TERRIBLE, THANKS FOR ASKING|SEASON 4 EP3|| FT Dapper Brother & Tracey Gachie-Kagiri

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ส.ค. 2024
  • Our theme for today, Terrible, Thanks for Asking" reflects the complex and nuanced responses people often give when asked how they are doing, even when they are going through difficult times. We hope to have a frank open and honest conversations about the emotional and human aspects of adversity and resilience.
    Check out our guests;
    Dapper Brother: / thedapperbrother
    Tracey Gachie-Kagiri: / miss_gachie

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  • @melissamumbi1055
    @melissamumbi1055 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Tracy really understood the brief! Thank you for being so vulnerable.

  • @justmyworld2542
    @justmyworld2542 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    I like it when Ben reads comments. I hope he can get an extra minute to read them more

  • @Designer-EK.
    @Designer-EK. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    hallo good people.. i am enjoying every episode of Joyride.. thanks Ben and Wanjiru.. i am here with a suggestion,, how about if there's a new section whenever we have guests over... so here's how it goes; the current guests will have the opportunity to leave a single question for our next guests. It could be about resilience, adversity, or just about life in general. We believe this will create a thread of shared experiences and perspectives, linking each episode together in a meaningful way. thengiu

  • @charlesmachariah
    @charlesmachariah 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    That level of awareness and acceptance from Mr's Kagiri is powerful.

  • @BenTheSkipper
    @BenTheSkipper 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Has Ben considered doing stand-up? I'd pay a lot of money to be in the audience

  • @muirurimaria189
    @muirurimaria189 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Bring these two guests more oftenly...They sound so real

  • @yvonnekinyua5951
    @yvonnekinyua5951 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    2 joyride episodes in one week = a very good week 😍

  • @imungukalevera8671
    @imungukalevera8671 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Overspirituality definitely does exist especially in navigating relationships. And not overspiritual does not mean overChristian, it is not possible to be too much of a Christian. But very possible to use spirituality to coerce, manipulate and control.

    • @keshi_ray
      @keshi_ray 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, and think this is what they meant but the person must not have gotten their point

  • @isabellagathonin.1131
    @isabellagathonin.1131 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Lovely episode; great guests.
    Lakini Wanjiru: "Be honest its a safe space"
    Then goes ahead to share nothing, probably still struggling with vulnerability but wants real tea from others 😂

    • @irenemwaniki7120
      @irenemwaniki7120 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Haha.....nailed it!!!

    • @dorshee22
      @dorshee22 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂 for sure... It will make other guests not be vulnerable too😢

    • @beatricewalter8798
      @beatricewalter8798 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@dorshee22 based on the last episode, she has been through very very rough time. May God come through for her and her family❤❤❤

  • @davidkamau7142
    @davidkamau7142 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I haven't had a terrible year emotionally, healthwise, and family wise. However, lately, I have been in the pits. The episode has made me realize that we are all having a difficult time despite the wins.

  • @kiarie_tochter586
    @kiarie_tochter586 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I felt this Episode more,, it made me think more about myself with the questions asked....this was great guys❤❤ there's alot of selfawareness here...thank you joyriders

  • @edwinndegwamwangi
    @edwinndegwamwangi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Wow.....I have really found this episodes a safe space to evaluate myself and make me understand that I am not going through some things alone..... This is an altar that God is really using to lift hearts.
    I love you guys.

  • @user-qg1fv8vb1v
    @user-qg1fv8vb1v 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ben you asked a good question on whether life is always going to be hard. Chats with older people have revealed that your 20's are hard because you are trying to figure life out. In your 30's and 40's life becomes real very quickly and there are more responsibilities and you feel weighed down. Then you get to your 50's and you have perspective of the past and feel your mortality. That leads you to being more free and relaxed but then your physical body is also changing. So life is hard - but the meaning of that changes throughout different phases of life.

  • @marydavys2271
    @marydavys2271 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Miss kagiri's voice ❤, nice episode

  • @cynthiamuiruri3328
    @cynthiamuiruri3328 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Just thought of Earnest Wamboye and Waturi when you mentioned religion topics!..... Guys, this will be it! Lovely couple who are VERY KNOWLEDGEABLE in all things marriage and God. I think y'all are very capable in bridging the gap in that topic in this internet streets. More grace on whichever steps to get to your goal.

    • @YoungShiro
      @YoungShiro 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree!

  • @wendyakinyi580
    @wendyakinyi580 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This episode feels like a big warm hug!! Loved it❤❤

  • @christineigadwa1258
    @christineigadwa1258 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How healing is this episode? Absolutely relateable.The ghetto that is wedding planning,having mine in December.Thank you Joyride podcast ❤

  • @sharonanyango3070
    @sharonanyango3070 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Tracy na Wanjiru...mnakaa firi🎉🎉. When I hear you guys say life inawachapa😢 na vile personally I look at you naona mko sawa. Like how can you say mentally umechoka na you bought cars, making money together etc Thank you for humanising. More of these please

  • @doreenk.arinawe
    @doreenk.arinawe 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Am going to rewatch this episode and truly answer for myself. So introspective a podcast. Thanks for sharing guys

  • @njerigakuru7519
    @njerigakuru7519 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Congratulation to the Kagiri's. Loved how vulnerable this was. The questions are great convo starters with friends

  • @nyaucimuoria2787
    @nyaucimuoria2787 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Terrible thanks for asking. We shall overcome.
    I loved the episode... rich and reflective session. Keep it up guys.
    Tracy was my hero today. She gave me loads of confidence.

  • @sharzykish502
    @sharzykish502 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mmeleta my favourites😭😍❤️these episode weeh😭😭😭so emotional

  • @rahabmbiyu254
    @rahabmbiyu254 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's minute 1:05:31 when Ben and Kagz laugh that killed ME. Men give us women alot of grace aki.

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This episode really made me realize we all go thru just the same things, some days are good, some are bad but all that is life
    In regards to our country,we are in the pitssss for real, i miss being a child seriously

  • @shoshossunday2404
    @shoshossunday2404 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I like how gachie is comfortable sharing how she feels wanjiru take her through your journey ❤The outfit memo haikuwa pewa kila mtu 😂😂

  • @lornambeyu
    @lornambeyu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Def trying this with my friends🙌🏾 I love the vulnerability expressed on this episode especially with Miss Gachie😍😍 congratulations on your wedding btw it was beautiful 😍

  • @janemuchira2375
    @janemuchira2375 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This episode is sooo interesting I've watched it all smiling so much informative. 'Terrible thanks for asking' for me is getting started I've been planning to open a TH-cam channel since 2022 but promising myself to get it started before the year ends

  • @esthernyokabi3225
    @esthernyokabi3225 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm doing terrible thanks for asking but Ben's jacket looks like it's bullet proofed 😊... Loved this episode

  • @keshi_ray
    @keshi_ray 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The energy on this episode was a 100 thank u for showing up even when u didn't have to.
    U both strong n I appreciate u more for that

  • @salomeshiran1660
    @salomeshiran1660 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why would anyone wish people to divorce 😢
    Wah your marriages will prosper Amen

  • @sharonjepkemei5828
    @sharonjepkemei5828 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They featured in season 2 episode 3 and now season 4 episode 3. This awesome 🎉🎉 The Kagiri's❤

  • @NjorogeCathy
    @NjorogeCathy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    At 20 I am listening to you guys and I'm like it doesn't get better does it????

  • @___luvuno
    @___luvuno 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This has been such an amazing conversation!

  • @oliviajemutai3948
    @oliviajemutai3948 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This episode was really enlightening. Thanks guys!!!!❤

  • @JosphatKiiru-jk25
    @JosphatKiiru-jk25 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    ❤❤ I really love today's episode the authenticity 😊...pllzz Wanjiru next time ask the 😂😂 color of the day ... everybody was in black 😂😂Wanjiru akaamua kutoskiza Ben

  • @karenagufana6928
    @karenagufana6928 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tracy talking about anxiety, that is so me right now going through some current transitions.

  • @moraaogaro8590
    @moraaogaro8590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This episode is so validating....it's really tough out here sometimes ❤

  • @terryannenkatha9942
    @terryannenkatha9942 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Gaiii ive never understood people who eat more than one chapati at a sitting aii hapana chapati 6 zote ningeenda into food coma😂😂😂😂thats so funny man ...looved the episode guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Miss_Shilla
    @Miss_Shilla 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    After deep cleaning then this episode you guys are IT Frrr , how did you know, this is just what I needed,I'm so happy, this team I'd watch every second, love you guys and love what you do❤️
    This episode was fire please bring Kagiri and Tracey often thanks 😅
    Love this channel so much ❤️
    Happy Mashujaa day 🎉

  • @marcellaokenyuri3774
    @marcellaokenyuri3774 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sleep... terrible thanks for asking but I got to catch up with some episodes I had missed. I pray for peace over everyone as we navigate our terribles. Good night y'all. Loved the conversation

  • @phoebemwaniki8298
    @phoebemwaniki8298 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I really want to give Shiru a hug but it will be well Shee,all will be well....Receive my virtual hugs and God's love.❤

  • @trisha_saurei
    @trisha_saurei 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This episode was a therapy session frrrr...I also got a chance of checking up with myself , really enjoyed

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was such a lovely episode❤️ I felt so seen.
    The way I've just been terrible the last couple of days? Thanks for asking😭😭😭
    Hii nayo I wished there was a part 2😂

  • @misssassie8296
    @misssassie8296 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So raw and candid! loved it!!

  • @edwinndegwamwangi
    @edwinndegwamwangi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The question on how are you emotionally has communicated that its ok not be OK emotionally even when you have a partner...

  • @glorynjeri421
    @glorynjeri421 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💯 best episode. Comes at a time I had revisted Ben's page to watch his episode with Miss Gachie & the dapper brother.
    Better vibes when you have people you share great moments from back then.

  • @josephatkinywa6464
    @josephatkinywa6464 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I loved this episode,the kagiri's always my favourite couple

  • @396mboya4
    @396mboya4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We need more of thissss❤👏👏👏👌👌

  • @natashaapondi1253
    @natashaapondi1253 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wanjiru is so beautiful❤❤

  • @Natasha.Nyambura
    @Natasha.Nyambura 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All my favourites on one set and two episodes a week , thank you joyride ❤

  • @winnkarue
    @winnkarue 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That part Ben makes fun of Tiktok gifters😂😂😂

  • @vinoliamemo
    @vinoliamemo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good episode. You should do this sort of stocktaking episode every season. It has prompted me to do stocktaking of my own.

  • @sharzykish502
    @sharzykish502 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Clapback ya kagiri twitter😂😂atleast I can fix my frame, you can't even fix your face😂😂😂😂😂

  • @EvaWaweru
    @EvaWaweru 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aaaah you guys ❤❤❤❤,my favourites altogether,I loved the episode bring kags and Tracey more often.

  • @estherchibutia3283
    @estherchibutia3283 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That emotional part we are not doing good with the government we need to pray weeeh life is hard. Thanks for talking about it

  • @josephatkinywa6464
    @josephatkinywa6464 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Many many hugs to wanjiru in this season that she is in ❤❤❤

  • @marthaopisah4183
    @marthaopisah4183 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amazing episode 😍Chilled but very detailed

  • @RUBIFX
    @RUBIFX 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great episode🎉 i was happy to hear Tracey speak as i have always admired and looked up to her since lower kabete days❤️

  • @charityutwoma45
    @charityutwoma45 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I need to answer this question in my journal

  • @Yv1o5
    @Yv1o5 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tracey, so true on the wedding planning and families.

  • @kendintara5347
    @kendintara5347 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This episode was really good👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @dianamwagi6326
    @dianamwagi6326 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve watched this episode is so so so good. Super relatable

  • @angiejeruto1687
    @angiejeruto1687 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am with Wanjiru on reading non-fiction right now. It is a thing

  • @violameli8530
    @violameli8530 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s worldwide, in Australia we get petrol for AUD2.20 initial was 1.20AUD,, it’s heavy but we’re cruising 😢

  • @marywisequi5571
    @marywisequi5571 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Terrible thanks for asking,can somebody tell the older generation to stop asking people in our early and mid twenties what we wanna do with our lives coz honestly we don't know,we are just trying to survive........bana It's fire out here anyway the questions are interesting,beautiful episode

    • @wambuinderitu2461
      @wambuinderitu2461 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know 😂 am 22yrs 4th year am trying to learn a skill and there those days I wake up na feel I don't want to do it anymore 😢 it's terrible 😂but Mungu ananisaidia

  • @naomi.macharia2199
    @naomi.macharia2199 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have enjoyed this episode
    Like this one is so damn unique
    Keep up the good job

  • @adelinemalemba1276
    @adelinemalemba1276 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm always enjoying the episodes where you are the four of you, congratulations to the newly Weds.

  • @annewanjuki7780
    @annewanjuki7780 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this conversation ❤thank for being open .you guys are very relatable .

  • @mercyjumaofficial1943
    @mercyjumaofficial1943 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here again...😂..am glad am in this joyride season

  • @wakonyomwangi7765
    @wakonyomwangi7765 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can fully relate to this episode as my ruracio is soon and whatever Tracy and Kagiri have been through is apparently what has been for me this season, trust me i have even postponed and after watching this i'm like Lord this is you speaking, keep on sister,keep on🙂 but kaende kaende as Ben put it.
    love love you guys

  • @seragrace1469
    @seragrace1469 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tracy did so good 💯

  • @mitchellatetwe2282
    @mitchellatetwe2282 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mkuwe na live experience tu tukapige nduru huko. Because this year 😢😂😂😂

  • @DavidOkikiAmayoJr.
    @DavidOkikiAmayoJr. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Candid conversation; loved this upload.

  • @breemukung535
    @breemukung535 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the best episodes I’ve watched for sure 🙌

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Candid conversations 🔥👌🏾.Hiyo title so real😳. Happy Mashujaa Day❤.

  • @EngBMashanga
    @EngBMashanga 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How are you,. Terrible Thanks For Asking...
    This is a very enlightening session guys,
    Learnt a lot..

  • @joynasaka1627
    @joynasaka1627 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Guys mimi niliwaelewa last week. Love this episode too

  • @priscillahwamuyu8480
    @priscillahwamuyu8480 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ako tik tok aki gift ... this took me out 🤣🤣

  • @sandrak2209
    @sandrak2209 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The Kagiris🥳🥳

  • @camillamish2096
    @camillamish2096 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honest conversation ever
    Felt therapeutic 😅

  • @marionngetich7533
    @marionngetich7533 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The Kagiris😍

  • @ngareann
    @ngareann 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have enjoyed this! Now that Kagiri is a soft speaker, could him mic be moved closer?

  • @lucymbugua8972
    @lucymbugua8972 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is beautiful I feel like this is a therapy session for me knowing that some things that happen to me are happening to other people too ukiongeza jokes za Ben machozi inarudi
    #joyridealltheway

  • @me.raki-21
    @me.raki-21 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To be honest, first, I thought I was all alone on most things happening in my life. Watching this episode gives me hope to move forward. Maybe I should myself those deep questions because the preesha is worser! Second, confidence lazima! Lastly congratulations to the Kagiris.

  • @keshi_ray
    @keshi_ray 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We need nyawira and moji back

  • @josephatkinywa6464
    @josephatkinywa6464 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Who could drift away from ben? Sam is the problem 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Carolynexm
    @Carolynexm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Okay...you guys ! Why didn't you say we come for therapy 😭 my goodness ive cried because oh man! It's heavy.

  • @daisyflora6498
    @daisyflora6498 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wanjiru, we see you! 😏

  • @marionngetich7533
    @marionngetich7533 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hapo kwa campus tours nataka mrudi Kabarak tena😂 thankss😊

  • @paulmurigi8270
    @paulmurigi8270 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    yaani episode mzima na hamjajua sound ya kagiri haiko sawa

  • @matindepaulanne1781
    @matindepaulanne1781 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Truth is reading is so hard.. 😅

  • @polymathgeek895
    @polymathgeek895 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I loved the authenticity in this episode. Candid with a good balance of detail. It really brought a lot of humanness to content creation.
    I guess the reason a lot of Christians were in the comments in the last episode, is because this is one of the very few Kenyan Christian podcasts. This is a key audience.

  • @tiberiusmaiko743
    @tiberiusmaiko743 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ben and dapper brother looking good bruv

  • @franciscarjohn4889
    @franciscarjohn4889 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wanjiru i see you ,amazing episode

  • @withnjoki2300
    @withnjoki2300 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoyed this one❤❤

  • @maureennyariki4871
    @maureennyariki4871 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kiundu and the feast 😂😂😂 thanks Ben for reminding me it's no feast for Kiundu....aki naitafuta niisome😂😂😂

  • @gathoni9714
    @gathoni9714 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i relate with wanjiru about reading fiction, i simply don't have it in me to read fiction books 💯

  • @salomeshiran1660
    @salomeshiran1660 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wanjiru njiru that is not her opinion that is the word of God
    😊

  • @user-fh2xp1cx2v
    @user-fh2xp1cx2v 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wanjiru is funny😂

  • @thefranklinsnetwork
    @thefranklinsnetwork 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear Everyone onset except Ben,
    Where are we with the meaning of that word that rhymes with Brazil.... I'm tired of pretending I know.
    Franklin from TFSN 😂😂😂😂😂