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STORY TIME: HE PROPOSED TO KEEP ME FROM BREAKING UP WITH HIM
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2023
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I remember a while back I felt like a wall went up, you were very self critical. And your warmth manily for yourself wasn't there. I stopped watching. Then this last fall I watched one "clean with me" and you were soo different. So open and goofy 🤪 I missed you so much that I nearly cried. I never knew why. I so sorry you went through all that but it clearly made you stronger.
Thank you for sharing, Olena. For others who have experienced something similar, the podcast Something Was Wrong is a great podcast of individuals sharing their own stories of experiences with narcissistic people. It can be so empowering to know you aren’t alone because it’s such an isolating experience.
Coming from someone who was also in an abusive relationship - you can ALWAYS go home, your family are the people, who can and will help you out of this. There is nothing to be ashamed, the abuser is the one to feel this way, although these kind of people are amputated of such emotions.
Amidst all of this, know that i was praying for you! Back then, i noticed something had changed in you and kept praying for you❤️ I love you girly, you are beautiful inside and out😊
Olena I'm so glad you're talking about this, thank you for being so vulnerable. I really also hope this help girls who are in a toxic relationship to leave and know that their well being is so important.
I'm so glad you're talking about this. This happens to so many people, and sharing your story can help so many.
I've been following you, girl, for YEARS, and I remember this time (I think), and remember feeling that something was completely off. So glad you've healed and are in a healthy relationship now!
Thank you for sharing your experience. You’re so brave, cause what you went through is extremely horrible. I feel like we know you very well and I think you’re the most genuine person ever! You deserve the best.
yup been in a relationship like this before, these types of guys just want you wrapped around their finger and be in control of you and always manipulate you and cry whenever you would try to leave, yet their talking to other girls behind your back and doing the most vile shit ever. honestly glad i went through a relationship like that so i know my worth and to never do that shit again not gonna let someone use and abuse me
For everyone watching this please listen to your gut it doesn't get better it gets worse. My ex husband who I met when I was 14 turning 15 and I married at 18 did the same things and I convinced myself if we got married he'd change, then I got pregnant with our son and the physical abuse started and I hid so much from my parents. Now our son's 8 and he constantly uses him as a weapon to control me and where I leave it's a family state so I'm forced to co parent with someone who constantly mentally abused me and our son. PLEASE LEAVE
Thank you for sharing your story with us. You are so inspiring and strong! God is always with us❤
God is so so so good, even in the hardest of seasons! Love you!!!! 💖💖💖
it's wild to me that girls put up with this in a relationship and still want to be with the dude. no one that is truly in love with you would ever call you those things. and even if it's "just a word", it's the meaning and the intention behind it. no one you're in a relationship with should ever call you something with the intention of hurting you. you can get over it and move on from being called a bunch of swear words but you shouldn't forgive the action and the intent behind it. you shouldn't continue a relationship with someone who would be ok with doing that to you even in a moment of anger. that's not real love. also the gaslighting and love bombing with the flowers, the ring, and the proposal after the huge blowout fight is absolutely awful
I am so proud of you!! I wish you healing, love, joy and above all harmony and peace.
Just get rid of everything associated with him. Keep no memories to hurt you in any way.
Lots of prayers for you!
You are so strong, Olena! I relate to so much of this with my own ex, including the addiction piece, and I am so sorry for what you went through. Sending you so much love - thank you for sharing your experience, I know it wasn't easy to do
I can really understand how you felt. I was with someone who treated me badly and verbal abuse towards me. I had no self confidence at all. It took me a long time to build myself back up. Even to this day! I feel like you never know someone’s true colours till you’ve been with them for a bit and then it comes out how they really are! My sister my mom and dad didn’t even like his as time went on I would even Stand up for the guy. But I started to see it for myself. I ended it cuz I couldn’t deal anymore and at times didn’t care if I saw him or not. With all that being said I’m so much happier now!
That’s exactly how it went for me! I’m so sorry you went through that as well! Praying for ever lasting peace for you about this! Looking back, I just wish I could make younger me understand sooner.
@@IamJustOlena Thank you! 😄❤️
I absolutely loved listening to your story and think you are such an inspiration in the way you speak and thank God for helping you through it. I'm just watching you for the first time and literally was captivated by your incredible yet unfortunate experience. I'm so glad to have found such an amazing person to now watch on TH-cam ❤
Thank you for sharing Olena. I could never imagine going through something like that to the extent your ex put you through. I definitely can relate to some aspects. I am glad to see you sparkle back and praying that your present relationship will continue to be everything you want and more. Sending you so much love ❤️
Thank you Ivory!!! And this was only a small part of what happened in those 3 years 🤦🏼♀️ it was def a roller coaster. Thank you thank you! Always keep you in my prayers too! Have an amazing vacay!! 💕💖💕💖💕
@@IamJustOlena love you girl thank you!! Thank you for being so real with all of us and maintaining that connection ❤️
such a good story, girllll you've been thru it. More pleaseeeeeeee :) GLAD your in a better relationship
I was in a mildly toxic relationship back when covid first hit. He did treat me really well but we just weren't a good match. He grew up with an alcoholic father and today my ex wanted nothing to do with drinking. I respected that because of his childhood. One day his friend came into town and we all went to the beach. She had brought a white claw with her and she asked if I wanted to try it. I'm very picky with my alcohol but I tried it anyway. I literally took a sip because I didn't like it. It was in front of him and he got so mad at me. He couldn't even tell me about how upset he was until a few days later. He was upset with me for taking a sip in front of him but any of his friends that would drink in front of him, he wouldn't say anything to. It gave me manipulating vibes. He claims that he doesn't say anything to his friends because he doesn't seem them as often as he saw me. So if they got out of control, it wouldn't trigger him because he wasn't around them much, but if I did it and spiraled it would trigger him. I kept telling him that I wouldn't go crazy with it because I don't like the taste of alcohol enough to ever get drunk. He ended up dumping me about 2 weeks after our first anniversary. I was devastated because all that stuff aside, I wanted to spend my life with him. I'm glad that we aren't together because we're just too different, he didn't want kids (I really want kids so that was a huge red flag for me), and his mom would always have to live with him because of mental health issues she has which wasn't gonna work had we ever gotten married
You are very strong to share what you went through and strong enough to leave a bad relationship that is the hardest thing to do , it's good to see you happy and in a good place in your life you deserve all the best,
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Olena you are so much stronger than we ever knew. Thank you for sharing and for trusting us we have your back and I am so proud of you for all you have gone through and that you have persevered. Much love xoxo
Stay strong. Good things are coming your way 💜
Thank you love!! 💖💕 I’m completely okay, this happened years ago. It’s part of my story, but it doesn’t affect me anymore!
Thank you so much for sharing! I am sure that was not easy!! Love you!
Thank you!! Love you!! It definitely wasn’t the easiest thing to discuss, but with time and lots of healing, I’m in a much better place than I was when in that, so I can share and hopefully help others with my story. 💖
Not him projecting his crazy behavior on you through those messages. You're a nicer person than I am, if a man calls me the b-word it WILL end in a fist fight lol
I'm so proud of the woman you have became over the years❤ I definitely would love to support your business but I was wondering is the digital planner for IOS only or can I use it for my tablet?
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@@IamJustOlenaYou are so welcome and thank you for sharing parts of you with us! 😘
BigPoppa was a douche!! Glad you are free!
I’m so glad you found the way back to your original self. I know so many people are going to watch this video and relate. I commend you for being so open and honest about a topic that so many people have gone through. I myself was emotionally abused and cheated on by a narcissist and it took 4 years to finally walk away due to all the gaslighting and confusion. Things get better though and I’m glad to see you’re in a better relationship and place in your life 🤍
is he the one you were dating before you move out of your parent's house I just an.t get it why would they cheat
You're so strong
Молодец, у тебя все будет хорошо! ❤
Thank you 🥹💖
Ugh feels like my own story except my ex didn't use substances
What a disgusting person! I get his parents are really proud of what they’ve created! You are beautiful, smart and amazing! Well done for leaving ❤️
My god, this remind me of my last ex. Bris 50yrs old man😅
Jerk RUN!!! Will always be a cheater