I'm $60,000 In Credit Card Debt, Is This The Best Way To Get Out?

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  • @onceuponasavage
    @onceuponasavage 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    100k before taxes and 100k after taxes is a big difference 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @grantv2313
      @grantv2313 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I say that every time I watch this show . They pretend like that’s all take home. Income is about 65% of my gross for me and I’ve got bare minimum taxes coming out.

    • @Rosinronin
      @Rosinronin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@grantv2313that's tough I keep 80% of my paycheck after taxes in Nevada on 80k but there's also no state or local income taxes

    • @mad2msu
      @mad2msu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I always wonder if that’s their gross or net income when they answer that question.

    • @myytchannel6632
      @myytchannel6632 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@mad2msu They often say their GROSS income. Which is truly different from take home. Her take home may be $70,000 or less.

    • @USMC6976
      @USMC6976 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Unless the person says GROSS, they are asked by the call screener to give their net.

  • @Black_Jesus3005
    @Black_Jesus3005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Fighting that person in the mirror is probably the hardest part. I’m going through that now lol. You’ve got this Courtney!

    • @muradshawar
      @muradshawar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I dont feel bad for someone making 100k when the average American makes 30-40 and has the same debt cry me a river

    • @l.sanders5921
      @l.sanders5921 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@muradshawar Its not about the money; I know what place Courtney was in emotionally. One thing I realize; the employer does not give you the yearly salary upfront. Those big numbers does a psychology flip in your mind.

  • @SneakyGenius
    @SneakyGenius 2 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    I love this show. Its helping me get out of my mess.

    • @musicpro7278
      @musicpro7278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You shouldn't have got in that mess to begin with

    • @SneakyGenius
      @SneakyGenius 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@musicpro7278 I'm a human being we all make mistakes, I'm sure you have regrets too.

    • @joshuaswanson4789
      @joshuaswanson4789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@musicpro7278 thanks captain obvious. You’ve never made less than ideal choices?

    • @musicpro7278
      @musicpro7278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joshuaswanson4789 yes but not once I can't control like when it comes to money

    • @markmark123412341
      @markmark123412341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@musicpro7278 Well TEACH US how to get out of debt then since you so good at it, since you know HOW to stay out of debt buck! Lol

  • @mistiinseattle
    @mistiinseattle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    She makes $100k a year and with a low house payment there is no reason she can't live very well on this and pay off her debt.

    • @BlackBruceLeeTheGreatDekuTree
      @BlackBruceLeeTheGreatDekuTree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I think she has other debt that probably wasn't mentioned like I can almost guarantee she has a car loan over 35k

    • @iamme7664
      @iamme7664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@BlackBruceLeeTheGreatDekuTree or an expensive shopping habit..

    • @BlackBruceLeeTheGreatDekuTree
      @BlackBruceLeeTheGreatDekuTree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@iamme7664 That's without a doubt!

    • @doomslayerforever2858
      @doomslayerforever2858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BlackBruceLeeTheGreatDekuTree 80k i can tell shes that kinda woman

    • @miamielite7773
      @miamielite7773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@doomslayerforever2858 Yep, she got an Mercedes-Benz with a 800 car payment for sure.

  • @dwd1968
    @dwd1968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I worked a 2nd job for over a year and used all of that money 💰 to get out of debt

    • @Themajesticloot
      @Themajesticloot 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What did you do as your second job?

    • @MsVarie
      @MsVarie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hear about second jobs a lot from the USA, do you guys not get taxed highly for a second job?
      I worked a second job and by the time the pay came it wasn’t worth it. It was £11 per hour but after tax because it was a second job I had like £5 😢

    • @richardoa623
      @richardoa623 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@MsVarie No you pretty much get taxed the same...

    • @jetski1562
      @jetski1562 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gotta do what u gotta do sometimes man but its well worth it

  • @david100483
    @david100483 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Yikes 60k is a lot in cc debt. Totally doable tho! I did it in two years, over $45k in debt and half the income 10 years ago. It felt great tackling the debt and taking full control of my finances, learned a valuable lesson in my 20s…never again will credit card debt own me! ✌️

    • @tamiz8895
      @tamiz8895 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s a lot of money. And then the interest adds to it especially if she’s only paying the minimum. It would take her decades to pay on cards that she’s not using. If she continues to use them the situation is even more dire. She obviously needs to change her outlook financially to secure a future for herself and her family.

    • @marimarsilva4629
      @marimarsilva4629 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You gave me hope ❤ I only
      Have 14k in debt and sometimes I feel like I’m doomed I make 60k roughly but in CA it ain’t much

    • @david100483
      @david100483 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marimarsilva4629 hang in there! Hardest thing is adjusting to a very rigid spending habit, it feels much better once you start seeing a little bit of a cushion build and debt coming down!

    • @carlosortega5592
      @carlosortega5592 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I’m in this journey right now bro and I recognize it’s all my fault just trying to get out this hole I’ve dug

    • @bribri7344
      @bribri7344 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We are in debt $50,000, and the interest is so high. We are trying to decide if we should try to pay it off or file bankruptcy

  • @timothyp9252
    @timothyp9252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    he knows when a caller can handle some tough love and when they cannot. he was very encouraging even though he doesn't truly believe that she will follow his plan.

    • @Victic005
      @Victic005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She's going to reach $100k debt.

    • @dacianbonta2840
      @dacianbonta2840 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nah, massa Ram"say just doling out the current gendered double standard
      (parcel of the WASP attack on family and society)
      if females hip to the tough life in these streets, wouldn't have dievorce filed by females.80%
      like this bozo here

  • @shrimuyopa8117
    @shrimuyopa8117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    She doesn't realize it yet but she has a GREAT thing going for her. Clean up this debt and life is going to look great for her with the income and home that she owns! I am excited for her.

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      IF she follows the plan.

    • @clarifyingquestions
      @clarifyingquestions 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love this comment!!

    • @daebak7370
      @daebak7370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Life isn't going to be great for nobody. We are on door step of tribulation period.

    • @mmp495
      @mmp495 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯

    • @chrisconsorte7893
      @chrisconsorte7893 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely, once she clears out her debt, she’ll be fine!

  • @diamonddre4626
    @diamonddre4626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Adversity introduced me to the brown rice and black beans diet. Not only did this diet help me get through financial difficulty, I also came out of the situation with big muscle 😃😃

    • @KC-dr3cg
      @KC-dr3cg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And cut your electric expense, reduce your food budget, dont drive your car except in absolutely needed..

  • @laurab4570
    @laurab4570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    He was so nice to her, he asked if he could be mean… he wasn’t at all. That’s really nice and I hope it helps her. Sometimes people need tough love, but they also deserve compassion.
    Courtney- if you are reading this, please also look into The Budget Mom as well.

  • @fragile00
    @fragile00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I may not agree with Dave on everything but this message is exactly why I absolutely respect him. Great advice and great mentality to get back on your feet.

    • @pattyajones
      @pattyajones 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same.

    • @louannhuber2651
      @louannhuber2651 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not sure I respect him yet, but this was great advice. He was honest, encouraging and comforting at the same time.

    • @MomoHitsujiOwO
      @MomoHitsujiOwO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, I don’t agree all the time but it’s always good to see this side of him and an alternative perspective on finances

  • @mr.boostang2064
    @mr.boostang2064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    $60k sheesh I was panicking on a $600 card 😅

    • @laneesha1000
      @laneesha1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      😂😂😂this video calmed me down😂

    • @matthewlangley3524
      @matthewlangley3524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Stay motivated. Just because someone else has more debt, doesn't make it easy on you.

    • @EarlyBirdCraft
      @EarlyBirdCraft 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      600$ cc debt is still pretty high

    • @mr.boostang2064
      @mr.boostang2064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@EarlyBirdCraft it is, paid it off yesterday in full 🙌

    • @Gheuns3251
      @Gheuns3251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      $600 can easily run up 6,000 in a few months if you let it get out of hand .

  • @chiday4947
    @chiday4947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Live the free agent lifestyle fellas.

  • @canadianjatti
    @canadianjatti 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I can't relate to people with incomes like like and debt this relatively low not being able to see the way out....it is actually not that bad of a situation....

  • @CarolinagirlSSS
    @CarolinagirlSSS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thanks for sharing this . Right on time for me! Good for you Courtney! We can do it !

  • @lashandafriedrich1414
    @lashandafriedrich1414 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a great call and great supportive energy!

  • @Jay-pf2cn
    @Jay-pf2cn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I’ll bet all of that 60k in CC debt is a bunch of silly stuff.

    • @fragile00
      @fragile00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A silly debt made out of silly spending. Who would have thought.

    • @melifter8897
      @melifter8897 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Definitely. Clothing out the max, cruise ship vacations, restaurants, etc.

    • @cjhoward409
      @cjhoward409 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Expensive makeup, nails, spa, fancy $10 coffees. 😂

    • @jd4064
      @jd4064 หลายเดือนก่อน

      99% of time its all silly

  • @dagobello
    @dagobello ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Dave needs to start asking for after tax and deduction income and not just plugging the 100K into the formula

    • @Josh-179
      @Josh-179 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I've always noticed he does this. He talks as if the gross is all available to tackle the debr being discussed. $100K = maybe $70K once the government gets their hands on it.

    • @thelmaleader7743
      @thelmaleader7743 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I always think the same runny, I made $64,000 but actualized income with deductions is $47,000, that makes a difference

  • @manuelusg
    @manuelusg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Rice & Beans, Beans & Rice

  • @joepic85
    @joepic85 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    60,000 credit cards I can see why he divorced her

  • @ce_mac207
    @ce_mac207 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dave’s right- paying back debt fast and making a sacrifice is a great teacher

  • @shamblesman
    @shamblesman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Brilliant advice......beans and rice.....excellent.

  • @mmccown1
    @mmccown1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    How do these people who can't manage their finances get such high paying jobs? Baffles me.

    • @JoannaSelvan
      @JoannaSelvan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Stress, poor mental health, bad coping mechanisms like shopping addiction, lifestyle inflation, feeling the need to fit in.

    • @davijerr
      @davijerr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😆😆😆 exactly.

    • @bt2598
      @bt2598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Lifestyle creep. We are in a society that tells you get the good paying job and buy the house and the car and the nice clothes and go out to eat and show everyone youre doing it so they can do it too. Without realizing a lot of people don’t save or manage their money. They live on what they earn, paycheck to paycheck

    • @mohammadwasilliterate8037
      @mohammadwasilliterate8037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stupidity, 🤣😂🤣

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Someone else said ' lifestyle creep ' and also being good at a job doesn't mean being good at managing your life. Example Dave always gives is doctors.

  • @yoshit9819
    @yoshit9819 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't know who she was married but from the sounds of it the guy is better off

  • @catlady2795
    @catlady2795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I am really confused by this call, wish there were more information. Her house is affordable, her income is good, not sure why she can't get out of the hole or how she got into it in the first place.

    • @misa5941
      @misa5941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She spends too much. Fairly simple really.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@misa5941 and with a kid involved, and the ex, lots of times parents get into a war after they split as to who can be the "fun parent" which can really kill a budget, especially if the x is out there showering money on the kid and looking good while you're looking like you're scraping by. That really should have been mentioned in this video, but it's understandable that Dave can't cover all the aspects. My wife and I went through that for a while.

  • @Cheezclown
    @Cheezclown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    There are many, many well educated people out there who make far less than her. She needs to get help for her shopping addiction and get back to work.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      and with a kid involved, and the ex, lots of times parents get into a war after they split as to who can be the "fun parent" which can really kill a budget, especially if the x is out there showering money on the kid and looking good while you're looking like you're scraping by. That really should have been mentioned in this video, but it's understandable that Dave can't cover all the aspects. My wife and I went through that for a while.

    • @christiantuininga7298
      @christiantuininga7298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes when I hear 100k it makes me think she’s not going to be the best at beans and rice. I make 40k...45 including my 2ndpart time job. Canadian. In expensive Canada. So I actually know why it’s like to budget and eat beans and rice. Cuz I’ve had to. But no debt. Because I’ve always lived frugally. Didn’t even get a cell phone til I was 40 because even tho I wanted one I didn’t need it. And it was an expense. Didn’t buy cable. Didn’t shop or go out much. It’s all possible...if u choose to just spend what u have to spend and not spend more. (This is typically...there are exceptions like tragedies and disasters that are out of our control and make sticking to the budget impossible...but those are rare). And of course I grew up with privilege like a decent brain and skills. And parents that loved me. Not money. But support. So I learned how to budget and sacrifice. I haven’t walked in others shoes. So I’m not trying to shame anyone...just suggesting that living simply with very little can be freeing and fun and fine.

  • @MaxMonsterGaming
    @MaxMonsterGaming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pretty obvious the guy wanted to divorce.

  • @yasinnabi
    @yasinnabi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thanks for sharing. one of the best videos I have watched today.

  • @danielvasquez3758
    @danielvasquez3758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    No faking your death is never the answer!! You got to tackle it the old fashion way!! Knock it out while facing it!!

  • @mannyjeanpierre4062
    @mannyjeanpierre4062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ex husband dodged a bullet!!!!

  • @hopiegriffiths5301
    @hopiegriffiths5301 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I will tell me money all the correct thing to do .. i will get out of debts. and be financially responsible and free and successful!!❤

  • @xmalcom650
    @xmalcom650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    100k a year and 60 in debt. How does this happen ?

    • @lionheart93
      @lionheart93 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stupid that’s y

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Easy. But not responsible

    • @richthepup
      @richthepup 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No I’m asking the same question. Did you buy a car on cc? How logistically do you get to that level ?

    • @thunderspence8183
      @thunderspence8183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pretending they can afford the monthly payments.

    • @canadianjatti
      @canadianjatti 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@richthepup a lot of it is now interest because shes only paying the minimum each month. Purchases add up if you are living above your means. A couch is $5000 here . Maybe clothes for her and the kids. Electronics. Car Repairs. Eating out. the list goes on....

  • @alqoshgirl
    @alqoshgirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m confused why she won’t be able to pay off her debt. She makes a lot of money, and has a low house debt and even her 60k is not a lot. Where is she spending all her money on?

  • @HEC892
    @HEC892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don’t think they are considering the child and how much she pays a month for child care….

  • @Albert12893
    @Albert12893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wouldn’t be able to sleep

  • @user-zl2cv4rw7p
    @user-zl2cv4rw7p 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Suddenly my $500 credit card debt doesn't looks so bad damn !!!! 😳

  • @vijayvarghese1652
    @vijayvarghese1652 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beans and rice. Rice and beans

  • @ruthlessreid9172
    @ruthlessreid9172 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Another government employee...shocker.

  • @CurlyStruggles
    @CurlyStruggles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I feel uncomfortable when I’m not in debt. I’ve gotten out so many times and jump right back in because life feels off when I’m out of it.
    I need therapy

    • @margie909
      @margie909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Maybe it feels unnatural to be a success? I know someone who was constantly told while they grew up that they were going to not amount to much in life. So, for a long while they lived up to that expectation, didn't try very hard in life. When they DID start to turn things around, set goals and reach them, it felt unnatural, undeserved. They would then self sabotage to feel "normal" again. Sad.

    • @superblump87
      @superblump87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You need a hobby.

    • @regularity2556
      @regularity2556 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch some videos on self sabotage. That's what you are doing, it's because deep down you dont feel worthy of a good life so you subconsciously do things to destroy your own success.

    • @lynnebucher6537
      @lynnebucher6537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I agree that you are sabotaging yourself, likely because you deep down feel you don't deserve to be free of debt and stress. Fix that.

    • @xiomaragomez6649
      @xiomaragomez6649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds like you need fully founded emergency fund.

  • @matthewwilliams9200
    @matthewwilliams9200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lol shes insane taking 60k unsecured debt and attaching that to your home is insanity

  • @mikedoyle5901
    @mikedoyle5901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wonder if this spending had something to do with this divorce. ?

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nothing to do with the call and who cares.

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think she had that before the marriage & child

  • @eugenegutierrez5106
    @eugenegutierrez5106 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’d be worried if I don’t have a stable career job with this credit card debt.

  • @PInk77W1
    @PInk77W1 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Write down a calendar
    Every month have as a goal
    $1000 less in CC debt

  • @isaacl6402
    @isaacl6402 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s always funny when this question comes up. What do you do? You pay your debt. You pay back the money you spent. And then stop spending money that isn’t yours. How hard is that

  • @kbanghart
    @kbanghart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Dave doesn't mention the family dynamic here. With a kid involved, and the ex, lots of times parents get into a war after they split as to who can be the "fun parent" which can really kill a budget, especially if the ex is out there showering money on the kid and looking good while you're looking like you're scraping by. That really should have been mentioned in this video, but it's understandable that Dave can't cover all the aspects. My wife and I went through that for a while. Single folks wouldn't really understand. Since the kid is only three now, this lady has years of this to deal with.

    • @marnarenteria4203
      @marnarenteria4203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think after all these years of giving advice, he knows that possibility, but she has to overcome that. It doesn't take thousands of dollars a month to be a fun parent to a 3-year-old. Experiences and time spent count, too.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@marnarenteria4203 that's true, but that takes a long time for some people to understand when there is jealousy or anger involved, etc.

    • @Carmen88888
      @Carmen88888 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true!
      I have a friend who was raising her son with very little support from her ex because he worked under the table as much as possible.
      He became the fun dad with UTVs and big televisions, and the kid went to live with him.
      Once the dad got xoustody you bet your behind he went for all the support he could- and got it since legally it looked like he was low income.
      He became “Disneyland Dad”.
      And does he help with the grandkids?
      Not a bit, while she has throttled back her business to help babysit them

  • @dwfinds3030
    @dwfinds3030 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Now what is the solution when the person isn't always well off. Its always 80-100k person not 40k person.

  • @ChinoEEE
    @ChinoEEE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    with that income she can do it 👍

  • @tracyd2598
    @tracyd2598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What do you do when you're on disability, and can't work to pay debt down? I hate being in debt. Some of it is from buying decent food, and supplements to restore my health. Insurance doesn't cover supplements, and I'm allergic to a lot of meds.

    • @hastycontemplation
      @hastycontemplation 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fasting can help with health issues and it is free, no spending on supplements or food.

    • @bjkarana
      @bjkarana 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bankruptcy?

    • @tracyd2598
      @tracyd2598 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hastycontemplation I can't function without them...
      I already do. No eating out either...

    • @last_samurai6690
      @last_samurai6690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tough is you have a disability. But if it is a physical disability say one got a leg injury but can still do a desk job, maybe doing something desky would help.

  • @zachingram7522
    @zachingram7522 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t understand how people call into this show and not have a real good idea what the answer will be.

  • @vl6741
    @vl6741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Attack the debt to heal... I like that.

  • @johnjohnstone5206
    @johnjohnstone5206 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Paying minimums on $101k?

  • @jimroscovius
    @jimroscovius ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some people just have no common sense!!

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Never get into debt and if u do don't date until you debt free.

  • @2010dalailama
    @2010dalailama 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm panicking with 20k in credit cards , I'm making around 100k a year in theory, but after taxes, child support and insurances, I make around 25k net profits, im really struggling to paid minimum on my credit cards , hard to be single parent, and also paying for everything my self

  • @jh1328
    @jh1328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    …and every declarative statement I make sounds like a questioooooooon?

  • @c.d.willis4278
    @c.d.willis4278 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The kid is 3; child support will provide you with a 15 year annuity. 500 to 750 per month should take care of it .

  • @SSS-wo2hn
    @SSS-wo2hn ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sbe’s financially immature and financially undisciplined. More debt is in her future🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @Boosted-truck
    @Boosted-truck 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m just happen that someone mention using chapters and BAM Dave has chapters!

  • @aDm219
    @aDm219 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Divorces as a child 2 years old. Nice picking a right guy like usual😂

  • @ericjohnson2475
    @ericjohnson2475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can see why she's divorced... Just saying..

  • @MrDmoney1984
    @MrDmoney1984 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I started to listen to these shows for a few weeks now, man how do these callers have 6 figure jobs and in debt…I don’t need fancy clothes, 6 bedroom house on the hills, or a brand new car every 2 years.. I can’t bring a car into the movies or into a restaurant to have dinner with

  • @chevysaregr8
    @chevysaregr8 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    she ran up the credit cards during the divorce and hoped her ex husband would have been on the hook for it. i've seen it many times, truly evil woman

  • @tom41639
    @tom41639 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There was a zero percent chance she would do this before Dave’s advice, and probably only 20% after it.

    • @georgewagner7787
      @georgewagner7787 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is getting the class

  • @imhim9194
    @imhim9194 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I see why he DIVORCED HER ‼️‼️

  • @fetch.aigeneral163
    @fetch.aigeneral163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ha that’s funny because had man been divorced but he brought a house before married pshh that house woulda been gone 😭😭😭😭

  • @everydaydadfixinit4803
    @everydaydadfixinit4803 ปีที่แล้ว

    She ain't ready

  • @countrylivin8634
    @countrylivin8634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She's definitely not going to do it Dave. That lady was completely clueless.

  • @XxsoonerbornxX
    @XxsoonerbornxX ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Every person that calls in says they make $100k. Bullshit. The median income is like $40k. It’s ridiculous. Just be truthful.

  • @ab3040
    @ab3040 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would like to thank her for paying for my vacation

  • @baconator1550
    @baconator1550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Home is where you make it, people.

  • @Ryan-zc1tz
    @Ryan-zc1tz ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Public health researcher” lol
    More like “public health researcher / child support recipient” to get to that 100k

  • @tthomaselli2
    @tthomaselli2 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    $60,000?!...
    Yikes!...

  • @jaredstrandBazooka
    @jaredstrandBazooka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Purchased it for 150k, now worth 430k????????????????

  • @jan854
    @jan854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    People just don't want to do the work! She can pay that off with hard work and sacrifice why put your home on then line?? She needs some behavioral adjustments fast!

  • @blackmantravel6954
    @blackmantravel6954 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She’s not going to do it. She loves going out

  • @kathya1956
    @kathya1956 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    John is always playing with his pen like a child.

  • @Castellanocreep
    @Castellanocreep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think it’s just hard for her to control spending. She even said she uses the Cc and they won’t give her more. So they should be asking her what was she spending money on and why is she needing to use the cc or neeed more cc???? Simple . After that then you move forward with the conversation

  • @melbahickox5625
    @melbahickox5625 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stop ✋ credit card

  • @Victic005
    @Victic005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dave would say you can't have a divorce if you're not married. Divorce is a good thing. Hahaha. At least family court is not going after you. Good luck with the bean and rice plan.

  • @young5ive426
    @young5ive426 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope she takes the advice … that cash out refinance is not the answer

  • @yarrdayarrdayarrda
    @yarrdayarrdayarrda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Husband left because of the uncontrolled spending she did?

  • @AquaDiLuisa
    @AquaDiLuisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    60k cc debt? I can’t wait to pay off my £2178 cc debt. How do you even build up that much cc debt for/on random spending? That better be part of my mortgage 😬 Wish her good luck 🍀 on her debt free journey 😆

    • @pickmeisha
      @pickmeisha ปีที่แล้ว

      Right my cc is at $510 and I’m like omg. I can’t imagine $60k.

  • @timwalters1885
    @timwalters1885 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trying to learn from this show how to get out of debt, but he never says how he just says he’s gonna send them the financial peace program.

  • @leedalton508
    @leedalton508 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What the hell😮no conscience, I wouldn't be able to sleep

  • @ASLunar
    @ASLunar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How much of that "100k" is child support?

  • @liberalmadness7248
    @liberalmadness7248 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She’s not going to do it.

  • @kentondragon9263
    @kentondragon9263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Debt is like a clogged sewer line or basin, except you gotta do fix the problem yourself, while the plumber is on speaker phone. Btw, why didn't Dave ask what she spent it on, or what can she sell? 🤔🤷‍♀️🤦

  • @hiteshadhikari
    @hiteshadhikari 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bet by now she has 65k in cc debt

  • @Darronsanderson
    @Darronsanderson 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No one has confidence in their voice when they are in debt.

  • @user-pw1xf1rk4l
    @user-pw1xf1rk4l 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have about 74,000 in credit card debt since there are past due now and the interest charges each month. It’s just pushing them higher and higher. I’m not doing anything about it so I’m just gonna have to just keep pounding me. I just ignore him and I blocked her calls. Lol I am on a monthly fixed income. Social Security and I found out they cannot touch that anyway it’s protected. So just let him go. I don’t care what they do anymore. I just ignore it. Lol.

  • @Acts-1322
    @Acts-1322 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She was so casual and wont make these simple changes lol. You can hear it in her replies.
    Too many women "just want to vent"

  • @khy7672
    @khy7672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We purchased no sir I purchased 😁

  • @thaarealdeal4349
    @thaarealdeal4349 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No lie everything is about the mindset and sacrifice

  • @Jonerod
    @Jonerod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right now I owe 32K lol

  • @raphaelszok8561
    @raphaelszok8561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After paying debt off put that amount you were paying into savings.

  • @anthonyquinn5927
    @anthonyquinn5927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Would love to see what these people look like…

  • @Amy-qc6ew
    @Amy-qc6ew ปีที่แล้ว

    I am interested her pay off plan.

  • @matthewowen1360
    @matthewowen1360 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is she suppose to do?

  • @thieira1613
    @thieira1613 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How bad is it to just file bankruptcy based on her situation?

  • @renwhite1809
    @renwhite1809 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How the hell do you even get approved for 60k😂 when making 100k is nuts

    • @wellnesscanceradvocate8564
      @wellnesscanceradvocate8564 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I was making way less and 2 of my cards have 20,000 limits but i don't charge them up