I grew up in NY in an abusive family environment, moved to Alaska as soon as I was old enough, with no money, kindness of strangers got me there. My friends in Alaska became my family. It's amazing how many people have these kinds of stories..
alaska is so beautiful. my dad lived in seward for 30 plus years. never knew what the attraction was. then he died and we had to take care of the estate. his ramshackle house was just blocks away from mt marathon. omg then i understood. and the close knit community. it is great up there. i just couldn't handle the fall and winters. lol. summer def.
I grew up in Atascadero California and moved to Alaska when I was 17. I am 37 and still loving and living in Alaska. Wasilla Alaska. Such a trip how I even found this video. Praying 🙏 for you girl. Come join us in Alaska. Tschandra
@@tschandraheinze1680 I'm in Northern California... Is it expensive to rent in Alaska? Do they still give people money for moving up there? They used to.
That’s enough said. My sister was in verb abuse for 36 years. She finally broke free. Left everything behind. She is feels free now. You’re a survivor and strong. God bless you.
tell your sister good for her. it is so hard to do bc it's the devil you know. you never know if it will be worse on the other side. i'm so proud of your sister. that had to take a lot of courage. i bet she's living her best life now. yay.
Ari...I totally understand. I did the same thing in 2018. I wasn't in a domestic Violence situation but it was definitely toxic. My friends would come over and say "man you have to get out of here, the tension is so thick you can cut it with a knife." So one night I packed up everything that was important and whatever I could fit in my SUV was all I took and I had a 3000sf home full of stuff in a golf course country club community. I left it all there along with two other vehicles that were in my name. I drove from south Florida to California and stayed with my sister until I secured work and was able to move into my own place. I do not believe in victim mentality, I don't blame anyone. Life just happens and you can recognize and readjust while doing what's best for you or you can play the victim and find blame..your anchor is gratitude and self awareness. Keep the faith in yourself and your heart open. You are never responsible for the way others act but you are 100% responsible for the manner in which you respond. Btw you do resemble a young Janet Jackson. Be safe and be blessed.
Rent is so expensive, hope life gets better for those struggling. Never judge anyone, you don't know their reasons . Life is hard , I een thru my struggles before . Not easy
I just want to tell you what I told my girls. "Built to not break" One brick at a time you build your empire. Your foundation is strong so just create your safety zone. Your space is your place and you know bigger thing are in store for you. Lastly PRAY!!!! God has a plan for you. The path to get there may not be the easiest but nothing great comes easy... I have faith in you. Your amazing, head up, shoulders square and keep pushing... You're a tank. The only person who can stop you is you!!! 💜💜💜
The show Maid on Netflix really breaks down walls for people hovering in the middle class (or what’s left of it) and shows just how close we all are to homelessness. For many who don’t have supportive family or friends, or who experience abuse by a spouse, one medical event or car repair could put someone out on the street. Thank you so much for sharing your story and being transparent about this reality that many people don’t want to accept. This is what our country needs to be focusing on. By the way, if you ever decide to make a Patreon and film seshes or whatever seems fun to you, I would definitely subscribe. Thanks for the updates, friend! Stay safe!
Hey Ari, don’t honestly know how your video ended up on my feed, but just wanted to give you some words of encouragement. I’ve dealt with toxic family members and had gotten written off by them for several years. I had to rely on complete strangers and a guy that I had only dated for a couple of weeks when I got kicked out. I lost almost all my possessions, except for 2 garbage bags of clothes and was homeless all while trying to finish college. But life is funny that way… fast forward 15 years later, that guy I dated at the lowest point in my life, is now my husband and we welcomed our first baby this year. Life does get better and being an introvert does make it more challenging - but not impossible. Keep a positive mindset and realize that this too shall pass. If you ever find yourself up north (Oregon), you’ve got a fellow TH-camr that gets your struggle and totally down for coffee. Stay safe and keep your head up. 🤗
Ari I admire your strength your energy you don't give up you adapt God will bless you this is a text I'm about to become homeless myself I just ordered those curtains you have in your car I will follow every day and yes don't ever lower your standards just to have a place to stay you better than that 😊
Random good looking girl on internet must be always right. Honestly, fact that her little known relatives let her stay with them more than 3 months is huge. I’d have packed my stuff at one week mark. Yet she is negative about them. Something is off here.
You remind me of my Cousin Michel. She was beautiful, sweet, and vibrant. Not to mention extremely positive. You look like her as well so it’s tripping me out.. She was murdered when she was 22, by her ex boyfriend. She was blindsided, and there was nothing she could have done to avoid it. I’m extremely happy that you made it out and are staying positive. ❤️
I had to leave my relationship after 12 years at 29 years old. I wasn’t in a physically abusive position but my spouse was extremely disrespectful with cheating. One early morning I took my 3 children to school and told the teachers I’d be right back to please keep their coats on. I than got a police officer to help me get to a greyhound bus in NYC. They took me to my kid’s school to retrieve them. No clothes, toys or anything. I never went back. Relationships don’t have to be physically abusive but they can certainly be verbally abusive as well as bullying. So leave if it’s not working. ❤️🆘❤️
Your story has me crying my eyes out… you are so brave and strong! I’m so proud of you for doing all you could to get your babies and YOU out of that situation. That had to be so scary 💕 I hope all is well for you guys now!
"The ugly truth" can often lead to something truly beautiful. Thanks for sharing your inspiring story and look forward to seeing more of your journey Miss ☺️
We were married @ 19 & 20. I left year 37 It took 2 1/2yrs of planning to get out. I filled for divorce and am still in that process. Because covid and so many delays it has taken almost 3yrs. Once our house is sold(he's still there) I will be free of him. I have faith that you will get through then over your current situation. I am the mother of 3 young women I know the strength it takes to break free. You are in my prayers I'm Debra, a survivor in Philly.💚💯
What’cha doin’ watermelon. 🍉 Thank you for having the strength to take back control of your life - I can imagine that isn’t easy. Love your positivity! ❤️ Have a great weekend all!
Finding your videos this morning helped me feel better about my struggles . I lived in the USA for 5 years - moved their for love and after heartbreak returned home to Australia. America is scary, people would say you are only one day away from a bad life . It’s so true . We have more of a safety net here although still times can be tough. So often people tend to assume if you are an attractive girl life must be easy . In case you didn’t get told enough you are beautiful and an absolutely beautiful soul . Thank you for sharing your story and I really hope things get better for you, maybe possibly you make money from TH-cam after these videos. Maybe you could get yourself an RV and keep enjoying your freedom but with more safety and comfort. Connecting with you in spirit and pray all will work and your future is filled with abundance.
A year ago I was in a hotel with my daughter…no car…no job…. Now I’m proud to say I have a place, my car and a new amazing job!!! You will be where you need to be in no time. So happy I came across your video. ❤️💕
@@richarddedek1403 I was able to manifested a lump sum of money. Sounds cliché butI honestly did and it really works. And of course, alot of sacrificing and doing without certain things for a while. I also moved around a bit and stayed with friends and family and ended up back in Phoenix where I live now. 5 states in one year 😭🤣
So freaking proud of you. Look forward to seeing your journey and watching you grow! What you are doing WILL inspire someone in the position you are in and be the motivation they need. Life is a team sport!
Never feel the need to share information that you don't want to! But I also think this will make people who feel this situation less alone. A lot of my friends my age (21) don't speak to their parents. Are totally responsible for themselves. It can be really rough. We have all experienced bad relationships too.
Keep your head up beautiful! I was in a very similar situation TWICE. 2019 - Present. The first was due to a very bad landlord/tenant situation I had to leave abruptly, & the 2nd was a toxic relationship mid-pandemic. I had a very good & full time job that I would attend literally from my car & would get dressed from my storage unit. The 24 hour gym was my safe haven for showers, sanity & sometimes a few hours of safe sleeping overnight. What I have learned is how cold society can be to the displaced. (Another story) I am still a bit “homeless”, however, I recently bought a camper/truck & so now I have a basic home & travel as a member of a site that allows me to camp at random locations for free with a list of hosts. It’s seasonal so I will have to transition soon for winter which will be interesting to say the least. I am grateful to have found your videos. I’ve thought of doing this but I’m also a mother (older kids) & I fear embarrassing them etc. Anyway, I would like to pass down to you one trick I learned. I used my Uber/Lyft lights in order to sleep legally overnight at the airport. I was a driver for a bit & so I would park in the driver waiting area & sleep safe & sound with security & little to no harassment. There is a bathroom there close by & a few other cars docking overnight for a variety of reasons (missed flights, cancellations, taxis, buses etc) so it feels a lot more “normal” & not so desolate. Ari, you are brave & transparent & beautiful inside & out & those are priceless qualities that you are now gifting to others like me. Thank you & I will support you through your journey while I trek through my own. Also, consider buying land! A small lot or even a garage rental to save money & all the bs that comes with renting apts! Just a safe secure spot to park & call your own until you get on your feet again, which you WILL! 🥰🥰🥹🙌🏽💪🏽🙏🏽
I honestly love her personality , she seems to have positive outlook on things even though things ain't all that great she still smiles Keep Going Girl you got this!
Total opposite of me. When unexplainable forces keep giving me or anyone I think is a decent person hell, my usually response is to want to see the entire planet blown tf up. Though, I don't necessarily interpret this sort of responses as negative, most "normal" people do so, eh.
Honestly, you posting your struggles helped me to appreciate whatever I have. I will never complain about what I have. A blessing from struggle should be a book to write.
You’re killing it girl! Make sure you have everything set up correctly in TH-cam so your videos are monetized. And make sure you read about the copyright laws. Everyone loves the music parts but it could cost you to get demonetized. So just check into that. This platform can take you to places you didn’t think was possible! Keep it up you’re doing great!
@@breephoenix111 well, I just went through two commercials as I am viewing this video. What needs to happen is that everyone needs to let the commercials go through, do not skip them, just so Ari can make that fraction of a penny for every person that watches the commercial ... and do the "quiz" the commercial asks you to do. Then again, for California extreme and ridiculous cost of living, commercials alone will not help Ari, donations need to be send to, if we really want to help her, but is not mandatory. 😉
@@breephoenix111 I know ... is crazy. I just watched another of her videos (posted yesterday) and saw no commercials whatsoever. I went back into the video and then two commercials came up. It doesn't make sense, but here we go. Take care, you did the right thing by watching that advertisement.
@@tigerblood213 ohhh shiza!!!! I had no idea that TH-cam will add advertising's, without paying a penny to the TH-camr ... and here I am spending endless hours watching commercials and the person might not even get that fraction of a penny. That Sucks!
Thank you for sharing this! I left an abusive relationship in 2016.. I lived with family, then lived in a tiny studio the size of a closet for a few months! I had to learn to do alot of things on my own when all of my family moved out of state. It was an extremely hard time for me. I felt abandoned and unloved. Now I'm 38 working a great job, I have a good loving man in my life and I'm loving life now. Jesus is the one I Thank the most for getting me through so much pain and horror. You are beautiful and strong! God be with you and don't ever give up! 🙏 It will get better! Love peace and hope ❤️ 💕
@@Deliveredfromevil exactly they all been giving her hard earned money when she hurt the kids I didn’t see the what the kids father said where did u see that if u don’t mind me asking
@@anitahalvorson6586 the thing is us highly compassionate people end up in these situations, until we learn the meaning of a truly deranged individual.
Keep ya head up and keep pushing Queen! I was also homeless in LA, for about 2 years, got myself out of it! You can do this thank you for sharing your story with us here on the platform 💪🏾
I can relate. Some of these ppl you can’t call fam. I have some of those too. Thank your sharing I can feel the pain while you were telling us what happened. Sending you love and hugsss it’ll always get better I promise ❤️❤️❤️
I feel you, Ari. Been homeless and living in my car twice in my life. Now I own a home, and have a steady job, with a wife and child. Stay strong and be prayerful, and read the Bible. Save your money, improve your credit, so that you may one day be able to get a home. I didn't think it was possible when I was homeless, but things change, and prayer changes things. I know. I'm a living witness.
Oh girl, when you said, “dolphins!” I was legit as excited as you were! I am a Midwest girl with a coastal heart and I love dolphins. Thank you for sharing your life with us!
This is the second of your videos I've watched, Thanks for sharing. It helped me understand my sister's situation a bit more. She was homeless living in her car in an effort to avoid what she described as an abusive situation. When I found out she was homeless she had already moved back into the same situation she ran from. She eventually left again and I took her in and she lived with me in Northern California for over a year. She seemed ok and moved back to her home and had another child. She died a week ago today. She had left home again and struggled to live on her own. Seek professional help if it get to be too much for you. Be careful. Be safe. Love yourself. Be strong enough for you before getting into a relationship. Be Blessed,
He is the one that lost. You're a brave person. Lots of women stay because they're too scared to be out on there own. You did what you had to do. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Half of the people I know don't have the same bravery as you do. You're a beautiful woman inside and out. You will bounce back from this and I pray that your TH-cam channel grows hugely.
Your channel has blown up so fast… if that’s not a huge sign that you are on the right path I don’t know what is!!! Amazing ❤️ I’m looking forward to following your journey!! You are a badass 💪
You got me crying when you started telling your story. I was in that same situation but with kids. I'm so glad you made it out. I made it out on time too! I had to for my kids. I was also in denial as well. I left March 2021 during my daughters spring break. Luckily, she was doing virtual. I continued doing virtual school until the school year was over. We are safe now and he's in his parent's "basement." Again, so glad you made it out safe.
That's quite brave to humble yourself and tell this story. Even without all the details. It takes a lot, to bare your feelings, troubles, etc. Even though you're telling us all your story in these vlogs, it's also kinda like your own personal journal, to document your road and reflect when you need to remind yourself to keep pushing. Stay strong. You'll find your way. Btw... Holy crap!!! 16k+ subscribers already! Awesome!!
You are a true inspiration for anyone that’s trying to figure out what to do after having a life changing situation in their life. Thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s so inspirational and gives strength.
Check you tube, she is a scammer who has a long criminal record and child abuse. Her 3 mth old baby had multiple head fractures and lost custody. She is a liar.
I appreciate your videos. I'm about to be homeless in my car in the San Fernando Valley. Your positive outlook gives me hope that I'll be okay out there, just got to stay positive. Thank you!
After being victimized for a long time you have made the transition to become the sole creator of your circumstance. That's a huge deal, and a process that many people never have the strength to undertake. You should be proud of the progress you have made, many don't ever break free. Thank you for sharing. You said earlier that you feel awkward shooting video . . . . I disagree, you seem very natural and honest, which is endearing. Keep being you!
This defintely pulled on my heart strings. You gained a subscriber for what its worth. I am excited to see where this takes you in your journey. Stay Strong
I’m almost to that point myself. Had to give up my place because of being hospitalized last year, with a diabetic coma almost didn’t make it. My mother checked on me in my apartment found me and called 911. Got out of the hospital a week later and with months on disability got behind on bills. Staying with family right now but the prices of rentals shot up so much don’t think I can get into my own place yet. I practically live in my car some of the time and might be more often. I feel ya and hope life gets better for all of us. I’m glad your finding peace in your situation. I do think (without sounding creepy) you are gorgeous!!!
I really like your videos. I’m getting ready to move into my car in a few weeks, and it’s nice to see someone who is doing this out of necessity, like me. I’m so proud of you for leaving multiple toxic situations and doing the things that are best for YOU. keep going. ♥️
I’m so happy you moved on for you💕, it takes a while sometimes but you realize how much your able to grow alone. Even if it means all the memories and living conditions is a hard right now but you will 100x thank yourself. I’ve been in a similar situation:/ but us women have to be strong and push through spiritually and emotionally💫you got this babe✨
It's sad that our state has led many to this point. Here in San Diego we have dozens of families living out their car. Why? Because everything is so expensive that one can find a place to live! I pray for everyone who is in this situation because I've gone through it and it's NOT easy. I admire your optimistic attitude. In Jesus name doors of opportunity will open up for you! Stay strong! 💪
Yep, I’m in San Diego and have been living in my car for the past almost three years. I have a full time job making good money but I’m just tired of paying these ridiculous housing prices. And now with inflation it’s really hard for a lot of people. These are some crazy times!
I don’t understand why people care about Cali! It’s run by the most corrupt officials ever and if you aren’t tied to the location I would simply leave California! The state is in shambles and is headed to an even worse place. Move to Texas or Florida, both of those states are being run by patriots who care about their state. Can’t hardly live in a state being run by Dems right now which is so sad to say! Arizona is about to get much better next year when the new governor takes over because she actually cares about America and can’t be corrupted.
@@wanaraz it's not as easy as it sounds. Even to move you need at the very least 5K saved up and in these times it's hard to save up. The whole country is suffering through this! Some states more than others of course.
As someone who has work in EMS for over 15 years I have seen a lot in regards to the situation you were in. I am so happy to hear that you were able to get out of it and starting a new chapter in your life. You have an amazing/positive personailty and such a beautiful person inside and out. I know wonderful things will come to you in the near future and I wish you the best of luck in your journey to find happieness!
I'm 65 years old and in the middle of getting out of an abusive marriage of 22 years. You have your whole life ahead of you and you are sooo brave to have gotten away while you are young. Your attitude and humility are beautiful!!
@@pattyengler2569 , my husband of 20 years walked out last September 10, 2021. He was not abusive, but he became abusive the last few weeks he was here. I am 50. I have plenty of life left. And so do you.
I lost my wife to cancer march 1 . She fought it for 15 years.stage4 out of the gate. Chemotherapy a week on an week off for 15 years I just did home hospice for 4 months and she passed away march 1st. If you ever want to come to Connecticut you got a place here. Hang in there keep your head on a swivel please stay safe. I will put you in my prayers also.
I always had this thought of me living deep in the woods to escape the everyday life rat race. just view the mountains, fish, hunt and star gaze at night. Feel human again. I really am inspired by your new found happiness.
I found your page just a few days ago and I am utterly impressed by how savvy, witty, and determined you are. It's unfortunate what happened to you seem like you have been thought a lot. I'd imagine many of us would be in the same situation if we didn't have any helpful friends, or relatives; I know I would be. I was born in 89 so we're about the same age. I myself I very much a introvert as well, don't have friends and really just don't like being in a crowd. I don't think it's bad at all as long as you are cheerful, positive and relatively happy. In fact it reminds me of the tiny house movement that's been around for years now. The idea of having a tiny little cabin or house on wheels that you can take with you anywhere you go and not be tied down by financial restraints of paying rent or paying a mortgage. But instead of a little wooden house being moved by a car; the actual car is your tiny home. I've seen that channel before, Invisible People, and so glad youtube recommended me your channel. In fact when I saw the thumbnail I thought it was a video about celebrity Nina Dobrev, or Victoria Justice, until I read the video description. Those are the celebrity you look like to me personally. Stay safe.
I know exactly what you’re going through with having family members that have forgotten the meaning of unconditional love. It’s really sad there are people like that out here but at least you know your worth and know you don’t deserve to be treated like that. It is better to not have anything to do with people like that than to try to keep them in your life just because your share blood and a name with them, in my opinion. Praying you are Staying safe and happy!
I'm a DV survivor as well. I spent 5 yrs in hell with the father of my first two children. I was 20 and he was 18 when we got together. Drugs, drinking, and in and out of jail. The final time he tried to take my life I had finally built up the courage to walk away and take my children with me. After that for years I still lived in fear but now I'm in a healthy, positive relationship and share twin daughters with my s/o as well as raising my 8 yr old. Unfortunately, my son passed in 2019 but I've learned to live without fear, regret and, sadness now that he's in a better place. I'll see him again. Anyway, I love your story and your compassion and strength. You are kicking ass no matter where you sleep at night. As long as you are still breathing God's not done with you. If it weren't for the Lord I wouldn't be here because he is the only one who has saved me and stuck with me the way no one else would or could. With him I am never alone no matter what life throws my way. Prayer works and I fully believe that. You are wonderful and you will get through this season that the Lord has you in right now. ❤️✝️⚓ These are just a couple of videos that has helped me along the way and thought I'd share with you. th-cam.com/video/9yoaNVFo-tI/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/DmrjYZfF7q4/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/UaQTjmX0Ifc/w-d-xo.html
Ari my name is Lindsay, I am a single mom because my husband was killed, I am reaching out to you because I too do not have any friends and I can't help but admire your personality and free spirit. If you ever need a friend please reach out, you are amazing and long story short before my husband I was in an abusive relationship and also was homeless for a bit. Anyway I can relate to what your going through and I in no weird or creepy way would like to be your friend. Stay safe hun and keep rocking on in the car😊😉.
I was feeling bad about some stupid things and then your video came across. Now I really can appreciate what I have. Sending you love and I really hope your situation gets better, you deserve it girl❤
I did have a feeling that someone abusive was involved,and i had some experience with that. It's all about control and those people,some men and women are damaged inside,so they have a need to be controlling, insecure,and just plain crazy. From there I made sure NO woman nor male would be abused on my watch,and no,you cannot rely on family/friends most of the time. I trust you will find someone who is upfront,real,and not just talk,so you can have consistently great years ahead. I do keep mostly to myself because for all the talking people do, for all the opinions,for all the so called advice, most of it is ONLY talk...
I bet this was hard to share; my prayers go to you. You are one strong woman, and I hope you achieve everything you strive for. By the way, you have a beautiful smile that magnifies your eyes.
As much as I would love to say so many bad things about how I feel about what your family did to you, I would rather take this time to say how much of a testament it is to you to not have let your family or this situation break your spirit!! Your faith is undeniable and I have no doubt you will come out of this with many blessings! Thank you for sharing!
💐 Ari, Thank you ~ for sharing your Journey. 💞 I'm very proud of you.🙏 May, you be blessed ~ with good health ~ and, happiness ~ Today, Tomorrow, and, Alway's. 💫 Take care and stay safe. 💕 I, feel in my heart ~💓 that you're going to be alright 👍👍 and everything will work out for you sugar 🥰 Stay positive little Lady 🌟 You are 🌟" GOLDEN " 🌟🌟 Maybe ~ check into some information on getting some help with s little apartment. Maybe~ check with United Way 😃 They may have some problems that can help.💪👍👍 🍃🇺🇸🕊️🌎🕊️🍃
You are such a sweet, intelligent young woman, and I admire your strength and perseverance. That is what great women are made of! You always have a place to lay your head at my home in Texas.
I love your attitude! This is just a time, but I believe things will change for you someday. I am a nurse and I see people going through hard times in their lives. My heart really goes out to people in difficult situations like you. God loves you and I will pray for a better situation for you.
Hi Ari, just to say thanks for sharing and sorry you went through this, your really strong to leave an unhealthy relationship though and awful to find out about your family situation :( that really sucks but its their loss, your a beautiful amazing soul, please keep going strong and look forward to more videos :) :)
Wow! You are such a blessing! I’m so proud of you for getting out of that relationship. Your story is touching tens of thousands and probably even give someone in a dangerous situation the encouragement they need to leave. You have good things in your future! Sending you many prayers from Indiana!
Someone else commented this and it made me smile as I was thinking the same thing. I also commented on another video earlier asking if I wasCan send you something . Ari I think this ALL may have happen for a reason. You are right where you need to be in this moment in time sweetie! Your moment is here and great is yet to come your way. Please go get a P.O. Box- somewhere safe. It’s about to be flooded. Please link an email address to reach you. I have quite a few ideas for you, I do marketing and have some amazing ideas 💡 please!
@@natachamenard2424 absolutely! It’s kind of a crazy thought tho… how sometimes family members can be such strangers but strangers do such amazing things for strangers right? Might blowing .
It’s hard living w ppl, family or not. I rather live in my car than w certain family members. You are so brave and you’re showing others that you can get out of abusive situations even it means living in your car.
First off , your channel is growing so fast ! I’m so happy for you ! Also , I totally understand where you’re coming from and I love your positivity and strength and you’re going to impact so many people girl 💕
Hi Ari, it breaks my heart to see such a bright and articulate young woman struggling. You living in your car alone sets off so many red flags in my mind and stirs so much concern for your well being. I'm a senior citizen and can't help being concerned for the safety of younger folks like you, especially where homelessness is involved. Like you, I'm an introvert and understand your need to be alone, however in your case that has it's drawbacks. How are you handling your personal safety? Can you carry dog spray for personal defense? Are there self-defense courses offered at your gym? Just take very good care of yourself and watch your back.
@@ALLinWithAri why are you scamming people you’re not even homeless you have money for new clothes makeup and jewelry if I catch you in oc I’ll make sure some real homeless get you scammer
Being alone is sometimes difficult, but for some magical reason....we learn more about our self and what you truly want in your world 🌎 ✨️ By the way, don't apologize for where it looks like you are at....everyone is facing or has faced hard times! Love the jams in the end!! Be safe!!! So many weirdos out there. Prayers sending sister 🙏🏼 ❤️
Wow, thank you for being so vulnerable! A lot of what you shared really resonates as I’ve experienced much of it in my own story too. Love your perspective. Keep plugging along the challenges are temporary, but your gratitude and the new perspectives on this journey are priceless. I’m just getting back on my feet myself from a similar situation, but looking back so thankful for all of it as it made me a stronger person, and helped me to share as much grace as possible for other people too. Your comment on family also and caring for each other… love it. Please keep sharing!
Wow, I had the same experience you had , I was in a toxic relationship and had to say I was going to ca to visit my mom for awhile. I moved out to ca 2 yrs ago now from Texas. Left a lot behind , stay strong my friend , God is with us, thank you for sharing your story.
@cloudy the immortal damn, I wonder why she would lie about that? For more sympathy and clicks, a reason for her abandoning her family? That’s crazy. I hope she wouldn’t really lie about that and it’s a case of two hurt people hurting each other. But I’ll be watching your video when it drops
She's super pretty and so brave. My heart aches for her but I'm glad she can still find the beauty and positive side to this despite everything she's been through. I think she's an inspiration. I hope she'll always be safe and happy, I just hope the best for her. Good luck beautiful!
@@bighoss7437 no it’s a scam be real nobody with that much stuff is homeless in the video you can see how twitchy it is so just using the money for drugs anyone who gave it money is an idiot
@@bighoss7437 how does it shower everyday huh hotels are expensive so it’s a scam that thing has money and is just begging here instead of the freeway sidewalk
Idk how I came across your page but DAMN You are a beautiful human! You’ve made an impression on my life and I’ll be following your journey as you allow us to! Keep speaking your truth and finding your peace! ♥️ saying some prayers for you baby girl!
Hi Ari, if you are reading this, you have a great personality. Always staying positive is the way to keep moving forward in life. I lost my mom in Jan 2020. Since then it was hard to keep my head up, felt like I have disappointed her. I recently lost my casino job in table games department. It was good money but I wasn’t politically smart about what I did and I hated myself for my actions. I’m unemployed but I’m hoping to come back for a good opportunity to work my way up. Got to stay strong through these tough times. Take care of yourself, Ari!! You got this!! We can get through this!!
The hardest part for me living in my car was always being vigilant of how much I'm eating before bed, because nothing worst then setting up for the night, and waking up at 2:00 am with a stomach aches and driving to find a 24 hour open place for #2
You will make it through, especially since you have such a positive outlook towards life. Relatives can be cruel, some are family only by DNA. Nothing more. I'm glad you escaped your toxic, dangerous relationship and are here with us.
I showed up to LA with about $100 and stayed in hostels.. I hustled on delivery apps for about 12 hours a day 7 days a week.. first I had to walk and deliver in downtown LA on foot till I could buy a bike, did that till I could buy an electric bike did that till I could buy a car. I know the struggle can be real however if you want something bad enough you will find a way if not you will find an excuse 💯.
I definitely feel for you, I'm 27 in a sort of similar situation in NYC. Don't have a lot of family or friends and moved to NYC not knowing anyone. It can be rough at times but I always remind myself that there's someone in a worst situation then I'm in. You're a very strong human to have went through so much and still be happy with your day to day life. I randomly stumbled on your channel today, idk what made me click the video but very inspiring journey! Stay positive! P.S. I HOPE YOUR MONETIZING YOUR ACCOUNT ! :)
Ari, hang in there. Once upon a time, I lost everything and I understand the struggle. For some reason your vlog popped into my suggested video. I just want to tell you that you are doing well. You will get through this.
You are very mature for your age and have the right perspective on life and its musings. This experience or your trials will past, but, the strength and jewels in your crown will last and impact other lives as you are doing now. You've already won!
Glad to have found your channel. Silly voices are a plus, but that may have been due to the lack of sleep. Who knows. Sorry to hear how you ended up here, although it just seems there may be more to this story than you are willing to share. Control and abuse are never ok but at least you seem to be on a happier path now. If you continue to have trouble with the ability to park, hit me up. I own a business and have access to a gated, fenced and pretty much vacant lot. 90040 zip code. Maybe too far for you to commute to your job. Just an option if needed. Good luck and stay safe.
I went through something just the same this year as well. Things do get better but it takes time. Stay focused on you and what helps you grow. Stay patient and determined. You have a great heart and head on your shoulders it will be your biggest blessing. Sending all my love, luck, and positivity your way. You got this 💚🙌🏼
You show incredible strength. Courage to act and courage to give yourself a second chance. You are a beautiful person who is focused on better life and its great to walk along side you one step at a time. Keep rocking the music.
Hey Ari 👋 Glad you’re taking this all in with a massive smile on your face. When we are usually faced with adversity, it’s very important to take on a positive approach to things. All of which you are doing right now. I don’t live in California, I’m actually in Las Vegas Realtor, and local. I work with many homeless youth in the city, and sometimes families. I would be willing to extend an offer to help you out if you ever need it. I know with inflation things are going up in price, and it can be very expensive. I have many friends that have had to adhere to that same hardship that you’re facing today. If you ever need anything, please feel free to let me know. I’m always happy to help out. Also I love the channel, and the great vibes that you bring. I do sometimes travel to California, but not often. I am happy to provide some of the essentials such as water, hygienic products, clothing, food, toothpaste, certain medicines, and know a few people in California that may want to help as well, they may be able to offer free maintenance for your vehicle. Anyway, I hope everything changes, and keep enjoying your best life. I’ve already subscribed to your channel. 💯
@@Doumanian she fractured her sons skull that’s why she homeless so that’s even worse I’m gonna have to expose you and make videos for assisting a child abuser
Hey Starla, I haven't sent anyone money, but I have offered food, water, and supplies for the homeless. Naturally it is my passion to help the needy, especially people I can easily contact through social media. Thank you for informing me about your accusations of this TH-camr, I wasn't aware of them, however God has put me on this planet to help others, and not to judge others. If you know anyone personally that may be struggling with getting their hands on basic resources, and if they're in Las Vegas, you may direct them to me. Other then that, my offer is open to anyone that you know, or is reading this.
Sometimes “enough said” does not work for some ppl. It takes TOO MUCH to make that decision, to just leave it all behind, get up and leave, yet you did it. You have NO idea how much you are helping so many women out there who need to hear just YOU and your experience, Ari. Remember that! And to the women reading this, we can do it. We can do ANYTHING 💯🤜🏾🤛🏾
A very touching story as I can certainly relate to as it happened to me just for not as long as you've been dealing with it. You appear to be a strong-willed female and I can't believe your determination, positive energy, and staying focused. May god look over you and keep you safe!
Ari, good for you on breaking away. I've seen it on multiple occasions where a person won't leave the situation because they don't know what the future holds and so they stay. You listened to co-workers and probably believed that voice in the back of your head. And one thing that i know it is hard for people that are around victims like that, are how long to they support a person that won't leave. Well I see the amount of people following you and I believe they will continue to support you and definitely have your back. Good for you!!
I was also in a terrible abusive relationship. I thought he would get better but he only got worse and he turned into a conspiracy theorist. Even being homeless in a car , I had a job and he didn’t. I managed to get an apartment but I too had to strategize my way out of the house. I had to wait for him to finally get a job and his second day of work I waited for him to drive out of the driveway. I jumped out of bed and packed all my belongings and split!!!! I saved my life.
You’re right on with the random meals surprising you. I’m not vegan/vegetarian or allergic to anything but I try a lot from the sections with those restrictions. Fun to see what people come up with.
Girl! I am also 32 and living in my car and I wear head wraps and square glasses like you and I'm in the exact same situation in Naples, FL down by the beach! I pray that one day you and I may meet and one day share our stories and help to write a law to protect single unaccompanied women that are not acknowledged as a population when it comes to homelessness. Like you, I would never sell my body, and im thankful to be out of abusive and unhealthy environments and relationships. I live in a small 4 door car Acura TSX & I have a hotdog named Sadie Grace who is with me. I too as a "pretty well dressed girl" was told a ton since April that I Don't look homeless or I'm fake. It's so cray how people assume by the way we look that we aren't homeless and are. I live in a parking deck right now on the 3rd floor and I'm working every day! Zetus lapetuz you might be my soul sister. I'm encouraged to know that there is someone like me out there, someone I can relate too, who isn't mentally ill and on drugs and is a single female exact same age. Thanks for sharing & I to trust in Jesus and his plan for my life! Praying for you Chiquita!
Been there as well. Work every day and no one knows how difficult it is even to get to work. Jump up in 20 degree weather, throw on some clothes. Brrrrr.....Drive down the canyon until you get to the YMC where you finally get to go to the restroom and shower. Simple things like a shower take so much longer and so much more effort. No support system. Made me a lot stronger. I cannot even believe that I survived that.
Hey Candice!! I'm a Fort Myers Beach native! You should check out God's Table on the beach! They offer breakfast, bagged lunches, showers, and other things. Anddddddd the people are so sweet!
My dog has to go to doggy daycare, or stay in the car with ac on blast, keys in ignition for the short period I am working away from a computer (I'm a photographer). 95 percent editing work 5 percent shooting... She goes to church, grocery stores most places with me, any non photography jobs she goes with me for the most part. :) I never leave her in danger or a locked vehicle that's not blasting with ac and unlocked. I'm in a safe part of the country and I rarely leave her that way. She mostly goes to day care or someone watches her
The fact that you're still here after everything you've been through speaks volumes about your strength and character. You're here for a reason and based on all these comments you are truly an inspiration to many people. You have a whole support system behind you and I'm sure you could reach out to anyone in your comments whenever you feel lonely. Stay strong and always remember there's a reason you're here. Feel free to reach out if you need someone to listen.
What has she gone through except for leaving her a hole boyfriend. She doesn’t state any details, she just throws out random terms like “toxic” and “not good”, but no actual details. Maybe she needs to visit a psych ward, you never know.
Wow.. I can’t believe how strong and brave you are, that opens my eyes to some options I may need to open up for myself. 💕🙏🏼 sending love and prayers your way keep doing you and keep the faith.
You are such a strong and brave soul don't let people on the internet bring u down or judge you u got this u will be ok and you will find yourself and ur path one day at a time
I grew up in NY in an abusive family environment, moved to Alaska as soon as I was old enough, with no money, kindness of strangers got me there. My friends in Alaska became my family. It's amazing how many people have these kinds of stories..
alaska is so beautiful. my dad lived in seward for 30 plus years. never knew what the attraction was. then he died and we had to take care of the estate. his ramshackle house was just blocks away from mt marathon. omg then i understood. and the close knit community. it is great up there. i just couldn't handle the fall and winters. lol. summer def.
Same from Ohio
Have 0 real support
I grew up in Atascadero California and moved to Alaska when I was 17. I am 37 and still loving and living in Alaska. Wasilla Alaska. Such a trip how I even found this video. Praying 🙏 for you girl. Come join us in Alaska.
Tschandra
God bless you.
@@tschandraheinze1680
I'm in Northern California... Is it expensive to rent in Alaska? Do they still give people money for moving up there? They used to.
That’s enough said. My sister was in verb abuse for 36 years. She finally broke free. Left everything behind. She is feels free now. You’re a survivor and strong. God bless you.
tell your sister good for her. it is so hard to do bc it's the devil you know. you never know if it will be worse on the other side. i'm so proud of your sister. that had to take a lot of courage. i bet she's living her best life now. yay.
@Patricia Rainey M the internet
Your sisters lover didn't believe in noun abuse?
Yea I live in my car also and am a strong survivor
Amen.
Ari...I totally understand. I did the same thing in 2018. I wasn't in a domestic Violence situation but it was definitely toxic. My friends would come over and say "man you have to get out of here, the tension is so thick you can cut it with a knife." So one night I packed up everything that was important and whatever I could fit in my SUV was all I took and I had a 3000sf home full of stuff in a golf course country club community. I left it all there along with two other vehicles that were in my name. I drove from south Florida to California and stayed with my sister until I secured work and was able to move into my own place. I do not believe in victim mentality, I don't blame anyone. Life just happens and you can recognize and readjust while doing what's best for you or you can play the victim and find blame..your anchor is gratitude and self awareness. Keep the faith in yourself and your heart open. You are never responsible for the way others act but you are 100% responsible for the manner in which you respond. Btw you do resemble a young Janet Jackson. Be safe and be blessed.
Wow, truly inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing❤️❤️
@@ALLinWithAri I think it was 2pac who said it best.."forgive but don't forget, girl keep ur head up" have a great weekend Ari
@@robdean7103 sage advice 😌
Message 💬 👏🏿👏🏿🙋🏾♀️💯
You look nothing like Janet Jackson.
Rent is so expensive, hope life gets better for those struggling. Never judge anyone, you don't know their reasons . Life is hard , I een thru my struggles before . Not easy
I just want to tell you what I told my girls. "Built to not break" One brick at a time you build your empire. Your foundation is strong so just create your safety zone. Your space is your place and you know bigger thing are in store for you. Lastly PRAY!!!! God has a plan for you. The path to get there may not be the easiest but nothing great comes easy... I have faith in you. Your amazing, head up, shoulders square and keep pushing... You're a tank. The only person who can stop you is you!!! 💜💜💜
Amen!
Preach! My daughter knows the same, she’s a force to be reckoned with even as a sophomore in college 🙏🏻❤️💪🏻
@@ALLinWithAri Get you a 1000 watts jackery portable solar power....
The show Maid on Netflix really breaks down walls for people hovering in the middle class (or what’s left of it) and shows just how close we all are to homelessness. For many who don’t have supportive family or friends, or who experience abuse by a spouse, one medical event or car repair could put someone out on the street. Thank you so much for sharing your story and being transparent about this reality that many people don’t want to accept. This is what our country needs to be focusing on. By the way, if you ever decide to make a Patreon and film seshes or whatever seems fun to you, I would definitely subscribe. Thanks for the updates, friend! Stay safe!
@Sarah your comment is spot on. It’s so true
Love that show
She wasn't middle class on that show. She lived in a trailer park and had a 20 yr old car.
Hey Ari, don’t honestly know how your video ended up on my feed, but just wanted to give you some words of encouragement. I’ve dealt with toxic family members and had gotten written off by them for several years. I had to rely on complete strangers and a guy that I had only dated for a couple of weeks when I got kicked out. I lost almost all my possessions, except for 2 garbage bags of clothes and was homeless all while trying to finish college. But life is funny that way… fast forward 15 years later, that guy I dated at the lowest point in my life, is now my husband and we welcomed our first baby this year. Life does get better and being an introvert does make it more challenging - but not impossible. Keep a positive mindset and realize that this too shall pass. If you ever find yourself up north (Oregon), you’ve got a fellow TH-camr that gets your struggle and totally down for coffee. Stay safe and keep your head up. 🤗
Yes, soooo many women have walked away with next to nothing. We MUST be each other's support system!!
Ari I admire your strength your energy you don't give up you adapt God will bless you this is a text I'm about to become homeless myself I just ordered those curtains you have in your car I will follow every day and yes don't ever lower your standards just to have a place to stay you better than that 😊
Congrats to you and your husband and your new born child!
Random good looking girl on internet must be always right. Honestly, fact that her little known relatives let her stay with them more than 3 months is huge. I’d have packed my stuff at one week mark. Yet she is negative about them.
Something is off here.
She is not homeless and u should be ashamed of your pouring out to her it angers me.
You remind me of my Cousin Michel. She was beautiful, sweet, and vibrant. Not to mention extremely positive. You look like her as well so it’s tripping me out..
She was murdered when she was 22, by her ex boyfriend. She was blindsided, and there was nothing she could have done to avoid it.
I’m extremely happy that you made it out and are staying positive. ❤️
and you hit.. 👩🏿 u need plastic surgery. 🤰🏿
There is also a Michelle Pearson TH-camr mom who looks a lot like her.
@@dj912sent9 hush. 👩🏿
Hi I like u alot
@@brocodersworld5670 shuchomouf! 👩🏿
Youre gonna blow up girl. Youre genuine and your hardship will gravitate our support to you as we watch you prosper
I had to leave my relationship after 12 years at 29 years old. I wasn’t in a physically abusive position but my spouse was extremely disrespectful with cheating. One early morning I took my 3 children to school and told the teachers I’d be right back to please keep their coats on. I than got a police officer to help me get to a greyhound bus in NYC. They took me to my kid’s school to retrieve them. No clothes, toys or anything. I never went back. Relationships don’t have to be physically abusive but they can certainly be verbally abusive as well as bullying. So leave if it’s not working. ❤️🆘❤️
Your story has me crying my eyes out… you are so brave and strong! I’m so proud of you for doing all you could to get your babies and YOU out of that situation. That had to be so scary 💕 I hope all is well for you guys now!
The timing of your message could not have possibly been better. Thank you. It's a reminder that sometimes things aren't happening "to us," but FOR us.
Absolutely ❤️🙏🏽
@@ALLinWithAri ❤️🙂
Hey from Arkansas 👋🏼
And as a social worker, I’m proud of you for being brave enough to leave! I hope things look up for you soon!
DON’T FALL FOR HER BS… SHE IS A SCAMMER!!
Just TH-cam her and a lot of people are exposing her.
th-cam.com/video/aYzkSquuH4k/w-d-xo.html
"The ugly truth" can often lead to something truly beautiful. Thanks for sharing your inspiring story and look forward to seeing more of your journey Miss ☺️
We were married @ 19 & 20. I left year 37 It took 2 1/2yrs of planning to get out. I filled for divorce and am still in that process. Because covid and so many delays it has taken almost 3yrs. Once our house is sold(he's still there) I will be free of him. I have faith that you will get through then over your current situation. I am the mother of 3 young women I know the strength it takes to break free. You are in my prayers I'm Debra, a survivor in Philly.💚💯
Thank God you got out!
What’cha doin’ watermelon. 🍉
Thank you for having the strength to take back control of your life - I can imagine that isn’t easy. Love your positivity! ❤️
Have a great weekend all!
Finding your videos this morning helped me feel better about my struggles . I lived in the USA for 5 years - moved their for love and after heartbreak returned home to Australia. America is scary, people would say you are only one day away from a bad life . It’s so true . We have more of a safety net here although still times can be tough. So often people tend to assume if you are an attractive girl life must be easy . In case you didn’t get told enough you are beautiful and an absolutely beautiful soul . Thank you for sharing your story and I really hope things get better for you, maybe possibly you make money from TH-cam after these videos. Maybe you could get yourself an RV and keep enjoying your freedom but with more safety and comfort. Connecting with you in spirit and pray all will work and your future is filled with abundance.
A year ago I was in a hotel with my daughter…no car…no job…. Now I’m proud to say I have a place, my car and a new amazing job!!! You will be where you need to be in no time. So happy I came across your video. ❤️💕
@@richarddedek1403 I was able to manifested a lump sum of money. Sounds cliché butI honestly did and it really works. And of course, alot of sacrificing and doing without certain things for a while. I also moved around a bit and stayed with friends and family and ended up back in Phoenix where I live now. 5 states in one year 😭🤣
Congratulations
@@DivineChakras777 u sold your body?
@@Fishy100thousand what?! Who said that lmaooooo
So freaking proud of you. Look forward to seeing your journey and watching you grow! What you are doing WILL inspire someone in the position you are in and be the motivation they need. Life is a team sport!
Never feel the need to share information that you don't want to! But I also think this will make people who feel this situation less alone. A lot of my friends my age (21) don't speak to their parents. Are totally responsible for themselves. It can be really rough. We have all experienced bad relationships too.
Keep your head up beautiful! I was in a very similar situation TWICE. 2019 - Present. The first was due to a very bad landlord/tenant situation I had to leave abruptly, & the 2nd was a toxic relationship mid-pandemic. I had a very good & full time job that I would attend literally from my car & would get dressed from my storage unit. The 24 hour gym was my safe haven for showers, sanity & sometimes a few hours of safe sleeping overnight. What I have learned is how cold society can be to the displaced. (Another story) I am still a bit “homeless”, however, I recently bought a camper/truck & so now I have a basic home & travel as a member of a site that allows me to camp at random locations for free with a list of hosts. It’s seasonal so I will have to transition soon for winter which will be interesting to say the least. I am grateful to have found your videos. I’ve thought of doing this but I’m also a mother (older kids) & I fear embarrassing them etc. Anyway, I would like to pass down to you one trick I learned. I used my Uber/Lyft lights in order to sleep legally overnight at the airport. I was a driver for a bit & so I would park in the driver waiting area & sleep safe & sound with security & little to no harassment. There is a bathroom there close by & a few other cars docking overnight for a variety of reasons (missed flights, cancellations, taxis, buses etc) so it feels a lot more “normal” & not so desolate. Ari, you are brave & transparent & beautiful inside & out & those are priceless qualities that you are now gifting to others like me. Thank you & I will support you through your journey while I trek through my own. Also, consider buying land! A small lot or even a garage rental to save money & all the bs that comes with renting apts! Just a safe secure spot to park & call your own until you get on your feet again, which you WILL! 🥰🥰🥹🙌🏽💪🏽🙏🏽
I honestly love her personality , she seems to have positive outlook on things even though things ain't all that great she still smiles Keep Going Girl you got this!
Total opposite of me. When unexplainable forces keep giving me or anyone I think is a decent person hell, my usually response is to want to see the entire planet blown tf up. Though, I don't necessarily interpret this sort of responses as negative, most "normal" people do so, eh.
@@PariahKamikaze TMI bruh 🙈
Homeless girl 🍑
Why? How about giving her a room to stay?
@@mri3384 She probably doesn't live in the Ventura area 🤷🏻♂️
Honestly, you posting your struggles helped me to appreciate whatever I have. I will never complain about what I have. A blessing from struggle should be a book to write.
I agree
@@Lyka-Rose Thanks so much, awsome isn't it!! It's like a true saying, be happy with what you have.
You’re killing it girl! Make sure you have everything set up correctly in TH-cam so your videos are monetized. And make sure you read about the copyright laws. Everyone loves the music parts but it could cost you to get demonetized. So just check into that. This platform can take you to places you didn’t think was possible! Keep it up you’re doing great!
@@breephoenix111 how do you know?
@@breephoenix111 well, I just went through two commercials as I am viewing this video. What needs to happen is that everyone needs to let the commercials go through, do not skip them, just so Ari can make that fraction of a penny for every person that watches the commercial ... and do the "quiz" the commercial asks you to do. Then again, for California extreme and ridiculous cost of living, commercials alone will not help Ari, donations need to be send to, if we really want to help her, but is not mandatory. 😉
@@breephoenix111 that's the spirit! Go get them tiger!
@@breephoenix111 I know ... is crazy. I just watched another of her videos (posted yesterday) and saw no commercials whatsoever. I went back into the video and then two commercials came up. It doesn't make sense, but here we go. Take care, you did the right thing by watching that advertisement.
@@tigerblood213 ohhh shiza!!!! I had no idea that TH-cam will add advertising's, without paying a penny to the TH-camr ... and here I am spending endless hours watching commercials and the person might not even get that fraction of a penny. That Sucks!
Thank you for sharing this! I left an abusive relationship in 2016.. I lived with family, then lived in a tiny studio the size of a closet for a few months! I had to learn to do alot of things on my own when all of my family moved out of state. It was an extremely hard time for me. I felt abandoned and unloved. Now I'm 38 working a great job, I have a good loving man in my life and I'm loving life now. Jesus is the one I Thank the most for getting me through so much pain and horror. You are beautiful and strong! God be with you and don't ever give up! 🙏 It will get better! Love peace and hope ❤️ 💕
They already exposed her & all her mug shots Ari isn’t even her name
@@sarah_210_ I can’t believe ppl are STILL falling for this nuts stories. All these ppl should read what the child’s father said.
@@Deliveredfromevil exactly they all been giving her hard earned money when she hurt the kids I didn’t see the what the kids father said where did u see that if u don’t mind me asking
Same exact thing happened to me as I clawed my way out over the past 3 years. Bless you Ari.
Good for you Robert. it is so worth it.
@@anitahalvorson6586 the thing is us highly compassionate people end up in these situations, until we learn the meaning of a truly deranged individual.
Keep ya head up and keep pushing Queen! I was also homeless in LA, for about 2 years, got myself out of it! You can do this thank you for sharing your story with us here on the platform 💪🏾
Yeeeeeeet let's gooooo
I can relate. Some of these ppl you can’t call fam. I have some of those too. Thank your sharing I can feel the pain while you were telling us what happened. Sending you love and hugsss it’ll always get better I promise ❤️❤️❤️
I feel you, Ari. Been homeless and living in my car twice in my life. Now I own a home, and have a steady job, with a wife and child. Stay strong and be prayerful, and read the Bible. Save your money, improve your credit, so that you may one day be able to get a home. I didn't think it was possible when I was homeless, but things change, and prayer changes things. I know. I'm a living witness.
Oh girl, when you said, “dolphins!” I was legit as excited as you were! I am a Midwest girl with a coastal heart and I love dolphins. Thank you for sharing your life with us!
The positive attitude of this woman and her views and everything is amazing. Best of luck, God bless you.
This is the second of your videos I've watched, Thanks for sharing. It helped me understand my sister's situation a bit more. She was homeless living in her car in an effort to avoid what she described as an abusive situation. When I found out she was homeless she had already moved back into the same situation she ran from. She eventually left again and I took her in and she lived with me in Northern California for over a year. She seemed ok and moved back to her home and had another child. She died a week ago today. She had left home again and struggled to live on her own. Seek professional help if it get to be too much for you. Be careful. Be safe. Love yourself. Be strong enough for you before getting into a relationship. Be Blessed,
He is the one that lost. You're a brave person. Lots of women stay because they're too scared to be out on there own. You did what you had to do. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Half of the people I know don't have the same bravery as you do. You're a beautiful woman inside and out. You will bounce back from this and I pray that your TH-cam channel grows hugely.
Your channel has blown up so fast… if that’s not a huge sign that you are on the right path I don’t know what is!!! Amazing ❤️ I’m looking forward to following your journey!! You are a badass 💪
You got me crying when you started telling your story. I was in that same situation but with kids. I'm so glad you made it out. I made it out on time too! I had to for my kids. I was also in denial as well. I left March 2021 during my daughters spring break. Luckily, she was doing virtual. I continued doing virtual school until the school year was over. We are safe now and he's in his parent's "basement." Again, so glad you made it out safe.
Proud of you
Good for you girl!!
Thank you for leaving for you and your babies! I am so proud of you. I hope you are all well! 🤗
So u took bros kids and disappeared with them?💀 wtf lady
so glad YOU made it out safe; your bravery will pay off in spades for you and your children...i hope you guys have a wonderful life.
That's quite brave to humble yourself and tell this story. Even without all the details. It takes a lot, to bare your feelings, troubles, etc. Even though you're telling us all your story in these vlogs, it's also kinda like your own personal journal, to document your road and reflect when you need to remind yourself to keep pushing. Stay strong. You'll find your way.
Btw... Holy crap!!! 16k+ subscribers already! Awesome!!
You are a true inspiration for anyone that’s trying to figure out what to do after having a life changing situation in their life. Thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s so inspirational and gives strength.
Check you tube, she is a scammer who has a long criminal record and child abuse. Her 3 mth old baby had multiple head fractures and lost custody. She is a liar.
You know she is a scammer, abuser and liar?
🤣🤣😉😉
I appreciate your videos. I'm about to be homeless in my car in the San Fernando Valley. Your positive outlook gives me hope that I'll be okay out there, just got to stay positive. Thank you!
This is exactly why I’m doing this channel. We’re in this together❤️God bless you
After being victimized for a long time you have made the transition to become the sole creator of your circumstance. That's a huge deal, and a process that many people never have the strength to undertake. You should be proud of the progress you have made, many don't ever break free.
Thank you for sharing.
You said earlier that you feel awkward shooting video . . . . I disagree, you seem very natural and honest, which is endearing. Keep being you!
hi don't worry you have positive mind..keep praying..im your friend..
that's true. many many people don't have the strength to break free
Yes! That smile!! Beautiful child of God! I pray all is well for you.
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This defintely pulled on my heart strings. You gained a subscriber for what its worth. I am excited to see where this takes you in your journey. Stay Strong
Been there as well for 8 years thankfully my dad saved me and I’m still healing 3 years later. Keep your head up sweet heart you got this.
I’m almost to that point myself. Had to give up my place because of being hospitalized last year, with a diabetic coma almost didn’t make it. My mother checked on me in my apartment found me and called 911. Got out of the hospital a week later and with months on disability got behind on bills. Staying with family right now but the prices of rentals shot up so much don’t think I can get into my own place yet. I practically live in my car some of the time and might be more often. I feel ya and hope life gets better for all of us. I’m glad your finding peace in your situation. I do think (without sounding creepy) you are gorgeous!!!
I really like your videos. I’m getting ready to move into my car in a few weeks, and it’s nice to see someone who is doing this out of necessity, like me. I’m so proud of you for leaving multiple toxic situations and doing the things that are best for YOU. keep going. ♥️
🙏🏽🥲thank you so much
I’m so happy you moved on for you💕, it takes a while sometimes but you realize how much your able to grow alone. Even if it means all the memories and living conditions is a hard right now but you will 100x thank yourself. I’ve been in a similar situation:/ but us women have to be strong and push through spiritually and emotionally💫you got this babe✨
It's sad that our state has led many to this point. Here in San Diego we have dozens of families living out their car. Why? Because everything is so expensive that one can find a place to live! I pray for everyone who is in this situation because I've gone through it and it's NOT easy. I admire your optimistic attitude. In Jesus name doors of opportunity will open up for you! Stay strong! 💪
Yep, I’m in San Diego and have been living in my car for the past almost three years. I have a full time job making good money but I’m just tired of paying these ridiculous housing prices. And now with inflation it’s really hard for a lot of people. These are some crazy times!
Amen. In the name of Jesus Christ 🙌🏿
I don’t understand why people care about Cali! It’s run by the most corrupt officials ever and if you aren’t tied to the location I would simply leave California! The state is in shambles and is headed to an even worse place. Move to Texas or Florida, both of those states are being run by patriots who care about their state. Can’t hardly live in a state being run by Dems right now which is so sad to say! Arizona is about to get much better next year when the new governor takes over because she actually cares about America and can’t be corrupted.
There are 49 other states.People can move.
@@wanaraz it's not as easy as it sounds. Even to move you need at the very least 5K saved up and in these times it's hard to save up. The whole country is suffering through this! Some states more than others of course.
As someone who has work in EMS for over 15 years I have seen a lot in regards to the situation you were in. I am so happy to hear that you were able to get out of it and starting a new chapter in your life. You have an amazing/positive personailty and such a beautiful person inside and out. I know wonderful things will come to you in the near future and I wish you the best of luck in your journey to find happieness!
I'm 65 years old and in the middle of getting out of an abusive marriage of 22 years.
You have your whole life ahead of you and you are sooo brave to have gotten away while you are young. Your attitude and humility are beautiful!!
I am sending you good thoughts, Patty.❤️
@@jayneharris3888 thankypu!🤗
@@pattyengler2569 , my husband of 20 years walked out last September 10, 2021. He was not abusive, but he became abusive the last few weeks he was here.
I am 50. I have plenty of life left. And so do you.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I believe you’re going to take off abundantly here soon. You’re head is on correct, you’re very humble and determined. You got this!
I wish for this as well for you my dear. You are very beautiful and also extremely smart, street smart, and resourceful… ❤️
Sucker, your radar is trash. lol
I lost my wife to cancer march 1 . She fought it for 15 years.stage4 out of the gate. Chemotherapy a week on an week off for 15 years I just did home hospice for 4 months and she passed away march 1st. If you ever want to come to Connecticut you got a place here. Hang in there keep your head on a swivel please stay safe. I will put you in my prayers also.
I am so sorry
My condolences
So sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss. May her memory be eternal.
So sorry for your loss Richard prayers for you and family 🙏🏻❤️😇
I always had this thought of me living deep in the woods to escape the everyday life rat race. just view the mountains, fish, hunt and star gaze at night. Feel human again. I really am inspired by your new found happiness.
I found your page just a few days ago and I am utterly impressed by how savvy, witty, and determined you are. It's unfortunate what happened to you seem like you have been thought a lot. I'd imagine many of us would be in the same situation if we didn't have any helpful friends, or relatives; I know I would be. I was born in 89 so we're about the same age. I myself I very much a introvert as well, don't have friends and really just don't like being in a crowd. I don't think it's bad at all as long as you are cheerful, positive and relatively happy. In fact it reminds me of the tiny house movement that's been around for years now. The idea of having a tiny little cabin or house on wheels that you can take with you anywhere you go and not be tied down by financial restraints of paying rent or paying a mortgage. But instead of a little wooden house being moved by a car; the actual car is your tiny home. I've seen that channel before, Invisible People, and so glad youtube recommended me your channel. In fact when I saw the thumbnail I thought it was a video about celebrity Nina Dobrev, or Victoria Justice, until I read the video description. Those are the celebrity you look like to me personally. Stay safe.
I know exactly what you’re going through with having family members that have forgotten the meaning of unconditional love. It’s really sad there are people like that out here but at least you know your worth and know you don’t deserve to be treated like that. It is better to not have anything to do with people like that than to try to keep them in your life just because your share blood and a name with them, in my opinion. Praying you are Staying safe and happy!
I'm a DV survivor as well. I spent 5 yrs in hell with the father of my first two children. I was 20 and he was 18 when we got together. Drugs, drinking, and in and out of jail. The final time he tried to take my life I had finally built up the courage to walk away and take my children with me. After that for years I still lived in fear but now I'm in a healthy, positive relationship and share twin daughters with my s/o as well as raising my 8 yr old. Unfortunately, my son passed in 2019 but I've learned to live without fear, regret and, sadness now that he's in a better place. I'll see him again. Anyway, I love your story and your compassion and strength. You are kicking ass no matter where you sleep at night. As long as you are still breathing God's not done with you. If it weren't for the Lord I wouldn't be here because he is the only one who has saved me and stuck with me the way no one else would or could. With him I am never alone no matter what life throws my way. Prayer works and I fully believe that. You are wonderful and you will get through this season that the Lord has you in right now. ❤️✝️⚓
These are just a couple of videos that has helped me along the way and thought I'd share with you.
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Thank God you got out!
Hi Ari, I hope you’re having a good day today. I just found your page and love your spirit, even through these difficult times. We love you! ❤️
Ari my name is Lindsay, I am a single mom because my husband was killed, I am reaching out to you because I too do not have any friends and I can't help but admire your personality and free spirit. If you ever need a friend please reach out, you are amazing and long story short before my husband I was in an abusive relationship and also was homeless for a bit. Anyway I can relate to what your going through and I in no weird or creepy way would like to be your friend. Stay safe hun and keep rocking on in the car😊😉.
sounds like you guys would make nice friends....
I was feeling bad about some stupid things and then your video came across. Now I really can appreciate what I have. Sending you love and I really hope your situation gets better, you deserve it girl❤
I did have a feeling that someone abusive was involved,and i had some experience with that. It's all about control and those people,some men and women are damaged inside,so they have a need to be controlling, insecure,and just plain crazy. From there I made sure NO woman nor male would be abused on my watch,and no,you cannot rely on family/friends most of the time. I trust you will find someone who is upfront,real,and not just talk,so you can have consistently great years ahead. I do keep mostly to myself because for all the talking people do, for all the opinions,for all the so called advice, most of it is ONLY talk...
I bet this was hard to share; my prayers go to you. You are one strong woman, and I hope you achieve everything you strive for. By the way, you have a beautiful smile that magnifies your eyes.
Thank u, and thank u for realizing how difficult this was for me. That means something ❤️
As much as I would love to say so many bad things about how I feel about what your family did to you, I would rather take this time to say how much of a testament it is to you to not have let your family or this situation break your spirit!! Your faith is undeniable and I have no doubt you will come out of this with many blessings! Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much🥲🫶🏼
@@ALLinWithAri u r very welcome!
So emotional
@@ALLinWithAri so touching
Have you thought about joining the military?
Your personality is amazing !! You are a blessing from the sky and I’m sure you will overcome whatever comes your way 🙏🏼 👸
Oh man, Ari. You are tough. Awesome person ☺️ respect for standing up for yourself
💐 Ari, Thank you ~ for sharing your Journey. 💞
I'm very proud of you.🙏
May, you be blessed ~ with good health ~ and, happiness ~ Today, Tomorrow, and, Alway's. 💫
Take care and stay safe. 💕
I, feel in my heart ~💓 that you're going to be alright 👍👍 and everything will work out for you sugar 🥰
Stay positive little Lady 🌟
You are 🌟" GOLDEN " 🌟🌟
Maybe ~ check into some information on getting some help with s little apartment.
Maybe~ check with United Way 😃
They may have some problems that can help.💪👍👍
🍃🇺🇸🕊️🌎🕊️🍃
You are such a sweet, intelligent young woman, and I admire your strength and perseverance. That is what great women are made of! You always have a place to lay your head at my home in Texas.
I love your attitude! This is just a time, but I believe things will change for you someday. I am a nurse and I see people going through hard times in their lives. My heart really goes out to people in difficult situations like you. God loves you and I will pray for a better situation for you.
Hi Ari, just to say thanks for sharing and sorry you went through this, your really strong to leave an unhealthy relationship though and awful to find out about your family situation :( that really sucks but its their loss, your a beautiful amazing soul, please keep going strong and look forward to more videos :) :)
Wow! You are such a blessing! I’m so proud of you for getting out of that relationship. Your story is touching tens of thousands and probably even give someone in a dangerous situation the encouragement they need to leave. You have good things in your future! Sending you many prayers from Indiana!
Someone else commented this and it made me smile as I was thinking the same thing. I also commented on another video earlier asking if I wasCan send you something . Ari I think this ALL may have happen for a reason. You are right where you need to be in this moment in time sweetie! Your moment is here and great is yet to come your way. Please go get a P.O. Box- somewhere safe. It’s about to be flooded. Please link an email address to reach you. I have quite a few ideas for you, I do marketing and have some amazing ideas 💡 please!
Great ideas, strangers are the best you just need a little help to get to your goals
@@natachamenard2424 absolutely! It’s kind of a crazy thought tho… how sometimes family members can be such strangers but strangers do such amazing things for strangers right? Might blowing .
It’s hard living w ppl, family or not. I rather live in my car than w certain family members. You are so brave and you’re showing others that you can get out of abusive situations even it means living in your car.
Yeah all skin folks ain't kin folks
First off , your channel is growing so fast ! I’m so happy for you !
Also , I totally understand where you’re coming from and I love your positivity and strength and you’re going to impact so many people girl 💕
Hi Ari, it breaks my heart to see such a bright and articulate young woman struggling. You living in your car alone sets off so many red flags in my mind and stirs so much concern for your well being. I'm a senior citizen and can't help being concerned for the safety of younger folks like you, especially where homelessness is involved. Like you, I'm an introvert and understand your need to be alone, however in your case that has it's drawbacks. How are you handling your personal safety? Can you carry dog spray for personal defense? Are there self-defense courses offered at your gym? Just take very good care of yourself and watch your back.
ok boomer
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@@juanshaftpatel7488 He is concerned which shows empathy something you and most people lack
@@priismiq8802 hes a simp... like most people... you included
@@juanshaftpatel7488 not boomer...x generation.
Your amazing!!! Brave AF, don’t ever let anyone bring you down it takes a lot of courage what you’ve done
Thank you🫶🏼
@@ALLinWithAri , I'm down in Florida. I wish you the best. I just prayed for you. I wish that I could move to California, but it's to expensive lol.
@@ALLinWithAri why are you scamming people you’re not even homeless you have money for new clothes makeup and jewelry if I catch you in oc I’ll make sure some real homeless get you scammer
Being alone is sometimes difficult, but for some magical reason....we learn more about our self and what you truly want in your world 🌎 ✨️
By the way, don't apologize for where it looks like you are at....everyone is facing or has faced hard times! Love the jams in the end!! Be safe!!! So many weirdos out there. Prayers sending sister 🙏🏼 ❤️
Wow, thank you for being so vulnerable! A lot of what you shared really resonates as I’ve experienced much of it in my own story too. Love your perspective. Keep plugging along the challenges are temporary, but your gratitude and the new perspectives on this journey are priceless. I’m just getting back on my feet myself from a similar situation, but looking back so thankful for all of it as it made me a stronger person, and helped me to share as much grace as possible for other people too. Your comment on family also and caring for each other… love it. Please keep sharing!
Wow, I had the same experience you had , I was in a toxic relationship and had to say I was going to ca to visit my mom for awhile. I moved out to ca 2 yrs ago now from Texas. Left a lot behind , stay strong my friend , God is with us, thank you for sharing your story.
When a survivor is planning to leave that’s the most DANGEROUS point in the abuse. I’m so glad you’re safe and healing will come from this new journey
@cloudy the immortal damn, I wonder why she would lie about that? For more sympathy and clicks, a reason for her abandoning her family? That’s crazy. I hope she wouldn’t really lie about that and it’s a case of two hurt people hurting each other. But I’ll be watching your video when it drops
She's super pretty and so brave. My heart aches for her but I'm glad she can still find the beauty and positive side to this despite everything she's been through. I think she's an inspiration. I hope she'll always be safe and happy, I just hope the best for her. Good luck beautiful!
No it’s just scamming for money
Yea reminds me of the gofund me scam with that Bobbit guy. But she could be telling the truth who knows
@@bighoss7437 no it’s a scam be real nobody with that much stuff is homeless in the video you can see how twitchy it is so just using the money for drugs anyone who gave it money is an idiot
@@bighoss7437 how does it shower everyday huh hotels are expensive so it’s a scam that thing has money and is just begging here instead of the freeway sidewalk
@@starlac4065 a $10 membership to the gym will get you a free shower for a month
Idk how I came across your page but DAMN You are a beautiful human! You’ve made an impression on my life and I’ll be following your journey as you allow us to! Keep speaking your truth and finding your peace! ♥️ saying some prayers for you baby girl!
🥰🤗🫶🏼
@@ALLinWithAri ugh, I wish I was even close to being as beautiful as you (look at my thumbnail)
@@ALLinWithAri WHERE CAN WE DONATE?! Go fund me or something?
@@ALLinWithAri we luv u queen
A bunch of videos are coming out saying ari is a scammer. Is this true???
Hi Ari, if you are reading this, you have a great personality. Always staying positive is the way to keep moving forward in life. I lost my mom in Jan 2020. Since then it was hard to keep my head up, felt like I have disappointed her. I recently lost my casino job in table games department. It was good money but I wasn’t politically smart about what I did and I hated myself for my actions. I’m unemployed but I’m hoping to come back for a good opportunity to work my way up. Got to stay strong through these tough times. Take care of yourself, Ari!! You got this!! We can get through this!!
The hardest part for me living in my car was always being vigilant of how much I'm eating before bed, because nothing worst then setting up for the night, and waking up at 2:00 am with a stomach aches and driving to find a 24 hour open place for #2
You will make it through, especially since you have such a positive outlook towards life. Relatives can be cruel, some are family only by DNA. Nothing more. I'm glad you escaped your toxic, dangerous relationship and are here with us.
I showed up to LA with about $100 and stayed in hostels.. I hustled on delivery apps for about 12 hours a day 7 days a week.. first I had to walk and deliver in downtown LA on foot till I could buy a bike, did that till I could buy an electric bike did that till I could buy a car. I know the struggle can be real however if you want something bad enough you will find a way if not you will find an excuse 💯.
I definitely feel for you, I'm 27 in a sort of similar situation in NYC. Don't have a lot of family or friends and moved to NYC not knowing anyone. It can be rough at times but I always remind myself that there's someone in a worst situation then I'm in. You're a very strong human to have went through so much and still be happy with your day to day life. I randomly stumbled on your channel today, idk what made me click the video but very inspiring journey! Stay positive!
P.S. I HOPE YOUR MONETIZING YOUR ACCOUNT ! :)
how the hell do you find parking in nyc?
Ari, hang in there. Once upon a time, I lost everything and I understand the struggle. For some reason your vlog popped into my suggested video. I just want to tell you that you are doing well. You will get through this.
You are very mature for your age and have the right perspective on life and its musings. This experience or your trials will past, but, the strength and jewels in your crown will last and impact other lives as you are doing now. You've already won!
Glad to have found your channel. Silly voices are a plus, but that may have been due to the lack of sleep. Who knows. Sorry to hear how you ended up here, although it just seems there may be more to this story than you are willing to share. Control and abuse are never ok but at least you seem to be on a happier path now. If you continue to have trouble with the ability to park, hit me up. I own a business and have access to a gated, fenced and pretty much vacant lot. 90040 zip code. Maybe too far for you to commute to your job. Just an option if needed. Good luck and stay safe.
@@estebandiaz7880 Your point?
I went through something just the same this year as well. Things do get better but it takes time. Stay focused on you and what helps you grow. Stay patient and determined. You have a great heart and head on your shoulders it will be your biggest blessing. Sending all my love, luck, and positivity your way. You got this 💚🙌🏼
You show incredible strength. Courage to act and courage to give yourself a second chance. You are a beautiful person who is focused on better life and its great to walk along side you one step at a time. Keep rocking the music.
Thank you!❤️
Hey Ari 👋 Glad you’re taking this all in with a massive smile on your face. When we are usually faced with adversity, it’s very important to take on a positive approach to things. All of which you are doing right now.
I don’t live in California, I’m actually in Las Vegas Realtor, and local. I work with many homeless youth in the city, and sometimes families. I would be willing to extend an offer to help you out if you ever need it.
I know with inflation things are going up in price, and it can be very expensive. I have many friends that have had to adhere to that same hardship that you’re facing today.
If you ever need anything, please feel free to let me know. I’m always happy to help out. Also I love the channel, and the great vibes that you bring.
I do sometimes travel to California, but not often. I am happy to provide some of the essentials such as water, hygienic products, clothing, food, toothpaste, certain medicines, and know a few people in California that may want to help as well, they may be able to offer free maintenance for your vehicle.
Anyway, I hope everything changes, and keep enjoying your best life. I’ve already subscribed to your channel. 💯
Putting your info online so if you’re really helping people
@@starlac4065 If you're located in Las Vegas, or may travel here I generally am willing to assist people how I can.
@@Doumanian she’s not even in Las Vegas and you send her money explain that
@@Doumanian she fractured her sons skull that’s why she homeless so that’s even worse I’m gonna have to expose you and make videos for assisting a child abuser
Hey Starla, I haven't sent anyone money, but I have offered food, water, and supplies for the homeless. Naturally it is my passion to help the needy, especially people I can easily contact through social media. Thank you for informing me about your accusations of this TH-camr, I wasn't aware of them, however God has put me on this planet to help others, and not to judge others. If you know anyone personally that may be struggling with getting their hands on basic resources, and if they're in Las Vegas, you may direct them to me. Other then that, my offer is open to anyone that you know, or is reading this.
Sometimes “enough said” does not work for some ppl. It takes TOO MUCH to make that decision, to just leave it all behind, get up and leave, yet you did it. You have NO idea how much you are helping so many women out there who need to hear just YOU and your experience, Ari. Remember that!
And to the women reading this, we can do it. We can do ANYTHING 💯🤜🏾🤛🏾
A very touching story as I can certainly relate to as it happened to me just for not as long as you've been dealing with it. You appear to be a strong-willed female and I can't believe your determination, positive energy, and staying focused. May god look over you and keep you safe!
It takes a lot to get away from toxic people.... Thank you for helping me through my difficult time I can relate... You're amazing
As remember it can be done ✔️
Ari, good for you on breaking away. I've seen it on multiple occasions where a person won't leave the situation because they don't know what the future holds and so they stay. You listened to co-workers and probably believed that voice in the back of your head. And one thing that i know it is hard for people that are around victims like that, are how long to they support a person that won't leave. Well I see the amount of people following you and I believe they will continue to support you and definitely have your back. Good for you!!
Great courage on leaving!!! Your one of the smart ones!
I was also in a terrible abusive relationship. I thought he would get better but he only got worse and he turned into a conspiracy theorist. Even being homeless in a car , I had a job and he didn’t. I managed to get an apartment but I too had to strategize my way out of the house. I had to wait for him to finally get a job and his second day of work I waited for him to drive out of the driveway. I jumped out of bed and packed all my belongings and split!!!! I saved my life.
Ari ❤️ wow. I'm so glad you listened to your co-workers. So many don't and perish. Stay strong
You’re right on with the random meals surprising you. I’m not vegan/vegetarian or allergic to anything but I try a lot from the sections with those restrictions. Fun to see what people come up with.
You’re way too beautiful to be caught up in a nasty relationship like that ! The heck with your ex. Seriously. It’s completely his loss.
Girl! I am also 32 and living in my car and I wear head wraps and square glasses like you and I'm in the exact same situation in Naples, FL down by the beach! I pray that one day you and I may meet and one day share our stories and help to write a law to protect single unaccompanied women that are not acknowledged as a population when it comes to homelessness. Like you, I would never sell my body, and im thankful to be out of abusive and unhealthy environments and relationships. I live in a small 4 door car Acura TSX & I have a hotdog named Sadie Grace who is with me. I too as a "pretty well dressed girl" was told a ton since April that I Don't look homeless or I'm fake. It's so cray how people assume by the way we look that we aren't homeless and are. I live in a parking deck right now on the 3rd floor and I'm working every day! Zetus lapetuz you might be my soul sister. I'm encouraged to know that there is someone like me out there, someone I can relate too, who isn't mentally ill and on drugs and is a single female exact same age. Thanks for sharing & I to trust in Jesus and his plan for my life! Praying for you Chiquita!
Make a TH-cam! Pay is life changing
Why not get an apartment
Been there as well. Work every day and no one knows how difficult it is even to get to work. Jump up in 20 degree weather, throw on some clothes. Brrrrr.....Drive down the canyon until you get to the YMC where you finally get to go to the restroom and shower. Simple things like a shower take so much longer and so much more effort. No support system. Made me a lot stronger. I cannot even believe that I survived that.
Hey Candice!! I'm a Fort Myers Beach native! You should check out God's Table on the beach! They offer breakfast, bagged lunches, showers, and other things. Anddddddd the people are so sweet!
My dog has to go to doggy daycare, or stay in the car with ac on blast, keys in ignition for the short period I am working away from a computer (I'm a photographer). 95 percent editing work 5 percent shooting... She goes to church, grocery stores most places with me, any non photography jobs she goes with me for the most part. :) I never leave her in danger or a locked vehicle that's not blasting with ac and unlocked. I'm in a safe part of the country and I rarely leave her that way. She mostly goes to day care or someone watches her
Been there sister. Thank God we are getting more empowered to leave!!! So proud of you.💚💚💚💚
Thank u!🫶🏼
The fact that you're still here after everything you've been through speaks volumes about your strength and character. You're here for a reason and based on all these comments you are truly an inspiration to many people. You have a whole support system behind you and I'm sure you could reach out to anyone in your comments whenever you feel lonely. Stay strong and always remember there's a reason you're here. Feel free to reach out if you need someone to listen.
What has she gone through except for leaving her a hole boyfriend. She doesn’t state any details, she just throws out random terms like “toxic” and “not good”, but no actual details. Maybe she needs to visit a psych ward, you never know.
Wow.. I can’t believe how strong and brave you are, that opens my eyes to some options I may need to open up for myself. 💕🙏🏼 sending love and prayers your way keep doing you and keep the faith.
You are such a strong and brave soul don't let people on the internet bring u down or judge you u got this u will be ok and you will find yourself and ur path one day at a time