My parents moved into a "continuum of care" community in Lancaster Pennsylvania USA. it was expensive, but they got a nice roomy apartment, lived independently until dad needed help... and the full time care is included in the price. dad had in home hospice care and nursing, so he didnt have to leave home, but mom had help. now that mom is widowed, she still lives independently in the apartment, but when she broke her hip she moved into full time rehab just across the building until she was ok to live alone again. she has a huge number of friends and is very active and busy. its a great relief knowing that she is cared for but not... cooped up or stagnant
I was so lucky that I had a concerned husband that he hired a house helper that cleaned the house for me. Then he hired a nice lady who helped me clean the bottles and did the laundry. I was able to take my 3 1/2 year old to school and pick her up. She only came in the mornings but it was a big help. I also had a diaper service that picked up the dirty diapers and left the clean diapers. My older daughter helped me with folding them and putting them away. Having twins is not so easy. I’m not sure if I ever told him what his caring did for me.
Don't take your husband for granted or assume that raising chikdden is easy. Oncr you lose them, you will be completely devasted. Take the time to show your gratefullness
Most people go to work, and yes, it’s hard, but most people still have to do work around the house. And raising twins must be a hundred times harder than any job out there. I can’t even imagine how hard that is. If you are a parent you have to take part of raising them. If you have a job you get to go home and be done with it. Being a parent is a 24/7 job, you can’t say «it’s 5pm, I am done».
Bob’s Country Bunker the first gig the Blues Brother’s stole to start on their mission from God to save the orphanage!😂 So far the Cheating Tramp can’t take a hint!😂
Plot Twist: One hot summer day Ethan was taken away by scary men in a black van. He showed months later working the street corners handing out contraceptives for 5cents before he was kidnapped again. And this time for good. On halloween, some bones showed up washed up on the beach. To this day, no one knows where he is, nor a missing person reports filed. Others says those are Ethan's bones. Others say he is still out there somewhere stressed out, haggard, and constantly worse than broke, constantly changing identities to avoid the scary men as whenever he sees one pass by, his high pitched screams usually give him away and he is on the run again.
story 3: while sexual harassment is more often from a male superior to a female employee, it absolutely CAN happen the other way around! (also, guys? please learn how to watch your drinks: you can be drugged at a party or bar , but most of you dont look out for it)
The "putting mom in a nursing home" one hits home. My mom, who has been on the other side of that equation for 50+ years as a LTC (Long Term Care) nurse as its called in Ontario, Canada, is coming up to a point that she may have to go into a home (not necessarily a full care one, but definitely one that has some care). My dad just passed away last year so she's now thinking on that and apparently, they had been thinking on it a bit before Dad's sudden passing (stroke took his life) since both were getting more and more frail. She turns 86 in a couple of weeks. Dad was 90 when he passed. Mom can't move in with me as my husband and me live in a multiple level house. We can't move in with her because of my husband's job (his age would make it hard to move to another job and he hasn't been at this one long enough to collect pension). My brother is looking to move in but his own health issues make it a little difficult (needs to find a dialysis clinic who could take over his treatments and where my mom lives, there's only 2 hospitals and one is over an hour away).
And yes we've (me, my hubby, and my brother) looked at bank statements BUT with my mom present only because we had to help her get everything changed into her name (utilities, TV/Internet/phone) and see what else my Dad had. Lets just say he hid a few things from my mom and now we're having to figure out what to do (thankfully only one was a debt other than the standard stuff (a LOC) and that was paid off almost immediately). While Dad wasn't rich, he left enough for Mom to live comfortably. Only thing we haven't done is actual bank accounts because the will isn't readily available (Mom and Dad's lawyer was in another city (previous residence) too far for her to drive so had to set up a new lawyer to bring everything closer to home).
i dont know where you live, but may parents moved into a "continuum of care" community in lancaster Pennsylvania USA. it was expensive, but they get a nice roomy apartment, lived independently until dad needed help... and the full time care is included in the price. now that mom is widowed, she still lives independently in the apartment, but when she broke her hip she moved into full time rehab just across the building until she was ok to live alone again. she has a huge number of friends and is very active and busy.
😂it's not infer-tile, its infertile rhymes with turtle. But I do love your stories I guess it's just a pet peeve of mine. Yes I do say things wrong myself that's why I go Google it all I'm a wonderful❤❤❤❤
story 2: if this was real? solid bet that he had a mistress, and she dumped him. after all, he was not even SLIGHTLY concerned that his wife *collapsed of exhaustion*. he was just going to throw her out and get a new wife to raise his kids. bet the mistress didnt want to take over being a mom to twins...
I’m 65 and still working, I don’t feel like I have one foot in the grave! Sure, things hurt a little more, I need more downtime than I did 20 years ago, and I’ve made adjustments! These stories make 50-60 year olds like ancient decrepit people lol
The single mother comparison is the biggest cop out I've ever heard as an excuse men use to not be the slightest bit involved with they kids XTHEY made. When the woman is pregnant, he thumps his chest, proclaiming himself "the man" cuz his swimmers worked, but when the kids come out and the work begins, they're suddenly "her" kids that "she" made, so its all on her. Then he complains when she starts sleeping alone and can't figure out why
Story 2: Actually, she probably does have *time* to clean up between when the twins need her. It's *energy* she almost certainly doesn't have. Newborns do sleep an awful lot of the time, but within the first couple of months the mother's body isn't anywhere near at full capacity again yet. There might be time, but they spend it napping or sagging in a chair, because that's all they can do when they get a minute. Especially since they're waking up every two or three hours to feed and change them, so they don't get their rest overnight. As for "why can't you do it when everyone else can?" the fact is that everyone else can't!! Pretty much all new parents let the house fall apart in the first couple of months after their first child is born... even if they only have one, let alone two. Even when they divide the childcare between them far better between them than this dude was willing to do.
They raise these woman to be stay at home wives and mother's etc then they get bashed by the husband for "not making cash ever" and all that other crap. So glad i wasn't raised like that
It still amazing how people dont get how even though they are words that constant and negative criticism ESPECIALLY in that span of time just after pregnancy and the bodies attempt at recovering will break a new mother emotionally. So new FATHERS dont be Ronnie the Dbag HELP your wife and child by doing more than changing a diaper or 2 a day.
I’m not sure Rose made the right decision to divorce. I know Robbie was a true a** to her, but I’m leaning toward giving him at least a trial reconciliation. People can and do change. If he slid back in to his old rotten behavior, then a divorce is warranted. Childcare, especially for multiples, is a huge job and exhausting! I understand her position, but I think she could have given him a chance to redeem himself. Trust can be difficult to rebuild; it takes extreme effort and complete commitment from both spouses.
This character has a lot of addict type behaviors. The “isms” selfish entitlement demanding and judgmental. Its mind blowing to here anyone saying “u cut corners on doing housework”
story 4: if her name is on the lease he CANNOT kick her out legally. even if her name wasnt he legally has to give her a set amount of notice depending on the state, but her name is on the lease? nope.
I don't understand this whole divorce stuff. Go to a lawyer, get an airtight agreement that states he can't get anything from you ever, and make him suffer for the rest of his life, not give him freedom. But, I'm in it for the long game. Divorce you get what the courts say you can get. Stay married and you can get it all. Every paycheck. They tormented their husbands back in the old days when they weren't able to get quicky divorces. Bring the rage back
I'm trying to imagine demanding money from my sister in law, and I can't. I don't even ask my brothers for money. Actually they ask me lol. I'm broke though so they don't anymore 😂
Sorry, but, I'd wait til his Friday day off, walk in to the bedroom, say I'm gone for 2 days. YOUsre in charge of the house. Then go to a hotel room for 2 nights
Wow, while your cheating wife is gone move out on her and file for divorce IMMEDIATELY give your lawyer your evidence. I love how you basically told your wife exactly what was going to happen to her Terrence.
story 5: uh... so farrah is MARRIED? why no mention of the husbannd even when she is calling around for money? not even a "my husband is out of town"? suddenly she is married and always has been? PS. you CANNOT reserve a hotel without a credit card anyplace that i know of?
story 8... some people are just plain delusional... but throwing away a really advantageous marriage just to sleep with someone else's boyfriend for spite? thats really odd. oh, smith is an insanely common last name, and a WEIRD first name, so... uh... you may want to work on the translations
So a minute in and I'm already not a fan of the main character. Her great idea is to shove grandma into a retirement home so they can sell her property and buy a new house? But suddenly she has a change of heart?
Story 2 even though he's a jackass unless she had a c-section she can keep the house tidy because newborns just poop eat and sleep and they didn't talk about this before the delivery and how do the house is so messy if she's there by herself and even if he did come home is he really making the house so messy when he gets there and they saying these newborns just crying constantly his mom should have helped in the first place she is brand new parent just saying.
Im going to take it that you didnt pop a watermelon out of your boba straw. I have. It was NOT easy to keep the house clean with only 1 kid. Because 1- your hormones are still jacked up 2-you have to feed the peanuts every 2-4 hours and depending on nursing she may not produce enough milk making the other cry 3-because they have to feed every 2-4 hours you get to (hopefully sleep) every 1-3 hours for the first month or so until their tummies can hold more food. Que the diaper changes. Also about every 15-30 mins from eating. 4-if the 2 hours of intermittent sleep allows prep, cook and clean while engaging, soothing, cleaning and feeding the child either by yourself or until your helper comes home. Hopefully the helper helps. If NOT then try to fit in the rest of THEIR needs on top of the crying baby while your boba straw deals with the staples, your uterus decides it wants to be regular size again and the rest of the baby hormones clear your system. If mother nature will give you a break to help out why cant your mate?🤔
@@dorothytucker9305 No I popped out 4 watermelon one at home on a holiday and all if this before the maternity leave everyone mostly get now aways as I said unless they ere running around they are mostly eating sleeping or pooping and if they do cry it's to eat poop or something disturbing their sleep for first time parents you might be looking at every little noise they make why they making that face or am I laying the baby down the right way or when they start getting colicky.
So you're saying you're wonder woman. Congrats. Not every woman is like that. As with everything, we all heal at different rates. When I had my daughter, my Ex (daughter's father) suggested I stay with my mother during the day since she lived nearby. His train of thought was that it would give me the chance to recover and rest. At home, his two older sons from his marriage would do their own laundry and made sure to clean up after themselves. My Ex also would help with keeping the house clean and caring for our daughter. As I recovered, I did more chores and once I returned to work, we shared childcare and chores. As it should be.
Girl it's time you block Ella for good. She's up to her old tricks, too bad that trick backfires. She'll NEVER learn sleeping with her sisters fiance doesn't get her a huge house. Sue her and Ian for alimony compensation and restitution Monica.
My parents moved into a "continuum of care" community in Lancaster Pennsylvania USA. it was expensive, but they got a nice roomy apartment, lived independently until dad needed help... and the full time care is included in the price.
dad had in home hospice care and nursing, so he didnt have to leave home, but mom had help.
now that mom is widowed, she still lives independently in the apartment, but when she broke her hip she moved into full time rehab just across the building until she was ok to live alone again. she has a huge number of friends and is very active and busy. its a great relief knowing that she is cared for but not... cooped up or stagnant
Good for Eric! That was well handled, through a very difficult situation.
I was so lucky that I had a concerned husband that he hired a house helper that cleaned the house for me. Then he hired a nice lady who helped me clean the bottles and did the laundry. I was able to take my 3 1/2 year old to school and pick her up. She only came in the mornings but it was a big help. I also had a diaper service that picked up the dirty diapers and left the clean diapers. My older daughter helped me with folding them and putting them away. Having twins is not so easy. I’m not sure if I ever told him what his caring did for me.
Well, you can tell him now! 😊
I didn’t know these services existed! How great.
Tell him now then. ❤
I’m glad you had help.😄
Don't take your husband for granted or assume that raising chikdden is easy. Oncr you lose them, you will be completely devasted. Take the time to show your
gratefullness
Elder abuse is a jail time offense. He and his wife should have been arrested.
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What about elder abuse? They should be in jail.
I was so annoyed at dirk mistreating his mil
Girl, go get your Grannie.
Most people go to work, and yes, it’s hard, but most people still have to do work around the house. And raising twins must be a hundred times harder than any job out there. I can’t even imagine how hard that is. If you are a parent you have to take part of raising them. If you have a job you get to go home and be done with it. Being a parent is a 24/7 job, you can’t say «it’s 5pm, I am done».
Writers: The wedding is already paid for when it's the wedding day.
At least give him the chance to prove what hes saying. If he fails then by all means divorce him
Ooh the harassment story was really good. Refreshing.
Love the stories just which there was a few redemption stories. Not every relationship that goes through hard ship goes to divorce.
Bob’s Country Bunker the first gig the Blues Brother’s stole to start on their mission from God to save the orphanage!😂 So far the Cheating Tramp can’t take a hint!😂
Rawhide!! Lol
OMG I love Lily's laugh lol
Is this Penny's first day on earth? Does she know how many Smiths on this planet?
Plot Twist: One hot summer day Ethan was taken away by scary men in a black van. He showed months later working the street corners handing out contraceptives for 5cents before he was kidnapped again. And this time for good. On halloween, some bones showed up washed up on the beach. To this day, no one knows where he is, nor a missing person reports filed. Others says those are Ethan's bones. Others say he is still out there somewhere stressed out, haggard, and constantly worse than broke, constantly changing identities to avoid the scary men as whenever he sees one pass by, his high pitched screams usually give him away and he is on the run again.
Atmospheric. I liked it.
Epic. I love it. You should start writing for them. Or start your own channel.
Okay, Maria/Mars is immensely GROSS. Good that this side of harassment is put into the spotlight.
story 3: while sexual harassment is more often from a male superior to a female employee, it absolutely CAN happen the other way around! (also, guys? please learn how to watch your drinks: you can be drugged at a party or bar , but most of you dont look out for it)
The "putting mom in a nursing home" one hits home. My mom, who has been on the other side of that equation for 50+ years as a LTC (Long Term Care) nurse as its called in Ontario, Canada, is coming up to a point that she may have to go into a home (not necessarily a full care one, but definitely one that has some care). My dad just passed away last year so she's now thinking on that and apparently, they had been thinking on it a bit before Dad's sudden passing (stroke took his life) since both were getting more and more frail.
She turns 86 in a couple of weeks. Dad was 90 when he passed. Mom can't move in with me as my husband and me live in a multiple level house. We can't move in with her because of my husband's job (his age would make it hard to move to another job and he hasn't been at this one long enough to collect pension). My brother is looking to move in but his own health issues make it a little difficult (needs to find a dialysis clinic who could take over his treatments and where my mom lives, there's only 2 hospitals and one is over an hour away).
And yes we've (me, my hubby, and my brother) looked at bank statements BUT with my mom present only because we had to help her get everything changed into her name (utilities, TV/Internet/phone) and see what else my Dad had. Lets just say he hid a few things from my mom and now we're having to figure out what to do (thankfully only one was a debt other than the standard stuff (a LOC) and that was paid off almost immediately). While Dad wasn't rich, he left enough for Mom to live comfortably. Only thing we haven't done is actual bank accounts because the will isn't readily available (Mom and Dad's lawyer was in another city (previous residence) too far for her to drive so had to set up a new lawyer to bring everything closer to home).
i dont know where you live, but may parents moved into a "continuum of care" community in lancaster Pennsylvania USA. it was expensive, but they get a nice roomy apartment, lived independently until dad needed help... and the full time care is included in the price.
now that mom is widowed, she still lives independently in the apartment, but when she broke her hip she moved into full time rehab just across the building until she was ok to live alone again. she has a huge number of friends and is very active and busy.
I would've blocked Farrah until the following morning then unblocked her and tell her I didn't get any of her messages.
This last story wow😂😂😂wow!
Nice compilation!!!
How do they not end up in jail doe assault and battery?
😂it's not infer-tile, its infertile rhymes with turtle. But I do love your stories I guess it's just a pet peeve of mine. Yes I do say things wrong myself that's why I go Google it all I'm a wonderful❤❤❤❤
100%! It bothers me to know end listening how they pronounce it like that. 😮
It is actually infer tile. Doesn't rhyme with turtle it rhymes with mile
story 2: if this was real? solid bet that he had a mistress, and she dumped him. after all, he was not even SLIGHTLY concerned that his wife *collapsed of exhaustion*. he was just going to throw her out and get a new wife to raise his kids. bet the mistress didnt want to take over being a mom to twins...
See Robbie is classic case of never having a Father in the home. He was a pampered mommas boy.
@robertheath7909 His mother told him that his father helped her out, he’s also supporting Rose.
If the lease is in both names he cannot kick her out. The writers are ignorant
Hey, Im 49 and Im not expired and old. Lol
I’m 65 and still working, I don’t feel like I have one foot in the grave! Sure, things hurt a little more, I need more downtime than I did 20 years ago, and I’ve made adjustments! These stories make 50-60 year olds like ancient decrepit people lol
You need to leave him. His disrespect and downing her weights in on her depression.
Eric should of told Maria that the reason he broke up with the last girl was because he was gay. Then maybe she would of left him alone. 😂😂😂
@anngarrett5189
She's so disgusting, that she'd probably try harder to 'change him'!
Elder abuse...thief,police case....
The single mother comparison is the biggest cop out I've ever heard as an excuse men use to not be the slightest bit involved with they kids XTHEY made. When the woman is pregnant, he thumps his chest, proclaiming himself "the man" cuz his swimmers worked, but when the kids come out and the work begins, they're suddenly "her" kids that "she" made, so its all on her. Then he complains when she starts sleeping alone and can't figure out why
Story 2: Actually, she probably does have *time* to clean up between when the twins need her. It's *energy* she almost certainly doesn't have. Newborns do sleep an awful lot of the time, but within the first couple of months the mother's body isn't anywhere near at full capacity again yet. There might be time, but they spend it napping or sagging in a chair, because that's all they can do when they get a minute. Especially since they're waking up every two or three hours to feed and change them, so they don't get their rest overnight.
As for "why can't you do it when everyone else can?" the fact is that everyone else can't!! Pretty much all new parents let the house fall apart in the first couple of months after their first child is born... even if they only have one, let alone two. Even when they divide the childcare between them far better between them than this dude was willing to do.
Love it😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂you had better run whoops😅😅😅
Greg is sus
Definately he just wants to to keep his sister away from grandma lokk out op go see her asap😮😮
I’ll take Terry!
They raise these woman to be stay at home wives and mother's etc then they get bashed by the husband for "not making cash ever" and all that other crap. So glad i wasn't raised like that
It still amazing how people dont get how even though they are words that constant and negative criticism ESPECIALLY in that span of time just after pregnancy and the bodies attempt at recovering will break a new mother emotionally. So new FATHERS dont be Ronnie the Dbag HELP your wife and child by doing more than changing a diaper or 2 a day.
I’m not sure Rose made the right decision to divorce. I know Robbie was a true a** to her, but I’m leaning toward giving him at least a trial reconciliation. People can and do change. If he slid back in to his old rotten behavior, then a divorce is warranted. Childcare, especially for multiples, is a huge job and exhausting! I understand her position, but I think she could have given him a chance to redeem himself. Trust can be difficult to rebuild; it takes extreme effort and complete commitment from both spouses.
Son or grandson??? It's confusing. 😮
Greg and his sister were raised by their grandmother.
My problem is why didnt she ask her parents for help? Or why didnt her mother come and check on her,like most mothers would,i know i did
This character has a lot of addict type behaviors. The “isms” selfish entitlement demanding and judgmental. Its mind blowing to here anyone saying “u cut corners on doing housework”
story ten is shorter... gd that (ex) husband! as the OP says it must be exhausting carrying around that ego...
story 4: if her name is on the lease he CANNOT kick her out legally. even if her name wasnt he legally has to give her a set amount of notice depending on the state, but her name is on the lease? nope.
ah... weddings are paid in advance? usually theres maybe a few payments that are due after, like final payments on photos and stuff
How is dude's mom younger than Maria and she's not in her 40s. Did she have him as a teenager?
Can we get some time stamps please?
Wait. It's a30 minute drive from Grammas house to the city, which means it's only 30 minutes to 40 from his "job". Why couldn't he make that commute?
I don't understand this whole divorce stuff. Go to a lawyer, get an airtight agreement that states he can't get anything from you ever, and make him suffer for the rest of his life, not give him freedom. But, I'm in it for the long game. Divorce you get what the courts say you can get. Stay married and you can get it all. Every paycheck. They tormented their husbands back in the old days when they weren't able to get quicky divorces. Bring the rage back
I'm trying to imagine demanding money from my sister in law, and I can't. I don't even ask my brothers for money. Actually they ask me lol. I'm broke though so they don't anymore 😂
Sorry, but, I'd wait til his Friday day off, walk in to the bedroom, say I'm gone for 2 days. YOUsre in charge of the house. Then go to a hotel room for 2 nights
Op go to her house for gods sake hes up to something bad PLEASE PLEAS😮E😮😮
'Priests' can't get married.
Wow, while your cheating wife is gone move out on her and file for divorce IMMEDIATELY give your lawyer your evidence.
I love how you basically told your wife exactly what was going to happen to her Terrence.
story 5: uh... so farrah is MARRIED? why no mention of the husbannd even when she is calling around for money? not even a "my husband is out of town"? suddenly she is married and always has been?
PS. you CANNOT reserve a hotel without a credit card anyplace that i know of?
Sexual assault? Maybe sexual harassment?
Hes definately up to something weird why does he not want his sister to visit her go visit op😮😮😮
I think he means vicar, priests cant marry, they are married to god
story 8... some people are just plain delusional... but throwing away a really advantageous marriage just to sleep with someone else's boyfriend for spite? thats really odd.
oh, smith is an insanely common last name, and a WEIRD first name, so... uh... you may want to work on the translations
Wow going to use for everything. Mostly the child support. What a modern women thing to say and do.
Too little to.late 😅😅😅
Dirk=Dirtbag!
I'll be honest that first story was a little too much If there was ever a term for forgiveness in one of your stories that was it
So a minute in and I'm already not a fan of the main character. Her great idea is to shove grandma into a retirement home so they can sell her property and buy a new house? But suddenly she has a change of heart?
She was only considering it as an option.
Sounded like her idea was to see if Grandma was interested in a retirement home. That isn't the same thing as "shoving her in."
Omg tw😅
But she expected him to be a pro husband and pro father. So you need to forgive him for what you expected of him.
What are you talking about? Story 2? What made you think she expected him to be a "pro father" instead of a barely functional adult?
😅😅😅😅
Story 2 even though he's a jackass unless she had a c-section she can keep the house tidy because newborns just poop eat and sleep and they didn't talk about this before the delivery and how do the house is so messy if she's there by herself and even if he did come home is he really making the house so messy when he gets there and they saying these newborns just crying constantly his mom should have helped in the first place she is brand new parent just saying.
Im going to take it that you didnt pop a watermelon out of your boba straw. I have. It was NOT easy to keep the house clean with only 1 kid. Because 1- your hormones are still jacked up
2-you have to feed the peanuts every 2-4 hours and depending on nursing she may not produce enough milk making the other cry
3-because they have to feed every 2-4 hours you get to (hopefully sleep) every 1-3 hours for the first month or so until their tummies can hold more food. Que the diaper changes. Also about every 15-30 mins from eating.
4-if the 2 hours of intermittent sleep allows prep, cook and clean while engaging, soothing, cleaning and feeding the child either by yourself or until your helper comes home. Hopefully the helper helps. If NOT then try to fit in the rest of THEIR needs on top of the crying baby while your boba straw deals with the staples, your uterus decides it wants to be regular size again and the rest of the baby hormones clear your system. If mother nature will give you a break to help out why cant your mate?🤔
Oh yeah! I forgot. Times the above by 2 with sometimes alternating schedules. 😢
@@dorothytucker9305 No I popped out 4 watermelon one at home on a holiday and all if this before the maternity leave everyone mostly get now aways as I said unless they ere running around they are mostly eating sleeping or pooping and if they do cry it's to eat poop or something disturbing their sleep for first time parents you might be looking at every little noise they make why they making that face or am I laying the baby down the right way or when they start getting colicky.
So you're saying you're wonder woman. Congrats. Not every woman is like that. As with everything, we all heal at different rates. When I had my daughter, my Ex (daughter's father) suggested I stay with my mother during the day since she lived nearby. His train of thought was that it would give me the chance to recover and rest. At home, his two older sons from his marriage would do their own laundry and made sure to clean up after themselves. My Ex also would help with keeping the house clean and caring for our daughter. As I recovered, I did more chores and once I returned to work, we shared childcare and chores. As it should be.
Get a job!!!!@
BBBB
Girl it's time you block Ella for good. She's up to her old tricks, too bad that trick backfires. She'll NEVER learn sleeping with her sisters fiance doesn't get her a huge house. Sue her and Ian for alimony compensation and restitution Monica.