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  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +46

    Caller-It's a big deal when Dave tells you to file for divorce. Please do it!

    • @davinasquirrel7672
      @davinasquirrel7672 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I know! And Dave was adamant that she needed to do it tomorrow!

    • @miketheyunggod2534
      @miketheyunggod2534 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Dave breaks up more marriages than makes millionaires.

  • @RachelDavies-wn7ir
    @RachelDavies-wn7ir 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    I've been where she is. It grinds you down so much you feel absolutely helpless. I hope she finds the strength to get out. Waking up in the morning knowing you finally have control of your own life and finances is a wonderful feeling.

  • @TXPrincessPaula
    @TXPrincessPaula 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +72

    She allowed her husband to take money out of her retirement plan?
    She signed a HELOC and "didn't know" what she was signing? No taxes filed in years?
    How does she deal with critical situations at work as a nurse? Just signing her name to anything anyone tells her to?
    THAT is really frightening!

    • @joycewright5386
      @joycewright5386 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +15

      Exactly. Being a nurse requires a lot of brains and critical thinking skills. She has neither.

    • @davinasquirrel7672
      @davinasquirrel7672 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

      It's a breach of trust. She should be able to trust him, she just did not know how devious and deceitful he truly was.

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

      I have a former coworker who would sign whatever her husband presented to her and took him at his word as to what it was about. She later found out they were half a million dollars in debt and owed back taxes.
      Also it’s possible thats this guy forged her signature since he’s been accused of criminal behavior.

    • @jaysleeper264
      @jaysleeper264 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      Man, my ex wife blamed me for everything. She didn't want to move, she didn't want to buy our house. Hell at one point she didn't want to get married. She was never able to explain why she signed literally everything if she didn't want any of that. Sometimes it's an accountability issue.

    • @TXPrincessPaula
      @TXPrincessPaula 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@anndeecosita3586 A person can trust their spouse entirely, BUT it is always important to read anything before you sign it.
      Even with a trustworthy spouse, the other person can sometimes "see" something the first person missed.
      A spousal proofreader who looks out for your best interests is the best person to trust!

  • @fortyseventhronin
    @fortyseventhronin 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +76

    Abuse and addiction are the two deal breakers for me in relationships. If you indulge in either of those, I'll be gone like a lightning bolt

    • @fatgucci1118
      @fatgucci1118 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      for me it's spelling... please learn it

    • @tate6809
      @tate6809 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Agreed 100%. I hope those people get help and get better, and can have a good life... with someone else, cuz it ain't gonna be me!

    • @jhigh125
      @jhigh125 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Bye

    • @Vazcov1609
      @Vazcov1609 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Abuse, yes. Addiction is a disease that can potentially be treated.

  • @robloxvids2233
    @robloxvids2233 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +39

    He stole from a non-profit? Report him. He needs to serve time.

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      She said he has counts against him which means he has been criminally charged.

  • @jasonrodgers9063
    @jasonrodgers9063 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +54

    Heartbreaking. Hope she acts FAST, RUNS, and DOESN'T LOOK BACK!

  • @paulskopic5844
    @paulskopic5844 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +45

    Divorce is the correct answer.

    • @joesmith3590
      @joesmith3590 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

      You know it is bad if Dave is for divorce. Poor lady and family.

    • @donnaatienza8001
      @donnaatienza8001 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      yes indeed what the hell is she waiting for?

    • @donnaatienza8001
      @donnaatienza8001 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      when will this lady ever wise up? oh my god

    • @miketheyunggod2534
      @miketheyunggod2534 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Sure TH-cam warrior.

  • @rachelesmith3342
    @rachelesmith3342 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +31

    No man or woman should EVER put their entire financial future and stability in one persons hands, married or not. This clueless “I let them handle everything, I don’t know what’s going on” approach is putting a lot of women especially in precarious situations like these. No one can predict how someone will be down the line or human nature so you always have to have a means of making your own money and investing for your future.

  • @joesmith3590
    @joesmith3590 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    After how many thousand calls Dave still cares the most about people. Poor lady.

  • @imveryhungry112
    @imveryhungry112 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +33

    Hes going to clear her out before this marriage ends.

    • @donnaatienza8001
      @donnaatienza8001 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      oh my God what a terrible terrible husband!

  • @brendayoung5727
    @brendayoung5727 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +32

    I was in the same situation. Luckily I wised up after only 4 years!!!

  • @d_tbrit8439
    @d_tbrit8439 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +32

    She won't do it just look at how many times she tried to defend and make excuses for him when Dave said Divorce him tomorrow. Wake up or receive zero sympathy you are just as much to blame as he is as you are the one who kept blindly signing away and you still choose to stay with him. Soon as you let him get away with it once, he was always going to do it again and again as you have indirectly told him there are no consequences to his actions. You should have took control of the finances after the first time he decided to Steal, Gamble & get in debt.

    • @kagnewcobra5228
      @kagnewcobra5228 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Best indicator of future behavior? Past behavior, of course!

  • @garronl.7989
    @garronl.7989 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +18

    Why does she still care what he thinks? He stole money a nonprofit, and he stole money from her. She's literally ignoring every red flag.

    • @KathleenMcNe
      @KathleenMcNe 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Because she's part of the problem.

  • @admorris11
    @admorris11 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +52

    She’s not leaving. Can hear it in her voice

    • @deirdrekiely6187
      @deirdrekiely6187 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      Yup!!! Thought the exact same thing.

    • @cherylsculthorpe1538
      @cherylsculthorpe1538 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

      Yep, she's not going anywhere. She thinks this can be fixed.

    • @CheveraChino
      @CheveraChino 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      She is gonna stay and ruin her life

  • @strajearocks11
    @strajearocks11 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    I hope this woman realizes how lucky she is that she has the means to leave. I wish her well 🙏🙏🙏

  • @coderider3022
    @coderider3022 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +19

    This is what Dave is good at. Tough love.

  • @dans4125
    @dans4125 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +17

    An old boss of mine was a casino hawk. Loved going. His advice has always stuck with me: go to the casino with $20. If you lose it all, it's only $20, if you leave with more you're up up. Of course I didn't listen and lost $40 in 2 hands of blackjack in about 5 minutes. Hurt more when I was making $7/hr. Ha.

    • @Cookieboy70
      @Cookieboy70 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      Well, it does suck when you aren't making much. I remember my 4 buds we all went to Atlantic City with $100 each, expecting to lose it all but have fun. We didn't realize how fast. One of my friends lost it all in about 10 minutes, we had at least stretched that $100 to over an hour while drinking and smoking while poor guy had to watch.

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I have never put so much as a nickel into gambling at a casino although I have gone to them many times. I go to eat, shows, shop, and dance in their clubs. The rest is a waste.

  • @michellejennings3232
    @michellejennings3232 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    You aren't being " too nice" to yourself....take care of yourself and your own future.

  • @katiejon17
    @katiejon17 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    Dave is right that she’s been ignoring this for too long. She may not have known all the details, but would have known something wasn’t adding up for a long time.

  • @kvgolfa
    @kvgolfa 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +24

    When you misunderstand the debt snowball

    • @Shortkonner
      @Shortkonner 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Good one

  • @src4409
    @src4409 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +135

    She's not realizing that her life will BEGIN when she leaves.

  • @rosebush7000
    @rosebush7000 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    Don’t file a divorce before you leave - physical separation first - always have they plan in place first. Once you have that physical separation- you sre safer in all ways t separate.

  • @src4409
    @src4409 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    And we all think our problems are bad.... wow. I'm grateful for my husband and i feel so awful for this woman.

  • @hunterfitch5951
    @hunterfitch5951 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    People tend to poo-poo gambling addiction as if it were any less harmful than a drug addiction but I can tell you from personal experience, it will destroy your life.

  • @terryhenderson424
    @terryhenderson424 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    Dave is slow to slower to reach for divorce. If Dave is saying head for divorce, its time to head for divorce.

    • @pdxmusl1510
      @pdxmusl1510 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yep.

    • @nitacollins9543
      @nitacollins9543 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      YES!!!!!!

  • @Tehui1974
    @Tehui1974 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    Being married to a problem gambler must be the worst case scenario from a financial relationship point of view.

  • @Jobs92742
    @Jobs92742 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +28

    She got stolen from!! Why didn’t she read what she signed!! Cmon lady!!

    • @dannyl2598
      @dannyl2598 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      I have been in business transactions where I and others had to sign paperwork. I read it and asked questions and everyone else complained and said "just sign it, it's the standard paperwork". Then the person that was supposed to know what it meant, couldn't tell me.
      This lady was already in distress and fearing the consequences of not doing what she was told.

    • @deirdrekiely6187
      @deirdrekiely6187 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Can't you tell how passive she is?

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Because some people want to unplug and let their spouse handle all finances. This is a terrible idea. Even if they aren’t addicts or crooks, if they pass suddenly, you will have no idea what’s going on and will have to scramble on top of grieving.

  • @sheryl7837
    @sheryl7837 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    A doctor friend of mine once told me that divorce is expensive bc it is worth it. I didn’t understand it at the time but I sure did not long after.

  • @MiraMira0ntheWall
    @MiraMira0ntheWall 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    She’s not going anywhere. You have to not tell him anything financial and basically keep everything separate. Hide all important paperwork at a friend’s house. Never ever give access to banking. Basically hide your wallet. It’s a sad way to live but I’ve seen this work.

  • @brigitteevens851
    @brigitteevens851 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    Why isn’t he in jail for stealing from a non-profit? How can she bear to be with this man one more minute? He’s a liar and a thief. There is NO future with him!

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      She said he has counts against him. That means the prosecution is ongoing. Not everyone stays in jail while their case is pending.

  • @mwhe3111
    @mwhe3111 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    I have worked with a number of nurses who were really smart, which you have to be to be a nurse, but who were also the most air-headed people I've ever met. I mean, like a dozen or more, including my cousin. Weird.

    • @marybratton5514
      @marybratton5514 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      My experience is that nurses will care for others to the detriment of themselves and can sacrifice their health.

    • @sarahc3866
      @sarahc3866 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Every party girl in my high school went on to be a nurse. Makes me nervous.

  • @beckylilly4749
    @beckylilly4749 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +41

    She didn't know she was signing a HELOC? What did she think she was signing!?

    • @UsernameUnkwn21
      @UsernameUnkwn21 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      100% or how did he withdraw money from HER retirement without her knowing she is on 57, she would have to fill out paperwork for early withdrawal

    • @deirdrekiely6187
      @deirdrekiely6187 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ​@UsernameUnkwn21 Can't you tell from this phone call how passive she is? Doesn't sound like she was looking after the money.

    • @bboychicken1992
      @bboychicken1992 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      It does not mean he can take her money

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@UsernameUnkwn21Could he have filled it out and forged her signature? Not like he isn’t accused of financial crimes.

    • @miketheyunggod2534
      @miketheyunggod2534 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      A Sheloc.

  • @lonestarrk9308
    @lonestarrk9308 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +30

    This is two people living two separate lives. They haven’t been married for a very long time.

    • @greggpurviance7252
      @greggpurviance7252 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, but she is stuck legally until she files.

    • @19hundoc47
      @19hundoc47 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Dr Phil

  • @DiTanner1
    @DiTanner1 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    What's even worse is that he also hurt his own child and his family to such a degree. I think she'll do it. You've got a lot of prayers behind you when you read these comments. Stop the abuse of you and your family. This should've been done years ago. Better late than never

  • @teceyS3
    @teceyS3 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    He's absolutely right

  • @michaelscofield3584
    @michaelscofield3584 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    What a severe betrayal of trust ....no words....

  • @bobmcdoggish9659
    @bobmcdoggish9659 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    She hasn't "done taxes" for years. They both should be worried about going to jail for not filing taxes.

    • @greggpurviance7252
      @greggpurviance7252 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Well, at least they may have gambling losses

    • @michaelcrowley1172
      @michaelcrowley1172 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      They won't put you in jail for owing taxes, but will,for not filing.

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@michaelcrowley1172
      They only do that if you don’t file and you owe. Several of my relatives don’t file taxes but like every 3 years and then they submit multiple years at a time. But they are getting refunds. If the IRS owes you then they don’t care if you don’t file. One year I didn’t file until September because I hadn’t realized I missed a step when doing my federal taxes online. Then in September it dawned on me I never received a refund (not that it was much) and I filed. Never got a “late” notice.

    • @michaelcrowley1172
      @michaelcrowley1172 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@anndeecosita3586 true,was referring to someone who owes, any attempt to repay,to an extent, will keep you out of jail.Godbless.

  • @kateruterbories2692
    @kateruterbories2692 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    He might unalive her. Had a friend who found the same thing, filed for divorce and kicked him out the next day. He came to the house the day after and unalived her!!

    • @melissaferguson9650
      @melissaferguson9650 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      He killed her!

    • @nitacollins9543
      @nitacollins9543 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wow!!!!! So sad.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Horrible. They say when you first leave an abusive relationship is when you are most at risk for being targeted.

  • @lisabradley5193
    @lisabradley5193 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Tip- make appointments with the three best divorce attorneys. Once they consult with you they can't represent him.

  • @carolr7823
    @carolr7823 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    She should report him to the police. He needs to be arrested for embezzlement.

    • @mindlesspoetry3438
      @mindlesspoetry3438 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      does not work that way since they are married its a civil matter. maybe just the non profit yes he can get arrested. just watch your back and be more with your finances

    • @Hatbox948
      @Hatbox948 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      I thought she said he gotten into trouble for embezzlement. I'm not sure how he kept that secret.

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      He is already facing embezzlement charges from the non-profit. So it’s probably not going to matter.

  • @CyrusZerbe
    @CyrusZerbe 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Terrifying. Gambling destroys lives.

  • @theresamc4578
    @theresamc4578 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    If I discovered that my husband had stolen $60K from our son, I would hire a divorce attorney with the hour.

  • @maryanne2939
    @maryanne2939 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    One of the biggest things one learns as a nurse is never sign anything until you read the entire document.

  • @Paul-ou1rx
    @Paul-ou1rx 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I really wish Dave could have had his team put her in touch with someone. She is too afraid to pick up that phone because of convoluted fear and doubt that has been put upon her to make the "wrong move". She has family, she has a therapist, she talked to a lawyer and nothing has changed.

  • @donvirts4608
    @donvirts4608 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Unless she gave him permission he cannot withdraw money from her retirement..

    • @bkspielman0
      @bkspielman0 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      If she had a Fidelity login and he knew her passwords, he definitely could have EFTed funds out of it posing as her. Illegal as F, but he also stole from the non-profit so it fits his M.O.

  • @djpuplex
    @djpuplex 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Biding your time. Don't agree with him but wow refreshing honest. I work with nurses women always plan their exit. Amazing.

    • @jimmymcgill6778
      @jimmymcgill6778 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      We are all Biden our time for 35 days.

    • @NWforager
      @NWforager 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@jimmymcgill6778 another guy that's destroying Everything he can while he's still around

  • @Keanureeves-e2z
    @Keanureeves-e2z 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    I think the Posters Personal Assistant Coach Hilder trades for everyone I meet. I met her twice at a meeting in Connecticut and after her lectures from her. I had to personally ask her to be my financial advisor. she is definitely good.

    • @Lisapeters-q6m
      @Lisapeters-q6m 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I have never seen a trader as open and transparent as Coach Hilder with her clients. The way she decides to make a profit for her clients. she allows you to express your fears and she still rests your fears and that is my respect. I don't normally comment on videos, but this word should be included. she is really cool.

    • @Jhonnydeep-d2q
      @Jhonnydeep-d2q 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Coach Hilder is definitely the best so far. she always surprises me with amazing results.. We also plan to surprise her. You must have heard of it.

    • @brillithgarciaborge
      @brillithgarciaborge 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I just looked up her name online. She is licensed with credible certificates and has an amazing track record.

    • @brillithgarciaborge
      @brillithgarciaborge 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      And she is also active on

    • @brillithgarciaborge
      @brillithgarciaborge 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      T E

  • @azimuthbusinesscenter
    @azimuthbusinesscenter 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    he threatened to leave, he threatened to stay. Everything is a threat, unless he pays

  • @UsernameUnkwn21
    @UsernameUnkwn21 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    How did he get money out of your retirement?? YOU have to sign paperwork to do so ..Ma'am own your part in this ..

  • @drn13355
    @drn13355 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    She is blaming her husband 100%. However she is signing stuff "I didn't know what it is". And "I haven't filed taxes in 4 years. I am sure the dude is bad news, but she needs to stop saying "he does this and he does that" and look at herself in the mirror.

    • @TXPrincessPaula
      @TXPrincessPaula 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yep. One year, OK, but four? She needs to wake up!

  • @katinafrancis7643
    @katinafrancis7643 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Where was she at in this marriage . Why wasn't she watching her money.

  • @jmcham1000
    @jmcham1000 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I knew a lady whose ex husband was a gambleholic and her comment was she wished that he had been an alchoholic instead as he would not have been able to drink the amount of money that had been lost to gambling

  • @derekstamper362
    @derekstamper362 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Never ever share a bank account with anyone! Not even a partner

  • @willelliott5052
    @willelliott5052 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    My wife's ex stole over $400k from her 401k, in the year 2000 dollars. He repeatedly posed as her, fraudulently, and by the time that she discovered it, he had nothing to show for it. He is a broke loser to this day.

  • @drewdelaney4166
    @drewdelaney4166 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    She should call Dr John show

  • @rg1whiteywins598
    @rg1whiteywins598 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    She needs to get a divorce asap. And go no contact with him unless he has five years without gambling and had no debt anymore because he pays it off.

  • @godsdozer
    @godsdozer 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +25

    If this was a man calling in today with the same situation...............dave would tell him to get 3 jobs, sell everything and get this mess cleaned up so he can save his marriage.

    • @Sheryl777
      @Sheryl777 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +15

      @godsdozer I believe you are wrong in your assumption, because whether it's the man or woman who is stealing money for gambling, it wouldn't matter. If the same thing was going on with either of the spouses, it's the same situation regardless.

    • @nailatiyllufm7325
      @nailatiyllufm7325 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

      “You didn’t realize your wife was in debt? You’re a terrible husband you need to step up”

    • @jimmymcgill6778
      @jimmymcgill6778 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      YUP

    • @ht8259
      @ht8259 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

      No I heard his talk with someone whose wife had hidden mega debt & he did not say that.

    • @Sheryl777
      @Sheryl777 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@ht8259 Was she a gambler? This whole video was about a man who steals money from others (including his wife) so he can keep up his gambling habit. If the video you are referring to had a wife that did the same, and refused to go to counseling to get help for her gambling habit, then I would agree with you, but what you described may well have been a different scenario. Maybe the wife in that instance was willing to get help and willing to change. You didn't mention that if so. I can almost guarantee that situation wasn't like this one though.

  • @tequisaholloway1738
    @tequisaholloway1738 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    She's not going anywhere! Unfortunately women like this that has been married that long feel like they're too old to start over and they don't want to be alone. She's not going to file for divorce.

  • @anndeecosita3586
    @anndeecosita3586 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I would get a divorce immediately even if I had to borrow the money. I would divorce him even if I had to give him the house and all of the money in the bank accounts. He is being prosecuted for financial crimes so there is likely to be a restitution order if he’s convicted. Anything that is partially his as their marital property could potentially be seized and sold to pay this. Also, the judge might order you to only be responsible for half of the marital debt which would give you a lighter load. She is working. Get an apartment or maybe ask family to stay with them while paying down debt. Start over.

  • @PinarTevfik
    @PinarTevfik 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Depends on your finances . 1000$ in XAI215T is 4000 XAI215T if it goes to 50% of ath in 2024 thats a 600% gain. If it goes equal to ath . Its a 1200% gain.

  • @glasslinger
    @glasslinger 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    The stole from a charity organization is only an unsubstantiated rumor. If it were provable it would be wise to call the cops!

  • @Philippinesbound42
    @Philippinesbound42 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Guy calls in with a wife that has a shopping addiction. Dave recommends to get into marriage counseling. Woman calls in with a husband with gambling addiction. Divorce immediately! He doesn’t get a vote

  • @naomiemoore5725
    @naomiemoore5725 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    How does one take out a spouses retirement fund? Plus you receive at least an annual statement. I used to receive quarterly statements.
    Sign a HELOC without knowing what you are signing???

  • @BaranRefaettin
    @BaranRefaettin 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Bro, i bought XAI215T in November after your video. i'm up 379%.

  • @Michael-jo9jb
    @Michael-jo9jb 18 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Im so glad dave told her to get a divorce. This guy has control of this poor woman.

  • @Hatbox948
    @Hatbox948 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is only what she knows about. It may even be worse.

  • @tate6809
    @tate6809 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This caller is all about wanting things to be different but not being willing to do anything to change.

  • @screwdriver_bandit
    @screwdriver_bandit 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    She’s not gonna leave.

  • @e.o.8999
    @e.o.8999 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sounds like she's in love and he's in business.

  • @MehmetDuygu-v6i
    @MehmetDuygu-v6i 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Where do you buy XAI215T?

  • @rubbeshh
    @rubbeshh 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Some of these calls are ridiculous. He’s stealing from you, your children, and a non profit organization. This lady STILL has endless excuses for him. Just pathetic people

  • @lisaleone5128
    @lisaleone5128 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Run. Please. I am your age. This won't get better.

  • @alex182618
    @alex182618 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t know. If he is not violent and they love each other, why separate? She can open her own accounts: checking and IRA and separate his finances from hers.

  • @BeaAms-pb8sl
    @BeaAms-pb8sl 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    She won’t do it, she’s not ready yet!

  • @ering7733
    @ering7733 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Get a GOOD lawyer and if you didn’t sign anything for the 401k withdrawal and HELOC have him arrested

  • @pdxmusl1510
    @pdxmusl1510 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I mean theres plenty of red lights to say escape. But the moment you said "stole from a non profit". This is the point you file divorce. And never look back no matter how well behaved he has been after. The guy is willing to commit a serious crime against likely some of our most vulnerable people presumably.. theres no non profits for rich people.. so... hes taking from the poor. The poor or sick.

  • @PennyLambert-i7h
    @PennyLambert-i7h 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    What is price prediction of XAI215T

  • @lms2379
    @lms2379 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Unfortunately the Internet has lowered the barriers to accessing vice.

  • @SerkanEvrim-e5d
    @SerkanEvrim-e5d 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    In my humble opinion the top for this cycle will be XAI215T

  • @Gabrielle-Z
    @Gabrielle-Z 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Why do women (or men) let their spouses control the finances? In an ideal marriage you should have blind trust, but that's not the way reality works. It is important that both of you know exactly what is going on regarding your finances, and you should both be checking on your finances at least on a monthly basis so there are no surprises down the line. When you leave it up to one person, they could be doing all sorts of things and spending irresponsibly. Also, God forbid, what if one of you dies and you are left in the dark about your incoming and outgoing and possibly debt the other may have run up? Wise up and get up to date on where exactly your finances lie for your own good.

  • @Raegoul
    @Raegoul 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I can't imagine.

  • @BeyzaOzen-h8l
    @BeyzaOzen-h8l 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You called it a month ago and now XAI215T is blowing up glad I listened

  • @HilalMustafa-n3h
    @HilalMustafa-n3h 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Where to buy XAI215T pls

  • @EmilyLucille523
    @EmilyLucille523 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Of course he doesn’t want a divorce. You’re a nurse and his money mule.

  • @John-du2mq
    @John-du2mq 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Guy even "borrows" 60k from his kid and will never pay it back

  • @HighCountryRambler
    @HighCountryRambler 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    And now they are allowing lottery purchases on phone apps.

  • @EVANSFAMILYACRES
    @EVANSFAMILYACRES 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Divorce is extreme but she should definitely keep her finances separate and get him some gambling addiction help. The problem with America is they give up on marriage so quickly. Not saying she shouldn't divorce him but damn that aint up to us or Dave Ramsey to Tell her to do that lol. We say we are Christians but never wanna forgive people. SMH. Just my opinion yall have a good one.

  • @KathleenMcNe
    @KathleenMcNe 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    She's very passive and keeps making excuses for her husband.

  • @terryhenderson424
    @terryhenderson424 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It is time to file for separation to protect your finances.

  • @AlbinaGilliland
    @AlbinaGilliland 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sold all my xrp yesterday and bought XAI215T

  • @caroldonohoe2092
    @caroldonohoe2092 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Why on earth is she still there. I feel she won't see an attorney.

  • @hollisconant2566
    @hollisconant2566 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    wow this is so funny when he had a caller from a man whose wife did the samething you were on the wifes side and you told the guy to stay with her

  • @Nonsense116
    @Nonsense116 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    That husband made his bed. While he's got what's coming, I do feel for the guy. Addiction destroys lives.

    • @TXPrincessPaula
      @TXPrincessPaula 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      He actively made his own decisions, day by day.
      I don't feel sorry for him on bit. He did not have to gamble.

    • @Nonsense116
      @Nonsense116 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@TXPrincessPaula I'm deeply grateful that you have never experienced the chain of addiction nor the pain of loving someone who know's the chain.

    • @TXPrincessPaula
      @TXPrincessPaula 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@Nonsense116 Knowing someone who is in "addiction" is very different than trusting someone who is wasting their lives away.
      She needs to walk away from this man who is incredibly selfish.
      Anyone can see this.

  • @ELTONPina-l6f
    @ELTONPina-l6f 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    XAI215T is still massively undervalued

  • @dutchray8880
    @dutchray8880 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Knowing Dave's beliefs, it's a bit surprising to hear this advice, divorce ib no uncertain terms. Surprising, but good.

    • @countrymusicandcher8593
      @countrymusicandcher8593 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes he is anti-divorce, but he also has a mebtality of "there is always a breaking point". When he sees they tried everything and especially if a woman is being hung out to dry by her husband he can recommend it.
      This was surprisingly forceful though.

  • @SILASMontague
    @SILASMontague 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Ive stared buying XAI215T ,and staked them.

  • @TamikoMaples
    @TamikoMaples 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It looks XAI215T is in right position.

  • @michaelcrowley1172
    @michaelcrowley1172 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    DIVORCE FOR 2000-ALEX.GODBLESS.

  • @allseriousness
    @allseriousness 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Is it biblical for her to obtain a divorce though? I know Dave will argue for “financial infidelity“, but I truly wonder if that’s biblical

  • @juliehorney995
    @juliehorney995 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Change passwords on your accounts ASAP!