My quits: I quit buying drinks every time I left the house (gas stations, drive thrus). I just make sure my whole family packs a drink every time we leave. I quit buying eyeshadow. My sisters get too many in their subscription boxes and kindly pass brand new products to me. Or I'll just go without. I quit buying fancy coffees to show up to events with "to get me through" it has become more of a vibe/look I quit social media (except youtube) I quit trying to acquire ALL the farm animals and only keep the ones I actually enjoy I quit car notes I quit flying on airplanes period I quit ALL chain mail "pass it on" emails, texts many years ago (sorry Gma) I quit fundraisers that I was only purchasing from out of guilt and didn't need anything from I quit all essential oils and the smell good companies. I'll buy 1 candle at a time that I enjoy and when it's gone I purchase 1 when I feel like it I quit all smell good home sprays/plug ins/wax warmers I quit washing my hair daily I quit carbs and sugar (hello carnivore) I quit using "being an introvert or shy" as a reason to not make new friends and connections I quit trying to fix everyone else's problems and find them solutions every time they vented to me. I now just let them vent and try to be an ear. I quit trying to make goodie bags at EVERY holiday and for every child I know. I quit buying cards. I'll just tell them happy birthday & save the person the guilt of throwing the card away. I quit feeling obligated to purchase apparel for every club/group I'm involved in.
I can’t say enough how much I like the videos with the two of you. Your honesty is great and really makes me think.I am 62 yrs old so I can relate to a lot of how your Mom thinks and all the stuff she use to have. You two really do make a difference with suggesting how to limit the amount of things. Also, it’s fun to watch you two interact.
I quit getting magazines. I spend time in the library and sometimes look at ones I like there without having the clutter. I really simplify seasonal decor.
Library is a great resource so many people are not taking advantage of. They get funded with more usage, too. You can check out your periodicals and get them delivered to your kindle too. It’s great!
I will never quit folding clothes. I don’t want to wear wrinkled clothes. I don’t iron much anymore. I have a steamer to use if I only need to use it for a certain outfit. I quit trying to keep up with the latest decor trends. I decided to switch to a new more neutral style. I just switch out things like throw pillows and a few seasonal accents.
Ironing is the only thing I can’t stop. I am a quilter and the sewing room has an ironing board up, i buy less fast fashion and make my clothes (making a comeback with younger people)
Quit trying to have the 'perfect life/perfect body/be the perfect wife/perfect daughter/perfect mother/perfect employee etc., etc. Just live it, love it and enjoy everyday warts and all!
Crafting--over the years I've tried many things, from drawing to cake decorating to pottery. I've happily settled on sewing, and recently donated all of my crafting supplies to a local non-profit organization that works with kids. It felt good both to free up my home of the "clutter," and to help someone to possibly discover their love of creating.
I worked in the salon industry for almost 4 decades and wore makeup, acrylic nails, heels, dyed my hair etc. I retired due to healthy issues a year and a half ago and stopped it all. My nails are healthy and my now silver hair is growing like crazy. I do still wear makeup if we go out for dinner but that’s it. So much easier.
It's fun to get dressed up every once in a while, but I always saw all the beauticians looking amazing and wondered how they have the energy to do it everyday.
Just stumbled on to your channel. ..your Mom reminds me so much of my Mom - I miss her so much...25 years. 😢 Best thing I quit that soooo simplified my life: quit working!! I've been retired for 5:years and never once regretted my decision. I finally found the time to purge - and set priorities...so liberating.
I quit decorating for the seasons a long time ago. I will change napkins in kitchen to go with the season. I painted my nails only a couple of times. I did not like it. I always buy used cars. As the years have gone by, I stopped using a lot of makeup. I learned how to say no back in my 30’s. I was so involved at Church, work, son’s school- wearing myself out. I was complaining to my mother about everything I had to do and I didn’t want to do it. She said why don’t you say no. I replied I don’t know. She pressed me with why don’t you say no until I said I guess I am afraid people won’t like me if I say no. She said then they are not your friends. She was so right! I began to say no and people still liked me. I was 30 at the time. Am now 70. It was and still is a freeing feeling. No obligation. I love you two! You can feel the love and respect for each other come through the video. Always great content!❤
For the past several weeks, when I do my weekly grocery shopping I've been thinking "salads and a soup". I don't need to make a list (shocking). I remember the few staples I always need, eggs, coffee, etc. and pick items up as I shop that will make good salads and a soup. It's healthful, economical, has ended food waste, and offers endless variations. I enjoy all your videos but especially those with your mom.
I quit buying greeting cards. No more birthday/anniversary/Christmas/etc cards. Not sure how much money it's saving me but it's saving my mental health not having to worry about getting the perfect card in time to mail it before the event.
Haha! She was actually joking that that was her previous profession. But we know that people wear heels for all kinds of reasons, some people just like them too =)
I have also either quit or have never done many of the things you mentioned...except for procrastination. It's the one thing I am really good at! 🤣😂 I'm so happy to hear that so many people have let go of doing things that are really unimportant in the grand scheme of life. ♥♥♥
Very helpful. I do however, find ironing therapeutic. Its a mindless chore that I find relaxing so I think it counts toward making me calm and thoughtful.
I'm just starting this journey at 71. Your videos are so encouraging. I've been decluttering 5 minutes at a time. It hit me that "when" I finally get through everything....there will be a lot less to declutter. 💐 ❤
I quit driving (no car 🚗 now) - I have public transport nearby & that is a huge saving. Kathy you look beautiful in that pink blouse 👚 Shannon this was such fun. I’m 64 so I relate to almost everything your Mum has quit !! I quit caring what people think I should or shouldn’t do & how I look or don’t look 👀 🤣🤣 lol ❤
@@shannontorrens1 all well thanks so much! - this coming Friday (evening) we start our celebrations for the Jewish New Year called ״Rosh Hashana״ - I will be with one of my married daughters & family in Jerusalem ❤️🇮🇱🙏
I had to laugh because I no longer do all of these things!! I’m 78 years old and there is so much more to life than most of these things! Thanks for this video! ❤️
My family quit buying holiday gifts for all the adults in the family. We instead just buy ONE $25 gift and play Dirty Santa, which is so much fun! I just use all the money I would have spent on family and use it for someone who actually needs it, like foster kid wish lists.
I think Kathy’s insight is invaluable! As a woman in her 60’s we need her wisdom, experience & her voice. It has been a gift to see her be vulnerable through the decluttering process as a woman of a different generation & to see her get more comfortable on camera. It has helped to guide me in supporting my own mom. I love the Shannon & Kathy videos! I would love to see some painting tutorials with both of you for newbies, hobby enthusiasts, etc. How did you both get into painting?
I’ve quit overdoing my “hostess role” when I have house guests. I live in Scottsdale, so friends and family love to visit in the winter months. My current policy is ask and have on had my guests breakfast preferences. Breakfast here is “on your own”. Lunch I am well stocked for salads and sandwiches again “fix it like you like it”. And finally I make and serve dinner. Historically I did 3 meals a day from scratch! Exhausting. People still love coming and I think they feel more relaxed and “at home” with my more casual relaxed style.
Surprised coloring hair didn’t come up. That’s one of the first things I quit, trying to live with less waste, especially plastic waste. Love the video. Thank you!
I don’t do so many things that I used to before retirement 😊. I now do more things I enjoy instead. I do craft but I don’t fold many of my clothes anymore. My work out clothes, underwear I don’t fold. I don’t have dresser drawers anymore, I have shelving with bins. I use one bath towel per week now and hang to dry. I don’t buy chemical cleaners. I never wore high heels. I don’t wear make up. I do work out with fitbody boot camp 4 or 5 times per week to keep mobility and bone density. I am 61 years old so important. I love thrifting but I’m careful with what I bring home and I will also look for others in my life. I’ve stopped cleaning my house when it is already clean ish 😊. So many things to stop so we can do the things we enjoy
Love the comment about quitting immediately returning texts. Im in a group text with friends and I swear its like if I don't text back within the hour they act like I died. I usually just don't text back cause I don't feel like talking all the time. its exhausting lol
Thanks for another uplifting video. One of the many things I’ve quit doing is sending out Christmas cards, saves me so much stress and anxiety! Shannon you are so blessed to have such a sweet relationship with your mom and to be able to live near each other. Thanks for sharing her with us! 🤗😘❤️🙏🏻
I think while everyone is so busy quitting people, and things, I am headed in the opposite direction. I really don’t like all these TH-camrs telling you when to end a relationship. Why not rebuild some stalled relationships. The world needs caring, non judgement people not too ready too quit too early. I love coloring my hair, painting my nails, wearing some makeup and hopefully presenting my best self to the people I meet each day. In essence, don’t be too quick to stop things but perhaps add good things, exercise, nurturing old relationships and seeing all the good that we have in our lives. Maybe focus more on those we can help in this old world and take the focus off the ourselves. Just an opinion from a 76 yr old lady who wants more of everything this wonderful world has to offer and be of service to others. We are so blessed to live in free countries, with plenty of everything. I enjoy your Mother daughter videos very much. Blessing. Love to all, Linda
Hi Linda, yes you can look at this a lot of different ways. I guess what we are saying is the same you you are, essentially quit doing things that are distracting you from what makes you happy. If those things make you happy then that is what you should do. I quit painting my nails because it took time and I realized I didn't really like doing it, my mom quit coloring her hair because it was literally burning her scalp and she realized it was very bad for her and she was only doing it because she felt she had to. Also this video was what the subscribers commented that they quit doing. Something to ponder is if we quit doing a lot of things that take time and money maybe that opens the door to help more people. =)
If you get thing nearly dry or straight from the dryer hang them straight onto coat hangers, never again have to iron. I got rid of my iron and board nearly 5 years ago and it was a blessing. I have never needed it ever again.
I quit replying immidiatly to messages that emotionally upset me. It's so much better to respond after a few deep breaths/a good night sleep with a "cool head" and calm thoughts. Love your videos and am always happy to see your mom in them❤☺️
Thank you for putting out videos that are intelligent, well-thought out, witty, and on target. There are several youtubers out there that need you to tutor!!
I get judged heavily for getting rid of my wine glasses. I don’t drink wine and only had them as a should in case someone comes over (not that I even have wine to offer!) and after 2 years of this not happening I let go. People still judge me for not having them even when they aren’t drinking wine at my house!
I can so relate to that, Stephanie! Years ago, my SIL visited and was quite angry that I didn't have coffee in the house. I don't drink coffee, my husband (her brother) didn't drink coffee, so I never bought it. Didn't have a coffee maker, wouldn't have known how to use it anyway. I don't believe we need to stock our home with things that occasional visitors might need. I think people should accept what you have to offer or do without. Also, no one has the right to judge how someone else lives. That's my story and I'm sticking to it! LOL ♥
I completely agree with this! If I go to someone's house I make sure to bring whatever I might need and I don't think it ever hurt anyone to drink wine out of a normal cup lol.
I hate sewing. You will never find a needle, button or anything that has to do with sewing, so you won't find even a thread in my home. So, if you come to my house and you need a sewing repair, I will give you GLUE! LOL....
I just LOVE your videos! You and your Mom are like Lucy and Ethel! I enjoy your tips but the best parts of the videos are when your Mom inserts some crazy comment - like the stripper one🤣💙
I absolutely love your videos!! It gets me cleaning out every room in the house of things I don’t need! Donating to a thrift shop that spays & neuters cats & dogs!! I do this once a month & always have a few bags full!! Thank you!!😊
Basically you quit "being uptight". I love your videos. Cherish your mom, I lost mine in May unexpectedly and we had such a close relationship. Keep up the great videos.
I have fallen down the Dollar Tree crafting rabbit hole. I have a room full of Dollar Tree sh*t to make fall and Halloween decorations. I have done several and now feel like I’m suffocating when I look in the room. I now have the urge to load up my trunk and head to goodwill to dump. I go all in and usually regret it. I have the “if I don’t buy it now it will be gone” mentality. 😭
I just want to thank the both of you. I’ve been following you, Shannon from the beginning and you’ve helped me so much. I remember your mum being reluctant getting rid of things, what a change, nothings safe. You both make me smile and I look forward to your videos. Thank you both,from Alison Wales uk
Yes! I fold my underwear! Lights/darks, etc. The order looks great in my drawers (different drawers daywear and nightwear). Folding keeps the space for order and hanging, light to dark color coding (keeping blacks and navy separate) helps in decision making in the morning. Keeping my wardrobe with only things I want for quick decision making, and makes decision making easier.
I love you tips and advice! I am a 62 year old mom to one son and 4 daughters and I’m always working with them to declutter and organize and we work well together like the two of you!
I have wavy hair and it takes me less than one minute to cut it. I just divide it in two parts and go whack whack across the bottom and it's done. There may be a few stray ones that I clip later to even it up. With wavy hair it really doesn't matter if you cut it perfectly straight or not, it all blends together.
I grew up with used cars but when I got married, my husband was used to new cars. So, we juggled car pymts when the kids were little. But now as empty nesters, we've reverted back to used car status, LOL After watching this, I decided to...Quit the "idea" of ironing. Cycling away on my indoor bike, I glanced at the ironing board & couldn’t remember the last time I used it for ironing. I use it as drying rack, & it's always so wobbly and inefficient. I'm donating it tomorrow along with the iron. I will eventually buy a drying rack like yours, Shannon😊 Interacting with y'all is the best! Have a wonderful week!🙋♀️ P.S. My daughter declutters her apartment regularly now. Yay! And she loves it😊
I quit doing my family's laundry. My husband and I both work outside the home, and my almost 10 year old kiddo knows how to do laundry. We're all responsible for our own clothes. Women are often expected to be in charge of their entire family's laundry, but it doesn't have to be that way. Besides, it's a basic life skill that kids need to learn.
You two make a dynamic duo. 😊 Thanks for bringing a smile to my day. I truly enjoy videos like this that add confirmation to what I have already decluttered in my life and also give ideas that I had not considered.
Hi ladies. I feel so balanced and healthy after watching this. Over 90% of this stuff I let go of a long time ago. I bought my first car new in 1979, kept it 10 years and bought better quality used cars since. Social media can be poisonous. If you find yourself disagreeing arguing etc. It's time to walk away. Same with the news, and tv. Thank you so much. Enjoyed it
I love watching the two of you together. I quit getting my nails done and having my hair colored. I do both at home and sane money but most importantly, I save TIME!
I have not had cable in over a decade... I don't miss it. I stopped buying CDs and DVDs and Blu rays. In fact, I gave 97 percent of them away. I am down to two bins per season... spring, summer, fall, and winter. I have a rule... the one in and one out rule.
I started folding my underwear in order to rotate them; I noticed I was wearing the same ones repeatedly, so this has helped with that. A friend taught me about rotating things (e.g. dish towels) so that things last longer.
I quit my cable, I hang my clothes to dry, I don’t use my Central AC..only in window air conditioner…use nightlights…don’t turn lights on unless in room, cook in microwave, so much cheaper than gas stove
Two things I have never done: apologize for the way my house looks and say "Make yourself at home." You never know what people do at home and you probably don't want to know.
What a great video. I can honestly say I have quit a lot of things that you had said in this video. On February 4th, 2021, I had stopped coloring my hair. Now that I have my natural color my hair is healthy, have more shine and I am saving a lot of money and time. I am always getting compliments now on my color and cut. I just had a yard sale over the weekend and had decluttered my home, especially my attic. I have always been an organized person with my job and home so managing my home has always been easy for me. My life is peaceful and calming at the age of 67.
I quit doing all that stuff without realizing it no coffee no nails only shower and wash NY hair every 4 days hardly look at face book only family I look at when it pops up took a hundred pieces of clothes haven't cut my hair since covid no yard sells fantastic ideas you two have ❤
I really like the idea of "Quit trying to convince people You're right" I plan to apply to my life immediately. Most of the time people just have to find out for themselves.
There was some family of 12 on YT that did their own little study of what was the most time consuming part of doing laundry and it was def. the folding, and they did find that NOT folding their kids clothes that are much smaller and therefore lighter than adult clothes that you can just lay them in a drawer and they will not wrinkle and saves a ton of time.
Something I’ve done much less of I shopping for a hobby (did this when I lived alone even if I didn’t buy anything simply because I liked going out) and now I go thrifting much less frequently than I did a few months ago. Our Goodwill is right next to the grocery store and I used to stop in to check if they had anything new. Well that time adds up, and the days I spend at home all day are much more productive
Love hanging out with you gals! You entertain and inspire at the same time. I was nodding along with this list. I feel validated about the many things I have also given up. If I were to add one thing I didn’t hear it is that I quit going to home shows. I leave my perfectly fine home in the morning, go tour a bunch of super beautiful homes and return to my home feeling dissatisfied by my home! I can’t have that!
Hi Shannon! I love your videos and watching you and your mom, you two make me laugh, I love it. You have alot of great tips for all of us and keep us motivated to declutter our lives! So glad I found your channel!
I quit ironing a while ago, my iron and I are estranged at this point LOL. Your mom's comment about the stripper totally cracked me up! Tell her I'm an underwear rotater, she's not alone. I quit getting my hair colored, saving time and money.
Watch 25 Things I Quit Doing to SImplify My Life (with my mom): th-cam.com/video/072yhW2puxs/w-d-xo.html
I used to enjoy decorating for holidays when I had children at home. But once they grew up I do very minimal decorating.
I quit watching TV years ago . Best thing I ever dod for myself
Mama, that coral shirt is the perfect color for you!
Yes she looks amazing in that shirt
I thought the same. I love the colour.
Yes, so pretty!
Absolutely agree
Yes, and it looks so pretty with your hair, Kathy😊
Yes, good idea to quit “shoulding” on ourselves. It is freeing.
Life changes for the better when we stop living for society's "shoulds" and start living for ourselves ❤️
Freedom!
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Totally agree!
@@T.T.M.60 ❤️❤️❤️
A balance of thinking of others & living more simply
As an older person I really don’t want gifts anymore. I’d rather have the gift of time from those who care about me!
Yes. Don’t need to bring more stuff into the house. If I want something would rather buy that specific item myself than get a not quite right gift.
Agree, I just don't want the stuff.
I just love watching you and mom! Mom’s sense of humor is the best, she is so honest and off the cuff! You are both so real and beautiful❤️
My quits:
I quit buying drinks every time I left the house (gas stations, drive thrus). I just make sure my whole family packs a drink every time we leave.
I quit buying eyeshadow. My sisters get too many in their subscription boxes and kindly pass brand new products to me. Or I'll just go without.
I quit buying fancy coffees to show up to events with "to get me through" it has become more of a vibe/look
I quit social media (except youtube)
I quit trying to acquire ALL the farm animals and only keep the ones I actually enjoy
I quit car notes
I quit flying on airplanes period
I quit ALL chain mail "pass it on" emails, texts many years ago (sorry Gma)
I quit fundraisers that I was only purchasing from out of guilt and didn't need anything from
I quit all essential oils and the smell good companies. I'll buy 1 candle at a time that I enjoy and when it's gone I purchase 1 when I feel like it
I quit all smell good home sprays/plug ins/wax warmers
I quit washing my hair daily
I quit carbs and sugar (hello carnivore)
I quit using "being an introvert or shy" as a reason to not make new friends and connections
I quit trying to fix everyone else's problems and find them solutions every time they vented to me. I now just let them vent and try to be an ear.
I quit trying to make goodie bags at EVERY holiday and for every child I know.
I quit buying cards. I'll just tell them happy birthday & save the person the guilt of throwing the card away.
I quit feeling obligated to purchase apparel for every club/group I'm involved in.
I can’t say enough how much I like the videos with the two of you.
Your honesty is great and really makes me think.I am 62 yrs old so I can relate to a lot of how your Mom thinks and all the stuff she use to have. You two really do make a difference with suggesting how to limit the amount of things. Also, it’s fun to watch you two interact.
Yes I quit TV period! Best decision ever made!
Gift giving has stopped for me. I give and my family will give to charity in each other's name. No wasted money that way and the benefit is 100%.
I quit getting magazines. I spend time in the library and sometimes look at ones I like there without having the clutter. I really simplify seasonal decor.
That's a great idea!
Library is a great resource so many people are not taking advantage of. They get funded with more usage, too. You can check out your periodicals and get them delivered to your kindle too. It’s great!
I only use dawn cleaner and vinegar for cleaning only
I will never quit folding clothes. I don’t want to wear wrinkled clothes. I don’t iron much anymore. I have a steamer to use if I only need to use it for a certain outfit. I quit trying to keep up with the latest decor trends. I decided to switch to a new more neutral style. I just switch out things like throw pillows and a few seasonal accents.
Ironing is the only thing I can’t stop. I am a quilter and the sewing room has an ironing board up, i buy less fast fashion and make my clothes (making a comeback with younger people)
I have really simplified my house in the last few years. It's so much easier since I'm having health issues.
Love your videos - I’m doing my ironing while watching it! 😂
Love that!
Quit trying to have the 'perfect life/perfect body/be the perfect wife/perfect daughter/perfect mother/perfect employee etc., etc. Just live it, love it and enjoy everyday warts and all!
I just built a tiny home and it has me realizing how much I don’t use and wasted
Crafting--over the years I've tried many things, from drawing to cake decorating to pottery. I've happily settled on sewing, and recently donated all of my crafting supplies to a local non-profit organization that works with kids. It felt good both to free up my home of the "clutter," and to help someone to possibly discover their love of creating.
I worked in the salon industry for almost 4 decades and wore makeup, acrylic nails, heels, dyed my hair etc. I retired due to healthy issues a year and a half ago and stopped it all. My nails are healthy and my now silver hair is growing like crazy. I do still wear makeup if we go out for dinner but that’s it. So much easier.
It's fun to get dressed up every once in a while, but I always saw all the beauticians looking amazing and wondered how they have the energy to do it everyday.
Just stumbled on to your channel.
..your Mom reminds me so much of my Mom - I miss her so much...25 years. 😢
Best thing I quit that soooo simplified my life: quit working!! I've been retired for 5:years and never once regretted my decision. I finally found the time to purge - and set priorities...so liberating.
I love watching you guys together. What a blessing to have this close relationship.❤
Yes! I love watching this channel!
Yes, they are blessed!❤😊😊❤
Two years ago, I quit cable, tv, got rid of internet. Living in peace & quiet is priceless….
I quit decorating for the seasons a long time ago. I will change napkins in kitchen to go with the season. I painted my nails only a couple of times. I did not like it. I always buy used cars. As the years have gone by, I stopped using a lot of makeup. I learned how to say no back in my 30’s. I was so involved at Church, work, son’s school- wearing myself out. I was complaining to my mother about everything I had to do and I didn’t want to do it. She said why don’t you say no. I replied I don’t know. She pressed me with why don’t you say no until I said I guess I am afraid people won’t like me if I say no. She said then they are not your friends. She was so right! I began to say no and people still liked me. I was 30 at the time. Am now 70. It was and still is a freeing feeling. No obligation. I love you two! You can feel the love and respect for each other come through the video. Always great content!❤
For the past several weeks, when I do my weekly grocery shopping I've been thinking "salads and a soup". I don't need to make a list (shocking). I remember the few staples I always need, eggs, coffee, etc. and pick items up as I shop that will make good salads and a soup. It's healthful, economical, has ended food waste, and offers endless variations. I enjoy all your videos but especially those with your mom.
That's a great idea!
@@shannontorrens1 Thanks!
I quit buying greeting cards. No more birthday/anniversary/Christmas/etc cards. Not sure how much money it's saving me but it's saving my mental health not having to worry about getting the perfect card in time to mail it before the event.
I love how your mom went straight to stipper as the profession that wears heels.
Haha! She was actually joking that that was her previous profession. But we know that people wear heels for all kinds of reasons, some people just like them too =)
Yes!!!!! Frees you up about having to select and choose🙂
Coming up next week...Kathy in high heels on the pole! 😂😂😂 I love you two so much!!
Haha that has always been a joke in our family.
Thanks for the video
Your mom looks great!
I quit driving fast because speeding tickets are expensive.
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Gotta have black pants! Good idea about laundry..thank you both for great ideas!!
I have also either quit or have never done many of the things you mentioned...except for procrastination. It's the one thing I am really good at! 🤣😂
I'm so happy to hear that so many people have let go of doing things that are really unimportant in the grand scheme of life. ♥♥♥
Very helpful. I do however, find ironing therapeutic. Its a mindless chore that I find relaxing so I think it counts toward making me calm and thoughtful.
I'm just starting this journey at 71. Your videos are so encouraging. I've been decluttering 5 minutes at a time. It hit me that "when" I finally get through everything....there will be a lot less to declutter. 💐
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Stopped colouring my hair after after 40 years and I love the natural grey.
Your mother is beautiful!
I quit driving (no car 🚗 now) - I have public transport nearby & that is a huge saving. Kathy you look beautiful in that pink blouse 👚 Shannon this was such fun. I’m 64 so I relate to almost everything your Mum has quit !! I quit caring what people think I should or shouldn’t do & how I look or don’t look 👀 🤣🤣 lol ❤
What a huge savings to not have a car! I hope you are doing well =)
@@shannontorrens1 all well thanks so much! - this coming Friday (evening) we start our celebrations for the Jewish New Year called ״Rosh Hashana״ - I will be with one of my married daughters & family in Jerusalem ❤️🇮🇱🙏
I had to laugh because I no longer do all of these things!! I’m 78 years old and there is so much more to life than most of these things! Thanks for this video! ❤️
My family quit buying holiday gifts for all the adults in the family. We instead just buy ONE $25 gift and play Dirty Santa, which is so much fun! I just use all the money I would have spent on family and use it for someone who actually needs it, like foster kid wish lists.
I think Kathy’s insight is invaluable! As a woman in her 60’s we need her wisdom, experience & her voice. It has been a gift to see her be vulnerable through the decluttering process as a woman of a different generation & to see her get more comfortable on camera. It has helped to guide me in supporting my own mom. I love the Shannon & Kathy videos! I would love to see some painting tutorials with both of you for newbies, hobby enthusiasts, etc. How did you both get into painting?
To your wonderful community: THANK YOU for commenting on what you have quit. I don’t feel alone in all the things I’ve quit doing over the years.
Thank you so much to everyone =)
I’ve quit overdoing my “hostess role” when I have house guests. I live in Scottsdale, so friends and family love to visit in the winter months. My current policy is ask and have on had my guests breakfast preferences. Breakfast here is “on your own”. Lunch I am well stocked for salads and sandwiches again “fix it like you like it”. And finally I make and serve dinner. Historically I did 3 meals a day from scratch! Exhausting.
People still love coming and I think they feel more relaxed and “at home” with my more casual relaxed style.
I believe it. Good for you!
Surprised coloring hair didn’t come up. That’s one of the first things I quit, trying to live with less waste, especially plastic waste. Love the video. Thank you!
I didn't include that since we mentioned it in the original video, but lots of people stopped coloring their hair =)
I don’t do so many things that I used to before retirement 😊. I now do more things I enjoy instead. I do craft but I don’t fold many of my clothes anymore. My work out clothes, underwear I don’t fold. I don’t have dresser drawers anymore, I have shelving with bins. I use one bath towel per week now and hang to dry. I don’t buy chemical cleaners. I never wore high heels. I don’t wear make up. I do work out with fitbody boot camp 4 or 5 times per week to keep mobility and bone density. I am 61 years old so important. I love thrifting but I’m careful with what I bring home and I will also look for others in my life. I’ve stopped cleaning my house when it is already clean ish 😊. So many things to stop so we can do the things we enjoy
I love seeing your mother's transformation! She seems more relaxed as she has purged things from her life.
Love the comment about quitting immediately returning texts. Im in a group text with friends and I swear its like if I don't text back within the hour they act like I died. I usually just don't text back cause I don't feel like talking all the time. its exhausting lol
I have 12 pairs of identical black socks. No other colors. Never have to pair them up!
Thanks for another uplifting video. One of the many things I’ve quit doing is sending out Christmas cards, saves me so much stress and anxiety! Shannon you are so blessed to have such a sweet relationship with your mom and to be able to live near each other. Thanks for sharing her with us! 🤗😘❤️🙏🏻
That plus a rare occasion (like a condolence or sympathy card) I also stopped buying greeting cards.
I love organizing so I fold everything and the drawers have to be neat.
I fold stuff because I don't iron it and it fits in the drawers easier!
I think while everyone is so busy quitting people, and things, I am headed in the opposite direction. I really don’t like all these TH-camrs telling you when to end a relationship. Why not rebuild some stalled relationships. The world needs caring, non judgement people not too ready too quit too early. I love coloring my hair, painting my nails, wearing some makeup and hopefully presenting my best self to the people I meet each day. In essence, don’t be too quick to stop things but perhaps add good things, exercise, nurturing old relationships and seeing all the good that we have in our lives. Maybe focus more on those we can help in this old world and take the focus off the ourselves. Just an opinion from a 76 yr old lady who wants more of everything this wonderful world has to offer and be of service to others. We are so blessed to live in free countries, with plenty of everything. I enjoy your Mother daughter videos very much. Blessing. Love to all, Linda
Hi Linda, yes you can look at this a lot of different ways. I guess what we are saying is the same you you are, essentially quit doing things that are distracting you from what makes you happy. If those things make you happy then that is what you should do. I quit painting my nails because it took time and I realized I didn't really like doing it, my mom quit coloring her hair because it was literally burning her scalp and she realized it was very bad for her and she was only doing it because she felt she had to. Also this video was what the subscribers commented that they quit doing. Something to ponder is if we quit doing a lot of things that take time and money maybe that opens the door to help more people. =)
If you get thing nearly dry or straight from the dryer hang them straight onto coat hangers, never again have to iron. I got rid of my iron and board nearly 5 years ago and it was a blessing. I have never needed it ever again.
I do the same thing! I try to hang my things right away.
I fold & rotate my underwear as well. Shannon, you are so blessed to have the relationship you do with your mama.❤
Thank you! We are able to laugh about almost everything.
I quit replying immidiatly to messages that emotionally upset me. It's so much better to respond after a few deep breaths/a good night sleep with a "cool head" and calm thoughts.
Love your videos and am always happy to see your mom in them❤☺️
Bright pink is your moms color!! Love you two together. What a blessing!
Thank you for putting out videos that are intelligent, well-thought out, witty, and on target. There are several youtubers out there that need you to tutor!!
I appreciate that!
I do love a limited wardrobe
I get judged heavily for getting rid of my wine glasses. I don’t drink wine and only had them as a should in case someone comes over (not that I even have wine to offer!) and after 2 years of this not happening I let go. People still judge me for not having them even when they aren’t drinking wine at my house!
I can so relate to that, Stephanie! Years ago, my SIL visited and was quite angry that I didn't have coffee in the house. I don't drink coffee, my husband (her brother) didn't drink coffee, so I never bought it. Didn't have a coffee maker, wouldn't have known how to use it anyway. I don't believe we need to stock our home with things that occasional visitors might need. I think people should accept what you have to offer or do without. Also, no one has the right to judge how someone else lives. That's my story and I'm sticking to it! LOL ♥
I completely agree with this! If I go to someone's house I make sure to bring whatever I might need and I don't think it ever hurt anyone to drink wine out of a normal cup lol.
I hate sewing. You will never find a needle, button or anything that has to do with sewing, so you won't find even a thread in my home. So, if you come to my house and you need a sewing repair, I will give you GLUE! LOL....
That’s insane! This must be class related.
@@mommalion7028 I think people of all walks of life can be judgmental, but yeah, it could be a rich versus not-so-rich thing.
I just LOVE your videos! You and your Mom are like Lucy and Ethel! I enjoy your tips but the best parts of the videos are when your Mom inserts some crazy comment - like the stripper one🤣💙
Haha I was debating if I should leave that comment in or if it would somehow offend someone. LOL
I love you two!!! I do fold all thing, but that means NOTHING needs to be ironed, wash, fold, put away! ready to wear. that is for every day wear..
Do what works for you the best not for others .
I absolutely love your videos!! It gets me cleaning out every room in the house of things I don’t need! Donating to a thrift shop that spays & neuters cats & dogs!! I do this once a month & always have a few bags full!! Thank you!!😊
Wonderful
Basically you quit "being uptight". I love your videos. Cherish your mom, I lost mine in May unexpectedly and we had such a close relationship. Keep up the great videos.
I agree with all these things. I quit doing these things several years ago. Life is so much easier and cheaper !
I have fallen down the Dollar Tree crafting rabbit hole. I have a room full of Dollar Tree sh*t to make fall and Halloween decorations. I have done several and now feel like I’m suffocating when I look in the room. I now have the urge to load up my trunk and head to goodwill to dump. I go all in and usually regret it. I have the “if I don’t buy it now it will be gone” mentality. 😭
I just want to thank the both of you. I’ve been following you, Shannon from the beginning and you’ve helped me so much. I remember your mum being reluctant getting rid of things, what a change, nothings safe. You both make me smile and I look forward to your videos. Thank you both,from Alison Wales uk
Thank you so much for being here and I am happy we can make you smile =)
I quit all this stuff too- except ironing, because I never did that! I hope my kids can skip some of these traps altogether.
Yes! I fold my underwear! Lights/darks, etc. The order looks great in my drawers (different drawers daywear and nightwear). Folding keeps the space for order and hanging, light to dark color coding (keeping blacks and navy separate) helps in decision making in the morning. Keeping my wardrobe with only things I want for quick decision making, and makes decision making easier.
For things that I do and don’t want to keep.
I love you tips and advice! I am a 62 year old mom to one son and 4 daughters and I’m always working with them to declutter and organize and we work well together like the two of you!
Love that!
So much fun! Your mom and I have a lot in common. I rotate, too! 😂❤
Exactly, me too!
I can't stop ironing. I used to ironing my knickers and hubby's underpants. I've stopped that, but my trousers and dresses need ironing!
I just love your mum ❤️
I have wavy hair and it takes me less than one minute to cut it. I just divide it in two parts and go whack whack across the bottom and it's done. There may be a few stray ones that I clip later to even it up. With wavy hair it really doesn't matter if you cut it perfectly straight or not, it all blends together.
I grew up with used cars but when I got married, my husband was used to new cars. So, we juggled car pymts when the kids were little. But now as empty nesters, we've reverted back to used car status, LOL
After watching this, I decided to...Quit the "idea" of ironing. Cycling away on my indoor bike, I glanced at the ironing board & couldn’t remember the last time I used it for ironing. I use it as drying rack, & it's always so wobbly and inefficient. I'm donating it tomorrow along with the iron. I will eventually buy a drying rack like yours, Shannon😊 Interacting with y'all is the best! Have a wonderful week!🙋♀️
P.S. My daughter declutters her apartment regularly now. Yay! And she loves it😊
Yay for your daughter decluttering! =)
I quit doing my family's laundry. My husband and I both work outside the home, and my almost 10 year old kiddo knows how to do laundry. We're all responsible for our own clothes. Women are often expected to be in charge of their entire family's laundry, but it doesn't have to be that way. Besides, it's a basic life skill that kids need to learn.
You two make a dynamic duo. 😊 Thanks for bringing a smile to my day. I truly enjoy videos like this that add confirmation to what I have already decluttered in my life and also give ideas that I had not considered.
Hi ladies. I feel so balanced and healthy after watching this. Over 90% of this stuff I let go of a long time ago. I bought my first car new in 1979, kept it 10 years and bought better quality used cars since. Social media can be poisonous. If you find yourself disagreeing arguing etc. It's time to walk away. Same with the news, and tv. Thank you so much. Enjoyed it
I love watching the two of you together. I quit getting my nails done and having my hair colored. I do both at home and sane money but most importantly, I save TIME!
I have not had cable in over a decade... I don't miss it. I stopped buying CDs and DVDs and Blu rays. In fact, I gave 97 percent of them away. I am down to two bins per season... spring, summer, fall, and winter. I have a rule... the one in and one out rule.
I started folding my underwear in order to rotate them; I noticed I was wearing the same ones repeatedly, so this has helped with that. A friend taught me about rotating things (e.g. dish towels) so that things last longer.
I love to fold my laundry!
I quit my cable, I hang my clothes to dry, I don’t use my Central AC..only in window air conditioner…use nightlights…don’t turn lights on unless in room, cook in microwave, so much cheaper than gas stove
I love the relationship you two have. Reminds me of me and my mom. We are blessed!
Two things I have never done: apologize for the way my house looks and say "Make yourself at home." You never know what people do at home and you probably don't want to know.
Haha good tip!
I quit cable 8 yrs ago but kept the internet. Tv is rarely on unless it's grit tv or great shows from the 60s and early 70s.
What a great video. I can honestly say I have quit a lot of things that you had said in this video. On February 4th, 2021, I had stopped coloring my hair. Now that I have my natural color my hair is healthy, have more shine and I am saving a lot of money and time. I am always getting compliments now on my color and cut.
I just had a yard sale over the weekend and had decluttered my home, especially my attic. I have always been an organized person with my job and home so managing my home has always been easy for me. My life is peaceful and calming at the age of 67.
One thing I won’t quit is watching your videos ❣️Great to see the two of you made my Sunday ❗️👋🏻
Yay! Thank you!
I love watching you two!!! Makes me wish my mom lived closer!
I quit doing all that stuff without realizing it no coffee no nails only shower and wash NY hair every 4 days hardly look at face book only family I look at when it pops up took a hundred pieces of clothes haven't cut my hair since covid no yard sells fantastic ideas you two have ❤
Whats my prize❤️👍
I really like the idea of "Quit trying to convince people You're right" I plan to apply to my life immediately. Most of the time people just have to find out for themselves.
I quit writing checks for monthly bills but have everything (with a few exceptions ) automatically withdrawn.
There was some family of 12 on YT that did their own little study of what was the most time consuming part of doing laundry and it was def. the folding, and they did find that NOT folding their kids clothes that are much smaller and therefore lighter than adult clothes that you can just lay them in a drawer and they will not wrinkle and saves a ton of time.
I LOVE you two!!
Something I’ve done much less of I shopping for a hobby (did this when I lived alone even if I didn’t buy anything simply because I liked going out) and now I go thrifting much less frequently than I did a few months ago. Our Goodwill is right next to the grocery store and I used to stop in to check if they had anything new. Well that time adds up, and the days I spend at home all day are much more productive
Yey, a video with you ladies! Makes my day with all your great inspiration!❤
Another fun video with you and your mum😊.
😊 thank you
Love hanging out with you gals! You entertain and inspire at the same time. I was nodding along with this list. I feel validated about the many things I have also given up.
If I were to add one thing I didn’t hear it is that I quit going to home shows. I leave my perfectly fine home in the morning, go tour a bunch of super beautiful homes and return to my home feeling dissatisfied by my home! I can’t have that!
Hi Shannon! I love your videos and watching you and your mom, you two make me laugh, I love it. You have alot of great tips for all of us and keep us motivated to declutter our lives! So glad I found your channel!
I quit ironing a while ago, my iron and I are estranged at this point LOL. Your mom's comment about the stripper totally cracked me up! Tell her I'm an underwear rotater, she's not alone. I quit getting my hair colored, saving time and money.