill naturally develop unconciously.
I can relate to all of those. It's so hard, especially presentations. I'm really anxious when it comes to presentations, I mean my heart is already racing when I raise my hand to say something in class. And now is the time where my teachers really put pressure on us because they do a lot of presentations, my English teacher does presentations almost every lesson but she knows about me being very anxious about presentations. But she doesn't react positiv : Sometimes a lot of the presentations are optional and you can choose if you want to present your work. I always do my work really hard and try my best so I can balance my mark because the verbal part of it is pretty low. When we have these optional presentations I don't do them but as I said I try my best with the writing part. But there's the part that really drags me down. Every time someone does the optional presentation she prayses them for how brave they are and how easy it is and she constantly looks at me when she says that. I really want to try the optional presentations but I can't if she always destroys my motivation. I really want to talk to her about it but I can't force myself to do it.
I want to thank you for clearing that up for other people so they can understand us who struggle with this a little better :)
Sophia Spielt wow that must suck. My teachers usually give me a 100 and makes things a bit easier for me, they’re really understanding. You should definitely speak up about it next time if you’re not able to overcome your anxiousness.
I’m the exact same but maybe a little worse, we don’t do presentations as much but when we do we know when to expect it because they give us a deadline, so I just call off sick for the next 2 days and have my friend send me all my work so I don’t fall behind in any other classes....I just can’t do presentations
I once got a 60% in a language class major assignment because I had to do a presentation and forgot how to speak English, it was terrible. I tried to tell her that I was too nervous, but she simply said "no, you only speak English in this class" (this was in Quebec). I cried because it ruined my mark and I dropped like 5% with that assignment. It's hard when your parents expect you to be getting nothing lower than 90% and your social anxiety/extreme introversion gets in the way.
I always had to deal with it 😑
I actually get pissed off because I'm being told to talk in front of people and walk away without answer. Ask the teacher if you can do other work instead. If he/she says "No, you have to get a taste of the real world" or some shit, tell her to fuck off with that bullshit. Then go to the principle and explain that you won't do presentations cause you're fucked up in the head, and that you have a condition that they have to abide by. I basically intimidated my teachers. They'd just be like, "Well Dan's not gonna do this, so give em a book or something". Don't over do my behavior though. You don't want to just seem like some kid trying to gain some attention for being "Rebellious". I'm living life in my comfort zone. A true loner at that. I live with my cousin and I'm trying to get him to put together his own PC, like I did.
The government: so tell me, how is the lock down?
Introverts: sooooo gooood
lol i know right
Based on what you said you're an infp
www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/home.htm?bhcp=1
www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
Its important for us to find out what kind of introvert we are www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/home.htm?bhcp=1
www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
Its important for us to find out what kind of introvert we are its very important you do have a purpose God mad you for a reasonProof that God is real and Jesus is the messiah and Jesus is God the son
Matthew 24:7 King James Version (KJV)
7 For nation shall rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom: and there shall be famines, and pestilences, and earthquakes, in divers places.
Kinginhabitat.com/scientists-hypothesize-why-earthquakes-happen-where-they-shouldnt/
Matthew 24:5 King James Version (KJV)
5 For many shall come in my name, saying, I am Christ; and shall deceive many.
King James Version (KJV)
Fake Jesus in Siberia
th-cam.com/video/n8BOMqks-gQ/w-d-xo.html
and the world needs you. Through this you can find out your natural strengths and get into things that you will learn fast there is peace in strength. Get into these things and let your skill naturally develop unconciously.
and the world needs you. Through this you can find out your natural strengths and get into things that you will learn fast there is peace in strength. Get into these things and let your skill naturally develop unconciously.
Explanation of aliens
and please read king james version of the Bible ezekiel chapter 1:5-22 its numbered you can't miss it
www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Ezekiel-Chapter-1/
since the angels of God have control over UFOs the fallen angels also have controls over their own Ufo's.
the sons of Anak are of the giants
Numbers 13:33 states this
And there we saw the giants, the sons of Anak, which come of the giants: and we were in our own sight as grasshoppers, and so we were in their sight.
and please read king james version of the Bible ezekiel chapter 1:5-22 its numbered you can't miss it
www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Ezekiel-Chapter-1/
since the angels of God have control over UFOs the fallen angels also have controls over their own Ufo's.
the sons of Anak are of the giants
the giants were created from fallen angels
Genesis 6:1-4
And it came to pass, when men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born unto them,
2 That the sons of God saw the daughters of men that they were fair; and they took them wives of all which they chose.
3 And the Lord said, My spirit shall not always strive with man, for that he also is flesh: yet his days shall be an hundred and twenty years.
4 There were giants in the earth in those days; and also after that, when the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.
@@magnefficientgaming4327 Introversion + Intuition + Feeling + Judging
Vision and meaning oriented. Quietly intense. Insightful. Creative. Sensitive. Seeks harmony, growth. Serious. Loves language, symbols. Persevering. Inspiring.
This is what I am, apparently 🤗
@@arianaeilish6169 I Too INFJ -A
@@arianaeilish6169 People Tell Me
Kindly Speak More
Why Are You Shy ?
But I Am Not Shy At All
I Just Feel Lazy To Talk To Them
@@financialadvicechannel5941 yassss me too!
When I start shaking in school when teacher calls me, my friend always says “why are you so shy? Stop it.” It’s really annoying…
Like, what, does shyness have a switch I can just turn on and off? -_-
• m e x x a l i •
I can relate...
So true. My teachers since school started after every presentation I had: "Well, you did really great, but bE mORe ConFiDenT!" And I'm like "ok, next time I try it :)" (my inner totally annoyed "are you kidding?! I tried my BEST!").
Next time, I'm talking in front of the class I concentrate so much "not to be that shy" and the teachers be like "YOu DoN'T hAvE tO be So SHy!". Well, really? Cause I thought I have to...
I really don't understand people..do they think that we can control how we act or speak to others.. my whole life I've heard these words..it's driving me crazy because I don't do it on purpose or to be funny.. people like us are the ones who suffered the most ..and it's absolutely not helpful to hear this kind of shit..but if u give them the wrong answer or if u speak up than you will be the bad guy in this story. It's tiring
@@amilo1xD Omg I want to marry this comment! This is SO TRUE! Thank you for this comment🙏🏻
All my classmates think I'm a cold person because I don't talk as much as them. It's nice to know that people feel similarly to me and that I'm not the only person who has problems like these.
Mee too, but they think I'm weird or depressed lol
I get pretty uncomfortable when they try to add me to a group or start small talks. I prefer to read or being by myself
@@bonthebunnycat667 same
My mom and sister thinks I’m a cold person cause I don’t show much emotion. But it’s really because of a rough childhood and having to lose all my family and friends because of my parents divorcing and my mom forcing me to move to a country that isn’t even my main language. So anything that might seem sad or anything that happens to me that makes me sad, I learned to just keep my emotions in. Keep my tears back, and just let it out later when no one is around. It isn’t healthy, but I guess that’s what happens when your parents don’t think how their actions and their choices can affect their own child.
Because my mom clearly didn’t think how moving to japan would affect me. I’m moving out luckily, which was hard for me to do. Took me 4 years to finally speak and tell my mom that I can live like this. I’m moving in a few weeks.
@@ash_studios3374 yeah but I AM actually cold and heartless.... It's just my personality
Yeah I always have a cold look plastered on my face, and they call me KJ for not hanging out with them, eh
Clicked so fast and completely agree, being an introvert myself..
Yeah sure...
I feel like I’ll hurt somebody or make them hate me way too often
Even the smallest things
it sucks
Same
magnefficient gaming i like how your comment goes from "this might be your personality type" to a religion lesson
@@tabboty well if you are a infp and you aren't spiritual you just I would assume you have brain damage
@@tabboty all i know is you can't disprove what I sent you and that my own experiences have lead me to the truth
magnefficient gaming well i apologize but I’m not christian-
"Hey, Speak Up!"
Me Internally : "Hey, Shut up!"
yep
Me: *S A Y G O O D B Y E*
You should ask them.
XD😂😂😂😂
Exactly! And they’d call you rude for saying that, but they wouldn’t say it’s rude to force us to speak, like it make us uncomfortable, so leave us alone 😂, but tbh I’m more mean and sassy internally, but me being an introvert, I never really state my thoughts unless it’s online
A close friend of mine once told me that her first impression of me wasnt really good.. Well, she was really pissed by me and thought i was a snob as she told me. I didnt even remember the first time we met that time (we were at different classes) . But when i did i understood why. As i tried to remember her a memory of her voice came into my mind.. I was drawing stuff at a club class i think and she came up complimenting my sketchings and i thanked.
So i went and asked why she was pissed. She said "You said nothing and didnt even looked at me lol.."
I then understood all. My voice was so low that she didn't even hear me and so thought i wasn't looking her eyes bc i looked down on her..
My bad
Everyone tells me to be louder, I’m just like:
SHUT UP IDC
in my mind ~_~
@@Sakura-sp2ri Exactly then to top it off they always say it right in the middle of you talking. Which can make you lose your train of thought or just not want to continue.
Yeah they say
TALK LOUDER
And I'm like
Your stupid or what
hesykhia zioner I’m not an introvert, but I have ADHD which means sometimes I don’t hear what people say.
I litterally hear no words and suddenly someone is angry xD
*bro i can't even talk to a toddler without having a panic attack-*
i used to cry when i saw one across the street
The only toddler I can talk to is my niece lol
This comment is underated.
Sunshine I actually hate small children because they are so extroverted. I lunch monitor at my school (I pretty much have to open containers for kindergarteners) and every kid there is an extrovert especially one kid who talk so fast he stutters and I can barely understand him. Another kid though is very sweet, she is very quiet and observant and is a clear introvert when she needs something opened she will come up to me look at me and give me the container without saying a word. I think she goes up to me more than my friend because my friend encourages her to speak up which scares her a bit while I stay quiet. I should be encouraging her but I feel like that is someone else’s job because I’m quiet as well. Sorry this turned into a rant almost, I get carries away.
TL;DR I don’t like kids because they talk too much, one kid I like because she is quiet.
RobinThe Wolf lmao right. I was probably the only introverted child when I was younger lol
My mom: Oh look there's a new girl, go talk to her!
Me: I guess..
My mind: U f*cking think it's that easy?
My crush in a nutshell, cheers.
My friend: *hey it's your crush, go speak to her*
Me: *silently sighs*
Internally what I wanted to say from that sigh: *Listen here, you little sh*t, it isn't that easy!*
@@tinashemudzingwa7292 sounds like every anime plot, it is really hard but the only way it can get better is to take control. believe me, I know how hard it is but it is the only way things will change.
I'm like: very funny now can I go back on my tablet?
"What's up?"
What am I supposed to say? The sky?
Usually I just say "the ceiling" :)
i say "nothing", wait for him/her to say something, and if he/she say nothing, then i leave xd
Just awkwardly say “hi”
Say "Hey" bruh, that's just a way to say Hi, people aren't really asking something
"It wasn't until I moved to America that I realised that the answer to 'what's up' is... 'what's up?'" -Ismo, Finnish comedian
Presentations are my enemy. I had a teacher who made us do presentations CONSTANTLY. He used me as an example of what NOT to do during a presentation. I got really good on the slideshow part of the presentations, but I completely failed the presentation part.
CrystallizedSoul658 saaaaameee$!!
CrystallizedSoul658
Yeah man, sometimes I just flat out refuse to do presentations, or I skip that part of class. I've always thought that class presentations are stupid anyways. The teachers always say that we to practice because we'll have to do it someday. But in the real world the only people giving public speeches are the ones who CHOOSE to do them. It's not like we'll be forced to give a speech someday.
Random Stuff In Oregon No but if you go to uni you're going to do a presentation about your research to finish your time there and later maybe in your working life which depends on the job I guess but usually a finance job would do those
in my english class i got great grades for the writing but bad for the talking/discussion because i suffered such bad anxiety i would almost never put my hand up to answer questions in front of the class.really irritated me as it was my favourite subject.
McOinky
Looks like I'll never have to give another speech in my life then!
One of the things I personally experience as an introvert is that I'm a quiet, unnoticable ghost. No one usually notices what I'm doing until they turn around and see me. Perfect for scaring people.
i can totally relate sometimes i scare people
Same 🤣
Stealth 100
Same,its pretty good actually
*i can hide when the teacher is choosing someone to do something*
Someone : compliments me
Me : *debates over how I should react*
Someone : *walks away while I’m thinking what to do*
Me : damn I hope they don’t think I’m a snob
Just say thanks
Don't worry, I can relate a lot to these
Same situation , i would always end up having no reaction because i can't decide. I'm thankful for those who complements me , and i think you deserve the best that would make you happy too.
same
I feel discomfort whenever a person compliments my talents, especially drawing because I don't deserve to be described as beautiful, cute, or even talented, and also because I don't want to be overly confident and being superior to them, so whenever someone's going to compliment me and my talents, I would always say "I'm not worthy of something great", and they would be skeptical about it and they would say "you don't want to get complimented? it's the best thing you could ever hear coming from a person", and I would just continue doing my hobby just to forget that moment.
I feel like everyone hates me what the heck is wrong with meeeee
Orbital.Experience
Why?
Edit: just trying to find the too of what you think that, I was just curious. You don't have to say anything on why
same here dude!
JK Hopeful oh yeah, um, there is no reason why. It just feels like everyone hates me. I’m trying to find the reason why I think everyone hates me
Orbital.Experience
I'm not sure how to respond to your response, but I think you have people who don't hate you and care for you. Have you talked to anyone about your worries? I understand if you haven't, sometimes words can't always help a worry.
Sometimes i had awkward moments talking to new friend too :
Another problem us introverts face is people (a.k.a. Butch Hartman) say being an introvert is selfish and makes everyone uncomfortable.
JimTheCactus Did he really ?? 😯
Elijah Watson yup th-cam.com/video/v2RvN6XtYZ0/w-d-xo.html
JimTheCactus I don't think introverstim make you selfish
Assassin's Creed Real life pranks I didn't say it was
I say it because I am a kind of selfish and I am an Extrovert
Whenever people ask me why I'm so quiet I reply "Empty vessels make the most noise." That shuts them up real fast.
PFFT LMAO
Thats a good one lol
I'll have to use that next time. That's awesome comeback!😂
omg every-time I meet a new person they think I'm rude or stuck up, and then when they get to know me they are like I thought you were rude at first but you are a really nice person, you were just shy. and im like yep.
I don’t think I’m an introvert but I can relate to a lot of things introverts relate to! Especially the first one! I have an idea for a video more towards people in middle/highschool: How to know you are ready for your *first* relationship
We have one coming up on that actually. Stay tune!
Awesome idea! Can't wait!
maybe you're an ambivert
wow... I finally found someone else who knows what an ambivert is...
people mostly only think of introverts and extroverts, completely forgetting
that the vast majority of people are actually ambiverts :)
Everybody has introverted tendencies and while these apply to everybody, it is helpful to be aware of our behaviour.
When you tell your friends you just wanna be alone and they start assuming you're upset but really you just want some alone time😂
this video remind me one the first time someone asked me: "Why you're so quiet?"
I instantly blushed and didn't manage to answer the question,feeling really tense due to that simple question
My whole school is social, and the teacher would always say:
"If you see anyone sitting alone at lunch, sit with them and talk to them!" Let's just say, there were a lot of awkward moments
@@reignrain4042 lol, nobody has ever done that "talk to them if they are alone" sort of thing for me :( yes I'm that much of an introvert...it's mainly with extroverts, if one extrovert is alone, another extrovert confronts them and they have a blast. If it's with me, same thing, except scrap the "nobody coming" part....
I’m proud to be an introvert. I may not like people but when you get to know me, I’m like the chillest person you can be around. To my introverts all over the world, don’t let people judge you on how you go about your lifestyle, you’re the best kind of people on earth and I love you all (from a distance lmao)
In the Amazon book "THE 5 AGELESS RULES OF MENTAL HEALTH: conquer Stress, Anxiety, and Depression -SAD. Uncover the Natural Ways of Healing Yourself. Here's my quick grab from just one chapter
As we get older, we tend to align by the societal matrix, making us a bit protective. We start to build walls to cover ourselves from unknown or perceived fear
We begin to lose our essence. The inbuilt childlike zeal to try, to explore and to become, gradually starts to atrophy
Within those walls, another evolution gradually steps in.
In that state, we first justify these mechanisms by calling ourselves INTROVERTS just to feel good about our state of being
While it is in the nature of a child to exude a superman kind of confidence, adult life and society's matrix shrink those order of things, making us believe that that we can live only in our own skin.
The instant gratification creeps in, we see ourselves not able to be sane without social media likes, games, and some other types of self-addictions
The book in chapt 2 is a synthesis to the childhood innocence & adult life. It creates a balance through some simple practical steps of becoming
Checkout that book on Amazon store....believe me, it helps & heals.
I'm in an anxiety fallout right now. You're always here in time 💕💕
I'm sorry, man. You'll get through it.
Curry Chippy Thank you 👍
I know I’m a bit late, but I hope you feel better soon 👍🏻
The more I know about people, the more I like dogs.
I like animals way more than people and I think animals are in someways better than people
yes
Tʜᴇ Tʀᴜᴛʜ Sᴘᴇᴀᴋ Fᴏʀ Iᴛsᴇʟғ.
Trueee😭😭😭😭
I love animals way more than humans..
Although, I have human friends.
“You’re too quiet”
“Why don’t you talk more”
“He’s arrogant”
I just be wanting to listen to music and talk when I’m not feeling unnaturally anxious
The worst question ever to be asked in front of a large group of people:
"You are a quiet person!! aren't you?"
My eyes start watering when overwhelmed with people talking to me like at party's and stuff
Honk if you think im hot saaaaaame!!!!
Same here and it's really uncomfortable. Especially when they point it out and make it a big deal. Like no I'm fine please just leave me alone...
YAASS ME TOO. Especially when it's my bday I don't invite anyone. I only celebrate it with my family because I don't like it when I'm the protagonist of the day and every of my friends have to celebrate with me. It just feels terrifying when I'm suddenly that important
Same except my face turns red
I think the biggest problem is getting a job when you grow up. You have to *call* (introverts and phone calls don't go together, even if that phone call is what will develop your future career) someone that is a complete stranger to you to get called in a job interview (idk how the people that do job interviews are called), since no job envolves speaking to no one. This is why I want to do either a home job or become an artist but I'm probably gonna be broke.
Its called interviewer fyi. I dont think its that bad. Im an introvert myself. U just answer truthfully and period. I cant lie that most jobs require interaction and that shit is tuff when u want to do the opposite. All the introvert jobs are really high risk, high reward (like an artist). However, do the thing whats best for u. Dont force it, once u figure what job or career u want, its a wrap. Its all within.
Nah, its panic inducing
For interviews, if I don't write down like 10 possible answers to questions they might ask, my brain is a mess when I DO answer. I'll stutter a lot or go completely silent...and then fail the interview
I’d rather be by myself than around people who make me feel alone
Yea... I'd rather be alone and myself, than be around people and lonely.
I also feel that im an introvert and sometimes i want to be an extrovert because they can easily talk to anyone. But when I I try to be like them, my inner thought said it is impossible. Then, i just become myself T.T
same dude but you know i want to be more of an ambevert than extrovert ambevert is a fusion
I used to as well but I discovered that we have our own strength too. we gotta focus on our strengths and learn to accept that we have some downsides. what I like to do is have a couple of good extroverted friends who pull me out of the house for an awesome time at a pub or something, something a bit in between the full-on party and being alone. I find it works great.
@@TheMagnay Same, when I was a kid I acted extroverted and I even became popular in 2nd grade, but deep inside, I preferred quite and sometimes that slipped out and I wouldn’t speak, though whenever someone asked me as a kid I’d just smile and be like “I was just thinking!”, but by age 11 this took a mental toll and by age 13 I started to have more realizations about myself, by age 14 I decided to stop pretending and to stop acting like something I wasn’t for the sake of my extroverted family, even if it came off rude, I didn’t care because it was best for me, I’ll happily explain this to them, but they never listen anyways..
Same T.T
I hate it when people who aren't introverted say shit like "you wouldn't know this but I'm actually introverted" like they some how superior because they can act extraverted when they want to.
Peter Page some people are both
I'm one of those: I relate to most of the points in this video, though people often take me for an extrovert. Can't one just be both without being judged for not being introvert or extrovert enough? O.=
Stellalpina So an ambivert?
I think introverted people can sometimes act like extroverts, but they just have to "pay a price" for it later.
Peter Page that shit tilts me because they have no idea what its really like not being able to talk to anyone in a group setting or be forced to communicate with strangers. People like that always lie to themselves probably about alot of things.
For number 3, "Party obligations", if you still live with your parents, tell whoever is inviting you that you have to ask your parents but don't actually ask them if you don't want to go.
If they ask about what your parents say, tell them that they said no.
I've used this a couple of times and it has worked. I've thought of this in and out, trust me.
Yes but after a while of rejections they'll stop asking you out.
Also, what happens if they ask your parents directly.
Steal their phone xD
Just a Person I have done this multiple times, it’s great.
Yess! Great excuse to not go to a party, but what happens if they lose their credibility?
I used this tactic when I was growing up and people would believe me because they knew how strict my parents were lol. I kind of enjoyed it. I wish I could say it still now that I'm in my late 30's 😂
*Person* Does any of these relate to you?
*Me* Yes everything expect I don't get invited to parties
Same
lol same. for me it's because my parents don't allow me to go outside, and my friends knew about it, so they never invited me.
Same
Well, there's this 1 guy in my school who keeps inviting me to visit his house, but i use my parents as excuses saying i'm not allowed. But in reality, i don't even want to go
*except* i mean what kind of introvert doesn't read their comment more than once
I'm a HUGE introvert and I'm the only in my whole class... This really hard to deal with it but I'm trying.
Same...
Even in my own Birthday parties i want to be alone! But then my parents obligate me to socialize with my family and i have to make small talk with them, smiling and laughing while i just feel uncomfortable and want to be alone in my room!
X2
My parents never understood me and often force me to make "friends" and socialize to other relatives that I'm not familiar with, while telling me to always smile eventhough I don't feel like it.
So yeah, I can relate. :/
Even me
WHY DO PEOPLE HATE INTOVERTS SO MUCH I MEAN THEY ALL SAY "BE YOURSELF" OR "YOU COULD BE WHATEVER U WANT" WELL CAN'T PEOPLE JUST EXCEPT INTROVERTS LIKE THEY DON'T DO NO HARM TO YOU CHEEZE.
Yeah, we're always being ourselves all the time
Don't mean to sound cynical, but the world is filled with hypocrites. It's always ok when they're themselves but they want everyone to conform to their will.
hate to be that guy, but i feel like EXCEPT should be ACCEPT
i mean, you already edited this comment once, wouldn't hurt to do it again
*Cheeze*
Not to be rude, but it's just that if you're not one, they're confusing. I'm sure introverts say the same things about extroverts
Video: “4. Presentations”
Me: *oh god*
For me, the only time it feel worst is when teacher told us to do group project😂😂
being introverted actually helps with these things you know who to assign to what role and can defuse conflict
its important for us introverts to find out exactly what kind of introvert we are so we know our strengths and to do things that require our strength so we fell like we belong. I didn't know why I was so good at rapping until I found out I was an INFP. Take the MBTI please
@@magnefficientgaming4327 I don't think I have the ability to agree with you
I’m like, “Yay. I have to talk to these people…”
I was sitting on my own on the bench during recess and then one of my classmate said that I'm lonely and that made me mad
you care too much man
Si
Memsly Mem where did you get if?
Memsly Mem no I didn’t forget it’s auto corrector
Extroverts just don’t understand that we enjoy alone time and use it to recharge. While extroverts run around with a bunch of other kids to recharge during recess, we like it do little activities with a few friends or just simply think about stuff.
Introverts are lone wolf, many protagonist portrayed in the game, movie and such would portray the protagonist this way
go Digong, thats my president😂
Easiest way for them not to write a mary sue character.
Rodigo Duterte yo prez!
Yeah, is a common way to portray an introverted protagonist in stories, otherwise is usually a support character. Like Max from Mad Max. But sometimes we get an introvert who is awesome and not a loner, like Newt Scamander.
The sad part is the way you spelled your name
A kid in my class: What is a pangolin?
Me: (in a low voice) a pangolin is a animal that has a lot of scales and is endangered....
The kid in my class: Wwwhhaaattt! You actually said something!!!
Me in my head: I am not a idiot, you do realize that we are all human.
Ah the one which looks like a pokemon!
Yeah
@@thefollowinguser9999 I was really confused by your nickname. In my notification it looked like a mix of english and german sentences, so I thought wtf
But now i understand
Well played
I mean, does it look like they have autism or down syndrome?
This introvert thing is eating me up much more than this. I feel so awkward and so anxious to run out of topics to talk. People might think i hate talking to them wish they knew what things been running back and forth in my mind. Much love and respect to my introvert fellows! Y’all are the best!
don't try to have topics talk about things randomly and your mind will eventuall never run out of things to say during conversation
My mom, dad, brothers really turn the topic everytime that "i am an introvert.. I Don't talk around people..i stay at the corner.you are so big why Don't you talk..childrens Don't talk youre big why dont you talk???""".like i feel like crying allll day in the corner and scream lol
About number three... I just say that I don't like parties or overcrowded situations, that they make me anxious and uncomfortable, I will just go to those I really can't and don't want to miss, like a friend's birthday or graduation. It's way better than excuses, and if people get offended because you are avoiding a situation that makes you uncomfortable than they are not friends.
Thank you so much for your work here. Your content has helped me educate people in my life. I’m an HSP introvert with anxiety and depression. Thank you so much for providing such good content.
im exactly the same. at least we're not alone. :( :) x
Ninaa :3
No we aren’t and so many thanks for that fact!!
Other people: "You look so sad and depressed."
Me: "Thanks it's my sadness and my depression."
Hahahhahahahahahahha i love it, feeling the same though
@@Tinziielein lol it's like "what am I suppose to say?" lmao I least I know that they care to see if I'm okay or not 😁🤷🏽♂️
I'm shaking when I try to talk to someone new, even if it is for information
You guys are awesome! So hard to find people who deal with these type of problems.
:)
Yep, I'm constantly finding myself coming up with BS excuses to get out of having to do stuff with my friends. It's not that I don't like them, I just prefer to spend most of my time alone.
Am I the only one that daydreams like A LOT? Then I'm disappointed by the real life and my social anxiety
It's worse when somebody else wakes u up from that daydream just when the story is just getting interesting
There's so much introverts in the world that I'm literally the only person thats an extrovert and I actually watched this video for a reason
I'm an introvert with most people.
But my friend I've known for 5 years, I'm a bit more of an extrovert.
Its like my social battery with her lasts longer.
Example:
With most people I'm a phone at 40% that drops pretty fast.
With my BFF I'm a phone at 100% that drains slowly.
Well, you're not an "extrovert" with your BFF. It's normal behavior for an introvert to feel comfortable around people they know.
Same, this is common in most introverts because we create stronger relationships which makes us more comfortable and social!
Yep, I feel the same way. I'm really bad with talking to somebody I don't know, but if you give me a couple months to know you I'll be a little more comfortable talking. So uh, that's why I don't go to subway..... 😂
I see myself as an introvert but i'm not shy. I like talking to new people and know about them but when i want to be alone, i am. I like balancing being alone and to go out with friends. Finding that balance gives me confidence to do what i like and helping others.
"WOW, YOU CAN SPEAK !"
Haha. Ha.
Mom: You need to be more social.
Me: You thought
I love watching this channel it's helped me with so many things and I can even tell my friends things I've wanted to let them now. It's wonderful and I'll keep watching and sharing.
Glad it's helping you! Thanks for sharing with your friends and helping us reach more people with our work!
Make a video about "How to flirt as an introvert"
Totius Toti
*YES* !!!!!!
Totius Toti cant make the vid if its impossible :'|
0Marble
Oof.
Thanks for the suggestion! We will keep it in mind.
You don't. Just stare at them hoping they'll notice and start a conversation 😥
You forgot to add that when we're made to talk like at school or something we feel really under pressure
well yeah, that kinda goes with performing in front of others but it is definitely something people need to understand nether the less. hell I'm starting to cringe just thinking of it, speaking in front of large crowds is one of the hardest things for me.
I get dizzy, my sight gets blurry, I ramble instead of speak, and I get to the verge of fainting. Took a speech course in college to try and help... yeah, nope 👎
"DoNt Be ShY" "WoW, hE iS qUiEt" "WhY cAnT yOu TaLk"
Yeah, well how about you have an eye contact with a stranger and stare at him for 1 week..
YEAH, SAME!!!
every single introvert video you guys do is so relatable... when I am invited to a party, or have someone CONSTANTLY messaging me on facebook to make pointless small talk (like what the hell I'm doing stuff.. even if its just being a loner watching a movie, I don't want to constantly stop what I'm doing to reply to pointless small talk on my phone - take a hint!!!!) I am tempted to just send them these videos and not say anything and see if maybe then they'll understand. When I say I'm just an introvert and I need my alone time to recharge, people just thinking I'm using it as an excuse! People don't want to put stock in something that they can't relate too :(
I'm a introvert and have three close friends: one is a introvert, and the other two are extroverts.
same with me
I have problem eat in front of people 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️so I can’t eat in restaurants 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️😂 anyone else or am I alone ?
Oh same. It had been no problem to eat infront of people.
But for any reason since a few years it gets worse. I can't eat in front of my friends or strangers. Only in front of my family.
I can't help you, but at least you're not alone :)
😭 Me too even eating with my family kills me
What I do is cover by mouth while eating. It helps me A Lot :)
You are not alone
It's like everyone is looking at you while you're eating
One of my annoyances is when people think you hate others, incorrect. Introverts just get drained by social stuff which tends to make them more shy and only really act like extroverts near their closed friends
The main problem only an introvert can relate to is people not getting it and trying to change you. For years I was called antisocial by my family and compared to others. They would reference my stepbrother who can act extroverted yet isn’t very talkative so comes off somewhat antisocial and my mother who shared similar traits saying I get my antisocial personality from my mother’s side of my family referencing how my dad was outgoing or in other words an extrovert. It made me feel like there was something wrong with me and yet I couldn’t see any way to change into the person they wanted me to be. Even now they have me labeled antisocial and just abnormal for wanting to spend time alone rather than constantly in the company of others. I enjoy spending time with close friends but hate small talk as well as socializing with people I do not know well which is a concept they cannot comprehend.
Aaaaand que the tears. I've never found the words for the explanation of being an introvert. I couldn't send this to so many people who didn't understand fast enough.
Me, an introvert: *is quiet*
Random person: "Do you do drugs?"
Random person 2: "I bet your gonna be the next school shooter"
Me: "........no....... just no......."
someone asks:
Why are you quiet?
Me:
Why do you talk so much?
Exactly! Or another answer, when will you let me speak?
this is so accurate! Makes me happy knowing that I'm not suffering alone.
This is soooooo true!!! Whenever I have to present something at school and I start to speak I literally cant!! My throat starts closing up and my hands start shacking and everyone can tell I’m a nervous wreck!! It’s so embarrassing... 😢 😔 😞
Savannah Animations yea same its a horrible feeling
When then video says stuff that relates to you and other introvert.
"Finally somebody how gets us introverts"
Yes, that really is a relief.
What makes me really happy about this channel that it brought people with psychological problems together ... i feel comfortable with the people here more than my own family !
I can mostly agree with this video
especially that people ask me why I don't talk
number 6:
-Why dont you ever talk?
+*says something*
-OMG thats how your voice sounds
...
Literally me everyday:
Maybe i should text him... no he would think im a freak :/
I can relate
trust IEvilChristian, i'm a men and i can relate
at least if he is introvert
Yes
Same
I can relate too. Whenever I try to text someone, I delete my replies :(
Everyone thinks I'm rude because they can't hear my replies and I'm too self-conscious to repeat them in a louder voice. Relate?
Yes it is true and my relatives and aunt's think that too my mom even says tha' go and talk' or 'say something' etc. These things sometimes hurt too much
@@magnefficientgaming4327 Thank you very much; I took the MBTI assessment as well as the Enneagram Institute's quiz years ago. Which type are you?
@@sallyperdue3185 infp
@@magnefficientgaming4327 That's nice.
It's so weird that growing up I was never an introvert. It only happened when I got much older and started university. It's like one year I was this totally outgoing person, social butterfly, life of the party. Now I have horrible social anxiety and prefer not to go out at all most weekends. Like a switch has been flipped. I prefer to be myself most days and absolutely loath when people come up to me when I'm sitting by myself
, especially people i don't know.
Thumbnail="dont be shy!"
Me=*too shy to answer*
What about when you have to eat at the lunch table at school and stay as far away from people as possible but somebody starts talking to you anyway when your having a really important thought ( AKA, all the time )
When extroverts unite: LETS UNITE! AT THE MALL! 🥳🥳🥳
When introverts unite: LETS UNITE! at home... 🥠
On the phone
@@match3282 lol