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  • This is episode #7 my TV show, The Tim Ferriss Experiment! The show is like MythBusters meets Jason Bourne. In every episode, I partner with the world’s best and most unorthodox teachers (e.g., Laird Hamilton, Marcelo Garcia, Stewart Copeland), who train me for a final gauntlet. Shocking breakthroughs, injuries, epiphanies, and disasters are all part of the journey. Along the way, I show you how to replicate results in an attempt to prove that “you don’t need to be superhuman to get superhuman results… you just need a better toolkit.”
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  • @timferriss
    @timferriss  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

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    • @tongobong1
      @tongobong1 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Eh Neil Straus and similar methods are terrible. You should try natural approach the way our ancestors did it before they had languages.

    • @basedpatriotLT
      @basedpatriotLT 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Based!

  • @stoicvibesonly
    @stoicvibesonly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1972

    For those of you confused. This is from 2013.

    • @bhaveshpatel9626
      @bhaveshpatel9626 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

      Good to know! But, the message and lessons are probably even more relevant today

    • @joythought
      @joythought หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      That is helpful, thanks. I thought so but was....confused. Thought his longevity drugs were working very well.

    • @MakeYouFeelBetterNow
      @MakeYouFeelBetterNow หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Things have changed...

    • @msn-hn9eb
      @msn-hn9eb 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@creasunset what a surprise

    • @mondavou9408
      @mondavou9408 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

      I'm not confused, ROFL, I lived that life in SF before it became a toilet. I can see the difference.

  • @olgakasianova6581
    @olgakasianova6581 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +953

    I like the lady who works at the restaurant. She seems genuine and chill.

    • @jennlovedbychrist6477
      @jennlovedbychrist6477 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Me too

    • @AlanPina-nn5sz
      @AlanPina-nn5sz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Agreed. Cute, genuine, soft nice vibe…

    • @DChris3
      @DChris3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      Yes, I definitely would have gone for her too. Dating as a 30 year old guy is tough, but she seemed easy to talk to and didn't take herself too seriously. I liked that she came to the party in a chill outfit and not lathered in makeup. Definitely my kind of gal. It was probably a long time ago but I hope she's doing well :)

    • @lw3308
      @lw3308 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      100%! Me too!!

    • @MyroslavaD
      @MyroslavaD 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Me too 😊

  • @AndyGaskin
    @AndyGaskin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +858

    The video style brings me back to the 2010's! Fun episode.

    • @Sanger2007
      @Sanger2007 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

      I think this is a repost from an old show of his. the MacBook is old one

    • @JoNhWaLl
      @JoNhWaLl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      It's literally 10 years old lol

    • @stoicvibesonly
      @stoicvibesonly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      It's from 2013 that's why lol. He's just uploaded to his YT

    • @RenansStudentsandGarbage-xl6yq
      @RenansStudentsandGarbage-xl6yq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I wish he'd upload the chess one

    • @puneethsuraana
      @puneethsuraana 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@RenansStudentsandGarbage-xl6yq He did!

  • @ierit3796
    @ierit3796 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +58

    I expected a cool pick-up line. "Ladies, who would like to ride the Ferriss wheel?"

  • @theironson1043
    @theironson1043 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    Women have dating on tutorial mode; Men have dating on apocalypse mode.

    • @triplea657aaa
      @triplea657aaa 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No. Men have it worse, but Women have plenty of problems as well. Women are flooded with awful shit men to the point where it's hard to find the good ones, so they only try for the best ones who won't settle for them. Dating is shit for everyone these days.

    • @ScrotusMaximus666
      @ScrotusMaximus666 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Unless you’re Chad or Tyrone

    • @eatacay
      @eatacay 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Men have dating on apocalypse mode in a dating sim. Women have dating on apocalypse mode in Among Us. They have to actually watch out for people who will kill them. haha

  • @neilbush9873
    @neilbush9873 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +323

    When iwas in my 20s i gave a freind a lift to a party in my car he spoke these words to me "im gonna get myself a woman tonight what about you?"
    It seemed abit nieve to think that way as i hardly knew anyone there .
    When we sat down at the party he filled a jug of beer and we sat down at an emty table an surveyed the people, as you do.
    After a few drinks i got up and started chating to some blokes my age and left him to his drinking .
    A group of girls were chatting togeather and i was agonising trying to overcome my shyness ,it occured to me rather than trying to "get one" perhaps i could see if i could just talk to every woman at the party for fun and see what happened.
    This attitude was a huge breakthrough for me, i was married within the year.
    I still do that at parties,im still with my first wife 40 years later.
    Not every attempt at conversation is succesfull but freindship is somthing to practice.
    Who wants to be got anyway ?

    • @chinngis83
      @chinngis83 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +117

      That sounds too healthy, almost like good advice. I'll ignore it.

    • @isambo400
      @isambo400 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      40 years ago you weren’t in competition with smartphone apps…

    • @neilbush9873
      @neilbush9873 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

      If you see relationships as a competition you make yourself less attractive .my observations are that a man taking care of his freinds is more attractive than a jealous self serving man .
      What do you think?

    • @user-vx1up7ty7z
      @user-vx1up7ty7z 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@neilbush9873 It's good advice, like saving up for a down payment on a house, but it's still a lot harder today than it was even a decade ago (just like buying a house).

    • @snoglydox
      @snoglydox 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      . *You didn't say what happened with your friend.*

  • @leilam1725
    @leilam1725 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +187

    I enjoyed the video, but as a European woman, it does not make any sense to me to invite your 3 crushes at the same event. In France, women would walk away because it would be considered as really disrespectul. This is not a job interview; you want to see if you vibe with the person, and how can you really be yourself, relax and flirt a little if all your competitors are in the same room? This is really capitalism applied to dating, where emotions and people become commodities. Also, I think that if you're obsessed with a certain type of rib cage, the matchmaker has to explain to you that it shouldn"t be a criteria to identify your soulmate.
    A friend was asking me why dating was hard in the US. (I live on the East Coast). I told her that most American men were paralysed in front of women and did not know how to approach them. She couldn't believe it!
    Finally, since the audience of this channel seems to focus on science rather emotions or intuition, I recommend the book "How not to die alone", by Logan Ury.
    thanks for readying!

    • @Daviddaze
      @Daviddaze 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It's the creativity that Tim delivers the efficiency. He brought science for the logical types. Men tend to try to fix everything , in relationships also , instead of confident social interaction. I've seen women bring her men friends together so who will fight for her. This bar scene too crowded, not enuff one-to-one. That's a good book rec.

    • @PlubusDomis
      @PlubusDomis 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      You'd probably be surprised that a lot of American and hispanic women respond well to this type of situation.
      It was almost funny to watch the two women become more fixated on each other than Tim 😂 like their own little rock-paper-scissors match for Tim😅

    • @johnnyxmusic
      @johnnyxmusic 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Coffee date? I’m on your coast.😉

    • @CozyBear_29
      @CozyBear_29 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Back when "The Game" was popular. Even Neil Strauss disavowed the lifestyle promoted in the book and expressed regret over the impact his work had.

    • @benascg-ll7sq
      @benascg-ll7sq 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bonjour Leila. Crazy how men got paralyzed by #metoo and #balancetonporc. Charm and frankness open arms and heart. Fully agree on focusing on science rather than emotions. Next episode might be something like how to beat AI on the dating field. Surprized you'd recommend Logan Ury's book. She sounds like her strategy execution was developed at harvard business school. Aucune humanité. So no space for butterflies, again. Looks we, european , have a competitive advantage😀. Une bonne soirée à vous. B.

  • @renecarrillo3758
    @renecarrillo3758 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +243

    Great episode! It's refreshing that Tim has the same fear of approaching women as us mere mortals lol

    • @abdul-kabiralegbe5660
      @abdul-kabiralegbe5660 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      You mean Jason Statham?😂😂

    • @andrjsjan4231
      @andrjsjan4231 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What does refreshing mean in this context, and also sorry for my bad english grammar by the way?

    • @abdul-kabiralegbe5660
      @abdul-kabiralegbe5660 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@andrjsjan4231 Reassuring.

  • @rpgbx
    @rpgbx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I'm so thrilled to see that you're doing the TH-cam game - I know you had hesitations that you mentioned on the Noah Kagan episode, but this is just so valuable. Thank you for sharing your gift.

  • @Mentalhealthhacks
    @Mentalhealthhacks 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This was fun. I hope to see more videos like this. Thanks for the sharing your experience!

  • @enkibumbu
    @enkibumbu หลายเดือนก่อน +439

    He's worth a billion dollars and is in spectacular shape. No pickup lines needed.

    • @stacyliddell5038
      @stacyliddell5038 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      A billion? Nowhere near that number.

    • @enkibumbu
      @enkibumbu หลายเดือนก่อน +68

      @@stacyliddell5038 $110 million net worth should enhance his pickup game.

    • @EatYourVegs
      @EatYourVegs หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      You'd be surprised. Everyone has to have game

    • @BassboatRadio
      @BassboatRadio หลายเดือนก่อน +123

      Flaunting wealth is a great way to attract the wrong type of woman

    • @MrTresto
      @MrTresto หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I mean having a good net worth helps (maybe just with confidence if anything) but it's mostly that he seems kind and warm and well put together. That's much more essential. I suggest you try that too.

  • @andyhinds542
    @andyhinds542 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I remember years ago (1997), I met a woman who contacted me after I wrote her though a single column in a UK biker magazine. We chatted for over 6 hours on the phone and I had no idea what she looked like. When I met her, she was okay, but her personality was amazing and we hit it off straight away. It was very intense but when you have that chemistry with someone, looks really don't matter that much. When she broke up with me I felt destroyed.

  • @franciscosuarez4725
    @franciscosuarez4725 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    this is giving big mythbuster energy i’m about it

  • @silvialosada5959
    @silvialosada5959 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I loved this episode so much, especially the part where you're talking to people in person. Rooting for you to find love! :D

  • @RIB0S0ME
    @RIB0S0ME 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Love the approaches! Thanks for sharing.

  • @jb3757
    @jb3757 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    Loved the vibe of the whole video, so light-hearted and realistic.

  • @ConnorJaksik
    @ConnorJaksik 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great work with the TV show! I’ve watched 3-4 episodes and all have been fantastic!

  • @keirdoubas
    @keirdoubas หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This episode made me LOL a few times, which is rare for a tv show. Good concept Tim!

  • @raphaelschaad4309
    @raphaelschaad4309 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    My deep respect, Tim, for overcoming your vulnerability ❤

    • @benascg-ll7sq
      @benascg-ll7sq 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      With all due respect, please don't take hesitation for vulnerability

  • @RiverValleyInnovations
    @RiverValleyInnovations 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    "I don't expect to find my soulmate." That's a rough start. Nervous TIm Ferriss is so endearing...

  • @TheHappinessPlannerTV
    @TheHappinessPlannerTV 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love these fun episodes, Tim! Keep them coming. 😊😊

  • @Ryan.G.Spalding
    @Ryan.G.Spalding 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This was fantastic! The production value. Everything. Well done sir!

  • @doruk_kurt
    @doruk_kurt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is amazing!!! It is so inspiring yet so fun and playful. Those naked photos with the cat are the best!❣️

  • @rise.with.regine
    @rise.with.regine 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Loved this, so interesting seeing you try out these different approaches!

  • @worththefight1096
    @worththefight1096 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Loved this, Tim! Thank you for sharing and for your vulnerability. This was awesome to see you in this light. You are a great guy doing incredible work for our human family, and you are so worthy and deserving of your wildest dreams. Keep at it! You'll find her soon

  • @theshizzen3988
    @theshizzen3988 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Good old Tim Ferris human Guinea Pig stuff! Loved it👍

  • @BO-dc4xg
    @BO-dc4xg 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a cool episode! Thank you for making it and sharing your experience!
    Just found your videos, look forward to more!
    Thank you

  • @BenBartolovic
    @BenBartolovic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    It is absolutely hilarious to see someone like Tim who is so successfull in many areas of life is struggling so much with a basic task like dating.
    Was fun to watch and reminded me of my first experiences.

    • @ThisArchitect1
      @ThisArchitect1 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I'm realizing I'm on the same boat as him and I'm going to have to get this down to a science with practice. It was definitely fun to watch him learn.

    • @benascg-ll7sq
      @benascg-ll7sq 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Tim is so focused on performance that he does not seem to be willing to leave some space to the adventurous side of dating

  • @christinecooper4256
    @christinecooper4256 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Love seeing you approach challenges that put you truly outside of your comfort zone-- inspiring! 🙌🏻

  • @jasocaz
    @jasocaz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I love Tim but when he hit the matchmaker with the rib cage filter I lost it.

    • @Shineonfriends
      @Shineonfriends หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      “I want a very thin woman” would create a negative result to the video

    • @shahabmohseni258
      @shahabmohseni258 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Personal preference brother, I understand it and respect it.

    • @joeroganpodfantasy42
      @joeroganpodfantasy42 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@Shineonfriends yeah that went thru my head , brilliant from him

    • @williamclayton9566
      @williamclayton9566 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Shineonfriends Bullsh*t. Men are allowed to have standards.

  • @edmund_hogan
    @edmund_hogan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The style of the video feels like a show you'd see on TV; very refreshing

  • @dasharafalovich7132
    @dasharafalovich7132 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved the episode! Thank you 💫

  • @dspitze
    @dspitze 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I actually first learned about you when I read Neil’s first book about dating when you helped him pack on ten pounds of muscle in 6 weeks. You guys inspire me to be better! Looking for somewhere I can learn bachata while I stay here in the Dominican Republic

    • @Ramdapanda
      @Ramdapanda 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Strauss should hardly be an inspiration, at least not when he was writing the books. Not sure about Ferris, never seen him before

  • @ChikaKinayha
    @ChikaKinayha 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    If someone as famous and well-connected as Tim finds it hard to find a match, what hope is there for us mortals...

    • @tinacarvalhoBodyandHealth
      @tinacarvalhoBodyandHealth 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I agree

    • @PieraB
      @PieraB 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Take this as entertainment. I don't believe all of this is authentic. It's content to have clicks and make bucks $$$$$

    • @adrianazollo2688
      @adrianazollo2688 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol

    • @1amb1
      @1amb1 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      sincere, optimistic reframe: it means we're all mortals, we're all in the same boat, same ocean, and maybe... the hope is also the same

    • @Rsiatat
      @Rsiatat หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Don't belittle yourself while putting others on a high horse. It will make for a sorrow life

  • @gangakarapenan3365
    @gangakarapenan3365 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    At the end of the day … no matter what… we are ALWAYS guided by the Heart ❤! Great fun episode! I wish I was at that party ! 😅

  • @strive4impact
    @strive4impact หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just heard your most recent interview with Noah Kagan yesterday. Looks like you may be expanding the YT presence after all! I'm here for it and appreciate you working through the negative repercussions to continue to share your journey and wisdom in this format as well.

  • @modernbrainbox
    @modernbrainbox หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love that you put yourself out there and took one for the team for the sake of a whole generation of us who are trying to play the field.
    Loved this episode! ❤

    • @mikemcnut3204
      @mikemcnut3204 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women don’t play the field. What’re you talking about?

    • @holism
      @holism 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      There’s a new generation that has a different experience of dating and Tim Ferris took on the role of the fool and was vulnerable putting himself in a position to learn and take in advice from other men ( experts ) on the subject , in front of us, so we can learn how to navigate the field of dating, that’s what they are talking about. Women could play the field and definitely do in todays modern world, although it’s probably not in their best interest.

  • @E4Sierra
    @E4Sierra 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I'd be curious to know the success rate of the 'matchmaker' .. whether a service like that actually works for people _long-term_ .

  • @87mcmahan87
    @87mcmahan87 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is great to see. I feel like I am not alone in putting successful folks like tim up on a pedestal, like they are some sort of gifted extra terrestrial that I cant even compare myself to but realize that's just another one of my excuses. We are all just humans!!!

  • @LewisWirth
    @LewisWirth 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The color grade and tv show editing gives the whole video kind of a early 2000s look and feel.
    Very entertaining video btw

  • @socaljohnnyc
    @socaljohnnyc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Tim - I’m a huge listener of your podcast and also your books! I find it impossible to believe that you have a hard time doing cold approach. That vulnerability must have been just for TV (?)!!

    • @socaljohnnyc
      @socaljohnnyc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh and Tim - how does one attempt to be lucky enough to be in that room of singles w/ you?

  • @tomofasia
    @tomofasia 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Wow, this was me like 15 years ago or something when I started doing what Mystery, Style and a bunch of other guys came up with. Those memories! 😅

  • @mrburns7007
    @mrburns7007 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    your intro lines. Making the impossible, possible by bonding rules. My way of thinking ... I'm Subscribed now

  • @smilinginthedark
    @smilinginthedark 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love the old episodes Tim

  • @russdoesstuff
    @russdoesstuff 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    For those wondering 21:21 (C) 2014 .... Does take take me back to a day when the Reality-TV was fun.

  • @justinhinchliffe2355
    @justinhinchliffe2355 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This was a great episode, especially as you had real skin in the game. You did great!

  • @peteonealdating
    @peteonealdating หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congrats Tim on getting out of your comfort zone! Your a beast for doing this👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @maxduewel54
    @maxduewel54 หลายเดือนก่อน

    finally something good again on youtube ! really cool and well-made episode

  • @nadiachareuf6318
    @nadiachareuf6318 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This gave me butterflies! It is so hard to just walk up to someone like that. Loved this so much

  • @davidamodeo_
    @davidamodeo_ 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This gives me old TV show vibes and I like it

  • @LilayM
    @LilayM 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very fun to see ^^ Hella brave of you to ask people in person - respect.

  • @mattlovelace6610
    @mattlovelace6610 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this series. Keep it up Tim ❤

    • @teeb1044
      @teeb1044 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's an old series.

  • @elizabethecheverri7969
    @elizabethecheverri7969 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Good to know guys get nervous. Dating has become a huge challenge.

  • @ShannonMaryMac
    @ShannonMaryMac 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    The shirtless cat pics are THE BEST 😂

    • @lyndseygolden7546
      @lyndseygolden7546 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🐈

    • @brobejr
      @brobejr หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      really, wow. another thing I don't get.

    • @claudiomarangone614
      @claudiomarangone614 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I thought it was cheesy and trying too hard

    • @mondavou9408
      @mondavou9408 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🤢

    • @NotFound-iu8wx
      @NotFound-iu8wx 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That was creepy. I would never

  • @dadnumber1140
    @dadnumber1140 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I can’t imagine you having a hard time getting a date. You have been doing podcasts and your life experiences is more than 10 average people. Your books are awesome. And the game is the one book that changed my life for the better. NLP not the AI type. Sammy’s interview on darknet diaries was awesome. You’re a lucky man Tim to have made such a great life.
    It might be that your alway into something and no time for a relationship

  • @danielskiba6705
    @danielskiba6705 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Such humour 😂
    The Amy from the farmers marketing at the party killed me 😂

  • @suzpeden
    @suzpeden 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ooh this was so fun. I hope you went on a date with at least one of them, they seem awesome.

    • @jewelbency5072
      @jewelbency5072 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, whoever his gf was, they broke up few months ago

  • @eliteboxfitness
    @eliteboxfitness 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The pics with the cat cracked me right up
    Lmao brilliant

  • @bradtrades
    @bradtrades 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope you do a follow-up video to let us know how your journey is going. Good luck!

  • @endlich.ich.academy
    @endlich.ich.academy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    what the..! I want to see the outcome! Give me a happy ending... I enjoyed watching this a lot, the down to earth Tim Ferris and the very interesting approaches. I want to become a pick up artist now! 😀

  • @timferriss
    @timferriss  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Sign up for "5-Bullet Friday" and each Friday you’ll get a short email from me sending you off to your weekend with fun and useful things to try. Each newsletter describes the five coolest things I’ve found or explored that week. Sign up here for free: tim.blog/friday

    • @robertdobai
      @robertdobai 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am smelling a new book, Sensei! :)

    • @vitallife7134
      @vitallife7134 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would be interested in knowing you as a date...:)

    • @Christian_Prepper
      @Christian_Prepper หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      *FERRIS MASTERY: Although, I have learned a lot from Tim over the years I fear the focus of this particular experiment falls short, because yes, knowing how to **_attract_** a mate is important, but "picking up" (dating) a person good for you is truly a mine field without the ability to quickly screen out "deal breakers" and decipher potential compatibility within an initial short conversation. I have mastered how to read body language, micro expressions, verbal cues, and use calibrated questions designed to covertly expose their true self within one 5-10min casual conversation while establishing rapport and drawing them. So trust me when I say, I had to master this for work and now strangers I interact with have no clue what I'm doing and may not understand why I didn't call them back after all.*
      *Great video! I love the tech intro. Strong first step toward all I shared above. I'm excited about Tim's series.*
      *Liberty = Peace & I pray we always enjoy both!*

    • @Rays_Bad_Decisions
      @Rays_Bad_Decisions หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I like the video but consider where you start. Looking for a woman in San Francisco is relationship suicide even if you win you lose

    • @laylasmart
      @laylasmart 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The problem isn't to find a girl. The problem is to find a loyal one which is not a femina-zi. In the western world mindset, a women being a femina-zi is the standard.

  • @rafghad4399
    @rafghad4399 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Neil Strauss and the Game book got me started on my debaucherous journey through my twenties. Love him, and the people that created that science. Im married now with a kid on the way. This was the best content you've put out.

  • @urielisraelarandagonzales3617
    @urielisraelarandagonzales3617 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Going on so many first dates would give me nightmare fuel, mad respect.

  • @SEMarketing5
    @SEMarketing5 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awesome episode bro! 😎

  • @justkickingit272
    @justkickingit272 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Step 1: Be a tall, muscular, rich, blonde anglo guy who has CEO vibes

    • @joninator7858
      @joninator7858 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Stop coping loser.

  • @raffles5398
    @raffles5398 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Plot twist: non of the three women go out with him but instead become best friends

    • @Sasquatch10
      @Sasquatch10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I feel like all four people wouldn't mind that.

    • @PolishBehemoth
      @PolishBehemoth 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      except that doesnt happen so... stupid comment

    • @JohnnyDLaw
      @JohnnyDLaw 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      if they wanted they woulda just dated

  • @plaidballoon
    @plaidballoon 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dude, just watching you do the cold approaches was giving me major anxiety lol

  • @photographyguru2135
    @photographyguru2135 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing, he has the growth mindset, he is charming, and awesome! I took notes!

  • @scottcates
    @scottcates 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Inner game is a huge benefit.

    • @jackfrostcm108
      @jackfrostcm108 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤ spot on! Game is all about inner game

    • @thedrj2009
      @thedrj2009 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s it. Nailed it.

    • @bhaveshpatel9626
      @bhaveshpatel9626 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Inner game is true alpha , true success

  • @Jean-Pierre-Parent
    @Jean-Pierre-Parent 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I am totally blown away that Tim is anxious about approaching women, with his money, status, skills. I thought I would be doing better with all that stuff but I'm doing already doing quite well, I guess approaching women effectively is a skill independent of anything else. For those interested, Todd V has a lot to teach on the subject.

    • @thedrj2009
      @thedrj2009 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love greasy V

    • @postblitz
      @postblitz 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      If anything the money usually puts one's head up their ass and causes them to stay clear from regular people.
      What's also true is he didn't setup anything with a romantic expectation and thus didn't execute anything.

  • @alexanderdeadmansche
    @alexanderdeadmansche 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love Neil’s face at 11:27 . Hes so happy for him

  • @realjoedee
    @realjoedee หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Status is the #1 aphrodisiac, fame being the pinnacle of status. Status is also situationally relevant so you can cultivate it within your daily lives.

    • @MrTigermark53
      @MrTigermark53 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is such a guy myth and flawed premise.
      We are energetic beings not material ones.
      Women find confidence, and if having status makes you feel confident and sexy then great. It will work for some people but mostly those who feel something lacking in themselves I reckon 😢

  • @Tomsonx232
    @Tomsonx232 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The day game part was terrible imo, opening up with a random question/fake scenario puts the conversation in a weird rhythm, hard to transition the conversation to about them, best thing to do is to approach them and ask them a question about THEM, and then talk about each other and build a connection. "Hey I like your {accessory you noticed and liked} how did you decide to get that?"
    Also don't just stuff down approach anxiety, dive deeper into that anxiety and ask yourself why am I feeling this? There was a guy on youtube handing out tiny gold bars on the street and people kept turning him down because he seemed like he was handing out pamphlets, but none of that rejection bothered him because he knew deep down inside he was offering something of high value... rejection was THEIR loss not his! When you frame all of your approaches in this mindset of "I am of high value" then approach anxiety melts away because you properly re-framed you fear of rejection

    • @justkickingit272
      @justkickingit272 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sorry Tim, Tomson and his 5 subscribers know way more about women than Neil Strauss and yourself

  • @fotiniPMT6171
    @fotiniPMT6171 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You rock! Great work! And... i wish you to find your mate! Soon!

  • @AMDay-xj7rb
    @AMDay-xj7rb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aww, Tim. I love this. Your vulnerability is cute! I find it hard to believe that you have a difficult time getting dates. Good luck on your dating quest, sir!

  • @STSpringerChannel
    @STSpringerChannel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Very fun! We need an epilogue please (I'm rooting for restaurant lady from the Ferry bldg.)

  • @fussinHassan
    @fussinHassan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    downloaded everyone's profile? wtf

    • @AmadeuShinChan
      @AmadeuShinChan 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Screams: recipe for disaster. I currently try to do counter-corruption and it’s so rampant online and it’s of course happening on dating platforms. Basically there’s a profile with one woman, same person, 9 profiles so far and each profile is photo verified. And yet the dating page pretends to be stupid. But i mean, who didn’t hear the shot during the previous 4 years, maybe never will, regarding corruption and a need for fundamental change, yet noone’s willing to pay up… such as investing 10 bucks a year to make a difference towards a merit-based economy. Better hodl that one bitcoin and wait for doomsday when it will be worth 1 million, but we’ll also live in zombie world, when this “target is reached”, if we aren’t already. Sorry if it’s hard to follow what i try to say, english is only my second language.

    • @ThePk8mile
      @ThePk8mile 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      It's public bro

  • @simpleselfhelp
    @simpleselfhelp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Enjoyed watching this :)

  • @richardpellis
    @richardpellis 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Heck, I get anxious just watching you trying to do the IRL approach.

  • @wagmi614
    @wagmi614 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    airing this very old tv episode in current times needs guts

    • @rahulgemnani
      @rahulgemnani 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Why? This is simply geniune dating tips
      Why would someone hate this type of content?

    • @Entertainment-
      @Entertainment- 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some people will always find ways to cancel someone

    • @wagmi614
      @wagmi614 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@HMuny55 didn't know there was an age limit to use tinder

    • @TheArtofRetouching
      @TheArtofRetouching 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When that guy said eLance, I questioned how old this was. So then, what happened??

    • @wagmi614
      @wagmi614 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@rahulgemnani because people see pickup artists and the likes in different light nowadays

  • @JGW2110
    @JGW2110 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Wow Neil hasn’t aged in two decades

  • @usablellc6735
    @usablellc6735 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am freaking out just watching this. Glad I have a partner and that I'm way older than the searching for a mate stage of life.

  • @iansullivan1967
    @iansullivan1967 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    “If I can do it, so can you” *hires Mr. Robot to download every profile in LA*

  • @maya_unplugged
    @maya_unplugged หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Really? The moment I realised you are inviting all girls to your party, I was out. Being invited feels special. Finding tons of “competition” feels like being an object in “the bachelor”.

    • @MakeYouFeelBetterNow
      @MakeYouFeelBetterNow หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes, he'd be ignoring someone. For me, I'd be turned off and feel like I wasted my time.

    • @robertlutz3723
      @robertlutz3723 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      The Bachelor is a very successful show lol…

  • @nadiarolwal
    @nadiarolwal หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video. Approach anxiety is terrifying

  • @gunars1114
    @gunars1114 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This one was so funny...probably due to the fears I would have in the same situation and that I did not had to push myself into somethinglike that!

  • @gmoney1760
    @gmoney1760 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Tim is the GOAT including non fiction television programming. Prove me wrong

    • @gmoney1760
      @gmoney1760 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      TELL ME another TV show with a more handsome & charismatic intellect at the helm

    • @MrChristiangraham
      @MrChristiangraham 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@gmoney1760 Tim? Is that you? 🤣

    • @s1n4m1n
      @s1n4m1n หลายเดือนก่อน

      This episode is pretty fiction.

  • @FavieOfficial
    @FavieOfficial 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Amusing to watch, it's like shopping. Dating in old times must have been significantly more profound and romantic. 😃

    • @benascg-ll7sq
      @benascg-ll7sq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Still free to make it as romantic as we want (or can)

    • @E4Sierra
      @E4Sierra 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In old times I'm sure it was, like in novels .. this video on the other hand demonstrates how dating overall is the same as it was 10 years ago.
      (maybe barring slightly higher popularity of "pick-up" culture back then-but even in 2013 that whole movement had run its course)

  • @lizabarana239
    @lizabarana239 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this episode

  • @leahculberson3665
    @leahculberson3665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amazing !

  • @mequable
    @mequable 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    BTW I had read here and there some tips and followed this strategy: 1. have at least one black and white photo; 2. for men - look at the camera and smile with no teeth, for women - look away from the camera and smile with teeth, 3. have at least one full body photo (duh), 4. have a photo wearing red (red dress for example). But guess what, I'm a woman and everyone swipes on me. It doesn't get really easier to assess potential real life dates, and I think these tricks are mainly for men. Men actually don't put any effort in their profiles, I notice. If I see someone with zero stuff written, I swipe away. Potentially not being able to write.

    • @MakeYouFeelBetterNow
      @MakeYouFeelBetterNow หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It goes the other way too, if you write more than a sentence or two, you lose most women. Maybe the best approach is just be yourself.

    • @mequable
      @mequable 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@MakeYouFeelBetterNow really? I am not sure but I'm judging from my own opinion only, can't find enough women to ask. If I see more than one sentence, I think someone has put in the time to write something. Perhaps more important is what it says, one or more sentences.

    • @MakeYouFeelBetterNow
      @MakeYouFeelBetterNow 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@mequable Perhaps. There's such a thing as putting too many pictures as well, for both sexes. It's like people are finding a reason not to like you. I'm guilty of it too when I see a really bad pic.

  • @teeb1044
    @teeb1044 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This series was recorded years ago. From the comments I see some people don't know that.

  • @LearningProducers
    @LearningProducers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Tim’s a legend in the making! Good throwback vid.

  • @seaTiger51
    @seaTiger51 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    By the look of the websites and computers I can tell this happened by the 2010-2014 era. Still fun to watch!

  • @C_Mor_Rocks
    @C_Mor_Rocks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I wish there was more practical and applicable tips for the online dating. I definitely don’t have the resources or know-how to build algorithms to filter dating apps, but more power to you all that have that kind of time and $ lol

    • @benascg-ll7sq
      @benascg-ll7sq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Based on my experience (in Europe) cultivate a funnel approach. Connect with as many contacts as possible. Have a lab approach. See what works, what does not and refine. Some leads will lead to nothing, some others might lead to a drink and/or a night and why not, maybe to THE ONE. Don't have expectations too early in the process. It will be time to adapt your expectations while navigating the discovery process. And nobidy said it is prohibited to lead multiple discovery processes in parallel, the caveat being it can become resources (time, energy, money) consuming quite fast

    • @GRUMO
      @GRUMO 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@benascg-ll7sq Agree. The funnel approach is how I found my wife. It's the same approach in sales and it works on anything where you want to promote/sell a product (in this case, YOU are the product)

    • @benascg-ll7sq
      @benascg-ll7sq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@GRUMO strictly between you and me, same here...I had to learn soooo much bout expectations management. As soon as I at last got it, I cud focus on the present moment, projection free. Worked like magic. Best wishes of happiness. Ben

  • @TerryKinder
    @TerryKinder 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Data driven romance. Be still women’s hearts 😂

    • @icingcake
      @icingcake 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

    • @howardhere6144
      @howardhere6144 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Best. Comment.

  • @mathiasrabe
    @mathiasrabe 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    still great inspiration, would always go for IRL and recommend it to my clients ✌🏼

  • @lukehickford4322
    @lukehickford4322 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I enjoyed this and I enjoyed the 2010's TV series American Format, reminds me of Catfish, thank you very much, Did your work ever find its way to TV or have you been sitting on these for years? No offense im just from England so Im totally out of the clue zone! Definitley you are a Max Joseph or Casey Neistat era kind of guy and would love to see what your modern filmmaking style is like!

  • @lukasa6374
    @lukasa6374 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Shirtless photos with cats seem odd no? lol