The mother's credibility went out the window when she said the old man was the baby's father because the baby had an old soul. It was the most ridiculous thing ever.
@@chudiksc A person, especially a child or young person, who demonstrates a maturity, understanding, or seriousness that is typical of someone much older:
Just because it makes no sense to you doesn't mean it is ridiculous. This does happen. We are made up of body , soul and spirit so it is possible for babies to inherit an old soul.
That Boy in the first case was embarrassed which is why he tried to act tough after the results. He was mad at his Mom, for doubting. And he realized how foolish he was, to let His Mom get into his head. Hopefully, the kids are being taken care of.
Biologically my grandchildren or NOT!! If they are in my life. They are my grandchildren. Period! My son passed away. My daughter in law remarried and her second husband has a son. His son is my grandson. He is treated exactly the same as my sons boys. We have welcomed both my newest grandson and his father into our family. Zero difference in inclusion, gifts, or time spent.
@@rellyjyes! She thought people were on her side. I feel AWFUL for that little boy and I really hope he gets to stay with his daddy even if he’s not blood
@@XxSmartiesxX_Sounds more like girlfriend manipulated him into it! Not telling his Mom was a deliberate dig, while he was just in the haze of the love bombing I am sure he was getting!
@@oceaniamonarch5404the mother had a job but is on paternity leave, and maybe if grandma pushed her son to grow up instead of enabling him he wouldn’t have been in and out
The second case is really heartbreaking. It’s funny how she claims he is not the father out of spite, meanwhile she knew from the beginning he wasn’t the father. She’s disgusting, she used him !!!! And yeah I’m pretty sure she filed for child support, she’s greedy, selfish and evil !
@@natnaeldemil3201 I think it depends on why. By the sounds of it, she is not living in a safe environment or a safe life for a child... and if that is the case, then I do not think it is vile. He clearly has concerns for the childs safety... it would make him vile to allow the child into an unsafe situation.
That second case - it is heartbreaking how that lady used the man for what she could get from him and is mean spirited now to want to yank the son away from him. Hope the court sees through her and the guy retains custody.
He's on disability He wouldn't have to pay child support anyway My uncle had 11 kids with 7 women and they couldn't get child support because he was on disability
Being a momma's boy is not a positive thing, Being a momma's boy doesn't mean that you love your mom. Momma's boy means that you need your mom to take care of you and that you can't make your own decisions. No woman wants a momma's boy because what mom thinks will override decisions in your relationship that have nothing to do with her.
Mr Brown wouldn’t even let the mother see her child for a weekend. How is THAT ok?? He’s toxic and the boy deserves his mother in his life. I’d be salty too if my child had been ripped away.
@@meganr9280agreed. Then for you to break yup and act like you’re better because you can afford a bigger house 🤯 He knew how she was when he first started dating her. A child deserves both parents. He is just as spiteful as she is.
Mr Brown is not a good men keeping his son away from his mother! If he was not stubborn she would have not pushed for a DNA test! A child needs his mom more than his dad
1st case he claims his mother doesn’t interfere with his relationship, yet the only reason they’re in court is bc of her. And the 2nd case she knew all along he wasn’t the father, but she was using him & his family. I feel bad for that little boy bc he would definitely be better off in that man’s care.
I hope she gets her child back and do Better for both of them. You don't just rip off a child from their mother, especially when she wants the child. He and his wife took him so they don't want to pay her. Because he doesn't work, the wife does.
@@-H4mburger-clearly the courts found him more able to care for the child which is why he had custody. It’s hard in American courts for a child to not be with their mom. So if you ask me that’s very telling about her stability.
@tanjiro_simp. no court just rips a child from there mother, mothers are most likely to win custody disputes if there doing what a mother's suppose to do. it's even more rare for them to lose sole custody and to only get supervised visits They have to have a history of addiction have a history of abuse or neglect of some kind it doesnt happen when there doing everything right . When I here a mother lost sole custody of their kid my first thought isn't it's the courts fault, its what did she put before her kid that led to her losing them.
1st case: Permiscuality.🙄 "When you're marrying my son, you're marrying me" WTAF??!! Mama's BOY allowed her to destroy his relationship and she doesn't even care. Neither of them will allow her to touch them. I hope she's satisfied with herself. 2nd case: She knew from the very beginning and passed him off as his son. She's a snake. 🐍
Did the grandmama really accuse the wife of promiscuity? Wasn't she living with her boyfriend in the same apartment as her son? And she allowed her son to have sleepovers with? AND, didn't the promiscuous girl become the wife? Did the grandmama? I really hope this young couple can rise above all of this and grow up to raise a beautiful and healthy family. Startging with putting physical and emotional distance between themselves and his meddling mama. SMH.
That second case brought me to tears. No one deserves that... He still wants to step up and stay in his sons life, wow a stand up guy but that pain is deep.
In the first case you can tell how upset the son was with his mother when the results were read. His wife basically stated his mother was messy and the son said he was tired of both of their drama.
The first thing that came out of my mouth was literally “this looks like the parents just copy and pasted each kid” 😂 the moment one came out to be his, i had no doubt all of them were his
How can the mother bring the wife in for a parternity test? If the father says they are his and is claiming them, then how can the mother drag them to court? Plus, mama needs to stay out of their business. She wasn’t in the bedroom when the kids were conceived. She needs to just stop.
In that first episode, that boy was mad at his momma in the end because she was the one that put doubt in his head that his kids weren’t his. His mother is the one that caused their marriage to fall apart.
Absolutely. Family is important but when there is a person that toxic, you have to put a limit. Son's 1st priority is to defend his children and fiance. Kudos to young lady. I hope only the best for her.
Regardless of the results, can we just establish something: whether or not you are able to connect with a child does not indicate whether or not you are related by blood. You don't magically have a good bond because you share the same DNA.
1st case that lady is so hurt. You can see the pain in her tears. He needs to step up and take care of his kids. His mom needs to find a life of her own!
Ms Upshaw (first case) is toxic. Neither her son nor Mrs Mason wanted a hug from her. They weren't even comfortable telling her they have gotten married. Also "prosmicuality", too much "dramer", " I didn't be in their business". Gosh!
Mrs. Upshaw has her own double standard. She proudly told the court she is living with her boyfriend, not her husband. Plus, her surname is also different from her son's, so either she has been married twice or else she had her son before she married Upshaw. Yet she wants to defame this young woman because he had 2 children before she got with her son. It sems to me she is projecting her own behavior on this young woman.
He had every right to keep that baby. She had chances to visit, and maybe if she would visit enough, they would be comfortable with letting her keep him for a weekend, she had a right to be upset, bat he had the right to have that child and be shattered when he finds out that child he believed to be his, was not.
26:47 - She made me laugh. There are MANY birth parents who lost their right to custody for valid safety reasons. If you loose child custody, it's gonna be a steep uphill course to get your parental rights back, IF you are able. Court doesn't care about your feelings, regardless of whether or not you're in the right/wrong.
I betchu if the mom wasn't meddling in the first case, they would STILL be together and the son know it which is why he shoved his mom away. His loyalty to his mom made him miss out on the love of his life and being an in house father to his 4 kids with his wife smh
I am so sorry for Mr. Brown's outcome regarding the baby. He is a good father and I hope that he can find it in his heart to move forward and live a good life.
I seriously hope that that poor little boy in the second case gets to stay with his daddy. He might not be blood, but he’s loved and well cared for. His birth mom looks unhinged and like she might be on drugs. Both people said she’s also not living in a great place! I feel awful for the little boy to be ripped from a living home even if he is going back to his mom because she CLEARLY doesn’t have his best interest in mind at all, she’s just being selfish because she wants to hurt her ex.
@@arneshiabaldwin8335 You can't really believe that. I think the young woman has issue with taking her money, but with 6 kids, 4 her grandchildren whose father does not support them, which means she has no choice.
It takes a lot of work and effort to have a kid and raise that kid. Imagine this young woman with six kids going through all this, then wasn't even informed her kids were getting married or invited. We do have to remember there is something like culture and basic human values of respect, which go around. The mom is wrong to meddle in their affairs. But they too, didn't start out right, which made her suspicious about everything regarding their union. All of them have their own fault because there are all types of respect, for parents, for the married couple, etc. Nobody in this situation played their role well.
Yhea they did that because they knew it wouldn't be their wedding it would of been hers because she would of not only payed for everything but would of planned the whole wedding for them they just need to cut her out of their life's for good I mean this woman would of probably worn a god dam wedding dress to her own son's wedding
I don’t like how she spoke to Ms. Mason about the number of children she had. She was a married woman having children with her husband, who admittedly was not providing. Ms. Mason should be commended for taking care of her six children. That young woman should be supported because if she can do this on her own, imagine what she could do with support. Meanwhile the man that took her as his wife and brought more children into the world wasn’t asked if he had a job, or if he was in school. I wonder why? And the grandmother made it clear she would support them. Where is the accountability? Ms. Mason I don’t know where you are now but I wish you well and hope you prosper.
Sadly the judge was right. The judge is very intuitive. One of those twin boys were murdered. To which the mother lost custody of her children. She was homeless. She was way over her head that young with all those kids. Poor kids. 😢 that little twin boy was beat to death with a baseball bat.
I was ok with it, although the father should’ve been admonished also. She shouldn’t have that many children. She was most likely on welfare (look up child killed with baseball bat in Atlanta). No one should be having kids while on welfare.
Sorry madam, when you marry your married to your wife not your mother, if your mother cannot shut her mouth leave her out of your decisions, it’s nothing to do with her. How can you be like that with your grandchildren that is wicked, just wicked.
I would die of a heart attack if 3 surprise humans were discovered in my home. If I heard footsteps I didn't recognize , I would run next door and call 911. Plus how do you keep 2 preschoolers quiet and content in a bedroom bedroom. Just unbelievable.
Facts. if your Son loves the child weather its his or not. As his mom, I will love the child the same. No one would believe that the grandchild is not biologically mines. If he loves the child no matter what, then so shall I. This kind of love heals.
He just wants “to be there for” his FOUR kids… He “used” to be in love with her… So what is a 24 year old woman supposed to do for emotional support and love when she has 6 children and four with this coward? How horrible.
What she is supposed to do is think of this BEFORE she has 6 children, 4 with this coward. If she needs emotional support and love at this stage of the game she needs to get it from her kids, not him or some other loser.
Second case- Mr. Brown needs to be talking to someone about her still getting benefits for the son and she doesn't even have him.. I would love to see an update on how everything turned out.
2nd case: Woman is killing her case whenever she does go to court. When the judge asked her would've she told the guy he wasn't the father had they stayed in a relationship. She said "No." Basically telling the judge that she's a straight up liar, even when it come to her child.
the mother in the second case is just nasty. She knew it wasnt his child proudly and shes talking as if she won but in reality all she did was hurt everybody involved.
@@NabukenyaJackline-r4l…she’s crazy, you can’t force mothers to have DNA test. The man doesn’t have to sign the birth certificate if he doesn’t believe the child is his. That’s his choice.
I hope he fights for custody as legally he is then it’s father. If someone can be forced to pay child support for 18yrs after being proven that they aren’t biologically the father because they signed the certificate than he should remain with parental rights because he did as well.
One of the responsibilities of a parent is to adequately prepare your children for the real world. The mama needs to let go and let God. Her son is grown and he needs to grow up and be a man.
Second Case: As a woman, I absolutely hate when a woman uses a baby to manipulate a man and/or situation. The situation was more about her than the baby.
I feel so bad for the second Dad. He was made to believe that little boy was his. He cared enough to take over full care of him. He even named him after his Dad. And now to find out that little boy has a name that’s not connected to him in any way. That woman should feel ashamed of herself. And hopefully the other guy is kind enough to let little boy see the man who basically was his Dad before. The man was a great father to that young boy. And I hope his Mom doesn’t poison his memory of the man he called Daddy for years.
the brother in the last episode is a W brother. such a good dude just taking care of his nephew man i would appreciate him so much for understanding and being there if i was the father
2nd case that lady is going to ruin that child’s life he was in a good situation now she’s going to destroy that it’s a shame what good man have to deal with
Case #3, regardless of the baby's paternity, NEVER have a baby to solve adult problems. That's too much responsibility for a newborn baby to start its life and it goes downhill from there.
While men can use birth control or get a vasectomy bottom line it's the woman who has ultimate control of her fertility. If you're out cheating with other men while you are trying to have a baby with your husband and don't control your fertility, this is exactly what happens. Both of them are dead wrong in their behavior but the female in relationships have the ultimate control of who impregnates them. This whole thing is wrong and messy and the child will, as always, pay the price. She's acting like she's the victim. JFC
1st case. They say it isn’t her business until she ends up having to support them all and raise the kids. Too many kids without financial support depending on taxpayors
2nd case: what a woman the mother is! She knew it was not the child of her then husband, still allowed him to raise him and would have continued to let him act father and believe he was the father and then when they fell out of love, she just sprang the news on him that he was not the father. She was okay to have the man raise the baby the whole life thinking it was his if things hadnt gone south ! Terrible!
I just read in a comment thread that one of the twins from the first case was killed at 3 years old by someone else who had custody. 😢 How horrible! I just wish the best for that young mom. I hated watching her cry, and then to find out that what happened to her son… rough. I pray that wherever she is that she and her kids are doing better.
I love this show because it continues to show fathers, especially Black fathers, in a positive light. There are dads out here fighting with everything for their children. Just like a dad would.
Yes,,it’s the very best thing you can do, says one 80 year old grandma to 6 lovely boys now between the ages of 30 and 20, it’s hard but it’s the best way to let them sort there problems out themselves. I have to remind my sons who are 54 and 51 now, with the boys some getting married and some engaged, at no point when they bring a girlfriend home, do you say or even hint, that you do not like their choice of girlfriend, you welcome them with open arms and genuinely care for them, it will fall apart of itself, but if you have parental opposition that’s a recipe to push them together.
3:06 yall these are our sons NOT our husbands. Let this man be a man. My son is 20 and I’ve learned to keep a healthy distance from his affairs. I’m here if he needs me.
You right but no one told him to sign tho 😢. Paternity charges definitely needs to apart of system the way these dusty egg donors be doing these good fathers
@@shortsweetness876 So if you sign up to a fraudulent investment scheme do they not arrest the culprit? They do right? But you are also right. Considering how many cases out there like this one. Men need to demand a paternity test and laws changes that demand it even if they were married. These kind of things happens way too often for the laws to remain as is.
1st case. He ought to be ashamed of himself. He let his mother drag him there, she's doing all of the talking, like she's the parent in question, while he was standing there mute.
That 2nd one, unbelievable! Getting benefits for a child she doesn't have AND told him he was the dad, that's why he signed the certificate. That's an evil mama right there, didn't matter she sees him an hour a week until she got to court. I'm guessing there's substance abuse and that's why he doesn't want her to see the baby...sad situation!!
That father in case #2 didn't seem, to me at least, to understand that by law he was the child's son, but by doing the DNA at his own request, he could cause himself to lose custody of him. I think that the judge should have explained that better. That was a sad one.
The mother's credibility went out the window when she said the old man was the baby's father because the baby had an old soul.
It was the most ridiculous thing ever.
😂 😂😂😂😂 I agree I’ve never heard such a thing ….
... what does she mean old soul....
@@chudiksc A person, especially a child or young person, who demonstrates a maturity, understanding, or seriousness that is typical of someone much older:
@@susanmetcalf8009 thank you
Just because it makes no sense to you doesn't mean it is ridiculous. This does happen. We are made up of body , soul and spirit so it is possible for babies to inherit an old soul.
That Boy in the first case was embarrassed which is why he tried to act tough after the results. He was mad at his Mom, for doubting. And he realized how foolish he was, to let His Mom get into his head. Hopefully, the kids are being taken care of.
Spot on and she should feel embarrassed she did that to her grandkids
He isn’t a boy. He’s a man.
I could not take his mother, she needs to mind her business for real, all the fake crying and love
A mother will never stop caring for her child I guess y’all don’t understand that
@@ronaldparker1715
An enabling mother is a horrible mother. It’s not care, it’s codependency.
Biologically my grandchildren or NOT!! If they are in my life. They are my grandchildren. Period! My son passed away. My daughter in law remarried and her second husband has a son. His son is my grandson. He is treated exactly the same as my sons boys. We have welcomed both my newest grandson and his father into our family. Zero difference in inclusion, gifts, or time spent.
Lovely.God bless you and your falimy❤
That’s beautiful of you ❤
I come from a blended family. Family is family.
@@rhondadenis3469 absolutely. Bless you and your family. ❤️
@@rebeccabaron1348 same to you ♥️
I’m proud of her all 4 kids his and she looked unbothered because she knew. Good job young lady stay strong
"BOTH OF EM ARE FAKE" had me rolling and the look the mom gave her son is priceless 💀
He’s fed up honeyyyyy🤣🤣🤣
When he said this😂
Every person in that courtroom is SO sad for that little boy in the 2nd case. He deserves this daddy. 😢
She's screamed "I told you!" As if that was the best outcome for the child. Smh
@@rellyjyes! She thought people were on her side. I feel AWFUL for that little boy and I really hope he gets to stay with his daddy even if he’s not blood
She wrong for that but I know it’ll keep him from coming on this show as an adult.
The mom in the second case gave off the vibe of an evil old witch. Too bad the child wasn't his.
He deserves his mother as well.
Getting married without telling your mother is not a very good “mommas boy”
It is when you don’t want mommy to be mad at you.
@@XxSmartiesxX_Maybe Momma not mad but sees the writing on the wall & is concerned!
@@XxSmartiesxX_Sounds more like girlfriend manipulated him into it! Not telling his Mom was a deliberate dig, while he was just in the haze of the love bombing I am sure he was getting!
He's grown he doesn't have to tell her anything
@@XxSmartiesxX_❤❤❤❤ inqqq no l
Lol I’m glad both of them shoved grandma’s “hug” away.
Why would be glad about that....The only real caretaker of the grandkids
Me too
Yep. I wouldn’t be surprised she’s the reason why their marriage broke up.
I would hope that that stopped him from being a "mama's boy" forever, and taught her some valuable lessons.
@@oceaniamonarch5404the mother had a job but is on paternity leave, and maybe if grandma pushed her son to grow up instead of enabling him he wouldn’t have been in and out
I love this judge. She is empathetic and speaks truth.
The second case is really heartbreaking.
It’s funny how she claims he is not the father out of spite, meanwhile she knew from the beginning he wasn’t the father.
She’s disgusting, she used him !!!!
And yeah I’m pretty sure she filed for child support, she’s greedy, selfish and evil !
That woman is vile.
Ngl, not letting her 1 on 1 with her child is pretty vile too.
Fool don't play yourself 😂😂😂
When you hear twin fiddles and a steal guitar you know you’re in the trailer park
@@natnaeldemil3201 I think it depends on why. By the sounds of it, she is not living in a safe environment or a safe life for a child... and if that is the case, then I do not think it is vile. He clearly has concerns for the childs safety... it would make him vile to allow the child into an unsafe situation.
That second case - it is heartbreaking how that lady used the man for what she could get from him and is mean spirited now to want to yank the son away from him. Hope the court sees through her and the guy retains custody.
The man is wrong too
@@syndib7377how?
He took her son so he wouldn’t have to pay child support just listen to what he says I swear women are so gullible 😂😂
He's on disability
He wouldn't have to pay child support anyway
My uncle had 11 kids with 7 women and they couldn't get child support because he was on disability
@@syndib7377 how so?...
14:55 AMAZING timing how the baby girl literally smirked when her results were read!! 💖💯👼🏽 Such a pretty little angel.
You caught that too 💖
I'd be being petty AF to 😆 😂
I said the exact s@me thing
I saw that too
Being a momma's boy is not a positive thing, Being a momma's boy doesn't mean that you love your mom. Momma's boy means that you need your mom to take care of you and that you can't make your own decisions. No woman wants a momma's boy because what mom thinks will override decisions in your relationship that have nothing to do with her.
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Exactly... 🤦🏻♀️
Mommas boys are pathetic and not real men.
Exactly that's y I left the relationship
So what’s your take on the “ daddy’s girl “
@@kammitchell4833💀
The second case got me angry that lady should be ashamed of herself.
That child deserves Mr Brown.
Mr Brown wouldn’t even let the mother see her child for a weekend. How is THAT ok?? He’s toxic and the boy deserves his mother in his life. I’d be salty too if my child had been ripped away.
@meganr9280 I agree u can't just keep a mother away because u feel like it how is that the best thing for a child a child needs both parents
@@meganr9280agreed. Then for you to break yup and act like you’re better because you can afford a bigger house 🤯 He knew how she was when he first started dating her. A child deserves both parents. He is just as spiteful as she is.
Mr Brown is not a good men keeping his son away from his mother! If he was not stubborn she would have not pushed for a DNA test! A child needs his mom more than his dad
@meganr9280 we have no idea about what's really going on. The girlfriend said her living situation was bad.
Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
Say it louder for the ones behind bars 👏👏👏
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK.🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊
1st case he claims his mother doesn’t interfere with his relationship, yet the only reason they’re in court is bc of her. And the 2nd case she knew all along he wasn’t the father, but she was using him & his family. I feel bad for that little boy bc he would definitely be better off in that man’s care.
That man loved him too. Since he is the legal father, I hope the boy is still with him.
I hope she gets her child back and do Better for both of them.
You don't just rip off a child from their mother, especially when she wants the child.
He and his wife took him so they don't want to pay her. Because he doesn't work, the wife does.
@@-H4mburger-clearly the courts found him more able to care for the child which is why he had custody. It’s hard in American courts for a child to not be with their mom. So if you ask me that’s very telling about her stability.
@tanjiro_simp. no court just rips a child from there mother, mothers are most likely to win custody disputes if there doing what a mother's suppose to do. it's even more rare for them to lose sole custody and to only get supervised visits They have to have a history of addiction have a history of abuse or neglect of some kind it doesnt happen when there doing everything right . When I here a mother lost sole custody of their kid my first thought isn't it's the courts fault, its what did she put before her kid that led to her losing them.
@@Lave_cakenot necessarily. If they got money and she doesn't. He could take her baby. Money talk
1st case: Mom needs to be checked once you start referring to your grandkids as MY KIDS. No, no, no!
Yes it's a red flag
Exactlyyyy that’s why she felt she could take her to court for DNA testing.
My mom said this about my middle son and I stopped that quick. I stopped all communication fast.
@@joy4joy416 You are right, right, right!!!
@@beatriceingraham2571your evil.
1st case: Permiscuality.🙄 "When you're marrying my son, you're marrying me" WTAF??!! Mama's BOY allowed her to destroy his relationship and she doesn't even care. Neither of them will allow her to touch them. I hope she's satisfied with herself. 2nd case: She knew from the very beginning and passed him off as his son. She's a snake. 🐍
Right! And i could have scorn the young girl said she was on paternity leave 😮 smh
Lol...I lol with "promiscuality" I CANNOT😂😂...poor thing🫣.. I would have asked her to repeat it if I were the judge!
The sneaky marriage certainly started the in-law relationship off on a very bad footing.
You caught that too 😂😂😂
Did the grandmama really accuse the wife of promiscuity? Wasn't she living with her boyfriend in the same apartment as her son? And she allowed her son to have sleepovers with? AND, didn't the promiscuous girl become the wife? Did the grandmama? I really hope this young couple can rise above all of this and grow up to raise a beautiful and healthy family. Startging with putting physical and emotional distance between themselves and his meddling mama. SMH.
That second case was so heartbreaking. They need an update on where the child ended up.
That second case brought me to tears. No one deserves that... He still wants to step up and stay in his sons life, wow a stand up guy but that pain is deep.
In the first case you can tell how upset the son was with his mother when the results were read. His wife basically stated his mother was messy and the son said he was tired of both of their drama.
Sounds like the mom and his wife hated each other
I think the wife was just in her feelings because that mom was messy.
@@whitedragoness231 ¹¹s
He was probably upset that he couldn’t get out of not providing for them anymore.
@@dashr.4649 lol..I didn’t think about that
First Part: Man those twins look just like the first kid they showed on screen 😂😂 Yet the grandmother was like “I have no doubt over the twins”
I thought they are identical triplets lol
@@mariyaatanasova1556lmao SAME
And baby Brooklyn to
The first thing that came out of my mouth was literally “this looks like the parents just copy and pasted each kid” 😂 the moment one came out to be his, i had no doubt all of them were his
Yes! I thought she had quadruplets, like a super women having a set of identical triplet boys with a faternal girl
How can the mother bring the wife in for a parternity test? If the father says they are his and is claiming them, then how can the mother drag them to court? Plus, mama needs to stay out of their business. She wasn’t in the bedroom when the kids were conceived. She needs to just stop.
The grandma is helping financially . So she says no DNA, no money. That’s how
In that first episode, that boy was mad at his momma in the end because she was the one that put doubt in his head that his kids weren’t his. His mother is the one that caused their marriage to fall apart.
Absolutely. Family is important but when there is a person that toxic, you have to put a limit. Son's 1st priority is to defend his children and fiance. Kudos to young lady. I hope only the best for her.
Regardless of the results, can we just establish something: whether or not you are able to connect with a child does not indicate whether or not you are related by blood. You don't magically have a good bond because you share the same DNA.
Amen. I didn't have a bond with my grandfathers before they passed away.
Amen, I don’t, and never have had a good bond with my mother. I try, but it’s awkward.
Say it again!
It’s sad he allowed his mother to disrespect her like that 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
1st case that lady is so hurt. You can see the pain in her tears. He needs to step up and take care of his kids. His mom needs to find a life of her own!
Ms Upshaw (first case) is toxic. Neither her son nor Mrs Mason wanted a hug from her. They weren't even comfortable telling her they have gotten married. Also "prosmicuality", too much "dramer", " I didn't be in their business". Gosh!
Girl... I kept rewinding like did I hear her right?! 😳🤦🏽♀️
Mrs. Upshaw has her own double standard. She proudly told the court she is living with her boyfriend, not her husband. Plus, her surname is also different from her son's, so either she has been married twice or else she had her son before she married Upshaw. Yet she wants to defame this young woman because he had 2 children before she got with her son. It sems to me she is projecting her own behavior on this young woman.
Any grandma wants to be sure she is looking after her very own grannies
@@martharinebiseko1457She was toxic. The first things out of her mouth towards the young mother were insults.
Lol
The lady in the second case has vinegar for blood. What a sad and angry woman. She looks old and emotionally empty. Prayers for that child.
@ Vinegar, lol! That bad, huh. 😅😂
As she should be! He shouldn’t have been keeping her son away from her!
He had every right to keep that baby. She had chances to visit, and maybe if she would visit enough, they would be comfortable with letting her keep him for a weekend, she had a right to be upset, bat he had the right to have that child and be shattered when he finds out that child he believed to be his, was not.
The second case is so sad. That woman is disgusting for making this man believe that child was his and now she's acting like a victim. It's evil
The 2nd case is messy AF. There's a lot of legal consequences to fathering a child.
Indeed. By Law.
26:47 - She made me laugh. There are MANY birth parents who lost their right to custody for valid safety reasons. If you loose child custody, it's gonna be a steep uphill course to get your parental rights back, IF you are able. Court doesn't care about your feelings, regardless of whether or not you're in the right/wrong.
Yepbthat second lady was dumb. Know he can have her rights striped and formally adopted his son
Yepbthat second lady was dumb. Know he can have her rights striped and formally adopted his son
Man, courts are heartless.
I betchu if the mom wasn't meddling in the first case, they would STILL be together and the son know it which is why he shoved his mom away. His loyalty to his mom made him miss out on the love of his life and being an in house father to his 4 kids with his wife smh
Exactly🤦🏽♀️
He's a bum.
And she eventually lost custody of her kids and one the twins ended up being killed by his godmother for eating a cupcake at 3😢
@@sazzydove5😮 is this true?
@@clarisadowner4216 yes unfortunately it is. Look up 3 year old killed with bat in Atlanta.
That Grandma was shedding tears that wasn't falling 😂😂😂😂
Crocodile tears lol😂
I am so sorry for Mr. Brown's outcome regarding the baby. He is a good father and I hope that he can find it in his heart to move forward and live a good life.
I seriously hope that that poor little boy in the second case gets to stay with his daddy. He might not be blood, but he’s loved and well cared for. His birth mom looks unhinged and like she might be on drugs. Both people said she’s also not living in a great place! I feel awful for the little boy to be ripped from a living home even if he is going back to his mom because she CLEARLY doesn’t have his best interest in mind at all, she’s just being selfish because she wants to hurt her ex.
Even if you're married to someone, a man needs to take a paternity test on the babies. It's sad, but true.
@@shanajohnson385I heard that in France they don’t do DNA if you are married because too many families would break up due to the results
As a recovering addict I agree on the drug comment
@@ChrysBlackwellsame. one of the first things that crossed my mind. I think us recovering addictshave a sixth sense lol
@@cheeling794 it’s because we know how others and ourselves acted when using. But nah she on something
Kids with an old soul come from old dads? Aight that one is new to me. 😂
I almost died laughing...
**science**
The mom sounds desperate and clueless. She really mad because they didn't invite her to the wedding
I mean duh. What parent wouldn't be hurt their child didn't invite them. But they have no issue taking her money and help
@@arneshiabaldwin8335 You can't really believe that. I think the young woman has issue with taking her money, but with 6 kids, 4 her grandchildren whose father does not support them, which means she has no choice.
..and now we know why she wasn't!
It takes a lot of work and effort to have a kid and raise that kid. Imagine this young woman with six kids going through all this, then wasn't even informed her kids were getting married or invited. We do have to remember there is something like culture and basic human values of respect, which go around. The mom is wrong to meddle in their affairs. But they too, didn't start out right, which made her suspicious about everything regarding their union. All of them have their own fault because there are all types of respect, for parents, for the married couple, etc. Nobody in this situation played their role well.
Yhea they did that because they knew it wouldn't be their wedding it would of been hers because she would of not only payed for everything but would of planned the whole wedding for them they just need to cut her out of their life's for good I mean this woman would of probably worn a god dam wedding dress to her own son's wedding
I don’t like how she spoke to Ms. Mason about the number of children she had. She was a married woman having children with her husband, who admittedly was not providing.
Ms. Mason should be commended for taking care of her six children. That young woman should be supported because if she can do this on her own, imagine what she could do with support.
Meanwhile the man that took her as his wife and brought more children into the world wasn’t asked if he had a job, or if he was in school. I wonder why? And the grandmother made it clear she would support them. Where is the accountability?
Ms. Mason I don’t know where you are now but I wish you well and hope you prosper.
This was 100% what I was thinking too
Sadly the judge was right. The judge is very intuitive. One of those twin boys were murdered. To which the mother lost custody of her children. She was homeless. She was way over her head that young with all those kids. Poor kids. 😢 that little twin boy was beat to death with a baseball bat.
I just read the news report. So sad. The mother had left the children alone and abused them before they were all taken into care.
@@glamwithsammanjaresdavis5200My goodness! 😢
I was ok with it, although the father should’ve been admonished also. She shouldn’t have that many children. She was most likely on welfare (look up child killed with baseball bat in Atlanta). No one should be having kids while on welfare.
Sorry madam, when you marry your married to your wife not your mother, if your mother cannot shut her mouth leave her out of your decisions, it’s nothing to do with her. How can you be like that with your grandchildren that is wicked, just wicked.
This judge🎉 oh God. She's gifted with things to say. I think it comes with experience. I admire year. Growing up in wisdom.
Moms need to keep out their son’s bedrooms! It he didn’t need dna why should she!
He needs to not sneak a woman and her kids in the house.😂
He might be deluded. But this is more reason DNA should be mandatory. It saves problems before they happen
I would die of a heart attack if 3 surprise humans were discovered in my home. If I heard footsteps I didn't recognize , I would run next door and call 911. Plus how do you keep 2 preschoolers quiet and content in a bedroom bedroom. Just unbelievable.
Facts. if your Son loves the child weather its his or not. As his mom, I will love the child the same.
No one would believe that the grandchild is not biologically mines.
If he loves the child no matter what, then so shall I.
This kind of love heals.
Promiscuality?
He just wants “to be there for” his FOUR kids… He “used” to be in love with her… So what is a 24 year old woman supposed to do for emotional support and love when she has 6 children and four with this coward? How horrible.
What she is supposed to do is think of this BEFORE she has 6 children, 4 with this coward. If she needs emotional support and love at this stage of the game she needs to get it from her kids, not him or some other loser.
She is supposed to take control of her own life and use birth control
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You guys should patent the process you've created for unringing a bell 🙄
@@jpt5577Her tubs are tied.
Second case- Mr. Brown needs to be talking to someone about her still getting benefits for the son and she doesn't even have him.. I would love to see an update on how everything turned out.
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Amen
I just love this judge. She is always kind and compassionate .
2nd case: Woman is killing her case whenever she does go to court. When the judge asked her would've she told the guy he wasn't the father had they stayed in a relationship. She said "No." Basically telling the judge that she's a straight up liar, even when it come to her child.
the mother in the second case is just nasty. She knew it wasnt his child proudly and shes talking as if she won but in reality all she did was hurt everybody involved.
This chick is high out of her mind !!!!!!!! No wonder she ain’t got custody of her son.
Extremely. I see why he won’t let her take the baby for the weekend. Colby will definitely be in harms way
This is why a test needs to be made at every Child's birth. The courts need to partition the government to pass a law.
And there will not a job for the court
@@NabukenyaJackline-r4l…she’s crazy, you can’t force mothers to have DNA test. The man doesn’t have to sign the birth certificate if he doesn’t believe the child is his. That’s his choice.
@@NabukenyaJackline-r4l😂
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I hope he fights for custody as legally he is then it’s father. If someone can be forced to pay child support for 18yrs after being proven that they aren’t biologically the father because they signed the certificate than he should remain with parental rights because he did as well.
I SECOND THAT!
the way the momma immediately stopped crying that fast lol 😂😂
Paternity fraud should be criminalized.
One of the responsibilities of a parent is to adequately prepare your children for the real world. The mama needs to let go and let God. Her son is grown and he needs to grow up and be a man.
She’s on “paternity” leave guys 😂😂😂
The 2nd case, my heart breaks for this man 😢 he really loved and cared for the little boy.
Caleb looks stressed. Old souls can come through young people his mother should understand.
Second Case: As a woman, I absolutely hate when a woman uses a baby to manipulate a man and/or situation. The situation was more about her than the baby.
This judge is on fire 🔥
Absolutely
Not the lady in the second case lookin like a Tim Burton character 🤣
Second case. It broke my heart. Yes SIR HE IS YOUR BOY FOREVER..❤
Did the lady in the first case just said she's on paternity leave?
Yup
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I was wondering if anyone else caught that 😂😂😂😂
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That's because she has a new born and the paternity leave might not have come to an end.
I feel so bad for the second Dad. He was made to believe that little boy was his. He cared enough to take over full care of him. He even named him after his Dad. And now to find out that little boy has a name that’s not connected to him in any way. That woman should feel ashamed of herself. And hopefully the other guy is kind enough to let little boy see the man who basically was his Dad before. The man was a great father to that young boy. And I hope his Mom doesn’t poison his memory of the man he called Daddy for years.
the brother in the last episode is a W brother. such a good dude just taking care of his nephew man i would appreciate him so much for understanding and being there if i was the father
Somebody was cuttin onions when he said "he's still my boy" 😭😭😭 😩😩😩
2nd case that lady is going to ruin that child’s life he was in a good situation now she’s going to destroy that it’s a shame what good man have to deal with
Case #3, regardless of the baby's paternity, NEVER have a baby to solve adult problems. That's too much responsibility for a newborn baby to start its life and it goes downhill from there.
While men can use birth control or get a vasectomy bottom line it's the woman who has ultimate control of her fertility. If you're out cheating with other men while you are trying to have a baby with your husband and don't control your fertility, this is exactly what happens. Both of them are dead wrong in their behavior but the female in relationships have the ultimate control of who impregnates them. This whole thing is wrong and messy and the child will, as always, pay the price. She's acting like she's the victim. JFC
That last case..smh. That poor baby was born with a job , to fix a marriage
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childeren dont fix relationships people. they are not glue
That guy with custody of that little boy. So heartbreaking to see him react to the results.
Drives me nuts how cheating husbands talk so much about their cheating wives.
1st case. They say it isn’t her business until she ends up having to support them all and raise the kids. Too many kids without financial support depending on taxpayors
Exactly this 💯. They have no issue taking her money and support and coming to her
😂😂😂and yet you say nothing about the trillions we give to corporations and rich people 😒 go get educated bc you start with those dog whistles
The Father has a job in Construction
Whew, when you're judgemental AND WRONG 🤣🤣🤣🤣 the mother has a job and is on maternity leave, so no, it's not on taxpayers dime....
2nd case: what a woman the mother is! She knew it was not the child of her then husband, still allowed him to raise him and would have continued to let him act father and believe he was the father and then when they fell out of love, she just sprang the news on him that he was not the father. She was okay to have the man raise the baby the whole life thinking it was his if things hadnt gone south ! Terrible!
The judge handles these cases so well. I love the fact that not one of them can fool her. Love to watch.
I just read in a comment thread that one of the twins from the first case was killed at 3 years old by someone else who had custody. 😢 How horrible! I just wish the best for that young mom. I hated watching her cry, and then to find out that what happened to her son… rough. I pray that wherever she is that she and her kids are doing better.
Omg really?? 😢😢
Jan 26, 2018 a article was published stated the gaurdian beat him with a baseball bat 😢
@@relaxationguides4519oh my God that poor baby…
Oh wow, that's sad
The first case is crazy. She has six children at 24 years old. She needs a child support order if the children are his.
For real.
Omg I want to hug that Dad!!! More than any other case! He loves that little boy! I hope it all worked out 🙏🙏♥️
The mom in the first case need to get her own life.
I love this show because it continues to show fathers, especially Black fathers, in a positive light. There are dads out here fighting with everything for their children. Just like a dad would.
I love this judge !!!!!!!!! She is so professional and on point !!!!! Love hererr
My man said "Both of um fake!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“That’s fine” mama took them to court and think she want a fake hug!
What a terrible grandmother. I'll stay out of my kids marriages when they grow up. Smh
Yes,,it’s the very best thing you can do, says one 80 year old grandma to 6 lovely boys now between the ages of 30 and 20, it’s hard but it’s the best way to let them sort there problems out themselves. I have to remind my sons who are 54 and 51 now, with the boys some getting married and some engaged, at no point when they bring a girlfriend home, do you say or even hint, that you do not like their choice of girlfriend, you welcome them with open arms and genuinely care for them, it will fall apart of itself, but if you have parental opposition that’s a recipe to push them together.
“Dramer and permiscuality” 😂
3:06 yall these are our sons NOT our husbands. Let this man be a man. My son is 20 and I’ve learned to keep a healthy distance from his affairs. I’m here if he needs me.
Last case: I'm glad that he is the father. That's great for the baby. But their relationship is so TOXIC! I hope they can work things out.
It dawned on me, that if they've been together for 11 years, then she was 18 and he was 27 when they got together...
The baby looked like him IMO. Hope they can get it together for his sake.
She's gonna make him pay for this. 😮
In the first case it's sad but true if the mother would have kept her nose out of their business they may have had a chance
@@davestuart1382She was Faithful!! All of those Kids was His!! His Mom Ruined their Relationship
She was faithful and had four kids for him for the mother to pet in their business
If she knew that the other gentleman is the father and she allowed him to sign then where is the paternity fraud charges?
You right but no one told him to sign tho 😢. Paternity charges definitely needs to apart of system the way these dusty egg donors be doing these good fathers
@@shortsweetness876 So if you sign up to a fraudulent investment scheme do they not arrest the culprit? They do right? But you are also right. Considering how many cases out there like this one. Men need to demand a paternity test and laws changes that demand it even if they were married. These kind of things happens way too often for the laws to remain as is.
@@shortsweetness876it could be because he never had a doubt she used him and manipulated him
A good uncle taking care of his nephew. A very good man. Bless him 🙏
1st Case: Being covered up is not an OLD thing its a SELF RESPECT thing.
2nd case there’s a reason she doesn’t have her son and i pray he’s safe if she ever gets custody back
1st case. He ought to be ashamed of himself. He let his mother drag him there, she's doing all of the talking, like she's the parent in question, while he was standing there mute.
“Drahmer and Pamiskwooality” you better tell ‘em 😂😂😂
Yeah right!!!😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Not one of first case folks can get a good sentence out. Poor kids!
That 2nd one, unbelievable! Getting benefits for a child she doesn't have AND told him he was the dad, that's why he signed the certificate.
That's an evil mama right there, didn't matter she sees him an hour a week until she got to court. I'm guessing there's substance abuse and that's why he doesn't want her to see the baby...sad situation!!
Why is she discussing the behavior of a grown married woman?
That mother needs to get a life!
The son needs to move out his mothers house.
I love judge Lauren's side comments, they make me laugh.
20:06 how about why you let him sign the birth certificate if you knew he wasn’t his 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I really hope the guy in the second case doesn't let his kid go. He IS the father because he loves him. I hope he and the mom are able to co-parent!
That's not his dam child 😮
@@malele9126 Family is not about blood. It's about love and care
@elisaduarte3604 had he not been petty and spiteful this could've all been avoided, karma is a btch.
That father in case #2 didn't seem, to me at least, to understand that by law he was the child's son, but by doing the DNA at his own request, he could cause himself to lose custody of him. I think that the judge should have explained that better. That was a sad one.
She tried. He said they deserved to know anyway
6 kids….24 years old? Who’s paying for them? This is heart wrenching.
He works 😒🤨