DO RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGES GET BETTER OR WORSE OVER TIME? || PART 1 || FT Abel Mutua & Judy Nyawira
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Who else just got marriage fever🥰🤣, I can't wait to be married, also, I love these convos
Ben been calling wanjiru wife today and it sounds so cute gosh 😍
I loved how Abel took a dig at Ben. I thought I was the only one who is yet to forgive Ben for leaving Wanjiru's clothes on the hanging line 🤣🤣🤣
Which episode is this?
@@sharonbaraza212 Ssn 2 episode 1
@@sharonbaraza212 I can't really tell the exact episode.
@@sharonbaraza212 They said it's episode 1 of season 2
Hello,have been sent here today by my wife to watch this show ....the show is lit🔥 ...wapi likes zake👍
As a Singo person... I am keeping my spark alive by doing what I love and putting my trust in God 😊
This is the best thing to do as a single person.
Wacha kuchoma
This episode just called me single in 49 different languages 😭😭😭😂
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😂😂😂
Whueee 😅😂🤣
😂😂😂😂😂yatima wa mapenzi
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Abel and Ben really match in terms of energy..
I really enjoyed this episode...season 2 is full of bangers 🔥🔥
Sasa hii joyride yetu tumechill njugush na cele 😂I have watched all episodes bytha😘
I got in my feelings when Judy was talking about looking forward to going home to his person🥺
This episode has fed my hopeless romantic self.
Everytime I think I am doing well being single I come to this podcast and are reminded just what I am missing.
@@HopieMMTuko wengi. But I always say that as much as it looks beautiful to me, I still understand that it's not an easy thing to be in and therefore I have to figure out myself first before I bring someone else into my circle.
@Hopieeee98 be single until you met that person though its been long, I hope you met that person ❤
I'd love to think that what keeps the spark in our relationship is the fact that we are constantly talking to each other. In the beginning of the relationship,we realized how we could wake up an hour or two before the alarm when either of us lost sleep and since we're both light sleepers,we just start talking about anything and it moves from udaku and hot mucéne 🔥😅 to plans about how we'd like our future to be. At some point,we kind of lost that and found that we'd argue and fight alot. Sometimes even,as soon as one woke up, they'd go to another room and just watch something by themselves. It took almost a bad breakup to realize where we went wrong and we slowly got back to intentionally Talking,appreciating and understanding one another to get us back to that 'honeymoon'phase. And now life together is better than ever. So definitely talking, whether on phone,texts or in person ❤️❤️And I'm blessed because it's never a dull moment with him 😊
"Where there's unity, God commands a blessing. "Judy 2022 Loved this episode to the core. Mkurugenzi-Joyrider❤️
Amen
Ben na Mkuru pamoja! Leo tutacheka tukufe 🤣🤣 On to the question of how we keep the spark alive... My husband and I have regular 'review' sessions where we ask each other questions like 'Have I been a good partner to you this week?', 'Is there an area you think I can grow in?', 'How can I love you better in this season' etc... Such conversations keep the spark alive for us.
Hey guys!! recently discovered you and I am loving it(from wabosha's channel)so I am in a long distance relationship ,my partner is in Kirinyaga county and I am in Kisumu because of school,now one thing that keeps the spark is the friendship ... yaaani he's my only mdaku mate...we all involve each other kwa our day to day moments.... after a long day at school I just can't wait to face time him and tell him how the lectures were boring or how smart I felt that day or how many people commented on my outfit..you feel me?😂... and its been 3yrs now and still going 🥰🥰
the best couple segment so far. Ben and Abels energy match. Judy and wanjirus calmness match...my fave
I love how you are coming together to help Ben understand the questions 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I feel like reminding each other how special they are will always keep the spark...sometimes we forget how special your significant other is when it becomes like a hamster wheel.
Interesting how we have this version of love and relationships existing but what's getting more latitude is the "negative" aspect... And you can read genuineness in between their conversations.
Hey Wanjiru & Ben. After 7 years in our relationship, we ensure that we keep the spark alive by doing things that your partner loves that you might not necessarily enjoy and doing this genuinely. It doesn't cost me anything to participate in what he loves. The fact that we put in the effort to be present in what we both love brings us joy and keeps the spark ignited. I don't have to love what you love, but because you want me there I will be present and I will fully immerse myself in the experience. This has really kept things alive for us because we are not closed off to what each of us wants.
Holy word! That part on being a home body! 💯 😂😂 My excuse is I made so much effort to make my home comfy. I need to enjoy it 😂😂😂
Not me trying to remember what I promised my partner at the start of the courtship then remembering I've been single for years😂😂😂
😂 can't even remember .
You're sending me 😭😂😂😂😭😭😂😂😂😂
Ghai😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The worst thing about this episode is that it ends! You two wonderful couples dropping gems. To keep the spark in my relationship we started working out and reading the bible together and honestly i live for these moments. This is our 6th year and it only gets better. Also we have taken lots of notes there.
#Tcb_naturals.
OMG!!!! I need the part two stat!!!! I loved this so much👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
Amazing people, these guys make marriage beautiful, it helps debunk izi story tunashinda kuambiawa marriage is not an achievement, it is. You graduate into a critical step in life and if it's that beautiful, you deserve applause. Many people can't even embrace the responsibilities and values that come with it
Am married for one year , and we keep our sparkle , by mantaining our friendship , coz thats our number one thing that brought us together
Being best friends, finding laughs and fun in the simplest things. Saying please and thank you, it never gets tired. Pray together. Thank you for sharing your personal journeys, helps us all relate. You all seem to intentionally make your relationships fun rather than work. Kudos.
I knew the episode was going to slap when Mkuru said the TCB Naturals joke. I love it! 😅🤣
sameee😂😂😂when he called Ben out for doing the tcb advert I knew we are about to enjoy 😂😂😂
One thing my partner and I do to keep the spark alive is to make sure we talk out our problems as soon as they arise to avoid any resentment from being formed because we know that that's one thing that brings relationships down. We also actively tell each other why we love each other and what we'd like our future to be like and those are just the few things that keep the spark alive here 🥰. We've been dating for 11 months now, turning an year on December 3rd🥰
This was one i didnt see coming 🥳🥳 anyway here for the vibes and lessons to take home. ☺️😅
This has been the best episode, Soo real and encouraging 💕
What i and the mandem do to keep our relationship alive is definitely trying new activities i.e games, new cuisines and restaurants,travelling and the new goal is to finally move in. We really enjoy our quality time together. I also love that he involves me in his work and i get to put in my creative perspective and it goes a long mile.
judy is soooo composed and sharp loving the show
At the beginning the year we wrote down things to achieve together. Regular home dates .Babe buys maize and anachoma kwa balcony.We also have regular deep conversations
I hope there is a part 2 because this was lit♨️♨️♨️
Haha love to see Ben explaining how our upbringing can affect our adult relationships! This is an upper level understanding
To keep.our spark alive.. We have date night every week. And every week we try something different.
One of the BEST Joyride Episodes Yet. The Vulnerability was Refreshing 🥳
Please have the Abel's again!
This has got to be my fav episode ❤️. Just candid
Such an amazing episode 🌟
What we do to ensure the spark is still there is doing intentional check-ins with each other on what we’re struggling with, what progress we’ve made for a certain goal. Also having different types of dates indoors or outdoors to break monotony.
This was touching ❤️🥂 looking forward for part 2
I always look forward to a notification of a new episode. Wanjiru has really become more comfortable in the podcasts. The couples are very authentic, you make me appreciate that relationships are not hard but require work. Your relationships look as real as possible. We can easily relate with you guys. Asanteni sana.
You just earned yourselves a new sub and a follower...came running all the way from Wakurugenzi Movement 🔥🔥ah this is straight fire
This episode has taught me to appreciate different phases in life esp when you are in a long committed relationship, people change and evolve in different stages, and it's okay. Live for the moment.
I love this episode, the laughter, the advise, the knowledge being shared is just amazing ❤🤗
Silent follower hapa 🙈 loving this conversations...the honesty,the beautiful explanations 💞🙌🏾 learning ✍️ taking notes... Baraka!
Hey guys! I absolutely love your podcast, found it recently and have been enjoying the content so far. I was looking forward to this episode, but I find it a bit hard to understand it because of the language
I’m not Kenyan, so it would be great if you added some subtitles on the videos when you are speaking your language for us to follow better. ❤
Ben: "Atavaa Amboseli"
Best joke
The similarity between Wanjiru and Judy
Then Ben and Abel was really good to see
What makes our relationship spark is our friendship , words of affirmation and encouragement to each other , communication and respect to one another 💯
Always inspirational and informative..love you guys.Keep winning
Abel and Judy are always a vibe 🥰.........it's nice to have you talk all these Do's and Donts..... positive vibes and progression worth applauding 🙌
This was awesome,learnt alot,
Where there's unity,God commands a blessing.Eagerly waiting for part 2❤️
Can't wait for part 2!
When an episode leaves you feeling guiy for being single.
It just keeps getting better 🔥🔥
Waa, me too.
What I do to ensure the spark is there ,is work on myself and also make sure am pulling for the best of the relationship also being intentional in the little things like just celebrating a win even if its a small one.
Winning together keeps the spark always💯
This has been by far the most interesting, educative, inspiring show that I've ever come across. ❤️❤️❤️
To keep our spark alive, my boyfriend and I plan adventures. We find that experiencing different things together (especially for the first time) makes us want to have more together.
This was amazing to watch...the conversation was flowing💯
I think this is my favourite episode ever!
The things we do to ensure there's the spark in our relationship is by constantly pursuing our friendship because it forms a basis of our romantic relationship and this way,we always get a trajectory from the basics of our love journey.... Really loved today's episode ❤️
Honestly,,,I have watched this episode twice and I'm sure I'll still do so over and over. I use some of these questions on my partner and they've really helped us to understand each other, contributing to our growth.
My favourite episode yet It was so refreshing. It felt like unawatch mastory ya mabeshte. Best collaboration very natural, wonderful. Good mentorship from veterans hapa. I like what Abel said the environment you raise watoto has alot of influence on personality. I am so impressed the level of trust that Phil and Judy can meet and their partners are cool and their friendship helps both marriages that's huge!!
Literally my best episode on Joyride 👏👏🎉
I love how you guys quoted the "where there is unity. God commands a blessing " Amen! That was very eye opening
Love it before I even watch!!
The best episode yet!!! Love you guys ❤️
for me I think doing things that the other person enjoys intentionally maintains the spark....also ensuring that you're present in anything that matters to your person...
Thank you guys for such an extremely sober discussion. You give married people hope and appetite to the single.
This is so far my best episode yet….what a blessing to find love….I have seen love in these two couples May God bless you….continue allowing God to use you to touch our lives
Wow. Just wow! Very Insightful. Bless your souls The Mutua's and The Cyco's.
The shortest one hour of my life,I felt I was there busy contributing to the conversation.♥️♥️
Judy’s wisdom🔥🔥
Iam a newbie and this episode is so refreshing, fun and has agreat lessons.
I love men who do house chores I'm honestly thankful to my partner he cleans ,cooks and etc.
Keep doing what you're doing good job guys.
One of the best episode in joy Ride mob love
Lovely Episode!!😍👌🏽👍🏽.
Thank you!
What we do to ensure there is spark in our relationship is learn new things together like for instance right now we are learning how to code and it's really fulfilling when we complete a project successfully
Love this episode! Learnt so much
wow, you guys are so inspirational Mungu aki atuoneanie sisi masingles with such or even better relationships. You guys give me so much hope that all is not lost in terms of relationships.
Oooh I love these episodes ,keep up more sooo fulfilling
This episode is sooo gooodd!!🤗❤️
Especially hapo KWa financial management, couples need the right knowledge for happy and healthy marriages
.. this episode had me in all the feels. Ever refreshed to check kama part 2 imetoka ni net iko down. This needs a series. So genuine,happy conversation. When? When? is the question on the mind
I love your long convos I don't know why you are doing everything to make them short. Kaende sana, I love you
The collabo we never knew we needed.
Everything is in point but the most important thing I got 'when there is unity God commands a blessing' am married and this Bible verse is a turning point.. encouragement.
Bigup
Wow😃....this show is the best ☺️🥰azin I love how wakurugenzi n the Ben's combination.....you guys are open n make us understand things that are in relationships especially....plz bring wakurugenzi many times 🙂
What helps us keep the spark in our marriage is learning together.
We strive to be learning something new,that will either grow us individually or as a couple.
Loved this Episode so much..
What my partner and I do to ensure the spark remains is having intentional check ups after a certain period of time ..Like after a fortnight and sometimes after a month..It really is beautiful to intentionally care for each other .
Amazing episode 👏🏾👏🏾
Abel Mutua is an intelligent 🧠 person.
Intelligent people are found to be more forgetful than those with average intelligence.
Intelligent people have selective memories. They choose to retrieve specific facts and events and exclude others. They focus on what's important and have the ability to discard the rest.
My fav couples in the same sitting... i mean yoooh. I love love this episode
This was unexpected and i love it....
Waaa i watch this podcast religiously but hii i feel like i want to get married now 😅😅😅 you guys are lovely and fun loooved every second of this episode the stories,the humour perfect ❤️
I always look forward to watching your episodes.. Ever 💥🔥🔥🔥
How I ran from exam room to catch up with the premier 🤦Haki nyinyi, niwaamazing😍
Oh no..I'm crying 😭... Weeeh.
The answers to Ben's questions are emotional ☺️.. love is a beautiful thing
This was such a great episode, I enjoyed hearing from both couples. Interesting to learn that Wanjiru is extremely introverted. How do you manage the social media fame as an introvert?
I love the podcast, have watched this more than ten times
It's funny thar niko season ya joyride podcasts na am obsessed❤❤❤❤❤
Definitely loved this,,,
Yaani you guys had to remind us that we are single,😥😥Io make up ya wanjiru njiru.. Is wooooowww!!