A Single Mom’s Take on Autism and Sleep Issues

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  • @normarivera7810
    @normarivera7810 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    As a single autistic mom myself, I deeply appreciate these normal mundane vlogs more than you know! It's so lonely being a mom to autism and watching your vlogs feels like catching up with a friend. I suffer from restless nights with my little one too so it's just so refreshing to know I'm not alone 🙏❤️❤️

    • @irishgirl1753
      @irishgirl1753 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I do to …how can we support each other it’s so lonely r u on messenger ?

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for saying that, when I'm editing these types of vlogs I feel like I'm rambling and not sure if it will be interesting or relatable to anyone. But I'm glad its providing that for you!

  • @cynthiaperez3730
    @cynthiaperez3730 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Kaitlin, I am VERY interested in your content. I am a single mom, widower, who is 40 with a 4 year old son with autism. Thank you for being so real with your feelings. It is frustrating not sleeping, having to get up early the next day to work & being the only one having to manage your son's behaviors. It's tough, frustrating & makes us feel helpless. Thank you for normalizing this other side that us solo parents need to hear that WE are human too & feel feelings like frustration, irritability sometimes. We can't always be positive. I admire you so much & look forward to seeing your videos. ❤

  • @faithjoy9638
    @faithjoy9638 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, I am interested . I have 2 autistic children and yes sleep issues are real for autistic children. Thank you so much for sharing and honesty ❤

  • @c.l.8102
    @c.l.8102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the wood work shop!!! What a fantastic idea!! My students have a variety of special needs. I think that a few of the families I work with would love this!!

  • @caitlin9150
    @caitlin9150 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Kaitlin always interested in your content. You are a very amazing person and love your parenting vibe. You give Kaidale your "All" and for sure sleepless nights must have to be frustrating. I am glad you find solace in an activity even after a messy night... Kaitlin I do declare please keep vlogging

  • @LJ-or3ig
    @LJ-or3ig 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We’re right in the middle of the “recovery period”, my 6 year old son has sleep issues once or twice every months or so. When it happens it throws everything off like you said. I remind myself it’s not his fault. Anyway your everyday vlogs like this one are great. I love them so much!

  • @janetsanders9253
    @janetsanders9253 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hang in there Kaitlyn you’ve got this!❤

  • @isbeliasaladinharter9897
    @isbeliasaladinharter9897 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you so much for sharing your videos.! A big hug to you and I totally understand the sleep less nights, I have a daughter on the spectrum.

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for watching, it means a lot!

  • @bethwilson8770
    @bethwilson8770 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s great seeing you both!! My 2 yr old grandson was just diagnosed with having Autism… Thank you so much for sharing your story with us.. It has helped me

  • @simonesobel7882
    @simonesobel7882 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm glad you are back making vlogs! Sleep and autism is real interesting. I hope it gets better soon, so important. I hope you speak more about kaidales teenage interests, and what the schooling situation is this year. What areas is he making progress in? What are some goals? Is he going to try to read/write/type? He's in middle school, how's that going? How's his communication and social skills. Does he have a friend? Just throwing out future topics

  • @melissaevans5462
    @melissaevans5462 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Luv watching whenever you are on! ❤

  • @imoimos
    @imoimos 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a fellow runner, I totally get it!! Running is such a great stress relief! That trail area looks awesome!! LOVE when you find those fun adventures!! Ya'll look like you are having a blast!! Hope you all have a fabulous week!!! LOVE your videos!!

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you and same to you!! Running is great, it boost my confidence big time when I can go longer distances.

  • @taralytle4952
    @taralytle4952 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I miss watching you guys. I do watch it when you put it on. I’m glad everything’s OK.❤

  • @lauravannevel5183
    @lauravannevel5183 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love watching you guys!

  • @kathryniezzi-vv1pl
    @kathryniezzi-vv1pl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The way he said “ sleep tonight” when you guys got home made me smile! Typical teen!

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes haha he knows how to finesse. He knows he can do more fun things when mommy isn't tired.

  • @deliasequeira
    @deliasequeira 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your videos are always so insightful. Regardless of the schedule in which you upload them. 😊 Also that chicken recipe is a bonus I was not expecting.

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm glad you enjoyed it, thank you for watching!

  • @rayray91764
    @rayray91764 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can only imagine how much harder it is being a single parent ❤ You are doing a great job and doing your best. I have hubby on those hard days when I just need time to myself. I'm so glad you live near your parents and they help you a lot 🥰

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! Yes, we have some great support:)

  • @tinamarie7777
    @tinamarie7777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are such a great Mana and I’m glad you had “your way” on this day. I believe that Kaidale will grow up and be totally back into his old favorite things 🥰☀️♥️ that’s what my kids did anyways, so I’m hoping for you 🫶🫶

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hope so too! I think it's just a teenage phase. Right now he's more of a homebody and enjoys hammering in his garage lol

    • @tinamarie7777
      @tinamarie7777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Kaitlin_and_Kaidale ♥️♥️♥️🔨😴💙💙💙

  • @flamingodiego
    @flamingodiego 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Super excited to see a couple of new uploads from you. Looking forward to seeing more from you guys! Sorry for the tiredness, our daughter does have blips like that from time to time.

    • @flamingodiego
      @flamingodiego 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh yeah and puberty is hitting hard I'm sure!!!!! He's growing up!!! You are so awesome, keeping each other busy and active. Never stop! We explore and do things with our daughter all the time!!! :)

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching!

  • @dtodd1754
    @dtodd1754 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m interested always. You’re a great Mom! Please know that❤

  • @helenparker4686
    @helenparker4686 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Also parenting my autistic son solo.

  • @debbieteti6721
    @debbieteti6721 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am definitely interested I miss you please continue when you can blog❤

  • @Debs785
    @Debs785 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your doing a great job Kaitlin x

  • @planetluna9554
    @planetluna9554 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve watched your videos for years and I wish I could give you your “flowers” , so to speak. You are a GREAT mom and I can feel your effort and love through the screen. You’re doing great , Sending u love !! 💐 💐

  • @nicoles9764
    @nicoles9764 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kaitlyn, I’m always interested in your vlogs! I have an almost 12 yo son with autism and he’s also mid-verbal and Kaydale reminds me a lot of my kid. ❤

  • @kavitadeva
    @kavitadeva 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For some reason I speak the comment, and then I hit the arrow, and it doesn't show up crazy man and very frustrating. I wanted to tell you that I am so blown away that I found this video I've been thinking about you off and on all day today no kidding, for some reason you have not been showing up in my notifications so I unsubscribed just now and resubscribe and hit the Bell to all and hopefully I can get all of your content and I wanted to let you know that you don't need to do anything flashy or interesting what's interesting and awesome is a video where you're doing and just sharing your thoughts talking about things whatever. There's no pressure on making it a good video whatever you put out is good because I love both of you so much and it's always great to see you guys hanging out❤

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just started back uploading again so that may be why you haven’t seen any notifications before. But that’s funny because I was just thinking about you too and hoping everything was going ok! As always, I very much so appreciate your comment and your support of my content💞🫶😊

    • @kavitadeva
      @kavitadeva 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Kaitlin_and_Kaidale YAY🦄

  • @colaw77
    @colaw77 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve missed your vlogs, and was very happy to see these last few videos post! I think it’s amazing how you’ve made loads of progress on personal goals, and a happy for you. Keep on keeping on! We’ll watch whatever you post. It’s like catching up with an old friend. 😊

  • @esteeb42
    @esteeb42 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a wonderful mother Kaitlin. Don't be hard on yourself. I have terrible quality of sleep and I feel crappy most days because of it. My children are grown, I can imagine how hard it is for you to function and take care of your responsibilities with such a lack of sleep. I hope your parents are still nearby and able to give you support🤗💐

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for being so understanding. It is one of the areas I find the most difficult. But honestly, the exercising does help me feel better and give me energy.

  • @NicholasSwansburg
    @NicholasSwansburg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just like to tell you if you haven’t heard it recently, you are doing an amazing job. You are truly amazing and you are truly breathtaking.

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you very much

    • @NicholasSwansburg
      @NicholasSwansburg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Kaitlin_and_Kaidale you are more than welcome. You are truly amazing and I am always here if you like to talk.

  • @craftmom5302
    @craftmom5302 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Listen Kaitlyn from one single mom of an autistic kid to another I understand why you don't Vlog a lot it's hard to be a single mom especially with you having a full-time job on top of being a single mom to an autistic child it's a lot to deal with give yourself some Grace because we don't expect you to be Superwoman okay none of us are thank you for the videos you do put out especially when you talk about challenges you're having with your son and a lot of times I can understand because I'm going through the same challenges like the sleep thing I totally get it I have to drop the house and cat nap too because there's times where he just doesn't go to sleep or there's times where he'll wake up at 3 a.m. actually that's every night waking up at 3 a.m. to stem and it's let's just say it is what it is and we have to deal with what we have to deal with and if you don't have time to log every day so big you don't have time we love you to pieces and we think you're a great person and a wonderful mom so again please give yourself that Grace❤

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awe thank you so much. I can totally relate to the stimming at 3 am lol Kaidale does that a lot. He just wakes up in the middle of the night and has a full on party. I appreciate your support!

  • @dorothyaarons588
    @dorothyaarons588 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Kaitlyn… I am always interested! I love watching your Vlogs. Although I’m sure you’re frustrated as heck you handle things really well. Anyway, I miss you.

  • @helenparker4686
    @helenparker4686 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Still here. And still interested.

  • @niebieskimotyl3308
    @niebieskimotyl3308 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My son also had huge sleep issue, melatonin helps a lot, he's now going to sleep at 9pm and waking up at 7am every day, even on weekends. We have a routine, he starts getting ready for bed at 7pm.
    I know there will be new challenges when he's teenager (currently 8). But what's best for us is boring consistent life.
    I used to write a blog, travel in a van with him, but couldn't push myself any longer. So I got depressed and perimenopause started around 35.
    Overall, for many women after 30 years old, body is getting weaker, loosing muscle mass etc. So take care of yourself, your son will need you to be in a good shape

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yea I agree with you. In some ways, parenting becomes easier but in a lot of ways it becomes more difficult the older we get. I hear you about being consistent. His sleep issues are 10 x worse during summer break.

  • @candy-sj
    @candy-sj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nailed it ❤

  • @tyreesetjjoyner1995
    @tyreesetjjoyner1995 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my. That’s a big challenge you’re facing. I’m also an autism guy, but I have no kids. I’m also a single person as well

  • @magictfn88
    @magictfn88 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @sunnysimmons
    @sunnysimmons 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @monicacornell1893
    @monicacornell1893 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Any van trips planned? ❤

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's pretty hot this time of year for camping. It doesn't really start to cool down until after Christmas. But we may go out for a quick weekend trip sometime soon!

  • @camrynzell9731
    @camrynzell9731 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wonder-mom!!!

  • @alyshajones1138
    @alyshajones1138 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    lucky for me I don't ever recall having sleepless nights with my guy. wait a minute now that I think about it.. just last Thursday/Friday he woke up at 2:30 in the morning and for some reason refused to go back to sleep. Of course we had to skip school that day because there's no way I was going to let him crash out at school.

  • @cathycorns7605
    @cathycorns7605 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have sure missed your content

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching, I appreciate it.

  • @KarenBrearly
    @KarenBrearly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Still interested

  • @mustlovedogs5569
    @mustlovedogs5569 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does Kaidale still like to play chase?

  • @mustlovedogs5569
    @mustlovedogs5569 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thought you had a new Jeep? Or was it more ms?

  • @courtascot
    @courtascot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow that’s a lot of nails kaidale.good job

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haha yes, he is very passionate about his hammering.

  • @ddinottia39
    @ddinottia39 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can't be mad at him when he suffers from insomnia. He can't help it. Why not try Melatonin? Try breathing and meditation.

    • @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale
      @Kaitlin_and_Kaidale  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He does take melatonin and Benadryl but sometimes it doesn't cut it.