Is It Possible to Stop Being Possessive in a Relationship?

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  • @mirsharipovbehzod
    @mirsharipovbehzod ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Pain of possessiveness has healed me. Absolutely true.

    • @telugulomatladudam3722
      @telugulomatladudam3722 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same is applicable for the pain of ignorance if the pain of ignorance is unbearable we will know who we are we will realise self

    • @MusicaParaTodos111
      @MusicaParaTodos111 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here :/
      Was ... a total life teach ❤

    • @testing38919
      @testing38919 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What did your possessiveness lead to that eventually heal you of it?

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid ปีที่แล้ว +68

    You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great

  • @Corteum
    @Corteum ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Paraphrase: _Completeness doesnt happen by getting this or that (i.e. objects, possessions, expereinces, credit). It only happens when you're alive at/to your core. The moment you touch that, then you're truly alive... then you can play it like a game._

    • @jigarrpatel3606
      @jigarrpatel3606 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stll need details explanation…

    • @Corteum
      @Corteum ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jigarrpatel3606 No. What it needs is practice and persistance. It's more practical.

  • @knowpassword
    @knowpassword ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “The less you have the more you gain!”

  • @nupurbharti3157
    @nupurbharti3157 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am in the same situation right now
    When I try to walk away
    Consequences happen
    But this clear vision is much needed this moment

  • @manrajchauhan5862
    @manrajchauhan5862 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The Last Statement he made is the way I have been living ever since I completed inner engineering. And I would have never imagined it's way more beautiful and fun way to be. If not for this being I would have never tasted even a single drop of freedom. Thank you Will never be enough. So I surrender myself to the process.

  • @ouwqaplmruzvearlfgalwhclak
    @ouwqaplmruzvearlfgalwhclak ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This man is the treasure in the current world

  • @NondualityChannel
    @NondualityChannel ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Being possessive in a relationship will only cause both parties suffering.
    I am non-attached to my wife and she tells me this is the easiest relationship she has ever had.

    • @0nelight19-SaveSoil
      @0nelight19-SaveSoil 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      when you are really possessive, there is only one party 😂 therefore I prefer Sadhgurus technology 🥰

    • @NondualityChannel
      @NondualityChannel 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@0nelight19-SaveSoil You can not even possess yourself, so how can you hope to possess anyone or anything else?

    • @beastgalaxygaming9402
      @beastgalaxygaming9402 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe my possessiveness and stupidity is going to make me lose the love of my life. I want to be less possessive, but what do you mean by un-attached to your wife? I don't understand that because I'm extremely attached to my girlfriend so much that each one of her mood affects me. I wanted to know your insights on being "Un-attached"

  • @sourabhsharma9395
    @sourabhsharma9395 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Listening in 2024❤️when the pain surrounds you from your loved ones...that will eventually heal you one day.. until then...no matter how hard you try to possess ..it will give you just pain❤️

  • @holyhelper7400
    @holyhelper7400 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This satsang is of immense value.. where can get the full episode?

  • @madhutalwar3333
    @madhutalwar3333 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not finding words ...how to express my extreme thanks ..the way u transform a person. Many Many Thanks.

  • @rudyponzio5871
    @rudyponzio5871 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    🙏🏻You can't even posses yourself. You can't love what you can't live without. That's called something else altogether. 🫐

  • @CosmicDesending32534
    @CosmicDesending32534 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Reactions from processions brings out the visual truth from Reactions 😊

  • @priyaramdoo4762
    @priyaramdoo4762 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sadhguru you saved me ..I am so grateful to You❤🙏

  • @kimgordon3695
    @kimgordon3695 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "whatever you are doing, do it whole souled so as to Yah"

  • @gaurikasingh4473
    @gaurikasingh4473 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So beautifully expressed my situations and gave the answer i was looking for thank you so much guru ji ❤

  • @ludibinoinprogress
    @ludibinoinprogress ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Fantastic Sadhguru 😊🙏🏻 thank you with all my heart for everything 🫶🏼

  • @MaryTea-yp5tj
    @MaryTea-yp5tj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WOW~ a few words and I finally get it! Thank you!

  • @Devi-pg4rj
    @Devi-pg4rj ปีที่แล้ว

    How is Sadhguru so clear on everything 😁🙏

  • @GR-rk2fi
    @GR-rk2fi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I only learn through pain. Problem is, there is still so much to learn...

  • @harshsoneji2070
    @harshsoneji2070 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just at the right time Sadhguru.

  • @luzbeelluzbella369
    @luzbeelluzbella369 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadguru!!! Buddha your Nemesis is my friend.

  • @consciouschirag
    @consciouschirag ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please also answer, how to not be pushy in relationships?
    i.e. not forcing ourselves, our ideas, etc. onto other people, accepting others & respecting their individuality.

    • @Zyrenyafantasy
      @Zyrenyafantasy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Low your expectations

    • @atharvamore2280
      @atharvamore2280 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      First and most important Be happy in your own company. Respect yourself. And happily go into the relationship, dont forget you are individual. Once you go happily into relationship you are not gonna talk or beg the person for happiness. Thats where relationship starts growing.

  • @speaktruth3612
    @speaktruth3612 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MY SADHGURU 💯 FOR LIFE🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤ PRANAM

  • @saras03
    @saras03 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A great mentor ❤🔱

  • @AmandaZ-ft2ow
    @AmandaZ-ft2ow ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Missed your videos!
    With Gratitude! ! !❤⚜️❤
    Blessed Be! ! !❤🙏❤

  • @srisurya2001CAaspirant
    @srisurya2001CAaspirant ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video came to me at a tight time..❤

  • @humane_and_selfless__love722
    @humane_and_selfless__love722 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Sadhguru. 🙏 💕 Thanks for everything. 💕 I'm praying for the best for you and your family.

  • @RickWitan
    @RickWitan ปีที่แล้ว

    🪷 Maharaj, thank You for Your insightful words. Attachment is suffering, regrettably. Please keep me off this path so I do not suffer just as my parents went through much much suffering. My humble pranams 🙏🏾🪷

  • @chaththa85
    @chaththa85 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thanks so much Sadhguru!❤ This came to me at right time 🙏🥹

    • @OfficialGOD
      @OfficialGOD ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤ 🙏

    • @chaththa85
      @chaththa85 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@OfficialGOD ❤️🙏

  • @108Marycelestial
    @108Marycelestial ปีที่แล้ว

    No never be possessive. Be good and considerate instead. ❤

  • @BikramNeupane-d5v
    @BikramNeupane-d5v ปีที่แล้ว

    salute to video maker, the intro, BGs and Sadhguru's audio was all perfect.

  • @AnthonyMoitzger-nw1id
    @AnthonyMoitzger-nw1id ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I believe both should be positive in a relationship. And celebrate it. For neither one walks alone anymore. Peace 🕉 and joy.8888 🎶 🙏

  • @alienallen2983
    @alienallen2983 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍 SADHGURU 🙏>>>💚

  • @tchaliz4925
    @tchaliz4925 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have been reading the comments, and well, intelectually, we all have the same understanding. But, feeling not complete as far as you can remmenber is not intectual thing at all, it s only a ball of pain that you carry inside, and all you dream of is someone you can give love, take care of, but someone you are not affraid to lose, cause ypu got used to lose what you love. What thought can cope with such basic animal / compulsive yes, pain ?

  • @Penbuddy418
    @Penbuddy418 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Sadhguru for motivating us i respect you a lot

  • @juncuspatens
    @juncuspatens ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Is it ok..." -Jagadish Vasudev
    "If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about answers."
    - Thomas Pynchon

  • @michae2869
    @michae2869 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazingly enlightening

  • @abhisheksingh-lp1vw
    @abhisheksingh-lp1vw 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I only thought of breaking up with her 😢 no one knows how much i think of her including her also. I am very much possessive to her against every single boy , even for her cousins also, i know this sounds cheap but it is. My body goes in a freeze mode .i can't focus. So much depressed.

  • @ShantiDevi-m9y
    @ShantiDevi-m9y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You opened my eyes 🙏🙏🙏

  • @selvarajchettiar5039
    @selvarajchettiar5039 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NAMASKARAM SADHGURU 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @HAR_HAR_MAHADEV3335
    @HAR_HAR_MAHADEV3335 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't shift but I decrease all my desires through entering a state of samadhi…..like a shiva did when sati died…..I wanna possess with samadhi state for skipping this time 💀na punyam na papam….na soukhyam na dhukam…..chidanada ruph shivoham shivoham

  • @heeralsharma9765
    @heeralsharma9765 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadhguru Namaskar Pranam Blessings Please Aum Namah Shivaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @deltacharge
    @deltacharge ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree to the utmost degree of Agreement XD Nicee One!

  • @ishaartworks
    @ishaartworks ปีที่แล้ว

    5:32 & 7:24

  • @SuperJamalShah
    @SuperJamalShah ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadhguru, how would you differentiate possessiveness with persistence? 😊🎉

  • @kajalagarwala3697
    @kajalagarwala3697 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if the other person doesn't know how to maintain a certain boundary with others?

  • @bowloflight2201
    @bowloflight2201 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    9:53 🙏🏽

  • @jack-e-designs
    @jack-e-designs ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True.💗it’s all a vibe.💗🦋💛

  • @bohdanbasenko4092
    @bohdanbasenko4092 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That’s me!!!😂😂😂
    Right in the beginning of this video.
    It seems I am going viral 😄😊

  • @ishakeister6725
    @ishakeister6725 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sir

  • @raghavendrapachahara9643
    @raghavendrapachahara9643 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beauty of thoughts really 😊😊😊😊

  • @MusicaParaTodos111
    @MusicaParaTodos111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Redemption by the pain

  • @EnergyReleased
    @EnergyReleased ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow… Amazing…❤

  • @navinnimgale155
    @navinnimgale155 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How lovely ❤❤❤

  • @soubhikmukherjee2982
    @soubhikmukherjee2982 ปีที่แล้ว

    Namaskaram Guruji ❤

  • @I_am_Money_USA
    @I_am_Money_USA ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Sadhguru

  • @tahiyamarome
    @tahiyamarome ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Life will relieve you of all you think you possess in any case. So enjoy what enters your life and wave sweetly when it leaves.
    Why do so many people get upset with intensity? Why do people who go fully into things get reprimanded, called too much, over- invested, crazy?

  • @iammadhurima
    @iammadhurima ปีที่แล้ว

    Where can we get the full satsang?

  • @swarnalidutta7235
    @swarnalidutta7235 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very true❤

  • @fotispasas5324
    @fotispasas5324 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Try what fully, I didn’t get that part please help

    • @prithwirajjadhav1611
      @prithwirajjadhav1611 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm not sure if this is the correct answer, but he told once that -
      If u disconnect for 3 days, no TV, no mobile, no visitors, no talking, just being there, silent, then many things will be suddenly clear to you within no time!

  • @sachinbhat1857
    @sachinbhat1857 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where can I find background tune...

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bérhmànad sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha atí Anand sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sivaroyal4246
    @sivaroyal4246 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aum namasivaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk
    @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👉temple 🕵️😊

  • @pallavivaidya7423
    @pallavivaidya7423 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shambho ❤

  • @monikawy231
    @monikawy231 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes possessivess is bad

  • @avinash6820
    @avinash6820 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍😊😊💖💖
    Jai Gurudev!

  • @chichi-x3u1u
    @chichi-x3u1u ปีที่แล้ว

    Medium selected. no, no choice

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we ปีที่แล้ว

    Jai shree satguru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Naresh14316
    @Naresh14316 ปีที่แล้ว

    Peace of vioce

  • @samyadeepsengupta460
    @samyadeepsengupta460 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Possessive ness is not good

  • @CosmicDesending32534
    @CosmicDesending32534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Judgment is in the 👀 of the beholder😇👻

  • @CosmicDesending32534
    @CosmicDesending32534 ปีที่แล้ว

    Put a fork on it 😅

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we ปีที่แล้ว

    Bérhmànad sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha atí Anand sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ekansh6267
    @ekansh6267 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯💯🔥

  • @anamazinglife5628
    @anamazinglife5628 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💜💙

  • @RoslynDoe
    @RoslynDoe ปีที่แล้ว

    Earth is a prison not a school

  • @rupalideshpande1746
    @rupalideshpande1746 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏❤🙏

  • @rachellepeterson6225
    @rachellepeterson6225 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤✌️

  • @chullotm1970
    @chullotm1970 ปีที่แล้ว

    Save Soil!

  • @saras03
    @saras03 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @shreeharikulkarni5614
    @shreeharikulkarni5614 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @lokeshbarri6052
    @lokeshbarri6052 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @anoopcomputech4109
    @anoopcomputech4109 ปีที่แล้ว

    😊

  • @Tourhours
    @Tourhours ปีที่แล้ว

    🧤

  • @camilacatriman7293
    @camilacatriman7293 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🩵🦋

  • @s.g.5318
    @s.g.5318 ปีที่แล้ว

    Get a cat you love, it'll teach you how painful possessiveness is

    • @tchaliz4925
      @tchaliz4925 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dogs givve us unconditional love, cats teach us how to love and expect nothing in return, is that what you mean?

  • @Tourhours
    @Tourhours ปีที่แล้ว

    111

  • @aryabolke8226
    @aryabolke8226 ปีที่แล้ว

    🌺💖💖

  • @StarLink85
    @StarLink85 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️💛💚💙💜💖

  • @kspavankrishna
    @kspavankrishna หลายเดือนก่อน

    .

  • @rashmiyadav4062
    @rashmiyadav4062 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💕💕💕💕💐💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ShantiDevi-m9y
    @ShantiDevi-m9y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂

  • @A.Shek_
    @A.Shek_ ปีที่แล้ว

    I am tired of listening into the same narrative from Sadhguru that all is in ur control, when you want to switch it on you can or you can just be or be high all the time e.t.c. I have never came across any of his followers who say Yes I am like that. I am tired of hearing this at the point that either I want to experience it staright on upfront or just forget about Sadhguru & his wisdom which is not going to happen !! Sigh...

    • @shivankchopra8552
      @shivankchopra8552 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I understand what you are going through, i am sometimes in same boat as you frustrated (even abusing) Sadhguru when I try to implement what he says into my life and things are going out of control.
      But it does work slowly when you are constantly trying to improve fiercely. I have done inner engineering, so when i practice shambhavi regularly, i start getting the power of sticking to making choices my way, instead of getting frustrated with situations and people.
      But this takes time, years of consuming mental shittiness takes sometime to cleanup man

    • @A.Shek_
      @A.Shek_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shivankchopra8552 Heard ! Thanks man, perhaps inshud keep aside all complaints n struggles and practice shambhavi for atleast 6 months to test & analyse change if any. Its been 2 months of continuous practice from me till now & sometimes my practice mis successful & sometimes not(to much distracted by my own monkey chatter). Let's see after 6 months or a year. 🤔

    • @sgthasb
      @sgthasb ปีที่แล้ว

      solution is that swhen you try to get satisfaction out of hearing to your ideal or you want to find out something knew even if you had already read the title and found that what already will be content then you will be bored,,, so only solution is sadhna and practice.

    • @shivankchopra8552
      @shivankchopra8552 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@A.Shek_ Sure bro, all the best to you!
      Doing Shambhavi I have realized that you tend to get better with more practice. As in you build more insight into keeping the mind mum. It's like 1000 ways in which you discover how every thought is just shiet at the end of all day.
      At this point of my life, I am beginning to pretty much give in to the fact that if not for outer help like shambhavi, I by myself would never be able to direct my mind by my will. So I have like given into Shambhavi and let it do all the heavy lifting. Cheers! 🍻

    • @karunasreejetty917
      @karunasreejetty917 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then make an effort. Do Shambhavi Kriya.

  • @rutviumrigar1720
    @rutviumrigar1720 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Sadhguru 🙏

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we ปีที่แล้ว

    Jai shree satguru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Puranvlogs143
    @Puranvlogs143 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤

  • @IamItziar
    @IamItziar ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @untouched5131
    @untouched5131 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏